You are helping me so much. Your videos are amazing. You just got me out of a toxic situationship where my last scraps is of dignity were being eroded by the day. I didn’t understand his game but I do now. And I didn’t understand that I’m too available, too nice, too sincere. I need structure like you say and to value myself more to attract the right kind of men. Thank you so much
lol Elliott you are so funny and I always just let your next video come on. You are so real about what you are saying. If you are ever in Austin I would love to take you out! Your Friend in Austin tx. Thank you!! 🙏🏼 💙
Elliot ,why men do not think that the girl can date other men when they pull away ??? they do not think they will lose her , this is what i do not understand, us women we think before any taken step!!
In my opinion, many men (especially the ones who haven’t really experienced a real relationship with a woman) tend to lack imagination and be too optimistic about women for no good reason. They think it’s okay to put us on their “not-yet” shelf expecting us to stay there obsessed with them until they are ready. That’s probably why they are so surprised when/if they come back and we say “no thanks.”
@@matimarwa6689men's brain work in a more linear thought pattern. They focus on what's right in front of them, what they think & feel in the present & then base their decisions on that. They don't tend to consider potential consequences or other outcomes until they're dealing with them.
Stop contact - don’t explain anything. Listen to the other videos Elliot makes ❤ stay confident and strong. Put all your energy back into yourself and find God too :)
Elliot to men High value… has to do with looks????? Not a woman’s personality and what they got going on for themselves???… High value to a woman doesnt have to do with looks
Hi Elliot! Thank you for sharing yet another goodie. I’m curious if you’re interested in setting an account in Chinese social media? I’ll be happy to help you manage it if you’re interested. Have a nice day:)
my ex dumped me end of may. ive been in NC for 6 weeks. we ended on logical reasons... he started stalking my tik tok account once a week around 3 weeks NC. do you think he'll message me eventually?
You are helping me so much. Your videos are amazing. You just got me out of a toxic situationship where my last scraps is of dignity were being eroded by the day. I didn’t understand his game but I do now. And I didn’t understand that I’m too available, too nice, too sincere. I need structure like you say and to value myself more to attract the right kind of men. Thank you so much
Love the chalkboard. Old school..
I love this video. I really know i need to listen to you in every way to stop this bullshit.
I been dealing with this mess. I been gone for a month can't wait to the three months mark. I will be home free.
Same here. Nearly 5 weeks
Same here, 2 weeks for me so far . I'm already feeling less stress!
They come back after 3 months.. I'd block.
They may never come back so be ready to stay gone 💪high value stays gone, period
Any update? Soon I will pass one month as well
These videos are gems! Thanks Mr. Scott!
Excellent Video Elliot!
Same for long distance?
lol Elliott you are so funny and I always just let your next video come on. You are so real about what you are saying. If you are ever in Austin I would love to take you out! Your Friend in Austin tx. Thank you!! 🙏🏼 💙
Really appreciate you making these videos for us ❤
Please make more videos of this topic, thanks
Elliot ,why men do not think that the girl can date other men when they pull away ??? they do not think they will lose her , this is what i do not understand, us women we think before any taken step!!
If he pulls away, he's willing to lose you.
@@stormyweather9570 ya but the issue is that why they do not think of the consequences when they break up ??? why us women we think before???
@@matimarwa6689Because some people learn from mistakes and make more mistakes. Others rather are risk avoidant and are not making such mistakes.
In my opinion, many men (especially the ones who haven’t really experienced a real relationship with a woman) tend to lack imagination and be too optimistic about women for no good reason. They think it’s okay to put us on their “not-yet” shelf expecting us to stay there obsessed with them until they are ready. That’s probably why they are so surprised when/if they come back and we say “no thanks.”
@@matimarwa6689men's brain work in a more linear thought pattern. They focus on what's right in front of them, what they think & feel in the present & then base their decisions on that. They don't tend to consider potential consequences or other outcomes until they're dealing with them.
What about avoidant attachment personality guys?
Thank you! ☺️
Elliott when this happens do we tell the person to hit the bricks or just stop contact with no explanation? If they are not valuing you
Stop contact - don’t explain anything. Listen to the other videos Elliot makes ❤ stay confident and strong. Put all your energy back into yourself and find God too :)
@@Braveh3artGirl thank you ❤️
Sugar walls! Priceless
I had to rewind it make sure I heard correctly 😂
You look like a famous actor can anyone tell who??
@@Marypeterson7 Lincoln or Michael Phelps 🤣
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 and 👍!!!
Elliot to men High value… has to do with looks????? Not a woman’s personality and what they got going on for themselves???… High value to a woman doesnt have to do with looks
Hi Elliot! Thank you for sharing yet another goodie. I’m curious if you’re interested in setting an account in Chinese social media? I’ll be happy to help you manage it if you’re interested. Have a nice day:)
Sexual fair market value 😂👍
Elliot you are looking old and very ill. Hope you are OK.
he aged like 10 years lol
yeah he needs to get in the gym fr
He looks absolutely fine to me, much better than years ago when he was younger
my ex dumped me end of may. ive been in NC for 6 weeks. we ended on logical reasons... he started stalking my tik tok account once a week around 3 weeks NC. do you think he'll message me eventually?
No... block him off your socials for good. Then he might come around looking for attention. Doesn't mean he will stay or commit.