Not true. Things can change as you get to know someone. You can't possibly know someones within 5 minutes of meeting them. That's an immature approach to life, and the reason so many people are miserable.
He should know what he wants by 5th date already!!! Waiting 8 weeks thats an illusion. Ive come across naive ladies believing that they should disclose what they want bc they think a guy will manipulate them into believing that he wants to be serious too but actually hes playing games
After my ex reconciled with me, I gave him several days.. In maybe the 3rd day, I frankly told him if he doesnt want anything special with me then dont contact me again. I dont want to be his friend. Then he said I am his GF. Lol. But I feel it is kinda forced.. IDK.. Really if he is that sincere when he said that. Since the first day he texted me, he said he misses me but he didnt say he wants to get back to me as either friend or couple. I couldnt held it inside and I’m glad that I asked him not that early and not that late. He knows that I can lose him since we didnt talk for a couple of months and he ended up texting me first. Now, he already asked for intimacy after a week of our reconciliation and I didnt want to give it to him, I got a feeling he is gonna end our fake relationship anytime soon. I still love and care for him but I dont feel like he is that sincere anymore. I dont want to force people to love me eventhough I still love him. FWB? No way. Not gonna let a guy use my body to satisfy his need while he flirting with other woman out there.
Don't sleep together before at least before being a gf. Obvious!!! These days too many (crazy- I find it crazy) girls sleep w a guy even before a relationship! It's insane, we don't give employee benefits to a job interviewee.
Elliot would you recommend saying “There’s another guy who asked me on a date and I wanted to know your thoughts on it?” and give him the opportunity to either say he wants exclusivity or if he’s okay with the woman dating other men, in which case she should end it with him and date other men.
I definitely wouldn’t bring other guys into the picture. Whether it’s true or not it doesn’t matter but personally I think it’s inappropriate. If a guy told me about another girl being in the picture I’d wish him good luck. You shouldn’t compete for a guy. He needs to choose YOU
I had a guy tell me if he told me what he was really looking for "(sex) then I would have never agreed to see him. Lol guys know what girls want to hear to get it started lol and make it seem goodm really do gotta put the time in and observe their actions. It's shitty out here lol
On week twelve of hanging out with him ...i remember breaking down telling him about something i felt bad about. He consold me and told me to never worry about judgment from him. I then asked him. What.. are you my bf and he then said ..if you want me to yes. Lol 🥲. Week 12 . Im thinking that was the exception not the rule.
A guy will put you in a category within the first 5 minutes of meeting
Definitely. Just like women.
Not true. Things can change as you get to know someone. You can't possibly know someones within 5 minutes of meeting them. That's an immature approach to life, and the reason so many people are miserable.
He should know what he wants by 5th date already!!! Waiting 8 weeks thats an illusion. Ive come across naive ladies believing that they should disclose what they want bc they think a guy will manipulate them into believing that he wants to be serious too but actually hes playing games
After my ex reconciled with me, I gave him several days.. In maybe the 3rd day, I frankly told him if he doesnt want anything special with me then dont contact me again. I dont want to be his friend. Then he said I am his GF. Lol. But I feel it is kinda forced.. IDK.. Really if he is that sincere when he said that. Since the first day he texted me, he said he misses me but he didnt say he wants to get back to me as either friend or couple. I couldnt held it inside and I’m glad that I asked him not that early and not that late. He knows that I can lose him since we didnt talk for a couple of months and he ended up texting me first. Now, he already asked for intimacy after a week of our reconciliation and I didnt want to give it to him, I got a feeling he is gonna end our fake relationship anytime soon. I still love and care for him but I dont feel like he is that sincere anymore. I dont want to force people to love me eventhough I still love him. FWB? No way. Not gonna let a guy use my body to satisfy his need while he flirting with other woman out there.
I got invited over on 2nd "date." Guess I'm outta luck. Haha 🤷♀️🤦♀️
Great content. Thank you!
Thank you so much for this.
Would you be able to do a video on 'framing'? love your content thank you!
I'M SORRY, BUT I CAN'T WITH THESE COMMENTS 🤦♀️😂😂. BESIDES ELLIOT, Y'ALL NEED SHERA SEVEN & JESUS!
This video so good
Don't sleep together before at least before being a gf. Obvious!!! These days too many (crazy- I find it crazy) girls sleep w a guy even before a relationship! It's insane, we don't give employee benefits to a job interviewee.
Elliot would you recommend saying “There’s another guy who asked me on a date and I wanted to know your thoughts on it?” and give him the opportunity to either say he wants exclusivity or if he’s okay with the woman dating other men, in which case she should end it with him and date other men.
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@@lisabuckner243 I asked for Elliot’s recommendation, not yours.
@@FM-zg5hz well let's see what Scott says
@@lisabuckner243 either offer advice or get off the pot
I definitely wouldn’t bring other guys into the picture. Whether it’s true or not it doesn’t matter but personally I think it’s inappropriate. If a guy told me about another girl being in the picture I’d wish him good luck.
You shouldn’t compete for a guy. He needs to choose YOU
He said, he didn't know🤷
Run!!!
Get out! Lol
That screams emotionally unavailable! 😒
He don't care what you guys are as long as he has access to you. Lol Thank you, next.
then he should not know where he stand with you either. Start dating other men infront of him.
I don’t bring it up Because I don’t want a relationship to mess I love my single life and I can’t be held down so he can just be used as my fwb
What if he takes you out to eat on second date and brings you back to place and y’all just kiss?
He’s still getting a physical need met
I had a guy tell me if he told me what he was really looking for "(sex) then I would have never agreed to see him. Lol guys know what girls want to hear to get it started lol and make it seem goodm really do gotta put the time in and observe their actions. It's shitty out here lol
Why is it that this seems to be presented as the woman’s responsibility to do?
Yes, why it should be woman’s responsibility??
Cuz guys don’t care to be in relationships like women do :/
On week twelve of hanging out with him ...i remember breaking down telling him about something i felt bad about. He consold me and told me to never worry about judgment from him. I then asked him. What.. are you my bf and he then said ..if you want me to yes. Lol 🥲. Week 12 . Im thinking that was the exception not the rule.