Courtship Beginnings: How Often Should You Date?
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- How often you should see each other and date in the beginning of the courtship of a new woman.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is on his 8th read of 3% Man. He’s been dating a girl he met at a brewery for about a month. Sometimes when she reaches out first, he sets the next date right away. Other times she has to check her schedule and get back to him. She doesn’t always bring up her availability when she reaches out next and he’s not sure what to do. He says his problem in the past was he always over pursued women he was dating and chased them away. This is a good video on how to properly balance pursuing too much and not pursuing enough.
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I’ve followed Coach Corey for years and his advice is spot on. Recently I’ve backed it up with The Mating Grounds podcast for some of the ‘why’ behind the methods Coach suggests
I’m at a point now where I deliberately give someone space and freedom to choose me as I want to test and see if she’s good for me. Thanks to Coach, you can in fact have effortless relationships and I’ve now got a good woman by myself after giving her space freely last year.
I think the biggest key is moving from a mindset of making her be what you want to only settling down for someone who matches what you want.
I notice a huge dating difference now. Once you act like you’re the prize, she’ll follow suit. We are always leading the ladies to treat us based on how you treat yourself. They’ll pick up on this new vibe
Fan of Corey’s for seven years now
I’ve got a date tonight with a really amazing woman.
Any last minute tips on building chemistry over a dinner?
This is our second encounter, and I really want to go for the kiss, I didn’t the first time but apparently I passed enough tests in her eyes.
@@ChadThundercook spot on
@@paintopurpose let her stop you dont stop yourself. You gotta take the risk. Lets get it
@@iddicted very true. You give someone an opportunity to join your moving path. It’s moving forward with or without them
I tell my friends that the phone is for setting dates only. Not for excess amounts of texting. That’s how you develop what I call “textual chemistry”, when you’re texting a girl way too often.
Went In for the kiss on 2nd date and she did too! Couldn’t of been a better timing. Learning steadily coach! Listen to the audible every day to work trying to progress! Best of luck to all the guys trying to improve! 💯
I started the whole thing upon meeting this girl. We struck up a conversation, I got her number. I reached out twice; once to make sure she got home safe, then again two days later to meet up. We met up again, had a blast, and now I'm testing how well it all really went by telling her to let me know when she's free to meet up again
Good luck
@@ptrsrfns Thanks you! I have no expectations of this. Now I'm just getting on with things and hoping for the best ☺️
The woman I'm seeing and I have 2 days a week for "me" time in which we each do our own things. Some weeks we'll spend 3-4 days of the week doing things together others we might only see each other 1 day, it all depends on how we feel at the time. We're both introverts who prefer to be alone, and we are each other's favorite person to be with. I don't hold it against her if she needs time to recharge as I do the same thing too. She constantly calls to talk, which is her version of asking if I want to get together, so from there I'll suggest something and we decide what to do. As time has passed, she takes less and less time before asking if we can do something and unless she really needs to vent we spend little time on the phone and more in person.
This is the first time in my life I've been with someone more introverted than me, (we're both INFJs) and while it's odd, it's also one of the smoothest things I've ever experienced, her idea of a "big date" is spending 20-30 bucks on food and often times we'll just grab coffees and watch the sunset. Thanks to 3% Man, I've finally learned not to be too needy or pushy and just let HER come to me. As Corey says "If she's pursuing you, she's not running away" and that takes a massive amount of pressure off. Even if we're just doing our shopping together, we have a blast, the most mundane things are more fun together, it all just flows. Even in the very beginning, we've always had that comfortable vibe with each other, things just "clicked" and it feels like we've known each other for decades.
the perfect balance of the two 😎
I'm in a relationship like that except a little bit the opposite.. as in we are around each other 24/7 and we actually feel anxiety when we are apart. We are each other's best friends we complete each other's sentences and we have the same thoughts at the same time it's almost like I'm dating myself 😂 but much much more hotter
I’m in the exact same position and it confuses the hell out of me. The way you lay the problem out just gives so much clarity.
COREY BRING BACK THE CLASSIC INTRO MUSIC MAN!!!!!!!!!!! Gives a great educational vibe to the video
just the video when i needed the most. I just started a relationship thank you coach
When a girl i'm seeing does this to me on 2 seperate occasions i change things up and try to make the date for a specific day when i'm free and see how she responds - see if she gives me a counter-offer or not. If she can't make it i just say "okay cool" and leave it at that. Then the next time she reaches out i don't try to set a date. I just text back and forth a few times then leave the conversation. After a few days of this if she has interest in me she will bring up getting together. If a girl is messing around like this it's either a test or low interest. You have to walk away, but you don't react or say it. You just stop asking her out. She has to feel that you are losing interest.
This happened to me yesterday before this video even came out. Today is Tuesday and on Sunday I asked her to go on a date this week and she said she will give me an answer tomorrow. I said ok sounds good and she didn't reply the rest of Sunday night. Monday afternoon she texts me "Hey" and we had a short random convo. After a few back and forths, I was waiting for her to bring up when the shed was free and she didn't seem like she would. I asked her to let me know because it was getting late. She then asked me what day I was free this week and I suggested to her Wednesday or Thursday works. We agreed on Thursday and i told her specific things we do (bowling, go out to eat) and she was happy about it
@@ChadThundercook some might like that, i can see that to be true on the 3rd date or later. 1st date it might be scary for her not knowing where shell be going
Was with a girl 9 months and gave her all the space she needed, after a weekend with her she would text the next day she already misses me, but when we would go 5 or 6 days of not seeing each other i wouldn't get miss you cant wait to see you texts, and after 9 months still no i love you from her even though we rarely have argued and we have fun and get along great when together.. also her initiating sex after 5 month went completely downhill.. we broke recently as she said she has kids and just cant quite seem to get herself to the next level and she has to concentrate on them first.. i said no problem and walked away cause i deserve better, shes a beautiful woman but not worth hanging around taking less than i deserve
How was the sex? The intimacy? Were you creating that euphoria when she thought of you or just being her friend.
5 months for sex!?!!? How come you didn't initiate bro
@@iddicted you misunderstood, she stopped initiating at all after 5 months..before that it equal effort with both of us.. sex was always great it was never an issue except that around 6 months she wasnt into as much.. wouldn't see her for a week, then when i did she would say lets just cuddle and watch this movie..so im like if you dont want it after a week of not seeing each other then wtf are we even doing here. Shes 48, having woman issues, maybe menopause who knows.. its not my worry anymore, back out on the date scene already talking to better woman
You've been dating and having sex for 9 months and didn't know she had kids? Bro....
@@xFlared what?? No you ppl obviously arent reading it correctly.. obviously i was
@@robkeller8008 oh I get you. Kinda strange. Well I guess you can ask and find out but that's definitely confusing. Well hope things get better for you bro
10:49 - 11:25 coach, you got me there 😂😂
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Pay attention boys you're learning from the master found him six seven years ago fundamentally change the way I deal with women and people in general
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Really nice this video, in particular the advices.
Coach !!! You’ve ventured in auto sales at some point in your career … that is the exact mindset they preach in automotive sales … we don’t sell cars over the phone, just set the appointment … 😁
I sold real estate and mortgages, not cars
Gotcha coach … thank u for your reply just curious … I’ve been in the car business for 10 years of my career, all the sales analogies you bring up hit home … btw, just started to get into your material 2 months ago great stuff …
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You are the best.
corey wayne can you please make the close caption work for us people who hearing is not so good I like your video and your view thank you
Can we get a “come on man” since he is on the 8th read of the book
I just ask myself what would coach corey wayne do
11:18 that's a side of Corey i didn't read about in the 3% Man. 🤣
Hey I have a success story to share with you coach! I'm 19 years old i've listened to 3% man twice now, im on my third round next.
So anyway i started dating this girl after I got divorced, I moved away with her to different state. Then moved in with her only after two months of dating (I know bad idea i know this now.) Anyway we were just fine before we moved to different state together. She was all over me wanted more sex than me, I didnt even have to try have sex with her it just happened. She was 10/10 attracted to me, then things began to change once we got away from our family'(s). She began to get very toxic asking me to change my good behavior (testing me) constantly calling me names which didn't bother me until the 3rd month, it really started to get bad then. I woke up to her yelling and screaming one day, that was the day I lost all respect for her. ( she opened my eyes and said "look at this fucking pan its still dirty."") after This she went to work, I packed up all my belongings and left, back to my home state. Basically this a success story in me demanding my respect she was far to toxic.
One last thing i forgot to mention that should have led me to break it off in the first place was when i picked her up from the airport (our first real date together. Keep in mind i've known this woman for 4 years now.) I received a call from a woman I was having sex with I didn't answer it because I broke it off with this girl a couple weeks before i picked her up. She asked me "who's that?''' i replied "Nobody."' After we went bowling together and hiked, smoked, we kissed. I dropped her off on a street later where she said she lived on, anyway to make long story short after I dropped her off she fucked some dude. She didn't bother to tell me until 2-3weeks later when I decided I really liked her. She only did it with him once, because after we had sex she said it was the best out of all the dudes she slept with (maybe because im packing 9inches lol...) So anyway I wanna hear your onsite on this all i think its a lesson well learned for me. Being 19, next woman I get with is going to respect me (MUCH MORE)
Thanks for reading Cory.
She’s belongs to the streets
11:13 I'm literally laughing so hard 😂
I just finsished a 3rd date following CW instruction to the letter. 1) Its fucking hard not to text and call. Like AA, i then realized how bad i was by not doing it)
2) Her atraction is a 10. She even told me the last guy put her on a pedestal and hated it !!!
Shes beautiful. I am a 6 and 69 years old. I am 5'9" in good shape. Not tall dark and a 9.
Shes in perfect shape. 5 2 and 110. Looks great in a bikini.
After 3 dates. A week apart. Shes kissed me full kiss. Hugs me like an attracted women does. We will be in a relationship.
Bottom line. Fight off bad habits. Its not easy but my God. I am shocked it was this easy. No texts or phone calls. She texted me to maks sure days later. I just said. I dont cancel. My word is all i have.
I even called my car the fun bus. Lol.
We went shooting last date. Touchy stuff. Then dinner. Thanks Corey
Hey Corey, love you! Curious, did you ever take the MBTI personality test? If so, what type are you? :)
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Coach Corey. If you were on a game show with 3 hotties behind a screen and could only ask ONE question to each woman to determine if she Is dateable. What questions would u ask.
Others, feel free to chime in.
Another case of "dude is asking the wrong questions".