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11: I don''t love her anymore. 12. I only knew her for three months and haven't seen her since we "broke up". 13. I love you, not her. 14. You have nothing to worry about. 15. I'm only interested in godly, modest women. 16. I don't use p*rn. 17. I'm more attracted to you now than when we first met. 18. I will always love you. 19. I would never intentionally hurt you. 20. I'd never lie to you.
The porn one gets me... even if they don't watch porn hub... they still watch dirty movies which is tv porn!! You're still getting aroused watching people have sex!!! And they look at women half dressed on social media.. soft core porn.
1. I don't find other women attractive.. 2. I've never felt this way before.. 3. Lies about his Health.. 4. I'll promise I'll change.. 5. I've never cheated.. 6. Your past doesn't matter to me.. 7. I'm single.. 8. Money and Status.. 9. We have so much in common.. 10. Body count..
Heard all of them. Currently married for thirty one years to the only man who hasn’t lied to me. Trust me, I’m as cynical as they come. lol! I would KNOW.
Comments ; 1 So he's blind. 2 He was born yesterday. 3 How about cryptonite ? 4 And pigs can fly... 5 Then why bring it up ? 6 You're easy prey... 7 You mean normally ? 8 Golddigger. 9 As in from the moment we met ? 10 He's capt. Bluebeard's grandson.... 🧟 (😂)
With my experiences, dating a new man is always wonderful up until six months or so. They put on a fake façade and tell you everything you want to hear. You feel as if you hit the jackpot! After six months, they morph into the real self….. at last now you know why they were single to begin with!
Since my divorce 16 years ago i stayed alone for many years and did not put myself out there. In the past 2 years i have tried dating and it has failed. Just hearing these things makes me feel that my decision in staying single still is a great idea.
Same here. Divorced 6 years. So glad I've found this channel, and a couple others. So much I didn't know in the past. Unless a miracle happens, I'm not interested in all the effort (read: trouble/hassle) it takes to have & maintain a relationship. I don't see how I ever could trust any man. What a waste of time. I'm happy just hanging out with my dogs.
My god....this is so depressing to me. I am divorced with no kids. Been single a long time. I want to meet someone and start dating but just don't know how to go about it. Seems like there are alot of jerks out there.
@@Gotoworkkk Because I don't want to spend the next 15 years alone. It sucks. I am a good, honest decent person. There has to be some like minded guy like me. Just might take me awhile to find him.
@Prairiegirl3If they don't get along how did they started relationship in the first place. Don't break up after first problem. Relationships can never be ideal.
One of the biggest is, "She's just a friend." If she lives in another state or country and they only communicate once in a while by email or on Fakebook, okay. If they meet at all in person, one of them doesn't feel the other is just a friend.
well a woman needs a man, just like a dog needs its owner. just like a man needs god. youre a goddamn rib. if you are a genuine original woman, then im sorry for all the men (boys) you have to deal with
WOW! A man who tells it like it is! If only someone had given this information during my first 20 years of life. These ten truths took me eighty years to learn, the hard way.
I believe in paying a private eye to investigate him if he seems to be a contender; schooling, credit, criminal, and marital. If he lied about something, he can lie about everything.
Nope I met both extremes. One lied about everything and cheated. Some lied so ovously that I dutch them immediately. Others were great but not for me. And my husband who never lies. We attract what we think we deserve unconsciously...
Gracias for your input! I’m a single mom raising a teen boy & teaching him how to be a true gentleman & how to treat a girl. The way a son treats his mom I believe is the way he will treat his girlfriend/wife! So my son will be a one of a kind amazing husband to a very blessed wife someday! 🙏🏻❤️
Men fall in love faster than women. That’s a fact. Personally, I can make men fall in love 2-3 weeks if we are hanging out regularly. It’s not hard to do if you understand human psychology. The difference between the ones that have fallen in love and the ones that are lying is in their actions. The ones that have fallen in love shows through constant consistent effort, while the ones lying will just profess with empty words (with no actions, intimacy and affection).
The constant consistent effort coming from a man sometimes has nothing to do with love. Last year I met the dream man. Everything about him and his actions was 10+. BUT it turned out, his intentions were just draining my bank account....
@@caterinaivanova3253 it’s constant effort accompanied with certain energies and body language that would tell you that he is into you. If a man is giving you constant effort, attention, and accepting your cash in the beginning stages of your connection, he’s digging for gold. What I am talking about is different.
@@caterinaivanova3253did he consistently invested in you with his own money? If not that’s a red flag you missed. A man that accepts/asks a woman’s money is a walking a red flag.
Your first one isnt entirely true. Im demi. I literally dont find anyone other than my partner attractive. It makes traditional dating very difficult because I dont feel any kind of physical attraction until I have a strong emotional bond with them. And once that bond is severed I lose all physical attraction to them. It doesn't matter how sexy or beautiful you are. You could be totally naked in front of me but if there is no emotional connection then I am looking at you the same way I would a plank of wood. I feel no attraction. I felt out of place for so long because people perpetuate that its a universal truth that men work like that. That we are constantly horny and attracted to everyone. That we'll fuck anything with two legs. I thought that I was incapable of love and being loved because I never experienced those things. Turns out I was just Demi and its entirely normal.
Me too!!! I thought little old me was strange!! When married I only seen him..he was a narc!!! Abandoned me and the kids and healed now and dating! Once I fall in love it’s over as no one and I mean I see NO ONE! That’s love! I haven’t a clue as the world is so sick and need of help. Sad dark times
@@morningglory9288 Demi is a type of sexuality, or it can describe romantic attraction. The prefix Demi means half, so think of Demisexual like halfway between Asexual (someone who doesn't experience any sexual attraction) and Allosexual ("normal" people who experience typical sexual attraction). A Demiromantic or Demisexual will only ever experience romantic feelings or sexual attraction towards someone in very specific circumstances. Typically being emotional attachment.
Could be our expectations are too high. Realize no one is perfect. Give guys a good chance to prove their worth before casting them out as a waste of time.
Good instructions wise young handsome man! 💖 When we were young, I asked my husband how he felt about other women. He replied that the world is full of beautiful people, and every minute he falls in love with someone, forgetting her when he turns his head away from her. We have been together for 50 years now. 🥰
I am kinda confused if i find other people attractive that doesn't mean cheating right? But my girlfriend said if i find other people attractive it's cheating. I love her but how can I explain it to her. Any suggestions please 😭😭
@@shaktimishra9710 I'm bad at languages, I hope you understand my text: Your girlfriend is afraid of being left behind. Me too when I was young. But my husband said, “You have to understand now that you are the winner and I don't want to be with others, you are number 1. What is important, we also had similar values and philosophy of life and appreciated each other and great sexual attraction. In addition, we had a strong spiritual connection and telepathy. They all glued us together. If you have those important unifying factors, tell her about them. And tell her how special she is. He got the jealousy out of me when he said he couldn't stand it, and that the only reason he would leave me, because of that jealousy. I understood that I am a winner and that I too see handsome men, attractive, but he is still number one for many reasons. - I hope you get some help from this situation.
@shaktimishra9710 attractive people are everywhere. Would she think she was cheating on you if she found another guy extremely nice-looking? Put that across to her, make her see that just because you find other women attractive, it's not like you're going to jump in bed with them. It seems to me your girlfriend is very insecure with or own self worth, and she needs to concentrate more on building up her self-esteem.
No. 4 "I promise l'll change" -true change happens if the individual has an aneurysm or head injury that effectively wipes out the "data" in their brain that made up their personality. Ladies, if you're drawn to men that needs "fixing" that's an indicator that you need to work on yourself. Best of luck!
I wish I knew this a long time ago; it would have saved me a lot of heartache. I was lied and deceived to by every single guy. The worse were the last two who both said they were single, but really weren't.
Don't forget the lie that many older men use. Their age. I know two narcissists who took ten years off their age when engaging in online dating apps. Both of them married. If they tell you this one lie, there will be many more to come.
Heh, heh, it’s not that women don’t tell fibs about their age, is it? That’s why I like East Asia. Telling fibs about your age is a social no no there.
@@penguinvic9892ok but he just said he knows men that do it and that famous Asian lady that says she’s 18 has been said to lie about her age idk what the point is grow up
@@brettgarandza683, I actually make sure. I don't like to assume. I usually listen to my intuition and then seek to confirm it. I'm really not a worldly person, so I approach personal things differently.
@@brettgarandza683 , I don't date anyone just because I see him all the time, I don't go to clubs or bars looking for a date or hook up. I don't go to work looking for such as well.I actually don't drink because it's not a good taste or feeling. Most people use drinking as an excuse for negative behavior and/or choices. Same thing when it comes to drugs. Just not in me to use such substances. If I feel under the weather I take meditation, not medication 🙏 😌 🙂 I do like smoking tobacco though! It seems like most males strongly dislike females smoking tobacco. I'm strict and hard on myself. I have rules and boundaries set upon myself. I love the beautiful things in life such as travel, enjoying nature, constantly learning positive things in life or some history that helps understand the world today. Most people are not interested in constantly learning and becoming mentally and emotionally mature. Majority stay in the circle of life, which is the same routine for the majority, even in other countries. Stay safe in this world.
Thank you for sharing this. I have had some very painful relationships with guys who lied about almost everything including being single .one guy had 🎉a girlfriend the whole time who was in om him using me for whatever he could get and though i did feel that something wasn't right, i wanted so much to believe him..until his lies were so obvious i couldnt lie to myself anymore. I ended that relationship several years ago ,though it was a painful experience ,i learned how to enjoy my own company and be more discerning.
I don't think someone lying about his health does think of "then my partner can't leave me". Usually it's the "how can I not do what my partner wants but have someone else do what I want"
From reading comments I'm amazed how so many similar problems are also true for women. The only conclusion I arrive to is to spend less time on the Internet, where most of the comments are negative experiences (either from women or from men).
Finding others attractive is one thing honestly. But imaging himself with her sexually or romantically another. People will always find others attractive but that should never make them neglece their partners emotionally and physically.
Thank you Ismael. As usual your videos are insightful and thorough. I can't wait for your next one. If you can please continue to help us females understand men better so we can create more healthy relationships. Men can be quite confusing.
I think men can find women confusing too. That's why there's that old saying: Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. They both speak different languages 😂
Keep doing what you do walking the path is the ones I follow, Im glad you help those in counseling but you never know if they are telling the truth...you must have had wonderful upbringing
Thanks Ismael for your tips. Good, healthy reminder. As I listened to you, the item about cheating....my experience us that " cheating" varies a lot as to how men admit to cheating. What he sees as actual " Cheating. So he may be honest in relation to what he believes is " cheating". When it comes to cheating, both men and women can be " flexible" when it comes to self assessment. More important I think to be clear as to what you both regard as " cheating" and go from there.
If a man mentions a womans name he works with more than a couple times with kind of an air of interest watch out! If you truly want to know, pray in ernest ans you will find out. Just a word of warning. Be prepared with what you find out.
With me and my partner of nearly 7 years, being open and realistic about everything truly helps. We'll even make jokes about actors or actresses we're attracted to, knowing that we see it in others. As far as him being ill, I have to encourage him to even see a doctor after he's clearly sprained his ankle. We aren't married yet; he was emotionally abused his first marriage and my own parents marriage ended horrifically....my father killed my mother - February 15, 2009. She wanted a divorce because she caught him cheating. You see, both of us have trauma that we are healing from, but we've been healing together. He's my best friend foremost. Even if it takes another 7 years (took my aunt and uncle in law 16 years to get married) then, that's fine by me. Just my opinion and input 🙏🏿❤
Hello Ismael, I am a new subscriber to your videos. Great education for me since I just started to date on line. I would like to point out No. 8 Money and Status.....This one man is actually telling me that he is home poor, worth upper six figure in home equity, his lifestyle as a vegan and being self-sufficient from his land where he lives makes sense, but to me something is still off. The guy is very, I mean very charming, intellectual and eloquent, simply beyond believes and full of compliments. However, he doesn't know that I am aware and cautious. How do I proceed? These guys, if I am right about my intuition should be put out of their misery before them truly hurt someone. What is your best advice? Thank you so much. Your videos are so helpful, keep up good work.
I used to love a married man and became totally addicted to him. Although I knew he used me physically I still couldn’t stop. After five years, five years I finally got out of it
# 4 goes in the face of all the trad nonsense out there along the lines of "nobody's perfect," there's no "soulmate," "people "grow together, can't expect to find them made for you." This is dangerous thinking that needs a lot more clarification. A couple must be a good match from the start as a prerequisite for them to bond and grow together. Absent natural compatibility and symbiosis, the two will most likely grow apart. Contrary to "trad" nonsense out there, compatibility is found/matched, not made. Many people, however, make the mistake to seek qualities that others/society find desirable (he must be a good provider and a "nice guy"), not what would be compatible with them, personally. They look for what they (think they) must want in a partner, not for what they actually need based on who they are. Bonnie needed Clyde and they were both bad. Great match. A person below average in intellect may want another high in intellect for other reasons that come with high IQ (success, etc)- but that doesn't mean this is the kind of partner they actually need (or needs them). The "Great Catch" paradigm is fatal. Only the "Great Match" works.
Here is my answers to the lies that you mentioned. 1. I am only attracted to Asian women, and I make it well known even when it makes me enemies of people who don't look similar to Asian women. 2. It depends on what the subject is about. 3. I never lie about my health, and I don't allow others to change it. 4. I am changing everyday 5. I am upfront from the beginning 6. I won't tell someone that their past doesn't matter, I make them come out with their past. 7. I truly am single 8. They will end up needing to earn this information. 9. If I say this, I truly mean it, and if someone gives me the look like they don't believe what I say, I challenge them to a sparring match. 10. I tell what my body count is from the beginning, and am proud of it, because I truly am a virgin.
I’ve been married over 30 years, even when we’re dating, I have always pointed out attractive women to him, it’s ok for him to look. I know who he’s coming home too.
“by the time you swear you’re his shivering and sighing and he sears his passion is infinite, undying lady make a note of this One of you is lying” - Dorothy Parker
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@@solofemaletravelermedon't die as a disbeliever
Tattoo not allowed
11: I don''t love her anymore.
12. I only knew her for three months and haven't seen her since we "broke up".
13. I love you, not her.
14. You have nothing to worry about.
15. I'm only interested in godly, modest women.
16. I don't use p*rn.
17. I'm more attracted to you now than when we first met.
18. I will always love you.
19. I would never intentionally hurt you.
20. I'd never lie to you.
21. Nobody else could be the father. (Sorry, that one goes the other way)
The porn one gets me... even if they don't watch porn hub... they still watch dirty movies which is tv porn!! You're still getting aroused watching people have sex!!! And they look at women half dressed on social media.. soft core porn.
@@Alex_Riddlessuicide not allowed
Tattoo not allowed
😂😂😂😂
1. I don't find other women attractive..
2. I've never felt this way before..
3. Lies about his Health..
4. I'll promise I'll change..
5. I've never cheated..
6. Your past doesn't matter to me..
7. I'm single..
8. Money and Status..
9. We have so much in common..
10. Body count..
Heard all of them. Currently married for thirty one years to the only man who hasn’t lied to me. Trust me, I’m as cynical as they come. lol! I would KNOW.
@@cheesygalsuicide not allowed
Tattoo not allowed
I have been there thanks to lying men
Comments ;
1 So he's blind.
2 He was born yesterday.
3 How about cryptonite ?
4 And pigs can fly...
5 Then why bring it up ?
6 You're easy prey...
7 You mean normally ?
8 Golddigger.
9 As in from the moment we met ?
10 He's capt. Bluebeard's
grandson.... 🧟 (😂)
“If he’ll cheat for you, he’ll cheat on you.” --Old Southern proverb
Dog not allowed ect
Tattoo not allowed
@@LisaJones-xk6xz What are you on about?
@@Debbie338 fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 never ends for disbelievers
@@Debbie338 don't die as a disbeliever
With my experiences, dating a new man is always wonderful up until six months or so. They put on a fake façade and tell you everything you want to hear. You feel as if you hit the jackpot! After six months, they morph into the real self….. at last now you know why they were single to begin with!
Suicide not allowed
Sounds depressing lol
This why I wait for the 2 year mark to make my decision.
Then a phase comes when a woman doesn't interested at all in man's personality...
Mine didn’t even last for 3 days
Since my divorce 16 years ago i stayed alone for many years and did not put myself out there. In the past 2 years i have tried dating and it has failed. Just hearing these things makes me feel that my decision in staying single still is a great idea.
Just have strong boundaries
Same here. Divorced 6 years. So glad I've found this channel, and a couple others. So much I didn't know in the past. Unless a miracle happens, I'm not interested in all the effort (read: trouble/hassle) it takes to have & maintain a relationship. I don't see how I ever could trust any man. What a waste of time. I'm happy just hanging out with my dogs.
@nancyk5203 I hear ya, I have a good, peaceful life and my kitty. Do not need much more.
My god....this is so depressing to me. I am divorced with no kids. Been single a long time. I want to meet someone and start dating but just don't know how to go about it. Seems like there are alot of jerks out there.
I gave up. And I don’t regret it.
@@Deborah-so8mv I hear you. To each their own. I did the single thing for 15 years. Done with that. Got to be some good guys out there.
Stay away from a man that’s into p#rn, it will destroy your relationship.
It’s so not worth the aggravation…… why even bother if you know you’re better single?
@@Gotoworkkk Because I don't want to spend the next 15 years alone. It sucks. I am a good, honest decent person. There has to be some like minded guy like me. Just might take me awhile to find him.
If its true that men fall in love faster, its also true that man's love has an earlier death.
Dog not allowed ect
Yeah coz men mostly fall in love based on physical appearance that’s why it’s faster
" Easy come , easy go".
@Prairiegirl3If they don't get along how did they started relationship in the first place. Don't break up after first problem. Relationships can never be ideal.
@@LisaJones-xk6xzLisa I’m confused, what’s with the not allowed comments?
I"m sorry, I'm too old, I'm tired, she's just a friend, I'm not on the dating sites ...I'm doubting everything at this point...
Same
@nicoleharrington9086 suicide not allowed
Suicide not allowed
This is me now. I already deleted all the apps that I thought could find a genuine person but I failed. Im done.
Me2 I known a guy he’s always lie and speak second day like nothing happens, so I give up and we dated 2 months too much lied
One of the biggest is, "She's just a friend." If she lives in another state or country and they only communicate once in a while by email or on Fakebook, okay. If they meet at all in person, one of them doesn't feel the other is just a friend.
Bam he had just a friend funny then he ghosted me
Tattoo not allowed
WE need true men to speak up.Dear one, your voice is so needed. Thank you. Blessings on women who do not tolerate LIARS.
Suicide not allowed
@@LisaJones-xk6xz you drunk or what?
I love my single life. I love my peace and quiet and doing what I want. Don’t need his money, body or bulls!ht.
well a woman needs a man, just like a dog needs its owner. just like a man needs god. youre a goddamn rib. if you are a genuine original woman, then im sorry for all the men (boys) you have to deal with
🙌🏻 same queen 👸🏻
Believe me u r experiencing heaven
I agree, you only need a man for a maintenance date. That's it. Most women are more of a man than any man I know. Tooooo many man-child !
@aakankshasingh947 don't die as a disbeliever
You’re the only one!!! I don’t believe anything out of anyone’s mouth without PROOF!!
Don't die as a disbeliever
OMG. Why even try. It hurts my brain to even consider navigating a relationship with another dude.
Me too.😂
What’s the use with these fools?
@@Deborah-so8mv They’re so crazy 🤪 and unstable
It's your freedom of choice
I hear you...
God bless you for educating women about love and relationships. .
Jesus was not killed nor jessu was crucified
Díky!
WOW! A man who tells it like it is! If only someone had given this information during my first 20 years of life. These ten truths took me eighty years to learn, the hard way.
So, what’s your dog’s name?
👍😉
@@DeborahThird-og1uo which one? Never found a good one. Should have stuck with the four legged ones. And, you?
Wow. Just wow. Yeah compare men to dogs. No wonder you've never found a "good one"
I believe in paying a private eye to investigate him if he seems to be a contender; schooling, credit, criminal, and marital. If he lied about something, he can lie about everything.
Dog not allowed ect
How much do you pay for private eye to check his background?
Mom and Grandma did a great job 👏🏽
Thank you for the insight ✨🙏🏽
This just made my day 🙏
Agreed! Great advice!
@@Portia620dog not allowed ect
@@SaveTheMessengerJesus was not killed nor jessu was crucified
Suicide not allowed
I also enjoy that your videos do not go on and on but teach a lesson in a enjoyable length of time❤
Jesus was not killed nor jessu was crucified
Jesus was not killed nor jessu was crucified
After years of bad experiences, I gave up, firmly believing they all lie.
All of them… 🤥
All women lie too
It's all they know. It's their DNA
Nope I met both extremes. One lied about everything and cheated. Some lied so ovously that I dutch them immediately. Others were great but not for me. And my husband who never lies. We attract what we think we deserve unconsciously...
Gracias for your input! I’m a single mom raising a teen boy & teaching him how to be a true gentleman & how to treat a girl. The way a son treats his mom I believe is the way he will treat his girlfriend/wife! So my son will be a one of a kind amazing husband to a very blessed wife someday! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you!! ❤🙏
@@Portia620 💕🙏🏻
😇🙏🏻❤️🍀🌎
You are right about that.
@@mits619 💕
SMART!! Character is better than wealth!!!
yes indeed
@@donnaatienza8001who is your lord grave first question
Fear Allah
Men fall in love faster than women. That’s a fact. Personally, I can make men fall in love 2-3 weeks if we are hanging out regularly. It’s not hard to do if you understand human psychology. The difference between the ones that have fallen in love and the ones that are lying is in their actions. The ones that have fallen in love shows through constant consistent effort, while the ones lying will just profess with empty words (with no actions, intimacy and affection).
@effortlesssuccess2585
Thank you for your insight
The constant consistent effort coming from a man sometimes has nothing to do with love. Last year I met the dream man. Everything about him and his actions was 10+. BUT it turned out, his intentions were just draining my bank account....
@@caterinaivanova3253 it’s constant effort accompanied with certain energies and body language that would tell you that he is into you. If a man is giving you constant effort, attention, and accepting your cash in the beginning stages of your connection, he’s digging for gold. What I am talking about is different.
That’s dangerous and unfair
@@caterinaivanova3253did he consistently invested in you with his own money? If not that’s a red flag you missed. A man that accepts/asks a woman’s money is a walking a red flag.
Every single thing that you have said is spot on! Thank you for the video! Positivity peace and love ♥️
Men in their late 30s/early 40s lie about everything under the sun. I gave up trying to find a partner. It's less stressful being alone.
Younger men in their 20s seem a lot better!
Your first one isnt entirely true. Im demi. I literally dont find anyone other than my partner attractive. It makes traditional dating very difficult because I dont feel any kind of physical attraction until I have a strong emotional bond with them. And once that bond is severed I lose all physical attraction to them. It doesn't matter how sexy or beautiful you are. You could be totally naked in front of me but if there is no emotional connection then I am looking at you the same way I would a plank of wood. I feel no attraction. I felt out of place for so long because people perpetuate that its a universal truth that men work like that. That we are constantly horny and attracted to everyone. That we'll fuck anything with two legs. I thought that I was incapable of love and being loved because I never experienced those things. Turns out I was just Demi and its entirely normal.
Me too!!! I thought little old me was strange!! When married I only seen him..he was a narc!!! Abandoned me and the kids and healed now and dating! Once I fall in love it’s over as no one and I mean I see NO ONE! That’s love! I haven’t a clue as the world is so sick and need of help. Sad dark times
Thank you!! Now I know what it is! I seriously thought eveyone was sick and ok I still think everyone is sick! 😂. I feel the same way!!!!
Whats Demi?
@@morningglory9288 Demi is a type of sexuality, or it can describe romantic attraction. The prefix Demi means half, so think of Demisexual like halfway between Asexual (someone who doesn't experience any sexual attraction) and Allosexual ("normal" people who experience typical sexual attraction). A Demiromantic or Demisexual will only ever experience romantic feelings or sexual attraction towards someone in very specific circumstances. Typically being emotional attachment.
@DandyDeishu thank you. I've never heard that expression before 🙂
I would never ask a man if he's attracted to other women. Don't put him in a position to lie
Brilliant point.
I wouldn't ask because I already know the answer 😂
@@UnashamedCaliforniagirlThis is so me😅
YOU ARE ONE OF THE BEST AMONG THE COACHES SIR. THANK YOU.
This just made my day 🙏
THIS GUY IS A CLOWN
I luv the way you talk. It's straight forward.
These are great facts.....very good advice.
Thank you so much.
THERE IS NOT ANY FACTS AT ALL
" true connections take time to form" true.
I love your videos ismael, True and trusted information💕
Glad you enjoy the content. Thanks.
Thank you for your wisdom and insight
"I promise I'll change" I believe it when I see it.
Thank you for getting right to the point! Good advice. Good video!
Much appreciated 🙌
You either love someone or you don't. Understanding human nature will make a relationship last. There will be lies. Decide which you can live with.
some lies you can live with, some not so much. Cheating thenconfessing I can go with, but continual denial and getting caught in the lies, NO.
Love your channel.❤
Oh men men, I haven’t met a decent one yet but I’m confident I will someday 😅❤
Jesus Christ is the best one ❤
I'm excited for your journey.
All the best
Could be our expectations are too high. Realize no one is perfect. Give guys a good chance to prove their worth before casting them out as a waste of time.
@@grettalemabouchou6779 I agree 💯
Good instructions wise young handsome man! 💖 When we were young, I asked my husband how he felt about other women. He replied that the world is full of beautiful people, and every minute he falls in love with someone, forgetting her when he turns his head away from her. We have been together for 50 years now. 🥰
I kept smiling as I read your comment.
I am kinda confused if i find other people attractive that doesn't mean cheating right? But my girlfriend said if i find other people attractive it's cheating. I love her but how can I explain it to her. Any suggestions please 😭😭
@@shaktimishra9710 I'm bad at languages, I hope you understand my text:
Your girlfriend is afraid of being left behind. Me too when I was young. But my husband said, “You have to understand now that you are the winner and I don't want to be with others, you are number 1.
What is important, we also had similar values and philosophy of life and appreciated each other and great sexual attraction. In addition, we had a strong spiritual connection and telepathy. They all glued us together. If you have those important unifying factors, tell her about them. And tell her how special she is.
He got the jealousy out of me when he said he couldn't stand it, and that the only reason he would leave me, because of that jealousy. I understood that I am a winner and that I too see handsome men, attractive, but he is still number one for many reasons.
- I hope you get some help from this situation.
@shaktimishra9710 attractive people are everywhere. Would she think she was cheating on you if she found another guy extremely nice-looking? Put that across to her, make her see that just because you find other women attractive, it's not like you're going to jump in bed with them. It seems to me your girlfriend is very insecure with or own self worth, and she needs to concentrate more on building up her self-esteem.
@@morningglory9288sounds like there’s no point in being with a man if they find many women attractive
Excellent video. 🎉 listen to this man for he speaks wisely. Don’t settle
Thank you, Christina.
No. 4 "I promise l'll change" -true change happens if the individual has an aneurysm or head injury that effectively wipes out the "data" in their brain that made up their personality.
Ladies, if you're drawn to men that needs "fixing" that's an indicator that you need to work on yourself. Best of luck!
Dog not allowed ect
Thank u for having balls to tell the truth from ur experiences.
Appreciate that🎉❤
❤ your videos! You are so right on point!!
Love is an action
Who is your lord grave first question
I wish I knew this a long time ago; it would have saved me a lot of heartache. I was lied and deceived to by every single guy. The worse were the last two who both said they were single, but really weren't.
Just found this channel. Thank you, this helps so much!
Don't forget the lie that many older men use. Their age. I know two narcissists who took ten years off their age when engaging in online dating apps. Both of them married. If they tell you this one lie, there will be many more to come.
I feel sorry for the women they're married to. Bloody cheaters
Heh, heh, it’s not that women don’t tell fibs about their age, is it?
That’s why I like East Asia. Telling fibs about your age is a social no no there.
@@penguinvic9892ok but he just said he knows men that do it and that famous Asian lady that says she’s 18 has been said to lie about her age idk what the point is grow up
He's single! 1 of the greatest lies in today's world, sadly.
That's why it nessary for both man and woman to know their patner properly before going on relationship
Do you just assume he is lying about being single or do you actually make sure? I am single and I’m not sure how many women just assume I’m lying.
@@brettgarandza683, I actually make sure. I don't like to assume. I usually listen to my intuition and then seek to confirm it. I'm really not a worldly person, so I approach personal things differently.
@@mysteriousme3006 What do you mean not worldly?
@@brettgarandza683 , I don't date anyone just because I see him all the time, I don't go to clubs or bars looking for a date or hook up. I don't go to work looking for such as well.I actually don't drink because it's not a good taste or feeling. Most people use drinking as an excuse for negative behavior and/or choices. Same thing when it comes to drugs. Just not in me to use such substances. If I feel under the weather I take meditation, not medication 🙏 😌 🙂 I do like smoking tobacco though! It seems like most males strongly dislike females smoking tobacco. I'm strict and hard on myself. I have rules and boundaries set upon myself. I love the beautiful things in life such as travel, enjoying nature, constantly learning positive things in life or some history that helps understand the world today. Most people are not interested in constantly learning and becoming mentally and emotionally mature. Majority stay in the circle of life, which is the same routine for the majority, even in other countries. Stay safe in this world.
Nice to hear some truth.
Thank you for sharing this. I have had some very painful relationships with guys who lied about almost everything including being single .one guy had 🎉a girlfriend the whole time who was in om him using me for whatever he could get and though i did feel that something wasn't right, i wanted so much to believe him..until his lies were so obvious i couldnt lie to myself anymore. I ended that relationship several years ago ,though it was a painful experience ,i learned how to enjoy my own company and be more discerning.
Wow, only knew a couple of these thank you for another video.
All humans are born as Muslim
I don't think someone lying about his health does think of "then my partner can't leave me". Usually it's the "how can I not do what my partner wants but have someone else do what I want"
Great advice for women
You always have good advice! Thank you so much
DONT BE A FOOL PAL
True change is usually only possible when you get tired of his BS and LEAVE BABYDOLL.
Jesus was not killed nor jessu was crucified
Thank you for these info. ;)
From reading comments I'm amazed how so many similar problems are also true for women.
The only conclusion I arrive to is to spend less time on the Internet, where most of the comments are negative experiences (either from women or from men).
Your so awesome in telling us the facts on point. Omg I’ve seen a man who says that, girls say ’im safe with you’. This is a blunder
Finding others attractive is one thing honestly. But imaging himself with her sexually or romantically another. People will always find others attractive but that should never make them neglece their partners emotionally and physically.
Lots of good advice in this video!
Thank you 😊
Thank you...
Love your videos I like that they are short🎉 thank you for sharing your wisdom
Your advice is very valuable
Thank you Ismael. As usual your videos are insightful and thorough. I can't wait for your next one. If you can please continue to help us females understand men better so we can create more healthy relationships. Men can be quite confusing.
Your comment made me smile. I appreciate you 😊
I think men can find women confusing too. That's why there's that old saying: Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. They both speak different languages 😂
@@morningglory9288 True. We can be confused and confusing too.
Spot on my friend !
Point. No.5.. Bang on !!!!!!
This video definitely needs more views! Awesome content that you’re creating for women ❤🎉😊
Thanks for making me smile today.
@@SaveTheMessenger You’re so welcome 💜💜💜
Thank you for this. So nice to hear something like this from a man’s perspective!
Great advice
Thank youu ❤❤
Keep doing what you do
walking the path is the ones I follow, Im glad you help those in counseling but you never know if they are telling the truth...you must have had wonderful upbringing
I appreciate you took the time to leave such a lovely comment.
Tattoo not allowed
Thank you
Thanks for the heads up! The man that deserves you will be rewarded!
That's the truth! Women often talk about how they can't find a actually good guy but the truth is actugood guy doesn't exists!
There are good men out there. But they are married.
I love you when they have known you for five minutes
Only ten, I think there is much more.
Thanks Ismael for your tips. Good, healthy reminder. As I listened to you, the item about cheating....my experience us that " cheating" varies a lot as to how men admit to cheating. What he sees as actual "
Cheating. So he may be honest in relation to what he believes is
" cheating". When it comes to cheating, both men and women can be " flexible" when it comes to self assessment. More important I think to be clear as to what you both regard as " cheating" and go from there.
I don't know how to express, but it is just painful when someone is lying to you 😢
"i am single"
Universal lie😂
How is this hard to believe? The share of sexless men under 30 is about 1/3. Unless you're dealing with a player.
Yup heard that one many times
I love Adam and Eve.
If a man mentions a womans name he works with more than a couple times with kind of an air of interest watch out! If you truly want to know, pray in ernest ans you will find out. Just a word of warning. Be prepared with what you find out.
TY 4 your brave topics.
Much appreciated 🙌
Ismael you are doing the lord’s work 🙌🏻 thank you for your service
So true
Thanks, this was academic level :)
With me and my partner of nearly 7 years, being open and realistic about everything truly helps. We'll even make jokes about actors or actresses we're attracted to, knowing that we see it in others. As far as him being ill, I have to encourage him to even see a doctor after he's clearly sprained his ankle. We aren't married yet; he was emotionally abused his first marriage and my own parents marriage ended horrifically....my father killed my mother - February 15, 2009. She wanted a divorce because she caught him cheating. You see, both of us have trauma that we are healing from, but we've been healing together. He's my best friend foremost. Even if it takes another 7 years (took my aunt and uncle in law 16 years to get married) then, that's fine by me. Just my opinion and input 🙏🏿❤
Yep! I've had some of these experiences. They were a waste of time, and energy. Whew! Glad I moved on.
Amo estas reflexiones. Muy sabia sus palabras. ❤
Hello Ismael, I am a new subscriber to your videos. Great education for me since I just started to date on line. I would like to point out No. 8 Money and Status.....This one man is actually telling me that he is home poor, worth upper six figure in home equity, his lifestyle as a vegan and being self-sufficient from his land where he lives makes sense, but to me something is still off.
The guy is very, I mean very charming, intellectual and eloquent, simply beyond believes and full of compliments. However, he doesn't know that I am aware and cautious. How do I proceed? These guys, if I am right about my intuition should be put out of their misery before them truly hurt someone. What is your best advice? Thank you so much. Your videos are so helpful, keep up good work.
Very true😢I realised this very late
There was actually a man in my life who did both the battling depression thing and the inventing/ over exaggerating heart desease thing
And also the sucking the life out of me thing
Good video.
Trust me and I promise are right up there.
Number 10 was quite funny indeed but true yes! 😆
I used to love a married man and became totally addicted to him. Although I knew he used me physically I still couldn’t stop. After five years, five years I finally got out of it
# 4 goes in the face of all the trad nonsense out there along the lines of "nobody's perfect," there's no "soulmate," "people "grow together, can't expect to find them made for you."
This is dangerous thinking that needs a lot more clarification. A couple must be a good match from the start as a prerequisite for them to bond and grow together. Absent natural compatibility and symbiosis, the two will most likely grow apart. Contrary to "trad" nonsense out there, compatibility is found/matched, not made.
Many people, however, make the mistake to seek qualities that others/society find desirable (he must be a good provider and a "nice guy"), not what would be compatible with them, personally. They look for what they (think they) must want in a partner, not for what they actually need based on who they are. Bonnie needed Clyde and they were both bad. Great match.
A person below average in intellect may want another high in intellect for other reasons that come with high IQ (success, etc)- but that doesn't mean this is the kind of partner they actually need (or needs them).
The "Great Catch" paradigm is fatal. Only the "Great Match" works.
Here is my answers to the lies that you mentioned.
1. I am only attracted to Asian women, and I make it well known even when it makes me enemies of people who don't look similar to Asian women.
2. It depends on what the subject is about.
3. I never lie about my health, and I don't allow others to change it.
4. I am changing everyday
5. I am upfront from the beginning
6. I won't tell someone that their past doesn't matter, I make them come out with their past.
7. I truly am single
8. They will end up needing to earn this information.
9. If I say this, I truly mean it, and if someone gives me the look like they don't believe what I say, I challenge them to a sparring match.
10. I tell what my body count is from the beginning, and am proud of it, because I truly am a virgin.
Of number 10 … I hope to be one next year !!
I’ve been married over 30 years, even when we’re dating, I have always pointed out attractive women to him, it’s ok for him to look. I know who he’s coming home too.
Jesus was not killed nor jessu was crucified
What on earth does that have to do with the subject at hand?@@LisaJones-xk6xz
Is his coming home with you enough while your man has fantacies about other women?
“by the time you swear you’re his shivering and sighing and he sears his passion is infinite, undying
lady make a note of this
One of you is lying” - Dorothy Parker