If you want my step-by-step program for what to take action on first based on your personal situation, get WAKEUP2LUV: members.wingmam.com/get-women/ -- You got this! xo Anna
I'm focusing on music over dating. Music making is expensive, but it's even more expensive to date. I'm also working on my weight loss, confidence, self-esteem and awareness of myself and each individual woman.
Ok; if you hope have sexual interxouse with a very pretty woman : unless a guy is great looking " great job ; fancy car& home gorgeous looking woman the prize ;;:: woman wear makeup : dye their hair sexy chothes; expensive purfume ; ; ; sometime it chistry don"t need that stuff guy still attracted her;; it about hope she available or wants to have sex ;; it body chemistry all woman attracted to men ; men judt hope they are pretty lady
As an older guy when I was growing up, I always heard that women were the prize. But even as a boy I never understood why. It seemed to me that the men did most of the heavy lifting. They had to go to school, work hard, accumulate resources, and become something. Most of the women I saw did none of those things, other than go to school. So as Anna has suggested, I've always believed that I was the prize and acted that way. True confidence takes time to develop. Regardless of how good of an actor one is, you can't fake it all the time for very long. Don't focus on getting the girl. Focus on becoming something. That will build your confidence. And women can smell real confidence on a man. It's a pheromone. They confident way you carry yourself, your body language, and the look on your face is more enticing to them than the cleverest pick up line.
Your analysis is very refreshing! And true. That is the way I certainly feel now but that comes with age. Which I have now graciously acquired. You raised some excellent points. Thank you 🙏🏿
@@YourWingmam Well, for me this channel mainly focuses on western culture. To me as a Muslim Arab living in Saudi Arabia most of the advice are good but doesn't suits our culture because we don't have the dating concept but we having only marriage. However, I can switch it and get what you mean for us in the middle east.
2:45 There it is again! The most underrated instruction in the entire online blather-o-sphere about dating! "Women mirror your feelings about you!" Keep preaching it, sister, until every man actually does it! The world will be a better place if every man follows through.
@@armanddefrank7984 Nope. Since Your Wingmam presented this principle about a month ago, I have been watching couples and it is true. Plus I have applied it in my own relationship with good results.
I liked your “when they show you who they are, just walk away” line. Years ago, I was pursuing a woman who turned out to be an ahole who treated me like crap. I ran into her a few years later and she was trying to be all nice. I knew who she really was and walked away without saying bye.
I dated a "pretty" (on the outside) lady briefly. She had got away with treating men badly her whole life. She was like Wow!! when I dumped her. But someoneone had to do it. Hopefully she learned and became a better person 💖
You helped get me out of my slump, still a work in progress, but I just wanna thank you for offering your wisdom in dating to a guy like me, who used to often view himself as a lost cause.. I’m slowly but surely getting passed that mindset. Hope you’re having a nice day Anna!
Someone told me that one of the effective ways to tell whether someone is damaged or not is how they handle rejection. And more often than not, it's true. A woman that's psychologically unstable will fly off the handle immediately when rejected. On the other hand, a mature and rational woman would be able to handle it with grace and subtlety.
I have really enjoyed your videos and advise. At 54 I have been a widower (such a weird saying widower...widow-was...widow-is) for over a year and a half having been married for 32 years. Going from being able to openly say anything at all, joke and tease to having to make sure meeting someone new you don't offend them. The dating world has definitely been a shocker for sure just having to mention political affiliation or that yes I am a straight male. Funniest thing I saw was we have to ask "So have you always been a woman?" on the dating scene. I had been iffy until your videos if I am/was worth it to anyone to date again but realize I do have a lot to give to a woman it's just meeting the right one again...somehow, somewhere lol. I don't have a problem striking up a conversation luckily. I have gone out with 4 women on dates but no "spark" with any of them. I have been trying to go out to different bar/restaurants which have bands, which is getting old and making it a point to try and go back to church. Amazing how many churches have groups for married people, widows, but not widowERs::Smirks:: No single groups for 50-ish people but young dating groups in churches. I try to balance my naughty/nice just seems like people are one extreme or the other. My question is, being on the dating apps, what is the nicest way to let a woman down who sent you a nice note, that you are not interested at all? Or should I just not reply at all, but that seems too rude to me as well. I am flattered they are showing an interest in me. I don't want to hurt these women's feelings who are reaching out as I know how I feel when that sort of thing happens to me. Some having medical issues and I don't want to actively walk into a caregiver role again as I did that for 3 years when my wife was on home dialysis. Thanks again for your great insight and making me laugh showing women still do have a teasing sense of humor! Happen to have a twin sister in Ohio??? LOL
Hey Anna, I've had to start over, again, with women. Strange life events have caused my loneliness. I have listened to your coaching for over a year. This lesson that you illustrate here I actually did, today. An online contact (at a dating website) and I started to interact. She became snarky. After three childish episodes I ended the mingling. She tried contacting me on a couple different days and I blew her off. On about the fifth day I wrote messages to her. Then we talked on the telephone. Finally, I offered to meet her for lunch sometime. It became clear she was almost desperate to meet a qualified man. Long story short, after setting limits, she became nicer. Dare I say, manageable. I think she had a few bad days in a row and she learned I was not her dumping ground. We'll go out again soon. Thanks for the advice you give.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Another outstanding job Anna! My favorite quote. 09.50 ish...sometimes what may seem like a rejection right now may actually be an intro into the need for a more laid back timed-nurturing of what may end up as an awesome relationship. It can breed understanding if both parties are matured. Different plants have different maturation & fruition timeline. ❤
@@freddiestranger9783 My life has been in Jesus, but 5he problem with you religious folks is inability to distinguish between Divinity, Spirituality & Religiousity. If you were Spiritual as Christ you'd who really needs Christ...but you don't...and due to lack of knowledge you're chasing glimpses of glory while the neq creatin saints triumph and bask in glory all day. No Shakings!
@@freddiestranger9783 Also Freddie; hit me up and I'd teach you how to become a Millionaire, still enjoy minimal lifestyle, get your PhD and whatever you desire as a Christian and LEGALLY bring to earth the blessings Christ already gave to his saints, which for you are still left in the Spiritual mirage (Eph 1:3). Stop praying for the blessings that you already have...I'd show you the key & teach you to use it brother Freddie...not free of course...cos you gotta obey Psalm 23:23. Jah bless Freddie X.
This seemed like a pretty accurate video. When I act and express confidence and follow through with actions I have women chasing me. When I push people away and go hermit, I can't get a woman to look my direction. Please do a video on, What do women really bring to a relationship. Men really need to ask women this question in the beginning, and women need to be able to answer with more than fluff like, love, companionship, loyalty ( lies with this one), honesty ( more lies ). Also maybe a video on Why women demand and test men for 100% honesty, Then lie, and argue to the death that they don't lie when its put right in front of them. Keep rocking wingman!!
Once again thank you! You make a lot of scenes. Your also a very good speaker. Crazy how the universe sent your videos to my RUclips algorithms when I needed ya the most. 😀
Anna, this is good as it gets. Men make yourself better mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually. None of this will be wasted. You get 100% return on your investment of resources. Regardless if you have a woman or if your good with women. You have WORTH in this world !!!! If your struggling, get help !!! Every woman wants a good man, until that man requires her to be a better woman.
Your a very sweet and smart woman! You have great advice for men. We come from two different worlds and your insight for men is astounding information! You have a heart of Gold to help us realize the nature and beauty of a high value woman! We don't think or reason like they do! Thank you so much! Im looking forward to more of your insightfulness to have a relationship worthy of what GOD has designed!
I'm getting it, slowly but surely. I have recently changed my entire thinking and have realised that I was perpetuating a victim mentality. Thanks for Anna the Wingmam!
Good, positive class. Thank you. I prefer addressing better thinking instead of better tactics. This one makes me want to take deep breaths, relax, and proceed with guarded optimism.
Thank you Anna, for all your hard work, all that you do and how you present you videos. You really are making a difference in peoples lives. You have definitely made a difference in my life for sure. I love your sense of humor. I look forward to every new video. Always nice to see you. Please keep up the AWESOME Job you are doing. . . MANY BIG HUUUGS.. . John
Dang great advice for any man that is in the dating market. Young or old. Don't be the slave of emotions. Either yours or her's. Be strong, Be a man. Only cry in private. Because sometimes we do. Thank You ma'am. Great video and will absolutely help any man that has even half a brain.
You know Anna I can appreciate all that you do. As I watch and listen, it sounds like an awful lot of things to look out for. Why are women so difficult and sometimes 😕 hard to understand ? I really would prefer the more simple things. I'm not sure there still out there 🤔. I've been single for a long time now, but even so, I do miss the gentle touch of a woman. I tell myself, if God wants me to have someone in my life again then it will happen. Until then I'll just keep on keeping on. Of course I'll be listening to you as well 🙂. Have a nice day and enjoy your weekend coming up. 😊
This is not only a sound piece of advice for dealing with dating women, but it's also good for success in personal life. Another point, since this piece of advice sounds rational and speaks to the mind whereas interactions with women are predominantly emotional (irrational), how would one get to apply it without fail?
Spend 17 years slowly seeing this abuse, im taking nothing less than at least 50/50. Been hitting the gym after a month, yes people notice. But still single and dating in the process, been 5 years now and 5 years later. 3 dates later, I guess filter is the key word here. I was dropped like a bag of potatoes after 17 years together after my ex's mental break down, I had her back and was there for her allways. Slowly putting myself out there on the market again, spend a few years to find " myself" again and balanced again. Ps. The gym does magic to your selfconfidence gentlemen, will get you stares and compliments! Remember you are a piece of magic wonder just being YOU! ; ) I love this channel, allways good advice here. So share with friends and remember to just be yourself! You are a gem.
Thanks for your reply, you have great advice. Have had a lot of women, around 40 . Was seeing someone during the virus, it was never going to work long term. She’s from HATIA , when she retires wants to move back. So we know wouldn’t be safe for me. Chatted with a few ladies, voice in my head said take your time..a month ago meet a stunning attractive woman, what I like about her the most is her personality. And have told her so. We got a long way to go, she’s every thing I had in mind I was looking for. Slow and easy, patience and understanding, I hoping she the last one. Thanks for your support. Donald
On a dating site , Canada & USA . over 100 Canadian women , very few answer . have a lot of USA ladies so one of them going to get me.slim fit well dressed an groomed .more USA thinking anyway .
@@YourWingmam would love to have coffee with you sometime, but I know that we would get thrown out of the joint for laughing too much, because we both consider the term "smart ass" to be a complement.
I told somebody the other day that they are the prize when they mentioned that they were striking out with women yeah I’ve been doing all the bad mistakes you’ve mentioned here lately lol definitely a great video
I have all the confidence I need for any situation. Men like myself do not meet the 6 rule so we are invisible until women want to settle for what they think are second best. At least right up to the point a 6 rule man comes along and then we get dumped.
Take it from an old guy. I wish I would have known you when I was 17/18 years old you or someone like you could have saved a lot of pain. You were not born yet. But, I love what you are trying to do. GOD Bless you daughter keep it up. Even if you just help one :).
Love these videos. I'm working on myself for only myself🤘🏼. Tip 5 was a big one for me have to value myself more and not be too attached in the past I was kind of attached. I know my Worth now🙏🏻 getting better every day thanks for these videos!!!
Thank you, Anna, for another great lesson! Ever since I came across your channel, I have become somewhat addicted to watching at least one episode a day. Well, today's lesson was really great as usual. Based on the points you presented, I believe I "failed" each one over the years which explains a lot... If I even had a slight knowledge of what I have been learning from you these days, my life would've taken a different road 30 some years ago in the dating world. Too bad you don't do 1-on-1 counseling...LOL You would be a great counselor and life coach!
So glad you appreciate my videos and they're helping! The good news about "failure" is the opportunity to do something different that can result in success! You got this!
Wow, great video Anna, love the calling out on bad behaviour so explicitly. I have realised that (most of the time) I don’t tolerate bad behaviour, but I haven’t as explicitly stated what it was. This is an area that would improve my confidence and cement it more for me. Hope you feel better soon and get over the 🦠 Sending love
Hi Anna, amazing I watched it twice. It is a wonderful thing to know for a guy like me. I just keep on saying to myself, it will be ok in a few days. It never is. enjoy your day and Take Care George.
What do you do when you're already the best version of yourself (extremely fit and in shape, good career, financially sound, home owner, great collection of friends for 10 to 30 years, etc), and it's still not enough to generate interest from most women beyond a first date (unless they insist on having kids, which I don't want)? And as far as bad behavior from women goes, I don't tolerate shit and call it out if it becomes a pattern or if it's something that's not a pattern, but it's really bad, I often call it out initially, like flakiness.
Perhaps reevaluate where you’re meeting these women and try other ways of meeting women with different mindsets than those that don’t want to take it beyond one date with you. Also, try some of Anna’s strategies for exciting women and getting them to desire you. Perhaps you’re just not pushing their buttons and need to learn how to.push em.
@@johncoviello8570 I'm meeting them everywhere (unfortunately, there aren't many attractive single women out there, so dating sites are my primary option). And I am using her tips, etc
@@Lonstermash Just keep at it. The right one will come along. I didn’t meet the woman I settled down with until I was 29 (now I’m 54). I met her in a bar scene. Not all bar scenes are equal. I was hanging out at bars in a town with a big university. The bars I frequented tended to have a lot of women who already earned their Bachelors degrees or were working on post-graduate degrees. They were serious women for the most part that made for good dates and conversations. I became a regular at one of the bars, which made it easy to talk to people bc after a while they knew me. There were also opportunities to do things with them outside of the bar scene like day trips and concerts. If you have money, perhaps try to make the 2nd date something enticing that many people can’t afford. You might just get a yes for a 2nd date if it’s something a woman normally can’t afford.
@@johncoviello8570 lol, if I had a dollar for every time I've heard "the right one will come ," I'd be wealthier than Elon Musk. I'm 52, so it's probably not going to happen, especially since I don't want kids or want someone who has young kids, and they tend to be the only serious minded attractive women who actually like me a lot. I'm not much of a drinker, so I don't frequent bars, but when I do, I typically meet highly educated women, as well. Unfortunately, they usually have boyfriends or they're not interested or they give me their number only to then ghost me right after I contact them. And I always take a woman out to a fairly nice restaurant on a second date. I don't have enough money for something better than that, nor should I do something better than that, because, as Anna states, women need to earn our admiration, as well. And a nice meal should be more than enough on a second date to impress someon. If it's not, then she's probably a gold digger. Not to mention, if a woman straight out tells me she's not interested after a first date, I'm not going to basically beg her for a second date by offering something very expensive that most men would not offer her. That's pathetic. Oh, and, again, at my age, regarding the bar scene (especially a college area bar), I'm now 20 to 25 years older than almost everyone in the bar, which further limits my options, even though I look about 38 according to most people I'm meeting.
The last woman I dated I had know for over 20 years and I always Thot she was the epitome of class. The disrespect started on the 3rd date and I took it for 8 more weeks and when I finally had enough and stood up to her and scoulded her for it she was done…tried for a week to smooth it over. Walked away no contact. Felt good to finally stand up for me!!!
First thing is be a man not a beta, do manly things like Anna was saying work out, work on you, quit being a yes ma'am, get out and go shopping for some new clothes, appearance is a lot,walk with confidence, learn you have options just because some woman shot you down, don't let it bother you, some of them like that have ego problems anyways,dust yourself off and check out other ones, it's funny later on when the one that shot you down sees you with a prettier one the following next week and you just kinda look at them and smile 😁👍 Anna have a great week 🦋
Hi Anna I Have been watching your videos never made a comment but this video is spot on, I’m married For 38 years we have 2 children and life is good, Wemen
My computer went down before I got to finish girl’s were the same 38 years ago not much has changed but I found a good Wife and Mother . I married twice and lived with 1 , I had given up but 38 years ago we found each other, Don’t give up.
OMG! You are amazing! How do you know what you know?!?!?! You are totally high value. Thanks for sharing a women’s secret world. Russell Brand and Joe Rogan talk about being you, the Perfect you, and all else falls into place.
Thanks for saying we are the prize. Men do chores women would never do. We are a lot more helpful to women than they are to us. It's nice to spend time with someone and love them but we have to stop acting like we are begging for the prize. This is why women catch the flowers at weddings. They are looking for a catch---a man who does chores and provides and protects her. The way to have confidence is to be willing to let her go at any moment. That's all.. If you love her deeply so much you'd be hurt if she was gone; that's a lady who'd be a fantastic best friend..
Yes! Like children they won't learn unless they're taught some tough lessons. (And I wouldn't have to compare them to children if they didn't act like it!)
You are so welcome and thank you for being here, I appreciate you! You may like this one on how to keep a keeper happy (she should also want to keep you happy!): ruclips.net/video/-RZK4ycesV0/видео.html
There’s something about the premise here that I have issues with. Confidence comes from knowing what you’re doing, usually from having had previous experience with the issue or problem or just with dealing successfully with problems in general. If one is trying to show they have confidence, to demonstrate that they have confidence, especially to try and win a woman’s attention that is practically demonstrating (to yourself) that you really don’t have confidence at all. Seems better to me to methodically become adept at dealing with things over time, to the point that you become confidant and if that gets noticed by a woman as an admirable attribute then, fine. If it doesn’t then trying to reach to get noticed is an act of not being confident. I personally, at that point, would begin to question my own desires. Makes me think of the line from Sugar Magnolia, “she don’t come and I don’t follow, waits back stage while I sing to you”. But it’s good to think about these things which is why I read and like Your Wingman. Keep the flow going.
We are on the same page! It's not about *trying* to be confident *with women but within yourself* which comes from trusting yourself to handle life, basically. And that comes from getting out of your comfort zone in various ways until that practice becomes natural action. (I think you know what I mean lol)
Test me? I took my comprehensive examination for my graduate degree. No more testing for me. Anyway, at 67 I'm not in the market for a relationship. But I still enjoy your videos.
@@YourWingmam Not only that, I already purchased your unshakable confidence program and I will start going at it soon. You are simply the best and to the point .
@@YourWingmam I am still struggling on a few things and I have given up hope on finding someone meaningful in my life. After a recent nasty divorce I guess I need some time to heal. I have so much to offer on many levels - love - respect - caring - romance - but it seems nowdays you need to play a different game which I have no energy to do so. I prefer honesty and integrity - I am shifting my energy to improving myself ( gym, continued education to improve my career and build some form of business ) ... You seem to the best advisors out there - straight to the point - and I will seriously consider a private session with you for some advise. Needless to say I am quite frustrated and I need some guidance .. Maybe now that I have given up on finding someone special - that special person will appear in my life - who knows - but for sure I plan a session with you at some point as I know I need help. My problem is that I am very genuine, and I can give the world to a worthy partner but probably my approach is wrong. At the same time, I really don't have the energy to play "games' in order to win someone's heart. I need to get in touch with you for help. Thank you for reaching out.
Another reason for not rewarding, (of anything more than an atta girl level comment), for good behavior is that...good behavior should be the norm. A quality person, man or woman, should NOT expect reward for doing the right thing. High value people do the right thing because that's how they are wired. Working out, going to the gym, losing weight are all things you do FOR YOURSELF. It can make you more attractive to women, but it's not anything close to a golden ticket. It is no replacement for game. Men and women all over the world are making connections every minute of everyday without engaging in an intense workout program or being svelte or Adonis. Unless you are really obese now, it's not going to change greatly how women see you. It will do those other things Anna said and likely change WHICH women find you attractive. The women who prefer men who are muscular, are a subset of women in general. Most are gym rats, runners or exercise fiends themselves. Many women though, DO NOT prefer a muscular man for anything but a daydream. So you are potentially making your net smaller if you get too bulky. All you need is to do is get that gut off (mostly), pumping iron to get a girl is not necessary and can backfire. AND you need to do it before you meet her generally. Lose the gut and learn panache. Skip the dumbbells unless you are scrawny, or dig muscle bound women (no judgement). But you still need some game.
You are so sweet I love hearing your wisdom , I wish we could meet sometime that would really make my life so much easier . Love your shirt your so alsome you are
The best version of you for you is good even if your not looking for someone. I think that has been my recient thought about people who preach you have to act like x to find a descent women. It just seems like acting fake.
Be free! The more self mastery, the more freedom. The more freedom, the more confidence. The more confidence, the more people will be attracted to you...even when you don't want it! LOL It all starts with....you and your personal development that only you can do. BE YOUR OWN PRIZE! Don't worry about the opposite sex, they will come on their own accord. (yes this is self-talk LOL) Be well and make it so!
I suggest you start giving advice to women too on how to be a good girl, a good lady and a good person. Arrogance is common among women these days. Beautiful ladies like you should become role models for them.
Wow Miss AJ.;) Your advice it's home for me. I absolutely feel more empowered to be the best man for ME! That is my first priority. My second priority is your wake up to love program.. 😁💪. Thank you for opening my eyes and mind to many important subjects. A side note;,, how long have you had that cardboard cutout of the cat in the background?? 😏 Somehow for me that gives me a kick in my morale.. lolol. again thank you!
Glad my advice has hit home for you! ... it's actually a stuffy cat lol it was accidentally in a video awhile back and since I've made a game of hiding it in videos... gotta keep things fun!
Good point about keeping life on the fun side 😜 I also am trying to focus on Embracing the Struggle,, and sometimes find that I tend to fight it rather than embrace. Keep up the great advice! ,, and keep "Stuffy" (?) in the mix! Xoxo
I remember going by a retirement home once and i learned a lot . men weren't chasing women -- women were chasing men because there weren't any left alive at their age . They were literally fighting for the attention of these few guys that lived there, it was hilarious. A proper MGTOW attitude is a good way to quit playing around and take care of yourself . I think of the money I spent on women. Now it's all mine , I can go fishing and buy tools and have the vehicles I want .Today I saw a killer barbecue and nearly bought it . I don't hate women but I'm not playing the game anymore . I still have women friends but I don't get physically or emotionally involved with them because I don't need the drama . I know there are a few good ones out there, but it's a lot of work that in most cases, I no longer have time for .
Hi Anna. You have helped me before and I have a coffee date on Thursday. I was of the mind of getting her a single yellow Rose and giving it to her at the end of our coffee date after we go back to.out vehicles. A woman bartender friend of mine suggested this. Should I do that or is it a bit much?. Please reply if you do see this. Thanks again from John of Boston
Can you imagine the trajectory one could set an entitled princess on by being the first guy to NOT lay down and lap it up? By boldly getting up and when she asks where you're going saying, "If you would treat that hostess like that, your future husband's life is going to suck from day 1. BYE" man, you bump into her 5 years later and she's pushing a shopping cart full of cats.
HELLO ANNA. DID ALL THAT NO DICE. SEEM.S THAT THEY HAVE A SAD LIFE OR GREW UP WITH THE WRONG CROWD. I DON.T WASTE MY TIME WITH WOMEN WHO DON.T HAVE A CLUE WHAT THEY WANT. I CAN.T READ THEIR MIND. NO LOSS FOR ME. AWESOME TOPIC. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Sounds like one of your deal breakers is not knowing what they want! Excellent. I invite you to figure out what else is on the deal maker / breaker list! Thanks for watching! :)
Gentlemen we must not forget, without us guys, women can't have children!! Then they can't play house. Lol. Don't get caught up in their charm and beauty. They can be like black widow spiders,. You know the deal. Stay in your lane and do yourself. Peace brothers 😎👍👌💯
I turned a woman down who offered to get an hotel room and pay for it!. I know her but not on any romantic level and never even thought of her that way!. I almost felt strange as what modern men actually turn down sex?..........well me apparently!. How ridiculous we should be made feel to be odd or the one in the wrong. I pretended I thought she was joking and I am good at making fun of situations to avoid embarrassment on both parts. Fact is I considered why should I get "used"? Opposite way around to the norm!. My assessment of her..........If she doesn't value herself what chance she will value anyone else?. My actions seem very "sigma" a word I wasn't familiar with years back. Question........Am I right to keep my values? or continue to be "lonely"?. I know the answer but it is rather depressing as women are in general low quality, which again I feel bad about saying!. Some women I find gross tbh! 😞
If you want my step-by-step program for what to take action on first based on your personal situation, get WAKEUP2LUV: members.wingmam.com/get-women/ -- You got this! xo Anna
I used to play first base ⚾😊
@@johnpaul2285 You wanna play for the Red Sox? LOL
How about WAKEUP2CONARTIST
I'm focusing on music over dating. Music making is expensive, but it's even more expensive to date. I'm also working on my weight loss, confidence, self-esteem and awareness of myself and each individual woman.
Ok; if you hope have sexual interxouse with a very pretty woman : unless a guy is great looking " great job ; fancy car& home gorgeous looking woman the prize ;;:: woman wear makeup : dye their hair sexy chothes; expensive purfume ; ; ; sometime it chistry don"t need that stuff guy still attracted her;; it about hope she available or wants to have sex ;; it body chemistry all woman attracted to men ; men judt hope they are pretty lady
As an older guy when I was growing up, I always heard that women were the prize. But even as a boy I never understood why. It seemed to me that the men did most of the heavy lifting. They had to go to school, work hard, accumulate resources, and become something. Most of the women I saw did none of those things, other than go to school. So as Anna has suggested, I've always believed that I was the prize and acted that way. True confidence takes time to develop. Regardless of how good of an actor one is, you can't fake it all the time for very long. Don't focus on getting the girl. Focus on becoming something. That will build your confidence. And women can smell real confidence on a man. It's a pheromone. They confident way you carry yourself, your body language, and the look on your face is more enticing to them than the cleverest pick up line.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
OKAY AND GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST BECAUSE THAT IS THE PRIZE
@@freddiestranger9783WHY ARE YOU YELLING DAWG
@@GeminiPlatypus GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. SOME PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO HEAR THE TRUTH QUIETLY
Your analysis is very refreshing! And true. That is the way I certainly feel now but that comes with age. Which I have now graciously acquired. You raised some excellent points. Thank you 🙏🏿
The best channel for men by far. No one is competing with Anna!
Thank you so much! Let me know what you think you need to focus on first from the video! ;)
@@YourWingmam Well, for me this channel mainly focuses on western culture. To me as a Muslim Arab living in Saudi Arabia most of the advice are good but doesn't suits our culture because we don't have the dating concept but we having only marriage. However, I can switch it and get what you mean for us in the middle east.
Straight up 😎👍
@@johnpaul2285 Yeah keeping it Halal till marriage
Best channel for simps.
2:45 There it is again! The most underrated instruction in the entire online blather-o-sphere about dating! "Women mirror your feelings about you!" Keep preaching it, sister, until every man actually does it! The world will be a better place if every man follows through.
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
You mean overrated
@@armanddefrank7984 Nope. Since Your Wingmam presented this principle about a month ago, I have been watching couples and it is true. Plus I have applied it in my own relationship with good results.
@@WaterlooExpat that's great for you, but for me personally I think it's useless
You can do this with anyone, its called "influence". It needs to be genuine though. Thanks Anna for reminding people!
I liked your “when they show you who they are, just walk away” line. Years ago, I was pursuing a woman who turned out to be an ahole who treated me like crap. I ran into her a few years later and she was trying to be all nice. I knew who she really was and walked away without saying bye.
Good for you!
Yep, "this hurts me more than it hurts you". But it's gotta be done.
OKAY AND GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND DO NOT WALK AWAY FROM THAT
I dated a "pretty" (on the outside) lady briefly. She had got away with treating men badly her whole life. She was like Wow!! when I dumped her. But someoneone had to do it. Hopefully she learned and became a better person 💖
You helped get me out of my slump, still a work in progress, but I just wanna thank you for offering your wisdom in dating to a guy like me, who used to often view himself as a lost cause.. I’m slowly but surely getting passed that mindset. Hope you’re having a nice day Anna!
Glad I could help 🙏
What about when you're messaging women and they just stop responding. What do you do then
@@mikechav4656 Just move on.
She Didn't Deserve you in the
first place.
@@mikechav4656 Save your messages for the right ones who appreciate
NO ONES PERFECT BRO A LOT OF WOMEN HAVE ISSUES WHEN YOU GET TO KNOW THEM THEY JUST HIDE IT BETTER LOL
Someone told me that one of the effective ways to tell whether someone is damaged or not is how they handle rejection. And more often than not, it's true. A woman that's psychologically unstable will fly off the handle immediately when rejected. On the other hand, a mature and rational woman would be able to handle it with grace and subtlety.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@@YourWingmam You're welcome.
You are absolutely right. Focus on ourselves and our self-development!!!!
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
I have really enjoyed your videos and advise. At 54 I have been a widower (such a weird saying widower...widow-was...widow-is) for over a year and a half having been married for 32 years. Going from being able to openly say anything at all, joke and tease to having to make sure meeting someone new you don't offend them. The dating world has definitely been a shocker for sure just having to mention political affiliation or that yes I am a straight male. Funniest thing I saw was we have to ask "So have you always been a woman?" on the dating scene.
I had been iffy until your videos if I am/was worth it to anyone to date again but realize I do have a lot to give to a woman it's just meeting the right one again...somehow, somewhere lol. I don't have a problem striking up a conversation luckily. I have gone out with 4 women on dates but no "spark" with any of them. I have been trying to go out to different bar/restaurants which have bands, which is getting old and making it a point to try and go back to church. Amazing how many churches have groups for married people, widows, but not widowERs::Smirks:: No single groups for 50-ish people but young dating groups in churches. I try to balance my naughty/nice just seems like people are one extreme or the other.
My question is, being on the dating apps, what is the nicest way to let a woman down who sent you a nice note, that you are not interested at all? Or should I just not reply at all, but that seems too rude to me as well. I am flattered they are showing an interest in me. I don't want to hurt these women's feelings who are reaching out as I know how I feel when that sort of thing happens to me. Some having medical issues and I don't want to actively walk into a caregiver role again as I did that for 3 years when my wife was on home dialysis. Thanks again for your great insight and making me laugh showing women still do have a teasing sense of humor! Happen to have a twin sister in Ohio??? LOL
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Hey Anna, I've had to start over, again, with women. Strange life events have caused my loneliness. I have listened to your coaching for over a year. This lesson that you illustrate here I actually did, today. An online contact (at a dating website) and I started to interact. She became snarky. After three childish episodes I ended the mingling. She tried contacting me on a couple different days and I blew her off. On about the fifth day I wrote messages to her. Then we talked on the telephone. Finally, I offered to meet her for lunch sometime. It became clear she was almost desperate to meet a qualified man. Long story short, after setting limits, she became nicer. Dare I say, manageable. I think she had a few bad days in a row and she learned I was not her dumping ground. We'll go out again soon. Thanks for the advice you give.
Thank you for sharing your story! Excellent example of handling a woman's bad behaviour and teaching her how to treat you! :)
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Another outstanding job Anna!
My favorite quote. 09.50 ish...sometimes what may seem like a rejection right now may actually be an intro into the need for a more laid back timed-nurturing of what may end up as an awesome relationship. It can breed understanding if both parties are matured. Different plants have different maturation & fruition timeline. ❤
Wise words all around! Thanks for reiterating so eloquently!
Man that's straight
INDEED NOW GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW
@@freddiestranger9783 My life has been in Jesus, but 5he problem with you religious folks is inability to distinguish between Divinity, Spirituality & Religiousity. If you were Spiritual as Christ you'd who really needs Christ...but you don't...and due to lack of knowledge you're chasing glimpses of glory while the neq creatin saints triumph and bask in glory all day. No Shakings!
@@freddiestranger9783 Also Freddie; hit me up and I'd teach you how to become a Millionaire, still enjoy minimal lifestyle, get your PhD and whatever you desire as a Christian and LEGALLY bring to earth the blessings Christ already gave to his saints, which for you are still left in the Spiritual mirage (Eph 1:3). Stop praying for the blessings that you already have...I'd show you the key & teach you to use it brother Freddie...not free of course...cos you gotta obey Psalm 23:23. Jah bless Freddie X.
This seemed like a pretty accurate video. When I act and express confidence and follow through with actions I have women chasing me. When I push people away and go hermit, I can't get a woman to look my direction.
Please do a video on, What do women really bring to a relationship. Men really need to ask women this question in the beginning, and women need to be able to answer with more than fluff like, love, companionship, loyalty ( lies with this one), honesty ( more lies ).
Also maybe a video on Why women demand and test men for 100% honesty, Then lie, and argue to the death that they don't lie when its put right in front of them.
Keep rocking wingman!!
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Once again thank you! You make a lot of scenes. Your also a very good speaker. Crazy how the universe sent your videos to my RUclips algorithms when I needed ya the most. 😀
So glad you found value in this video! :))
This is one of your very best videos advising us men Anna. Love you!!! ❤️
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Anna, this is good as it gets. Men make yourself better mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually. None of this will be wasted. You get 100% return on your investment of resources. Regardless if you have a woman or if your good with women. You have WORTH in this world !!!! If your struggling, get help !!! Every woman wants a good man, until that man requires her to be a better woman.
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Your a very sweet and smart woman! You have great advice for men. We come from two different worlds and your insight for men is astounding information! You have a heart of Gold to help us realize the nature and beauty of a high value woman! We don't think or reason like they do! Thank you so much! Im looking forward to more of your insightfulness to have a relationship worthy of what GOD has designed!
Thank you so much ❤
I hit the like button before I finished reading the description. It's one I wished for. This is golden.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Very practical video Anna. Needs to be watched a few times in order to retain all the nuggets.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Anna, you said A LOT during this video. Thank you!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I'm getting it, slowly but surely. I have recently changed my entire thinking and have realised that I was perpetuating a victim mentality. Thanks for Anna the Wingmam!
Glad I could help 🙏
Good, positive class. Thank you. I prefer addressing better thinking instead of better tactics. This one makes me want to take deep breaths, relax, and proceed with guarded optimism.
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@@YourWingmam You are welcome. I am new to your advisory posts .
Great content, this is pure gold, keep up the great work👍
Thank you so much!
Thank you Anna, for all your hard work, all that you do and how you present you videos. You really are making a difference in peoples lives. You have definitely made a difference in my life for sure. I love your sense of humor. I look forward to every new video. Always nice to see you. Please keep up the AWESOME Job you are doing. . . MANY BIG HUUUGS.. . John
You are so welcome, I'm so glad you appreciate my videos, John! 💞
Dang great advice for any man that is in the dating market. Young or old. Don't be the slave of emotions. Either yours or her's. Be strong, Be a man. Only cry in private. Because sometimes we do. Thank You ma'am. Great video and will absolutely help any man that has even half a brain.
Glad I could help 🙏
You know Anna I can appreciate all that you do. As I watch and listen, it sounds like an awful lot of things to look out for. Why are women so difficult and sometimes 😕 hard to understand ? I really would prefer the more simple things. I'm not sure there still out there 🤔. I've been single for a long time now, but even so, I do miss the gentle touch of a woman. I tell myself, if God wants me to have someone in my life again then it will happen. Until then I'll just keep on keeping on. Of course I'll be listening to you as well 🙂. Have a nice day and enjoy your weekend coming up. 😊
Thank you for your feedback. I pray that you receive the woman who is truly best for you, the woman God has for you 🙏
This is not only a sound piece of advice for dealing with dating women, but it's also good for success in personal life. Another point, since this piece of advice sounds rational and speaks to the mind whereas interactions with women are predominantly emotional (irrational), how would one get to apply it without fail?
Spend 17 years slowly seeing this abuse, im taking nothing less than at least 50/50. Been hitting the gym after a month, yes people notice. But still single and dating in the process, been 5 years now and 5 years later. 3 dates later, I guess filter is the key word here. I was dropped like a bag of potatoes after 17 years together after my ex's mental break down, I had her back and was there for her allways. Slowly putting myself out there on the market again, spend a few years to find " myself" again and balanced again.
Ps. The gym does magic to your selfconfidence gentlemen, will get you stares and compliments!
Remember you are a piece of magic wonder just being YOU! ; )
I love this channel, allways good advice here. So share with friends and remember to just be yourself! You are a gem.
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Great advice! Always enjoy seeing and listening!🙂
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Thanks for your reply, you have great advice. Have had a lot of women, around 40 . Was seeing someone during the virus, it was never going to work long term. She’s from HATIA , when she retires wants to move back. So we know wouldn’t be safe for me. Chatted with a few ladies, voice in my head said take your time..a month ago meet a stunning attractive woman, what I like about her the most is her personality. And have told her so. We got a long way to go, she’s every thing I had in mind I was looking for. Slow and easy, patience and understanding, I hoping she the last one. Thanks for your support. Donald
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
On a dating site , Canada & USA . over 100 Canadian women , very few answer . have a lot of USA ladies so one of them going to get me.slim fit well dressed an groomed .more USA thinking anyway .
Excellent advice. I like how your advice is comprehensive, integrated and clear.
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you so much!
@@YourWingmam would love to have coffee with you sometime, but I know that we would get thrown out of the joint for laughing too much, because we both consider the term "smart ass" to be a complement.
I told somebody the other day that they are the prize when they mentioned that they were striking out with women yeah I’ve been doing all the bad mistakes you’ve mentioned here lately lol definitely a great video
I'm glad you discovered some things to change! Thanks for watching... you are the prize!
@@YourWingmam thank you! You rock!
Hi Anna, actually, I think you're the prize!!!!, thanks for all you do, Your awesome! From New Mexico!! :)
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Oh man, I’m sorry to hear you’re from NM bro, life’s tough in that State?
i agree , being slim and fit,. well groomed well dressed .is a big plus. every one takes notice, but finding the right match is the challenge .
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I have all the confidence I need for any situation. Men like myself do not meet the 6 rule so we are invisible until women want to settle for what they think are second best. At least right up to the point a 6 rule man comes along and then we get dumped.
You, madame, are a blessing and s o amazing💪
Greetings from Copenhagen, Denmark🇩🇰
🙂 ❤
Take it from an old guy. I wish I would have known you when I was 17/18 years old you or someone like you could have saved a lot of pain. You were not born yet. But, I love what you are trying to do. GOD Bless you daughter keep it up. Even if you just help one :).
Glad I could help 🙏
Love these videos. I'm working on myself for only myself🤘🏼. Tip 5 was a big one for me have to value myself more and not be too attached in the past I was kind of attached. I know my Worth now🙏🏻 getting better every day thanks for these videos!!!
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Thank you, Anna, for another great lesson! Ever since I came across your channel, I have become somewhat addicted to watching at least one episode a day. Well, today's lesson was really great as usual. Based on the points you presented, I believe I "failed" each one over the years which explains a lot... If I even had a slight knowledge of what I have been learning from you these days, my life would've taken a different road 30 some years ago in the dating world. Too bad you don't do 1-on-1 counseling...LOL You would be a great counselor and life coach!
So glad you appreciate my videos and they're helping! The good news about "failure" is the opportunity to do something different that can result in success! You got this!
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW
Wow, great video Anna, love the calling out on bad behaviour so explicitly. I have realised that (most of the time) I don’t tolerate bad behaviour, but I haven’t as explicitly stated what it was. This is an area that would improve my confidence and cement it more for me. Hope you feel better soon and get over the 🦠 Sending love
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Hi Anna, amazing I watched it twice. It is a wonderful thing to know for a guy like me. I just keep on saying to myself, it will be ok in a few days. It never is.
enjoy your day and Take Care George.
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Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna! Well done and very informative. Bravissima 👏🏻
Glad you enjoyed it, John! Happy Tuesday!
I’m not the best looking however, ALL say my confidence was the hook.
Confidence is super sexy! ✔️
Anna, You have been so helpful. Thanks.
Glad I could help 🙏
You both need to be the prize and pursue each other.
Most definitely!
So much wisdom, so much clarity, and so true.
Thank you, I appreciate your comment!
Thank you for the advice
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These are the best advices I have ever heard, and also have to say you have beautiful eyes and hair! Very good channel, thanks for sharing!
You are so welcome!
And thank you!
@@YourWingmam greetings from Samos, Greece!
What do you do when you're already the best version of yourself (extremely fit and in shape, good career, financially sound, home owner, great collection of friends for 10 to 30 years, etc), and it's still not enough to generate interest from most women beyond a first date (unless they insist on having kids, which I don't want)? And as far as bad behavior from women goes, I don't tolerate shit and call it out if it becomes a pattern or if it's something that's not a pattern, but it's really bad, I often call it out initially, like flakiness.
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Perhaps reevaluate where you’re meeting these women and try other ways of meeting women with different mindsets than those that don’t want to take it beyond one date with you.
Also, try some of Anna’s strategies for exciting women and getting them to desire you. Perhaps you’re just not pushing their buttons and need to learn how to.push em.
@@johncoviello8570 I'm meeting them everywhere (unfortunately, there aren't many attractive single women out there, so dating sites are my primary option). And I am using her tips, etc
@@Lonstermash Just keep at it. The right one will come along. I didn’t meet the woman I settled down with until I was 29 (now I’m 54). I met her in a bar scene. Not all bar scenes are equal. I was hanging out at bars in a town with a big university. The bars I frequented tended to have a lot of women who already earned their Bachelors degrees or were working on post-graduate degrees. They were serious women for the most part that made for good dates and conversations. I became a regular at one of the bars, which made it easy to talk to people bc after a while they knew me. There were also opportunities to do things with them outside of the bar scene like day trips and concerts.
If you have money, perhaps try to make the 2nd date something enticing that many people can’t afford. You might just get a yes for a 2nd date if it’s something a woman normally can’t afford.
@@johncoviello8570 lol, if I had a dollar for every time I've heard "the right one will come ," I'd be wealthier than Elon Musk. I'm 52, so it's probably not going to happen, especially since I don't want kids or want someone who has young kids, and they tend to be the only serious minded attractive women who actually like me a lot. I'm not much of a drinker, so I don't frequent bars, but when I do, I typically meet highly educated women, as well. Unfortunately, they usually have boyfriends or they're not interested or they give me their number only to then ghost me right after I contact them. And I always take a woman out to a fairly nice restaurant on a second date. I don't have enough money for something better than that, nor should I do something better than that, because, as Anna states, women need to earn our admiration, as well. And a nice meal should be more than enough on a second date to impress someon. If it's not, then she's probably a gold digger. Not to mention, if a woman straight out tells me she's not interested after a first date, I'm not going to basically beg her for a second date by offering something very expensive that most men would not offer her. That's pathetic. Oh, and, again, at my age, regarding the bar scene (especially a college area bar), I'm now 20 to 25 years older than almost everyone in the bar, which further limits my options, even though I look about 38 according to most people I'm meeting.
The last woman I dated I had know for over 20 years and I always Thot she was the epitome of class. The disrespect started on the 3rd date and I took it for 8 more weeks and when I finally had enough and stood up to her and scoulded her for it she was done…tried for a week to smooth it over. Walked away no contact. Felt good to finally stand up for me!!!
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Anna , great video. I absolutely agree with you , that you do not reward bad behavior!
Thank you! 😃
First thing is be a man not a beta, do manly things like Anna was saying work out, work on you, quit being a yes ma'am, get out and go shopping for some new clothes, appearance is a lot,walk with confidence, learn you have options just because some woman shot you down, don't let it bother you, some of them like that have ego problems anyways,dust yourself off and check out other ones, it's funny later on when the one that shot you down sees you with a prettier one the following next week and you just kinda look at them and smile 😁👍 Anna have a great week 🦋
Great additional advice, thank you! Have a great rest of your week, as well! :)
Enjoyed your video. Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
You are an absolute genius. I can't afford it now. But, I will take your program.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
I wish I had seen this video 5 years earlier. Thank you!
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Great video. Walking away is hard for a man. Even if the love isn't there anymore. We're just wired differently.
I know, you're not quitters!
Hi Anna I Have been watching your videos never made a comment but this video is spot on, I’m married For 38 years we have 2 children and life is good, Wemen
My computer went down before I got to finish girl’s were the same 38 years ago not much has changed but I found a good Wife and Mother . I married twice and lived with 1 , I had given up but 38 years ago we found each other, Don’t give up.
Thank you for your comment and I’m happy for you!
OMG! You are amazing! How do you know what you know?!?!?! You are totally high value. Thanks for sharing a women’s secret world. Russell Brand and Joe Rogan talk about being you, the Perfect you, and all else falls into place.
Wow, thank you!
Thank You ✊🏾
My pleasure ❤️
Thanks for saying we are the prize. Men do chores women would never do. We are a lot more helpful to women than they are to us. It's nice to spend time with someone and love them but we have to stop acting like we are begging for the prize. This is why women catch the flowers at weddings. They are looking for a catch---a man who does chores and provides and protects her. The way to have confidence is to be willing to let her go at any moment. That's all.. If you love her deeply so much you'd be hurt if she was gone; that's a lady who'd be a fantastic best friend..
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One of your best videos..
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Excellent video Anna!
Great info on informing a lady she is not up to standard and leave her. Good to see the surprize on their face.
Yes! Like children they won't learn unless they're taught some tough lessons. (And I wouldn't have to compare them to children if they didn't act like it!)
Great video as usual!!! Thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
Thank you!!!
My pleasure ❤️
You are an amazing woman with amazing facial features,God bless!
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
You are my wing woman, just love and hear and understanding, on keeping my Dime interested in me and life together. Thanks for sharing.
You are so welcome and thank you for being here, I appreciate you! You may like this one on how to keep a keeper happy (she should also want to keep you happy!): ruclips.net/video/-RZK4ycesV0/видео.html
agreed!
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Oh my, Anna you have never looked so sensual than you do in this video. I don't know how you do it, but, even when you are sick, you glow.
Lovely compliment, thank you!
Tranquility provides Beauty.
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Just imagine if men/simps all call out bad behaviour as it happens, how much a better place the world would improve into.
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There’s something about the premise here that I have issues with. Confidence comes from knowing what you’re doing, usually from having had previous experience with the issue or problem or just with dealing successfully with problems in general. If one is trying to show they have confidence, to demonstrate that they have confidence, especially to try and win a woman’s attention that is practically demonstrating (to yourself) that you really don’t have confidence at all. Seems better to me to methodically become adept at dealing with things over time, to the point that you become confidant and if that gets noticed by a woman as an admirable attribute then, fine. If it doesn’t then trying to reach to get noticed is an act of not being confident. I personally, at that point, would begin to question my own desires. Makes me think of the line from Sugar Magnolia, “she don’t come and I don’t follow, waits back stage while I sing to you”. But it’s good to think about these things which is why I read and like Your Wingman. Keep the flow going.
We are on the same page! It's not about *trying* to be confident *with women but within yourself* which comes from trusting yourself to handle life, basically. And that comes from getting out of your comfort zone in various ways until that practice becomes natural action. (I think you know what I mean lol)
Test me? I took my comprehensive examination for my graduate degree. No more testing for me. Anyway, at 67 I'm not in the market for a relationship. But I still enjoy your videos.
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Keep up the good work, might try your program one day.
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This is by far the BEST ever video I have ever watched !!!! I cannot thank you enough for posting this.
You're very welcome! 🥰
@@YourWingmam Not only that, I already purchased your unshakable confidence program and I will start going at it soon. You are simply the best and to the point .
How's it been for you so far? Have you found it helpful?
@@YourWingmam I am still struggling on a few things and I have given up hope on finding someone meaningful in my life. After a recent nasty divorce I guess I need some time to heal. I have so much to offer on many levels - love - respect - caring - romance - but it seems nowdays you need to play a different game which I have no energy to do so. I prefer honesty and integrity - I am shifting my energy to improving myself ( gym, continued education to improve my career and build some form of business ) ... You seem to the best advisors out there - straight to the point - and I will seriously consider a private session with you for some advise. Needless to say I am quite frustrated and I need some guidance .. Maybe now that I have given up on finding someone special - that special person will appear in my life - who knows - but for sure I plan a session with you at some point as I know I need help. My problem is that I am very genuine, and I can give the world to a worthy partner but probably my approach is wrong. At the same time, I really don't have the energy to play "games' in order to win someone's heart. I need to get in touch with you for help. Thank you for reaching out.
Thank you. I'm down 54 lbs in 20 months.
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Another reason for not rewarding, (of anything more than an atta girl level comment), for good behavior is that...good behavior should be the norm. A quality person, man or woman, should NOT expect reward for doing the right thing. High value people do the right thing because that's how they are wired.
Working out, going to the gym, losing weight are all things you do FOR YOURSELF. It can make you more attractive to women, but it's not anything close to a golden ticket. It is no replacement for game. Men and women all over the world are making connections every minute of everyday without engaging in an intense workout program or being svelte or Adonis.
Unless you are really obese now, it's not going to change greatly how women see you. It will do those other things Anna said and likely change WHICH women find you attractive. The women who prefer men who are muscular, are a subset of women in general. Most are gym rats, runners or exercise fiends themselves.
Many women though, DO NOT prefer a muscular man for anything but a daydream. So you are potentially making your net smaller if you get too bulky.
All you need is to do is get that gut off (mostly), pumping iron to get a girl is not necessary and can backfire. AND you need to do it before you meet her generally. Lose the gut and learn panache. Skip the dumbbells unless you are scrawny, or dig muscle bound women (no judgement). But you still need some game.
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@@YourWingmam 8:19 Goodness you can dazzle.
thank you great video Wingmam keep up your great work
Much appreciated 🙏
Your channel is execellent
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Damn good job. U got game girl.
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You are so sweet I love hearing your wisdom , I wish we could meet sometime that would really make my life so much easier . Love your shirt your so alsome you are
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I live alone,I sleep alone.I am content with my life. There is nothing, nothing that any woman could bring to the table to enhance my Life.
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Spot on Anna, I enjoy your content.
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The best version of you for you is good even if your not looking for someone. I think that has been my recient thought about people who preach you have to act like x to find a descent women. It just seems like acting fake.
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Dang Anna your videos just get more brilliant in every way
Thank you, I appreciate your comment!!
@@YourWingmam I appreciate too
Hi lovely Wingmam x Really excellent video...inspiring...well done x
So glad you liked it, thanks for watching!
Be free! The more self mastery, the more freedom. The more freedom, the more confidence. The more confidence, the more people will be attracted to you...even when you don't want it! LOL It all starts with....you and your personal development that only you can do. BE YOUR OWN PRIZE! Don't worry about the opposite sex, they will come on their own accord. (yes this is self-talk LOL) Be well and make it so!
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@@YourWingmam is this you or just a bot?
I suggest you start giving advice to women too on how to be a good girl, a good lady and a good person. Arrogance is common among women these days. Beautiful ladies like you should become role models for them.
That's a good suggestion. Thank you for sharing your thoughts I will put that into consideration. I appreciate your feedback 🙏
Great video and advice!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Wow Miss AJ.;) Your advice it's home for me. I absolutely feel more empowered to be the best man for ME! That is my first priority. My second priority is your wake up to love program.. 😁💪. Thank you for opening my eyes and mind to many important subjects. A side note;,, how long have you had that cardboard cutout of the cat in the background?? 😏 Somehow for me that gives me a kick in my morale.. lolol. again thank you!
Glad my advice has hit home for you! ... it's actually a stuffy cat lol it was accidentally in a video awhile back and since I've made a game of hiding it in videos... gotta keep things fun!
Good point about keeping life on the fun side 😜 I also am trying to focus on Embracing the Struggle,, and sometimes find that I tend to fight it rather than embrace. Keep up the great advice! ,, and keep "Stuffy" (?) in the mix! Xoxo
I remember going by a retirement home once and i learned a lot . men weren't chasing women -- women were chasing men because there weren't any left alive at their age . They were literally fighting for the attention of these few guys that lived there, it was hilarious. A proper MGTOW attitude is a good way to quit playing around and take care of yourself . I think of the money I spent on women. Now it's all mine , I can go fishing and buy tools and have the vehicles I want .Today I saw a killer barbecue and nearly bought it . I don't hate women but I'm not playing the game anymore . I still have women friends but I don't get physically or emotionally involved with them because I don't need the drama . I know there are a few good ones out there, but it's a lot of work that in most cases, I no longer have time for .
I was just on a cruise to Alaska, and there were men in their 80s dancing the Polka with lovely women, so, there is hope yet for us 50somethings.
Some people can be happy single and that's totally ok! Better single than sorry :)
I have walked away from so many women who do not meet my standards. Any red flags and I am gone. I deserve the best and women are on trial to me
Excellent attitude! I hope you tell them why to maybe help the next guy they meet, they won't figure it out on their own. :)
Hi Anna. You have helped me before and I have a coffee date on Thursday. I was of the mind of getting her a single yellow Rose and giving it to her at the end of our coffee date after we go back to.out vehicles. A woman bartender friend of mine suggested this. Should I do that or is it a bit much?. Please reply if you do see this. Thanks again from John of Boston
Can you imagine the trajectory one could set an entitled princess on by being the first guy to NOT lay down and lap it up?
By boldly getting up and when she asks where you're going saying,
"If you would treat that hostess like that, your future husband's life is going to suck from day 1. BYE"
man, you bump into her 5 years later and she's pushing a shopping cart full of cats.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@@YourWingmam I am thrilled that you like my humor 😄
HELLO ANNA. DID ALL THAT NO DICE. SEEM.S THAT THEY HAVE A SAD LIFE OR GREW UP WITH THE WRONG CROWD. I DON.T WASTE MY TIME WITH WOMEN WHO DON.T HAVE A CLUE WHAT THEY WANT. I CAN.T READ THEIR MIND. NO LOSS FOR ME. AWESOME TOPIC. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Sounds like one of your deal breakers is not knowing what they want! Excellent. I invite you to figure out what else is on the deal maker / breaker list! Thanks for watching! :)
"Prōcess" long O.
You're so Canadian 😉
🙂
I always carry the choker chain and some biscuits in my pocket and when she hears the chain jingling she calms down.
LOL!
Gentlemen we must not forget, without us guys, women can't have children!! Then they can't play house. Lol. Don't get caught up in their charm and beauty. They can be like black widow spiders,. You know the deal. Stay in your lane and do yourself. Peace brothers 😎👍👌💯
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@@YourWingmamYour definitely the prize Red. I know. ❤️🥰🔥👍👋👋
You Are The Prize Anna 🥰🔥😍🔥🥰
One of your absolute best.
Thank you so much!!
I turned a woman down who offered to get an hotel room and pay for it!. I know her but not on any romantic level and never even thought of her that way!. I almost felt strange as what modern men actually turn down sex?..........well me apparently!. How ridiculous we should be made feel to be odd or the one in the wrong. I pretended I thought she was joking and I am good at making fun of situations to avoid embarrassment on both parts. Fact is I considered why should I get "used"? Opposite way around to the norm!. My assessment of her..........If she doesn't value herself what chance she will value anyone else?. My actions seem very "sigma" a word I wasn't familiar with years back. Question........Am I right to keep my values? or continue to be "lonely"?. I know the answer but it is rather depressing as women are in general low quality, which again I feel bad about saying!. Some women I find gross tbh! 😞
Thank you for sharing your experience and thoughts, I appreciate your feedback!