I tend to agree with the majority of what you're saying. One thing though- most of what you outline is much more tricky to implement for long term relationships and/or marriage with kids. As soon as you're living with a woman, not validating her or giving her minimal attention isn't going to work. If you're constantly in your 'masculine frame' and never giving her your approval or validation, she's going to end up getting tired and losing interest over time. I can just hear the conversation she has with her friend- 'he doesn't appreciate me enough', 'im constantly having to prove myself to him', 'he doesn't love me' etc You need to do a white board breakdown for different types of relationships or at least try to clarify the exact type of relationships you're alluding to.
@@PB22559 I don't know about kids but what he is saying works with long term relationships, the crazy part is the less you validate her the more she'll do efforts to please you
He's right on point especially for very attractive women. However it's pretty depressing knowing you can't be yourself and that idealistic love is a pipe dream
You are wrong. What he’s talking about is your true actual alpha nature. Idealistic love pipe dreams is you being brainwashed. Be yourself, you’ll feel better
It isn't bro. I've had 2 women in my life deeply attached to me and they like it that way. I could still express my love and desire but the way the dynamics were, I felt like a man I didn't need to simp in anyway. These were the sort of women who were proud of me and everyone could see it. These women make you feel like a man and it just works / flows. I wish you guys experience this, and I wonder if I will ever again. Be spiritually pure, these women are attracted to that innocent spirit knowing you're not the sort of guy to drool over women that's probably what they like that you made her chase and you're not easily won over because she's experienced you snubbing her when she wanted desperately to talk to you but you were too busy and she swoons as you walk away from her (before first date that is)
@@lorrilewis2178 Men my age were taught wrong.....that nice guy bull shit is for losers....not saying to be rude or nasty to the women but men need to stop being wimps and show the women who they really are. men lead and women follow.
Not true. There are some women out there who actually want to be married by 25 with two kids by 28 in a traditional household. They are only 20% of women but they are certainly out there
@@richardcrook2112 because she tried her hardest to make m3 weak and pathetic so that I would always depend on her and never leave her and give her narcissistic supply. Which is why I cut the crazy bitch out of my life and am still being stalked by her. Does that answer your question?
But the only reason women say this is for resources… once those resources are acquired. They can monkey branch as much as they want once you are Committed and have no other options…
She didn't lie. You just don't understand what she meant by it. Don't listen to this guy. It's a balance. Cry when your dog dies... don't cry when you lose your keys.
@@pissdemon8876 Did you even watch the video? Women don't want you to be attached to them. How can you want something that you already have? If you want women to want you, you can't let them fully have you.
Same happened with me. My Colombian woman started out sweet and got steadily worse, the more we were together. After we got married, it really went downhill.
@@darkice7669 No, I brought her to Bulgaria. It is an equally poor country, but the few feminists and hard core partiers we have here immediately sucked her into their friendship circle.
"Dead inside" is something I've been called by a few ex's and I swear they were the craziest for me. Anytime I started showing more interest than the female they pulled away.
The woman that loved me the most in my life was the woman that I decided that I was going to treat like a piece of a$$. It happened after a hard breakup I was completely heart broken and I decided I was gonna be a player woman slayer. You're right... I showed no emotion just straight porn star sex.
yep ive used that method many times to get and keep women you gotta slay them with the pipe and they become putty in your hands they will accept the absolute bare minimum from you and be happy
you need help, especially Jesus' help. This is not how a healthy, spiritual and reasonable human being behaves. This is bum advice, this youtube genius needs complex psychotherapy. The question is what values I live by and what we attract accordingly.
Just know she’s not yours it’s just your turn. Men truly love and women love ‘conditionally’ Conditionally means love with conditions aka not true love ‘just feelings that can change’
That's exactly how it works what he says at the end. You get confortable with the girl, suddently you think she is the nicest person in the world, and you slow down your tone automatically. Casey is a beast.
He's not even addressing the right question. What's in it for you if you cant have or show deep feelings to a woman? Sex is not the only goal or even top prio worth having.
btw this can all be avoided if youre rough with her in bed, powerful toe curling orgasms from you choking her, spitting on her and degrading her while fking her will have her respecting you and not testing you at all, if she does test you its playful because she wants you to slap her ass etc because shes probably horny.
@@richrdromaThere is a right and wrong way of doing things even in relationships, my friend. I learned that the hard way. There’s a reason why samurais rely on poise and technique when cutting bamboo.
@@goatonthatrack Yeah, well I like authenticity and relationships with depth I suppose. It's more interesting that way. You know when I was younger I had sex with plenty of hot chicks. I mean really hot. You know my very special technique? I just called the right number or went to the right place and just paid them. That's easy but not a goal worth pursuing, neither is trying to pull them for free by your manliness or whatever and then not care to show your true self or feelings. That's what a relationship is for. Authenticity is a goal in itself. The hard part is not how to make a chick like you, its finding out if you really like who she really is, and for that you have to show your true self.
As a man who has lived many decades on this planet and studied interpersonal dynamics related to failed relationships, Casey is spot-on right. You might not like his forthrightness but the content is true. Yes, you will feel uneasy and insecure inside doing these if you were brought up to be a "good man" like I was, but doing these things as he states changes the dynamics. We, men, were meant to lead and be in charge - as stated in the Bible. It says a man is to be respected (NOT LOVED) and a woman is to be loved (NOT RESPECTED). You can believe Casey and what's written in the Good Book or you can continue to have problems in your relationships. I've chosen to do the former.
I was brought up to be a "good man" but I grew up around semi abusers. My dad and grandpa always had anger issues and they let it out on their women. I recognized I had an anger issue and used that enery to get my girl where I want her to be. I don't abuse her I just use a stern tone of voice which she usually finds to be "mean" but it gets the job done. I never call her names or belittle her, I just let her know what she needs to work on and she loves me for it. Took me a lifetime to learn it but the knowledge was always there.
The two are not related and in fact the Bible itself will contradict the things that Casey says over and over and you'll ask yourself why? *Because like attracts like., i.e. You attract what you are.* So what that means, is that if you're getting women that are all kinds of wrong then guess what? You're a part of the problem. If a woman wants an emotionless man then why do you think that is? It's because she isn't that way herself. Cheater? Gold-digger? Abusive and hateful? #SorryNotSorry but that's what you get for objectifying women.
In college, I knew a couple that broke up. He used to choke the shit out of her and smack her around when they had sex. One night, he choked her to the point that he almost needed to called 911. We all assumed they broke up because she got tired of the abuse. We were wrong. He ended it because he could no longer stomach how far he had to go to keep her turned on. That event scared him bad because it wasn't really in his nature to be that way. It didn't make any sense to the rest of the guys on the floor either. This was decades before the red pill was even a thing. It's an extreme example I know, but it was the first time I started to realize the world didn't really work they way we are all told.
just sounds like an addiction just like a guy gets to more extreme forms of porn. needed to back off and new different things can definitely be exciting instead of doing that every single time. they both sound pretty crazy honestly.
If men are supposed to be so intelligent, how come you assumed one woman represents all women? She was plainly sick and likely from an abusive family. If some man tried to choke me, he'd find himself in a jail cell right after I kneed him hard in the groin.
Believe it or not it's a lot of women into sexual domination. I can't believe the disgusting filth people like for sex. I'm talking about swingers, women who love 50 shades of grey types of sexual domination. These things are real and it's not ok.
Emotional detachment is key. If I am in my self esteem and on purpose, I do not need external approval or validation from a woman. This is highly attractive, it’s not necessarily about treating women like shit, just about prioritising frame.
so true. many years ago in my simp days i gave a girl a rose and she ghosted me. years later, i was in a bar with a girl, i was pointing out nice asses around me and she got pissed and stormed out. next day, she came to my house and apologized for storming out. one of the most instructive days of my life.
Gentlemen, as a man who has been married for 30 yrs I can tell you times have indeed changed. What this guy says is true from a psychological standpoint. However, this type of mentality would not facilitate a healthy, mutually fulfilling, long-term relationship. This cold prick business will get old for a woman who will eventually crave kindness, intellectual interaction, trust, emotional bonding, and a family. If they don't get it, the first slick tongued dude who fills her ear with what he thinks she wants to hear will wreck your relationship and she'll leave you. In other words, his advise will get you women and my advice will help you keep them. Don't doubt either one of us on this one.
I’m a little older with decades of experience with women long term and short term. I can ‘confirm’ the information this younger man is giving is accurate. Women don’t truly love the man as they are survival, safe, hypergamous nature. They are always optimising for the strongest male. If the male drops his guard with the ‘conditions’ to his relationship. She will look to leave him aka monkey branch. Women like men to give them attention unless she has a burning desire for the guy she’s with because she believes she can’t get better. That’s all it is. She’s not really yours, it’s just your turn. They don’t really care about your problems or struggles, they f*ck the winners - Her survival and safety comes first always
Harsh reality but you speak facts. 31 and I've had to learn most of these lessons the hard way. But when you embrace it you realize that you are actually the one with real power and control.
it's weird that many men can't stomach that. when i figured this stuff out the first time it was a huge relief, because i've been told all my childhood and adolescence to not be such an asshole, but actually it's in my best interest.
So true.Actually,the more of an asshole you are,the more you get out of life,and you get it on your own terms.Being the so called nice guy allows society to use you and dictate to you.
in my early 20's I was an emotionally detached piece of shit who treated women like garbage and yet I had them throwing themselves at me, soon as I decided to work on myself and become more in touch with my feelings the number of women I had around me dwindled to zero. This video is a harsh reality check, nice guys always finish last. Glad to have finally figured it out.
How do you become friends with men? You are nice and try to have a good time with them so you assume that this works with women too but it's the complete opposite They fuck with thugs with dudes who make them cry with dudes who they complain about all the time And if you are a man from god you try to act and treat people with respect etc. but you can't pull women this way it doesn't work
I was in love with a girl , she also used to like me but always said we r just friends , we were doing great, I was better than her in everything but still I used to like her because I thought she was a pure heart she always did everything what a girl does for his man but gradually things started getting change and she started getting distant from me . she ignored me , blocked and unblocked me , I still kept on saying sorry to her for no obvious reasons as I wanted to make this bond work . At last I asked her , if she ever liked me as a boyfriend, to which she once again said WE R JUST FRIENDS, then I walked away permanently from her life Result - NOW SHE IS DYING FOR ME , SHE IS DYING TO TALK TO ME , SHE WANTS ME BACK BUT I BLOCKED HER PERMANENTLY FROM MY LIFE....
Dude you are right on I’m 63 used to be the asshole women chased married had kids developed loving ways became a good man and father that’s when things went to shit she started hanging with single girls ended up cheating cause I was watching the kids so went back to asshole n things got back to normal
kind of, the more heartless you are the less heartless they will be. that's the paradox that breaks many men's necks, but if you embrace its truth it will be awesome for you.
@@maximiliankonig7010it’s not heartless, just means their attracted to bad stuff, which makes you the bad stuff. Or, alternatively, to be truly heartless means you don’t really like them. Either way you end up with the real paradox: why bother to begin with?
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 women are not really attracted to "bad stuff", criminals etc, they'd still prefer a criminal over a simp though. and they are going to test you how you handle their bullshit, so often it's best to be heartless towards their crocodile tears, maybe give them some rational advice but that's it. to answer your question why even bother: i don't hate that mindset, it's at least going to get you farther than making yourself a bitch to a woman. but i think part of the reason you are struggling with this is because you are still afraid of being left, and i think the optimal solution for you is overcoming that fear entirely.
@@maximiliankonig7010 it's not a mindset, I'm trying to understand what in my mind is a clear paradox, however you look at it. Let me try again. 1) If you're spending a lot of time and energy watching long videos on the internet about female nature, learning the game, developing your personalty and practicing in real life, all of this with the objective of getting women, it means you actually care quite a lot about female attention 2) If, in the other hand, you really achieve a state of not caring about female attention.... well, than you will not give it any room in your life because you have better things to do.
You have to be emotionally intresting, which means you have to give her both sides of the coin when its about emotion. Just finished learning this with my last breakup. Be funny and caring, but also be mad and imposing, dont let her be disrespectful in any way. Dont be scared to tell them you dont accept being disrespected and take a step away from her everytime she does it. Take charge do whatever you want, dont let her make decisions about you that you dont like and affect you, be the alpha Also dont ever show emotional fragillity to her.
Вот, грамотный комментарий. Одним холодом не удержать. Холод или агрессич нужны лишь в ответ на негатив. Ну и проявление внимания и чувств выше, чем девушка, тоже нежелательно
push and pull method, you need to make her feel different emotions, bad and good, so its not boring and she gets that dopamine in her, sad but the truth
I will never forget this day. I just broke up with my girlfriend. After 3 years of giving the best support for her, after she lost her mother, grandmother and grandfather, i supported her EVERYDAY and did everything that i could to protect her... After all of this she just turned cold on me and we started to lose connection. She broke up because she was tired. This is the harsh truth, she doesnt want connection... she wants to be "free".
Not going to lie, the more I learn about dark female nature, the more I feel disappointed and saddened that it has to be this way. I'm just listening to what he is saying like, "Dang. I know he's right but it sucks. It sucks and it hurts because I know deep down he is right and I have to let go of the those ideals and things I used to do he says to not do for the betterment of my future relationships with women." That's the thought that's been playing in the back of my mind as I'm watching this video.
I honestly don't like it, even though there's much truth to it. It really feels like we men have to manipulate and can't fully love a woman to win her heart. But this seems to apply mainly to western women, especially damaged women.
We wer all brainwashed by society. This is the Truth: in the wild u see male Bear and a female bear, they see each other and he mounts her doggy style nuts in her and leaves, because he is programmed instinctually to spread his seed so his species is guaranteed to survive. Does he bring her flowers, chocolates, says I love u and all that shit, pillow talk, cuddle and kiss, he doesn't even eat her out. Same with the human species, the female is thinking, when will I see him again, does he care about me and the kids, Nooo never.
He's a used car salesman wanting to make $$$ off your fears. He's selling a course guaranteed to make any good woman with an ounce of self-respect not only walk away, but RUN from you. The question is, why do you fall for it?
@@lorrilewis2178 Every man in this comment section knows what he is saying is true, because we fail whenever we do the behavior he highlights not to do. It is pure facts what he is sharing.
This was the reality of olden times. Women and children now had a place. And there was a hierarchy. Now they want everyone equal and some times even above the Father. Who if push came to shove is expected to lay his life down to protect the ones he loves. Lovey dovey stuff came from Disney movies and being raised by your mother without a strong Father in your life.
And it's why there was social convention in place in the past to keep women's true nature in check. Turns out all of that "oppression" was a just making life better for everyone, including the women.
This is why I see so many women lose interest in a guy after she has a kid with him. When she sees the guy all lovey dovey with the kid, she seems to lose interest. Also, after the kid is born, she seems to feel attracted to more "bad boys".
Men become softer after they get a kid because, biologically, if they didn't, they would leave their families and keep conquering the world and fucking all the pussy, instead of staying with their families. They lose some of that actice Yang energy, so to say. That's why, single guys are so different than married guys with kids.
True talk !! I’ve been a piece of shit with my ex, she was sad but always coming back to me. One day I hurt her feelings so bad I was feeling guilty so I tell her ok I’m gonna change and be good to you. She left. Lol this guy preach the truth, they don’t think like us
@@cordariusniter5735 Yeah as much as it hurts I was living in their world so it was a needed wake-up call at the same time to focus on my purpose and say fuck it to everything else.
This was a really important video. I went out on a date with this girl who seemed super compliant super nice super feminine super touchy feely and I thought things were great. The best part was I felt like I could just be myself aka let my guard down. After that I just got ghosted. Now it makes sense. The test was going on the whole time. And I failed so much that she didn't even respect me enough to tell me that she's not interested.
This strongly suggests that you actually do not, at this time, possess traits that attract women (or at least this specific woman), so you must put on an act to compensate. You need to work on yourself in order to be able to ”be yourself.”
You’re right. To put it simple. Set boundaries and don’t let them cross. I do it and see results. I have a chick whose brain resets after every encounter. She’ll literally tell me if what I said made her pussy dry up or if she grabs me and begs me to put My cock in her ass. Not only that she has a bible quote as a tramp stamp. She’s a religion fanatic and begs for sodomy. If that doesn’t prove god and the devil is real.,..
I’m married. And what you’re saying is absolutely spot on. My wife is still In love with me and interested in me not because I am weak but because I’m willing to check her, and be willing To handle her. She loves me because she hates me here and there. She’s always over me and then says she’s gonna stop because I’m just so cool. After all the years and looking back I think this has something to do with why she’s so hot for me still. It’s a counterintuitive truth.
Just wanted to say thanks @ Casey for your education. I'm quite an old dog now. And I am just learning this stuff. Everything makes perfect sense. Slowly I am changing my old conditioning 1% at a time. Slow process, but I can already see improvements. Never too late to change. TY brother.
Same here, I'm 46 and learning about true female nature. This shit is mind blowing 🤯. I also see everything casey is talking about with a coworker dating some new girl on the job.
If you simply want to hook up, then this is the way it must be. Most guys can't accept this but if your tired of fat girls and want 7s, 8s, 9s to wishing you good morning and good night then you must do it.
Casey is slightly wrong here. You need to feed them scraps of validation to keep them chasing it. Flirt with ideas of commitment and reciprocation of love, and give meaningless validation (e.g. "thinking about you" text but doesn't call to meetup for a few days).@@MBAYoungboy
This is exactly why I don’t want to date anymore. This makes no sense to me, but it probably makes sense to women. Because I start to care they stop caring. So it’s not worth it really
Christian dating is totally different. These men under these comments are getting dating advice from a worldly man that knows nothing about women and dating
@@hopemaker5982not all Christian women are good in fact a lot are just masquerading as good Christian women to get a good man after being ran through for years. However there's still a good chance you'll find a better woman there than at a club due to the moral framework that Christianity brings.
@@onepunchflan3071 I agree with you. I’ve met the most wonderful people in church, male and female, but I know some people with bad hearts go to church looking for customers for their business, or for mates to be a decent parent for their children.
THIS!! I've been trying to spread the word but most people don't get it one bit. Women have lower self esteem than men. Much lower. This lower self esteem is the ture motivation of so much of their bahavior. They literally don't beleive they deserved to be teated well.
🤔... And _since_ I'll never be a "heartless (egocentric) prick who has zero emotion", women can continue to suffer in their craving for darkness, while I live happy and healthy in my sense of self integrity and wellbeing - regardless of what they 'think' they need, want or crave. Let them actually look _within_ for a REAL genuine change, and make their own peace with who they have chosen to become. We are all called: most answer.... those without depth will fall and decay.
None of my girlfriends, nor I have ever wanted to be with a heartless man!!! A man like that will be a terrible father. Women want a man who is tenderhearted. Our society has gotten further and further away from God and Christian teachings, so people are just warped to think like this!
This man is a genius. Everything he says is 200% correct. And it is tough and bloody frustrating to come to terms with it. But he's right. everything we have been fed or nice normal consistent etc its all lies. Listen to this man! And understand its our lack of understanding of female phychology. I HAD NO IDEA EITHER!
i been wachting a tons videos about woman for quite some time now. and for the first time i can finally say i found one i can really understand, great job this is how you explain things in simple words anybody can understand great job
I was recently dumped by a 10. Initially, we had started with texts. I didn't use to reply her on time just cos I rarely looked at my texts. She called after a week & asked me why I was ignoring her & she felt I had other women & not into her as much. She told me that she liked me a lot. I was shocked as I was not even close to being in her league. Then I started texting her constantly, calling her & spending $ on her, 3 weeks after she dumped me outta the blue & said we can be friends. I was heartbroken & didn't eat for days. RUclips recommended this channel to me & I now know the true nature of a woman. Thx Casey!❤
It's crazy. I've put all your advice to the test.. It definetly works. Just holding my masculine frame has done wonders. When I compile everything else you've taught, I can literally have any woman
Quick story too because I'm bored - I've worked in the restaurant industry for most of my life, recently I worked with this guy who I quickly found out was basically sleeping with every hot female working at the place. He was dating the bartender and openly cheating on her with multiple other chicks that worked there. I was confused by this because honestly he seemed aggressively average in the looks department besides the fact that he was kind of big from lifting. To me, he had no charisma, he wasn't making any of these chicks laugh, and he wasn't even flirty with any of them either. He was pretty quiet and seemed like he really didn't give a fuck about any of it. It's all starting to add up now though lol, dude was a total asshole who blatantly disrespected all of those 304s but they all threw themselves at him. His "GF" the bartender, she refused to believe he was cheating on her even though multiple people told her and it was beyond obvious because he made no real attempts to hide it.
@@alexanderhamilton8585 naturally I don’t operate that way either but adaptation is one of mans best qualities. The current cultural landscape pisses me off but the best option is to use that as fuel to get what you want.
@@virtual240 I think it’s not about disrespecting them as much as it is about just not giving a fuck. This dude didn’t give a fuck to a level that was automatically disrespectful but I don’t think you have to take it that far, especially if you actually like a chick. Just maintain stoicism and don’t ever act like you need her.
These last 10 or so videos have perfectly explained why I can get 4s 5s 6s and occasional 7s so easily but 8s and 9s I get consistently ghosted by due to me reflecting on the fact my behaviors and nuances do definitely change around those women and i "want" to have a relationship with them which sends them running. Its wild being introduced to this upside down backwards world but it does make sense in a weird twisted way
@@suiz1781 no kidding. It’s always the girls that you don’t even care about in that way. They are the ones that keep chasing you down seemingly for years sometimes.
Man, the painful & embarassing introspection sessions this guy went through to realise this stuff - you can sense in his silly smiles (thinking to himself, how was i this stupid) and his tone of delivery. Mad respect bro ✌️
I totally agree that you can’t take any shit off of women. Then also you have to project the attitude that you prefer variety and that you’re not anxious about being in a couple. Also you have to threaten to abandon them whenever that might be warranted. And then finally, you need to actually abandon them. The more women you’ve had the less you’re going to care about coupling with any one woman. And then finally, women are definitely more trouble than they’re worth. Fine, if you can find exactly what you want then perhaps you could get married but it’s never really a good idea.
Bro… You on fire in this vid!!! You hit da proverbial nail right on the head!!!! I’m 61 years young and dealing with exactly wut you talking bout here!!! You’ve given me inspiration and guidance to exactly what I need to do with this chick I been dating for the last three years!!! Thank you!
You forgot the most important part, you must love in a way that the other feels free. Letting her know you're masculine is a feminine trait. Focus on your passion and purpose, women will always follow.
*The discussion on why some women are attracted to emotionally distant men is fascinating. It highlights how complex female attraction can be. Definitely a topic worth exploring further!*
I remember in my youth, I was arguing with a woman. Next thing I knew we where getting it on. Never knew at the time what I done. I had a woman and she left me. I know now what I done wrong. I will never simp again. I never started simping but over time I done more and more for her and now she's gone. I'm happy she's gone as this is my time. Good vid m8t
Bruuuhhh... Does this actually work? 🤣 Because I think it happened to me. I fiercely argued with this vegan chick once on FB. I though she hated me after that. Couple of months later she visits my town and guess who she wants to meet and hang with??? 🤣🤣 I was like "WTF?!". Unfortunately, I was too stupid to take it further. Now, I regret it.
@@Schopenhauer69 in the short run yes, but she will argue with you for ever and a day. Always in training. Never stops. I think women just like to argue. Plenty more crazy in the ocean bro
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 It's not necessarily not giving af but tht concept helps. It's really your ability to maintain your composure and not be overly emotional with a chick.
Casey and the guys following: this is accurate advice. 33 years ago I married my wife. Saw a couple walking and holding hands. She commented about that and said "They're a cute couple". I grabbed her right hand to hold while we walked. She pulled her hand away. I asked what was wrong. Silence. I grabbed her hand again and again she pulled it away. She took a half step away from me to the right and glared at me saying "I don't like that". I though WTF! So I hot pissed and we walked into the store and I didn't hold the door open for her. When we were done I told her "Let's go." We got to the car I opened her door and said "Get in". I didn't talk to her for two days. She sat on the sofa and stared at me with confusion. I said "Hi. My name is Michael". Ignored her ass. She said can we talk. I said sure "Talk". Guess what: She didn't apologize because she got out of what she wanted from me. To be g-tdamned man. Pay attention to Casey. I accidentally found Frame and acted like jackals who could give 2 f'ks about her.
I dated this very sweet, cute feminine women and it was going so well. I admitted I was looking for a relationship. What I meant was I was not sure if she was the women I want a relationship with or not. It is obvious if you are dating you want a relationship, right? Well she dumped me and the reason she gave me was that I want a serious relationship. This video is so true. Later I ran into her at a bar, and she had cut scars on her arm. I didn't give a F and straight up asked her about the scars. She admitted she cuts herself. WTF. I dodged a bullet in the long run.
Amen! Who has the time, energy & patience to play these games? Specially when you managing an empire? Pay for play. If you have the wallet, get sugar arrangements. 1 in 5 hot girl age 18-25 in the US today is a sugar baby. thats 20% of the pool. I have a better s3x life at 40 than what I had at 20. The younger dudes here who "cold approach" and learn "game" on a girl have no clue that a rich daddy like me busted inside her guts and mouth raw, half and hour ago. And this situation happened to me last weekend. Hot latina college sophomore i just smashed at hotel - we were having coffee at hotel lounge, before her uber arrived.. I went for a bathroom break came back some annoying millennial dude was trying to game her. I told the dude we just had a marathon upstairs and she has not showered. His soul left him right there.
@@MichaelAngelEscalante LMAO .. but it has happened to me too when I was younger. Back in college days, I approached a hot older lady at a bar and was trying to run "game" when her huge, built, bodybuilder bf came and jokingly asked me if I wanted her. He then grabbed her ass and kissed her while i had to watch. Ran away from there as fast as I could. :) We learn and we accept. Cheers!
Another nice side effect of this, is if they’re putting most of the effort into the relationship, even money, if for any reason the relationship ends, it’s much easier to get over vs when you poured your entire soul and bank account into a woman.
This is exactly why this sort of misinformation is so dangerous my brother. I like some if your content but I’m sorry to say that this video was so misleading and I understand that you connected the dots wrong and you didn’t mean to create monsters but please go talk to your moms and sisters before you start telling men what women want. This isn’t it.
Thank you for the wonderful presentation. Emotional detachment from the woman is very necessary. But many people wrongly equate being an asshole with being indifferent. As long as a man remains very centered and focused on his goals, visions and aspirations, and does not make the woman his priority he will be fine It doesn't feel unnatural if we look at it this way. In fact it sounds crazy that both men and women are emotionally attached and the man is still supposed to lead Thank you for the video and even the past ones. It all makes more sense to me now
The man isn't "supposed" to lead. My brain never dropped out of my head and I'm well-read and intelligent. I would not be with any man who expected me to defer to him except for any areas he is more of an expert on and vice versa. If a couple can't make decisions together, they don't know how to have a relationship.
@@marguskiis7711 as long as you are regularly interacting with women, and remain focused and productive, it is likely to happen. People naturally gravitate towards successful people.Even physical disability is not enough to stop this
@@marodaniels4349 I was the most popular among women when I was unemployed and in shambles. When I got job, money, house and goals, women began to reject me.
Had to laugh so hard :D Because its absolutely TRUE! This is what its about in a deep sense. A minute of silence for all the nice guys who think otherwise.
Iv read a few books written by pimps and caseys knowledge is basically pimping 101 without the blatant label. Its sad but he speaks truth, its a cold world out there.
I appreciate the knowledge you convey here and hope that you give us more knowledge! I know that what you say is true because I experienced it myself, I just didn't know exactly and did it intuitively when my ex-girlfriend stalked me for half a year and I didn't know any better why she was so obsessed with me and believe I didn't treat her well anymore with the hope that she would eventually go away. I hope that at some point you will also publish a book detailing and summarizing your knowledge because I also really appreciate books and of course also videos or audio
It's funny how the instagram feed is full of quotes from women complaining about men who exhibit this very behavior, that's how I realise it's all true 🤣
Yep. These are the types of guys they complain about to the nice guys in their lives they've friendzoned, too. Yet, they never leave them for the nice shoulders to cry on!
Any man who has made these mistakes watches these videos and just cringes at themselves for making all of these mistakes and watching the woman go bye bye, it may sound wrong to alot, but to me it is like seeing clearly for the 1st why all my relationships ended, they ended the exact way he describes, she did all this shit to me and I failed at every turn, the more I have been hurt the more successful I become with women, because I see them now, I know as soon as I let them break me down it is over, it takes some failures, but that is the hard road. If you are a new guy here and have not had alot of heart breaks, listen to this dude, stay strong in the face of any woman, all shapes and sizes, they are all the same creatures, you will have success, the moment you break down watch them cheat, watch them torture you
So I have to be emotionless to keep a woman? Even though that's not me in the slightest? So what, then, I have to put on an act and be fake? For the rest of my life? Casey, there has to be a point that I can relax and be genuine. What you're talking about sounds exhausting and unreal.
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I tend to agree with the majority of what you're saying. One thing though- most of what you outline is much more tricky to implement for long term relationships and/or marriage with kids. As soon as you're living with a woman, not validating her or giving her minimal attention isn't going to work. If you're constantly in your 'masculine frame' and never giving her your approval or validation, she's going to end up getting tired and losing interest over time. I can just hear the conversation she has with her friend- 'he doesn't appreciate me enough', 'im constantly having to prove myself to him', 'he doesn't love me' etc
You need to do a white board breakdown for different types of relationships or at least try to clarify the exact type of relationships you're alluding to.
@@PB22559 I don't know about kids but what he is saying works with long term relationships, the crazy part is the less you validate her the more she'll do efforts to please you
@@PB22559 100%. My buddy just broke up with his girl because he “wasn’t opening up enough” ect ect. He was playing these games and it backfired
@brianpena2239 Don't argue. Casey WROTE it down. Kind, nurturing, attentive husbands get cucked paternity defrauded & divorced-graped too. Pay attention dammit.
There are no attractive, datable Christian women left to date ☹
He's right on point especially for very attractive women. However it's pretty depressing knowing you can't be yourself and that idealistic love is a pipe dream
Be yourself with the boys, cause in some degree (if they are your ride or dies) they don't care lol
Facts! It's a lifetime game.
idk man, i wouldn't trade emotional independence as a man for anything, i don't think the world should be any other way regarding that.
You are wrong. What he’s talking about is your true actual alpha nature. Idealistic love pipe dreams is you being brainwashed.
Be yourself, you’ll feel better
It isn't bro. I've had 2 women in my life deeply attached to me and they like it that way. I could still express my love and desire but the way the dynamics were, I felt like a man I didn't need to simp in anyway. These were the sort of women who were proud of me and everyone could see it. These women make you feel like a man and it just works / flows. I wish you guys experience this, and I wonder if I will ever again. Be spiritually pure, these women are attracted to that innocent spirit knowing you're not the sort of guy to drool over women that's probably what they like that you made her chase and you're not easily won over because she's experienced you snubbing her when she wanted desperately to talk to you but you were too busy and she swoons as you walk away from her (before first date that is)
I am 67, where was all this great info 40 years ago????? You kids figured it out....Now I can use this with these old granny's !!!!!
Lots of "old grannys" aren't interested in men after a lifetime with them.
@@lorrilewis2178 Men my age were taught wrong.....that nice guy bull shit is for losers....not saying to be rude or nasty to the women but men need to stop being wimps and show the women who they really are. men lead and women follow.
Go get it boi
@@lorrilewis2178 Don't say that on social media and all the dating websites, there are a ton of "old grannies" looking for men like me ha ha !!!!
Love that pooNanny
My mother taught me that girls like sensitive men who are in touch with their feelings. Momma lied.
Not true. There are some women out there who actually want to be married by 25 with two kids by 28 in a traditional household. They are only 20% of women but they are certainly out there
The question is: Why did she lie?
@@richardcrook2112 because she tried her hardest to make m3 weak and pathetic so that I would always depend on her and never leave her and give her narcissistic supply. Which is why I cut the crazy bitch out of my life and am still being stalked by her. Does that answer your question?
But the only reason women say this is for resources… once those resources are acquired. They can monkey branch as much as they want once you are Committed and have no other options…
She didn't lie. You just don't understand what she meant by it. Don't listen to this guy. It's a balance. Cry when your dog dies... don't cry when you lose your keys.
My first love was dumping me. I asked through my tears “Why?”
She said “I want it more…detached”
I’ll never forget that word.
Wow
Damn brother she belongs to the street she not worth the love you have
She wants it more?
Detached?
Use a vibrator baby!
YAH!
What can u explain , like as in u didn’t care enough ?
@@pissdemon8876 Did you even watch the video? Women don't want you to be attached to them. How can you want something that you already have? If you want women to want you, you can't let them fully have you.
It’s true, it happened to me, she was so feminine when I met her, I started catching feelings and showing it , then I started getting tested
Same happened with me. My Colombian woman started out sweet and got steadily worse, the more we were together. After we got married, it really went downhill.
@@thomashilmersen711what happened once you got married that went downhill so fast?
@@erko78 he told you, he got married
@@thomashilmersen711you brought her back here to man hating feminists US didn't ya? Big mistake
@@darkice7669 No, I brought her to Bulgaria. It is an equally poor country, but the few feminists and hard core partiers we have here immediately sucked her into their friendship circle.
Remove sex from a relationship, you will discover that a lot of people have nothing to offer.
I have always said that a marriage license is just legalized prostitution ....think about it
@@Mr99RICH99I get your point 😂😂😂
What else would you need from a woman tho? They’re annoying 😂
Amen
Very deep...
"Dead inside" is something I've been called by a few ex's and I swear they were the craziest for me. Anytime I started showing more interest than the female they pulled away.
No. I wallk away at the first sign of a red flag or when they stress me out with their obsessiveness. @unknownT-wd2mf
True
This is true I promise you I’m a good soul but when my best friend died and I became soulless girls wanted me more than ever it’s messed up.
The woman that loved me the most in my life was the woman that I decided that I was going to treat like a piece of a$$. It happened after a hard breakup I was completely heart broken and I decided I was gonna be a player woman slayer. You're right... I showed no emotion just straight porn star sex.
yep ive used that method many times to get and keep women you gotta slay them with the pipe and they become putty in your hands they will accept the absolute bare minimum from you and be happy
Duly noted.
Maybe her dad was a distant, emotionally unavailable prick like Casey's.
you need help, especially Jesus' help. This is not how a healthy, spiritual and reasonable human being behaves. This is bum advice, this youtube genius needs complex psychotherapy. The question is what values I live by and what we attract accordingly.
@@tylerk140somedays in this Weimar America bolshevik revolution, it seems the synagogue of Satan is winning and that is difficult to operate in.
I’ve mastered this mindset. It took years of effort and it’s an ongoing process. This is mandatory for real men to know
But most men can't do it lack of availability woman always on phones out and about the average guy won't it's harassment
After dating and spinning my wheels for over 20 years I’m burnt the fuck out. The game is so stupid and exhausting.
i think its all just in a bubble on the internet not reality
Why want relationship lmao , pump and dump 😂
Just know she’s not yours it’s just your turn. Men truly love and women love ‘conditionally’
Conditionally means love with conditions aka not true love ‘just feelings that can change’
That's exactly how it works what he says at the end. You get confortable with the girl, suddently you think she is the nicest person in the world, and you slow down your tone automatically. Casey is a beast.
He's not even addressing the right question. What's in it for you if you cant have or show deep feelings to a woman? Sex is not the only goal or even top prio worth having.
@@richrdroma Yeah but u gotta see what women respond to, if you want to deal with them. Sad, but true.
btw this can all be avoided if youre rough with her in bed, powerful toe curling orgasms from you choking her, spitting on her and degrading her while fking her will have her respecting you and not testing you at all, if she does test you its playful because she wants you to slap her ass etc because shes probably horny.
@@richrdromaThere is a right and wrong way of doing things even in relationships, my friend. I learned that the hard way. There’s a reason why samurais rely on poise and technique when cutting bamboo.
@@goatonthatrack Yeah, well I like authenticity and relationships with depth I suppose. It's more interesting that way. You know when I was younger I had sex with plenty of hot chicks. I mean really hot. You know my very special technique? I just called the right number or went to the right place and just paid them. That's easy but not a goal worth pursuing, neither is trying to pull them for free by your manliness or whatever and then not care to show your true self or feelings. That's what a relationship is for. Authenticity is a goal in itself. The hard part is not how to make a chick like you, its finding out if you really like who she really is, and for that you have to show your true self.
Women are attracted to guys who make them laugh, but they give their hearts to guys who make them cry.
Yep and they also give their vaginas to men who make them cry!
Laugh doesn’t pay bills, you have to be cold and focus on your goals.
Ooof that’s a powerful statement
I do both
Aaah true sigma lines😘
As a man who has lived many decades on this planet and studied interpersonal dynamics related to failed relationships, Casey is spot-on right. You might not like his forthrightness but the content is true. Yes, you will feel uneasy and insecure inside doing these if you were brought up to be a "good man" like I was, but doing these things as he states changes the dynamics. We, men, were meant to lead and be in charge - as stated in the Bible. It says a man is to be respected (NOT LOVED) and a woman is to be loved (NOT RESPECTED). You can believe Casey and what's written in the Good Book or you can continue to have problems in your relationships. I've chosen to do the former.
I was brought up to be a "good man" but I grew up around semi abusers. My dad and grandpa always had anger issues and they let it out on their women. I recognized I had an anger issue and used that enery to get my girl where I want her to be. I don't abuse her I just use a stern tone of voice which she usually finds to be "mean" but it gets the job done. I never call her names or belittle her, I just let her know what she needs to work on and she loves me for it. Took me a lifetime to learn it but the knowledge was always there.
The two are not related and in fact the Bible itself will contradict the things that Casey says over and over and you'll ask yourself why?
*Because like attracts like., i.e. You attract what you are.*
So what that means, is that if you're getting women that are all kinds of wrong then guess what? You're a part of the problem. If a woman wants an emotionless man then why do you think that is? It's because she isn't that way herself.
Cheater? Gold-digger? Abusive and hateful?
#SorryNotSorry but that's what you get for objectifying women.
Hence why men (should) challenge women on love, and women challenge men with disrespect
The Bible says woman are to be loved, you just said the complete opposite. Woman are to receive mostly indifference and pushback.
So you're not going to respect women? You guys are thinking WAY too hard about this stuff
In college, I knew a couple that broke up. He used to choke the shit out of her and smack her around when they had sex. One night, he choked her to the point that he almost needed to called 911. We all assumed they broke up because she got tired of the abuse. We were wrong. He ended it because he could no longer stomach how far he had to go to keep her turned on. That event scared him bad because it wasn't really in his nature to be that way. It didn't make any sense to the rest of the guys on the floor either. This was decades before the red pill was even a thing. It's an extreme example I know, but it was the first time I started to realize the world didn't really work they way we are all told.
just sounds like an addiction just like a guy gets to more extreme forms of porn. needed to back off and new different things can definitely be exciting instead of doing that every single time. they both sound pretty crazy honestly.
@@derekluna7700 Yeah, they were part of the Goth scene.
I think that girl just had extreme psychological issues. This one is truly bizarre. My own mother wouldn’t tolerate that bullshit
If men are supposed to be so intelligent, how come you assumed one woman represents all women? She was plainly sick and likely from an abusive family. If some man tried to choke me, he'd find himself in a jail cell right after I kneed him hard in the groin.
Believe it or not it's a lot of women into sexual domination. I can't believe the disgusting filth people like for sex. I'm talking about swingers, women who love 50 shades of grey types of sexual domination. These things are real and it's not ok.
Emotional detachment is key. If I am in my self esteem and on purpose, I do not need external approval or validation from a woman. This is highly attractive, it’s not necessarily about treating women like shit, just about prioritising frame.
so true. many years ago in my simp days i gave a girl a rose and she ghosted me. years later, i was in a bar with a girl, i was pointing out nice asses around me and she got pissed and stormed out. next day, she came to my house and apologized for storming out. one of the most instructive days of my life.
THE GAME
This made me laugh
We're u on date with her???
Gentlemen, as a man who has been married for 30 yrs I can tell you times have indeed changed. What this guy says is true from a psychological standpoint. However, this type of mentality would not facilitate a healthy, mutually fulfilling, long-term relationship. This cold prick business will get old for a woman who will eventually crave kindness, intellectual interaction, trust, emotional bonding, and a family. If they don't get it, the first slick tongued dude who fills her ear with what he thinks she wants to hear will wreck your relationship and she'll leave you. In other words, his advise will get you women and my advice will help you keep them. Don't doubt either one of us on this one.
so what's the solution ? so complicated
@@achrafelh After engagement/marriage, you're going to change your behavior towards being kinder/more loving.
It’s a balance. Still keep some degree of indifference. Don’t be mushy or doormat. Dr Robert Glover refers to it as “lovingly don’t give AF”
I’m a little older with decades of experience with women long term and short term. I can ‘confirm’ the information this younger man is giving is accurate. Women don’t truly love the man as they are survival, safe, hypergamous nature. They are always optimising for the strongest male. If the male drops his guard with the ‘conditions’ to his relationship. She will look to leave him aka monkey branch. Women like men to give them attention unless she has a burning desire for the guy she’s with because she believes she can’t get better. That’s all it is. She’s not really yours, it’s just your turn. They don’t really care about your problems or struggles, they f*ck the winners - Her survival and safety comes first always
Harsh reality but you speak facts. 31 and I've had to learn most of these lessons the hard way. But when you embrace it you realize that you are actually the one with real power and control.
it's weird that many men can't stomach that. when i figured this stuff out the first time it was a huge relief, because i've been told all my childhood and adolescence to not be such an asshole, but actually it's in my best interest.
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So true.Actually,the more of an asshole you are,the more you get out of life,and you get it on your own terms.Being the so called nice guy allows society to use you and dictate to you.
in my early 20's I was an emotionally detached piece of shit who treated women like garbage and yet I had them throwing themselves at me, soon as I decided to work on myself and become more in touch with my feelings the number of women I had around me dwindled to zero. This video is a harsh reality check, nice guys always finish last. Glad to have finally figured it out.
@@dazasc3994bro…. Know that feel
How do you become friends with men? You are nice and try to have a good time with them so you assume that this works with women too but it's the complete opposite
They fuck with thugs with dudes who make them cry with dudes who they complain about all the time
And if you are a man from god you try to act and treat people with respect etc. but you can't pull women this way it doesn't work
I been watching your videos and been trying to apply them to my life and honestly I’ve seen nothing but positive change.
I was in love with a girl , she also used to like me but always said we r just friends , we were doing great, I was better than her in everything but still I used to like her because I thought she was a pure heart she always did everything what a girl does for his man but gradually things started getting change and she started getting distant from me . she ignored me , blocked and unblocked me , I still kept on saying sorry to her for no obvious reasons as I wanted to make this bond work . At last I asked her , if she ever liked me as a boyfriend, to which she once again said WE R JUST FRIENDS, then I walked away permanently from her life
Result - NOW SHE IS DYING FOR ME , SHE IS DYING TO TALK TO ME , SHE WANTS ME BACK BUT I BLOCKED HER PERMANENTLY FROM MY LIFE....
how long did you block her for?
Get her to the bed and give her Wat she truly need
Same same same right now happening. Did u go back to her?
As a man you give one chance, then she's history. That's how you build true self respect
Dude you are right on I’m 63 used to be the asshole women chased married had kids developed loving ways became a good man and father that’s when things went to shit she started hanging with single girls ended up cheating cause I was watching the kids so went back to asshole n things got back to normal
Bottom of the line is we need to be heartless like them lol
kind of, the more heartless you are the less heartless they will be. that's the paradox that breaks many men's necks, but if you embrace its truth it will be awesome for you.
@@maximiliankonig7010it’s not heartless, just means their attracted to bad stuff, which makes you the bad stuff.
Or, alternatively, to be truly heartless means you don’t really like them.
Either way you end up with the real paradox: why bother to begin with?
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 women are not really attracted to "bad stuff", criminals etc, they'd still prefer a criminal over a simp though. and they are going to test you how you handle their bullshit, so often it's best to be heartless towards their crocodile tears, maybe give them some rational advice but that's it. to answer your question why even bother: i don't hate that mindset, it's at least going to get you farther than making yourself a bitch to a woman. but i think part of the reason you are struggling with this is because you are still afraid of being left, and i think the optimal solution for you is overcoming that fear entirely.
The men who does the least and care the least will always get the most out of women
@@maximiliankonig7010 it's not a mindset, I'm trying to understand what in my mind is a clear paradox, however you look at it. Let me try again.
1) If you're spending a lot of time and energy watching long videos on the internet about female nature, learning the game, developing your personalty and practicing in real life, all of this with the objective of getting women, it means you actually care quite a lot about female attention
2) If, in the other hand, you really achieve a state of not caring about female attention.... well, than you will not give it any room in your life because you have better things to do.
You have to be emotionally intresting, which means you have to give her both sides of the coin when its about emotion. Just finished learning this with my last breakup. Be funny and caring, but also be mad and imposing, dont let her be disrespectful in any way. Dont be scared to tell them you dont accept being disrespected and take a step away from her everytime she does it. Take charge do whatever you want, dont let her make decisions about you that you dont like and affect you, be the alpha
Also dont ever show emotional fragillity to her.
Вот, грамотный комментарий. Одним холодом не удержать. Холод или агрессич нужны лишь в ответ на негатив. Ну и проявление внимания и чувств выше, чем девушка, тоже нежелательно
push and pull method, you need to make her feel different emotions, bad and good, so its not boring and she gets that dopamine in her, sad but the truth
Cool! Let’s see how it goes for you long-term
I will never forget this day. I just broke up with my girlfriend. After 3 years of giving the best support for her, after she lost her mother, grandmother and grandfather, i supported her EVERYDAY and did everything that i could to protect her... After all of this she just turned cold on me and we started to lose connection. She broke up because she was tired. This is the harsh truth, she doesnt want connection... she wants to be "free".
LOL…I’m 56 with a lot of experience with women and all I can say is, 🤙🏻….100% the truth.
We need more seasoned men like yourself to speak up! 🙌🏻
back then it wasn’t like this man…. u had it better, trust me. i get some girls but its harder nowadays
Not going to lie, the more I learn about dark female nature, the more I feel disappointed and saddened that it has to be this way. I'm just listening to what he is saying like, "Dang. I know he's right but it sucks. It sucks and it hurts because I know deep down he is right and I have to let go of the those ideals and things I used to do he says to not do for the betterment of my future relationships with women." That's the thought that's been playing in the back of my mind as I'm watching this video.
I honestly don't like it, even though there's much truth to it. It really feels like we men have to manipulate and can't fully love a woman to win her heart. But this seems to apply mainly to western women, especially damaged women.
We wer all brainwashed by society.
This is the Truth: in the wild u see male Bear and a female bear, they see each other and he mounts her doggy style nuts in her and leaves, because he is programmed instinctually to spread his seed so his species is guaranteed to survive.
Does he bring her flowers, chocolates, says I love u and all that shit, pillow talk, cuddle and kiss, he doesn't even eat her out.
Same with the human species, the female is thinking, when will I see him again, does he care about me and the kids, Nooo never.
He's a used car salesman wanting to make $$$ off your fears. He's selling a course guaranteed to make any good woman with an ounce of self-respect not only walk away, but RUN from you. The question is, why do you fall for it?
So much for 'just be yourself!'
@@lorrilewis2178 Every man in this comment section knows what he is saying is true, because we fail whenever we do the behavior he highlights not to do. It is pure facts what he is sharing.
Nobody agrees that this is how things should be, but this is the reality of today's modern world/women.
Exactly but I don’t have time for the game. I don’t focus on relationships but just getting her wet and fucking women and it works
This was the reality of olden times. Women and children now had a place. And there was a hierarchy.
Now they want everyone equal and some times even above the Father. Who if push came to shove is expected to lay his life down to protect the ones he loves.
Lovey dovey stuff came from Disney movies and being raised by your mother without a strong Father in your life.
And it's why there was social convention in place in the past to keep women's true nature in check. Turns out all of that "oppression" was a just making life better for everyone, including the women.
Bro this nigga changed my life 😂and the crazy part is I can't even afford the MBT thing but these videos are really insightful, Thanks Casey ❤
He's right, I swear to y'all he's right. Every time I thought a girl was different I was wrong, when I follow this it comes easy
Treat all women the same
This is why I see so many women lose interest in a guy after she has a kid with him. When she sees the guy all lovey dovey with the kid, she seems to lose interest. Also, after the kid is born, she seems to feel attracted to more "bad boys".
Nah they're just crazy.
They do it because there are no consequences for their actions.
After the kids come the men is just another family member...love kills desire.
@@Erick-di9gm hahahaha...so true
Men become softer after they get a kid because, biologically, if they didn't, they would leave their families and keep conquering the world and fucking all the pussy, instead of staying with their families. They lose some of that actice Yang energy, so to say. That's why, single guys are so different than married guys with kids.
True talk !! I’ve been a piece of shit with my ex, she was sad but always coming back to me. One day I hurt her feelings so bad I was feeling guilty so I tell her ok I’m gonna change and be good to you. She left. Lol this guy preach the truth, they don’t think like us
Bro grow up she left cuz she had enough dummy
I feel you on this. 😂
exactly what happened to me. she's probably gonna comeback
Dude I got out of my 5th breakup and every single word this dude speaks is truth it’s ridiculous
It hurts. I want a Disney story but they become hoes and asshoes if you don’t borderline emotionally abuse and control them
Don’t change. The problem is you’re not living for your fun. Are you living in your world or their world ?
@@cordariusniter5735 Yeah as much as it hurts I was living in their world so it was a needed wake-up call at the same time to focus on my purpose and say fuck it to everything else.
@@James-xb2yj Yeah unfortunately the Disney story is only somewhat possible if you adopt the dark, dominant masculine behavioral traits.
This was a really important video. I went out on a date with this girl who seemed super compliant super nice super feminine super touchy feely and I thought things were great. The best part was I felt like I could just be myself aka let my guard down. After that I just got ghosted. Now it makes sense.
The test was going on the whole time. And I failed so much that she didn't even respect me enough to tell me that she's not interested.
This strongly suggests that you actually do not, at this time, possess traits that attract women (or at least this specific woman), so you must put on an act to compensate. You need to work on yourself in order to be able to ”be yourself.”
You’re right. To put it simple. Set boundaries and don’t let them cross. I do it and see results. I have a chick whose brain resets after every encounter. She’ll literally tell me if what I said made her pussy dry up or if she grabs me and begs me to put
My cock in her ass. Not only that she has a bible quote as a tramp stamp. She’s a religion fanatic and begs for sodomy. If that doesn’t prove god and the devil is real.,..
Or stop chasing women with daddy issues.
She handed you the shovel and let you dig your own grave. Women are evil work.
@@JesseBrown-qf6zpThis is very good advice
I’m married. And what you’re saying is absolutely spot on. My wife is still In love with me and interested in me not because I am weak but because I’m willing to check her, and be willing To handle her. She loves me because she hates me here and there. She’s always over me and then says she’s gonna stop because I’m just so cool. After all the years and looking back I think this has something to do with why she’s so hot for me still. It’s a counterintuitive truth.
You're married. = you're a simp. 70 percent of divorces are filed by women. You're BSing yourself.😂
Your best video so far. Old school forgotten knowledge that never changed back in the classroom. I hope that youngsters will learn something.
Just wanted to say thanks @ Casey for your education. I'm quite an old dog now. And I am just learning this stuff. Everything makes perfect sense. Slowly I am changing my old conditioning 1% at a time. Slow process, but I can already see improvements. Never too late to change. TY brother.
Same here, I'm 46 and learning about true female nature. This shit is mind blowing 🤯. I also see everything casey is talking about with a coworker dating some new girl on the job.
@@melanatednegus174 I would love to hear more of that story bro
THE AMOUNT OF TRUTH💡 SEEPING FROM THIS VIDEO IS..ABSOLUTELY................INSANE!!!!
The reason why women like heartless bastards is because back in the old days they were the ones that go out and get the resources.
Women rarely sad them and that’s who it was more harmonious 😂 once you live with a woman, watch the change and nagging increase
Being “heartless” is not a good way to live. But keeping them guessing at times definitely works to sustain the relationship.
Take morality out of it. It just is what it is.
If you simply want to hook up, then this is the way it must be. Most guys can't accept this but if your tired of fat girls and want 7s, 8s, 9s to wishing you good morning and good night then you must do it.
@@MBAYoungboy Its Inhuman in any possible way. I rather stay as what I am than rather be an Entropic I
Casey is slightly wrong here. You need to feed them scraps of validation to keep them chasing it. Flirt with ideas of commitment and reciprocation of love, and give meaningless validation (e.g. "thinking about you" text but doesn't call to meetup for a few days).@@MBAYoungboy
This is exactly why I don’t want to date anymore.
This makes no sense to me, but it probably makes sense to women.
Because I start to care they stop caring. So it’s not worth it really
start putting yourself first thats all
Real Christian women aren’t like this. You need to become a Christian & date wholesome women at church.
Christian dating is totally different. These men under these comments are getting dating advice from a worldly man that knows nothing about women and dating
@@hopemaker5982not all Christian women are good in fact a lot are just masquerading as good Christian women to get a good man after being ran through for years. However there's still a good chance you'll find a better woman there than at a club due to the moral framework that Christianity brings.
@@onepunchflan3071 I agree with you. I’ve met the most wonderful people in church, male and female, but I know some people with bad hearts go to church looking for customers for their business, or for mates to be a decent parent for their children.
They don’t feel they are valuable. So if you treat her like gold, it makes her feel horrible about herself.
Ummm what?
THIS!! I've been trying to spread the word but most people don't get it one bit. Women have lower self esteem than men. Much lower. This lower self esteem is the ture motivation of so much of their bahavior. They literally don't beleive they deserved to be teated well.
@@1mobile984 Are you a girl?
Which should tell you that she can’t be a mother, right? So do you really want to attract her? You really want traumatized children? Think about it
This is pure gold, especially the last part, never seen anyone bring this up before. Thanks @CaseyZander
🤔... And _since_ I'll never be a "heartless (egocentric) prick who has zero emotion", women can continue to suffer in their craving for darkness, while I live happy and healthy in my sense of self integrity and wellbeing - regardless of what they 'think' they need, want or crave.
Let them actually look _within_ for a REAL genuine change, and make their own peace with who they have chosen to become. We are all called: most answer.... those without depth will fall and decay.
This is NOT what most women want. This guy is a used car salesman who wants nothing more than to extract $$$ from guys who are lost.
Whoa!! Deep shit bra
None of my girlfriends, nor I have ever wanted to be with a heartless man!!!
A man like that will be a terrible father. Women want a man who is tenderhearted.
Our society has gotten further and further away from God and Christian teachings, so people are just warped to think like this!
This man is a genius. Everything he says is 200% correct. And it is tough and bloody frustrating to come to terms with it. But he's right. everything we have been fed or nice normal consistent etc its all lies. Listen to this man! And understand its our lack of understanding of female phychology. I HAD NO IDEA EITHER!
Best advice ever. Period.
This guy knows what he's talking about. This is the most truthful video of all time.
I like you make a lot of similar videos but each with more enphasis on the point, what you said is 100% truth.
This is easily one of the best videos on yt. Been following him for a while now but this vid was really outstanding
i been wachting a tons videos about woman for quite some time now. and for the first time i can finally say i found one i can really understand, great job this is how you explain things in simple words anybody can understand great job
It’s not about wins and losses. It’s about maintaining your masculine frame through it all.
Why would i want to be a heartless prick. Id rather go without women for my entire life than be something like that.
He's lying to you. Dude sounds narcissistic as hell. Us women don't want this toxic mess. Trust me.
date men then
I was recently dumped by a 10. Initially, we had started with texts. I didn't use to reply her on time just cos I rarely looked at my texts. She called after a week & asked me why I was ignoring her & she felt I had other women & not into her as much. She told me that she liked me a lot. I was shocked as I was not even close to being in her league. Then I started texting her constantly, calling her & spending $ on her, 3 weeks after she dumped me outta the blue & said we can be friends. I was heartbroken & didn't eat for days. RUclips recommended this channel to me & I now know the true nature of a woman. Thx Casey!❤
It's crazy. I've put all your advice to the test.. It definetly works. Just holding my masculine frame has done wonders. When I compile everything else you've taught, I can literally have any woman
Yes - psychopathy works
No you can't have any woman.
Don't forget to say "Do you understand?" every time you say something to her.
Quick story too because I'm bored -
I've worked in the restaurant industry for most of my life, recently I worked with this guy who I quickly found out was basically sleeping with every hot female working at the place. He was dating the bartender and openly cheating on her with multiple other chicks that worked there. I was confused by this because honestly he seemed aggressively average in the looks department besides the fact that he was kind of big from lifting. To me, he had no charisma, he wasn't making any of these chicks laugh, and he wasn't even flirty with any of them either. He was pretty quiet and seemed like he really didn't give a fuck about any of it.
It's all starting to add up now though lol, dude was a total asshole who blatantly disrespected all of those 304s but they all threw themselves at him. His "GF" the bartender, she refused to believe he was cheating on her even though multiple people told her and it was beyond obvious because he made no real attempts to hide it.
How can I blantantly disrespect a woman without cheating on her so she'll sleep and date me?
I just don’t have that in me. I guess I’m taking my awesome genes with me to my grave, while the dirtbags will repopulate the world.
@@alexanderhamilton8585 naturally I don’t operate that way either but adaptation is one of mans best qualities. The current cultural landscape pisses me off but the best option is to use that as fuel to get what you want.
@@virtual240 I think it’s not about disrespecting them as much as it is about just not giving a fuck. This dude didn’t give a fuck to a level that was automatically disrespectful but I don’t think you have to take it that far, especially if you actually like a chick. Just maintain stoicism and don’t ever act like you need her.
how tall was he ?
OMG the rabbit hole just keeps going deeper!
Casey is a national treasure we must protect him at all costs !
Not really...stop simping for him loser.
Lol he is a charlatan spreading propaganda 😂
If you believe women love heartless pricks you are delusional. 😂 They respond first to physical appearance then personality and money
More than national - greetings from germany
@@joehallenbeck95 international !***
Thanks!
Titles have been getting crazier and crazier lately. Great content.
Spot on man Thanks!
These last 10 or so videos have perfectly explained why I can get 4s 5s 6s and occasional 7s so easily but 8s and 9s I get consistently ghosted by due to me reflecting on the fact my behaviors and nuances do definitely change around those women and i "want" to have a relationship with them which sends them running. Its wild being introduced to this upside down backwards world but it does make sense in a weird twisted way
Exact same thing for me. The ones I don’t care about won’t stop blowing up my phone, the ones I care ghoste lmao
Yep. If she is too hot for you, you will perish. Until you will biologically feel that you are better than her.
@@suiz1781 no kidding. It’s always the girls that you don’t even care about in that way. They are the ones that keep chasing you down seemingly for years sometimes.
A much simpler explanation is just that you are a 6 or a 7.
@@mikebarnacle1469 back then, yes.
Well said! Doesn’t matter their upbringing for the most part, it’s in their biology
Damn you Casey . Reading me like a book. Great job
One of your greatest presentations 💯 Casey.
Man, the painful & embarassing introspection sessions this guy went through to realise this stuff - you can sense in his silly smiles (thinking to himself, how was i this stupid) and his tone of delivery.
Mad respect bro ✌️
So true, dude really is reliving his dating life thru these videos teaching us youngsters. Father-son shit.
I totally agree that you can’t take any shit off of women. Then also you have to project the attitude that you prefer variety and that you’re not anxious about being in a couple. Also you have to threaten to abandon them whenever that might be warranted. And then finally, you need to actually abandon them. The more women you’ve had the less you’re going to care about coupling with any one woman. And then finally, women are definitely more trouble than they’re worth. Fine, if you can find exactly what you want then perhaps you could get married but it’s never really a good idea.
Like they say the cold hard truth. Personally I’m staying away from dating for a while, can’t handle the drama
Bro… You on fire in this vid!!!
You hit da proverbial nail right on the head!!!!
I’m 61 years young and dealing with exactly wut you talking bout here!!!
You’ve given me inspiration and guidance to exactly what I need to do with this chick I been dating for the last three years!!!
Thank you!
I've watched many times to internalize. I grew up too close to my mom, so a soft man 'cause of that. Thanks for the content.
I dated a model for 7 years totally fucked my game up this guy reminds me what it takes and I'm grateful for that
You forgot the most important part, you must love in a way that the other feels free.
Letting her know you're masculine is a feminine trait.
Focus on your passion and purpose, women will always follow.
*The discussion on why some women are attracted to emotionally distant men is fascinating. It highlights how complex female attraction can be. Definitely a topic worth exploring further!*
Hey casey, congrats! You almost hitting 400k on 'your own terms' type of strategy!
Casey is great at what he does. Thank you for the amazing content brother.
I remember in my youth, I was arguing with a woman. Next thing I knew we where getting it on. Never knew at the time what I done. I had a woman and she left me. I know now what I done wrong. I will never simp again. I never started simping but over time I done more and more for her and now she's gone. I'm happy she's gone as this is my time. Good vid m8t
Bruuuhhh... Does this actually work? 🤣 Because I think it happened to me. I fiercely argued with this vegan chick once on FB. I though she hated me after that. Couple of months later she visits my town and guess who she wants to meet and hang with??? 🤣🤣 I was like "WTF?!". Unfortunately, I was too stupid to take it further. Now, I regret it.
@@Schopenhauer69 in the short run yes, but she will argue with you for ever and a day. Always in training. Never stops. I think women just like to argue. Plenty more crazy in the ocean bro
@@Kevin-gg1bp word
Your videos make me realize theirs no point of being with a chick they are crazy 😂
Stay single and classy my friend
you can be with as many as you want as long as you don't give a fuck about them individually.
You can be with chicks but don't get smitten by their beauty just be nonchalant and chilled around them, bruh
@@maximiliankonig7010why would you want to be with them if you don’t give a f*ck?
@@supremelordoftheuniverse5449 It's not necessarily not giving af but tht concept helps. It's really your ability to maintain your composure and not be overly emotional with a chick.
Always keep a mindset that she is only temporary and you will have the upperhand
Lovebombing and then devaluing also works quite well. It’s narcissistic but women crave narcs tol
I regret each act of lovebombing. I find it unnecessary, it may make you believe your own hype.
Casey, I’m sure you get burned out on this at times, but dudes need your help. Keep fighting the good fight.
yep, let my guard down, fell into the trap...Casey hit the nail on the head there.
I needed to hear this so bad. Laughing at my past behavior 😅
we are in the same boat , my ex fiancee left me because i was being too nice and straight .
You are always on point, Casey. Thanks for this one.
Casey and the guys following: this is accurate advice.
33 years ago I married my wife. Saw a couple walking and holding hands. She commented about that and said "They're a cute couple". I grabbed her right hand to hold while we walked. She pulled her hand away. I asked what was wrong. Silence. I grabbed her hand again and again she pulled it away. She took a half step away from me to the right and glared at me saying "I don't like that". I though WTF! So I hot pissed and we walked into the store and I didn't hold the door open for her. When we were done I told her "Let's go." We got to the car I opened her door and said "Get in". I didn't talk to her for two days. She sat on the sofa and stared at me with confusion. I said "Hi. My name is Michael". Ignored her ass. She said can we talk. I said sure "Talk". Guess what: She didn't apologize because she got out of what she wanted from me. To be g-tdamned man.
Pay attention to Casey. I accidentally found Frame and acted like jackals who could give 2 f'ks about her.
This is the most depressing thing I’ve ever seen. Psychopaths are going to take over the world.
You took the words right out my mouth.
They always have. It will always be might makes right. Survival of the fittest. You don't necessarily need to be psycho, you just need to be brave.
Ive never met a woman who enjoyed being mistreated!
@@makingtoastit isn't bravery if they don't feel fear, which is one of the traits of psychopathy
I dated this very sweet, cute feminine women and it was going so well. I admitted I was looking for a relationship. What I meant was I was not sure if she was the women I want a relationship with or not. It is obvious if you are dating you want a relationship, right? Well she dumped me and the reason she gave me was that I want a serious relationship. This video is so true. Later I ran into her at a bar, and she had cut scars on her arm. I didn't give a F and straight up asked her about the scars. She admitted she cuts herself. WTF. I dodged a bullet in the long run.
Sign that women who want toxic treatment are toxic themselves
At 45 and successful,I've found its more streamlined to pay flat rate and get to the point.
Amen! Who has the time, energy & patience to play these games? Specially when you managing an empire? Pay for play. If you have the wallet, get sugar arrangements. 1 in 5 hot girl age 18-25 in the US today is a sugar baby. thats 20% of the pool. I have a better s3x life at 40 than what I had at 20. The younger dudes here who "cold approach" and learn "game" on a girl have no clue that a rich daddy like me busted inside her guts and mouth raw, half and hour ago. And this situation happened to me last weekend. Hot latina college sophomore i just smashed at hotel - we were having coffee at hotel lounge, before her uber arrived.. I went for a bathroom break came back some annoying millennial dude was trying to game her. I told the dude we just had a marathon upstairs and she has not showered. His soul left him right there.
@@shekondog his soul left him...hahhahahbahaha
@@MichaelAngelEscalante LMAO .. but it has happened to me too when I was younger. Back in college days, I approached a hot older lady at a bar and was trying to run "game" when her huge, built, bodybuilder bf came and jokingly asked me if I wanted her. He then grabbed her ass and kissed her while i had to watch. Ran away from there as fast as I could. :) We learn and we accept. Cheers!
@@shekondog hell yea. The good ol' circle of life. Hahahhaha peace
@@shekondog I don't laugh out loud often, but this made me lose it.
Another nice side effect of this, is if they’re putting most of the effort into the relationship, even money, if for any reason the relationship ends, it’s much easier to get over vs when you poured your entire soul and bank account into a woman.
So true...
Much respect thanks for sharing this 👏🏻👏🏻
If women and society incentivize me to become a monster, then why should I resist?
This is exactly why this sort of misinformation is so dangerous my brother. I like some if your content but I’m sorry to say that this video was so misleading and I understand that you connected the dots wrong and you didn’t mean to create monsters but please go talk to your moms and sisters before you start telling men what women want. This isn’t it.
Thank you for the wonderful presentation. Emotional detachment from the woman is very necessary. But many people wrongly equate being an asshole with being indifferent. As long as a man remains very centered and focused on his goals, visions and aspirations, and does not make the woman his priority he will be fine
It doesn't feel unnatural if we look at it this way. In fact it sounds crazy that both men and women are emotionally attached and the man is still supposed to lead
Thank you for the video and even the past ones. It all makes more sense to me now
I am focused on my goals and work, I am stoic and not needy and ... no women are interested in me.
The man isn't "supposed" to lead. My brain never dropped out of my head and I'm well-read and intelligent. I would not be with any man who expected me to defer to him except for any areas he is more of an expert on and vice versa. If a couple can't make decisions together, they don't know how to have a relationship.
@@marguskiis7711 as long as you are regularly interacting with women, and remain focused and productive, it is likely to happen. People naturally gravitate towards successful people.Even physical disability is not enough to stop this
@@marodaniels4349 I was the most popular among women when I was unemployed and in shambles. When I got job, money, house and goals, women began to reject me.
Had to laugh so hard :D Because its absolutely TRUE! This is what its about in a deep sense. A minute of silence for all the nice guys who think otherwise.
Deja Voodoo cologne has me feeling like a whole snack. Chicks are definitely noticing.
Iv read a few books written by pimps and caseys knowledge is basically pimping 101 without the blatant label. Its sad but he speaks truth, its a cold world out there.
I appreciate the knowledge you convey here and hope that you give us more knowledge! I know that what you say is true because I experienced it myself, I just didn't know exactly and did it intuitively when my ex-girlfriend stalked me for half a year and I didn't know any better why she was so obsessed with me and believe I didn't treat her well anymore with the hope that she would eventually go away. I hope that at some point you will also publish a book detailing and summarizing your knowledge because I also really appreciate books and of course also videos or audio
and if you can put aside the kay that you constantly say then that's perfect but who is perfect?
If you want a woman to go away just treat her well lol
I'm going to act authentically. And if a woman isn't attracted then she can scram.
It's funny how the instagram feed is full of quotes from women complaining about men who exhibit this very behavior, that's how I realise it's all true 🤣
It’s their way to weed out the weak
Yep. These are the types of guys they complain about to the nice guys in their lives they've friendzoned, too. Yet, they never leave them for the nice shoulders to cry on!
Women need something to complain about. They are pathological liars with words and show the truth through their actions.
The men women are constantly complaining about are also the men who they let pump and dump them on a consistent basis
100%. Complete lack of self-awareness.
Casey you a gangsta for real. The most feminine is the toughest. Don’t sleep on them bro. Keep your guard up. Keep yourself on higher pedestal
Any man who has made these mistakes watches these videos and just cringes at themselves for making all of these mistakes and watching the woman go bye bye, it may sound wrong to alot, but to me it is like seeing clearly for the 1st why all my relationships ended, they ended the exact way he describes, she did all this shit to me and I failed at every turn, the more I have been hurt the more successful I become with women, because I see them now, I know as soon as I let them break me down it is over, it takes some failures, but that is the hard road. If you are a new guy here and have not had alot of heart breaks, listen to this dude, stay strong in the face of any woman, all shapes and sizes, they are all the same creatures, you will have success, the moment you break down watch them cheat, watch them torture you
So I have to be emotionless to keep a woman? Even though that's not me in the slightest? So what, then, I have to put on an act and be fake? For the rest of my life? Casey, there has to be a point that I can relax and be genuine. What you're talking about sounds exhausting and unreal.
FALSE TEACHING!
Amen.
Can't break a man's heart if he's heartless.