7 Mind-Blowing Psychology Facts About Love - For WOMEN

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  • Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
  • 7 Mind-Blowing Psychology Facts About Love - For WOMEN
    Love can be a complex and enigmatic emotion. It brings immense joy when it goes well but unbearable pain when it doesn't. Whether you're single or in a relationship, understanding the science behind love can provide clarity and insight into your romantic journey.
    CHAPTERS
    00:00 Topic Summary
    00:49 Psychological Facts About Love 01
    01:48 Psychological Facts About Love 02
    02:44 Psychological Facts About Love 03
    03:54 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
    04:22 Psychological Facts About Love 04
    05:06 Psychological Facts About Love 05
    05:50 Psychological Facts About Love 06
    06:55 Psychological Facts About Love 07
    07:51 Closing
    ~~~ Men Feel Deep Attraction Faster Than Women
    Studies show it takes about 8.2 seconds for a man to feel deeply attracted to a woman, compared to approximately 15 days for women. This disparity stems from differing brain features, making women more attuned to emotional depth.
    ~~~ Fear of Never Finding Love
    Anuptaphobia, or the intense fear of staying single, can drive individuals to seek relationships incessantly. Signs include immediately seeking a new partner after a breakup, keeping exes on standby, and losing oneself in relationships.
    ~~~ Intelligent People Struggle In Love
    High intelligence can pose challenges in love. Individuals with high IQs may struggle to find intellectually stimulating partners, set unrealistically high standards, and have difficulty compromising due to a strong belief in their correctness.
    ~~~ Mere Exposure Effect
    This psychological phenomenon explains why people often fall in love with those they spend much time with. Repeated exposure to someone can reduce uncertainty, leading to feelings of comfort and attraction.
    ~~~ Falling In Love Can Decrease Your Appetite
    Falling in love can decrease appetite initially due to increased cortisol levels. However, as comfort grows in the relationship, appetite typically returns to normal.
    ~~~ Frustration Attraction
    Falling for someone who doesn't reciprocate feelings or pursuing someone harder after rejection is known as frustration attraction. Detaching from this pattern requires training the brain to find such behavior unattractive.
    ~~~ Power of Suggestion
    Suggestive cues can influence a partner's thoughts, feelings, and behavior in a relationship. Focusing on positive feedback rather than criticism can create a healthier dynamic.
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  • @SaveTheMessenger
    @SaveTheMessenger  2 месяца назад +7

    Please support our RUclips channel by Subscribing -
    ruclips.net/user/SaveTheMessenger
    It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 2 месяца назад

      Yes we don’t feel deeply attracted to men for awhile and men are all over us! Thats an intereting acknowledgement and I agree!

  • @aissakrkusic8277
    @aissakrkusic8277 2 месяца назад +28

    I really want to meet somoene like Ismael, i dislike when somoene doesnt know these important things for the relationships and end up in marriages that are completely destroyed, but hey they at least arent alone, right!

    • @jennalavena
      @jennalavena 2 месяца назад +2

      yea. Ismael is a rare man to have! we all know he’s not perfect but he’s still a good person

    • @GailGreen-tq8jd
      @GailGreen-tq8jd Месяц назад +1

      ​@@jennalavenaI don't know I think he may be close to perfect. He's quite smart and he is straight to the point and knows how to communicate. He's attractive too.

  • @wendy8561
    @wendy8561 2 месяца назад +11

    So glad I found your channel perfect timing ☺️

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  2 месяца назад

      I'm glad my video found you today.

    • @wendy8561
      @wendy8561 2 месяца назад

      @@SaveTheMessenger 🙏

  • @ykt4343
    @ykt4343 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you Ismael. You are awesome. Your videos are insightful. Please make more.

  • @Godsgrace222
    @Godsgrace222 2 месяца назад +1

    You are absolutely right and thanks fr good advice

  • @araizabdulqayyum911
    @araizabdulqayyum911 2 месяца назад +10

    Please share points on long distance relationships..
    As I know and love but that person didn't confess...but my heart is pounding whenever I text him or talk..and I know that is also attractive to me so much... whenever we have argue, fight or something like no contact...he put distance but after some days come back and talk...we know each other but didn't meet.. sometimes he gave me so tough time like ghosting, testing, making distance, and hurting me but bcs of my feelings and emotional attachment I can't blocked him or make distance but nowadays we both are quite...he is like interested but not committed and have fear of losing too.

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  2 месяца назад +14

      I would never put all my energy and focus in a relationship with someone that I haven't even met in person. That's the best advice I can give you.

    • @UteEgal
      @UteEgal 2 месяца назад +1

      Do yourself a favour and move on! You are living in a daydream. Reminds me of "Catfish" (MTV). Best wishes! 😊

  • @tarafarris6334
    @tarafarris6334 2 месяца назад

    Thank you❤

  • @mireynafashionlover
    @mireynafashionlover 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for your videos , one of my friends referred your channel to me and all of your content is so goood

  • @alivahaque976
    @alivahaque976 2 месяца назад +5

    Hey Ismael, thanks for making another amazing video. btw, the love sickness, loss of sleep & appetite & cocaine consumption like situation of mind that you mentioned at number 5, isn’t that called "limerance"? That's such a painful thing, kind of like a trauma bond. About your 3rd point that intelligent people struggle to find love, I totally agree with that. I'm not saying I'm intelligent or anything, but I've always been the topper in my class & now I've become a doctor. Throughout my life, I've always prioritised my studies & career over anything else. As a result, I could never focus on dating & relationships. Now I really feel like, I'll never find love, like you said in your 2nd point. But thank God, I've learned the art of detachment by now. Your videos have helped me a lot in doing so. Thanks a lot, handsome. 😉 Sometimes I really wish if only I could meet you.... You're an amazing guy.... 😇 Stay blessed. 🌼🌸🌻

    • @GailGreen-tq8jd
      @GailGreen-tq8jd Месяц назад

      Ha ha ha u go girl! Girl you are a doctor, you are hella smart baby . Be proud. That was a long journey I'm sure. Be straight proud. He may just want to meet a intelligent modest woman.

    • @GailGreen-tq8jd
      @GailGreen-tq8jd Месяц назад

      You more than likey will find love too. You did you first and that was smart to get that out of the way first so when you do have a relationship or child you won't want to still be thinking you need or want to finish your goal of an education. Especially if u keep watching these videos you will know everything that men are looking for. He seems exactly correct and intelligent about his advice and he tells us in a way quite easy to understand and even gives an example usually of exactly what he's talking about about.

    • @GailGreen-tq8jd
      @GailGreen-tq8jd Месяц назад

      I do agree with you too about his videos have helped me more too with learning more about detaching. Not sure why but just find he has this way of communicating that makes me get things more about guys.

    • @GailGreen-tq8jd
      @GailGreen-tq8jd Месяц назад

      I don't know why I keep responding to your post lol but also wanted to tell you that u have a cute personality so you prob for sure will meet a guy. You are a bit modest and humble but a little bit of a tiny flirt and smart. Not many girls would have some guts to say to him if only they could meet him . Guys love that part prob about you too. Sometimes often they like a girl that knows what they like and aren't afraid to say it or make the first move. Ok as for me I think I better get a life more and stop being lazy laying on my bed alot responding to comments often on You Tube but I just had to .

  • @christinaali7794
    @christinaali7794 2 месяца назад +6

    Maybe it's just lust, but it takes me about .5 seconds. The minute I see them I feel an intense attraction. It only happens rarely, but it's intense

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 2 месяца назад

      Exactly! Men want to kid themselves that they can change that first impression.

  • @ivankavujkov9181
    @ivankavujkov9181 Месяц назад

    Thank you very much Ismail, I proved all seven stuff even I didn’t know it. I am classy woman😊

  • @Berta-eu9mk
    @Berta-eu9mk 2 месяца назад

    💯 ❤

  • @streaming5332
    @streaming5332 2 месяца назад +8

    I know an attractive man when I see one, it doesn't take 15 days. It's true about intelligence, I'll hang out with someone if they're stimulating company even if I'm not that attracted to them.

    • @janinewood2298
      @janinewood2298 2 месяца назад +4

      I had this experience recently. A guy paying attention and making it obvious that he was into me. It literally took me about 3 weeks to finally figure out that I was into him too. First few weeks I was assessing and analysing, checking out his energy, making sense of what I was reading etc.

    • @jackdeniston6150
      @jackdeniston6150 13 дней назад

      Friendzoning. Appalling behaviour.

  • @chadsensei-ue6jn
    @chadsensei-ue6jn 2 месяца назад +2

    8 seconds? I've had complete eye conversations that last for less than a second.

  • @makelifematter1896
    @makelifematter1896 16 дней назад

    Just shared your video with a 20 soon to be 21 year old she is looking forward to following you❤ as I told her your still a baby 😊so learn now Ismael is awesome and I love that his videos make a point but in a short time so you have time to watch a few ❤

  • @beccastone101
    @beccastone101 2 месяца назад

    I enjoy your content. There’s always room for improvement and self development. I’m taking some of your advice - the ones that I’m not already doing. The only thing I’ve done that you have clearly explained not to - is beg for affection and bring it up that I dont get it. I’m constantly looking for reasons to prove that he has lost interest in me. I put it to the end because of your advice of the damage it causes. What do I do if I feel like I’m always the giver and affection isn’t ever reciprocated. He thinks overly expressing feelings are artificial, clique, and he believes it can be over used and diluted when used to often. But it’s VERY OFTEN.

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  2 месяца назад +1

      Why do you think you constantly look for reasons to prove he has lost interest in you?

  • @marshaphonda7057
    @marshaphonda7057 2 месяца назад +10

    Oh yes, it is very, very difficult for a smart and feminine woman to find the right partner.
    Some men are very smart too, but they lack of money.
    Or style.
    Or masculine qualities.
    Or humor.
    So to find a man who is able to provide a family, who is smart, stylish, masculine and incredibly funny is almost impossible.

  • @linahome1417
    @linahome1417 2 месяца назад

    👏👏👏❤❤❤

  • @wendy8561
    @wendy8561 2 месяца назад

    It is exactly like a drug
    But slowly declines maybe i try to hard but ill get there thank you ,these videos are very helpful im very giving and loving person i think from what others say these guys are taking my kindness for weakness

    • @UteEgal
      @UteEgal 2 месяца назад

      Then they are not the right men for you. 😊

  • @4d.4c.4b4
    @4d.4c.4b4 2 месяца назад

    Yes, I'm guilty of frustration attraction :(

  • @reemsaif3105
    @reemsaif3105 10 дней назад

    Its nornal for women to want to sleep with guys, we are human and crave touch.
    We re told that even if the man wants to, we have to swallow our pride and say no. We have it tough espicallly when our emotions run high.
    Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @lindafish2789
    @lindafish2789 Месяц назад

    The higher intelligence can overcome "barriers."

  • @user-sf3eg9bf2e
    @user-sf3eg9bf2e 9 дней назад

    Hi!...am i think I might need some advice..i am in a relationship with a man who really takes care of me very well but the thing is i don't feel deeply connected to him because i still think he is still into his ex though i have been constantly asking him and he has keep on denying it and saying that he doesn't have anyone in mind except me... when I want to have deep conversation with him,he just cuts it off ....i really am confused on whether i should walk away or i don't know

  • @trilliontrillion8087
    @trilliontrillion8087 2 месяца назад +1

    I guess I'm blowing that 8 seconds 😅😢😢😢😢

  • @carmenmacias6551
    @carmenmacias6551 14 дней назад

    Ojala alguien se de cuenta que soy una mujer sofisticada. Seria un elogio, independientemente del tono en que me lo digan.

  • @kamilaktulu9045
    @kamilaktulu9045 2 месяца назад +7

    I really appreciate your point of view, but please, stop talk to us as if we were idiots by using phrases „if you are sophisticated women, you… ” etc😂

    • @SaveTheMessenger
      @SaveTheMessenger  2 месяца назад +8

      If a woman were to call me a sophisticated man, I wouldn't feel that she thinks I'm an idiot. I find it interesting that you have that perspective.

    • @Xianne027
      @Xianne027 2 месяца назад +2

      Good that you said that! Yes!
      I appreciate most of what Ismael says, but he could use to tone down the condescending tone. That especially turns off those of us old enough to be his mothers.

    • @kamilaktulu9045
      @kamilaktulu9045 2 месяца назад

      @@Xianne027 exactly!

    • @Nicole-ik6ku
      @Nicole-ik6ku 2 месяца назад +1

      @@kamilaktulu9045 I definitely agree!

    • @paulah5725
      @paulah5725 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@SaveTheMessenger😢 to me, sophisticated is a positive trait, that comes with many life experiences. High emotional intelligence.

  • @divineangelic2727
    @divineangelic2727 2 месяца назад

    Hi love is just an emotion people put way too much on this just feeling. Money is more important. Love comes and goes Diamonds area girls best friend. This is true Look at the divorce rate !? Go for the rich guy hopefully you will love him but if you like him is also good