Sis, it's actually so difficult to accept the teenage self of ours, it's so cringe... but the way you shared your experience about seeking male validation Instagram, wanting them to like your body photos.. but deep down you want real love... I can resonate with that so much!! and what i wanted to appreciate is your courage!! the courage to talk about it, to accept your teen self and then empowering other young women out there!! that is so inspiring!!
What helps also is when you’re dating someone…. !!’NEVER SAVE THIER NUMBER!!! I find that we get attached to the name of a person so if you never save their number. Only save their numbers if they have physical show you that they are taking you serious and if they are courting you. If their inconsistent their number would just go into the spam of your messages and would be forgotten😂
I’m in my mid 30s and this is what I learned in my life. If somebody wanted to, then they would. You can be the Virgin Mary. If a dude wants a chick that’s a 304, then he gonna get him a 304. It’s nothing you can do about it. Get with a man that you like and he likes you back.
Such a good video! It’s challenging to not seek validation if you have pre-existing insecurities, but healing within is what’s going to prime you to only accept top tier treatment. But you have to lean into the self-validation even if people aren’t validating you already which some people can’t do
Never feel bad. Focus on you, and the right relationship will naturally flourish. You won’t need to “hold off” on sending a text because of the energy that’s being given to you. You got this 🤍
Girl! ! I got your book last weekend!(Jan 20) and I've read it already!!!🤭😁 Soo...I had preordered from Chapters (I live in Canada!) and I got the first notification that it wouldn't be available until the 30th but then the next email I got was like ready for pickup!!?? I was like 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️LOL I'm getting ready to read it again, now with my notebook and highlighter😂 GIRLS this book is my new bible it's EVERYTHING we need. And I knew it already! Plus it's soo PRETTY on my coffee table lol
OMG LOL NO WAY 😂😭 awwww im so glad you enjoyed it!!!!! It’s definitely giving “pull out your highlighters” 💅🏽 thank you so much for supporting me ahhhh!!!!!🥰
Hi Elicia! I have just found your podcasts and videos and I’ve been binging them. I can really relate to this particular one because I’m currently a teenager and going through period of time where I’m trying to figure who I am and listening to you is really inspiring me and helping me with that. You’re amazing and I love your content! ❤
I would often feel bad about sending a guy pictures where I looked bad in and overthinking about how he'd preceive me(Uk the ones that u blankly send). I'm still going thru it and its pretty serious. I constantly feel like I should be prettier to be liked by him or I'll get cheated on. I have a good figure but not such a pretty face maybe cute or average but I constantly feel ugly about myself
I do want to note (for everyone watching) that just because you used to post "revealing" pictures for the attention of men, it doesn't mean women who do from time to time are doing it for the same reason. Chnage for you, but don't project bad habits you use to hold onto other people. You're amazing regardless 💗
Am I creepy for watching her videos everyday non stop for like 10 hours or less, I'm know I'm not the only one doing it xD come out guys no need to hide anymore😅😅😅 damn I think I'm the only guy here
Sis, it's actually so difficult to accept the teenage self of ours, it's so cringe... but the way you shared your experience about seeking male validation Instagram, wanting them to like your body photos.. but deep down you want real love... I can resonate with that so much!! and what i wanted to appreciate is your courage!! the courage to talk about it, to accept your teen self and then empowering other young women out there!! that is so inspiring!!
Thank you so much babe!! You’re very right 🤍
girl i needed this when i was 12-16 and desperate for male attention/validation 😭😭 it’s never too late though
What helps also is when you’re dating someone…. !!’NEVER SAVE THIER NUMBER!!! I find that we get attached to the name of a person so if you never save their number. Only save their numbers if they have physical show you that they are taking you serious and if they are courting you. If their inconsistent their number would just go into the spam of your messages and would be forgotten😂
I’m in my mid 30s and this is what I learned in my life. If somebody wanted to, then they would. You can be the Virgin Mary. If a dude wants a chick that’s a 304, then he gonna get him a 304. It’s nothing you can do about it. Get with a man that you like and he likes you back.
I’m so glad someone touched on this subject regardless if 2k narcissists disagree LOL cause this is SO TOXIC. And SO many people do it.
Such a good video!
It’s challenging to not seek validation if you have pre-existing insecurities, but healing within is what’s going to prime you to only accept top tier treatment.
But you have to lean into the self-validation even if people aren’t validating you already which some people can’t do
Clicked on this video @ 222 likes but more importantly at a time it was really needed
This is confirmation! Cause I started to feel I was being mean when I started taking hours to reply to him like he does me
Never feel bad. Focus on you, and the right relationship will naturally flourish. You won’t need to “hold off” on sending a text because of the energy that’s being given to you. You got this 🤍
Girl! ! I got your book last weekend!(Jan 20) and I've read it already!!!🤭😁 Soo...I had preordered from Chapters (I live in Canada!) and I got the first notification that it wouldn't be available until the 30th but then the next email I got was like ready for pickup!!?? I was like 🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️LOL I'm getting ready to read it again, now with my notebook and highlighter😂
GIRLS this book is my new bible it's EVERYTHING we need. And I knew it already! Plus it's soo PRETTY on my coffee table lol
OMG LOL NO WAY 😂😭 awwww im so glad you enjoyed it!!!!! It’s definitely giving “pull out your highlighters” 💅🏽 thank you so much for supporting me ahhhh!!!!!🥰
Literally needed to watch this!
YES! Opulences ... Jay Shetty's book 8 Rules Of Love talks about this
I must read!!!
Hi Elicia! I have just found your podcasts and videos and I’ve been binging them. I can really relate to this particular one because I’m currently a teenager and going through period of time where I’m trying to figure who I am and listening to you is really inspiring me and helping me with that. You’re amazing and I love your content! ❤
thank you for this vid, Elicia! great as always 😊💖🎀🎀
NEEEEEDED this video u always post things when I need to hear them . Ty alicia
I would often feel bad about sending a guy pictures where I looked bad in and overthinking about how he'd preceive me(Uk the ones that u blankly send). I'm still going thru it and its pretty serious. I constantly feel like I should be prettier to be liked by him or I'll get cheated on. I have a good figure but not such a pretty face maybe cute or average but I constantly feel ugly about myself
You deserve more than this💙🌷
thanks for that, you’re gorgeous honey
Your book is coming in good timing let me just say that ✨💕
I’m so glad 🥹🤍
I do want to note (for everyone watching) that just because you used to post "revealing" pictures for the attention of men, it doesn't mean women who do from time to time are doing it for the same reason. Chnage for you, but don't project bad habits you use to hold onto other people. You're amazing regardless 💗
I completely AGREE!!!
Love this one!
Thank you 🥰
Me with my manager whenever i he makes me feel im never t doing anything right lol
You nailed it
you look absolutely gorgeous
Thank you 🥹
Exactly 🎉 WHAT does that do you? Like deep deep down
I just felt that u listen to Dylan James 👀
He is the ONLY MAN that matters 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽 hahaha I LOVE HIM 🤍
@@theglowupsecretspodcast truee... He chnged my life 🤌
Hey I remember you mentioning you were doing some type of embodiment training! Can you remind me of the name of the program?
School of embodied arts :)
Am I creepy for watching her videos everyday non stop for like 10 hours or less, I'm know I'm not the only one doing it xD come out guys no need to hide anymore😅😅😅 damn I think I'm the only guy here
lol trust me you are not the only one!! 😂
💜💙💜💙💜
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Where were you when I was 21 lol
🤣🤍
Amen 🙌
this video also came at perfect timing, thank you so much elicia. your hard work and dedication doesn't go unnoticed! 🤍
You’re always welcome my lovely 🥰 so happy it’s the perfect time 🤍