China vs. America: My Honest Take on Dating - Why I Live in China But Don’t Date Chinese Girls

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @SuperGodblessyou
    @SuperGodblessyou 10 дней назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty and wish you the best of luck ❤

  • @misfitsailor
    @misfitsailor Месяц назад +9

    My wife of 20 years is Chinese. She has a PRC passport and I have a US passport. The only place we can both go without a visa is Thailand. Greetings from Nanning!

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад +1

      Yes. That’s my only problem with dating Chinese. It’s very hard to go anywhere 😹

    • @179561520
      @179561520 Месяц назад +2

      Why not countries like Malaysia, Singapore or Indonesia

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад

      @@179561520 singapore and Malaysia are great options. I like Indonesia but they have a weak passport.

    • @et5222
      @et5222 Месяц назад +1

      Very honest about relationships and nationalities... something people usually never think about. Do you get to Macau or Hong Kong much? Do women there have "better" passports?

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад

      @@et5222 Hk and Macau have much better passports than the mainland. not quite as good as the U.S. but not too far behind. The best Chinese women are in Singapore.

  • @AleksanderCarter
    @AleksanderCarter Месяц назад +4

    In my experience, id never date a Chinese girl again, no discriminating, but their expectations do not meet reality.

  • @Egal0190
    @Egal0190 Месяц назад +2

    at 10:00 what does "you can't really retire in China" mean?

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад +3

      It means there no retirement visa here. If you wanna stay here/ retire here the only option is marry a local. Other wise you need to work to have a visa to live here.

    • @179561520
      @179561520 Месяц назад +1

      @@viewpointabroad I know an American guy who came to Shanghai to teach English. He doesn't anymore, but he struck a deal with the school somehow so that they keep sponsoring his work visa even though he doesn't actually work there anymore, lol. There are always ways to live in China without a job :)

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад +3

      @@179561520 that's illegal and if he gets caught or school gets caught it's gonna turn out bad for them

  • @captaindad5057
    @captaindad5057 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you 🙏 you’re amazing! 🤩

    • @captaindad5057
      @captaindad5057 Месяц назад

      @ lmao 🤣 nice try your a fake account hahaha

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад

      I removed their phone number scam crap

    • @captaindad5057
      @captaindad5057 Месяц назад +1

      @@viewpointabroad these ppl are relentless lol 😂 like I won’t notice your profile has 2 subs lmao 🤣

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад +1

      Yes so many scammers out there. Some pretend to be me also and try to scam people. I’ll never give anyone my phone number or ask them to add my what’s app or crypto bs or something. Just ignore them and report them

  • @ajnobaptiste2010
    @ajnobaptiste2010 Месяц назад +3

    Interesting video and perspective. I'm planning on moving to China in February to teach English & have begun reaching out to recruiters/agents. Do you have any agents that you recommend? I have a Wechat account and heard that there are many groups that post esl jobs. Thank you for the insightful videos.

    • @viewpointabroad-e5o
      @viewpointabroad-e5o Месяц назад +1

      Thanks for watching
      My text line is divided into 3 sections;
      Plus….1(754),then 229, then 3673. I need to clarify things and also share some important detail with you. I'll be expecting your text.

    • @ajnobaptiste2010
      @ajnobaptiste2010 Месяц назад

      @@viewpointabroad-e5o Man, I cannot find your number on wechat, I've tried entering those numbers and nothing comes up. Do you have a Wechat iD instead? Mine is really simple:
      laoshi_angus
      Could you add me that way.

  • @brendabrooks8939
    @brendabrooks8939 Месяц назад +1

    Fair enough xx

  • @igrooshechny
    @igrooshechny Месяц назад +1

    Looks interesting, I will look it evening 👍

    • @igrooshechny
      @igrooshechny Месяц назад +1

      @@viewpointabroad-e5o I didn’t understand anything, but it’s very interesting) Someone hacked your account?

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад +1

      Was a scammer pretending to be me. Don’t message them

  • @GuoguoZhang-v1v
    @GuoguoZhang-v1v Месяц назад +2

    Whoever you marry can get a passport from your country, too. BTW is passport discrimination a kind of racism or classism at least? :D

    • @viewpointabroad
      @viewpointabroad  Месяц назад

      @@GuoguoZhang-v1v just thinking about what fits my life , nothing else.

  • @RoyFJ65
    @RoyFJ65 Месяц назад +3

    Chinese girls are realistic and practical, having stayed in the west for most of my life, I never married a lady from there as they are simply brought up wrong.

    • @aleksabroad
      @aleksabroad Месяц назад +1

      Chinese girls are 100% not realistic lmao, you gotta have a nice car, a big ass house for the whole family and make superb bank at your high paying job, lmao 😂 yeah right, on my teacher salary, 😂 I lived there for 7 years and I must only attracted superficial women, never once I’ve encountered realism or practicality unless they were westernized in some ways

    • @CDTsuiPo
      @CDTsuiPo Месяц назад +1

      @aleksabroad This is where cultural differences come into play.What the Chinese consider pragmatic and realistic is based on the material, what can be seen and touched, as distinct from the spiritual.What westerners or western culture think is that what I can achieve is realistic and subjective, so westerners will think, I love you, but can't provide you with more material support, you can accept, is to accept the reality.Traditional Chinese culture emphasizes realism, but does not lack the spiritual core of romanticism.the "shallow" girl you meet is not likely to be a traditional Chinese woman.Traditional Chinese women are introverted and won't have much contact with you if they don't really like you.

  • @MightThe-i1f
    @MightThe-i1f Месяц назад +1

    Don't you have a Chinese green card?