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1. He seeks my opinion, answer honestly w a touch of optimism. 2. Shares important news. Wants you to know, my reaction validates his success. 3. He wants to invest in me, my problems become his. Damsel in distress. 4. Watching me drift off to sleep. 5. Asks questions about my childhood. 6. He keeps the romance alive, celebrate his efforts. 7. He brags about me. Inside and outside.
@@grandmaoldschool7011I’ve been married x 3 also, never had this from any of them, was always me doing the asking and talking , still is to this day 😂..
Hi Ishmael, I’m 59 years old, and almost my whole life, I haven’t found “TRUE LOVE “ until recently. Now I’ve got a treasure in my life, and I won’t let go. He’s my best friend, my soulmate, my confidant, my dream come true and the answer to my prayers. In all honesty, I didn’t think that this world even consisted of a wonderful person as him. Once I found “ self love “, and healed myself, I found him ( actually he found me). He’s my one in a million.
Be careful, every time I've thought I found "the one", I got ghosted shortly after. Not discouraging you, I hope your situation works out, but for me I'm not trying anymore because I always have to walk on eggshells. I'm 55 years old and will never get involved with another man
Your seven top things a man does for the woman he loves is my husband! He is far and away the best person out there. We met in high school and are high school sweethearts. We've been together for 37 years and married for 32 years now. With the exception of his deployment's and unaccompanied assignments in the military, he brings me flowers every week and makes sure my vehicle is always in working order. Whenever he has something come up, he asks for my opinion and input. He has talked about me to people he works with and those he has just met. I recently went through ovarian cancer and his workplace got together and sent me flowers and a card signed by each individual, delivered the day after I got out of the hospital. He takes care of me and I take care of him. He's just the best guy there is!
Thank you. You just described el dueño de mi corazón. He even treats my family like gold and want to know all about them. We're only 4 months in but I've never experienced this type of care, sensitivity, interest and compassion. He's even always ready to help strangers! He had a couple with a two year old girl sit at our table because they'd been waiting in the restaurant line for so long. ❤
'A man who loves you will talk about you to . . . strangers . . . like he's won the lottery.' Yeah, that'll brighten up the stranger's day if they have nobody. Like saying to a homeless person this is my penthouse/villa/mansion. 👍
Hi Ishmael -- I'm a first time viewer. I found your video to be very informative and touching, especially the difference between a man's broken heart and a woman's broken heart. I was totally unaware of this. I had to giggle, though, when you advised us women that if we "notice a man watching us while we sleep, that means ... 🤭🤭🤭. That was very cute.
I have found that man, but can't be. Because I am still married and bind to a wrong man who never had those 7 things you mentioned. Sadly, I found it to another man, but can't be. So it don't work out too. Better single that making a lot of frustrations and heartaches. I believe God will do something and write a beautiful love story out of my life.
Whether you’re in love or not you should always value her opinion. That’s true respect. If opinion respect is only based on love then you’ve missed the point of respect that isn’t just about you.
You're right on. I'm a problem solver, too. It's very generous of you to expose this information. This is intelligent advice. I never even thought of how over the top his foul behavior was. I trusted him. He didn't have the ability to trust or realize he deserved my love.
That is so funny. Ok at work. The food that I bought from a vending machine got stuck. So I ask the first guy I can find to help me get it out. So he tried to get it out, but he couldn't, so he went and looked for a metal hanger. So then while he is looking for that. I saw another man and I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said let's see let me help you. So he can't get it out. So he went and looked for a metal hanger too. So the third man I saw. I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said, ok let me see. So he tried to get it out and he couldn't get it out. So the first guy if I remember it correctly. Found a metal hook. So the three men take turns trying to get my food out of the vending machine. At first no luck at all. So the second guy said let me try again and let me make this with a hook. So he did. We were laughing so hard. Because they were making fun of me. Saying, so you just have to have the noodles. Why not this and that? I said I wanted the noodles. The vending machine was poorly made. So back to my noodles. Finally he got it out and we all cheered. It was so funny. These guys weren't even my boyfriends and they helped me. So yes damsel in distress. Really works. 🎉😂
Ismael, you are so great to listen to & I always find myself laughing! You are authentic & caring and I always learn new & useful information. I really like the scenarios you talk about & enjoy your positive suggestions! Best to you always.😊
I wish I had your advice 50 years ago. I was influenced by the media, which gave wrong advise. I believed only beautiful woman get the men. How untrue that is. Anyways, Ismael you are doing a good job, and maybe it will help the younger generation.
My ex husband used to wear a body spray that wasn't pleasant. I kept telling him that I didn't like the scent, and he’d always say to me that other women would tell him how good he smelled. My opinion never mattered, to him and I was his wife.
I watched your video just to see if my husband needed a few pointers. He doesn't, based on what you said. You validated him. Or should I say he validated you. Thanks.
Super great I am so grateful to Almighty I had meet that man who loved me truly❤ Even today being no more 3years already I still feeling joy to be loved in my heart Thank you so much to revive what is inside me and to enlighten others Very much appreciated God bless u all ❤❤
Understand: these emotionally unavailable men are so FUCKING ORDINARY and really-truly-honestly completely and totally underwhelming! Take a step back and realize it’s YOU who makes them so special, in your own delusional mind. Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on. It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period.
Thank you for your videos they all are amazing and full of info. Me I'm in a long distance relationship it's been 2 years and he is a really amazing guy, it's one were we met as a friend request on messenger, we are hoping to meet soon, we have had challenges and no matter how much I tested him his love for me always remained to surprise me more everyday, despite our age difference, I know he is the one for me. Have a great day.
Because he tells you "hey baby you fell asleep last night and I didn't want to wake you, you looked so peaceful sleepin" prolly says some shiit like that
I have just found out that man who was waiting for me for over 19 years now,I'm glad I've finally decided to give him a chance which is actually god who brought us together when his mom died and I went to her funeral which got us closer than we were before because I just wanted to be that good friend he needed
Thank you for the interesting points. One tip I would have dealing with how to answer when he asks about my childhood. Basically, if a woman had a difficult childhood, she wouldn't want to say too much about it and may also be concerned how to address it. Do you know what I mean? I guess keeping to general and light answers would be best. I would appreciate your feedback. Thank you!
Mine is a 7 on 7 but when i sit down to discuss what's troubling, he says 1. "you are dumping all your frustation on me" . 2. "you're complicating everything" 3. "it's all fine according to me" 4. "you are not ambitious" 5. "no one else will ever love you like i do" 6. "you can't get anybody like me or better than me" 7. Isolates me from my circle 8. contradicts me and try to change my core nature saying "its for your best" Do I believe that it's "love" or just leave?!
For those who are lucky inlove❤❤❤congrats...as for me here have never experienced true love..i only bealive that love is beautiful only in movies...for unlucky ones...lets jus live with full hopes that one dey sir God will remember us❤❤❤
Awesome video! Do you think it’s shady that my ex would never post about us or comment on my posts about us but he would like them… but then he commented “love you ❤❤” on a bartender’s picture on IG? I told him this upset me and he just told me “I was reading too much into it” and just left the comment there. I thought maybe he’d delete it since it upset me but nope he left it.
I am grateful for this video but when my man shares about his childhood, I couldn't talk about mine becauze I actually had no childhood and it is kind of sad..
That is so nice when you fell asleep beside your partner…….but me?? When I fell asleep? I get in big trouble. When I travel I had to turn my gps on so he know where I am….and have to film the road I am driving pass so he know where I’m up to…. I lost my friends and my job because of him. Call me all diffferent kinds of names. I gave everything and do anything for him but I ended up like this. But I’m glad I’m out from that darkness. I almost ended my life but I realised it’s not worth it. I think of the people who loves me and cares for me and that’s the only thing that stops me from doing it. I’m happy now living on my own, but if god allows me to meet that someone who is meant for me…. I will be grateful.
Early in our relationship he said I am demanding, which I am not. This made me reluctant to ask for help. Now he says, " well you didn't ask..." as his excuse for not helping. Manipulation.
Love your clips. How short they are is pretty rfect bc some of those things seem so obvious to some ppl but to others, who were programmed with low Self esteem from early childhood or have been hurt, it is valid knowledge that has to be enshrined in our thinking. I listen to those very carefully and often rewqtch them or save them for watching on low energy days. Thank you so much ❤
My husband is absent when I happen to have problems or to be sick. Im always loving and caring towards him and his family from previous marriage. I even quit my work to help him in his business. It's all wrong from my part. But I wanted so badly to build up a family. Mine was murdered in genocide time. Besides, love is blind and Im utopic. You r responsable for your own life. Nevertheless curcumstances give you no much choice at old age now.
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1. He seeks my opinion, answer honestly w a touch of optimism.
2. Shares important news. Wants you to know, my reaction validates his success.
3. He wants to invest in me, my problems become his. Damsel in distress.
4. Watching me drift off to sleep.
5. Asks questions about my childhood.
6. He keeps the romance alive, celebrate his efforts.
7. He brags about me. Inside and outside.
Thank you!!!🥰
Well...then..I married 3 men who didn't love me. No boxes ticked. I was skinny and cute, though.
@@grandmaoldschool7011I’ve been married x 3 also, never had this from any of them, was always me doing the asking and talking , still is to this day 😂..
Yep same here. Two marriages, two huge mistakes except the first one did give me two beautiful sons.
Thanks
Hi Ishmael, I’m 59 years old, and almost my whole life, I haven’t found “TRUE LOVE “ until recently. Now I’ve got a treasure in my life, and I won’t let go. He’s my best friend, my soulmate, my confidant, my dream come true and the answer to my prayers. In all honesty, I didn’t think that this world even consisted of a wonderful person as him. Once I found “ self love “, and healed myself, I found him ( actually he found me). He’s my one in a million.
Be careful, every time I've thought I found "the one", I got ghosted shortly after. Not discouraging you, I hope your situation works out, but for me I'm not trying anymore because I always have to walk on eggshells. I'm 55 years old and will never get involved with another man
Congratulations 🎉🍾🎊
Curious on where u guys met?? 🤔 Lol
What a wonderful post. Thank you next!😊
Your seven top things a man does for the woman he loves is my husband! He is far and away the best person out there. We met in high school and are high school sweethearts. We've been together for 37 years and married for 32 years now. With the exception of his deployment's and unaccompanied assignments in the military, he brings me flowers every week and makes sure my vehicle is always in working order. Whenever he has something come up, he asks for my opinion and input. He has talked about me to people he works with and those he has just met. I recently went through ovarian cancer and his workplace got together and sent me flowers and a card signed by each individual, delivered the day after I got out of the hospital. He takes care of me and I take care of him. He's just the best guy there is!
Both of you are so lucky!
God brought me that man and I am so Thankful .Filled with love light ,peace ,joy Praise God
Good for you👍🏽
Thank you. You just described el dueño de mi corazón. He even treats my family like gold and want to know all about them. We're only 4 months in but I've never experienced this type of care, sensitivity, interest and compassion. He's even always ready to help strangers! He had a couple with a two year old girl sit at our table because they'd been waiting in the restaurant line for so long. ❤
That brought a smile to my face. Thanks for sharing.
'A man who loves you will talk about you to . . . strangers . . . like he's won the lottery.' Yeah, that'll brighten up the stranger's day if they have nobody. Like saying to a homeless person this is my penthouse/villa/mansion. 👍
Exactly. Thanks so much for sharing this video.
Love your straightforwardness. You get it! Thank you
Thank you so much fir the great share. God bless you.
Great honest video…great advice..❤
Aloha from Hawaii 🌺 Thank you for sharing your input on this subject. My man resonates with all of these. We are hopeful. Life is a journey.
New suscriber here. Youre very insightful and very handsome 😊
😁😁😁😁😁
Hi Ishmael -- I'm a first time viewer. I found your video to be very informative and touching, especially the difference between a man's broken heart and a woman's broken heart. I was totally unaware of this. I had to giggle, though, when you advised us women that if we "notice a man watching us while we sleep, that means ... 🤭🤭🤭. That was very cute.
thank you so much, that was extremely useful
You've got a new subscriber. I've been beat down so much. I need to be a believer.
I never find true love in my life only find people who wants to use me ask me for help when I don't have they go away and the love is finish
The simplicity of your video is perfect 👌 I love it short and straight forward ❤️
🌸That’s what us women need more of, how a man thinks. 💗
Thank you for sharing ❤! I did understand more about man ! But I need more advice love to hear more !
I have found that man, but can't be. Because I am still married and bind to a wrong man who never had those 7 things you mentioned. Sadly, I found it to another man, but can't be. So it don't work out too. Better single that making a lot of frustrations and heartaches. I believe God will do something and write a beautiful love story out of my life.
Thank you very much for your knowledge and help. Will you make a part 2, if you haven't yet, please.
If you love and respect the other person women and men do these. I think love and respect go hand in hand.
Fantastic content Ismael . Thank you.
Thank you good info ❤
Great info!!
When you find that man don't ever let go.
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Just met a doctor he already wants to get married he is so in love with me not sure about my feeling re him told his co worker he's proposing ❤❤
Good for you.Stay blessed.Hope he does soon.❤@@KarenSears-iu5ne
Thanks for the advice ❤
Thank you for the video..
New subscriber 🎉
You are the best honestly,your advice and analysis are on point thank you.
Thank you❤😊
Am lorna watching from Milano. Am still single and searching Hope yr video guides me in the next relationship.
Whether you’re in love or not you should always value her opinion. That’s true respect. If opinion respect is only based on love then you’ve missed the point of respect that isn’t just about you.
You're right on. I'm a problem solver, too. It's very generous of you to expose this information. This is intelligent advice. I never even thought of how over the top his foul behavior was. I trusted him. He didn't have the ability to trust or realize he deserved my love.
I really appreciate your work, you bring the reality to my broken marriage
Thank you so much.😊
Thankyou Ismael, I appreciate you.
I kept smiling as I read your comment.
Great video❤
Thank you so much Ismael for your guidance once again :)
Thank you so much.
Thank you, Ismael for all your councils and all the useful information you give us through your videos ! You are really of great help !🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
❤ Thank you
I think your'e doing a great job Ismael.
That is so funny. Ok at work. The food that I bought from a vending machine got stuck. So I ask the first guy I can find to help me get it out. So he tried to get it out, but he couldn't, so he went and looked for a metal hanger. So then while he is looking for that. I saw another man and I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said let's see let me help you. So he can't get it out. So he went and looked for a metal hanger too. So the third man I saw. I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said, ok let me see. So he tried to get it out and he couldn't get it out. So the first guy if I remember it correctly. Found a metal hook. So the three men take turns trying to get my food out of the vending machine. At first no luck at all. So the second guy said let me try again and let me make this with a hook. So he did. We were laughing so hard. Because they were making fun of me. Saying, so you just have to have the noodles. Why not this and that? I said I wanted the noodles. The vending machine was poorly made. So back to my noodles. Finally he got it out and we all cheered. It was so funny. These guys weren't even my boyfriends and they helped me. So yes damsel in distress. Really works. 🎉😂
You could've just banged on the machine.
Ismael, you are so great to listen to & I always find myself laughing! You are authentic & caring and I always learn new & useful information. I really like the scenarios you talk about & enjoy your positive suggestions! Best to you always.😊
Nice hearing my friend...yes that's truth..true love reveal in tself true actions.... and is
worthy to be praised and care for❤.
I wish I had your advice 50 years ago. I was influenced by the media, which gave wrong advise. I believed only beautiful woman get the men. How untrue that is. Anyways, Ismael you are doing a good job, and maybe it will help the younger generation.
My ex husband used to wear a body spray that wasn't pleasant. I kept telling him that I didn't like the scent, and he’d always say to me that other women would tell him how good he smelled. My opinion never mattered, to him and I was his wife.
Wow Ismael, thank you for sharing your knowledge about this so important subject 🙏 Really deep informations.
You are awesome❤
Thank you,you are amazing, finally I understand men more.
I watched your video just to see if my husband needed a few pointers. He doesn't, based on what you said. You validated him. Or should I say he validated you. Thanks.
Thank you
Thank you for this
Your comment made me smile. I appreciate you.
Unfortunately, none of these have happened to me. Moving forward!
Super great
I am so grateful to Almighty I had meet that man who loved me truly❤
Even today being no more 3years already I still feeling joy to be loved in my heart
Thank you so much to revive what is inside me and to enlighten others
Very much appreciated
God bless u all ❤❤
Thank you, very informative. 🙏
I appreciate you took the time to leave such a lovely comment.
My ex asked my opinion and then told me why I was wrong.
That happened to me too
I experienced these to my husband. Thanks
The man who does this for me was my husband and I also adore him likewise but he has took is leaaf and gone to rest may God bless his soul ❤️ 🙏.
Understand:
these emotionally unavailable men are so FUCKING ORDINARY
and really-truly-honestly
completely and totally
underwhelming!
Take a step back and realize it’s YOU
who makes them so special,
in your own delusional mind.
Giving the same energy that you're getting
is key
and if you don't like that energy
then move on.
It can be hard
but that's when you need to choose yourself
over the damn illusion/fantasy.
A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period.
So...
If he ignores me
I will step back
and he will lose me.
Simple. Simple.
Non-dramatic
and uncomplicated.
I don’t,
under any circumstance:
play these childish-abusive-controlling
mind games.
I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me,
and treats me as the Queen, I AM.
(Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!)
Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine
and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman:
who knows my worth.
Period.
Thank you for your videos they all are amazing and full of info.
Me I'm in a long distance relationship it's been 2 years and he is a really amazing guy, it's one were we met as a friend request on messenger, we are hoping to meet soon, we have had challenges and no matter how much I tested him his love for me always remained to surprise me more everyday, despite our age difference, I know he is the one for me.
Have a great day.
thank you Ismael for your advices
Always my pleasure.
How the hell do you know he's watching you sleep? Your sleeping😂😂😂
You set a hidden camera in the room so you can see what he does haha
Hahaha
Because he tells you "hey baby you fell asleep last night and I didn't want to wake you, you looked so peaceful sleepin" prolly says some shiit like that
You feel his eyes on you lol
I live alone, if a man’s watching me sleep……………..😳
Thankful
I have just found out that man who was waiting for me for over 19 years now,I'm glad I've finally decided to give him a chance which is actually god who brought us together when his mom died and I went to her funeral which got us closer than we were before because I just wanted to be that good friend he needed
Cool video
Great video 😊
Much appreciated 🙌
Really means a lot Sir
Yes❤... Amg ...first time l heard you. You know! I agree
Hi coach❤
A man who loves you marries you and ignores all obstacles to be with: why is this not talked about??!
❤❤More please!!!❤❤
It is love when a neighbour will knock and tell you you have a parcel 📦 on your door 🚪 step
Such a nice video
That's very sweet of you. Thanks.
Thanks that helps alot
Everything you say is spot on!
Much appreciated 🙌
Thank you
Wow my twin flame never did any of these. Thank you ❤
I love your advice thank you so much. 😊
I'm glad my video found you today.
Nice video Ismael . But so far no one has done it for me .
That is awesome and sweet
Thank you Sweet Ismael
Your videos is Different & insightful thank you for guiding us
Thank you for the interesting points. One tip I would have dealing with how to answer when he asks about my childhood. Basically, if a woman had a difficult childhood, she wouldn't want to say too much about it and may also be concerned how to address it. Do you know what I mean? I guess keeping to general and light answers would be best. I would appreciate your feedback. Thank you!
Mine is a 7 on 7
but when i sit down to discuss what's troubling, he says
1. "you are dumping all your frustation on me" .
2. "you're complicating everything"
3. "it's all fine according to me"
4. "you are not ambitious"
5. "no one else will ever love you like i do"
6. "you can't get anybody like me or better than me"
7. Isolates me from my circle
8. contradicts me and try to change my core nature saying "its for your best"
Do I believe that it's "love" or just leave?!
Just leave and RUN......
For those who are lucky inlove❤❤❤congrats...as for me here have never experienced true love..i only bealive that love is beautiful only in movies...for unlucky ones...lets jus live with full hopes that one dey sir God will remember us❤❤❤
Awesome video!
Do you think it’s shady that my ex would never post about us or comment on my posts about us but he would like them… but then he commented “love you ❤❤” on a bartender’s picture on IG? I told him this upset me and he just told me “I was reading too much into it” and just left the comment there. I thought maybe he’d delete it since it upset me but nope he left it.
Thank you for another insightful video😊Please do make a part 2 on this. So interesting.
Learned my lesson, no more Internet relationships
So sad!! I'm not that lucky to have such wonderful man.😢 Always come across with cheater and liar man.😢
🎉"attach ur happiness 😊 to ur goals NOT people"- Genius Albert Einstein
So funny. I read that quote yesterday for the first time.
@@SaveTheMessenger he said: bc people will obviously 🙄 always let u down...
@@SaveTheMessenger love ❤️ ur super powerful wisdom!!! Instant subscriber. 🙏 👏
I am grateful for this video but when my man shares about his childhood, I couldn't talk about mine becauze I actually had no childhood and it is kind of sad..
He did all these things
but still left me
😢😢😢😢
Thanks
That is so nice when you fell asleep beside your partner…….but me?? When I fell asleep? I get in big trouble. When I travel I had to turn my gps on so he know where I am….and have to film the road I am driving pass so he know where I’m up to…. I lost my friends and my job because of him. Call me all diffferent kinds of names. I gave everything and do anything for him but I ended up like this. But I’m glad I’m out from that darkness. I almost ended my life but I realised it’s not worth it. I think of the people who loves me and cares for me and that’s the only thing that stops me from doing it. I’m happy now living on my own, but if god allows me to meet that someone who is meant for me…. I will be grateful.
Early in our relationship he said I am demanding, which I am not. This made me reluctant to ask for help. Now he says, " well you didn't ask..." as his excuse for not helping. Manipulation.
Sounds like it. I'm glad you're aware.
Love your clips. How short they are is pretty rfect bc some of those things seem so obvious to some ppl but to others, who were programmed with low Self esteem from early childhood or have been hurt, it is valid knowledge that has to be enshrined in our thinking. I listen to those very carefully and often rewqtch them or save them for watching on low energy days. Thank you so much ❤
Honest question : why do you call spending quality time, an effort ?
nobody love me 😅i’m either how people fall in love what does it mean is that possible 😂
My husband is absent when I happen to have problems or to be sick. Im always loving and caring towards him and his family from previous marriage. I even quit my work to help him in his business. It's all wrong from my part. But I wanted so badly to build up a family. Mine was murdered in genocide time. Besides, love is blind and Im utopic. You r responsable for your own life. Nevertheless curcumstances give you no much choice at old age now.
Mine is Capricorn cold as ice
So far this ole lady 68 is so enjoying best part they are not only educational but short and wonderful insight❤hsvrnt found one I dont like