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1. He seeks my opinion, answer honestly w a touch of optimism. 2. Shares important news. Wants you to know, my reaction validates his success. 3. He wants to invest in me, my problems become his. Damsel in distress. 4. Watching me drift off to sleep. 5. Asks questions about my childhood. 6. He keeps the romance alive, celebrate his efforts. 7. He brags about me. Inside and outside.
@@grandmaoldschool7011I’ve been married x 3 also, never had this from any of them, was always me doing the asking and talking , still is to this day 😂..
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
May be you should try law of assumption and do meditations to remove negative energies ... so many times when the negative energy get stuck in our energy body, we tend to lose the good in life and by doing the meditations and all, people who are gone will come back .... I even read stories of people who said how their ex who didn't talk with them for three years and sometimes more, came back ... There is no time limit in law of universe... I am sure you will not have to wait that long if you just stick with the work to heal yourself... My blessings are with you, may Allah do good to both of you and bring both of you together by his will, Ameen .. Focus more on forgiveness meditation, forgive everything and everyone and especially her in every way You will see not just your relationship but also your health and career and every area improve ... Do more research on these subjects. There are millions of videos on this. It will surely Help. Have a Wonderful Life. Love from India ✨️
Your seven top things a man does for the woman he loves is my husband! He is far and away the best person out there. We met in high school and are high school sweethearts. We've been together for 37 years and married for 32 years now. With the exception of his deployment's and unaccompanied assignments in the military, he brings me flowers every week and makes sure my vehicle is always in working order. Whenever he has something come up, he asks for my opinion and input. He has talked about me to people he works with and those he has just met. I recently went through ovarian cancer and his workplace got together and sent me flowers and a card signed by each individual, delivered the day after I got out of the hospital. He takes care of me and I take care of him. He's just the best guy there is!
Hi Ishmael, I’m 59 years old, and almost my whole life, I haven’t found “TRUE LOVE “ until recently. Now I’ve got a treasure in my life, and I won’t let go. He’s my best friend, my soulmate, my confidant, my dream come true and the answer to my prayers. In all honesty, I didn’t think that this world even consisted of a wonderful person as him. Once I found “ self love “, and healed myself, I found him ( actually he found me). He’s my one in a million.
Be careful, every time I've thought I found "the one", I got ghosted shortly after. Not discouraging you, I hope your situation works out, but for me I'm not trying anymore because I always have to walk on eggshells. I'm 55 years old and will never get involved with another man
That is so funny. Ok at work. The food that I bought from a vending machine got stuck. So I ask the first guy I can find to help me get it out. So he tried to get it out, but he couldn't, so he went and looked for a metal hanger. So then while he is looking for that. I saw another man and I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said let's see let me help you. So he can't get it out. So he went and looked for a metal hanger too. So the third man I saw. I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said, ok let me see. So he tried to get it out and he couldn't get it out. So the first guy if I remember it correctly. Found a metal hook. So the three men take turns trying to get my food out of the vending machine. At first no luck at all. So the second guy said let me try again and let me make this with a hook. So he did. We were laughing so hard. Because they were making fun of me. Saying, so you just have to have the noodles. Why not this and that? I said I wanted the noodles. The vending machine was poorly made. So back to my noodles. Finally he got it out and we all cheered. It was so funny. These guys weren't even my boyfriends and they helped me. So yes damsel in distress. Really works. 🎉😂
'A man who loves you will talk about you to . . . strangers . . . like he's won the lottery.' Yeah, that'll brighten up the stranger's day if they have nobody. Like saying to a homeless person this is my penthouse/villa/mansion. 👍
Hi Ishmael -- I'm a first time viewer. I found your video to be very informative and touching, especially the difference between a man's broken heart and a woman's broken heart. I was totally unaware of this. I had to giggle, though, when you advised us women that if we "notice a man watching us while we sleep, that means ... 🤭🤭🤭. That was very cute.
Because he tells you "hey baby you fell asleep last night and I didn't want to wake you, you looked so peaceful sleepin" prolly says some shiit like that
Thank you. You just described el dueño de mi corazón. He even treats my family like gold and want to know all about them. We're only 4 months in but I've never experienced this type of care, sensitivity, interest and compassion. He's even always ready to help strangers! He had a couple with a two year old girl sit at our table because they'd been waiting in the restaurant line for so long. ❤
Ismael, thanks for another great video. I've definitely become a fan and have learnt a lot. Relationships don't seem so confusing anymore. Please do make a part two. Lots of love to you ❤️❤️❤️
Understand: these emotionally unavailable men are so FUCKING ORDINARY and really-truly-honestly completely and totally underwhelming! Take a step back and realize it’s YOU who makes them so special, in your own delusional mind. Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on. It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period.
I wish I had your advice 50 years ago. I was influenced by the media, which gave wrong advise. I believed only beautiful woman get the men. How untrue that is. Anyways, Ismael you are doing a good job, and maybe it will help the younger generation.
Whether you’re in love or not you should always value her opinion. That’s true respect. If opinion respect is only based on love then you’ve missed the point of respect that isn’t just about you.
My ex husband used to wear a body spray that wasn't pleasant. I kept telling him that I didn't like the scent, and he’d always say to me that other women would tell him how good he smelled. My opinion never mattered, to him and I was his wife.
I have found that man, but can't be. Because I am still married and bind to a wrong man who never had those 7 things you mentioned. Sadly, I found it to another man, but can't be. So it don't work out too. Better single that making a lot of frustrations and heartaches. I believe God will do something and write a beautiful love story out of my life.
My husband is absent when I happen to have problems or to be sick. Im always loving and caring towards him and his family from previous marriage. I even quit my work to help him in his business. It's all wrong from my part. But I wanted so badly to build up a family. Mine was murdered in genocide time. Besides, love is blind and Im utopic. You r responsable for your own life. Nevertheless curcumstances give you no much choice at old age now.
Ismeal sounds like your talk is based on your personal experiences or your knowledge about yourself and study and there are facts about men but watching your vedios about men made me feel like, are all men incompetent in terms of their beautiful supposedly manly qualities to treat ladies?? Therefore expectation that ladies hope in men are too much or duped? We are imperfect men and women and the relationship we bring fort is also not perfect, there should be alot of understanding and forgiveness based on love and respect, for each other. If we keep ditching a partner because of his or her flaws then we could never get one perfect, if we look and see the good qualities in the partner then that person looks and feels beautiful but the major red alert needs to be dealt with appropriately😊
I have just found out that man who was waiting for me for over 19 years now,I'm glad I've finally decided to give him a chance which is actually god who brought us together when his mom died and I went to her funeral which got us closer than we were before because I just wanted to be that good friend he needed
I watched your video just to see if my husband needed a few pointers. He doesn't, based on what you said. You validated him. Or should I say he validated you. Thanks.
That is so nice when you fell asleep beside your partner…….but me?? When I fell asleep? I get in big trouble. When I travel I had to turn my gps on so he know where I am….and have to film the road I am driving pass so he know where I’m up to…. I lost my friends and my job because of him. Call me all diffferent kinds of names. I gave everything and do anything for him but I ended up like this. But I’m glad I’m out from that darkness. I almost ended my life but I realised it’s not worth it. I think of the people who loves me and cares for me and that’s the only thing that stops me from doing it. I’m happy now living on my own, but if god allows me to meet that someone who is meant for me…. I will be grateful.
Awesome video! Do you think it’s shady that my ex would never post about us or comment on my posts about us but he would like them… but then he commented “love you ❤❤” on a bartender’s picture on IG? I told him this upset me and he just told me “I was reading too much into it” and just left the comment there. I thought maybe he’d delete it since it upset me but nope he left it.
Super great I am so grateful to Almighty I had meet that man who loved me truly❤ Even today being no more 3years already I still feeling joy to be loved in my heart Thank you so much to revive what is inside me and to enlighten others Very much appreciated God bless u all ❤❤
You messed up my phone you fix it take responsibility for what you have done. Get your crap out of my phone and act 68. You did all of this to me. Do not text me, do not read or remove my text I get or send and stop spamming me. I have no respect for you. Leave me alone and get off my phone. Siicko
My husband of 53 years decided to leave me! I gave him most of my life from 19 to 71. He wants young women from 29 t0 early 30's I got sick then he left.
Ismael,i have a problem of whatever you say to me from my experience, it's a little bit of this and that i struggle to get the real him.Is he a narcissist or what, how to get him right meaning truth about him.
That’s sleeping situations is a stupidest thing I’ve ever heard husband always fall asleep first 99% of the time I’ve never heard of women falling asleep so they gonna watch you sleep
I did! He was in Germany & I was in the Philippines. Evening in my location. I fell asleep as we were chatting cam to cam. He watched me for 7 hours. Days after , he described how my eyeballs are moving sideways even if it is closed. As well as other mannerisM. He said he was happy watching me.
Mine is a 7 on 7 but when i sit down to discuss what's troubling, he says 1. "you are dumping all your frustation on me" . 2. "you're complicating everything" 3. "it's all fine according to me" 4. "you are not ambitious" 5. "no one else will ever love you like i do" 6. "you can't get anybody like me or better than me" 7. Isolates me from my circle 8. contradicts me and try to change my core nature saying "its for your best" Do I believe that it's "love" or just leave?!
A sweet commentary - but ladies beware of all these things !! As a woman , I could caution you about American men in this American culture. Ismael, I wish. And hope. Nothing against you at all. You are the one 'guy coach ' I can listen to without laughing. Don't give up on us hard-headed independent types, please!
Thank you for the interesting points. One tip I would have dealing with how to answer when he asks about my childhood. Basically, if a woman had a difficult childhood, she wouldn't want to say too much about it and may also be concerned how to address it. Do you know what I mean? I guess keeping to general and light answers would be best. I would appreciate your feedback. Thank you!
Ismael, you are so great to listen to & I always find myself laughing! You are authentic & caring and I always learn new & useful information. I really like the scenarios you talk about & enjoy your positive suggestions! Best to you always.😊
Are you going to explain the process that gets to the point you are describing or the zero-70 peespective? Oh, I don't know how we got here, but we are here now, and you weren't listening up until now. So, what do you think, were going make this happen or not? Perspective
You're right on. I'm a problem solver, too. It's very generous of you to expose this information. This is intelligent advice. I never even thought of how over the top his foul behavior was. I trusted him. He didn't have the ability to trust or realize he deserved my love.
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1. He seeks my opinion, answer honestly w a touch of optimism.
2. Shares important news. Wants you to know, my reaction validates his success.
3. He wants to invest in me, my problems become his. Damsel in distress.
4. Watching me drift off to sleep.
5. Asks questions about my childhood.
6. He keeps the romance alive, celebrate his efforts.
7. He brags about me. Inside and outside.
Thank you!!!🥰
Well...then..I married 3 men who didn't love me. No boxes ticked. I was skinny and cute, though.
@@grandmaoldschool7011I’ve been married x 3 also, never had this from any of them, was always me doing the asking and talking , still is to this day 😂..
Yep same here. Two marriages, two huge mistakes except the first one did give me two beautiful sons.
Thanks
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
May be you should try law of assumption and do meditations to remove negative energies ... so many times when the negative energy get stuck in our energy body, we tend to lose the good in life and by doing the meditations and all, people who are gone will come back ....
I even read stories of people who said how their ex who didn't talk with them for three years and sometimes more, came back ...
There is no time limit in law of universe...
I am sure you will not have to wait that long if you just stick with the work to heal yourself...
My blessings are with you, may Allah do good to both of you and bring both of you together by his will, Ameen ..
Focus more on forgiveness meditation, forgive everything and everyone and especially her in every way
You will see not just your relationship but also your health and career and every area improve ...
Do more research on these subjects.
There are millions of videos on this.
It will surely Help.
Have a Wonderful Life.
Love from India ✨️
God brought me that man and I am so Thankful .Filled with love light ,peace ,joy Praise God
Your seven top things a man does for the woman he loves is my husband! He is far and away the best person out there. We met in high school and are high school sweethearts. We've been together for 37 years and married for 32 years now. With the exception of his deployment's and unaccompanied assignments in the military, he brings me flowers every week and makes sure my vehicle is always in working order. Whenever he has something come up, he asks for my opinion and input. He has talked about me to people he works with and those he has just met. I recently went through ovarian cancer and his workplace got together and sent me flowers and a card signed by each individual, delivered the day after I got out of the hospital. He takes care of me and I take care of him. He's just the best guy there is!
Hi Ishmael, I’m 59 years old, and almost my whole life, I haven’t found “TRUE LOVE “ until recently. Now I’ve got a treasure in my life, and I won’t let go. He’s my best friend, my soulmate, my confidant, my dream come true and the answer to my prayers. In all honesty, I didn’t think that this world even consisted of a wonderful person as him. Once I found “ self love “, and healed myself, I found him ( actually he found me). He’s my one in a million.
Be careful, every time I've thought I found "the one", I got ghosted shortly after. Not discouraging you, I hope your situation works out, but for me I'm not trying anymore because I always have to walk on eggshells. I'm 55 years old and will never get involved with another man
Congratulations 🎉🍾🎊
Curious on where u guys met?? 🤔 Lol
That is so funny. Ok at work. The food that I bought from a vending machine got stuck. So I ask the first guy I can find to help me get it out. So he tried to get it out, but he couldn't, so he went and looked for a metal hanger. So then while he is looking for that. I saw another man and I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said let's see let me help you. So he can't get it out. So he went and looked for a metal hanger too. So the third man I saw. I said hey do you have a metal hanger? He said why? I said my food is stuck in the vending machine. So he said, ok let me see. So he tried to get it out and he couldn't get it out. So the first guy if I remember it correctly. Found a metal hook. So the three men take turns trying to get my food out of the vending machine. At first no luck at all. So the second guy said let me try again and let me make this with a hook. So he did. We were laughing so hard. Because they were making fun of me. Saying, so you just have to have the noodles. Why not this and that? I said I wanted the noodles. The vending machine was poorly made. So back to my noodles. Finally he got it out and we all cheered. It was so funny. These guys weren't even my boyfriends and they helped me. So yes damsel in distress. Really works. 🎉😂
You could've just banged on the machine.
'A man who loves you will talk about you to . . . strangers . . . like he's won the lottery.' Yeah, that'll brighten up the stranger's day if they have nobody. Like saying to a homeless person this is my penthouse/villa/mansion. 👍
If you love and respect the other person women and men do these. I think love and respect go hand in hand.
🌸That’s what us women need more of, how a man thinks. 💗
My ex asked my opinion and then told me why I was wrong.
That happened to me too
Hi Ishmael -- I'm a first time viewer. I found your video to be very informative and touching, especially the difference between a man's broken heart and a woman's broken heart. I was totally unaware of this. I had to giggle, though, when you advised us women that if we "notice a man watching us while we sleep, that means ... 🤭🤭🤭. That was very cute.
How the hell do you know he's watching you sleep? Your sleeping😂😂😂
You set a hidden camera in the room so you can see what he does haha
Hahaha
Because he tells you "hey baby you fell asleep last night and I didn't want to wake you, you looked so peaceful sleepin" prolly says some shiit like that
You feel his eyes on you lol
I live alone, if a man’s watching me sleep……………..😳
Thank you. You just described el dueño de mi corazón. He even treats my family like gold and want to know all about them. We're only 4 months in but I've never experienced this type of care, sensitivity, interest and compassion. He's even always ready to help strangers! He had a couple with a two year old girl sit at our table because they'd been waiting in the restaurant line for so long. ❤
That brought a smile to my face. Thanks for sharing.
Aloha from Hawaii 🌺 Thank you for sharing your input on this subject. My man resonates with all of these. We are hopeful. Life is a journey.
When you find that man don't ever let go.
❤
Just met a doctor he already wants to get married he is so in love with me not sure about my feeling re him told his co worker he's proposing ❤❤
Good for you.Stay blessed.Hope he does soon.❤@@KarenSears-iu5ne
Ismael, thanks for another great video. I've definitely become a fan and have learnt a lot. Relationships don't seem so confusing anymore. Please do make a part two. Lots of love to you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you. Part 2 is definitely in the works.
Understand:
these emotionally unavailable men are so FUCKING ORDINARY
and really-truly-honestly
completely and totally
underwhelming!
Take a step back and realize it’s YOU
who makes them so special,
in your own delusional mind.
Giving the same energy that you're getting
is key
and if you don't like that energy
then move on.
It can be hard
but that's when you need to choose yourself
over the damn illusion/fantasy.
A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period.
So...
If he ignores me
I will step back
and he will lose me.
Simple. Simple.
Non-dramatic
and uncomplicated.
I don’t,
under any circumstance:
play these childish-abusive-controlling
mind games.
I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me,
and treats me as the Queen, I AM.
(Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!)
Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine
and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman:
who knows my worth.
Period.
Exactly. Thanks so much for sharing this video.
It is providing all men are exactly the same...what a BS
It is love when a neighbour will knock and tell you you have a parcel 📦 on your door 🚪 step
The simplicity of your video is perfect 👌 I love it short and straight forward ❤️
You've got a new subscriber. I've been beat down so much. I need to be a believer.
I never find true love in my life only find people who wants to use me ask me for help when I don't have they go away and the love is finish
Thank you for the video..
New subscriber 🎉
Thank you for sharing ❤! I did understand more about man ! But I need more advice love to hear more !
I wish I had your advice 50 years ago. I was influenced by the media, which gave wrong advise. I believed only beautiful woman get the men. How untrue that is. Anyways, Ismael you are doing a good job, and maybe it will help the younger generation.
Great honest video…great advice..❤
Whether you’re in love or not you should always value her opinion. That’s true respect. If opinion respect is only based on love then you’ve missed the point of respect that isn’t just about you.
Thank you very much for your knowledge and help. Will you make a part 2, if you haven't yet, please.
My ex husband used to wear a body spray that wasn't pleasant. I kept telling him that I didn't like the scent, and he’d always say to me that other women would tell him how good he smelled. My opinion never mattered, to him and I was his wife.
I have found that man, but can't be. Because I am still married and bind to a wrong man who never had those 7 things you mentioned. Sadly, I found it to another man, but can't be. So it don't work out too. Better single that making a lot of frustrations and heartaches. I believe God will do something and write a beautiful love story out of my life.
The man who does this for me was my husband and I also adore him likewise but he has took is leaaf and gone to rest may God bless his soul ❤️ 🙏.
My husband is absent when I happen to have problems or to be sick. Im always loving and caring towards him and his family from previous marriage. I even quit my work to help him in his business. It's all wrong from my part. But I wanted so badly to build up a family. Mine was murdered in genocide time. Besides, love is blind and Im utopic. You r responsable for your own life. Nevertheless curcumstances give you no much choice at old age now.
Honest question : why do you call spending quality time, an effort ?
Thank you,you are amazing, finally I understand men more.
Why do the guys who love truly get the wrong type of girls and the girls who want to be loved truly get the wrong type of guys.🤷♀️🤧
Good question. Have never understood this!!
Ismeal sounds like your talk is based on your personal experiences or your knowledge about yourself and study and there are facts about men but watching your vedios about men made me feel like, are all men incompetent in terms of their beautiful supposedly manly qualities to treat ladies?? Therefore expectation that ladies hope in men are too much or duped?
We are imperfect men and women and the relationship we bring fort is also not perfect, there should be alot of understanding and forgiveness based on love and respect, for each other.
If we keep ditching a partner because of his or her flaws then we could never get one perfect, if we look and see the good qualities in the partner then that person looks and feels beautiful but the major red alert needs to be dealt with appropriately😊
Thankyou Ismael, I appreciate you.
I kept smiling as I read your comment.
Wat happens when a married man falls in love with a divorce d lady
Wow Ismael, thank you for sharing your knowledge about this so important subject 🙏 Really deep informations.
I think your'e doing a great job Ismael.
Thank you so much fir the great share. God bless you.
I have just found out that man who was waiting for me for over 19 years now,I'm glad I've finally decided to give him a chance which is actually god who brought us together when his mom died and I went to her funeral which got us closer than we were before because I just wanted to be that good friend he needed
nobody love me 😅i’m either how people fall in love what does it mean is that possible 😂
Thank you so much Ismael for your guidance once again :)
Thank you so much.
I watched your video just to see if my husband needed a few pointers. He doesn't, based on what you said. You validated him. Or should I say he validated you. Thanks.
Thank you❤😊
That is so nice when you fell asleep beside your partner…….but me?? When I fell asleep? I get in big trouble. When I travel I had to turn my gps on so he know where I am….and have to film the road I am driving pass so he know where I’m up to…. I lost my friends and my job because of him. Call me all diffferent kinds of names. I gave everything and do anything for him but I ended up like this. But I’m glad I’m out from that darkness. I almost ended my life but I realised it’s not worth it. I think of the people who loves me and cares for me and that’s the only thing that stops me from doing it. I’m happy now living on my own, but if god allows me to meet that someone who is meant for me…. I will be grateful.
Unfortunately, none of these have happened to me. Moving forward!
Thanks for the advice ❤
If he watching you sleep
He is yearking 85% of time
Nice hearing my friend...yes that's truth..true love reveal in tself true actions.... and is
worthy to be praised and care for❤.
Oh by the way my man now X of 30 yrs , I called him and said I cant start my truck his comment call AAA im an 1 hour away😢😢
🎉"attach ur happiness 😊 to ur goals NOT people"- Genius Albert Einstein
So funny. I read that quote yesterday for the first time.
@@SaveTheMessenger he said: bc people will obviously 🙄 always let u down...
@@SaveTheMessenger love ❤️ ur super powerful wisdom!!! Instant subscriber. 🙏 👏
Thank you good info ❤
Great video❤
Rizalino Belleza
❤ Thank you
Awesome video!
Do you think it’s shady that my ex would never post about us or comment on my posts about us but he would like them… but then he commented “love you ❤❤” on a bartender’s picture on IG? I told him this upset me and he just told me “I was reading too much into it” and just left the comment there. I thought maybe he’d delete it since it upset me but nope he left it.
Thank you, Ismael for all your councils and all the useful information you give us through your videos ! You are really of great help !🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
So sad!! I'm not that lucky to have such wonderful man.😢 Always come across with cheater and liar man.😢
Super great
I am so grateful to Almighty I had meet that man who loved me truly❤
Even today being no more 3years already I still feeling joy to be loved in my heart
Thank you so much to revive what is inside me and to enlighten others
Very much appreciated
God bless u all ❤❤
You messed up my phone you fix it take responsibility for what you have done. Get your crap out of my phone and act 68. You did all of this to me. Do not text me, do not read or remove my text I get or send and stop spamming me. I have no respect for you. Leave me alone and get off my phone. Siicko
Great info!!
A man who loves you marries you and ignores all obstacles to be with: why is this not talked about??!
My husband of 53 years decided to leave me! I gave him most of my life from 19 to 71. He wants young women from 29 t0 early 30's I got sick then he left.
New suscriber here. Youre very insightful and very handsome 😊
Ismael,i have a problem of whatever you say to me from my experience, it's a little bit of this and that i struggle to get the real him.Is he a narcissist or what, how to get him right meaning truth about him.
MEN ARE ONLY IN LUST MY FRIEND ….LOVE ??? What is THAT ???
THANK YOU
Really means a lot Sir
You are the best honestly,your advice and analysis are on point thank you.
Thank you so much.😊
I really appreciate your work, you bring the reality to my broken marriage
Mine is Capricorn cold as ice
Thank you, very informative. 🙏
I appreciate you took the time to leave such a lovely comment.
That’s sleeping situations is a stupidest thing I’ve ever heard husband always fall asleep first 99% of the time I’ve never heard of women falling asleep so they gonna watch you sleep
I did! He was in Germany & I was in the Philippines. Evening in my location. I fell asleep as we were chatting cam to cam. He watched me for 7 hours.
Days after , he described how my eyeballs are moving sideways even if it is closed. As well as other mannerisM. He said he was happy watching me.
27 years ago. I fell asleep with my head on his lap while watching a movie. The movie was going off when I woke up. He had never moved.
I wish I could go to my mother and talk to her again, but she passed away this May 2, 2024.
Sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace🙏
@@ish7036 Thank you.
Thank Ishmael
Learned my lesson, no more Internet relationships
Mine is a 7 on 7
but when i sit down to discuss what's troubling, he says
1. "you are dumping all your frustation on me" .
2. "you're complicating everything"
3. "it's all fine according to me"
4. "you are not ambitious"
5. "no one else will ever love you like i do"
6. "you can't get anybody like me or better than me"
7. Isolates me from my circle
8. contradicts me and try to change my core nature saying "its for your best"
Do I believe that it's "love" or just leave?!
thank you Ismael for your advices
Always my pleasure.
Can you make a video about, what men don't do to the women they love
Nobody will ever love me. That's what I figured. I'm a beat out so many times, but nobody wants me a little off.
Somebody loves you dia. Don't ever say that
You are special my dia
So stop going above and beyond for them
Ha ha.. my husband does none of those things… soon to be my ex
A sweet commentary - but ladies beware of all these things !! As a woman , I could caution you about American men in this American culture. Ismael, I wish. And hope. Nothing against you at all. You are the one 'guy coach ' I can listen to without laughing. Don't give up on us hard-headed independent types, please!
Oh I would celebrate him
Thank you for the interesting points. One tip I would have dealing with how to answer when he asks about my childhood. Basically, if a woman had a difficult childhood, she wouldn't want to say too much about it and may also be concerned how to address it. Do you know what I mean? I guess keeping to general and light answers would be best. I would appreciate your feedback. Thank you!
Ismael, you are so great to listen to & I always find myself laughing! You are authentic & caring and I always learn new & useful information. I really like the scenarios you talk about & enjoy your positive suggestions! Best to you always.😊
Are you going to explain the process that gets to the point you are describing or the zero-70 peespective? Oh, I don't know how we got here, but we are here now, and you weren't listening up until now. So, what do you think, were going make this happen or not?
Perspective
You're right on. I'm a problem solver, too. It's very generous of you to expose this information. This is intelligent advice. I never even thought of how over the top his foul behavior was. I trusted him. He didn't have the ability to trust or realize he deserved my love.
Am lorna watching from Milano. Am still single and searching Hope yr video guides me in the next relationship.
Listening to learn English ❤
He did all these things
but still left me
Lol I did almost all of these to him and he didn’t
Absolutely none of them show me
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Cool video
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