Reply in the last video you said "look for ways to flirt with a man video" I went through all your videos there is NOT ONE VIDEO THAT SAYS FLIRTING WITH A MAN, where is the link of the video you mentioned?????
1. Pulling Away To Make You Beg For Attention 2. Mirroring To Steer Relationship 3. Using Guilt To Make You Feel Responsible 4. Intermittent Reinforcement/ Hot and Cold Behavior To Mask Negative Experiences 5. Isolate You From Friends, Family, Or Personal Finance To Gain Control Over Your Life
This video is spot on ! When you are married to an abusive man who controls all the finances and you don’t have money behind you , makes it hard to leave and people can’t understand that .
Yes l understand this situation, l too was in a relationship in which my husband didn't allow me to have a bank account of my own,so l had no choice as to remain by him.
Many men get this wrong and listen to bad dating coaches. i only recently had a guy pulling away when i did not have time this week but next week only-felt like he tried to make me insecure so that i give in to his timing more. Was not the first game and we barely know each other, so i ended it yesterday. There is three other men that treat me with respect. i will never again accept hot and cold bs from anyone. Getting scared is not the beginning of sth to me, but the end. Give me safety and fun and i might be yours.
@ I don’t know how guys like you come adopt such toxic views about women. A woman’s worth or value is not being single or a parent. It is in her character, values, morals, skills, abilities, intelligence, emotional intelligence and so much more. Guys with your toxic values exhibit low emotional intelligence. You don’t think deeper. Furthermore, you also don’t know anything about the person but act on the presumptions they are sleeping around. It’s being presumptuous and acting out of ignorance. You don’t have facts, you know nothing about people’s worth. I don’t suggest expressing uninformed and unintelligent opinions.
Absolutely accurate. Sadly it's not just some of these things that happen. It was all of them in that exact order. The man I was with did not just isolate me, he waited for his opportune moment when I was suffering from PPD after the birth of our child. I told myself for a long time that it couldn't be that bad because he never put his hands on me. I was wrong, the damage it cause to my mind was far worse. Physical wounds heal quickly, mental scars can last for what feels like eternity. Being stuck inside your own head is the worst kind of hell. He used our child as leverage to manipulate me and control my money. He made me feel guilty because I was the one working while he stayed at home with our child, but he did nothing at home to help me either. My rude awakening was when I thought I was going crazy and that everything was my fault. I confided in him about it and how I thought that maybe it was time to seek help. I'll never forget the malicious grin on his face like he thought he had won...that was the beginning of the end. It took a lot of courage, but it's been 2 years since I left him and I've never been happier in my life. Thank you for being an honest man and making this video so other women do not have to go through this. Your work is more important than you can possibly imagine ❤.
Ismael, Thankyou for this wonderful video. What would you say about a guy who expresses his attraction to you and suddenly ghosts you from everywhere and doesn't accept any of your friend requests or answer any of your messages. Why does a man brutally break the connection and disappear?
Thankyou Ismael. Good for him. He has been very bizzare since the begening. I had told him I wasn't interested in any relationship other than friendship but he was trying different ways to get me.
*These* are the darkest tactics? Seriously? No wonder I'm not falling for any, since they supposedly "make someone interesting", yet they only bore me to no end.
I must be healed then since I only feel annoyed and impatient when having to be around someone with intimidating to others too body language. While having to avoid crossing my arms with a frown on my face there at the time too instead of only doing my grey rock act there to get by.
The guy did mirroring and i thought he was my soul mate Told me about the abuse but it is real Intermittent reinforcement But when he pulled away we ended it
@@SaveTheMessenger I tried almost every dating app- I have installed and deleted multiple times, including Instagram- but so far, they have had lots of red flags- following a lot of girls or inappropriate pages. And none of their actions match their words; we speak, and they immediately give up within less than a week. The only thing I haven't tried is going to more events. Still, I don't know which events to go to because the ones I go to either the guys that show up are taken, way older, disrespectful and just not my type (I was born in Toronto, and there have been a lot of immigrants that have moved here and have been influenced by the rap culture and their behaviour towards woman is not good they see them as objects, or don't approach me.) dating didn't seem this hard back when I was in college- the only thing was that I was so concentrated on my studies and shy back then.
You have to hold high standards. Do not chase, do not beg, but don’t hide and be polite but short, work on yourself and live your best life for YOU. Don’t expect anything, let him go. The best thing is to find a better guy who will truly appreciate you and become the one who got away.
Drop him and go find someone better for you. They're not this one, and they are out there somewhere, unable to be in your life if he's there holding the place of what you really want. ❤
Believe me change a person is not easy, almost impossible. Go find other man who can have mutual respect, acceptance and understanding with you. You deserve better, you deserve to be loved as a human being.
CONTROL , CONTROL AND MORE CONTROL ……NARCISSIST ( ABUSIVE AND CONTROLLING MAN) ….ITS A NO GO ….YOU SHOULD TALK ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TOO ….THAT IS A REALITY .
What if a guy always be silent when he got angry or the girl got angry. He never come ahead to sort out things. What type of personality is it? Even if he accused the girl for no matters. After four month of relationship he asked why are you with me? What is your purpose? Seriously!!! He impressed the girl for the first time. The girl started the relationship when the guy had lots of loan to repay. But the guy finally told the girl that he should tell the girl that about the loan. I mean does it make any sense😅😅 😅😅
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Reply in the last video you said "look for ways to flirt with a man video" I went through all your videos there is NOT ONE VIDEO THAT SAYS FLIRTING WITH A MAN, where is the link of the video you mentioned?????
1. Pulling Away To Make You Beg For Attention
2. Mirroring To Steer Relationship
3. Using Guilt To Make You Feel Responsible
4. Intermittent Reinforcement/ Hot and Cold Behavior To Mask Negative Experiences
5. Isolate You From Friends, Family, Or Personal Finance To Gain Control Over Your Life
Is there ANY man who doesn't do one or all of these!?!?...
@@BatoolSyednothing man about it. Women do the same sht, even more so
This video is spot on ! When you are married to an abusive man who controls all the finances and you don’t have money behind you , makes it hard to leave and people can’t understand that .
Yes l understand this situation, l too was in a relationship in which my husband didn't allow me to have a bank account of my own,so l had no choice as to remain by him.
@@kamalatemplin7975 I feel for you
I completely understand it.
Why would you wanna be with anyone that tries to be in control of money? That was a sure red flag!
@@Gotoworkkk This is shown after marriage because of love bombing before marriage.
I’m a licensed mental health counselor and your information is right on.
Listen to this man! As someone who was in an abusive relationship (highly narcissistic person) his points are right on.
Many men get this wrong and listen to bad dating coaches. i only recently had a guy pulling away when i did not have time this week but next week only-felt like he tried to make me insecure so that i give in to his timing more. Was not the first game and we barely know each other, so i ended it yesterday. There is three other men that treat me with respect. i will never again accept hot and cold bs from anyone. Getting scared is not the beginning of sth to me, but the end. Give me safety and fun and i might be yours.
Couldn't agree more ❤
@@raphaelasmile1109 💛
Good luck being with your cats! 🐈
@@Gotoworkkk this man apologized (find that so cool) and we continued, meow
If he pulls away and doesn’t text, he can stay away. Lol 😆 high valued women do not chase.
Being ran tho & a single mom don’t make you high value
If you did have a husband u are low value sleeping around
@ I don’t know how guys like you come adopt such toxic views about women. A woman’s worth or value is not being single or a parent. It is in her character, values, morals, skills, abilities, intelligence, emotional intelligence and so much more. Guys with your toxic values exhibit low emotional intelligence. You don’t think deeper. Furthermore, you also don’t know anything about the person but act on the presumptions they are sleeping around. It’s being presumptuous and acting out of ignorance. You don’t have facts, you know nothing about people’s worth. I don’t suggest expressing uninformed and unintelligent opinions.
now i think i am happy single
Same here 😁💜️
@@SewwandiWaduthanthri lol 😂
👍 Agree
Eyyy wanna start a club lol😂
Those men end up playing them self
😂😂
So true 😂😂😂
Yes 😂
Thanks for sharing this post. Manipulation is so true in guys who feel insecure
Absolutely accurate. Sadly it's not just some of these things that happen. It was all of them in that exact order. The man I was with did not just isolate me, he waited for his opportune moment when I was suffering from PPD after the birth of our child. I told myself for a long time that it couldn't be that bad because he never put his hands on me. I was wrong, the damage it cause to my mind was far worse. Physical wounds heal quickly, mental scars can last for what feels like eternity. Being stuck inside your own head is the worst kind of hell. He used our child as leverage to manipulate me and control my money. He made me feel guilty because I was the one working while he stayed at home with our child, but he did nothing at home to help me either. My rude awakening was when I thought I was going crazy and that everything was my fault. I confided in him about it and how I thought that maybe it was time to seek help. I'll never forget the malicious grin on his face like he thought he had won...that was the beginning of the end. It took a lot of courage, but it's been 2 years since I left him and I've never been happier in my life.
Thank you for being an honest man and making this video so other women do not have to go through this. Your work is more important than you can possibly imagine ❤.
You need strong boundaries and also to enforce those boundaries, no one can do or say anything to you unless you let them.
I wish there were more men like you in this world. May God always protect your beautiful soul✨
Your videos are always so spot on Ismael. Thanks for always being there with ladies. ❤
Exactly Right! For confidentiality reasons I won't reveal why I know this. God bless your work w/ the ladies.
I loved the way you said we're not Bob the Builder🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣so true and thank you for this insightful video. Please make more.
Loved too! 😆
Thank you Sir . Now I get to know that I get manipulated by all these tactics in past years,gladly I'm out finally😊.
He is absolutely correct!
This video was great and I want to rewatch it! I saw it last week.
Insightful video!! 👍
Ismael, Thankyou for this wonderful video. What would you say about a guy who expresses his attraction to you and suddenly ghosts you from everywhere and doesn't accept any of your friend requests or answer any of your messages. Why does a man brutally break the connection and disappear?
He's pursuing another woman.
Thankyou Ismael. Good for him. He has been very bizzare since the begening. I had told him I wasn't interested in any relationship other than friendship but he was trying different ways to get me.
thanks for the tutorial 👍
Wow what you said makes sense… because after he calls I want to call if he doesn’t call back right away..
You absolutely right 😢
- they see you as an accessories...
Very effective ❤
*These* are the darkest tactics? Seriously? No wonder I'm not falling for any, since they supposedly "make someone interesting", yet they only bore me to no end.
Thanx4 sharing 😊
Thank you!
Good stuff 😊
You are describing a narsisst 👏🏼
I must be healed then since I only feel annoyed and impatient when having to be around someone with intimidating to others too body language. While having to avoid crossing my arms with a frown on my face there at the time too instead of only doing my grey rock act there to get by.
Thank you. ❤️
I don't let a men control me not ever I will walk away not worth my time it is selfish I dumped guy that is selfish.
Thank you🥰🥰
The guy did mirroring and i thought he was my soul mate
Told me about the abuse but it is real
Intermittent reinforcement
But when he pulled away we ended it
Correct..
Those same manipulation tactics works both ways; women can be as manpulative as well as men.
Do u have your podcast?
He makes it look like he does by cutting to clips, but he doesn't. Quite manipulative if you ask me!
😂i nvr chase anyone & i dont pursue anyone its a waste of time
Its not about men or women. Its about paycho or normal human.
Quit sipping got to respect the bros Hassel
Horrible vacation spot😂
Where do we find these safe men? They seem non-existent
Where are you looking?
@@SaveTheMessenger I tried almost every dating app- I have installed and deleted multiple times, including Instagram- but so far, they have had lots of red flags- following a lot of girls or inappropriate pages. And none of their actions match their words; we speak, and they immediately give up within less than a week. The only thing I haven't tried is going to more events. Still, I don't know which events to go to because the ones I go to either the guys that show up are taken, way older, disrespectful and just not my type (I was born in Toronto, and there have been a lot of immigrants that have moved here and have been influenced by the rap culture and their behaviour towards woman is not good they see them as objects, or don't approach me.) dating didn't seem this hard back when I was in college- the only thing was that I was so concentrated on my studies and shy back then.
How can I make a guy change from seein me as an accessories to more serious one
You have to hold high standards. Do not chase, do not beg, but don’t hide and be polite but short, work on yourself and live your best life for YOU. Don’t expect anything, let him go. The best thing is to find a better guy who will truly appreciate you and become the one who got away.
I couldn't have given a better answer. Thanks for helping others in your journey.
Drop him and go find someone better for you. They're not this one, and they are out there somewhere, unable to be in your life if he's there holding the place of what you really want. ❤
Believe me change a person is not easy, almost impossible. Go find other man who can have mutual respect, acceptance and understanding with you. You deserve better, you deserve to be loved as a human being.
If youre responsible for his happiness and wellbeing, make him do what you tell him to 🤷
I finally told mine to take a hike. 😂
Thank you Ismael for the helpful information. I want to date a man that makes me feel safe and make me a home not a vacation spot.
Wow! Really?
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CONTROL , CONTROL AND MORE CONTROL ……NARCISSIST ( ABUSIVE AND CONTROLLING MAN) ….ITS A NO GO ….YOU SHOULD TALK ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TOO ….THAT IS A REALITY .
❤❤❤
❤ you are not Bob the builder. 😊
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Plz make a video how to manipulate a Man
Yes. Lame AF
What if a guy always be silent when he got angry or the girl got angry. He never come ahead to sort out things. What type of personality is it?
Even if he accused the girl for no matters. After four month of relationship he asked why are you with me? What is your purpose?
Seriously!!! He impressed the girl for the first time.
The girl started the relationship when the guy had lots of loan to repay.
But the guy finally told the girl that he should tell the girl that about the loan.
I mean does it make any sense😅😅 😅😅
As a man , I'm here to study how to manipulate women😂
Hmm...
Same here
I hope when men take advantage of ur daughter or mother n they come crying to u, u dnt say anything. UTTER RUBBISH
😀
😂😂😂😂crazy 🤣🤣
🤣 u mean telling the truth! Gonna make a manipulation tactic video its going to be coming from women!
Thank you❤
Thank you 💜