10 Lies Men Tell Women But Won't Admit
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
- We're diving deep into a topic that's crucial for understanding the dynamics between men and women - 10 Lies Men Tell Women But Won't Admit.
Understanding these lies is a game-changer in how you approach dating and relationships, since it can help you avoid guys that end up sucking your energy and damaging your self-image.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
00:54 Lies Men Tell Women 01
01:54 Lies Men Tell Women 02
02:22 Lies Men Tell Women 03
03:11 Lies Men Tell Women 04
03:50 Lies Men Tell Women 05
04:26 Lies Men Tell Women 06
04:53 Lies Men Tell Women 07
05:38 Lies Men Tell Women 08
06:10 Lies Men Tell Women 09
06:40 Lies Men Tell Women 10
07:38 Closing
From the infamous "I'm too busy" excuse to the classic "I don't find other women attractive," we're dissecting each lie to uncover the truth behind them. By shedding light on these common deceptions, my goal is to empower you with knowledge and insight. So get ready to arm yourself with the truth and navigate the dating world with confidence!
01. I Don't Find Other Women Attractive
This white lie, meant to be reassuring, is actually a deception. Attraction is natural, but respectful behavior is key.
02. I've Never Felt This Way Before
Especially early on, this is likely an exaggeration fueled by hormones. True connection takes time to build.
03. Lies About His Health
Watch out for men who play the "damsel in distress" role, manipulating your emotions with fabricated illnesses.
04. I Promise, I'll Change
Genuine change is self-driven. Don't expect someone to transform for you; wait for someone who already embodies the qualities you seek.
05. I've Never Cheated
Trust takes time to build. Focus on the present and how he treats you now.
06. Your Past Doesn't Matter To Me
This is likely a ploy to avoid insecurity. A healthy partner will be interested in your past, but not dwell on it.
07. I'm Single
Always verify a man's relationship status before getting invested. Don't get caught up in fantasies of him leaving someone else for you.
08. Money and Status
Don't be fooled by boasts of wealth. Look for a man with a strong work ethic and integrity.
09. We Have So Much In Common
A genuine connection involves appreciating both similarities and differences. Beware of those who mimic your every preference.
10. Body Count
The number a man claims is often tailored to his perception of what you want to hear. Focus on emotional connection, not notches on a belt.
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I am not a aiting to be stared at though he did Paint me.. I m worthy of getting married ..they marry the less attractive ones while I have never been married
1. I don't find other women attractive..
2. I've never felt this way before..
3. Lies about his Health..
4. I'll promise I'll change..
5. I've never cheated..
6. Your past doesn't matter to me..
7. I'm single..
8. Money and Status..
9. We have so much in common..
10. Body count..
Heard all of them. Currently married for thirty one years to the only man who hasn’t lied to me. Trust me, I’m as cynical as they come. lol! I would KNOW.
“If he’ll cheat for you, he’ll cheat on you.” --Old Southern proverb
I love my single life. I love my peace and quiet and doing what I want. Don’t need his money, body or bulls!ht.
well a woman needs a man, just like a dog needs its owner. just like a man needs god. youre a goddamn rib. if you are a genuine original woman, then im sorry for all the men (boys) you have to deal with
🙌🏻 same queen 👸🏻
11: I don''t love her anymore.
12. I only knew her for three months and haven't seen her since we "broke up".
13. I love you, not her.
14. You have nothing to worry about.
15. I'm only interested in godly, modest women.
16. I don't use p*rn.
17. I'm more attracted to you now than when we first met.
18. I will always love you.
19. I would never intentionally hurt you.
20. I'd never lie to you.
21. Nobody else could be the father. (Sorry, that one goes the other way)
The porn one gets me... even if they don't watch porn hub... they still watch dirty movies which is tv porn!! You're still getting aroused watching people have sex!!! And they look at women half dressed on social media.. soft core porn.
With my experiences, dating a new man is always wonderful up until six months or so. They put on a fake façade and tell you everything you want to hear. You feel as if you hit the jackpot! After six months, they morph into the real self….. at last now you know why they were single to begin with!
I believe in paying a private eye to investigate him if he seems to be a contender; schooling, credit, criminal, and marital. If he lied about something, he can lie about everything.
If its true that men fall in love faster, its also true that man's love has an earlier death.
My god....this is so depressing to me. I am divorced with no kids. Been single a long time. I want to meet someone and start dating but just don't know how to go about it. Seems like there are alot of jerks out there.
I gave up. And I don’t regret it.
@@Deborah-so8mv I hear you. To each their own. I did the single thing for 15 years. Done with that. Got to be some good guys out there.
Stay away from a man that’s into p#rn, it will destroy your relationship.
It’s so not worth the aggravation…… why even bother if you know you’re better single?
@@Gotoworkkk Because I don't want to spend the next 15 years alone. It sucks. I am a good, honest decent person. There has to be some like minded guy like me. Just might take me awhile to find him.
OMG. Why even try. It hurts my brain to even consider navigating a relationship with another dude.
Me too.😂
What’s the use with these fools?
@@Deborah-so8mv They’re so crazy 🤪 and unstable
It's your freedom of choice
I hear you...
One of the biggest is, "She's just a friend." If she lives in another state or country and they only communicate once in a while by email or on Fakebook, okay. If they meet at all in person, one of them doesn't feel the other is just a friend.
Bam he had just a friend funny then he ghosted me
Ladies… someone once told me, always check who’s tagged in their photos. I thought that was wise advice lol
WE need true men to speak up.Dear one, your voice is so needed. Thank you. Blessings on women who do not tolerate LIARS.
I"m sorry, I'm too old, I'm tired, she's just a friend, I'm not on the dating sites ...I'm doubting everything at this point...
Same
You’re the only one!!! I don’t believe anything out of anyone’s mouth without PROOF!!
God bless you for educating women about love and relationships. .
SMART!! Character is better than wealth!!!
yes indeed
Mom and Grandma did a great job 👏🏽
Thank you for the insight ✨🙏🏽
This just made my day 🙏
Agreed! Great advice!
I also enjoy that your videos do not go on and on but teach a lesson in a enjoyable length of time❤
I've heard so many lies about health issues, past not mattering, how many women he's been with before, having common interests, the list goes on, really! Well, let's hope that those types of men don't find your channel, Ismael! Thanks so much for the tips! I had been waiting for this one. ❤
He's single! 1 of the greatest lies in today's world, sadly.
That's why it nessary for both man and woman to know their patner properly before going on relationship
Do you just assume he is lying about being single or do you actually make sure? I am single and I’m not sure how many women just assume I’m lying.
@@brettgarandza683, I actually make sure. I don't like to assume. I usually listen to my intuition and then seek to confirm it. I'm really not a worldly person, so I approach personal things differently.
@@mysteriousme3006 What do you mean not worldly?
@@brettgarandza683 , I don't date anyone just because I see him all the time, I don't go to clubs or bars looking for a date or hook up. I don't go to work looking for such as well.I actually don't drink because it's not a good taste or feeling. Most people use drinking as an excuse for negative behavior and/or choices. Same thing when it comes to drugs. Just not in me to use such substances. If I feel under the weather I take meditation, not medication 🙏 😌 🙂 I do like smoking tobacco though! It seems like most males strongly dislike females smoking tobacco. I'm strict and hard on myself. I have rules and boundaries set upon myself. I love the beautiful things in life such as travel, enjoying nature, constantly learning positive things in life or some history that helps understand the world today. Most people are not interested in constantly learning and becoming mentally and emotionally mature. Majority stay in the circle of life, which is the same routine for the majority, even in other countries. Stay safe in this world.
True change is usually only possible when you get tired of his BS and LEAVE BABYDOLL.
Gracias for your input! I’m a single mom raising a teen boy & teaching him how to be a true gentleman & how to treat a girl. The way a son treats his mom I believe is the way he will treat his girlfriend/wife! So my son will be a one of a kind amazing husband to a very blessed wife someday! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you!! ❤🙏
@@Portia620 💕🙏🏻
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You are right about that.
@@mits619 💕
I would never ask a man if he's attracted to other women. Don't put him in a position to lie
Brilliant point.
Men fall in love faster than women. That’s a fact. Personally, I can make men fall in love 2-3 weeks if we are hanging out regularly. It’s not hard to do if you understand human psychology. The difference between the ones that have fallen in love and the ones that are lying is in their actions. The ones that have fallen in love shows through constant consistent effort, while the ones lying will just profess with empty words (with no actions, intimacy and affection).
@effortlesssuccess2585
Thank you for your insight
The constant consistent effort coming from a man sometimes has nothing to do with love. Last year I met the dream man. Everything about him and his actions was 10+. BUT it turned out, his intentions were just draining my bank account....
@@caterinaivanova3253 it’s constant effort accompanied with certain energies and body language that would tell you that he is into you. If a man is giving you constant effort, attention, and accepting your cash in the beginning stages of your connection, he’s digging for gold. What I am talking about is different.
@@caterinaivanova3253did he consistently invested in you with his own money? If not that’s a red flag you missed. A man that accepts/asks a woman’s money is a walking a red flag.
@@caterinaivanova3253 how did he get your PIN code?
Don't forget the lie that many older men use. Their age. I know two narcissists who took ten years off their age when engaging in online dating apps. Both of them married. If they tell you this one lie, there will be many more to come.
I feel sorry for the women they're married to. Bloody cheaters
Heh, heh, it’s not that women don’t tell fibs about their age, is it?
That’s why I like East Asia. Telling fibs about your age is a social no no there.
@@penguinvic9892ok but he just said he knows men that do it and that famous Asian lady that says she’s 18 has been said to lie about her age idk what the point is grow up
Love is an action
Oh men men, I haven’t met a decent one yet but I’m confident I will someday 😅❤
Jesus Christ is the best one ❤
I'm excited for your journey.
All the best
Could be our expectations are too high. Realize no one is perfect. Give guys a good chance to prove their worth before casting them out as a waste of time.
@@grettalemabouchou6779 I agree 💯
No. 4 "I promise l'll change" -true change happens if the individual has an aneurysm or head injury that effectively wipes out the "data" in their brain that made up their personality.
Ladies, if you're drawn to men that needs "fixing" that's an indicator that you need to work on yourself. Best of luck!
Every single thing that you have said is spot on! Thank you for the video! Positivity peace and love ♥️
Your first one isnt entirely true. Im demi. I literally dont find anyone other than my partner attractive. It makes traditional dating very difficult because I dont feel any kind of physical attraction until I have a strong emotional bond with them. And once that bond is severed I lose all physical attraction to them. It doesn't matter how sexy or beautiful you are. You could be totally naked in front of me but if there is no emotional connection then I am looking at you the same way I would a plank of wood. I feel no attraction. I felt out of place for so long because people perpetuate that its a universal truth that men work like that. That we are constantly horny and attracted to everyone. That we'll fuck anything with two legs. I thought that I was incapable of love and being loved because I never experienced those things. Turns out I was just Demi and its entirely normal.
Me too!!! I thought little old me was strange!! When married I only seen him..he was a narc!!! Abandoned me and the kids and healed now and dating! Once I fall in love it’s over as no one and I mean I see NO ONE! That’s love! I haven’t a clue as the world is so sick and need of help. Sad dark times
Thank you!! Now I know what it is! I seriously thought eveyone was sick and ok I still think everyone is sick! 😂. I feel the same way!!!!
Whats Demi?
@@morningglory9288 Demi is a type of sexuality, or it can describe romantic attraction. The prefix Demi means half, so think of Demisexual like halfway between Asexual (someone who doesn't experience any sexual attraction) and Allosexual ("normal" people who experience typical sexual attraction). A Demiromantic or Demisexual will only ever experience romantic feelings or sexual attraction towards someone in very specific circumstances. Typically being emotional attachment.
@DandyDeishu thank you. I've never heard that expression before 🙂
You either love someone or you don't. Understanding human nature will make a relationship last. There will be lies. Decide which you can live with.
Good instructions wise young handsome man! 💖 When we were young, I asked my husband how he felt about other women. He replied that the world is full of beautiful people, and every minute he falls in love with someone, forgetting her when he turns his head away from her. We have been together for 50 years now. 🥰
I kept smiling as I read your comment.
I am kinda confused if i find other people attractive that doesn't mean cheating right? But my girlfriend said if i find other people attractive it's cheating. I love her but how can I explain it to her. Any suggestions please 😭😭
@@shaktimishra9710 I'm bad at languages, I hope you understand my text:
Your girlfriend is afraid of being left behind. Me too when I was young. But my husband said, “You have to understand now that you are the winner and I don't want to be with others, you are number 1.
What is important, we also had similar values and philosophy of life and appreciated each other and great sexual attraction. In addition, we had a strong spiritual connection and telepathy. They all glued us together. If you have those important unifying factors, tell her about them. And tell her how special she is.
He got the jealousy out of me when he said he couldn't stand it, and that the only reason he would leave me, because of that jealousy. I understood that I am a winner and that I too see handsome men, attractive, but he is still number one for many reasons.
- I hope you get some help from this situation.
@shaktimishra9710 attractive people are everywhere. Would she think she was cheating on you if she found another guy extremely nice-looking? Put that across to her, make her see that just because you find other women attractive, it's not like you're going to jump in bed with them. It seems to me your girlfriend is very insecure with or own self worth, and she needs to concentrate more on building up her self-esteem.
@@morningglory9288sounds like there’s no point in being with a man if they find many women attractive
Here is my answers to the lies that you mentioned.
1. I am only attracted to Asian women, and I make it well known even when it makes me enemies of people who don't look similar to Asian women.
2. It depends on what the subject is about.
3. I never lie about my health, and I don't allow others to change it.
4. I am changing everyday
5. I am upfront from the beginning
6. I won't tell someone that their past doesn't matter, I make them come out with their past.
7. I truly am single
8. They will end up needing to earn this information.
9. If I say this, I truly mean it, and if someone gives me the look like they don't believe what I say, I challenge them to a sparring match.
10. I tell what my body count is from the beginning, and am proud of it, because I truly am a virgin.
Of number 10 … I hope to be one next year !!
Wow, only knew a couple of these thank you for another video.
Thanks for the heads up! The man that deserves you will be rewarded!
YOU ARE ONE OF THE BEST AMONG THE COACHES SIR. THANK YOU.
This just made my day 🙏
THIS GUY IS A CLOWN
Thank you for getting right to the point! Good advice. Good video!
Much appreciated 🙌
I luv the way you talk. It's straight forward.
Thank you...
Love your channel.❤
Spot on my friend !
I’ve been married over 30 years, even when we’re dating, I have always pointed out attractive women to him, it’s ok for him to look. I know who he’s coming home too.
Thank you 😊
Great advice
Nice to hear some truth.
I don't think someone lying about his health does think of "then my partner can't leave me". Usually it's the "how can I not do what my partner wants but have someone else do what I want"
I love you when they have known you for five minutes
A lot of women loved and hated me at the same time. It's been said that all women have some degree of borderline personality disorder, from mild to batsh-t crazy. My own theory is that humans are functionally insane.
Love your videos I like that they are short🎉 thank you for sharing your wisdom
Thank you
You always have good advice! Thank you so much
DONT BE A FOOL PAL
Keep doing what you do
walking the path is the ones I follow, Im glad you help those in counseling but you never know if they are telling the truth...you must have had wonderful upbringing
I appreciate you took the time to leave such a lovely comment.
"i am single"
Universal lie😂
How is this hard to believe? The share of sexless men under 30 is about 1/3. Unless you're dealing with a player.
Yup heard that one many times
Díky!
Thank you. You were very helpful
I'm glad you found my video helpful.
These are great facts.....very good advice.
Thank you so much.
THERE IS NOT ANY FACTS AT ALL
TY 4 your brave topics.
Much appreciated 🙌
Thanks Ismael for your tips. Good, healthy reminder. As I listened to you, the item about cheating....my experience us that " cheating" varies a lot as to how men admit to cheating. What he sees as actual "
Cheating. So he may be honest in relation to what he believes is
" cheating". When it comes to cheating, both men and women can be " flexible" when it comes to self assessment. More important I think to be clear as to what you both regard as " cheating" and go from there.
Your so awesome in telling us the facts on point. Omg I’ve seen a man who says that, girls say ’im safe with you’. This is a blunder
Good video.
This video definitely needs more views! Awesome content that you’re creating for women ❤🎉😊
Thanks for making me smile today.
@@SaveTheMessenger You’re so welcome 💜💜💜
Only ten, I think there is much more.
Thank you Ismael. As usual your videos are insightful and thorough. I can't wait for your next one. If you can please continue to help us females understand men better so we can create more healthy relationships. Men can be quite confusing.
Your comment made me smile. I appreciate you 😊
I think men can find women confusing too. That's why there's that old saying: Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. They both speak different languages 😂
@@morningglory9288 True. We can be confused and confusing too.
After years of bad experiences, I gave up, firmly believing they all lie.
Amo estas reflexiones. Muy sabia sus palabras. ❤
Trust me and I promise are right up there.
Great breakdown of common lies, but can a relationship truly survive if both partners are completely honest about everything, including past mistakes and infidelities?
Hmm … sometimes it’s probably better to take certain things to one’s grave. If nothing else people may trust you with their secrets.
Why can't a woman just be friends with a man? It cannot be that hard to be an adult friend to another adult friend who just so happens to be from the opposite gender.
I disagree with feeling something different in the first two months. I was in love and I had chemistry before, but the chemistry in my current relationship is out the roof! there might be a couple of factors why that is but we’ll see
#1 lie women tell men : We trust you.
“Depression… PTSD” the lie I believed why I didn’t leave him which is the same excuse he gave me when he left me… yep, just lies.
Cant be bothered with narcs and avoidants.
Either you're in or out.
At my age im just too tired and too sore to fuck arse around.😂
I had some guy tell me that I made him feel like a carefree teenager again... it was within an hour of meeting him and he was supposed to be going door to door taking surveys and got distracted and talked my ear off for an hour. I don't answer my door for survey takers, political dudes or salesmen anymore. 🤣 They can just drop a flyer and leave.
“I once told a woman that I coined the phrase ‘pardon my French’”-George Costanza
Love your advice, hate that bell. It sends my pets running away.
I cannot understand why everything is in slow motion voices as well as
What does it means... If he says right now he is more into middle term relationship...not long term because you cannot predict relations life.... And it's doesnot matter for him.. If we get together or not in the end..... It left me so confused..he believe in fate
Depending on how old each of you are (young in assuming) some people can’t fathom marriage and forever
If this isn’t something you want to settle for then don’t.
Work on your confidence and emotional maturity and go slowly with anything
If he wants to marry he will say something and if he wants to keep you on the hook he will continue to confuse you
Sometimes men say exactly what they mean
You must listen with your head and stop the magical thinking
Women lie in very similar ways...
Also, that number 5 idea about pretending like you don't care if they cheated in the past is wild.
I had a woman say that once to me and was completely repulsed. It made me think that she potentially has cheated in the past. Good luck with that one.
My husband likes looking at beautiful women, and he's not slow at telling me, but at the end of the day, he always comes home to me.
Yeah...they always have to tell you when they think someone is pretty.
Cope?
I’m sure you like to look at attractive men too nothing wrong with it so long you don’t touch
So....how does that make you feel to have all the girls pointed out? He must be looking for the next thing.
@melissabryant2251 no, he knows he's got a good thing with me. I may not be the best looking woman on the planet, average in fact, but at least I'm loyal. We've been together for 43 years 🙂
I grabbed a good one 35 years ago. He came with references from other older women in the neighborhood.
I’ve never told any of these lies.
Every one of these are just as likely to be used by women, except, maybe, the income one.
You can look but don’t touch
If i had fever should I not tell my girlfriend 😰 i don't want her think i am i am using her . What should i do?
1:19 Don't lie
4:04 Lie
"hypocrisy - a situation in which someone pretends to believe something that they do not really believe, or that is the opposite of what they do or say at another time"
Makes sense! Let’s use our common sense ladies:)
I have a question, my boyf told me that he have not realize yet whether this thing which he is feeling is love or not. He told me that he have never liked anyone like this before so he is very confuse. Its the 7 month of our relationship btw. So i am thinking whether is this a lie or is he being really genuine. If possible please help me
Do you love him? Is it enough for you to have 7 months pass with someone who is unsure of their feelings towards you?
I’ve been in love a few times and if you know you KNOW.
It takes over you completely
If he’s unsure I’d say he isn’t really and that’s a shame
ask yourself - what is he doing for you? Men fall in love not with words, but actions. If they do things for you. If all he does is tell u stuff but does not show up in your life through effort, actions, then sis, let him go... 7 months is pretty good time to figure out feelings, etc.
@@ZaraUchiha13 I mean he has done things for me, made me feel good, took me on dates, showed effort and after some days he apologized for what he had said to me and asked me for a chance.
@@joiedevivre894 I do love him, but it does feel terrible to be with someone who is not sure about thier feelings towards me but he asked me for chance and idk outta nowhere he have realized that he have feelings for me but still I'm abit hesitate
The definition of love is the enjoyment you get by making other's life better. If his actions make your life better, and he enjoys that process, it is love.
I really wish I came across this video earlier
My favorite lie they tell............"I'm 6 feet tall"
Hi Ismael, how can i have a personnal session with you ?
Click on this video's description and you should find the link to book a call there.
This is only the second time in my life that a man brought up by a single mom has stayed with her to become a better man than, presumably, the man who didn't treat his mom and grandmom right. The first similar case that i came across was a powerful politician in my country who left his unmarried mother for another woman. The 'illegitimate' son, whom he refused to acknowledge sued the pants off his powerful minister father, thanks to the then-new DNA technology.
Guys just feel too damn difficult to deal with. They say women are complicated... not really...
Your voice sound familiar.. do you have another channel?
Well this post couldn't be any more depressing 😕
It was all good until the wink! To me the wink says< Maybe I just lied to you, or< just joking< It's a sign that I might not be able to trust you.
I find it so interesting that you perceive it that way. I'm Cuban-American and in my culture that's a sign of affection or saying farewell.
Most importantly DONT LIE TO YOURSELF if a man does not treat you right . If he just gives you CRUMBS Go go go give the tiny crumbs to a mouse
If a man mentions a womans name he works with more than a couple times with kind of an air of interest watch out! If you truly want to know, pray in ernest ans you will find out. Just a word of warning. Be prepared with what you find out.
My last 2 marriages were sons of the lies like thefather of lies
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Love is not a fuzzy wuzzy feeling it an action explained in 1st Corinthians 13 why waste someone time when all that you are looking for is a wet tip