Causing Women To Want Exclusivity
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- Опубликовано: 20 авг 2024
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to properly date & romance women so they voluntarily blow off all other men they are dating & want to only see you without you having to ask for it.
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I only trust 3 people: God,Me, and Coach Corey :) thanks coach!
Dude I love this !
Psh
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I always say "Coach Corey Wayne is the God. He knows too much about his creations" xD
He himself must be the man upstair.
xD
Women emotions are weird. I always say be yourself and have no expectations. You have some good advice.
Sound advice
I'd add "dont simp"
@@jknott1509 never simpin for a trick, thats some good advice
This is so true, don’t bring up feelings and exclusivity during first few weeks of dating, it will put pressure and not fun anymore just enjoy let the nature takes its course. Anyhow you will get there to exclusivity as time goes by. Even an attractive guy open up too early weirded me out. Just chill,relax, have fun.
Hookup culture is gross and not all men have adapted to it. This is like a US thing. I think if a dude is truly disturbed by someone he is really into sleeping with other men he should mention it. I dont think sweeping it under the rug is always a good move. Keep in mind even in the 60s most men expected their wife to be a virgin. And this wasnt that long ago. Now we are supposed to be okay with them giving it up to other dudes while talking to us?
This is literally the exact same thing I'm dealing with currently, only the relationship was 6 months. I took 2 weeks away to gather my head after she broke it off, and she contacted me telling me she didn't want to lose me from her life, and still wants to hook up. After reading your book (only 2 times so far) my response to her saying she was going to see other guys was, "that's fine. They can keep youi busy when I'm not around" she laughed and told me I should date as well, I replied who says I'm not already? She seemed shocked, which told me her interest is still at least above 50% I still struggle emotionally missing the relationship, but those are the days I don't contact her and just remind myself that if I do everything right, that is my best chance at regaining it one day. Thanks Corey, for you're awesome insight. I listen to your book on audible all day at work each day. Hopefully I can hone my skills further and not make any further mistakes.
I’ve just purchased his book on Audible because I keep fucking things up... only it’s not showing in my Audible account despite me receiving email confirmation 🙄
Did you have any issues?
Bobby p are you back with her exclusively yet? Did that work by telling her you can date other men they can keep you busy while I am not around?
@@johnbingaman3645 in a way, yes. Things were rocky and back and forth for a while. I decided to just not give a shit anymore and concentrate on my goals. Now, we're living together and things have been great. I'd say best course of action, was taking her out of my priority list.
@@PHG_Jersey That's our boy. Make yourself your own mental point of origin.
Good job.
Corey's book changed my life. :DD
I responded to your comment in my recent youtube video "Beware of women who go along"
What’s wrong with simply peacing out amicably when the indication is she’s seeing other men? If you have options and you don’t compete…YOU draw the line..don’t put the ball in her court. If you’re sleeping together and the message is you’re free to date other women that’s a 100% indicator she’s seeing other men. Do you want to continue to invest in and sleep with a woman who’s sleeping with other men? If you’re not high value enough in her eyes to put the other things aside…you’re yielding to her narrative and cucking yourself in the meantime. You want to turn the tables….tell her you’ve lost some enthusiasm, but would like to remain friends and move on. If there’s a next time around…she’ll know you respect yourself. If she never comes back…dude, she wasn’t yours in the first place…, but you’ve reset the frame.
I am dating a girl so I told her “I like to take off dresses “ and she told me “ You should be only taking mine off” so that’s a signed of exclusivity
Exactly. Sometimes women who are a bit scared of your reaction of saying she wants exclusivity will say it in more subtly ways. I once was dating someone and we had been talking about sex and our past sex lives, and she mentioned to me that she only wanted MY dick, with emphasis on the ME part. She kept dropping hints like that up until the point she mentioned that she already was not seeing anyone else. It ended shortly after that because I did not want the same thing, but in hindsight, Im able to see that she made it known that she wanted to be exclusive without actually saying it. Not all women are going to "ask if youll be their boyfriend" in that direct of a way. Some women expect a man to outright ask, after dropping hint after hint. Be intuitive of things that catch your ear as possibly being a hint, they usually are.
Bro you guys are technically married
@@evancisneros7108 Hey, how can you be sure about those hints. I mean why can't girls just say it instead of giving hints
@@shantanu4455 That's women man. They expect us to mind read. That's why it's best to learn how to interpret non verbal communication and read subtle verbal cues.
@@evancisneros7108 But what can you do in this stage to let the girl say it herself...Coz that's the best way to go
Sometimes this works too well. Honest man, this is all true. He's right.
I just want to kick myself for all the stupid sh!t I did in my last relationship, everything he talks about is true!!!
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I am going to go on about my life and stop binge watching corey after this tough breakup
Hey Corey, I'm on my 8th read now, loving your material! Thank you!
Just watch "It's A Wonderful Life". It shows how to treat women.
I just love how the beginning is ahhh sounds amazing then all the sudden.. ⛈ lol I'm addicted to this
Thanks coach. I’ve actually mentioned the whole “I don’t want her to see anyone else” spiel to her. And now I realise that you’re right.
Thanks again mate.
My attitude is, I love spending my time with you and making you happy. I can just keep hanging out and having fun with you, but if you want to date other people thats fine, you are free, however I would no longer want to be a part of your life if that becomes the case.
Is this wrong or insecure? Because coach says "People won't do a thing that you don't invite them to do"
Batu Yilmaz in the mind of a female it’s a sign of weakness, but i understand where u coming from
@@okendo011 But its like having a standart, when I say that I feel like, I dont want to be "one of the guys", I want to be the priority and if you are unwilling to make me one, then Im out finding someone who will.
@@batuyilmaz1464 your actions, your inaction and your patience will naturally make you a priority if she has an interest level above 51%
@@okendo011 I have no idea what you meant, a girl might have an interest level above 51% towards multiple guys, it doesn't mean you're going to be a priority above the others... You need to do the right things for that to happen
Good lord I'm so guilty of this. I'm from Singapore and she's Malaysian. What Corey says about women really applies to all women from all walks of life in every continent. Long story short unlike this dude we've never been broken up but 8 month's of dating and we're still not exclusive. She display hot and cold attitude sometimes pushes me away and sometimes ask for space all because I kept going a roundabout way of forcing her into a commitment more than she's ready. Sometimes I cried because of my situation but I do learned so much about myself and the way I acted tho it's been 8 months and still not exclusively a couple yet. I'm grateful at the fact that she's still giving me chances and not dump my dumb ass completely I've read the book at least 9 times but I still haven't embodied it yet and goes back to my old conditioning every now and then. Had it not been for Corey's work I probably have gotten dumped completely sooner. But Corey's work helped me smack myself in the face and noticed my own fuck ups and quickly turn it around. I'm a work in progress and I keep working on myself till I fully embody his teachings. For you guy's out there please count your blessings if haven't got dump for your fuck ups. Keep the faith and trust the process!
Wow, it's pleasant to see someone from a close neighbouring country. Women from my place is also very very conservative but it seems that applying what coach says still works in some ways. Only take the good and leave the bad I'd always say. I can't follow 100% on his teachings but the fundamentals are still solid no matter where you are.
how it is going right now...?
i was so unlucky that i was being dumped because of that reason also... and when she said she's done.. i asked what you don't like about me.. and she also mentioned the thing about i was too serious about relationship, emotionally dependent.. if it's not, then it will be fun and without any pressure...
i honestly still wish that i have another chance to fix it... if not, then i will just move on and won't look back anymore...
My two cents on this is that relationship wont last much. I mean she even said she looks for things to end a relationship. There are some women who get boared very easly and end and start relationships constantly. If the dude is looking for something long term or a wife and kids by the looks of it. I`ll say it dosnt look like their relationshoip will last
Love you Corey you taught me so much..
1:55 having a good time, making them laugh
your the man corey I already had game but now Im the master
9:48 best comeback ever 😂
Bro is the Rizzler
So counter intuitive man thank you
But there comes a point where you wanna know where you stand - like 3 months in and nothing is moving… i’ll bring up so i know whether to move on or not
Thank you for the video! Very helpful!!!
This dude is so freaken right...I'm a woman by the way
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This is the mistake I made. TWICE. Now that I think about it in hindsight, she tried very hard to let me know. I had all the nessarcy signs, but I failed to grasp them because of my own fear.
the list of things they did between 1 minute and 1 minute and 20 seconds was like dumb & dumber when Harry was telling alloyed what Mary did. And then Lloyd says shoot him! We made a snowman, she touched my leg. LOL
Really? I know of another coach who is telling women to never bring up the subject of being exclusive (what are we?) with a man they have been dating, first. Also to never say I love you first because the man may then decide he can use her just for sex and never want anything deeper. Wonder how a relationship between a male client of yours and a female client of this other coach would work.
arlene packer I have noticed that with coaches geared towards women, like never go see your man on Tuesday because that makes u look desperate and easy. Maybe that's his only day off! Women don't like being pursued, so LOGICALLY they should do the pursuing. Perhaps not initially, but after a week or 2.
it seems relationship is fucked up these days...
as for me, i believe what Corey's taught... i told the girl my feeling first, then it happened that she play hard to get and then slowly the relationship was dying.. i just remember when i first time met my ex, when i still played it cool without bringing any relationship.. everything was fine between us and we enjoy our time so much..
but.. eventually came to the point where it happened like in the video, she afraid of commitment and it was too serious and many negative points...
Ha!! CW you’re hilarious 😂
What about on the 5th or 6th date, she starts bringing up other "men" and saying she doesn't reply to them and can only think of you. She brought up the chicks I date and I may have handled it wrong... She hinted at falling in Love, and I basically said " actions speak louder than words babe. Are you trying to say something?" hinting at exclusivity, but she didn't go for it!
She was testing you
Man if we could just always remember that what she says is ONLY how she feels in that moment 🙏🏻. We have to stop treating women like logical straight line men. When they don’t “keep their word” they are just being women. They were never created to keep their word.
Does a girl going to bring things up about being exclusive at exact 7 weeks after I done many mistakes?
Okay but at what point do you say enough is enough i either need a commitment or i need to look elsewhere? I get playing it cool but at the same time women can maniuplate. You dont want to commit 100% to somebody who has 5 other giys in the picture
Exactly. Sometimes this guy has solid advice and other times it’s complete clown advice that basically expects the guy to be a simp
Hey Corey, hope you are great, I have read you book (15+) and watched your videos multiple times, but I am a little confused by the thing I am about to ask,
Why is saying "If you intend to date other man, I'm out of the picture" is bad? Because you say "People won't do a thing that you don't invite them to do", and by saying this, you tell them if something happens with another guy you will walk away and never look back. I know you also say "Love someone in a way that the other person feels free", but then again saying this doesn't restrict them dating other people, it just shows that if they happen to choose dating others, than you no longer intend to be a part of their life.
Thank you so much for answering, in advance. (Also something I've learned from your videos assume that you will get a response, because you always do ;)
from what Coach Corey explained... it probably just a test for the guy (you) by saying those thing.. in the last 2 years, the guy he mentioned in the video was fucked up because focusing too much on relationship to the point the girl couldn't stand anymore with his behavior..
so Coach told him to just don't take what she said seriously and just play along with it...
since the beginning, his ex felt pressure with commitment thing, if the guy took it seriously.. then the atmosphere will become heavy/too serious again, and she will notice that the guy just faking his coolness...
and also in the beginning, the girl felt comfortable and seemed in love with the guy again.. he just need to be patience till the day, his ex wants to be exclusive with him again...
if you do everything right, then just need to be patience till the time your efforts will be paid off...
@@holehearted3723 Thank you for replying. I agree, patience is important and you can't expect or ask smo to date only you in the begining of the courtship, however after a while if the other person keeps telling you that she might want to see other guys and date them as well, you should be able to tell that you would be out of the picture until she stops dating other man.
Because I believe if you are okay with her dating other people while she is hooking up with you, you allow this type of behaviour to continue, but if you tell her what you want and walk away, she would eighter decide that she is willing to do what you negotiated or just simply lose you and keep dating other man.
For me exclusiveness is really important and is a sign of respect, again you cant force them to be exclusive but if you state what you want and walk away, its their choice if they are willing to lose you forever or stop dating other man and see where the relationship goes with you.
@@batuyilmaz1464 in case; if she's dating the other guy, i agree with you... and in other video, Corey gives us advice to stop contacting the girl and find another girl who will give us fully attention...
but in this video, observing all the sign of her attraction.. high chance that it's just a part of the test, because the guy had controlling, insecurity issue and keep bringing dating topic that made the girl lose interest and feel uncomfortable in the past...
the girl gives all the sign of attraction and the guy just need to be patience and demonstrate his strenght, not taking seriously what she said, and be playfull..
if let's say the guy responses what the girl says seriously like what you said above..
it will show his emotionally insecurity and still not improving anything since the past issue of their break up.. remember what Corey said, at this stage the girl is like a hawk, her eyes observing every movement.. 1 mistake and she will be gone..
that also my problem/experience too by the way, which i was failed, because i was like what you said.. unintentionally bringing relationship/dating topic and being too serious about it...
@@batuyilmaz1464 The point is you should also be hanging out, having fun and hooking up with other women. If she says she's seeing other guys, just say "That's great. They can keep you busy when you're not with me."
You want her to CHOOSE to be exclusive with you. If you give her an ultimatum, they'll choose the other guys over you. You should be focused on having fun, hanging out and hooking up with her. Let her bring up exclusivity!
I was sleeping over at her house after a night out and she asked if I kissed this other girl (her friend), and I lied and said no.. even tho I did it.
How was I supposed to answer correctly here? I really like her but still keep my options open because I noticed it makes her pursue me more.
By not kissing multiple women at once. You cool w a girl you like kissing other dudes? I’d put you in the “dawg” category.
Corey you have amazing advice, but if a girl is still talking to other guys after the second date, and not totally sprung on me, she’s out. If I find out she dated anyone after kissing me, even on the first date, she’s out.
A warning to you ladies: you can play your games, but a high value gentlemen (not a high value man, I said gentleman, we’re in a separate class entirely vs all these other busters) will drop you like a rock if you want to keep your options open, sometimes almost immediately aka my style.
Women need to feel safe. The first or second date is far too soon to be looking for exclusivity. It happens naturally. Dating is meant to be fun. A lot of us have been badly hurt (some of us were in danger of losing our lives to the hands of a man or losing other things). It sounds controlling. The man needs to be comfortable in himself not to want to control a woman. It makes us want to run away if we are in tune with ourselves. Some of us want to be cared for not tied down first date. For all we know, you could be dangerous. I personally use my intuition.
When do you stop using dating apps? And messaging other girls?
When youre exclusive
The guy should date other women and hook up with his Ex and divorce himself if the idea of ever getting back with her into a “relationship”. If he gets too emotional during sex, then just ignore her.
Teach her a lesson: use her for sex and move on. Shame her for her hypergamy.
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My dumba$# bf is full of ISH. I'm done with the late night games. We're in a casual. He's dark sided too.