My SP reached out to me last week after 4 months of no contact. This weekend he told me he loved me after 10 months of hot/cold! He said his daughter pointed out that he truly loved me 😉 Thank you, Dylan, for all your sleep tapes, meditations, and constant reminders of self worth ❤️ Listen to Dylan and keep yourself glowing with all his PRIZE energy! 🔥
This applies to everyone in your life. When you truly stop giving a fuck (i.e. value yourself), it doesn’t make a difference when the people you thought would show up simply don’t. All it should mean is “Great! Now I have space for genuine, like-minded individuals to come into my life. Thank you!” You’re steadily content as is - independent from the actions of others. You are your rock. You know that nothing outside can fulfill you. You are perfect and complete just as you are. Anything else is just a garnish on top of Michelin star crème brûlée 🌟😎🤙
I got a text tonight from my ex who left then came back and “strung me along”. Found your videos a few weeks ago and realized I was LETTING myself be strung along. He texted me tonight with total “I want you in my life” energy and I wasn’t even shocked or excited when I saw the text. I was like meh, no thanks. I’m committing to myself now and I felt no need to even text back. From a genuine place within. It’s funny he came running back on the night I’ve been talking, laughing and playing Xbox with an amazing guy friend who jokingly…but also we know he’s serious..calls me “Queen”. Yes my Queen…all day hahaha
@@D07770 for sure! which normally I go back when there’s the pull back that they want me…but nah. I deserve better and moving on. If you’d asked me that months ago I would have done anything for him to say he wanted me back. “It’s beneath me” vibes as I think Dylan would say 🤭🤭
I had SP contact me almost 3 weeks ago. We hadn’t talked for a few months prior to that so I was pleasantly surprised. We talked like old times and I believed we were going to be in communication more frequently. Then the communication stopped. I sent him a message the day after Thanksgiving but he has yet to reply. I wasn’t bothered but I noticed that he’s been online on Facebook and hasn’t even taken the time to reply. Today, I thought about calling him again but I didn’t because I felt like I was going back into chasing mode. I don’t want to repeat the same pattern that we had before. What you’re saying here is so spot-on. If he can’t take the time to send a quick response in these last two weeks, I’m just going to forget about him until he acts right!
I hope you see this. You have changed my life. Started watching you during Covid and it’s been 3 years of consistently coming to your channel on my lowest and highest days. I thank you for helping me realizing I’m quite literally the best woman on earth 🤣! I wish I could hug you. I always send your videos to my friends hopefully they actually hear you when they listen to you. (If that makes sense)
I love your pep talks. I think we need a confidence/ prize meditation with upbeat music to hype us up, too 😀 Much love to you, Dylan. And to all queens and kings in the comment section of course!
Thank you. I love this. I told my SP back then when we were together, that he could just send me a short note that he needs space/time/is busy, and that everything else is disrespectful. He never did. I always thought that I was ‚too needy‘ (well I was in terms of self-love) but hell no, it’s not fking needy when I demand for respect and being prioritised. But I see my own reflection in his behaviour. I see ONLY me. All the things I asked from him, respect, love, time, etc. I NEVER gave myself. Never. Actually I always was talking to myself. Crying for myself, running after myself. The relationship with him was the perfect mirror for my relationship with myself. And funny enough now we are separated (mostly nc), I started to work on myself, commit to myself - he did too. He started to structure his days, started meditating again, etc. He completely mirrors myself again, it’s almost scary. And I think I really got the point though: I don’t even want that old story back. I don’t want those old versions of us in that toxic dynamic we had back. I want that version I always saw in him, that I had for a short period of time before my insecurities kicked in. It’s really about letting go and properly breaking up with the old story. Who wants that? Nobody wants that. I want someone who chooses me, grows with me and thinks that I’m the best thing that ever happened to them. And I truly love him, but not that shitty version. He‘s a wonderful person and I will be ok with or without him (finally), I just love him. And I think that is something beautiful. And being with him would be wonderful. But I don’t want to force someone to be with me. I will be ok and I will thrive, no matter what. ❤
hello my friend, I'm so relate to you, and what you wrote it's almost the same as mine!!! I am restructuring my sc right now, wondering your status now after one year
I wouldn't say "if someone is not showing the way you want or deserve, stop caring about it", it is a sign for us, that we are not what we desire to be. That it is important to put yourself first. You can still care about your person, and remember that you are on a pedestal. It is not about "someone doesn't treat me right, so I am gonna remove myself from this connection because this is not something I deserve". It's about seeing, that it is not in line with your end state, and asking yourself what does it say about me? I don't see myself as the person I want to be. Okay, so what can I do to be that person, how can I change my thinking about myself. I understand the cocky confidence and stuff, but it is really not about being arrogant, as everything around us is a reflection of us, feedback to us about our self-concept. You don't need to do anything out here in 3D, just be aware, improve and see yourself always in the way you want to be.
Thank you for this. It’s about taking accountability and realizing how we are showing up. And, in my experience, it all comes from a place of genuine self love And unconditional love for your SO, this is easily applied. I reasonate with your message so thank you.
I am so glad u showed up in my feed because I absolutely freaking love u! Someone that doesn't sugar coat stuff! I do have to say it takes a minute to get to loving these kind of videos and actually being able to put them into use but when u do your world does change! 🙌
Needed to hear this. This kind of behavior is something I've been experiencing a lot recently so I really appreciate you speaking on it. You give advice in such a compassionate yet assertive way that helps so so much. ❤️
I feel like you were talking directly to me through this video! Always talking about things that I am currently going through! Thank you for your realness in all of these videos and reminding us of our worth and value! We have to start valuing and loving ourselves and stop caring about those who don't! Period! 💞✨
Exactly! I had a friend do that 3 times. I was just like that’s fine they don’t see my friendship as having worth in their life. It is what it is and I deserve friends that are friends.
I already know I‘m the prize and whenever I think of my old sp, I kinda just (honestly, without being sarcastic) feel sorry for him bc I know he‘s too scared/embarrassed to reach out after a fight but also knows I‘m the best and more than he could’ve dreamed of (seriously tho - just a few days before breaking up, a guy we were talking and having drinks with *literally* said to him, in front of me: ‚dude she‘s like every guy’s dream come true, she‘s so cool and perfect it‘s unreal - if you ever going to split up you‘ll only realise all that later at some point and hate yourself your whole life for that, you have no idea how blessed you are right now‘ and I remember automatically nodding in agreement like „yeah riight, I‘m pretty damn great; I‘d date myself too!“ 😄 And now we both know how this actually came true, he can‘t stand what he messed up while struggling to overcome insecurity and fear to reach out after months while knowing that time is pending because there’s a bunch of others waiting in line. But, I like my guys a bit more courageous tho 💁🏻♀️ It‘s like the universe is still waiting for me to make up my mind if I still want him so it should send him out or if I‘d rather pick another one - and I’m kinda relaxed, like deciding between a pair of shoes on which one to take 😄 I‘m mainly just here to stare at Dylan bc he‘s so cute, no pep talk needed otherwise 👸🏻❤
I have drafted out love lists for every aspect of my life so the instant someone comes into my life, be it a friend or romantic interest, i have the list to refer to that keeps me accountable about the things i expect and won't allow anyone to be the exception to the rule
ily dylan I've manifested the friend circle which I've desired all my life. Now I'm really greatful for each of them. Dylan you are an angel in my life. ILY so much 💕💕
After I watched this video everything that Dylan James said clicked in my brain, and unconsciously I started saying some affirmations like I am the prize, and believe me I feel good, u don’t need to chase after someone cause I am prioritize, Thank you Dylan for your valuable teachings! ❤️
Thank you so much, Dylan, you have given me so much conviction about who I really am. You are an angle. May the universe be with you all the time, fingers crossed that you always are here for us for support and the living example.
Called out of work last minute, cramps got too bad , purchased a movie and watched it, put on a very cute lounge fit, candles, going to order something yummy tonight …. Partner looked annoyed for a while decided I wouldn’t give in, asked to watch the movie together and we too a nap( it came to me he thought there would be a argument ) but I did NSR yesterday so I’m stable and aware.
The last 10 years of my journey into self development I have spent mostly single and celibate. I have worked on every aspect of myself and mastered so many things. My skill set is beyond anyone I've ever met. I feel like I am any woman's greatest option and I believe this with all my heart and I say it with all humility. This radiates and energy for me that attracts women to me like vultures to a carcass. And I'm almost 50 years old so I really put in the time. Majority of the women I attract are half my age. The thing that happens when you reach this level is it's hard to find anyone that can match your energy or compliment your life anywhere near close to how you would complement theirs. And people think your standards are too high but they're actually not. Loyalty and integrity in conjunction with being passionate about always striving to be the best version of yourself. It really is that simple but that is very difficult to find because most people don't find passion and being the best version of themself because it requires a lot of hard work. I went to share something with you all that it added to my regimen that is really leveled me up and that is taking ice baths everyday. It is a total game changer if you haven't added that to your regimen please try it out
Dylan, you have helped me so much. In June 2021, I had a coaching with you to redirect my thoughts. I have been so patient with myself during this transformation period in my life. Granted I was doing the work before you but you helped me take things to a whole new level! I am the prize, if not for anyone else, I am the prize to myself. I have really taken care of myself, I have seen myself, I have heard myself, and I am enjoying the process… truly. Things conform for me or they fall away from existence because my attention doesn’t flow to areas or people that do not pick me. Focusing on myself has been the best thing I have ever done and it sounds silly but growing up.. I was putting everyone and everything before me. Putting myself first was the most selfless thing I’ve ever done! It’s so necessary!! I am the most important person I’ll ever meet/know and so I’ve started treating myself as such! If there are people that come into my reality that don’t agree, that’s okay! I’m not tiptoeing around at all anymore, I am doing what’s best for me and if loving myself makes others uncomfortable, I have no words!
Pwease pwease do a whole single video on validation and people pleasing. Due some very bad childhood experiences, I find myself thinking what others are thinking of me al the time. I even noticed myself today how I wasn't looking for "male validation" and these men were giving me attention. It's so deeply ingrained in my mind that when I'm in public I'm constantly thinking of being judged. I noticed myself how whenever I'm looking for no validation from any person, people start reflecting it in my 3d. Like egoistic people changing their minds about me all of a sudden. People coming out of hiding and apologizing and wanting to be back in my life. Idk why for a day or two I seek no validation. But then it reverts back
You are perfection. Would perfection bat an eyelash at anything other than the best? You deserve the best. I pray you receive the highest form of love.💗🙏🏼
What’s crazy is when we go through life valuing ourselves as prizes but no matter how much we love ourselves others still don’t see our value so our lifelong romance is only with ourselves. Dating is really just one disappointment after another. My cats on the other hand have never let me down and they are prizes.
dylan you have changed my life and are getting through to me. thank you so much for everything, I have really internalized it’s not about your circumstances it’s about you and how you show up!
Exactly. Love yourself enough to know that a person choosing another person over you, or choosing you second or third. Putting you in competition with other people when they said they wanted you. Especially when your not doing that to them. Going to other people over you. Before choosing you. Think, why would you want to be someone's last choice? Make it known that your are 1st to you not just them putting you first. Best believe they are going to put themselves first. People can only do what you let them do to you. Unless they got a weapon lol. If you accept it they will do it. It don't mean you dont love them or want them. It means you love yourself. ❤️
You are highly attuned to understanding people, I’d love if you made videos on how to embrace and cultivate self value while intentionally being single such as after a break up
Hi Dylan, my scenario is work related. I recently joined a new job and I am slowly realizing I am not getting the respect I deserve as you spoke of in your video. Last week I was upset n literally felt no interest in life. This week I am telling myself - something better is on the way..I am worthy of a good team a great manager cuz I know i have the right skills
Hey Dylan, could you make a video on tough family systems? I know circumstances don't matter but some family systems are oppressive that makes it difficult to ignore circumstances.
can you please do a meditaion iam the always the prize , alayws a piroty and imoprtend . alwyas wanted ,dezired , chosen ,adored ,treasured , respekted. valued .worty , iam wildly attractiv and so beutiful and pefekt. i am so irrestable, unforgetable, irreplaceble, iam so blessed ,grateful and thankfull .everything alwas works out for me .i am so powerfull.i am always souronded by love ,peach happines o joy sucess o blessing. i always get what i want and i what i want wants me more and come to me always super fast and easily
I 100% get what you’re saying and am on board. I think where my issue comes in is, as a human who, as you said, would “never treat somebody like that”, it’s more of a shock factor at the disrespect. Not really a “worry”. It shows up as a genuine sadness and shock like WOW somewhere along the way I gave you some sort of impression that I allowed this kind of disrespect and I’m sorry for that, but that’s no longer the case. But you also don’t want to “read” them and set the record straight so it’s just kinda …. I guess the word is unsettled knowing that person is still behaving in this way. I don’t want to SAY “nope not ok” unless they reach out. So the silence just grows larger, the shock is still there because in my situation, my person is “needing some space and time” so we have barely communicated (where we were committed and talking every day before Thanksgiving). So, how do you get rid of the shock of wow i can’t believe you treated me that way? So that you can move INTO the “unbothered” phase. I can’t just flip my feelings off for this person or be unaffected by their actions so i think that’s the missing puzzle piece for me. I get where i NEED to be. Unbothered and acting like the prize. But does that immediately then take away the hurt or shock of the disrespect you received? For me it’s kinda hard to drop that feeling and I don’t know how to.
How you respond & yes if we shift in how we show up is I think telling of where you are at you are right. I don’t think it’s overnight and people will see you shift but you definitely can do it no matter what’s happened you have to keep going. I’ve definitely shifted as the weeks are going on less and less worried. I know this is inevitable. But there’s a lot I want to keep elevating on for myself. I know there was a parent wound that I’ve had to work through to understand why I was behaving the way I was and about the ego
Dylannn you ain’t have to read me so loud🗣🗣🗣🗣 👀👀 but I needed to checked.. especially hearing you say the part being proof of others not trying and yet prioritizing them. That clicked for me
Finally someone pointing out these things that people need to hear rather then trying to "manipulate" through the law of attraction. This is the missing key 🗝️ for manifesting that people often overlook because they are stuck on the SP. People if you are obsessed with anyone or anything you are a total repelent to them or to anything you want. This is how the law works. It is all just an energy 😌 From the psychological view you are the anxious attachment attracting the avoidant. This never works together unless you change your attachment style to secure. In other words when you priorities yourself and learn how to communicate - be mentally stable.
Aren't we supposed to believe that people around us are us pushed out? And when we are treated with ghosting, bread crumbs and hot and cold behavior that it's our past thinking from (the old man) making them treat us that way? And when we treat ourselves with love and respect they have to reflect that new behavior because it's our reality and they hae no free will?
Isn’t that what he’s talking about? Actually embodying that new version of you? Killing off any undesirable versions of anybody by embodying and not accepting any less or reacting to it and focusing on you, knowing it into being? Or did you miss that?
@Truth Heals Your response here is why I commented. This video sent me into a to tailspin. Because I was saying, yes why would I let my Sp be a POS to me? I'm done and I've wasted so much time. But I realize, he's me pushed out so I still have to work on me. Thank you for helping me to see it from your perspective also.
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A Dylan James video a day keeps the limiting beliefs away.
HOW IS THIS NOT PINNNED LMAO
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My SP reached out to me last week after 4 months of no contact. This weekend he told me he loved me after 10 months of hot/cold! He said his daughter pointed out that he truly loved me 😉
Thank you, Dylan, for all your sleep tapes, meditations, and constant reminders of self worth ❤️ Listen to Dylan and keep yourself glowing with all his PRIZE energy! 🔥
Wooohoooo🎉
Yu-huuuuu 💥🥳
As he should, you are a queen, of course he would love you and come after you. Know your worth, always.
Congratulations ❤ you deserve it
This applies to everyone in your life. When you truly stop giving a fuck (i.e. value yourself), it doesn’t make a difference when the people you thought would show up simply don’t. All it should mean is “Great! Now I have space for genuine, like-minded individuals to come into my life. Thank you!” You’re steadily content as is - independent from the actions of others. You are your rock. You know that nothing outside can fulfill you. You are perfect and complete just as you are. Anything else is just a garnish on top of Michelin star crème brûlée 🌟😎🤙
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If someone isn’t showing up properly, stop caring about them.
I got a text tonight from my ex who left then came back and “strung me along”. Found your videos a few weeks ago and realized I was LETTING myself be strung along. He texted me tonight with total “I want you in my life” energy and I wasn’t even shocked or excited when I saw the text. I was like meh, no thanks. I’m committing to myself now and I felt no need to even text back. From a genuine place within. It’s funny he came running back on the night I’ve been talking, laughing and playing Xbox with an amazing guy friend who jokingly…but also we know he’s serious..calls me “Queen”. Yes my Queen…all day hahaha
@lilbrit1811 Sounds like a text book push-and-pull dynamic.
Yes love that "I want you in my life" energy ❤🔥
@@D07770 for sure! which normally I go back when there’s the pull back that they want me…but nah. I deserve better and moving on. If you’d asked me that months ago I would have done anything for him to say he wanted me back. “It’s beneath me” vibes as I think Dylan would say 🤭🤭
I am the prize. I'm a high value man with emotional intelligence. Not to be manipulated.
When your self concept changes, they don't dare you to treat disrespectfully. It is automatic, once you change, they change at the same time.
I had SP contact me almost 3 weeks ago. We hadn’t talked for a few months prior to that so I was pleasantly surprised. We talked like old times and I believed we were going to be in communication more frequently. Then the communication stopped. I sent him a message the day after Thanksgiving but he has yet to reply. I wasn’t bothered but I noticed that he’s been online on Facebook and hasn’t even taken the time to reply. Today, I thought about calling him again but I didn’t because I felt like I was going back into chasing mode. I don’t want to repeat the same pattern that we had before. What you’re saying here is so spot-on. If he can’t take the time to send a quick response in these last two weeks, I’m just going to forget about him until he acts right!
I hope you see this. You have changed my life. Started watching you during Covid and it’s been 3 years of consistently coming to your channel on my lowest and highest days. I thank you for helping me realizing I’m quite literally the best woman on earth 🤣! I wish I could hug you. I always send your videos to my friends hopefully they actually hear you when they listen to you. (If that makes sense)
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Prize mentality ❤️
I love your pep talks. I think we need a confidence/ prize meditation with upbeat music to hype us up, too 😀 Much love to you, Dylan. And to all queens and kings in the comment section of course!
Thank you. I love this. I told my SP back then when we were together, that he could just send me a short note that he needs space/time/is busy, and that everything else is disrespectful. He never did. I always thought that I was ‚too needy‘ (well I was in terms of self-love) but hell no, it’s not fking needy when I demand for respect and being prioritised. But I see my own reflection in his behaviour. I see ONLY me. All the things I asked from him, respect, love, time, etc. I NEVER gave myself. Never. Actually I always was talking to myself. Crying for myself, running after myself. The relationship with him was the perfect mirror for my relationship with myself. And funny enough now we are separated (mostly nc), I started to work on myself, commit to myself - he did too. He started to structure his days, started meditating again, etc. He completely mirrors myself again, it’s almost scary. And I think I really got the point though: I don’t even want that old story back. I don’t want those old versions of us in that toxic dynamic we had back. I want that version I always saw in him, that I had for a short period of time before my insecurities kicked in. It’s really about letting go and properly breaking up with the old story. Who wants that? Nobody wants that. I want someone who chooses me, grows with me and thinks that I’m the best thing that ever happened to them. And I truly love him, but not that shitty version. He‘s a wonderful person and I will be ok with or without him (finally), I just love him. And I think that is something beautiful. And being with him would be wonderful. But I don’t want to force someone to be with me. I will be ok and I will thrive, no matter what. ❤
hello my friend, I'm so relate to you, and what you wrote it's almost the same as mine!!! I am restructuring my sc right now, wondering your status now after one year
Have treated myself like a second option for so long, I AM THE PRIZE. Thankyou Dylan✨
Damn Dylan! 😂
This was a hard one to watch. I feel ashamed of myself for not knowing my own self worth. Not anymore! 👸🏾
I wouldn't say "if someone is not showing the way you want or deserve, stop caring about it", it is a sign for us, that we are not what we desire to be. That it is important to put yourself first. You can still care about your person, and remember that you are on a pedestal. It is not about "someone doesn't treat me right, so I am gonna remove myself from this connection because this is not something I deserve". It's about seeing, that it is not in line with your end state, and asking yourself what does it say about me? I don't see myself as the person I want to be. Okay, so what can I do to be that person, how can I change my thinking about myself.
I understand the cocky confidence and stuff, but it is really not about being arrogant, as everything around us is a reflection of us, feedback to us about our self-concept. You don't need to do anything out here in 3D, just be aware, improve and see yourself always in the way you want to be.
Thank you.
Thank you for this. It’s about taking accountability and realizing how we are showing up. And, in my experience, it all comes from a place of genuine self love And unconditional love for your SO, this is easily applied. I reasonate with your message so thank you.
I am so glad u showed up in my feed because I absolutely freaking love u! Someone that doesn't sugar coat stuff! I do have to say it takes a minute to get to loving these kind of videos and actually being able to put them into use but when u do your world does change! 🙌
I was always the prize.
Needed to hear this. This kind of behavior is something I've been experiencing a lot recently so I really appreciate you speaking on it. You give advice in such a compassionate yet assertive way that helps so so much. ❤️
I feel like you were talking directly to me through this video! Always talking about things that I am currently going through! Thank you for your realness in all of these videos and reminding us of our worth and value! We have to start valuing and loving ourselves and stop caring about those who don't! Period! 💞✨
This was like the frustrated big bro talk I needed 😌
Exactly! I had a friend do that 3 times. I was just like that’s fine they don’t see my friendship as having worth in their life. It is what it is and I deserve friends that are friends.
Needed this SASS and HONESTY DYLAN!!!
I would love for Dylan to go into detail what “proper” treatment is ❤
Finally stood up for myself and put my foot down setting a boundary and now he’s all butthurt lol
Congratulations Dylan for reaching 100k
I already know I‘m the prize and whenever I think of my old sp, I kinda just (honestly, without being sarcastic) feel sorry for him bc I know he‘s too scared/embarrassed to reach out after a fight but also knows I‘m the best and more than he could’ve dreamed of (seriously tho - just a few days before breaking up, a guy we were talking and having drinks with *literally* said to him, in front of me: ‚dude she‘s like every guy’s dream come true, she‘s so cool and perfect it‘s unreal - if you ever going to split up you‘ll only realise all that later at some point and hate yourself your whole life for that, you have no idea how blessed you are right now‘ and I remember automatically nodding in agreement like „yeah riight, I‘m pretty damn great; I‘d date myself too!“ 😄 And now we both know how this actually came true, he can‘t stand what he messed up while struggling to overcome insecurity and fear to reach out after months while knowing that time is pending because there’s a bunch of others waiting in line. But, I like my guys a bit more courageous tho 💁🏻♀️ It‘s like the universe is still waiting for me to make up my mind if I still want him so it should send him out or if I‘d rather pick another one - and I’m kinda relaxed, like deciding between a pair of shoes on which one to take 😄 I‘m mainly just here to stare at Dylan bc he‘s so cute, no pep talk needed otherwise 👸🏻❤
I have drafted out love lists for every aspect of my life so the instant someone comes into my life, be it a friend or romantic interest, i have the list to refer to that keeps me accountable about the things i expect and won't allow anyone to be the exception to the rule
God you're always right on time!! Thank you Dylan❤️🙏🏾
I needed to hear this terribly. My spirit has been so low this month.
I wish I had Dylan 15 years ago
It's never late
ily dylan I've manifested the friend circle which I've desired all my life. Now I'm really greatful for each of them. Dylan you are an angel in my life. ILY so much 💕💕
After I watched this video everything that Dylan James said clicked in my brain, and unconsciously I started saying some affirmations like I am the prize, and believe me I feel good, u don’t need to chase after someone cause I am prioritize, Thank you Dylan for your valuable teachings! ❤️
This is all gold. ✨🔨 Thank you.
congrats on 100K subs!!! You're awesome Dylan :)
Thank you so much, Dylan, you have given me so much conviction about who I really am. You are an angle. May the universe be with you all the time, fingers crossed that you always are here for us for support and the living example.
Called out of work last minute, cramps got too bad , purchased a movie and watched it, put on a very cute lounge fit, candles, going to order something yummy tonight …. Partner looked annoyed for a while decided I wouldn’t give in, asked to watch the movie together and we too a nap( it came to me he thought there would be a argument ) but I did NSR yesterday so I’m stable and aware.
U r that bestie who is so angry with me for not prioritising my self😘😘😘 I needed this❤️
Life is too short, if someone treats you below your worth play “Bejewelled” and make the whole place shimmer
The last 10 years of my journey into self development I have spent mostly single and celibate. I have worked on every aspect of myself and mastered so many things. My skill set is beyond anyone I've ever met. I feel like I am any woman's greatest option and I believe this with all my heart and I say it with all humility. This radiates and energy for me that attracts women to me like vultures to a carcass. And I'm almost 50 years old so I really put in the time. Majority of the women I attract are half my age. The thing that happens when you reach this level is it's hard to find anyone that can match your energy or compliment your life anywhere near close to how you would complement theirs. And people think your standards are too high but they're actually not. Loyalty and integrity in conjunction with being passionate about always striving to be the best version of yourself. It really is that simple but that is very difficult to find because most people don't find passion and being the best version of themself because it requires a lot of hard work. I went to share something with you all that it added to my regimen that is really leveled me up and that is taking ice baths everyday. It is a total game changer if you haven't added that to your regimen please try it out
I definitely understand this
Dylan, you have helped me so much. In June 2021, I had a coaching with you to redirect my thoughts. I have been so patient with myself during this transformation period in my life. Granted I was doing the work before you but you helped me take things to a whole new level!
I am the prize, if not for anyone else, I am the prize to myself. I have really taken care of myself, I have seen myself, I have heard myself, and I am enjoying the process… truly. Things conform for me or they fall away from existence because my attention doesn’t flow to areas or people that do not pick me. Focusing on myself has been the best thing I have ever done and it sounds silly but growing up.. I was putting everyone and everything before me. Putting myself first was the most selfless thing I’ve ever done! It’s so necessary!! I am the most important person I’ll ever meet/know and so I’ve started treating myself as such! If there are people that come into my reality that don’t agree, that’s okay! I’m not tiptoeing around at all anymore, I am doing what’s best for me and if loving myself makes others uncomfortable, I have no words!
Thank you so much for creating this video. It was such perfect timing for me!
You changed my life, Dylan. So grateful for you. Keep teaching what needs to be taught ❤
This could not have come at a better time.
Pwease pwease do a whole single video on validation and people pleasing. Due some very bad childhood experiences, I find myself thinking what others are thinking of me al the time. I even noticed myself today how I wasn't looking for "male validation" and these men were giving me attention. It's so deeply ingrained in my mind that when I'm in public I'm constantly thinking of being judged.
I noticed myself how whenever I'm looking for no validation from any person, people start reflecting it in my 3d. Like egoistic people changing their minds about me all of a sudden. People coming out of hiding and apologizing and wanting to be back in my life. Idk why for a day or two I seek no validation. But then it reverts back
THIS is why I love Dylan ❤ Sometimes you just need a little tough love. 😊
You are perfection. Would perfection bat an eyelash at anything other than the best?
You deserve the best. I pray you receive the highest form of love.💗🙏🏼
What’s crazy is when we go through life valuing ourselves as prizes but no matter how much we love ourselves others still don’t see our value so our lifelong romance is only with ourselves. Dating is really just one disappointment after another. My cats on the other hand have never let me down and they are prizes.
100K!!!!! You go Daddy
You hit 100,000 subs. Congrats♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🍀🍀🌻🍀🌻🍀🌻
dylan you have changed my life and are getting through to me. thank you so much for everything, I have really internalized it’s not about your circumstances it’s about you and how you show up!
Exactly. Love yourself enough to know that a person choosing another person over you, or choosing you second or third. Putting you in competition with other people when they said they wanted you. Especially when your not doing that to them. Going to other people over you. Before choosing you. Think, why would you want to be someone's last choice? Make it known that your are 1st to you not just them putting you first. Best believe they are going to put themselves first. People can only do what you let them do to you. Unless they got a weapon lol. If you accept it they will do it. It don't mean you dont love them or want them. It means you love yourself. ❤️
Dylan A King💕
This is right on time. I am the prize. ❤❤❤
I loved this❤❤❤. Thank you for all the work that you do!! Can you make a self value meditation tape plz
Thank you, Dylan. 💕
Daddy has 100K now! 🥰
Wow! You are awesome Dylan! Love this and thank you! 🤗💖
I really needed this.
Thank you for this wake up call because I needed to hear this
You are highly attuned to understanding people, I’d love if you made videos on how to embrace and cultivate self value while intentionally being single such as after a break up
I needed to hear this. Thank you 🙏🏼 I was just about to repeat a cycle with someone. Thankfully I’ve dismounted that bike just in time 👌🏼🙌🏼😊
A reminder like this is needed sometimes. Thank you.
Whew! I needed that message. Thank you
Dylan, congratulations on 100,000 subscribers!!!
Hi Dylan, my scenario is work related. I recently joined a new job and I am slowly realizing I am not getting the respect I deserve as you spoke of in your video. Last week I was upset n literally felt no interest in life. This week I am telling myself - something better is on the way..I am worthy of a good team a great manager cuz I know i have the right skills
I am so thankful I found your channel. Thank you for the valuable insights.
Amaaaaaaaaaaazing, my dear. Straight to the point! I love you :) Thanks for reminding me who I truly am!
Boom this is a whole word!!!🙌🏻🙌🏻
I am the prize.
Hey Dylan, could you make a video on tough family systems? I know circumstances don't matter but some family systems are oppressive that makes it difficult to ignore circumstances.
I needed this! Thank you Dylan for the reminder ❤
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this video isn’t for me cos i already know i am the prize but preach u left no crumbs
Love you Dylan!! Love from South Africa 🇿🇦
can you please do a meditaion iam the always the prize , alayws a piroty and imoprtend . alwyas wanted ,dezired , chosen ,adored ,treasured , respekted. valued .worty , iam wildly attractiv and so beutiful and pefekt. i am so irrestable, unforgetable, irreplaceble, iam so blessed ,grateful and thankfull .everything alwas works out for me .i am so powerfull.i am always souronded by love ,peach happines o joy sucess o blessing. i always get what i want and i what i want wants me more and come to me always super fast and easily
Sounds like you just made an empowering set of affirmations/meditation! 👏
You can make your own overnight recording with these affirmations (:
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Ready to be lovingly dragged ❤
You are right!! thank you so much appreciated👏🏻🌷🙏🏼
That little side eye at the end HAHAHA I feel so exposed rn
congratulations on 100k 🥳🥳🥳
Congrats on 100K Dylan! 🎉
Wow this has been on my mind so much lately. I asked for an answer and I got it. Thank you
100,000 subscribers!!! Woohoo 🙌 🎉😊
I love this! Thank you so much, Dylan!
Man this video got me all the way together.. going to save it for whenever I need a push
I 100% get what you’re saying and am on board. I think where my issue comes in is, as a human who, as you said, would “never treat somebody like that”, it’s more of a shock factor at the disrespect. Not really a “worry”. It shows up as a genuine sadness and shock like WOW somewhere along the way I gave you some sort of impression that I allowed this kind of disrespect and I’m sorry for that, but that’s no longer the case. But you also don’t want to “read” them and set the record straight so it’s just kinda …. I guess the word is unsettled knowing that person is still behaving in this way. I don’t want to SAY “nope not ok” unless they reach out. So the silence just grows larger, the shock is still there because in my situation, my person is “needing some space and time” so we have barely communicated (where we were committed and talking every day before Thanksgiving). So, how do you get rid of the shock of wow i can’t believe you treated me that way? So that you can move INTO the “unbothered” phase. I can’t just flip my feelings off for this person or be unaffected by their actions so i think that’s the missing puzzle piece for me. I get where i NEED to be. Unbothered and acting like the prize. But does that immediately then take away the hurt or shock of the disrespect you received? For me it’s kinda hard to drop that feeling and I don’t know how to.
Love you, Dylan! Powerful advice!
HUGE THANK YOU! 💖👍
How you respond & yes if we shift in how we show up is I think telling of where you are at you are right. I don’t think it’s overnight and people will see you shift but you definitely can do it no matter what’s happened you have to keep going. I’ve definitely shifted as the weeks are going on less and less worried. I know this is inevitable. But there’s a lot I want to keep elevating on for myself. I know there was a parent wound that I’ve had to work through to understand why I was behaving the way I was and about the ego
Dylannn you ain’t have to read me so loud🗣🗣🗣🗣 👀👀 but I needed to checked.. especially hearing you say the part being proof of others not trying and yet prioritizing them. That clicked for me
This was awesome. I really needed to gear this. Thanks a million.
Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this ❤
Loved everything you said.
I always say the same thing, it takes seconds to say you will be busy ✌️
Excellent video as always.
Thank you for this wonderful video Dylan!
Lol keys...my husband forgets his wedding band...like its nothing..
I needed this right now! ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing Dylan!! I look forward to your videos
Can you make a daily meditation that says some of these things? ❤
Finally someone pointing out these things that people need to hear rather then trying to "manipulate" through the law of attraction. This is the missing key 🗝️ for manifesting that people often overlook because they are stuck on the SP. People if you are obsessed with anyone or anything you are a total repelent to them or to anything you want. This is how the law works. It is all just an energy 😌
From the psychological view you are the anxious attachment attracting the avoidant. This never works together unless you change your attachment style to secure. In other words when you priorities yourself and learn how to communicate - be mentally stable.
Aren't they simply reflecting your thinking when they treat you shit?
Aren't we supposed to believe that people around us are us pushed out? And when we are treated with ghosting, bread crumbs and hot and cold behavior that it's our past thinking from (the old man) making them treat us that way? And when we treat ourselves with love and respect they have to reflect that new behavior because it's our reality and they hae no free will?
Isn’t that what he’s talking about? Actually embodying that new version of you? Killing off any undesirable versions of anybody by embodying and not accepting any less or reacting to it and focusing on you, knowing it into being? Or did you miss that?
@Truth Heals Your response here is why I commented. This video sent me into a to tailspin. Because I was saying, yes why would I let my Sp be a POS to me? I'm done and I've wasted so much time. But I realize, he's me pushed out so I still have to work on me. Thank you for helping me to see it from your perspective also.