#1 I got you #2 Ill fix it for you #3 Tell me when you need something #4 How are you feeling #5 Why are you feeling that way #6 What do you want? #7 I want you to feel safe #8 Ill make it happen #9 I want you to be my girlfriend/Wife #10 You're different than other woman #11 I want to see you again #12 We/Us
I had to send this to my daughter and granddaughter. You are really very good in sharing how a Man feels and would act upon those feelings! Thank you so much! It's valuable information for all females!
Married to my husband for 51 years if he did not say all these things he certainly took the care to make me feel all these things. It was mutual. Nothing like loving and being loved, it’s the greatest experience in the world. Hopefully more and more people have this experience of love. May all beings be happy.
I was married to a narcissist for 23 years. Had 2 children by him divorced him at 11 yrs ago. Then I met the love of my life, we had 15 years together. He died almost a year ago. It will be a year May 21st. I'm obviously still grieving. I lost my husband lost my job and lost my home all within in one month's time. My husband's friend comes along. Who I don't know very well but I know my husband trusted him and my husband trusted no one he is now my roommate. We never jumped into anything. right away but it has now presented itself as more than just roommates and friends now. It's kind of touchy to whether or not I know if he is just another narcissist and looking for supply or he is truly geniune. That's my story. I think a lot of us are all in the same boat. And wasted years are too sad to think about! and never a good thing. But I only wish Love and happiness for all! God's speed...
I’m soooo lucky I’ve been my husband to be for sooooo much longer 😊 13 years and counting 😂but he said & did & still does very day & still does not stop he doesn’t stop ❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰 😂
@@lilianarose5907 love letters and love songs are not enough because there are people who are using these tactics to manipulate and playing mind games. They are giving false hopes. Their actions should speak louder than their words is very crucial to determine them if they are sincere and honest.
Good men are NOT rare. Some people are just weirdly attracted to "bad boys" and abusive boys, so that's all they know, and then they think all men are like that. All of the men in my life are wonderful, caring people.
Stay away from the bars ladies. Look for men at the grocery stores, libraries, home improvement stores, work, etc. Don't share your feelings first. Men love the chase. Don't always be available. Absence does make the heart grow fonder. Food does reach the heart. Feed him. It doesn't have to be a 5 course meal. Even finger foods is fine. Remember little things that are important. Encourage him to have time with his male friends. Take care of yourself. He will love you for the rest of your life. Much success! ❤
@@I.Love.My.Border.Collie : This is really great advice. I ran a singles group for years and all the things you say above are very true. Not being overly available is BEST! Don't give yourself away. Wait for him to present you with a monogamous commitment before you get intimate. I haven't heard men say all those things that this guy says above but he does them, even if he doesn't say them. My experience with men is that in general they are not so great at verbal communication. So they do need to know the rules...set the boundaries, it is true what he says about them not being mind readers.
I'm 78, my man is 75, he's Norwegian and lives 40 miles away. Every morning it's a message with did you sleep well, how are you? He called the other morning, turned on some music and sang to me. He sends songs everyday, calls every day, always uses love talk. He retires in two weeks, then it will really get hot. Ladies, ramp it up, if he's the greatest man you ever met, tell him. You enjoy it when he tells you how wonderful you are, tell him, too. Believe me, age has nothing to do with it.❤
Narcissists do all of this in the beginning of a relationship until they know you've fallen for them. Then things start to change! Watch not only words and actions but whats more important is watching patterns! Its easy to fake it but patterns tell the real story.
That's good of you, know how you feel. 😢I've had several boyfriends who weren't quite right. I wanted excitement, dependable men seemed boring to me for some reason & l paid the price.
What if he has no family, or no contact with family because they were abusive/traumatized him but he tells you memories talks about some of the better family members to the point where you feel like you know him
@@MeetTheALFFam Be careful. He probably has some deep issues. Maybe see if he's willing to go to counseling with you just to help you understand what's going on with with him.
I am 69 years old, and I have never heard any man say any of those things to me. Everything you said here with something I've always had to do for myself. I'm not unattractive and was told I am attractive but apparently that hasn't gotten me anywhere. After years of looking and seeking, and finally came to terms that it's just not going to work out for me, so I've had to take care of myself. I don't even have friends who have men like this. To me it sounds something more like what you see in the movies, but not in reality I've had to come to terms with the fact that I will probably end up Staying alone. I don't like the ups and downs in the games and the dishonest people that are out there. I'd rather be by myself than to have to deal with endless heartaches. It makes me very sad to think that there are men who actually feel this way, and I have been unable to find them. Videos like this make me very sad.
Hi, I've had a similar experience recently. I'm a 74 year old widow, my husband of 49 years passed away 7 years ago. Currently, I'm broken hearted, I recently fell in love with my neighbor. Thank you.
I hear you. I felt that way as well but God brings us someone through some weird ways sometimes. Just relax and pray to God for the one. He brought me mine. 🙏🌷🩷
I can relate. I'm going through a divorce right now from a narcissist. The marriage was a constant Rollercoaster. It was hell. Never again will l ignore red flags ever again!!
I'm sorry for you. I had a pretty rough divorce too. He was very selfish and self absorbed. It was a very hurtful process that nearly destroyed me. But over some time I started living again. Gave up on finding someone and started just making me happy. And I started attracting guys like crazy. ( I've had 5 kids, its not always looks that attract someone) definitely glow up from being happy though. I have truly found a wonderful man now. And he really does love me very much. Trick is make yourself happy first. Not to sound corny or cliché.
I found mine and I am 66 and he is 55,I have prayed for God to send me the man he wants me to be with and he did,this man latched on to me like a pit bulldog and would not turn loose and I am so thankful he didn't turn me loose because I fell head over heels in love with him,this is the first time I have ever truely been in love,he's never been married and has no kids,we r now engaged but we haven't set a date yet,neither of us want to rush into marriage at least not at the moment,but it will happen with God willing,so hang in there ur man is out there,one more thing: I have learned that God doesn't give us who we want,He gives us who we need.
Congratulations! I pray this happens for me, I just turned 60 not too long ago. Had a narcissistic husband never want to go back to anything like that, I'd rather be alone then live with any type of abuse!
Anybody can SAY anything. It's the ACTIONS behind the words that matter. For example: there's the narcissist who will say anything to get what he wants. Yes, he'll say every one of these 12 things and more, and not mean a word of it. He'll say "I'll fix it!" Then 10 minutes later say that "you are too needy". OR The passive-aggressive who will tell you that "they'll fix it" and a month later you're still waiting.
AGREE THAT WORDS MUST BE FOLLOWED BY ACTION. AND THIS MAN SPOKE TO THIS SEVERAL TIMES. HE AGREES WITH YOU (AND ME) THAT ONE'S WORDS ARE ONLY WORDS, UNLESS BACKED UP WITH ACTION.
My late husband expressed all of those feelings for me. We were married for 45 years and those years were wonderful. I miss him I'm sure to meet him in our after life.❤
My husband and I were married for 38 years when he passed. He was a good man and I still love him more and more. Everyday I miss him more and more. I know he's with God.
Narcissists start out pretending to care but they suddenly pull away and you never feel that consistent "love" again. At that point, completely cut off your relationship with him because otherwise, you'll have years of disappointment and emotional torture. Believe me. Never stay friends with a Narcissist. BLOCK HIM.
1. I got you 2. I’ll fix it for you 3. Tell me when you need something 4. How are you feeling 5. Why are you feeling that way 6. What do you want. 7. I want you to feel safe 8. I’ll make it happen 9. I want you to be my girlfriend/wife 10. You’re different than other women you’re special 11. I want to see you again 12. We/Us
@@lillianmashego8249 My husband too. Isn’t it wonderful to have that kind of love in our lives? Spontaneous HUGGS of gratitude do wonders to give back to such a man.
I was married for 54 years to the man I adored and who adored me. It only ended when he died at the age of 81. They broke the mould when they made him. He was amazing. He said beautiful things to me and I felt so loved. My life is worthless without him in it.
Yes!! It is true, I knew my husband when I was 21, since then he is my protector, always taking care of me, but I protect him too, I think is something reciprocate. Now I am 43, and we still love each other. ❤
I have lived lived with a man who acted like he loved me more that life... Only to find out that he was a liar,,, 10 years of cheating and lie after lie... I am now away from him,,, my heart ♥ is soooooo crushed, but I feel like such a fool because I honestly believed that he loved me... We bought an RV and totally remodeled it, I worked sooooo hard to make it JUST Gorgeous.. I recently found out that before we moved in it he had a woman in it doing Drugs... I am soooooo hell I can't even put it into words... I will never ever be the same. 😢😢😢
Your exactly right. If we dont allow our men to embrace their manlyness, they start to wonder, what does she need me for. We have to allow them to take care of some things at times. For an independent woman, who does everything by herself, this is very challenging. Mine says, i want you to be happy and not worry about anything, i will take care of it.
@@jjdjj5392 It happens to everyone, the ones who have a high respect for themselves, will happen to them alot. To attract a man, you must allow him to feel like hes hunting you. Be nice but dont always be available for them and their becking call, keep living your life on your own path......I trigger the hunt in men naturally everytime because i dont yearn for relationships i have always been a loner and value my independence.....Takes a pretty special guy who doesnt conform to society norms for me to turn my head! Its common for me to be single for atleast 3 years after a relationship because i miss doing my own thing. It will happen to you too 🥰🥰
With the right man, you don't have any issues letting them help you and be there for you, secure relationship. I would never let a man do for me if I am not interested without communicating and making sure they know that, not to take advantage of someone's feelings, emotions and not exploit that. Even for independent women. I think we have to be independent or stubborn about such things against those who are neglectful and unkind. Nothing is more annoying and frustrating than someone who acts supportive, acts as though they truly desire to help you and they turn around and resent you for it :/ it is the biggest mess up or they insist on lecturing you over and over how much they had to sacrifice for you out of obligations and not sincere desires
@@carrang-r9w my dear what I learned in griefshare class we will mourn loved ones for all time but the intensity of sorrow lessens I have found that to be true but it takes awhile give yourself grace and grieve how YOU need to grieve we all grieve differently don't rush the process lean into the pain cuz that'd how you get thru it also talk to Dr if it gets too much cuz you might need antidepressant for awhile I did and don't need to now ppl will say hurtful things but they mean we'll they don't know how to comfort you so give them grace honey this is a devastating loss but you'll get thru not over but thru I care and sending prayers and hoping the best for you you'll make it
How very generous of you to enlighten us females on this important aspect of life and love. What I liked equally, was no unnecessary gaps of wasting time, got all information in order. Thank-You. Even seniors can learn from this, never too late.
Mine asked me to be his Companion. We are both fircely independent and want our own space. However we both say these things to each other frequently and lookout for and take care of each other. At this point in time it's the perfect relationship and we do care for and love each other.❤
He's done 5 of the 12 and we've been an official couple for a few weeks after casually dating for a couple months. Seems to be heading in the right direction. Thanks for the info!
I had men who did say most or all of things mentioned here but marriage never happened. Now I am with a man that only dies 3/4 things and he acts like a child. He wants me to run after him and talk to him like a baby. And he all the times gives me that he wants marriage.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
My Man is Awesome . He says all these things and more . He has told me that he never knew he could Love again until I came into his Life. I Love him so very much and he Loves me the same.
I AM 84 & I HAVE NEVER HAD ANYONE SAY THOSE WORDS TO ME - BUT I REALIZE THAT I HAVE SAID THEM TO OTHER PEOPLE!!! THANKS FOR MAKING THE LIST SO EASY TO SEE!!! RK OTHER PEOPLE
I'm 75 and I haven't heard these words either. Early in our relationship, I told my husband I didn't want any lip service or doing something because of guilt - I want action to show he cares.
What an awful thing to if he strung you along 😞 deliberately. Makes you wonder how sincere he is with the other woman too ? But you wouldn't want him back. Some men flip-flop around causing havoc & unrest in other's lives
My husband acts like we are always competing. He acts like we are rivals. He has never ever defended me in any situation ever. He always tells me that I can defend myself. He does say I love you 100 times a day. We have been married for 42 years. He says he’s completely happy, but I am not. I feel un-loved and un-appreciated 90 % of the time.
I found a guy , he said all of theses things to me. I fell in love with him, then he ran away from me no explanation. He even kept calling me by his last name and told me he wanted me to wear a white dress and heels. He was not very tall and he he was happy I could wear heels and still be shorter than he was. He made much less than I do and his mother is mean, so people wondered why I would even want him. But he made me so happy, I didn’t care if he had money or not. We talked about where we wanted to do and whether we wanted kids or not, we decided that we would just be us and borrow family members children. He helped me wrap all the gifts for my class and said it’s like we are married with kids and wrapping all the presents for our kids. He came early to watch the kid’s opening them. I don’t understand what happened.
Some men get scared when things get too real. They feel vulnerable, inadequate, or so afraid of what might happen that they decide to quit before they lose us. Also, they listen to everything we say and pick up on things in our tone and language that can make them feel unsafe. A lot of men won't admit it, but they have as many fears and insecurities as we do.
I'm 70 starting in a new relationship and I hear the majority of these things so far so far especially I've got this babe . oh and he's also younger than I am
Very true. I feel so safe with my husband. God blessed me with a handsome and a very good hearted man. Man after God’s own heart. I dedicate this video to my husband sai dutt madisetty.Thank you Jesus for your blessing. In Jesus name Amen.❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have never had any man ask me " why are you feeling that way?" Come to think of it, I have never heard half the things on this list. I have a loving husband & we love each other. Been together 28 years. But, my guy is from a different generation from years ago.
I have a friend who does everything for me.he does everything to make me happy.we were friends everysince i only started seeing him lately, but he doesn't express his self like that
Im so blessed to have a good man in my life now. He takes initiative to fix things or just to hold me tight through bad days. 3 years i was abused by a narcissist.
I have carved out a clear positive roadmap to my heart. He has always been my hero. After 30 years of waiting we finally joined and he switched me with his dog and a nasty alcoholic addiction that was constantly causing me to breakdown. Constantly being different. I had to go I was wasting and he’s now taking these steps. I’ve shared all of this information before it got to where I had to step away to allow him to show real change. Domestic violence child/adult survivors are not supposed to be treated like this and you are worth more than a dog. Not throw your pearls before dogs or swine for they may turn around and tremble your pearls and tear you apart.
Thank you so much for this I am seeing someone and I can say it’s truly a special and deep connection he ask me every day how are you doing before anything else, I want you to smile and I can feel it 🙏 am very happy never had this before am full of gratitude ❤
Fist timer...I have been single for many many years. I am ready to put myself back out there. Can you give me some tips on what to say, not say. Do and not do. I am so crazy nervous to put myself out there again as I was so so hurt by my ex. How do I trust again so it doesn't get in the way of future happiness. Thank you for any advice
Not sure…hmm…what if a man says all these things, but only pretends, in other words manipulates your trust? How to know the difference? Besides that this man might be married (which on the other hand doesn’t mean he is unable to love and perhaps the marriage is on its decline), what other factors are helpful to determine whether to stay away from flattery? Oh, why can’t people be just simply open and sincere?!
1. I gat you 2. I will fix it for you 3.Tell me when you need anything 4. How are you feeling 5. Why are you feeling that way 6. .... All these things go hand in hand with actions. Most men that hit on mi have said them buh a few have put them in practice
When my love and i met ..within 5 minutes he was telling me he has never loved anyone ever as beautiful as me i am ...he had lost trust in all other eomen until he met me he ssid ..honesty,loving him for who he is was whar he needed i will always love only him was what i told him ..hes so in love with me because his heart is overwhelmed by my loving words of kindness..he has gotten his love and pride back from my loving him so much ..he has now told me we are getting married this year ❤ men need kindness and true love and pride everyday ❤
I’m going to subscribe because you’re one of the very few guys who speaks with sincerity and intelligence on these subjects. I feel you respect your audience. I think you are going to really stand out because of this. Best of luck to you. From Cleveland. . ☘️🍒✅
My jaw just dropped. The man in my life is the first one to hit every one of your 12 signs. Now I understand a big part of why we are so close and why he’s so deeply embedded in my heart. Thank you for your channel.
Thank you all for your heartfelt comments. I had no idea my comment would receive such an influx of responses. I appreciate your kindness, empathy and kind words, and words of encouragement and hope. God bless you all. And no matter what happens one can be content at any age, single or married. There's a higher purpose in our lives and we all just have to seek it and receive the most fulfillment it can offer. God bless you all!!
I have a long distance relationship all that you said here he said all the 12 things for me. We both feel we've known each other in the past lives and he also said we are experiencing Twin Flames and we are embarking this journey together. I have not met him yet in 3 months I will be seeing him after almost 2 years of dating online! Thank you for this video it really help me knowing that he is deeply in love with me! ❤❤❤
Words need to match with actions, some men will say that because they know what you want to hear or is proper to say but not with the right intentions. If your man tell you this matching with actions... Congrats🎉👏 if not, don't fall too fast, some men know how to play the love game. Some of those lines a men can say them without being romantically interested just trying to be nice. Depending the situation. Besides some men aren't good expressions emotions others do. If your men is good expressing them congrats🎉
You’re perfectly right lol. Maybe during 1920’s to 1950*s it was genuine. Not nowadays lol but it is really nice to hear those words. Easy to say but to put it in actions??? Continuously??? Smell the coffee lol or you’re watching TV too much lol And lots of Men don’t say those words But they are the best husbands or bf. 🙏👍😜❤️
@@florenciomendoza1212 True! Nowdays genuine loving relationships it's been shown very easy because social media or dating apps, make them look like your in a department store 😆 all is mess up. Some people not all, want easy love just because they want attention or look for the love they cannot give to themselves, sad but true 😒😞 The stories that our Baby Boomers Parents told us are sometimes impossible to find in this modern love life.
My future husband everyday asks me these questions ..he's very caring at all times almost everytime ..he loves to make sure I'm doing well and I ask the same for him ❤ our love is so deep he does not want me unhappy ..he always cares deeply
Thank you so much for this. I see that he has been doing these things. This is someone who has expressed interest in me. It was hard for me to understand his actions at first because I didn't grow up with a strong masculine presence in my home. I have always been independent and grew up around independent women so this is new.
My ex boyfriend said all these things but he was already engaged to another girl before meeting me which I wasn’t aware of, got married without informing me.🙂
That was nice of him ! Needless to say he has no respect for his wife, nor himself. People tend to treat others as they see themselves eg if they mistrust the world 🌎 they might be untrustworthy themselves
My sweet husband didn't say hardly (and still doesn't) say any of these things to me, but does continue to say, "I love you" a lot. Every man is different. But, his actions speak louder than words. Still together after 22 years...and counting ❤
I can relate to this. My man isn't mushy. 😂 But he says other things and does things that show me. In my comment I even said I guess actions speak louder than words in my case. 😂 We've been together for just about 9 yrs.
I feel sorry for men cuz being a woman, even I realize all women are different and men have to figure each of them out, as we do with our friends. We are complicated. We have to TELL him who we are.
I'm 69 and never experienced anything like that married for almost 31 years and still don't get kind of love from my husband i have given up on true love too old to be bothered just waiting for when my God calls me home He is the only one who truly loves me happy for all who found your true love love enjoy 🎉❤
My husband has never been like that.He seemd not to be aware of that. The problem was that he seemed to be very clumsy and never thinking about to help anyone. he grow up in Indonesia and there where servens for averything in life But now I realise what I missed in our marrigde Thank you for the reading
I'm married just less then 2months what ever this guy is saying absolutely right every thing he's saying I keep on hearing from my husband he said it to me or during our conversation 😊he says l just love my man ❤❤❤❤
The integrity is essential in these comments. I broke up from a narcississtic engagement to a man who said most of these things. But it was control, manipulation, domination...little to no action. Empty words, lies, betrayals, ... It was devastating and so confusing because his words were not from an honorable and honest heart. Healing and trusting takes so long to come. I am skeptical of practically everything now.
Wow I have been talking to a man for seven months and that's how he talks to me and he tell me he love I have never had a man do or say all that to me everyday
This man I am with now has surprised me in ways I can not believe. The 1st time he said, "You're mine " I was a little scared. I didnt if it was a possession thing. He has been so good to me. However a few things arent perfect, but I know he loves me. Deeply. We can discuss our love for each other. We can discuss our feelings, our time together and enjoy it. Hes not rich. He is amazing. Hard working. He has value unlike some men today. Ive learned that money doesnt make the man, the man makes the man.
These are all true, but more importantly he will align his words with his behaviors. Actions speak louder…and if words don’t align then it’s just love bombing and superficial future faking. Discerning the difference is really important.
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I’ve been married 27 years and never heard one of these
@InvertedEarth I've been married almost 40, and I've never heard any of those either.
Always saying I love, does it make sense?
This man is telling you the truth! If a woman is missing some of these signs, something is wrong with your relationship...😮
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#1 I got you
#2 Ill fix it for you
#3 Tell me when you need something
#4 How are you feeling
#5 Why are you feeling that way
#6 What do you want?
#7 I want you to feel safe
#8 Ill make it happen
#9 I want you to be my girlfriend/Wife
#10 You're different than other woman
#11 I want to see you again
#12 We/Us
What are your plans for us? Are we a team? How do you feel today?❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Well i can see that the joke is on me! 😭😭😭😭
None of it!
Sure this a good eye opener
He tells me “talk to me.”
I had to send this to my daughter and granddaughter. You are really very good in sharing how a Man feels and would act upon those feelings! Thank you so much! It's valuable information for all females!
Married to my husband for 51 years if he did not say all these things he certainly took the care to make me feel all these things. It was mutual. Nothing like loving and being loved, it’s the greatest experience in the world. Hopefully more and more people have this experience of love. May all beings be happy.
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I felt that love 😍
My husband never said these things, he did them
I finally found mine. We met online, there was an instant connection. It has only gotten better since then.
I was married to a narcissist for 23 years. Had 2 children by him divorced him at 11 yrs ago. Then I met the love of my life, we had 15 years together. He died almost a year ago. It will be a year May 21st. I'm obviously still grieving. I lost my husband lost my job and lost my home all within in one month's time. My husband's friend comes along. Who I don't know very well but I know my husband trusted him and my husband trusted no one he is now my roommate.
We never jumped into anything. right away but it has now presented itself as more than just roommates and friends now. It's kind of touchy to whether or not I know if he is just another narcissist and looking for supply or he is truly geniune. That's my story. I think a lot of us are all in the same boat. And wasted years are too sad to think about! and never a good thing.
But I only wish Love and happiness for all! God's
speed...
My wonderful man has said all of these things to me. His actions always match his words. We have been together for 7 years.
Wow awesome. You are lucky dear 😊
I’m soooo lucky I’ve been my husband to be for sooooo much longer 😊 13 years and counting 😂but he said & did & still does very day & still does not stop he doesn’t stop ❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰 😂
@elainepagnani3008 🤣🤣🤣🤣 in your dreams 😂😂😂
@@skullgamer4331 wow that is so mean!! It sounds like you are saying that I do not deserve love. My man’s words come with actions! 😂😂
@@elainepagnani3008I believe you. There are good men out there. 🙂 You're so lucky to have a caring man.
Having this kind of man these days are like "rare specie." If they are true "Man of God" it is really a blessing in your life.
I'm blessed
A man like this just found me, he is always sending me love letters and songs, everyday! I won't let him forget me ever,!
@@lilianarose5907 love letters and love songs are not enough because there are people who are using these tactics to manipulate and playing mind games. They are giving false hopes.
Their actions should speak louder than their words is very crucial to determine them if they are sincere and honest.
Good men are NOT rare. Some people are just weirdly attracted to "bad boys" and abusive boys, so that's all they know, and then they think all men are like that. All of the men in my life are wonderful, caring people.
I have never really had any of this before! Having a man that feels this way would be heaven sent!! ❤
💯 agree. Im definitely looking forward for it to happen
Stay away from the bars ladies. Look for men at the grocery stores, libraries, home improvement stores, work, etc. Don't share your feelings first. Men love the chase. Don't always be available. Absence does make the heart grow fonder. Food does reach the heart. Feed him. It doesn't have to be a 5 course meal. Even finger foods is fine. Remember little things that are important. Encourage him to have time with his male friends. Take care of yourself. He will love you for the rest of your life. Much success! ❤
100%.
It’s a wonderful thing when it happens.
@@I.Love.My.Border.Collie : This is really great advice. I ran a singles group for years and all the things you say above are very true. Not being overly available is BEST! Don't give yourself away. Wait for him to present you with a monogamous commitment before you get intimate. I haven't heard men say all those things that this guy says above but he does them, even if he doesn't say them. My experience with men is that in general they are not so great at verbal communication. So they do need to know the rules...set the boundaries, it is true what he says about them not being mind readers.
I'm 78, my man is 75, he's Norwegian and lives 40 miles away. Every morning it's a message with did you sleep well, how are you? He called the other morning, turned on some music and sang to me. He sends songs everyday, calls every day, always uses love talk. He retires in two weeks, then it will really get hot. Ladies, ramp it up, if he's the greatest man you ever met, tell him. You enjoy it when he tells you how wonderful you are, tell him, too. Believe me, age has nothing to do with it.❤
Has he got any brothers ???? LOL
If that man has been this good man marry him quickly!
Leave me Alone I’m still shaking 😢I. Need my Frankie
i'm 66 and my guy is older . I agree 100% with what you say .
How did you found him? Pkease
Narcissists do all of this in the beginning of a relationship until they know you've fallen for them. Then things start to change! Watch not only words and actions but whats more important is watching patterns! Its easy to fake it but patterns tell the real story.
This is so true, was married to a narcissistic for 52 years, worst marriage ever. Hard to live with. Hard to love.
True
This is so sad
Thank you so much for your advice
Yes! This!!
I will forever clap for others until it's my turn🎉🎉
That's good of you, know how you feel. 😢I've had several boyfriends who weren't quite right. I wanted excitement, dependable men seemed boring to me for some reason & l paid the price.
Me too.❤
Same 🫶
Same
Had your turn yet. ? I bet it’s a NO. Did not wait that’s a myth
He includes you in his LIFE!! You meet everyone whose important to him.
What if he has no family, or no contact with family because they were abusive/traumatized him but he tells you memories talks about some of the better family members to the point where you feel like you know him
@@MeetTheALFFam Be careful. He probably has some deep issues. Maybe see if he's willing to go to counseling with you just to help you understand what's going on with with him.
Did that, he was cheating on me the whole time 🤷🏻♀️
And he puts me #1 before any others
Can't wait to marry my man. Love you K
Sometimes he can be silent but his action will show protection, love, support...❤❤❤
Don't narcissists say all these things in the early love bombing stage? It takes time to know who is real and who is playing you.
Exactly!
So true..
Yes!
Yes, unfortunately - AT LEAST one year 🥺
RIGHT!!!
My husband still says all of this to me. He’s a wonderful husband and great father.
I am 69 years old, and I have never heard any man say any of those things to me. Everything you said here with something I've always had to do for myself. I'm not unattractive and was told I am attractive but apparently that hasn't gotten me anywhere. After years of looking and seeking, and finally came to terms that it's just not going to work out for me, so I've had to take care of myself. I don't even have friends who have men like this. To me it sounds something more like what you see in the movies, but not in reality I've had to come to terms with the fact that I will probably end up Staying alone. I don't like the ups and downs in the games and the dishonest people that are out there. I'd rather be by myself than to have to deal with endless heartaches. It makes me very sad to think that there are men who actually feel this way, and I have been unable to find them. Videos like this make me very sad.
Hi, I've had a similar experience recently. I'm a 74 year old widow, my husband of 49 years passed away 7 years ago. Currently, I'm broken hearted, I recently fell in love with my neighbor. Thank you.
Im in love with a man 10 years Young than me and he said to me all this words he is so kind and we are planing get married soon
I hear you. I felt that way as well but God brings us someone through some weird ways sometimes. Just relax and pray to God for the one. He brought me mine. 🙏🌷🩷
Amen
@@marialuisagutierrez4426woow sure it means even me I can get someone because am 30yrs
My wonderful husband has done all these things. We have been married for 22 plus years and have been together for almost 30 yrs
;((
I was married to a narcissist so my life was an empty loveless waste of time…
I can relate. I'm going through a divorce right now from a narcissist. The marriage was a constant Rollercoaster. It was hell. Never again will l ignore red flags ever again!!
Absolutely not. You are free to be your own authentic self now! Now you can be exactly who you are and live your best life ever!
I'm sorry for you. I had a pretty rough divorce too. He was very selfish and self absorbed. It was a very hurtful process that nearly destroyed me. But over some time I started living again. Gave up on finding someone and started just making me happy. And I started attracting guys like crazy. ( I've had 5 kids, its not always looks that attract someone) definitely glow up from being happy though. I have truly found a wonderful man now. And he really does love me very much. Trick is make yourself happy first. Not to sound corny or cliché.
Mine too. Still there
Yes I have also lived through hell. So manipulative and devious.
I found mine and I am 66 and he is 55,I have prayed for God to send me the man he wants me to be with and he did,this man latched on to me like a pit bulldog and would not turn loose and I am so thankful he didn't turn me loose because I fell head over heels in love with him,this is the first time I have ever truely been in love,he's never been married and has no kids,we r now engaged but we haven't set a date yet,neither of us want to rush into marriage at least not at the moment,but it will happen with God willing,so hang in there ur man is out there,one more thing: I have learned that God doesn't give us who we want,He gives us who we need.
Congratulations! I pray this happens for me, I just turned 60 not too long ago. Had a narcissistic husband never want to go back to anything like that, I'd rather be alone then live with any type of abuse!
Thank you.
Thank you.
I know a man who deeply loves me . He us my Guardian angel.
This made me smile because he has said all of these to me. He’s truly the Man of my Dreams…
My man makes sure I have everything I want and need. I'm definitely not complaining.
Anybody can SAY anything. It's the ACTIONS behind the words that matter. For example: there's the narcissist who will say anything to get what he wants. Yes, he'll say every one of these 12 things and more, and not mean a word of it. He'll say "I'll fix it!" Then 10 minutes later say that "you are too needy". OR The passive-aggressive who will tell you that "they'll fix it" and a month later you're still waiting.
Exactly its all about them
You must be so much fun at parties!!🥳
AGREE THAT WORDS MUST BE FOLLOWED BY ACTION. AND THIS MAN SPOKE TO THIS SEVERAL TIMES. HE AGREES WITH YOU (AND ME) THAT ONE'S WORDS ARE ONLY WORDS, UNLESS BACKED UP WITH ACTION.
Action is nothing without words vice versa
This true too
My late husband expressed all of those feelings for me. We were married for 45 years and those years were wonderful. I miss him I'm sure to meet him in our after life.❤
Same for me. Married 37 years.
My husband and I were married for 38 years when he passed. He was a good man and I still love him more and more. Everyday I miss him more and more. I know he's with God.
Narcissists start out pretending to care but they suddenly pull away and you never feel that consistent "love" again. At that point, completely cut off your relationship with him because otherwise, you'll have years of disappointment and emotional torture. Believe me. Never stay friends with a Narcissist. BLOCK HIM.
And I did so
Agree 100%!
Men are good people. They want to settle down
@@angelachanellehuang5663.. Not narcissists.. they always have other secret supply
💯 TRUTH AND EXACTLY
1. I got you
2. I’ll fix it for you
3. Tell me when you need something
4. How are you feeling
5. Why are you feeling that way
6. What do you want.
7. I want you to feel safe
8. I’ll make it happen
9. I want you to be my girlfriend/wife
10. You’re different than other women you’re special
11. I want to see you again
12. We/Us
My fiance says this all the time but I don't take him serious. Now I see his deeply into me.
@@lillianmashego8249 My husband too. Isn’t it wonderful to have that kind of love in our lives? Spontaneous HUGGS of gratitude do wonders to give back to such a man.
I’ve never had this but one day, God will bring me to this man.
I was married for 54 years to the man I adored and who adored me. It only ended when he died at the age of 81. They broke the mould when they made him. He was amazing. He said beautiful things to me and I felt so loved. My life is worthless without him in it.
I wud feel loved nd spreciated
My man said these words to me... I am so proud about my man
I’ve heard these same questions from a narcissist and they use the answers as weapons 😔
Yes!! It is true, I knew my husband when I was 21, since then he is my protector, always taking care of me, but I protect him too, I think is something reciprocate. Now I am 43, and we still love each other. ❤
My narcissistic ex husband that I was married to for 22 years has never said any of these things
I have lived lived with a man who acted like he loved me more that life... Only to find out that he was a liar,,, 10 years of cheating and lie after lie... I am now away from him,,, my heart ♥ is soooooo crushed, but I feel like such a fool because I honestly believed that he loved me... We bought an RV and totally remodeled it, I worked sooooo hard to make it JUST Gorgeous.. I recently found out that before we moved in it he had a woman in it doing Drugs... I am soooooo hell I can't even put it into words... I will never ever be the same. 😢😢😢
Your exactly right. If we dont allow our men to embrace their manlyness, they start to wonder, what does she need me for. We have to allow them to take care of some things at times. For an independent woman, who does everything by herself, this is very challenging. Mine says, i want you to be happy and not worry about anything, i will take care of it.
That’s a good man.. A keeper 🤗
I never had a man have deep love for me.....😢
@@jjdjj5392 It happens to everyone, the ones who have a high respect for themselves, will happen to them alot. To attract a man, you must allow him to feel like hes hunting you. Be nice but dont always be available for them and their becking call, keep living your life on your own path......I trigger the hunt in men naturally everytime because i dont yearn for relationships i have always been a loner and value my independence.....Takes a pretty special guy who doesnt conform to society norms for me to turn my head! Its common for me to be single for atleast 3 years after a relationship because i miss doing my own thing. It will happen to you too 🥰🥰
With the right man, you don't have any issues letting them help you and be there for you, secure relationship. I would never let a man do for me if I am not interested without communicating and making sure they know that, not to take advantage of someone's feelings, emotions and not exploit that. Even for independent women. I think we have to be independent or stubborn about such things against those who are neglectful and unkind. Nothing is more annoying and frustrating than someone who acts supportive, acts as though they truly desire to help you and they turn around and resent you for it :/ it is the biggest mess up or they insist on lecturing you over and over how much they had to sacrifice for you out of obligations and not sincere desires
My husband of 26 years is still doing it ❤
A rare species...
My man was a few words person but he protected me from fear and he fixed everything in my life and he died 2yrs ago and i miss him every day
mine died 8 mos ago... still in my grief period /sorry for ur loss
@@carrang-r9w my dear what I learned in griefshare class we will mourn loved ones for all time but the intensity of sorrow lessens I have found that to be true but it takes awhile give yourself grace and grieve how YOU need to grieve we all grieve differently don't rush the process lean into the pain cuz that'd how you get thru it also talk to Dr if it gets too much cuz you might need antidepressant for awhile I did and don't need to now ppl will say hurtful things but they mean we'll they don't know how to comfort you so give them grace honey this is a devastating loss but you'll get thru not over but thru I care and sending prayers and hoping the best for you you'll make it
I really appreciated how quickly you stated the 12 signs. You kept on point. Thank you!
How very generous of you to enlighten us females on this important aspect of life and love. What I liked equally, was no unnecessary gaps of wasting time, got all information in order. Thank-You. Even seniors can learn from this, never too late.
Mine asked me to be his Companion. We are both fircely independent and want our own space. However we both say these things to each other frequently and lookout for and take care of each other. At this point in time it's the perfect relationship and we do care for and love each other.❤
@@jleighmeridyth844 Loving someone and caring for each other doesn’t mean being attached at the hip.
I am blessed with my man who has all these qualities . Thankyou for this loving truth
I love when he makes me feel safe & my feelings matter often😊
He's done 5 of the 12 and we've been an official couple for a few weeks after casually dating for a couple months. Seems to be heading in the right direction. Thanks for the info!
Yes
I had men who did say most or all of things mentioned here but marriage never happened. Now I am with a man that only dies 3/4 things and he acts like a child. He wants me to run after him and talk to him like a baby. And he all the times gives me that he wants marriage.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
My Man is Awesome . He says all these things and more . He has told me that he never knew he could Love again until I came into his Life. I Love him so very much and he Loves me the same.
I AM 84 & I HAVE NEVER HAD ANYONE SAY THOSE WORDS TO ME - BUT I REALIZE THAT I HAVE SAID THEM TO OTHER PEOPLE!!! THANKS FOR MAKING THE LIST SO EASY TO SEE!!! RK
OTHER PEOPLE
Same here.Never heard any of this
Hope you found happiness
I'm 75 and I haven't heard these words either. Early in our relationship, I told my husband I didn't want any lip service or doing something because of guilt - I want action to show he cares.
The only love you receive is the love you give !!❤
Sometimes we give and give and give and do not get. It just isn't there, not even after many, many years of marriage.
Oh my goodness, my love has said all of these things from day one...14 months later, and he's still saying them❤❤❤
He took good notes!
THAT's a Keeper!!
My guy was saying all these things but he ended up marrying another woman 😭😭😭 I have been crying for months now
Boo hoo 😢 😂🤣🤣
That last heartbreak was your blessing. U got this💃🏾
I'm happy that I'm strong now 💪 trying to move on with my life
What an awful thing to if he strung you along 😞 deliberately. Makes you wonder how sincere he is with the other woman too ? But you wouldn't want him back. Some men flip-flop around causing havoc & unrest in other's lives
There is not a guarantee on a clear set of rules..
My husband acts like we are always competing. He acts like we are rivals. He has never ever defended me in any situation ever. He always tells me that I can defend myself.
He does say I love you 100 times a day.
We have been married for 42 years. He says he’s completely happy, but I am not. I feel un-loved and un-appreciated 90 % of the time.
It is not what he says, it is what he does that counts. X
😢❤
Same here...and I've been married almost 45 years. It's sad, isn't it.
hugs
I relate to the competing dynamic you note in your paragraph. My marriage with that dynamic lasted only 4 years! You are patient.
My precious man has said all of these things!!
JJ is the love of my life❤ I feel very BLESSED!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this with us Brody!!!
I found a guy , he said all of theses things to me. I fell in love with him, then he ran away from me no explanation. He even kept calling me by his last name and told me he wanted me to wear a white dress and heels. He was not very tall and he he was happy I could wear heels and still be shorter than he was. He made much less than I do and his mother is mean, so people wondered why I would even want him. But he made me so happy, I didn’t care if he had money or not. We talked about where we wanted to do and whether we wanted kids or not, we decided that we would just be us and borrow family members children. He helped me wrap all the gifts for my class and said it’s like we are married with kids and wrapping all the presents for our kids. He came early to watch the kid’s opening them. I don’t understand what happened.
Some men get scared when things get too real. They feel vulnerable, inadequate, or so afraid of what might happen that they decide to quit before they lose us. Also, they listen to everything we say and pick up on things in our tone and language that can make them feel unsafe. A lot of men won't admit it, but they have as many fears and insecurities as we do.
So how can they become our heroes when they run away and disappear from additional responsibilities 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢???
You need Jesus
I'm 70 starting in a new relationship and I hear the majority of these things so far so far especially I've got this babe . oh and he's also younger than I am
Very true. I feel so safe with my husband. God blessed me with a handsome and a very good hearted man. Man after God’s own heart. I dedicate this video to my husband sai dutt madisetty.Thank you Jesus for your blessing. In Jesus name Amen.❤❤❤❤❤❤
8:45 I just fell in love with a man who says all these things, he’s amazing 🤩 I’ve never been treated so well!❤
Girls trust your intuition it never lies every woman knows deep down if he really loves her or not ……
@lalom369 Even so girls, Some men are Masters at lying, so Beware!
I have never had any man ask me " why are you feeling that way?" Come to think of it, I have never heard half the things on this list. I have a loving husband & we love each other. Been together 28 years. But, my guy is from a different generation from years ago.
Mine too, going on 50 years. Never said most of this.
I have a friend who does everything for me.he does everything to make me happy.we were friends everysince i only started seeing him lately, but he doesn't express his self like that
Im so blessed to have a good man in my life now. He takes initiative to fix things or just to hold me tight through bad days. 3 years i was abused by a narcissist.
I think my boyfriend must have listened to this program. You are describing him!!!
Lucky you!
Or he says" you've got this" because he wants the lady to know she has the power to do whatever she wants to do or not do.
Congratulations to those of you that has such man
I wish.🤔
I have been with my partner more then 20yrs and I can't remember him saying most of these things ever but I have said them all.😭🤯👎
I had a narcissist ex that would say most of all these things and pretending the whole time until the real him was exposed 😢
I love the people who take killer notes and summarize the video!! You're the best!! ❤
I have carved out a clear positive roadmap to my heart. He has always been my hero. After 30 years of waiting we finally joined and he switched me with his dog and a nasty alcoholic addiction that was constantly causing me to breakdown. Constantly being different. I had to go I was wasting and he’s now taking these steps. I’ve shared all of this information before it got to where I had to step away to allow him to show real change. Domestic violence child/adult survivors are not supposed to be treated like this and you are worth more than a dog. Not throw your pearls before dogs or swine for they may turn around and tremble your pearls and tear you apart.
I am looking forward to these statements in my next relationship. Thank you
Thank you so much for this I am seeing someone and I can say it’s truly a special and deep connection he ask me every day how are you doing before anything else, I want you to smile and I can feel it 🙏 am very happy never had this before am full of gratitude ❤
Fist timer...I have been single for many many years. I am ready to put myself back out there. Can you give me some tips on what to say, not say. Do and not do. I am so crazy nervous to put myself out there again as I was so so hurt by my ex. How do I trust again so it doesn't get in the way of future happiness. Thank you for any advice
I appreciate you do not bread crumb us in this video! Appreciate the no over talking. Direct & to the point. Thank you❤
You are so welcome!
Not sure…hmm…what if a man says all these things, but only pretends, in other words manipulates your trust? How to know the difference? Besides that this man might be married (which on the other hand doesn’t mean he is unable to love and perhaps the marriage is on its decline), what other factors are helpful to determine whether to stay away from flattery? Oh, why can’t people be just simply open and sincere?!
It’s all in the way you feel when you’re around him. Use your decrement
Thanks for this coaching, bless your heart. Do you personnel, concilng.
1. I gat you
2. I will fix it for you
3.Tell me when you need anything
4. How are you feeling
5. Why are you feeling that way
6. ....
All these things go hand in hand with actions. Most men that hit on mi have said them buh a few have put them in practice
Saying it is one thing
Doing it is another
When my love and i met ..within 5 minutes he was telling me he has never loved anyone ever as beautiful as me i am ...he had lost trust in all other eomen until he met me he ssid ..honesty,loving him for who he is was whar he needed i will always love only him was what i told him ..hes so in love with me because his heart is overwhelmed by my loving words of kindness..he has gotten his love and pride back from my loving him so much ..he has now told me we are getting married this year ❤ men need kindness and true love and pride everyday ❤
Wish full thinking
When a .
Man is not honest walk a way don't waist your time with him
I’m going to subscribe because you’re one of the very few guys who speaks with sincerity and intelligence on these subjects. I feel you respect your audience. I think you are going to really stand out because of this. Best of luck to you. From Cleveland. . ☘️🍒✅
My jaw just dropped. The man in my life is the first one to hit every one of your 12 signs. Now I understand a big part of why we are so close and why he’s so deeply embedded in my heart. Thank you for your channel.
Your so lucky if you have a man to protect and love you
Thank you all for your heartfelt comments. I had no idea my comment would receive such an influx of responses. I appreciate your kindness, empathy and kind words, and words of encouragement and hope. God bless you all. And no matter what happens one can be content at any age, single or married. There's a higher purpose in our lives and we all just have to seek it and receive the most fulfillment it can offer. God bless you all!!
After two narcissistic relationships, im ready to throw in the towel on any relationship with a man. ❤
Oops. FERVENT PRAYER WILL POLISH UP YOUR TARNISHED OPINION TO GIVE AN OPEN CLEARER CHANCE FOR WELL BEING AND HUMAN KINDNESS.
I have a long distance relationship all that you said here he said all the 12 things for me. We both feel we've known each other in the past lives and he also said we are experiencing Twin Flames and we are embarking this journey together. I have not met him yet in 3 months I will be seeing him after almost 2 years of dating online! Thank you for this video it really help me knowing that he is deeply in love with me! ❤❤❤
Thank you for your statement. I’m on an online relationship too. We text everyday and send photos to each other. My situation is just like yours.
Words need to match with actions, some men will say that because they know what you want to hear or is proper to say but not with the right intentions. If your man tell you this matching with actions... Congrats🎉👏 if not, don't fall too fast, some men know how to play the love game.
Some of those lines a men can say them without being romantically interested just trying to be nice. Depending the situation. Besides some men aren't good expressions emotions others do. If your men is good expressing them congrats🎉
You’re perfectly right lol. Maybe during 1920’s to 1950*s it was genuine. Not nowadays lol but it is really nice to hear those words. Easy to say but to put it in actions??? Continuously??? Smell the coffee lol or you’re watching TV too much lol
And lots of Men don’t say those words But they are the best husbands or bf. 🙏👍😜❤️
@@florenciomendoza1212 True! Nowdays genuine loving relationships it's been shown very easy because social media or dating apps, make them look like your in a department store 😆 all is mess up. Some people not all, want easy love just because they want attention or look for the love they cannot give to themselves, sad but true 😒😞
The stories that our Baby Boomers Parents told us are sometimes impossible to find in this modern love life.
Amen "deeds not words"
My future husband everyday asks me these questions ..he's very caring at all times almost everytime ..he loves to make sure I'm doing well and I ask the same for him ❤ our love is so deep he does not want me unhappy ..he always cares deeply
Thank you so much for this. I see that he has been doing these things. This is someone who has expressed interest in me. It was hard for me to understand his actions at first because I didn't grow up with a strong masculine presence in my home. I have always been independent and grew up around independent women so this is new.
My ex boyfriend said all these things but he was already engaged to another girl before meeting me which I wasn’t aware of, got married without informing me.🙂
Ooow sorry Beib ,,men are ungrateful
@@loycekachy3370 indeed
You’re going to find someone better ❤
That was nice of him !
Needless to say he has no respect for his wife, nor himself.
People tend to treat others as they see themselves eg if they mistrust the world 🌎 they might be untrustworthy themselves
I hear ya!
Thank you for loving me and protecting me
My sweet husband didn't say hardly (and still doesn't) say any of these things to me, but does continue to say, "I love you" a lot. Every man is different. But, his actions speak louder than words. Still together after 22 years...and counting ❤
I can relate to this. My man isn't mushy. 😂
But he says other things and does things that show me.
In my comment I even said I guess actions speak louder than words in my case. 😂
We've been together for just about 9 yrs.
I feel sorry for men cuz being a woman, even I realize all women are different and men have to figure each of them out, as we do with our friends. We are complicated. We have to TELL him who we are.
I'm 69 and never experienced anything like that married for almost 31 years and still don't get kind of love from my husband i have given up on true love too old to be bothered just waiting for when my God calls me home He is the only one who truly loves me happy for all who found your true love love enjoy 🎉❤
He sent me this and yet when I tell him what I need it never changes ❤❤
My man has done and does all these things. He’s amazing 🤩
Thank you for this.
Actions speak louder than words.
Thanks for the Positive Energy and Motivation, knowing and Trusting a person who will always there for you, not taking you for granted.
My husband has never been like that.He seemd not to be aware of that. The problem was that he seemed to be very clumsy and never thinking about to help anyone. he grow up in Indonesia and there where servens for averything in life But now I realise what I missed in our marrigde Thank you for the reading
Yes...that's what he said n does...he even wants to come n meet me n my family n marry me...❤ thanks for all your advice..
What about “how are you doing”?
Stumbled apon this 😂
42 years of marriage. Yes. My husband is all this. He could have tought this.
Lucky you!
I didn’t realize so many people had perfect partners or husbands… very rarely do you hear this. And I did not experience it.
Don't be disheartened, meditate on where you're going wrong
Yeah, explains why the good ones are taken already
I have seen it 2 or 3 times, most men are not this.
I'm married just less then 2months what ever this guy is saying absolutely right every thing he's saying I keep on hearing from my husband he said it to me or during our conversation 😊he says l just love my man ❤❤❤❤
My crush says them but doesn't act on it. Can't stand him anymore pulled back.
You wisely followed your gut feeling
I am 62 and have been ask these questions so many times but answer them all the time it's new to me also
Thanks for the video,it made me to feel blessed having my man bcos that's everything that he says to me❤
then they will try to kill you
Words mean absolutely nothing. Actions speak louder than words.
More baloney. I know men who say these things and cheat at every opportunity. Cheating isn't love. Cheating is just cheating.
He said “and his actions matches his words”
Yes mine said all these things and proposed even but, neglected to tell that he was married.
😂right on!!!
The integrity is essential in these comments. I broke up from a narcississtic engagement to a man who said most of these things. But it was control, manipulation, domination...little to no action. Empty words, lies, betrayals, ... It was devastating and so confusing because his words were not from an honorable and honest heart. Healing and trusting takes so long to come. I am skeptical of practically everything now.
Wow I have been talking to a man for seven months and that's how he talks to me and he tell me he love I have never had a man do or say all that to me everyday
This man I am with now has surprised me in ways I can not believe. The 1st time he said, "You're mine " I was a little scared. I didnt if it was a possession thing. He has been so good to me. However a few things arent perfect, but I know he loves me. Deeply. We can discuss our love for each other. We can discuss our feelings, our time together and enjoy it. Hes not rich. He is amazing. Hard working. He has value unlike some men today. Ive learned that money doesnt make the man, the man makes the man.
Nothing is scared in this day an age. Long gone are those days
There are still a few, not many who hold things sacred ❤
These are all true, but more importantly he will align his words with his behaviors. Actions speak louder…and if words don’t align then it’s just love bombing and superficial future faking. Discerning the difference is really important.