Kody Mourns The Loss Of His "Wives" AKA His "Financial Gaurdrails" As Life With Robyn Racks Up

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    The statement "Kody starts stupid fights with me" struck me odd during the Tell All. There have been accusations that Robyn suffers from a shopping addiction, and with the loss of the OG3 & Kody's financial support systems he may be finding himself in a position where he can no longer afford Robyn and his lifestyle. It makes sense that to Robyn, financial concerns and worrying over bills would be a stupid reason to argue because she has not been called on at any time during the marriage to contribute financially. It is very possible that the reality of trying to manage Robyn may prove too much for Kody.
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  • @sayangBapa
    @sayangBapa 6 месяцев назад +187

    I appreciate your take on this situation, James. And I think the fact that he threatens physical violence to anyone who talks about Robyn should be grounds for cancelling the show.

    • @Ruthy101
      @Ruthy101 6 месяцев назад +12

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @gailruby9664
      @gailruby9664 6 месяцев назад +21

      I think Kody better work out more because there's a lot of people who watch this show that don't like Robin

    • @YoungVYoung5000
      @YoungVYoung5000 6 месяцев назад +4

      Agreed

    • @susanlaperriere8815
      @susanlaperriere8815 6 месяцев назад +4

      Absolutely

    • @Mimi73161
      @Mimi73161 6 месяцев назад +6

      omg u did it again! omg u always see things in a different way that makes SO MUCH SENSE!! No wonder he is so angry! omg karma is a bitch!

  • @EarthWindFireIce
    @EarthWindFireIce 6 месяцев назад +104

    He’s been self sabotaging for a long time. Not because of any guilt or actual self awareness, but simply because of his selfishness and refusal to take any accountability, or make any changes. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @IaneHowe
      @IaneHowe 6 месяцев назад +10

      Right. It clearly wasn't an issue for her before. And pics don't like we seen plenty outing this past year and they look very happy as monogomist couple and super united.

    • @user-wc8em2it6d
      @user-wc8em2it6d 6 месяцев назад +9

      Two peas in a pod. Kody and Robyn are made for each other…

    • @lillybethford1915
      @lillybethford1915 6 месяцев назад +6

      Bingo.👍

    • @doreendaykin6693
      @doreendaykin6693 6 месяцев назад +2

      👏👏👏👍💙💙💙

    • @clairepettie
      @clairepettie 4 месяца назад +1

      I would categorize his current hairdo under self-sabotage, as well.

  • @idcatgirl
    @idcatgirl 6 месяцев назад +36

    But what is Kody "mourning"? He has said he didn't ever love those other wives. He should be so happy.

  • @ruffles761
    @ruffles761 6 месяцев назад +106

    Kody shares things like helping Robyn pick the dress, what he thought of Christine eating nachos, all the time and pain he put into loving Christine, and I really cannot believe he melted down Meri's ring or that he told her, Kody takes pleasure in the pain he causes from sharing how little he cares for these women that have invested their life into his family.

    • @sjohnson65456
      @sjohnson65456 6 месяцев назад +2

      Schadenfreude! Kruddy and Goblyn's M.O.!

    • @seameology
      @seameology 6 месяцев назад

      🎯

    • @lindadhill
      @lindadhill 6 месяцев назад +3

      It's so obvious that Kody feels entitled to take half of the proceeds of the sale of the Vegas homes to buy HIMSELF that big house. That's why he felt entitled to take half of Christine house but settled on hers share of C.P. THE More I listen to MTonR , the more I understand how devious Kody is. Trust, along with love or obligation means nothing to him. He is so despicable there has yet to be a word invented to describe him.

    • @lauriekurad
      @lauriekurad 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@lindadhill .. He took all of what Meri received for her Vegas home. Then immediately bought his and Robyn's.

    • @jillbrewster9504
      @jillbrewster9504 6 месяцев назад

      He’s a terrible person and is clueless.

  • @Ray07Sunshine
    @Ray07Sunshine 6 месяцев назад +43

    Being someone that is so scared of poverty Kody sure did pick the wrooooong wife to stick with! 🤣

    • @kellycampbell6826
      @kellycampbell6826 6 месяцев назад

      😅😂

    • @amy5700
      @amy5700 6 месяцев назад

      EXACTLY!

    • @seameology
      @seameology 6 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂🤣🤣😅 VERY good point!
      It's part of his self sabotaging to pick a person like her!

    • @Ray07Sunshine
      @Ray07Sunshine 6 месяцев назад

      @@seameology rofl I guess that fits his narrative 🤷‍♀️

    • @chriscypret5365
      @chriscypret5365 6 месяцев назад +1

      That what I been saying R played Kody for last 12 yrs ,Now R going to be the one that sink Kody . By time K see what happens Bec he's been living with a snake user ,home wrecker Kody not going to no what happen

  • @lynneelizabeth
    @lynneelizabeth 6 месяцев назад +157

    You're doing an amazing job and I'm SO glad Sarah and Amanda shouted you out so I could find you! You're definitely an invaluable voice on the craziness that is Sister Wives.

    • @Indgirl57
      @Indgirl57 6 месяцев назад +13

      James is so awesome! Glad you found him! He's a good man with a lot of good things to say and a perspective like no other I have found. LET'S GIT IT 😁😎

    • @anjaherr8712
      @anjaherr8712 6 месяцев назад +8

      He does great videos, it’s definitely worth checking out his older stuff

    • @irisblue2332
      @irisblue2332 6 месяцев назад +4

      Looking forward to 3 of my favorites at the same time!

    • @JMP829
      @JMP829 6 месяцев назад +5

      He “brings the receipts” as he says to prove his points. Then adds in “life lessons” that can be adapted to everyday life.

    • @emirom2
      @emirom2 6 месяцев назад

      @@irisblue2332ME TOO!! 🤗

  • @thebronzedempress
    @thebronzedempress 6 месяцев назад +24

    Kody and Robyn’s marriage was built on the backs of the OG3. These thieves will turn on each other. There’s no honor among thieves. Robyn is going to shred Kody like cheese and he’s oblivious to his eventual demise. Y’all better go check on that fool after Robyn finishes him off. 😂

  • @mel2d2
    @mel2d2 6 месяцев назад +72

    Watching this man who is a reality star, grapple so hard with actual reality is mind boggling.

    • @irisblue2332
      @irisblue2332 6 месяцев назад +6

      Excellent point! I'm looking forward to the reckoning with financial reallities next!

    • @debrap9829
      @debrap9829 6 месяцев назад +1

      Great comment!

    • @seameology
      @seameology 6 месяцев назад +2

      😂🤣😅👍

    • @doreendaykin6693
      @doreendaykin6693 6 месяцев назад +2

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣OMG…thank you!! It’s too true!! 🙏🙏🙏💙

    • @basicallyno1722
      @basicallyno1722 6 месяцев назад

      Yet this happens so often with reality tv “stars”

  • @DrofJustice
    @DrofJustice 6 месяцев назад +30

    Kody thought everything was his - the houses, stuff, and all the TLC money. He gave the OG3 the bare minimum and they worked to get by. When Christine left, his check from TLC decreased, again when Janelle and Meri left. And the minute Christine left they began to see the end of the show coming. It isn’t the FAMILY they’re mourning the loss of, it’s the easy money.

  • @zuaniarodriguez3315
    @zuaniarodriguez3315 6 месяцев назад +124

    I never write on RUclips… BUT DAMN!!!!! I can’t take how amazing you are… you notice all the things I notice and more and I absolutely watch your videos within 24hrs of them dropping. Please keep doing what you do. You make a minority woman like myself so damn proud

    • @sjohnson65456
      @sjohnson65456 6 месяцев назад +3

      Have you ever watched his lives?? They are lit, so is the live chat! 😅🥳

    • @hillarymurphy5256
      @hillarymurphy5256 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yep, James fan club here, lol😂

    • @Lovelyone1
      @Lovelyone1 6 месяцев назад +2

      never refer to yourself as a minority woman. We need to change the language!!

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@sjohnson65456 My only problem with re-listening to livestream is that James doesn't read out loud the chats he's responding to, so I don't have a reference for what he's replying to. He reads them to himself and I don't know what the chat was he's talking about. Please James, read the chat out loud before replying. Thanks bc you're a great vlogger with great info. I do hope the Browns listen to your vlogs.

  • @jackiewilson9647
    @jackiewilson9647 6 месяцев назад +57

    Love that Sarah and Amanda gave you a shout out. I was so exited for you. I LOVE you, Sarah, Amanda, Nikki and John, and Angie and Tim. I have room in my heart for all of you. Can’t wait to see some of y’all together!!!!

    • @GreenBean3141
      @GreenBean3141 6 месяцев назад +6

      I can’t get enough of everyone’s commentary on SW. 😊

    • @anjaherr8712
      @anjaherr8712 6 месяцев назад +5

      Yes I love Sara Amanda Nikki and John too

    • @krisirolfe4332
      @krisirolfe4332 6 месяцев назад

      The 3 of them will be a RRIIIIOOOTTTT!!!

  • @ChantalOfTheNorth
    @ChantalOfTheNorth 6 месяцев назад +62

    Yeeeeeeee James! Let's get it. Pumped to see you collaborate with Sarah and Amanda!

    • @AMYV3
      @AMYV3 6 месяцев назад +9

      Yes 😊 I saw them talk about collaborating with James and I was 100000% in !! Lol
      Thank you James

    • @irisblue2332
      @irisblue2332 6 месяцев назад +1

      I got excited as soon as James replied to their original shout out by thanking them and saying, "You know, I play well with others..." Seemed like I'd be seeing my favorites in a collab real soon!

  • @margaretcherry
    @margaretcherry 6 месяцев назад +58

    Kody sounds just like my teenage daughter going through the first breakout. So dramatic and so strange. He had 3 women that tried to get him to grow up but they expected him to act like an adult and he didn’t understand the assignment. Now for Robyn her lying and her fake tears is proving that she can control the teenage kody. Now with Robyn’s shopping addiction this is a stressful situation. Robyn was never made responsible for all of her debt. The money is not flowing like water and the reality is this without the water you can’t survive. With the og3 gone he is stressing out and has no where to turn because everyone is gone. Robyn will not like it and handle it at all because he chose someone who does not plan for the future or willing to work alongside him to get out of the money hole. ( bottomless pit). They need to really loose everything and see how to start from scratch. Robyn will never help him start over

  • @tamicox990
    @tamicox990 6 месяцев назад +29

    Kody gets bored fast and has no problem throwing people away. When he had to share his time with 4 women he was excited to get back to the love of his life- Robin. Now- he gets to share 7 days a week with her and he’s bored. There’s no where to go, The newness and excitement has worn off. That’s why they have moved 18x, because Kody got bored. I bet if we could look at his work history I bet he quit his jobs constantly.

    • @jamiecronin967
      @jamiecronin967 6 месяцев назад +7

      I think someone who knows the family said he actually does have a hard time keeping a job. That’s why he kept chase after Janelle bey she had a career that she was making decent money. So Kody could afford to be lazy.

    • @theresathompson4719
      @theresathompson4719 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yes I think Kody is lazy and the other wives have carried him for years, we know Robyn is lazy.

  • @cindysutherland1677
    @cindysutherland1677 6 месяцев назад +19

    This is what I dont understand why Kody and Robyn arent happy. They both got what they wanted. All the other wives are gone and out of the picture. Now Kody can show his love to Robyn like he said before he had to hide it in front of the other wives. Robyn doesnt have to compete with anyone now. They are miserable because they dont have the wives money. They need to get off their bums and get a job. They make me sick!

    • @Bildgesmythe
      @Bildgesmythe 6 месяцев назад +7

      Her whole life was competing to be the best wife. Now she's just a typical middle aged woman with a crazy husband.

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 6 месяцев назад

      They wanted to be the celebrated couple and for the other wives to be the "hangers-on". I think they would be happy as monogamists except they're greedy, unlikeable people.

  • @colormetakenaback
    @colormetakenaback 6 месяцев назад +38

    Kody is the king of humble bragging among other things. I always come back to how unsettling it would be to have him as the head of my family and have to depend on his bumbling attempt at leading and navigating life. He is such an airhead. The early seasons showed how his squirrel-trying-to-cross-road decision making worked out; usually with Meri or Christine having to take over and get it done fr. He works full time at just trying to prop his reputation up. So pathetic. He can be ripped like a Greek god (he ain't) but he'll always *always* be WEAK.

    • @barbaral743
      @barbaral743 6 месяцев назад +6

      Squirrel trying to cross the road decision making; what an insightful, accurate observation!

    • @fledge1234
      @fledge1234 6 месяцев назад

      He really is an airhead.

  • @carolclemons640
    @carolclemons640 6 месяцев назад +22

    For Kody's "storyline" to work he has to have an audience and most of us are sick of Robyn and Kody show. Can't wait to see you with Amanda and Sarah

  • @valval57
    @valval57 6 месяцев назад +37

    I am pumped to see you Sarah and Amanda. Y'all are my dream OG three🥰

  • @youtubeismytimemachine5917
    @youtubeismytimemachine5917 6 месяцев назад +9

    That's exactly what robyn did to her ex husband. It's coming full circle and I'm here for it.

  • @LindaMac63
    @LindaMac63 6 месяцев назад +34

    Cody and Robyn are creating a story line for themselves for the show. They’re spewing word salad. Nothing they say makes sense and I think they are lying saying Cody is self sabotaging, I do not believe they are arguing at all unless it’s about the loss of the other wives money and it’s affected their rich lifestyles. Robyn is only mourning the loss of the other wives monies and their reputation going further downhill.

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 6 месяцев назад +12

      When Kody says take a lover, who is he referring to? What women in her right mind would get involved with the tangled mess of Kody?

    • @debrap9829
      @debrap9829 6 месяцев назад

      Another chanel reported that K&R were spotted yesterday in a mall shopping and they looked just fine. I think they are trying to come up with some BS storyline to create interest where there is none. He wouldn't be sabotaging Robyn if he puts his hands together and says "me and Robyn are gonna be like this" and if he is threatening to punch people in the mouth if they speak badly about Robyn. He has said repeatedly this season that he has a great marriage with Robyn. They are just fake, phony money hungry losers.

  • @jazzy19001
    @jazzy19001 6 месяцев назад +26

    I think that he also sabotages himself by being lazy - so its not just what he does - but what he doesn't do - he doesn't make efforts in relationships. When he does make an effort - it is a grand gesture that he expect effusive praise for. Like when he buys kids over the top presents. He's kinda like a weekend dad that doesn't want to be involved in the daily grind - just the weekend sports event etc. He just wants the glory. Another example is when he took Janelle out for her birthday to a fancy restaurant. He thought that would end with him going back to her place for intimacy and she was not down - so he was very disappointed. He would have had more chance with her if he actually expressed emotion for her and loved her and missed her and wanted to move forward with her - but he didn't.

    • @carolynbendzynski1764
      @carolynbendzynski1764 6 месяцев назад +2

      People like Kody only give when it gets them something in return. So even if he was good to Janelle, it wouldn't have lasted long term. There would be a grand gesture and even bigger promises, but empty promises. Look at all the years he strung Meri along.

  • @tammypauls1077
    @tammypauls1077 6 месяцев назад +11

    What those two don't realize is the fan base doesn't give a Shit whatsoever is going on with them. They have lied, used and abused the OG3 and their kids. We are sick of both of them. They created that bomb that went off in their family. They have caused all the drama.

  • @shawnaleady
    @shawnaleady 6 месяцев назад +41

    I think you said this a few videos back that Robin isn’t a builder, like the OG3, she didn’t struggle alongside them. But now that they’re gone, Cody’s left to deal with everything alone. And like with OG3, he’s too much of a coward to be real with Robin. So, instead, he picks fights and attempts to sabotage the relationship. With Robin is most likely about money, because that means something to her.
    He did the same thing with Christine by removing the one thing that meant the most to her, their intimate life. With Mary, it was time together. And with Janelle, a connection and attention to her children. It’s the same show just a different channel.

    • @kellycampbell6826
      @kellycampbell6826 6 месяцев назад +3

      The reality hit hard. Now he alone has to figure it out. He can't do it after so many wives catered to him.

    • @kellycampbell6826
      @kellycampbell6826 6 месяцев назад +1

      That really hit hard.

    • @joerudnik9290
      @joerudnik9290 6 месяцев назад +3

      Robyn is a CONSUMER, not a builder, not one to make sacrifices!! Kody LOVED the lifestyle he was provided. Robyn won’t last long, then she’ll write a book.

    • @jaelyn2922
      @jaelyn2922 6 месяцев назад

      Well said!

  • @RozaneBeyMcCurdy
    @RozaneBeyMcCurdy 6 месяцев назад +13

    HBO Special for James! Click Click Click!
    Kody couldn't be honest with three other women and their kids, what makes him think he could be honest to Robyn's face now? Kody is a failure as a polygamist, as a monogamous husband, as a father, and as a human being.

  • @OldHoTrollin
    @OldHoTrollin 6 месяцев назад +8

    Robin bankrupt her last husband,had a secret shopping habit and hoards and specifically searched out kody AFTER he got the show. She gaslit Mary for years so she could keep that check. When is tlc going to address that

  • @ladyv5655
    @ladyv5655 6 месяцев назад +10

    I'm sure the financial contributions of the OG3 are the only reason Robyn wanted to be in a polygamist family.

  • @JENIA_SH
    @JENIA_SH 6 месяцев назад +19

    They really deserve each other
    Soon they will have no income because the show has become boring
    Cody likes to buy useless things like a convertible with 2 seats and a motorcycle when his 13 children have nothing to eat
    Robin came to a family with debts and Cody kept saying how lucky they were that she chose them, no other fool would have taken her and paid her debts and paid for her children

  • @CARATMom
    @CARATMom 6 месяцев назад +7

    Kody talks like he has the reasoning skills of a 10 year old. His scenario of leaving Robin and taking a lover is just dumb and makes no sense.
    The reason Kody needs the other wives to justify his relationship with Robin is because Robin has, an has always been in the mistress role. And like all side pieces the fun is over when the wife(wives) leaves.

    • @kellycampbell6826
      @kellycampbell6826 6 месяцев назад +1

      U nailed it. Now it's like who cares. Lol

  • @mommas2470
    @mommas2470 6 месяцев назад +6

    Kody is only suffering because he only has one wife to blame for "All of His Problems"....Sobbyn was all too happy for years to let the other wives take the blame for Kody's unhappiness. Now she is the only left to take all of his bull puckey. After all of the bull that she has spread around, I think she should be allowed to wallow in her own bull mire and muck...as should Kody.

  • @joerudnik9290
    @joerudnik9290 6 месяцев назад +4

    Evidently Kody never remotely considered that anyone ( 3 FIRST WIVES) would have serious objections to him saying to them, ‘I don’t want you to depend on me, or to consider me your husband’ but we’ll play act for the public and you can keep sending me money’.

  • @shaunalea823
    @shaunalea823 6 месяцев назад +7

    No matter how much Robyn cries I will never believe she didn’t know the damage that was being caused and her part in it. I do actually believe she wanted plural marriage but she wanted it her way, she wanted to be the one in charge and she wanted everyone else to just take it. She’s so sick 🤢

    • @chriscypret5365
      @chriscypret5365 6 месяцев назад

      I totally Robin knew exactly what she doing from beginning her plan was to destroyed anyone of these women ,children she had to steal it on she started with Meri first to steal Meri spot she set catfish up for Kody to never trust anything Meri told him then she went after Christina ,then she went after Janell boys . What she was expecting Christina to leave take that house sell it start over . Then Janell ,Meri to follow

  • @lillybethford1915
    @lillybethford1915 6 месяцев назад +20

    When Kody talks about “over-sharing” and ‘being so honest’ is absolutely laughable, ironically, he shared everything with a snake. My opinion, Robyn has became the ‘whipping boy,’ and that explains why she’s freaking out, but instead of blaming Kody for his behavior…she’s blaming Christine. James, I agree that the financial security is no longer there for Kody, but Robyn is still spending like a “drunken sailor.’ Robyn is like a rich kid, who can no longer spend because her parent(s) has lost their job, however, she’s angry and calling daddy (Kody) a meanie. I’m excited to see them sell all the expensive stuff..they brought with the OGS money.👍

    • @seameology
      @seameology 6 месяцев назад +1

      Well, yeah she's mad at Christine. The scapegoat is gone, leaving a vacancy for that position.

    • @theresathompson4719
      @theresathompson4719 6 месяцев назад +2

      They are both lazy and selfish, it will be interesting to see what happens.

  • @rebeccahowell6538
    @rebeccahowell6538 6 месяцев назад +8

    Kody is on steroids would be my guess. He is just discontent. He is bored. Narcissists always want more- bigger and better. This man wants "new and exciting". Robyn was for a long time, but she's hardly "exciting". She's matronly like the others. She had the "tender aged" kids, who still adore "Daddy" and that was the draw. Kody loves innocent kids- who don't make demands. Kids show respect for their parents. Then they grow up and have minds of their own. He can't stand that. Robyn is being nudged out as well. Kody will cheat because a narc needs more- and more. One woman will never satisfy him.

    • @irisblue2332
      @irisblue2332 6 месяцев назад +1

      David from Pop Psych identified a number of things that suggest he's doing some sort of Testosterone Replacement Therapy.

  • @debbenzenberg3575
    @debbenzenberg3575 6 месяцев назад +27

    James, I love you ,brother! Kody needs a man friend like you to tell it to him straight. You hit the nail on the head every episode, thank you! Much love!

    • @sjohnson65456
      @sjohnson65456 6 месяцев назад

      Yeah right Kruddy is one of the most bi*ch made bi**hes I've ever witnessed. James would make Kruddy $#!+ his pants, throw a fit, and run.

    • @jdmmg4904
      @jdmmg4904 6 месяцев назад

      Kody has youtube instead where he could find plenty of this kind of feedback:) but he probably won't change

    • @sansserif8839
      @sansserif8839 6 месяцев назад +1

      Kody would never be friends with James, because James is a grown man.

  • @jblkcns
    @jblkcns 6 месяцев назад +16

    Both you and Amanda have a great sense of humor. I'm sure you'll work well together!

  • @claudialove4210
    @claudialove4210 6 месяцев назад +8

    I don’t think Robyn is dumb. She sees Kody’s behavior with the OG3 and their children.
    Robyn is securing HER future and HER children future.
    Kody has shown his hand, he’s a liar. Believe me Robyn has paid attention.

    • @FragileLikeNitro
      @FragileLikeNitro 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yup now little Mrs confused can act like Kody changed. I never had to work so I’ll need alimony too Kody.

    • @UmmmAreUSerious
      @UmmmAreUSerious 6 месяцев назад +2

      The issue is they have blown the money and I don’t think they have much but debt. Sure she has a big house, but it’s outdated and looks to be in needs of repairs. You can see broken railing when they show the outside on the show.
      Recently a permit was pulled for that property to upgrade the electrical and stuff… so who knows what’s going on. Someone in the comments of some post said they don’t live in flagstaff and have moved to a cheaper area, but 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @bettyaulridge6117
    @bettyaulridge6117 6 месяцев назад +12

    People think they are really rich but if you have a family of 6 with housing food medical groceries education a million dollars while sounding like a great deal if you’re not careful can be spent very quickly! And if they are taking loans against their home that will come due

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  6 месяцев назад +2

      So very true.

    • @bettyaulridge6117
      @bettyaulridge6117 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@mytakeonreality perception is not always reality I know you touch on it but I wonder how many people understand it. Not bragging by saying my husband has worked hard and finally making around 92k a year but we both have medical issues that are draining he gets discouraged like we make money we try to save but can’t afford to just go do what we want that’s the reality of life we are late 50s and pay for insurance and everything else so when people think a million dollars woohoo no I try to make them understand that it would only cover 10 years if nothing major happens so I try to make sure my kids understand that and I’m proud to say they do! lol thanks for always bringing up my day!!!!

  • @rochellej6412
    @rochellej6412 6 месяцев назад +20

    Two Times Today!!!!
    Go James!
    I'm here for your take!
    We ALL are.
    Hit that nail 🔨

  • @Anani001
    @Anani001 6 месяцев назад +10

    James, I wish you could sit in a room and counsel these idiots (Kody and Robin). They really need a dose of your common sense.❤

  • @amandarowe4346
    @amandarowe4346 6 месяцев назад +5

    This is so spot on James! He wants to keep leveraging an imaginary woman's pain to make robin happy it's so weird

  • @mcfmcf4038
    @mcfmcf4038 6 месяцев назад +7

    i think r & c are pretending to have problems because they have no story line anymore, and they want/need that sweet, sweet tlc paycheck.

  • @chantallennox1201
    @chantallennox1201 6 месяцев назад +3

    Oh the irony of his greatest fear facing him now…poverty.

  • @zZz0mbified
    @zZz0mbified 6 месяцев назад +6

    he self-sabotaged their special-weeping-for-joy-love by running meri’s money away from her porch sitting sister wife robin 😂

    • @aprilcitygirltocountrywife7440
      @aprilcitygirltocountrywife7440 6 месяцев назад +3

      Yes he didn't consider what it would be like without the three other paychecks. He's going to have to think about it now though since Robyn has never had to help support/ hold the family together.

  • @Lovelyone1
    @Lovelyone1 6 месяцев назад +7

    Can we take a moment to show some respect for James’s vocabulary!!!!! I need to step my game up!!!!!😂😂

  • @feelingbetternaturally1099
    @feelingbetternaturally1099 6 месяцев назад +8

    If Kody truly wanted to make his life good, he should listen to you, James. Your wisdom and insights are invaluable.

  • @TandC9876
    @TandC9876 6 месяцев назад +18

    Three of my favorite people on the same lifestream, how exciting!

  • @judyl.7234
    @judyl.7234 6 месяцев назад +4

    What if their money is getting tight and Robyn is so used to spending like crazy that she's still blowing money. Maybe Kody can't get her under control and they are arguing about finances.That was supposedly the cause of her breakup with Preston.

  • @sandraheassan378
    @sandraheassan378 6 месяцев назад +2

    I can just see Kody and Robyn sitting in front of their bathroom mirrors practicing their lines and lack of acting skills lol. Kody “ there are some things man should never…”🙄🤣

  • @catco8644
    @catco8644 6 месяцев назад +5

    I think it’s all fake tears that they are having trouble! Then they can fall madly in love again(on camera) and have their wonderful Smokey Mtn vow renewal!

  • @user-dq5wh1lj7r
    @user-dq5wh1lj7r 6 месяцев назад +5

    I wonder how much control Janelle had over the money, that she didnt just do the taxes, she paid all the bills and Kody had no idea how much everything cost.
    We have heard he is behind on the property taxes.
    It made me sick to see what Kody and Robyn were spending money on and Christine had to come up with the money for Ysabel's surgery.

    • @irisblue2332
      @irisblue2332 6 месяцев назад +3

      It's crazy. As soon as the TV money started coming in, it should have gone toward health insurance and getting regular maintenance for their cars. As smart as Janelle is supposed to be with money, I still can't fathom how she stood by with the money decisions made by Kody and the family in general. If I'd found myself tied to those anvils and the very real possibility that they'd drag me down with them, I would have left long ago. At a minimum, I would have been a relentless "squeaky wheel" about stuff. Too often in early episodes, you can tell that Janelle isn't happy about something financial, but she just bites her tongue and says nothing. I wouldn't have been able to do it.

    • @kellycampbell6826
      @kellycampbell6826 6 месяцев назад +3

      Christine leaving opened her eyes to her own predicament and future.

    • @user-dq5wh1lj7r
      @user-dq5wh1lj7r 6 месяцев назад

      @@irisblue2332It seems paying taxes and buying health insurance weren't priorities. They were living like they were still poor. The poor don't pay taxes and they cant buy insurance. So it wasn't on their radar. In their previous lifestyle, their property taxes were probably included in their rent or in escrow accounts held by the bank that had their mortgage. Many people who make rent or mortgage payments don't even realize they pay property taxes. Property taxes often come as a surprise to people when they do seller-financed real estate purchases or pay off a mortgage. And if they don't have an employer who offers health insurance, they dont know they should buy it directly from the same independent insurance agent who sold them their home & auto insurance.
      They are so accustomed to somebody else, like a bank or employer, taking care of these things that they don't realize they should do it themselves

  • @hippysunshine931
    @hippysunshine931 6 месяцев назад +3

    Has anyone else noticed that Robyn never gives examples of how Kody is trying to pick fights?

  • @Crystalspanda
    @Crystalspanda 6 месяцев назад +3

    I think Kody is preparing for bankruptcy. He's done it before. He knows how to set it up.

  • @reneehenderson6134
    @reneehenderson6134 6 месяцев назад +8

    Yay!!! Sarah and Amanda and James. Y'all gotta' hook up with my other favorite Sister Wives RUclipsr, Backwoods Barbi ! You guys are top tier!!

  • @juliab6572
    @juliab6572 6 месяцев назад +5

    I'm not buying the self sabotage. That man's primary goal is to feel good. Sobyn might have convinced him that they are the villains and their show has to have him still being grotesque.

    • @kellycampbell6826
      @kellycampbell6826 6 месяцев назад +1

      Self Sabatoge is an excuse she gave her poor kody to use. Hope she doesn't believe it too long.

  • @introspective_One
    @introspective_One 6 месяцев назад +4

    Kody tried hard to keep Janelle & Meri for their money. That’s why he couldn’t tell Meri to leave. He always led her on and was abusive towards her which was horrible! With Janelle he tried to use sex as a way to keep her and it didn’t work 😂😂😂. It’s unfortunate we will never know the extent of Kody’s physical abuse towards his 3 wives.
    I’m so happy Christine kicked off leaving Kody trend. She opened the gates of heaven for Meri & Janelle to find the courage to leave Kody & find happiness 😁.

  • @Hermothersdaughter665
    @Hermothersdaughter665 6 месяцев назад +4

    Kody and Robyn did not really take care of the finances. Jenelle was the one who had to look at those expenses and allocate the funds. Now he's in reality, not the fantasy he and Robyn are living in.

  • @ceciliabrown6341
    @ceciliabrown6341 6 месяцев назад +4

    My guess is, things “a man should never say” are the violent thoughts of punching people (his exes & kids). Early in the season he was having family annihilation type thoughts. I’m sure he barfed those thoughts onto Robyn.

  • @MsFadir
    @MsFadir 6 месяцев назад +7

    Yes!!!!!! James and @realiteasquad joining forces to break it all down! 🎉 🎊 🧨

  • @cathywithac
    @cathywithac 6 месяцев назад +2

    Robyn thinks Kody is fighting with her about 'dumb things'. They may be serious things to Kody. They have a lot to work on to salvage their relationship.

  • @maryshowalter6910
    @maryshowalter6910 6 месяцев назад +12

    I always look forward to your take on this show!

  • @judypranke735
    @judypranke735 6 месяцев назад +5

    I saw a post online today that Kody has applied for a permit on their McMansion to have some upgrades done on it. The McMansion has been assessed to be worth $1.8 million. If it's true it's a very interesting development. Upgrading the McMansion means he's really not invested in paying off what's due on Coyote Pass. He has no money sense, in my opinion. He owes taxes on CP so he decides to spend money upgrading the McMansion? Hmmm whats going on here.

    • @jamiecronin967
      @jamiecronin967 6 месяцев назад

      Maybe they are planning on selling it. If he upgrades it maybe they could sell it for more money. They could cash it out and buy another home with a small mortgage.

    • @gailruby9664
      @gailruby9664 6 месяцев назад +2

      Or they want to make sure there's no money for Meri or Janelle to claim

    • @ETX369
      @ETX369 6 месяцев назад

      Kody and ROBEM are CRIMINALS

    • @natalieoliver2837
      @natalieoliver2837 6 месяцев назад

      They probably won’t fix nothing, she will spend it all

  • @valadia4715
    @valadia4715 6 месяцев назад +3

    You're right James kody's definitely trying to change the narrative for him & Rodyn. He definitely needs to change his image after saying he wanted to punch his family in the face, if they talked about Rodyn. Always good to see you and great insight as usual. Congratulations James! Can't wait to see you with Amanda & Sarah. This is going to be a Amazing Triple Threat show!🥳👏🏼

  • @emirom2
    @emirom2 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wait a minute….are you telling me Kody ISN’T a financial genius?!?! 😳😱🤯

  • @sanjhuellis-lawrence3372
    @sanjhuellis-lawrence3372 6 месяцев назад +2

    Christine was the heart (kids left with her)
    Janelle was the financial brilliance
    Meri was the money maker.
    Robyn is the consumer

  • @christycunningham4517
    @christycunningham4517 6 месяцев назад +12

    You are absolutely hilarious. Honestly, I have never watched this show. I didn’t feel well, stumbled across and I watched all day. 👊🏾💚✌🏾

    • @chelseaferguson4579
      @chelseaferguson4579 6 месяцев назад +1

      Oh the irony! I don't watch the show either, but love was watching James

  • @LisaJessupAnderson
    @LisaJessupAnderson 6 месяцев назад +6

    So excited to see you with Sarah and Amanda! Yay! Christmas is coming early!🎉

  • @Heideberry
    @Heideberry 6 месяцев назад +3

    I 💯 agree. He's not mourning the loss of the relationships as he cut them off romantically yrs ago. He's mourning the 3 other paychecks from TLC. 5 paychecks down to 2. Janelle paid off Robyn's debt that dhe joined the family with. Janelle is still struggling because of that as she doesn't have a property to sell yet she or another wife used a 401k payment loan to pay off Robyn's debt for them to all get a house in the vegas cul de sac.

  • @ReginaFernandes-tq7bs
    @ReginaFernandes-tq7bs 6 месяцев назад +1

    Love the example James uses of his kids taking the opportunity to reinvent themselves & lose their old baggage when they enter a new school system. Oh yeah, Kody & Robyn are definitely trying to pull that trick on new viewers!!

  • @feliciaplummer5948
    @feliciaplummer5948 6 месяцев назад +5

    Also I can’t wait until Monday that collab is going to be epic!

  • @ArtistCreek
    @ArtistCreek 6 месяцев назад +1

    Kody and his word salad makes ZERO sense.
    And I cannot wait to see you join with Sarah and Amanda!! You know we suggested that! I think you 3 will compliment one another well.

    • @irisblue2332
      @irisblue2332 6 месяцев назад

      My only concern is that three "on" extroverts excited by something new could lead to a lack of listening to one another!

  • @lindalaffredi7244
    @lindalaffredi7244 6 месяцев назад +1

    So now Robyn is throwing Kody under the bus 😂😂 isn't she forgetting they live together??

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  6 месяцев назад

      i think she's planning on taking the house too... LOL

  • @ginahunter8225
    @ginahunter8225 6 месяцев назад +3

    They are going to get a vow renewal episode so they can now show their love out in the open. If they do we should all boycott it

    • @JMP829
      @JMP829 6 месяцев назад +1

      Totally agree

    • @natalieoliver2837
      @natalieoliver2837 6 месяцев назад

      I’m definitely boycotting it, I refuse to watch these idiots do anything 🤡

  • @thompsoncindy42
    @thompsoncindy42 6 месяцев назад +2

    Narcissists constantly reinvent themselves to fit the narrative they have in their own heads! I had the unfortunate experience of having a long relationship with a narcissist. It was defintitely that roller coaster that Robyn once said about Kody. I was young and didn't understand for a very long time that I wasn't the problem. I did leave that relationship to regain my own mental health. Kody and Robyn are indeed trying to rehad their images, but any of us who have watched the show or who have ourselves had a relationship with a narcissist know that their behavior can change on a whim depending upon who they want to impress. They are not "real" in the sense that they are chameleons who themselves don't know their own identity and are constantly shifting.

  • @Scipiogirl
    @Scipiogirl 6 месяцев назад +1

    Robyn has a distinct "tell" when she is lying, she blinks more rapidly. Her dabbing fake tears is also a tell for lying. Kody will reach out and touch someone, fiddles with his fingers, and does the almost head shake, as if saying "no". He is very uncomfortable having to answer these questions. He wants to be with Robyn, but he is struggling to not do what makes him feel like he is the more important person, which is to belittle and diminish the person he is with.
    I do agree that he is also struggling with the realization that HE is the responsible party for the lifestyle he wants to live. The McMansion has, reportedly, been put into Robyn's name, under " Sullivan", her maiden name. He is definitely moving assets around and buying things to "hide or protect" his money.
    The one area Kody should spend his finances, is the purchase of a good dictionary. He misuses words like Sean Aston's character on "Goonies".

  • @ReginaFernandes-tq7bs
    @ReginaFernandes-tq7bs 6 месяцев назад +1

    I will be strapped in come Monday to hear James , Sarah & Amanda break it down!! 🎉

  • @conniehart880
    @conniehart880 6 месяцев назад +2

    Hey James. The more I listen to you, the more I have come to appreciate your take on reality! You are becoming one of my favorites! Have a blessed Christmas and a big hug from an old retired RN😊

  • @brewbear9822
    @brewbear9822 6 месяцев назад +2

    Robins bad acting is so my dog stepped on a bee

  • @andrereynolds5018
    @andrereynolds5018 6 месяцев назад

    Christine’s new husband is a smart, lucky man!!! He’s looking at Robin and thinking “wait… so you (Kody) chose Rob over Christine?” 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂

  • @delaree3031
    @delaree3031 6 месяцев назад +8

    I'm so excited for the sister lives collab!!!

  • @alikat9lives
    @alikat9lives 6 месяцев назад +8

    Literally sooooo excited to see you on the Sister Lives!

  • @jennifergrody
    @jennifergrody 6 месяцев назад

    I am not sure how many people will fall for this idea Kody & Robyn have of “feel sorry for me”..

  • @pazzy001
    @pazzy001 6 месяцев назад +4

    I’m glad you emphasized that people are who they are. The OG3 don’t fully understand that, especially Christine. They think it’s only an issue of Kody loving Robin and not them. If Kody is a narcissist, then it’ll eventually impact Kody and Robyn’s relationship.

  • @karaprince2844
    @karaprince2844 6 месяцев назад +1

    I don't think Robyn wants Kody now that he's all hers. If it were me, I'd be thrilled if a Robyn came in and had to have it all. She could have Kody but not my money. She needs to get a job.

  • @mafiapr1ncess
    @mafiapr1ncess 6 месяцев назад

    The wives had "sacred loneliness" when Kody wasn't around. 😂😂

  • @ellenbridges2826
    @ellenbridges2826 6 месяцев назад +1

    He picks fights with me??? How old is she? Does she not know how to articulate her feelings???

  • @laneneal3510
    @laneneal3510 6 месяцев назад +1

    So right…unfortunately Kody hasn’t the capacity to love unconditionally. He’s inept. I agree this is a ploy for TLC. He sort of apologizes without apologizing. Then he speaks of hurting someone else. To me that’s admitting what he did to the OG3. And hurting Robyn, not himself. So arrogant! I noticed, “taking on a new lover”. So to him that’s all they were. A play thing. Cuz he the man! It’s his choice to do that. His dark thoughts? Please! You don’t want to see a woman’s mind after abuse, abandonment, scorn!

  • @jessican4016
    @jessican4016 6 месяцев назад +2

    Good points James -- it certainly places it into perspective as to why Kody and Robyn suddenly started allowing Aurora and Breanna to appear more on the show -- they're paid for the number of appearances they make on every episode. They probably need the extra $.

  • @chocolatebunny714
    @chocolatebunny714 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thats likely why he cant cope with Christine leaving because she is the who started the unraveling

  • @emmakarena1
    @emmakarena1 6 месяцев назад +1

    He wants people to focus on his relationship w/ Robyn, his feelings about her, hers about him. If people are believing & talking about how he is self-sabotaging or that he's picking fights with Robyn, then they are spending less time talking about how they have both mistreated the other wives & children. He is creating a story about their relationship because only he & Robyn can speak to it. No one else can come back & prove what they are saying is false or point out their mistakes. He wants to take time on the tell all away from hearing the other wives' points of view that would include criticism of he & R.

  • @katherineharrison3510
    @katherineharrison3510 6 месяцев назад

    I love Amanda and Sarah. My 3 favorite Sister Wives commentators, together. It's gonna be great!

  • @sansserif8839
    @sansserif8839 6 месяцев назад +1

    Kody has severe postpartum depression after bringing all those kids into the world. ::hard eyeroll::

  • @tburnsmatheny
    @tburnsmatheny 6 месяцев назад +1

    Exactly right about the money since the wives were contributing to the pot and now they don’t. That will be the hardest for Cody and Robyn to be poor.

  • @rachelk4805
    @rachelk4805 6 месяцев назад +6

    So excited to see you on the live! I have heard them talking about your videos and I hoped you would all get together It's gonna be great.

  • @marymarmolejo6508
    @marymarmolejo6508 6 месяцев назад

    Kody is saying: Robyn you are now acting like the OG3 in ways that I hated them for! Cause now Robyn can't hide how she really is, Honeymoons and Best Customer is going to get the boot

  • @debbieseaton8244
    @debbieseaton8244 6 месяцев назад +1

    It is so nice to see a man’s take on all of this. I had the same thoughts as you did on Kody’s punishment to “himself” about leaving Robyn and dragging some pour soul into this madness. It just shows that his mind doesn’t work like most because he really thought that was self-punishment.

  • @seameology
    @seameology 6 месяцев назад +2

    I think he actually cheated on Robyn. Who has a fantasy conversation with an affair partner in their head, let alone TELL anyone about it? I think that scenario happened. At least, that's how I'd take it as a wife.

  • @michelecraig9658
    @michelecraig9658 6 месяцев назад +3

    Yeah. Right on about the financial situation. I think Janelle and Meri were the people were the most on top of the finances. He also relied on the OG 3 to manage his relationships with his children. They have stepped back from managing his relationships too.

  • @andrereynolds5018
    @andrereynolds5018 6 месяцев назад

    I hope the 1st wives’ club wake up and start guarding what they purchased!!!! Seeing the horrible conditions Janelle was living in after having worked all those years plus all those great kids she gave him!!!

  • @Dawnsdelightsart
    @Dawnsdelightsart 6 месяцев назад

    Before he'd take his frustration out on the OG wives, now she's the only one.

  • @shannabodden5433
    @shannabodden5433 6 месяцев назад +3

    Yeah! Join forces!