The Grieving Process: Coping with Death

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

Комментарии • 12 тыс.

  • @Chiara-es2wv
    @Chiara-es2wv 7 лет назад +12084

    May the person you’re here for
    Rest In Peace and be eternally happy in heaven ❤️ stay strong

    • @alyssapaige3337
      @alyssapaige3337 7 лет назад +90

      Thank you.

    • @hello5340
      @hello5340 6 лет назад +41

      Peach Preach thank you❤

    • @animeweeb1487
      @animeweeb1487 6 лет назад +28

      Anna Blean thanks it really help to know someone is there

    • @porcelainwhite5623
      @porcelainwhite5623 6 лет назад +42

      Anna Blean I bet my dog is running around in doggie heaven

    • @davidhill6910
      @davidhill6910 6 лет назад +10

      Anna Blean tnx so much

  • @Yugen2k
    @Yugen2k 8 лет назад +3299

    I like going through the comments because it makes me feel that I'm not the only one going through a hard time

  • @theracingdude
    @theracingdude 3 года назад +2937

    I wish I could go back in time and appreciate them more.

    • @coconutseeds4419
      @coconutseeds4419 3 года назад +104

      This is what scares me the most. I don’t want to think I didn’t appreciate them enough while they are here right now. Love those around you as much as you can.

    • @annevee17
      @annevee17 3 года назад +2

      This song was written to express our emotions after losing a loved one
      ruclips.net/video/PqdVBM4TAeI/видео.html

    • @noncopyright6072
      @noncopyright6072 3 года назад +6

      I know how you feel

    • @zerotheprotogen2420
      @zerotheprotogen2420 3 года назад +11

      My grandmother died when I was 4 or 5 and up until about a year or 2 ago I couldn't talk about her without almost breaking down btw I'm 18

    • @colton4625
      @colton4625 3 года назад +3

      Tell me about it

  • @stabbynuggets
    @stabbynuggets 2 года назад +201

    It's so easy to console someone who has experienced a passing but when you experience the loss of a loved one the pain and realization that they're gone is unbearable.

    • @BG-os7sh
      @BG-os7sh Месяц назад +1

      @@stabbynuggets I agree. I never felt the pain until I lost my husband of 47 years. I feel so empty and lonely. It’s unbearable.

  • @em-sv2mp
    @em-sv2mp 6 лет назад +2463

    My whole body aches. I can’t stop crying and I don’t know when the pain is going to go away, I just want it to stop

    • @andreduran645
      @andreduran645 5 лет назад +70

      Emma we have all been their you just need to talk to people about how you fell and it going thro that as well and I knwo how you fell if you ever want to talk just reply to this and I will respond

    • @elizabethzentgraf5088
      @elizabethzentgraf5088 5 лет назад +10

      :(

    • @bangarslough
      @bangarslough 5 лет назад +11

      Stay strong

    • @elenavakarou3871
      @elenavakarou3871 5 лет назад +33

      I feel this on so many levels 😢😩😭

    • @daughteroftherisenking3165
      @daughteroftherisenking3165 5 лет назад +2

      @Moonlight starz ❤️ 🕊

  • @blackpuglove
    @blackpuglove 4 года назад +2524

    I never understood the true meaning of "I'd give anything to have them back" until just recently. I love you so much, Dad. Please wait for me. 1-14-20 🖤

    • @elisafarpon5712
      @elisafarpon5712 4 года назад +30

      im sorry for your loss and i understand you so well...Dad 1-31-20

    • @soccermaster6165
      @soccermaster6165 4 года назад +20

      My favorite grandma passed not so long ago, now I understand the worth of the water in the well phrase.

    • @elinornestel3748
      @elinornestel3748 4 года назад +20

      Me too I recently lost my grandpa ( we were very close he was the only one who actually understood me ) and now he is gone and I feel empty inside R.I.P grandpa 24/01/‘20

    • @denisevargas437
      @denisevargas437 4 года назад +16

      I’m sorry for your loss Kim, I lost my dad 4/25/2019 after a short lung cancer battle. It doesn’t get easier but it does become more manageable to deal with. 🖤🖤

    • @leilahoward8153
      @leilahoward8153 4 года назад +8

      Kim same here, my grandma passed away 11 days after your dad I would give up every single thing i own just to see her again even for an hour 😥

  • @jaz2388
    @jaz2388 6 лет назад +2719

    I lost my mom July 14th, 2018
    She was only 45
    It was the hardest thing to deal with , it’s been 5 months now and it still hurts the same, I just wish heaven had visiting hours 💔

    • @solitairedoll
      @solitairedoll 5 лет назад +39

      Jaz 23 I’m so sorry, honey.

    • @rhode1574
      @rhode1574 5 лет назад +21

      So sorry

    • @hello_people5283
      @hello_people5283 5 лет назад +29

      I'd say sorry, but I hate it when people say that to me. But um, sorry.

    • @AnimeLover-fd5oi
      @AnimeLover-fd5oi 5 лет назад +43

      It's okay, your not alone my mom just died today 3april 2019
      Its really bad, my mom was 51 and died from cancer today...I feel you...😥

    • @AnimeLover-fd5oi
      @AnimeLover-fd5oi 5 лет назад +23

      @Evan Mclemore
      Yeah, and besides my mom wont be alone in heaven, my grandma will be there with her

  • @Proactivebeetleondamic
    @Proactivebeetleondamic Год назад +80

    I lost my dad this morning. 14/06/23. I wish I appreciated him more. It feels weird with him gone. I knew it would happen. He said his hernia was in pain. And they never took him to the hospital. I’m gonna miss my dad.

    • @matteodreusch635
      @matteodreusch635 Год назад

      My dad also passed away, 7 years ago next summer. I still don't know how to fathom that. I can't even remember his voice and in pictures he looks like a stranger. My 14 year old self was way to good in shoving all the feelings away and just keep on going, that it's hard to dig them back up now. I also wish I had loved him more and shown him how much I care for him, but he wasn't better at it and maby it is just hard to do that as a child, when your parents just broke up. Sometimes i wonder when and if it ever stops. I also can't see a clear end of this tunnel, but I can see my next step and I know, that if I keep on going, I will get out of it. Wish you all the best, stay strong.

    • @rgrg3932
      @rgrg3932 10 месяцев назад

      He knows you love him he always did, I recently lost my dad and I feel exactly like you, it hurts cause we loved even when we were upset at them. We miss people more when their gone instead of loving more when they are here. I'm sure you will see him again 😊

  • @DrowSworn
    @DrowSworn 6 лет назад +854

    R.i.p everyone who died today and all previous days

    • @bobdabuilder2424
      @bobdabuilder2424 5 лет назад +22

      :( my grandpa passed just now like couple minutes ago and my aunty passed away yesterday, so two important family members passed away 1 day apart :( i just needed to tell someone, sorry if it bothered u

    • @elizabethzentgraf5088
      @elizabethzentgraf5088 5 лет назад +6

      My great grandma died today.

    • @bobdabuilder2424
      @bobdabuilder2424 5 лет назад +2

      @@elizabethzentgraf5088 :( hope she is in a better place now

    • @beechblue
      @beechblue 5 лет назад +1

      uh what about the people in the future

    • @amiraissleeping
      @amiraissleeping 5 лет назад +2

      my hamster died today..thank you.

  • @uhhuh8224
    @uhhuh8224 4 года назад +1261

    My father passed this morning. I’m 16 and he was 49. It’s so sad to think about all the milestones he won’t be around for in my life and my little sister’s life. I’m graduating high school this year and I know he was so excited to see me walk across the stage. Dad, I miss you, and I hope you’re okay.

    • @asylnn
      @asylnn 4 года назад +17

      i bet he misses u very much as u 😊

    • @123aldoaldo
      @123aldoaldo 3 года назад +15

      I can relate I’m sorry for your loss

    • @betsymorgan37
      @betsymorgan37 3 года назад +11

      same I’m only 12 and my dad was 38 ☹️

    • @marissajoaquin755
      @marissajoaquin755 3 года назад +15

      Mine is similar with yours. Whenever I think of each milestone I will achieve without my father, it weakens me. I love him, our youngest sister is strong and he is my inspiration to study so I can give the life my father dreamed to her.

    • @MuricanMan100
      @MuricanMan100 3 года назад +22

      I found my brothers dead body in his room today, it broke my heart because our dad died one moth before he died. It’s sad to see someone take their own life because someone died. May god be with your father and mine, may my brother be with his family in heaven. And good luck sent to those who are still on earth, and rest peacefully all those in heaven. Amen.

  • @clairedelunefleurs
    @clairedelunefleurs 6 лет назад +532

    My dad died today from drugs. I never realised how much i loved him until now. I can't stop crying.

    • @chigirii
      @chigirii 5 лет назад +15

      My little cousin died yesterday and I never realized how much I’d miss her.

    • @haleythomson547
      @haleythomson547 5 лет назад +4

      Claire 999 my papa died and it is the same way

    • @haleythomson547
      @haleythomson547 5 лет назад +2

      Evan Mclemore my papa died today and he couldn’t talk and say I love you

    • @andreduran645
      @andreduran645 5 лет назад +1

      Claire 999 I am sorry for you loss may he Rest In Peace and same here my dog recently died and I just miss him soo bad and miss his unconditional love ❤️

    • @Deangers1
      @Deangers1 5 лет назад +4

      My grandma died 4 years ago and I'm ugly sobbing 😭

  • @tedhammond4578
    @tedhammond4578 Год назад +57

    I lost my daughter a few weeks ago. The pain is unbearable. I wish I could see her face and hear her laugh one more time. I will love her forever...

    • @ihonestlydontknow2
      @ihonestlydontknow2 11 месяцев назад +1

      I hope u feel better ml x it gets easier as life goes on x

    • @tommywatterson5276
      @tommywatterson5276 11 месяцев назад

      When you feel like it, and it's going to take as much time as you need, consider going to grief counseling therapy sessions that is only, and repeat only, for parents whom have lost a child of any age. Find one in your community, city, or town. Usually they're provided courtesy of a Church in your area and the one I attended for help was free. The group met once weekly for a couple of hours. Everyone in the group was unfortunately in the club no one as a parent ever wants to join, but have...including the group leader. I attended after about 3 years losing our son at the age of 20. Only parents whom have lost a child can understand what other parents whom have lost a child are going through. No one else can. Parents help each other by talking about anything and everything they are feeling, going through, their child lost, .... Anything. There's plenty of tissue boxes, no one critizises, everyone understands, and everyone is there to help everyone. You will never get over this. It has hit you like a transfer truck, you are not yourself, you never will be again. Eventually a better version of the wrecked you will materialize, but you will always be wrecked. The you back when your child was alive, is gone. You just learn to cope again because you basically have to. At least that's how it's been for me. It's been 9 years so far after losing my youngest child and he was my only Son by my 2nd marriage. Going to this group and me included, watching parents cry while they talk about their lost child. We all talked, we all helped each other. It helped.

    • @citrused8571
      @citrused8571 10 месяцев назад +10

      No parent should ever have to bury their child. I’m sorry

    • @kimmefford2814
      @kimmefford2814 8 месяцев назад +3

      I lost my only teenage daughter in Nov 2023

    • @tedhammond4578
      @tedhammond4578 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@kimmefford2814 I'm so sorry this happened to you and your family. It's the worst pain a parent can go through.

  • @asemaldaras6687
    @asemaldaras6687 4 года назад +1243

    My 12 year old brother passed away a week ago, he was my life, best friend, every fucking single thing I had in my life, when I feel down he makes me happy, and I used to upset him sometimes I hope I can Express my feelings to him, I said to my mom : i really feel bad for screaming at my lil bro , I well never do it again, came back to my dad crying telling us that my bro fell of 20m while he was in a amusement park, i thought it was a joke until I saw his body, feels weird sleeping alone, all I can say is that I loved this guy and i will always love him.

    • @sarahklinker5493
      @sarahklinker5493 4 года назад +77

      Asem Aldaras I’m so sorry that happened to you. My uncle died this morning and I can’t stop crying. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. My brother is 12 right now and we were fighting this morning, but I will give him a hug for you. I hope you and your family are doing okay. ❤️

    • @clawnz2193
      @clawnz2193 4 года назад +17

      RIP you will get through this.

    • @piaaadah
      @piaaadah 4 года назад +13

      I'm so sorry.. That's just unfair..

    • @sarahhenton749
      @sarahhenton749 4 года назад +7

      ❤️

    • @zubeirjamaa
      @zubeirjamaa 4 года назад +11

      RIP to your brother bro....🙏🏿

  • @billellis3967
    @billellis3967 5 лет назад +497

    I am just sad lost my wife of 40 years of marriage. Loved her so much.
    Miss my Baby.

    • @corey4424
      @corey4424 4 года назад +18

      Ugh that’s horrible! It never gets better but don’t forget, her soul is waiting for yours, she is protecting you noe

    • @denisevargas437
      @denisevargas437 4 года назад +14

      I’m so so sorry for your loss Bill. She’s with you everyday. I lost my dad less than a year ago to cancer and at certain times, I feel his presence. She’s ok, so remind her that you’re also trying your best to be ok.

    • @just_some._.bugsss8105
      @just_some._.bugsss8105 4 года назад +3

      Hang in there keep going your so strong

    • @ihatehomeofsexuals5778
      @ihatehomeofsexuals5778 4 года назад +2

      Denise Vargas Sadly there is nothing after u die when u die ur dead heaven just is there so people don’t get sad just the way it is

    • @kingchicken4158
      @kingchicken4158 4 года назад +2

      Bill Ellis I lost my bird 3 days ago when I got home from school I would always talk to him and bring him along with me but his time came he didn’t sing and slept more but was still alive until it finally happened that same day and I’m still really sad currently I just can’t accept it he was my best friend and the best bird ever.😭😭🐤🐤

  • @LaFlameRang
    @LaFlameRang 4 года назад +663

    I lost my grandma today, I felt like the world ended when I found out. I miss her so much
    4-26-20

    • @courtneylockwood3882
      @courtneylockwood3882 4 года назад +3

      Black hole sorry for your loss x

    • @FMack-wm2bh
      @FMack-wm2bh 4 года назад +8

      Godbless ur gmoms soul...i lost mines a day later 4-27-20.born 11-16-27 thru the grace of god their rejoicing in heaven...🙏⛅ 👼💗

    • @kbhtfxssjhuvvdrhb398
      @kbhtfxssjhuvvdrhb398 4 года назад +9

      Same rip 6-15-2020, that’s the first time I have ever wrote the date down. I can’t stop crying and I don’t know what to do. I would give ANYTHING to have her back.

    • @abrahamlovegrove8138
      @abrahamlovegrove8138 4 года назад +2

      My cat just had a stroke, and is going to die in a few days. I have no idea how i feel, but i know how you feel. It sucks

    • @mrozie826
      @mrozie826 4 года назад +6

      I just lost my grandma today and I’m sorry for your loss too

  • @sarexui634
    @sarexui634 2 года назад +125

    I'm 19 and my family dog of 14 years passed away early this morning. I woke up and found her lifeless cold, stiff body laying on the floor. I honestly can't explain how upset I am. I've been screaming into pillows all day and my voice hurts. I cared about her the most and took care of her and now I can't help but feel guilty that I didn't notice the red flags quick enough near her end in order to help her, when I knew her better than everyone. I just want to see or feel her 1 more time. I didn't get enough time with her at the end and now ill never see her again.

    • @bluxwsx3055
      @bluxwsx3055 2 года назад +8

      my dog has to be put down tomorrow he's 14 to and I've had him all my life and I'm in such a bad mood

    • @Malick-ix9io
      @Malick-ix9io Год назад +1

      Damn, sorry. So terrible to hear that. I've lost about 7 animals in my first years of life. My hamster, two ducks (both were put down to prevent the avian flu), my goldfish, one big cat (he seemed to be recovering, but he died a few days later), another cat I made friends with (they got run over by a car), my white rabbit... too much to put. Sorry, I can't take it. *That's how things go every day. That's how it goes all over the world.*

    • @cengiz2645
      @cengiz2645 Год назад

      I’m going through something similar with my dog of 13 years

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Год назад +1

      im so so so sorry! i know you gave her the best life you could!!! she was blessed by you, probably as much as you were blessed by her! you will remember her forever and always have the great memories! and you will see her again, i know it!

    • @Rainbow-f1v
      @Rainbow-f1v 10 месяцев назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @kittyartpoptartz3369
    @kittyartpoptartz3369 5 лет назад +628

    I just want my grandma back.. She was the only one I could talk to

    • @TheClarity101
      @TheClarity101 4 года назад +17

      Kitty MeowWoW I lost my mother a few months ago, and we have a relationship like that. I don’t have anyone else I can go to

    • @soccermaster6165
      @soccermaster6165 4 года назад +20

      I miss mine more than you can imagine, I cry every night for her to come back and hug me

    • @serenemountain6769
      @serenemountain6769 4 года назад +15

      My Grandmother was like a mother to me ... even though not the talkative type, but she always helped me the best that she could !
      When i was sick, when my parents abandoned me ... she was always there !

    • @soramaverick777
      @soramaverick777 4 года назад +5

      I recently lost my grandma and I think the best thing that u can do for yourself is to reach out and rebuild ur support network. There are people out there who will talk to u ur gonna get through this.

    • @mrramrod8562
      @mrramrod8562 4 года назад

      Kitty MeowWoW 😭💔

  • @aleman7771
    @aleman7771 5 лет назад +520

    My mother just passed away on Sunday, January 19, 2020! She came to my home to celebrate my birthday and she died the following day!! Her life slipped right of my hands as I was trying to do CPR!!! It hurts so much, I do not know how to grieve!!! The what ifs are kicking in!! Regrets are just pounding in my heart!!! Should I had loved her more?
    Please pray for me for PEACE, HOPE and strength!!!
    I got 6 little girls to take care of!!
    I don't want to eat or sleep!!
    PLEASE pray!!!

    • @rocketman99
      @rocketman99 4 года назад +21

      I lost my mom in 12 january 2020 she was 48 and i am left with my small brother to raise yeah life is a bad simulation bro

    • @zoranls
      @zoranls 4 года назад

      Bercan Beschadigun Kılıç RIP

    • @albertlewis8615
      @albertlewis8615 4 года назад +1

      Dang is u me we had to do cpr also on 1 4 20 dang

    • @Annetf17
      @Annetf17 4 года назад +7

      aleman So sorry for your loss. Praying that you receive oodles of peace, strength, and hope. 🕊

    • @aleman7771
      @aleman7771 4 года назад +1

      @@rocketman99 I am so terribly sorry for your loss!! May God grant you the peace that surpasses all understanding!!

  • @katyjunebraun
    @katyjunebraun 5 лет назад +693

    Rest In Peace mom. 5/4/19 I love you so much.

    • @tarathelen9844
      @tarathelen9844 5 лет назад +10

      Katy Braun sorry about your Loss

    • @nigelmurphy6761
      @nigelmurphy6761 5 лет назад +4

      @@tarathelen9844 sorry for your loss.god bless you

    • @vaguekibbles371
      @vaguekibbles371 5 лет назад +1

      Sorry get beter i lost ond of my closest friends but we all need to stay stronge : D

    • @Kevintheconservative
      @Kevintheconservative 5 лет назад +2

      Sorry for your lost

    • @skyeyeslauren
      @skyeyeslauren 5 лет назад +1

      Katy Braun Wow, my mom passed away exactly a month after yours, 6/4/19

  • @shoppingvopping8305
    @shoppingvopping8305 Год назад +27

    Grief is just love ❤ that has no where to go, no person left to recieve

  • @anagha2918
    @anagha2918 4 года назад +336

    My grandfather just passed, and most of these comments are making me feel better already. Thank you.

    • @nanoulise19
      @nanoulise19 4 года назад +11

      Same! My Dad passed a few days ago. Everybody is telling me to be strong, but how? Is there a class I can take or something? But I'm glad I came across this video, and reading the comments makes me feel less lonely.

    • @anagha2918
      @anagha2918 4 года назад +8

      @@nanoulise19 It's been a month and I'm trying to not think about it too much. Just be glad that he's not hurting anymore and he's in a better place now. He still loves you. ♥

    • @nanoulise19
      @nanoulise19 4 года назад +5

      @@anagha2918 Exactly! That's what I tell myself every day. Thank you and take care!

    • @mintbrisk5961
      @mintbrisk5961 4 года назад +3

      I lost my grandad on January 30th.

    • @malachimiller2731
      @malachimiller2731 4 года назад +4

      I know it sounds weird but I had a pet chicken I spent time with everyday for 2 years and his kidneys just failed nothing will fix that worst part is it happened today

  • @donataspo2677
    @donataspo2677 3 года назад +586

    I lost my dad today and I can already say that I would give anything away just to see him face to face and excercise with him again.

    • @nyder12fox22
      @nyder12fox22 3 года назад +11

      My dad died and my mom told me that he just left me but then I learned the truth and she died and I was angry but then sad she was gone

    • @shwingler8871
      @shwingler8871 3 года назад +7

      I lost my mom today.

    • @TheChicagoway57th
      @TheChicagoway57th 3 года назад +9

      From a person who lost his mom @2 and my father 3years ago it feels like yesterday..stay strong live your life and make them proud .may they rest in peace ✌️🕊️

    • @PoeLemic
      @PoeLemic 3 года назад +1

      @@PaulineScores How did he die from exercising? Was he much older or did he have a heart attack? Just curious. I don't doubt you. But, I had situation where they told me that I could have died, but I got surgery before it became life-threatening. Or, it was LT -- just I got surgery before the rupture got bigger.

    • @Velvet62211
      @Velvet62211 3 года назад +4

      I lost my dad months ago and when he died I realized I lost my best friend. I started to become distant from friends I has since elementary, and my online friends. I made new friends but I feel bad because every time my childhood friends call me I can’t make myself answer andI don’t know why. When my dad died I felt and still do feel stupid because I should’ve called him everyday, but no. My stupid self didn’t even call everyday like he asked and I always apologize to him for it. Last night I couldn’t sleep and I cried myself to sleep because the longer he’s gone the more I miss him. People say it will get better but what Im wondering is when? When will my life ever be normal again because it seems like I will never be the girl I used to be

  • @notjev4969
    @notjev4969 4 года назад +1785

    “Suicide doesn’t take away the pain. It just passes it on to someone else”
    - Hatake Kakashi

    • @shototodoroki3292
      @shototodoroki3292 4 года назад +61

      Very wise words, you don’t see that often in this type of anime.

    • @Rastaa69
      @Rastaa69 3 года назад +40

      because energy doesn’t die. it only transfers

    • @shototodoroki3292
      @shototodoroki3292 3 года назад +14

      @@Rastaa69 That means...that depression is an energy?

    • @Rastaa69
      @Rastaa69 3 года назад +25

      @@shototodoroki3292 every thing is energy and frequencies. that’s what we are made of

    • @brookywookie1107
      @brookywookie1107 3 года назад +21

      My friend just killed her self and I don’t know what to do. I just wanna see her again

  • @joelgallardo1202
    @joelgallardo1202 3 года назад +85

    I love you guys for being here with me. I hope everyone overcomes their sadness including myself. I really miss my sister more than words can explain.

    • @Tokyo_Kawaiii
      @Tokyo_Kawaiii 2 года назад +3

      😭😭😭😭 I love you man ❤️❤️❤️ pls stay strong!!!

    • @abdullahjarushi3411
      @abdullahjarushi3411 2 года назад +3

      How are you feeling w it one year later

  • @londekalebo8425
    @londekalebo8425 4 года назад +690

    I lost my mother a few weeks ago and she was all I had . I feel so hopeless and shattered inside . I didn’t know the death of a love one could cause so much pain .

    • @samanthasmith4038
      @samanthasmith4038 4 года назад +25

      I’m so very sorry I am going through the exact same thing

    • @HH-ep1pt
      @HH-ep1pt 4 года назад +14

      Same here 🥺

    • @liam-je8ue
      @liam-je8ue 4 года назад +23

      My dad died an hour ago and I’m crying so much

    • @cheaterfcg1802
      @cheaterfcg1802 4 года назад +14

      @@liam-je8ue I’m 12 and I’m just about to lose my grandma, it’s just to painful I wasn’t always the best grandchild I hated to eat with her, and epdeal with her, but all she did was care about me now the pain is just unreal.

    • @liam-je8ue
      @liam-je8ue 4 года назад +5

      @@cheaterfcg1802 I’m sorry you have to go through this I’m 11 and it’s the worst time of my life but my mom and brothers and extended family and friends are making it better

  • @GreenPowerFarm
    @GreenPowerFarm 6 лет назад +221

    My dad died the other day...I'm soo sad..even though I 'm 46 and he was 88..He was like my only friend for the last 22 years...:(

    • @passwordsuggestion5336
      @passwordsuggestion5336 5 лет назад +12

      I think that makes it so much harder when we develop this friendship with our parent later in life. My mom just passed and she was 96. We became good friends over the past 30 years and that will make me miss her so much. When my dad died 30 years ago I did not feel the same. I was younger and not so close.

    • @andreduran645
      @andreduran645 5 лет назад

      I’m very sorry for ur lost may he Rest In Peace

    • @akashvig5007
      @akashvig5007 5 лет назад +1

      I am 25 and my dad is 54 right now.....He is my only best friend...
      We go to holy places together..We go to market together...
      He comes to pick me up when I am latefrom work(11:30pm).
      I can't imagine my life without him😣😣

    • @naomianis2185
      @naomianis2185 5 лет назад

      @@passwordsuggestion5336 i still think its harder for younger people cause if you are already like 38+ you've probably spend more time with your parents but if you are a child you didnt really get to spend time then they are gone forever

    • @klyde2058
      @klyde2058 5 лет назад

      Green Power Farm that’s why I hate life

  • @medicinesquare7916
    @medicinesquare7916 4 года назад +296

    I lost my horse in may, i know it sounds stupid but that horse saved my life and I can't get over the fact that he's gone. He was the one thing that made me actually happy and I still don't know what to do with myself

    • @Wendyj55
      @Wendyj55 4 года назад +59

      Nothing about this sounds stupid. I wish you gentle healing.

    • @evangelion8793
      @evangelion8793 4 года назад +41

      dont ever feel bad for mourning the death of an animal as you would a human. Animals have souls too, and they deserve the world.

    • @dyhiaa7563
      @dyhiaa7563 3 года назад +6

      @Christine Ferguson my cat passed away about 6 hours ago. She turned a year old on January 1st and she was pregnant 😢

    • @shaydabehnava7814
      @shaydabehnava7814 3 года назад +8

      @Christine Ferguson I had to put down my cat a few days ago, I haven’t been able to stop crying. She was 12 and kidney renal failure is common in cats but I feel extremely sad that I couldn’t have done more to save her. It was the hardest decision I ever had to make. I wanted her to keep fighting but that would’ve been selfish of me when she was in so much pain. I keep looking at her videos and tearing up, seeing her toys everywhere breaks my heart. I sleep with her blankets because they still smell like her. It’s so hard, it’s as hard if not harder than mourning the loss of a person. All animals go to heaven.

    • @oliviaf8276
      @oliviaf8276 3 года назад +1

      me too

  • @shabazim9816
    @shabazim9816 3 года назад +169

    I lost my dad a week ago.. I wish I would show my love to him more openly, I wish I would appreciate him more when he was alive. I do not know how am I supposed to live with these feelings of guilt, sadness. I really don’t know.
    Rest in peace, dad. I love you so much. Until we meet😞😞😞

    • @cupcakehugscupcakehugs2367
      @cupcakehugscupcakehugs2367 3 года назад +10

      I am in the same position as you. I am so confused and i dont know what to do with my life ❤

    • @H3ADBANGER
      @H3ADBANGER 2 года назад +4

      Same bro i lost him 2 months ago. I feel like I'm going mad

    • @zxergsfjkdhu
      @zxergsfjkdhu 2 года назад +4

      I hate my life because my dads death

    • @matteodreusch635
      @matteodreusch635 Год назад +2

      My dad also passed away, 7 years ago next summer. I still don't know how to fathom that. I can't even remember his voice and in pictures he looks like a stranger. My 14 year old self was way to good in shoving all the feelings away and just keep on going, that it's hard to dig them back up now. I also wish I had loved him more and shown him how much I care for him, but he wasn't better at it and maby it is just hard to do that as a child, when your parents just broke up. Sometimes i wonder when and if it ever stops. I also can't see a clear end of this tunnel, but I can see my next step and I know, that if I keep on going, I will get out of it. Wish you all the best, stay strong.

  • @camscendants3096
    @camscendants3096 7 лет назад +1554

    lost my mom 2 weeks ago im only 12 but i know she is still here with me i love her so much she is the kindest person i have ever met she is the kind of person which you could talk to and within a few minutes she would make your day. There are people who talked to her for a few minutes many years ago who still remember her. This happening is just so sad for me i even knew i wouldn't have her for as long as i wanted cause she has been sick for years now dealing with lupis , authritus , one leg , Blader infection, and ect.. she was just so full of life me my brothers and dad we were her life she loved us so much even though she went through so much pain she was still so happy cause she got to spend everyday with us she lived life to the fullest she traveled the world has so many friends her family. I love her so much and i know i will see her again. There is also so much more i could say but i cant fit how much she means to me in one comment. I cant even form words strong enough to show how much she has helped me and impacted on me. Though im only 12 i will never forget the moments that we shared together

    • @gilbertoguevara352
      @gilbertoguevara352 7 лет назад +37

      Stampy Rachel Nose sorry for your loss kid

    • @jessvr2661
      @jessvr2661 7 лет назад +75

      I'm so sorry you have to go through this so young. I was 11 when I lost my mom and it was a really messed up time for me I was so broken for most of my life. I'm so happy to see you looking at these videos to help you. I didn't have these back then but your so smart and courageous to share what your going through. Big hugs to you sweetie.

    • @nikkirae8453
      @nikkirae8453 7 лет назад +45

      I lost my mom on Christmas Eve..( 2017)
      I am sorry for your loss also.. You are very mature for your age..
      Your mother was a wonderful person who raised a wonderful daughter

    • @nickm8810
      @nickm8810 7 лет назад +36

      Sorry to hear i lost mine yesterday i am 19 she was just 53

    • @zylows
      @zylows 7 лет назад +12

      Nick M I lost a loved one yesterday as well man, you’re not alone sorry for your loss

  • @Jmitch767
    @Jmitch767 4 года назад +354

    Every time I stare at my parents I choke up on the couch. They probably don’t see it but Im thinking bad thoughts. I can not imagine my life without them. Once that day comes will be a very bad day for me. I am not strong enough. I’m 36 and could never imagine that day. I am emotionally strong but that day will bring me to my knees.

    • @uchihadaggerdick484
      @uchihadaggerdick484 4 года назад +36

      Justin Mitchell I feel you bro. Same here with my parents, they’re still here but I can’t imagine the thought of losing them, I love them so much. Enjoy every moment with them now. Death is inevitable but our souls are eternal. Love them and Cherish every moment with them. That’s what I do, when mine pass away sometime in the far far future I’ll know that they are in a better place

    • @pasqualedemarco503
      @pasqualedemarco503 4 года назад +1

      @@uchihadaggerdick484 same

    • @frenziegalagar2464
      @frenziegalagar2464 4 года назад +6

      Your lucky I lost my dad at the age of 22

    • @cloudyycharli6961
      @cloudyycharli6961 4 года назад +1

      Me to😥😣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢my parents are alive and i feel the same way!

    • @心中-y4e
      @心中-y4e 4 года назад +2

      Me too, I’m 14 and I’m already worrying that something bad will happen to my parents or grandma. I’ve already experienced many deaths of my pets and I couldn’t even bare the pain so who knows how I will feel when one of my parents or grandma dies. The pain will be even worse

  • @allisong1244
    @allisong1244 4 года назад +289

    My last words to my Grandma were “I’ll see you soon!” I knew she was in a bad condition, but we all expected her to get better. I should’ve talked to her more, I’m just kicking myself. I’ll miss her for the rest of my life.

    • @andrewjudeus6283
      @andrewjudeus6283 2 года назад +29

      I lived with my grandma. She died today. I have never felt this terrible in my life. She was everything my mother will never be. She was my mother. I don’t know if I’ll ever get through this pain. This is a living nightmare.

    • @ashishbharath3307
      @ashishbharath3307 2 года назад +9

      My grandma passed away a week ago i feel the same way 😢

    • @sofiasinnett5371
      @sofiasinnett5371 2 года назад +10

      My last words to my grandma were really similar, I remember telling her to come visit us after she gets better so we could go to the beach together (she didn’t live in the same country as me). Shortly after we left, she passed on. I somehow knew she wasn’t going to overcome her sickness, yet I didn’t appreciate her like I should’ve, I didn’t talk to her enough, I didn’t hug her enough. It’s been eight months and I still haven’t come to terms with her death. I miss mi abuelita more than anything. As of recent, a friend from school died. I wasn’t close to them at all, but I still miss them. I am so sorry for your loss, and I wish you and your family well.

    • @allisong1244
      @allisong1244 2 года назад +1

      @Cat-zilla I'm so sorry, that sounds really terrible to witness. I hope she passes away peacefully and without pain. It's been about a little over a year since my grandma died and I made this comment, and it gets better. You never lose that pain when you think about them, but you learn to keep them in your life without wanting to breakdown anymore. I hope you find that peace, too. Much love to her, you, and your family rn.

    • @allisong1244
      @allisong1244 2 года назад +2

      @@andrewjudeus6283 I know I'm a bit late, but it's been a little over a year since mine died, and I promise it gets better. You'll still always miss her, but you learn to live with that pain and not feel so hopeless. I hope you feel a bit better now, and I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she was lovely.

  • @leinardesteves3987
    @leinardesteves3987 Год назад +23

    My grandma died. I was with her almost every single day of my life, but it just so happens that I wasn't with her when she passed. She went to japan to visit my nieces and nephews. 2 days after arriving she passed. I didn't even get to kiss her at the airport when they left.
    I feel sick to my stomach, my knees feel weak, and I can't stop crying. I cried at the church, at the grocery store, I broke down at the dinner table, and at my room. She was my best friend, she listened to everything I said even though she had no idea wtf I'm talking about half of the time. She put up with all my shit and never once complained about me. I still dont understand how she's gone, in my mind she'd be downstairs when I wake up

    • @vbobb2516
      @vbobb2516 8 месяцев назад +1

      I am sorry for your loss,i hope things get better
      Stay strong!

    • @kyawzin4499
      @kyawzin4499 2 месяца назад

      I lost my grandma yesterday 18/10/2024 She is always in my everyday life. She cook food for me. Wash clothes for me. Now I don't even know what do i do with my life anymore 😔

  • @BAGELS69
    @BAGELS69 6 лет назад +94

    My mother passed away a month ago, after fighting cancer for 3 months. I still didn't really overcome her death, because she is my own mother. Nobody can replace her. Despite this, now I feel better about it, thanks to my friends and my other family members. I always know that my mother isn't really gone. She is always there, inside my heart.
    I deeply regret all my bad actions that I committed. All those words I said. All those desrespectful actions. She was a strong woman. She never cried in front of me, always smiled and always listened to my opinions. Although it seemed like I didn't like her, I always knew I loved her, deep down inside of me.
    On the day she passed away, I cried for a solid hour. My aunt cheered me up, by saying that my mother wouldn't want to see me like this. She would always want to see me strong.
    I really miss my mother. The first thing I would say to her if I saw her again would be: I deeply regret my actions. I apologize. Thank you for all the support. I love you, mom.

    • @andreduran645
      @andreduran645 5 лет назад +2

      Boi's Plotagon Animations you mother sounds like a trooper and a beautiful angle she is always looking down at you and protecting you don’t forget that may she Rest In Peace

  • @Ingrid_11Sa
    @Ingrid_11Sa 4 года назад +241

    During the last 4 years I’ve lost my grandpa, my mom, a friend and my grandma.. my feelings are just numb at this point, I don’t know where to put my grief anymore💔 19.10.2016 29.12.2018 03.06.2020 08.07.2020 Rest in peace🌟

    • @operationalhumanbeing9916
      @operationalhumanbeing9916 4 года назад +8

      Man This must be hurting you a lot . i cant imagine how are you feeling right now but life is longer than you thought and you have many many years to get better and live the life that your loved ones have thought you will live and be happy (i can just say but its you who need to do that )RIP for the loved ones you lost.

    • @jesperswag
      @jesperswag 4 года назад

      BIG OOF

    • @_kurifized8549
      @_kurifized8549 4 года назад

      Holy fuck I feel so bad, I can't, I can't, love from mn

    • @_kurifized8549
      @_kurifized8549 4 года назад +7

      @@jesperswag was that needef

    • @servais.
      @servais. 4 года назад +3

      @@jesperswag and again you have to be a careless prick not respecting others

  • @itsalex5519
    @itsalex5519 4 года назад +244

    I lost my dog and I can’t imagine losing a human being that is close to you. I’m feeling so much endless pain by losing one of my beloved dogs and just the thought of losing someone close to me, crushes me. Bless those who have gone through this pain and those that are going through it right now.

    • @piaaadah
      @piaaadah 4 года назад +26

      Honestly sometimes losing a dog hurts more.

    • @kajlihalilovic4438
      @kajlihalilovic4438 4 года назад +10

      Alicelf360 I feel your pain. I lost my cat yesterday and I’ve been crying ever since I got the call that she was euthanized. Thank you for your kind words ❤️

    • @Fuwieya
      @Fuwieya 4 года назад +13

      i lost my dog 24 hours ago. I grew up wirh her. She was there with me on my first day of school. She was so important to me. She had heart and lung problems and i found her last night underneath our dining table. I havent stopped crying since but reading all of these comments make me feel less alone.

    • @veronikafabryova8461
      @veronikafabryova8461 4 года назад +14

      I lost my cat three days ago. I didnt have energy to do anything. All the house is empty and I miss him so much. He was so special to me. And I know he loved me too

    • @nickspille
      @nickspille 4 года назад +5

      My cat got run over 2 days ago. He was only 6 months old but in that time we became really close. He would sleep next to me and wake up with me and I'd play with him every day. And now when I wake up he isn't there anymore. Everything feels so empty right now.

  • @ihonestlydontknow2
    @ihonestlydontknow2 11 месяцев назад +9

    Ive lost my grandpa, best friend, my cat and my dad within 29 days of 2024. it sucks and i cant stop crying. my head hurts and everything reminds me of them. I cant even sleep.

    • @exclusivelytay4114
      @exclusivelytay4114 11 месяцев назад

      This I lost my brother on the 31st

    • @ihonestlydontknow2
      @ihonestlydontknow2 11 месяцев назад

      @@exclusivelytay4114 I'm so sorry abt that ml. it gets a whole lot easier

    • @J35u5Ch4i5t
      @J35u5Ch4i5t 10 месяцев назад

      Fake

  • @kittyxkat139
    @kittyxkat139 8 лет назад +637

    My mom passed away yesterday from cancer, everything is so overwallming, i don't know how to feel like myself again , i can't stop crying

    • @carlie2932
      @carlie2932 7 лет назад +37

      My mom passed away today from cancer :(

    • @mortyjames5897
      @mortyjames5897 7 лет назад +28

      My mum died 2 days ago from pancreatic cancer. I'm spent 18 years with her but I was at school when it happened. What a fucking joke.

    • @darrellpadilla4085
      @darrellpadilla4085 7 лет назад +13

      My mom passed away 3 years ago from cervical cancer..ive gone through greif in that time went crazy for awhile but in that time things will get better

    • @kyleray9633
      @kyleray9633 7 лет назад +23

      Mia Wallace
      You will be okay. We are all just bodies of energy in motion. We do go on. This loss will change you...just like the water changes the rocks. It's okay. Hold your head up and be proud of your pain. Be proud you have loved so deeply, that you have hurt so pure. It will change you. It will shape you. ..be proud of these wounds.

    • @otakunationweeaboopower7797
      @otakunationweeaboopower7797 7 лет назад +4

      Mia Wallace same but i Never had a mom and dad I lived with my grandparents and they died

  • @ScavverSamMae
    @ScavverSamMae 4 года назад +316

    I lost my sweet Dad two months ago, on Aug 8th. I couldn’t save him, I feel like I’ve failed him. I just woke up that morning and he was gone. Everyday doesn’t feel real. I just want to wake up from this never ending nightmare and see my dad again. I hate living life without him, it doesn’t feel right at all. I hate every moment I’m distracted from thinking about him. I just want to hear his voice. Talk to him again. Idk how long I have to wait for my time to come but I honestly hope it’s not too long. Losing a parent is hell on earth for me and I cannot handle the pain. He was my strength. I hope..if there is a Heaven, he’s up there happy and at peace. I hope I can join him there someday. I can only hope.

    • @samanthasmith4038
      @samanthasmith4038 4 года назад +3

      I’m so very sorry

    • @teoxvi1432
      @teoxvi1432 4 года назад +3

      Dang im sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine losing a father. I hope you are doing well

    • @gerarddonaldson8049
      @gerarddonaldson8049 4 года назад +14

      Lost my dad today covid 19. Life ain't real till it knocks on your door

    • @teoxvi1432
      @teoxvi1432 4 года назад +3

      @@gerarddonaldson8049 Damn. I am sorry to hear that man. Life can he really hard sometimes. I hope you feel better and I hope you remember that your father is now looking after you and that he loves you.

    • @gerarddonaldson8049
      @gerarddonaldson8049 4 года назад

      Thanks everyone I'm trying my hardest 🤧

  • @westy229
    @westy229 7 лет назад +492

    Grandmother just died today. Shit hurts, she wasn't just my grandmother but my best friend...She was the only one that talked to me after school.

    • @renecca7805
      @renecca7805 7 лет назад +21

      My grandmother died today too! I screamed and she and I were really close.

    • @KatelynnAshlie
      @KatelynnAshlie 7 лет назад +22

      Core Voltage my grandma died last night, I’m a fucking wreck. I don’t know what to do with myself.

    • @westy229
      @westy229 7 лет назад +14

      Save pictures and savor the times you were still close to her. It's been a month and its the little things that get me, like not seeing her in her chair anymore, not watching T.V and talking to her, not sitting on the porch smiling and laughing with her. It's like a piece of my soul went with her.

    • @melly918
      @melly918 7 лет назад +3

      Core, I hope you are feeling a little better. I am so sorry for your pain. I know how it is to lose a best friend. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

    • @aklmax_
      @aklmax_ 7 лет назад +2

      my nana died on the 6th of this month. i just feel so sad without her. hope you guys are ok

  • @williamporr6866
    @williamporr6866 3 года назад +112

    Since I was little, Ive heard adults talk about how they’d "give anything to have them back" I never completely realized the meaning until last Tuesday. We had my grandmas funeral today, and I can’t help thinking about how much time I missed with her by playing video games instead of spending time with her when I was at her house.🤬😓 She passed away after getting COVID at a Vacation Bible school party. I was at camp during the party, but before the camp was the last time I ever actually spent time with her. She spent a month in the hospital, and I never saw her healthy again. I can only imagine how my grandfather is feeling, but I can’t stop thinking of the things I used to take for granted and how she won’t be there to watch me continue to grow. I’m thinking as I type this about how she won’t see anymore of my track meets, won’t see me graduate high school, and won’t be at the beach next summer. Now I want to go hug my other three grandparents and spend every remaining second of their lives that I can with them. I love you so much, Grandma. Rest In Peace 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @PoeLemic
      @PoeLemic 3 года назад +2

      Sorry for your loss. I lost my Grandma many years ago, but I was 17 (I guess) and she died in my latter high school years. But, she had been sick from Dementia for few years, so it was actually a relief that she finally passed. Because she was not in good health, and there was nothing that our current medical science could do. She just got worse and worse. So, I am sorry for what happened, and yes, it is important to spend time with the people that we care about in our lives. And, a big loss will make you realize how important those moments are.

    • @yalocalsimp3050
      @yalocalsimp3050 3 года назад +3

      That's exactly how I feel. My grandad died last night and I am going through the same thing as you. You are never alone.

    • @priyu1296
      @priyu1296 3 года назад +1

      Hey i also lost my grandmaa she is very close to my heart its now 5 days since she has gone...i am missing her😭😭

    • @spiritofecstasy187
      @spiritofecstasy187 2 года назад +2

      The same happend to me about a couple months ago , I lost my grandpa and I would do anything to get any time with him back. Your not alone. May your grandma Rest In Peace ✌️🤍

    • @cookingwithluna14
      @cookingwithluna14 2 года назад +1

      almost exactly the same story...I lost her today and I can't stop thinking about all my regrets and how hard she fought, may your rest in peace grandma

  • @Ryoufriggingserious
    @Ryoufriggingserious 6 лет назад +136

    My son died on june 3rd, 2018. His name is Aaron and he was 30 years old.He was a very talented hairdresser and was always striving to grow as a person and artist. He was also passionate about boxing and put his heart and soul into that also. I've been getting angry lately with denial and the thought that such a gentle spirit like Aaron would be taken a way from his future growth and joy. I've wasted a large part my life by not working to better my own life.Why is he the one that's been taken away instead of me. I've been crying out for answers and looking for some kind of spiritual awakening that will tell me that he's safe and happy in whatever place there is out there. I will never stop talking about him and will never stop bragging about how gentle hearted he was. He had the greatest laugh. I tell him every day that i'm so sorry that this happened to him. I apologize for rambling.

    • @virginiawilliams8648
      @virginiawilliams8648 6 лет назад

      david r macri prayers for you friend

    • @goonervillegonad3662
      @goonervillegonad3662 6 лет назад +4

      im so sorry david. life is so unfair and you dont have to look far to see how unjust and terrible it can be. we may all meet again one day, but in the meantime, just know that david wants you to be happy and to not ask 'why'? he wants you to celebrate his life and be happy. you know that's what he wants. its ok to feel the way you do at times though. go through the process that our mind takes us though. dont feel guilty about being here still.

    • @kristhompson8744
      @kristhompson8744 6 лет назад +3

      david r macri My daughter Katy died June 10, 2018. She was 31. 6 months later and I still can’t get past it. It’s extremely hard to pretend to be normal when my heart is breaking. I just wanted you to know you are not alone. Losing a child is the worst of everything.

    • @llamaphotosafarifilms7408
      @llamaphotosafarifilms7408 6 лет назад +1

      Read JJ Benitez book Estoy bien. Iam not sure about translation title. Aaron is ok. You will find him again when you get through the light. X

    • @cindahoover5441
      @cindahoover5441 5 лет назад +2

      So sorry about your loss. I lost my brother over a year ago. I survived two cancers in 2013-2014 two major cancers. I keep wondering why did I live to see my Brother die of cancer. It is hard. I know no answers . Treasure your sons memory and the sound of his laugh. I have found prayer helps. God is always waiting for our prayers.

  • @HelloAnitaStar
    @HelloAnitaStar 8 лет назад +1005

    I have lost my mother to suicide, my sister-in-law died in a house fire,
    and my brother overdosed on Rx pills... My advice to all from dealing
    with the tragedies in my own life is this:
    Chin up! You can choose to allow the sadness to take over your life OR you can choose to live life to the fullest, everyday! Have fun, smile, laugh because the one thing that we will always take with us in the end it the experiences we have shared in this life. The energy of love and life is eternal.
    I choose life and I choose to smile and hopefully make people laugh through my channel. Grief can not take over your beautiful energy unless you allow it to. So don't ;)
    If you're here then chances are that you are trying to fight the negative energy and surpass the stages of grief with flying colors. I believe in you and I know you can do it! Keep doing what ever it is that makes you smile everyday!!
    I love all of you

    • @HelloAnitaStar
      @HelloAnitaStar 8 лет назад +5

      All my love to you

    • @HelloAnitaStar
      @HelloAnitaStar 8 лет назад +5

      You are beautiful

    • @randolphhope4091
      @randolphhope4091 8 лет назад +1

      I love your advice

    • @HelloAnitaStar
      @HelloAnitaStar 8 лет назад +5

      I hope it helps. All of my love to you as well

    • @mmasuda632
      @mmasuda632 8 лет назад +5

      Dearest Anita,Almighty GOD gives his kindest Grace on you to go ahead with a bright future. Amen.

  • @billellis3967
    @billellis3967 4 года назад +402

    It's been 7 years since I lost my wife suddenly , we were married 40 years and I am just sad.

    • @andrewjoyce9038
      @andrewjoyce9038 4 года назад +51

      Is that ur wife in the picture? She's beautiful

    • @pugtime3765
      @pugtime3765 4 года назад +60

      @@jesperswag ur mean

    • @simagastya1198
      @simagastya1198 4 года назад +4

      I am sorry to hear that

    • @tsarnicholasii419
      @tsarnicholasii419 4 года назад +27

      My grandma died a few months ago, it felt like a whole world just ripped apart from me, she always took care of me and encouraged during tough times, when she died of sudden heart attack I felt very guilty becuase she died alone with no one comforting her except for doctors and nurses, I can't imagine how much all of the people here have gone through, I hope every one of our deceased loved ones are in a better place where they could relax and live a peaceful eternal life. I love you grandma I hope to see you againsomeday😫

    • @simagastya1198
      @simagastya1198 4 года назад +1

      I am sorry to hear that

  • @brendensipple3908
    @brendensipple3908 Год назад +20

    Lost my grandpa today who was pretty much my father and my best friend all wrapped into one amazing human. I’ve dealt with loss before but this one really hits harder then it ever has before. I can’t stop crying and I’m so angry at the world for allowing this to happen

    • @nocorn71_39
      @nocorn71_39 Год назад

      I can’t relate but I feel for u, all I can say is I’m sorry for your loss and ik that won’t make it better. I’m absolutely terrified abt losing my parents and seeing yours and everyone else’s post I will try to appreciate them more .I hope u fell better soon❤️

  • @tomcurtis1827
    @tomcurtis1827 6 лет назад +320

    I know you’re all probably sick of seeing things like this, but my grandma was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer today. Please pray for her because the doctor said this is probably gonna be out last Christmas together. I’m never the kind of person to comment stuff like this- but I just feel like if I can get enough people on my side, she might fight through it and live through many more years.

    • @virginiawilliams8648
      @virginiawilliams8648 6 лет назад +21

      Wraith Sc praying....my Mom is dying of throat and lung cancer...I feel your pain

    • @tomcurtis1827
      @tomcurtis1827 6 лет назад +2

      So sorry to hear that :( I’ll pray for you

    • @urmom-ye4cr
      @urmom-ye4cr 5 лет назад +4

      How is she now?😓

    • @tomcurtis1827
      @tomcurtis1827 5 лет назад +14

      Had her first session of radiotherapy yesterday.. the operation went well, as did the radiotherapy. Still a bit shocked though! Thank you so much for your kind thoughts

    • @urmom-ye4cr
      @urmom-ye4cr 5 лет назад +2

      I am so happy for you!thank god💟💟💟

  • @nemoys_
    @nemoys_ 6 лет назад +149

    For anyone who lost somebody dear and beloved to them,
    Know this;
    They love you, they will always be here, look up at the night sky... that one bright star shining in the distance? It is them, smiling and giving you hope for a new day, no matter what happens, they will want you to be strong, and so do I ❤️

    • @tenkrrae
      @tenkrrae 5 лет назад

      Rinada * it’s that how dogs act? Cuz if they do I’m happy

    • @fancyfacefancy8513
      @fancyfacefancy8513 5 лет назад +1

      So not true, but if that's what you believe, and want to believe , to make yourself feel better, go head

    • @claires1583
      @claires1583 5 лет назад +1

      This actually helped thank you

    • @ritik6809
      @ritik6809 5 лет назад

      My beat friend did suicide yesterday

    • @joker_jack3497
      @joker_jack3497 5 лет назад +3

      Thank you.

  • @lilyxxxxxx7146
    @lilyxxxxxx7146 5 лет назад +86

    When she said “and that’s ok” I felt so much comfort and safety

    • @JoelManrique
      @JoelManrique 5 лет назад +3

      Yeah ....it's OK not to be OK

  • @BottlesOfBliss
    @BottlesOfBliss 2 года назад +17

    I just lost my mother 3 weeks ago to pancreatic cancer. It's 3:50 a.m. another sleepless night. She was my best friend and the constant in my life. Thanks for your video. It's okay to not be okay. That's what I took from it. And also, there is no time limit to my grief and its like a roller-coaster. Up and down. It's my journey through it. Thanks

    • @dinamita2870
      @dinamita2870 Год назад

      💗💗💗 You're not alone

    • @shoppingvopping8305
      @shoppingvopping8305 Год назад +1

      Yes I lost my mother recently. Sometimes I am ok but sometimes I am bad.

    • @boatergirl4811
      @boatergirl4811 7 месяцев назад

      I'm so sorry. I just lost my sister last week from pancreatic cancer . I'm struggling so badly, I hate this .

  • @julez5680
    @julez5680 4 года назад +191

    I actually lost my grandma today
    Thats why I came to this video
    Rest easy I will see you again Grandma

    • @ashr.k5041
      @ashr.k5041 4 года назад +1

      I lost my grandma a couple of days ago...

    • @jelloeveryone6771
      @jelloeveryone6771 4 года назад

      MY SECONd son died when he was YOUNG😂😂😂

    • @ashr.k5041
      @ashr.k5041 4 года назад

      Margaret Addams Uh is this a joke? Why r u laughing?

    • @jelloeveryone6771
      @jelloeveryone6771 4 года назад +4

      @@ashr.k5041 O wasn't laughing it was a very sad moment but I have gotten over it but thank you thank you for being very sweet but I wasn't laughing I was putting that crying symbol everyone uses when they are sad but thanks for checking up sweetie

    • @ashr.k5041
      @ashr.k5041 4 года назад +1

      Margaret Addams Oh I’m very sorry for your loss but that is actually a laughing emoji. This is a sad emoji 😢😭

  • @sarakru2
    @sarakru2 5 лет назад +175

    I just lost my dog this morning and I’m crushed. He was like a child to me. Thank you for this

    • @vixter28
      @vixter28 5 лет назад +8

      Sara Kruder sorry sweetie 😢 losing a pet is very heartbreaking, like losing your best friend- 😘

    • @akosiryan9761
      @akosiryan9761 5 лет назад +5

      Sara Kruder I feel your pain. I lost my little Rosie two days ago (my precious cat). She was part of my soul

    • @blokzyl_fitness
      @blokzyl_fitness 4 года назад +4

      I just lost my dog last night & I'm feeling crushed as well. My two dogs & cat are everything to me. Feels empty with one less pet.

    • @bay4589
      @bay4589 4 года назад

      Sara Kruder same, thats why im here. she actually hasnt died yet we have to go put her down in 45 minutes, just found out she has cancer 😞 i feel so lost im not gonna be the same without her around

    • @kshamenkwaves6656
      @kshamenkwaves6656 4 года назад

      Baylee Qualls I’m so sorry 💔 my dog died yesterday

  • @herehaveahorse5591
    @herehaveahorse5591 5 лет назад +215

    my father passed almost 6 years ago, and I still haven't been the same since he was here. he was in a wheelchair ever since I could remember. he promised me that he would be walking by my side at my wedding. he died when I was just seven years old.
    daddy, I hope you are proud of me, I got over my stage fright and am now in a theatre group doing what I love most: singing. I promise I'll save you a front row seat.
    love, your only baby girl,
    charlotte.
    08/20/73 - 01/22/14
    I love you.

    • @corey4424
      @corey4424 4 года назад +3

      R.I.P my dad 16/9/17. They will be waiting for us

    • @herehaveahorse5591
      @herehaveahorse5591 4 года назад +1

      .Milky skies . they sure will☺️

    • @jessemorris5125
      @jessemorris5125 4 года назад +1

      May God bless you and be with you.

    • @worldpinkmusic
      @worldpinkmusic 4 года назад +5

      My daddy died on Monday. I miss him so much, I want to see him here with me. I'm just gonna be 20 years old in 4 days. I love him so much, he was my best friend. I know I'll see him soon, so I'm looking forward for it! You'll see your daddy too soon
      Just a little more days and we'll see them

    • @sanjivni746
      @sanjivni746 4 года назад +3

      My dad passed away recently and i am only 14. Stay strong

  • @beatrizlopezsales6867
    @beatrizlopezsales6867 6 месяцев назад +4

    My mom passed away yesterday, 59 years old, after a year long battle with pancreatic cancer. Today was the day when we cremated her. I was very united to her, and I wanted something to reassure me that everything I'm feeling, the pain, the cry, the sadness, is something normal. Thank you.

  • @centrumvitae1982
    @centrumvitae1982 3 года назад +518

    To anyone who has lost someone they love, I want to offer my sincere and deepest sympathies. You are not alone on this journey. Whoever you are, there will always be people willing to open their arms to you and hold your hand through the grief ❤🙏

    • @CreeseDF
      @CreeseDF 2 года назад +6

      Thank you. My 8 year old cousin was murdered yesterday. It's really tough.

    • @BewilderedAsshat
      @BewilderedAsshat 2 года назад +3

      @@CreeseDF Brother, i sympathize with you entirely. I hope youve made your peace. I lost my brother today, he was a great guy and a uncle to my son. he was only 24 years old, and didnt deserve the horrendous , barbaric killing that was inflicted on him. Hope to hear from you. Well wishes and lots of love.

    • @zamler8710
      @zamler8710 2 года назад +1

      @@BewilderedAsshat my uncle passed this morning from a heart attack. He was supposed to come on a trip with us for the weekend, but he was sick and he said it would be fine if we left him with grandma for the weekend. I knew something was off that day and I can never ever forgive myself

    • @lobotomy4zombii
      @lobotomy4zombii 2 года назад +1

      @@CreeseDF My neighbor died a couple days or weeks ago. I wish I appreciated her and seen her more. She gave up on life- the pain was too much. But remember there watching you from above no matter what you believe in. Hold on tight..

    • @yeanlingsoda359vortexcars8
      @yeanlingsoda359vortexcars8 2 года назад

      My step dad died today and certain song just send me crying like a little kid

  • @savsybunny7955
    @savsybunny7955 6 лет назад +91

    I lost my grandma on the 17th December after her 2nd battle with cancer. her funeral was yesterday and it was the saddest day of my life. She was my role model, a massive part of my life and knowing that she’s gone makes it hard to breathe.

    • @andreduran645
      @andreduran645 5 лет назад

      C h a r m I’m sorry for you lost may she Rest In Peace

    • @classicnobody9872
      @classicnobody9872 5 лет назад

      Same

    • @symesalexander5294
      @symesalexander5294 5 лет назад

      Same here. Sorry to hear that my she rest in peace 😢😔

    • @mirrr5467
      @mirrr5467 5 лет назад +3

      I lost my grandma 2 days ago, I feel your pain, she couldn’t even speak but she knew I was there and still hugged me and rubbed my hair, just know your not alone and I wish you the best of luck my friend🙏🏿💯

    • @symesalexander5294
      @symesalexander5294 5 лет назад +2

      @@mirrr5467 same here lost my Grandma(adopted mom) last year and my adopted dad in 2016 one year apart and both from cancer. I'm sorry for loss I truly I'm hope you got support during this rough time.
      I had none and I'm still dealing with all Alone 😢😞😥😕🙁😒☹️

  • @tommykergel2203
    @tommykergel2203 6 лет назад +168

    Grandma I know you can see this so I want to say that your loved and missed. Rest In Peace and enjoy yourself in heaven

    • @myawesomevids10
      @myawesomevids10 6 лет назад +5

      Tommy Kergel yes she can and I would also like to say these words to my grandma as well ❤️

    • @orlansmith6230
      @orlansmith6230 6 лет назад +1

      My Granny Anne departed her life on Earth 18/12/2013
      My Granddad Cyril moved to Heaven from Earth 13/10/2016
      Rest easy up there you 2
      Forever in my heart

    • @Yasmine-ib1je
      @Yasmine-ib1je 6 лет назад +6

      Madara Uchiwa Let them believe what they want.

  • @rawmnz3348
    @rawmnz3348 11 дней назад +2

    i lost my dad today 19-12-24, i just want him back i haven't talk to him that much at all in my adult year i turn 20 while he's 50 he's not the best dad and he deeply hurt me, my mom and my family but i still want him here i wish i didn't spend all that time remembering the bad things he did to us and be mad all the time i wish i was a forgiving person, i want to be that little girl that waits for her dad to gets back home or went to mosque to bring him back home everytime he went praying and ride on his shoulder when we walked home, be that girl that gets exited when i hear his motorclye park in our driveway and seeing the food he brought home... i want to be that little girl... i want my dad... i miss him more than anything

    • @angelstar2538
      @angelstar2538 День назад

      i lost my mom in 17.11.24 cuz of that fking bad cancer

  • @aprilbeilfuss3751
    @aprilbeilfuss3751 8 лет назад +105

    one year today. miss you lots, mama.

    • @h2oquality2010
      @h2oquality2010 7 лет назад +2

      Just those few words you wrote about your mom brought all the pain of loss back to me after all these years. Love never dies, and the pain of losing them never dies completely either.

  • @Funnydoc
    @Funnydoc 5 лет назад +686

    Me: thinking about killing myself
    Grandma: *dont make me come down there damnit*
    Rip grandma 5/18/19
    Edit: I no longer want to die, but my life will never be the same

    • @allyismynickname8462
      @allyismynickname8462 4 года назад +38

      Never
      Take
      Your
      Own
      Life
      ..I love you❤️

    • @toriwilson36
      @toriwilson36 4 года назад +44

      My grandma died on the same date. Maybe they met up and became friends🙂❤️

    • @rocketman99
      @rocketman99 4 года назад +2

      Grandma hah i would trade my grandmas life with my moms 10millon times

    • @eyemoisturizer
      @eyemoisturizer 4 года назад +8

      that’s funny my dog died... it made me laugh a little

    • @soccermaster6165
      @soccermaster6165 4 года назад +3

      My grandma passed 10/20/19, but was kept alive till the 25th through AI. She suffered a stroke, and had been to the hospital so many times before, we put the most beautiful dress on her when she was going to the cremation site.

  • @Tokyo_Kawaiii
    @Tokyo_Kawaiii 4 года назад +332

    One of my best friends comitted suicide yesterday morning. I've been crying nonstop. Never thought it would ever hit this hard. For me the most scariest part is you never know when they'll be gone. He was there and then gone the next morning. I'll always feel that guilt feeling of why didn't I do something to stop it?? I am devestated. Please pray for me. I'll pray for everyone in these comments who's dealing with grief.❤❤ Love you all.

    • @ianpreston403
      @ianpreston403 4 года назад +8

      lost mum 2 nieces one 11 weeks old 21 nephew 18 dad went funeral 15 year old period 5 years I dont know what feel any more

    • @leahesmond3452
      @leahesmond3452 4 года назад +5

      i will pray for you, my grandpa just passed from a heart attack today and yeah you really never know it’s coming he was too young and always made me laugh i miss him already 💔💔

    • @ttcolombiana937
      @ttcolombiana937 3 года назад +5

      i lost my bestfriend too she was killed
      im still in shock

    • @Marcelushowto
      @Marcelushowto 3 года назад +2

      I'm praying for you! Please do the same for me. I lost some I loved so much and its killing me. I haven't been able to truly deal with the grief I've been experiencing. Thanks! And I'm sorry for your loss. Its really hard sometimes. Stay strong! 💜

    • @Tokyo_Kawaiii
      @Tokyo_Kawaiii 3 года назад +2

      @@Marcelushowto hay my love💗💗💗 it's been over 2 months now and I can tell you it wasn't easy
      At first it feels like you won't be able to deal.with it but I promise you it gets better. 😚😚😚 Ilsym. Please stay strong. I will pray for you and I am so so sorry to hear.💕💕💕💕💕

  • @elkku552
    @elkku552 6 лет назад +368

    My grandpa died today and he was the best grandpa ever. Even thought he didn't suffer in pain his death makes me so sad. I had cried this whole day. You're in better place now, we will see again. Bye for now.❤️

    • @TinyBoxGamer23
      @TinyBoxGamer23 6 лет назад +7

      Bro my grandpa just dies I feel you

    • @mlsdd
      @mlsdd 6 лет назад +2

      If he didn't suffer when he was passing, this means he was a good person and will have a good birth.
      Evil people suffer a lot when they get old and they wish even death to stop the suffering, yet they don't die.
      I grieve for my child that is still alive that was kidnapped by Social Service 5 years ago.
      www.ineedmymum.com

    • @lukekirkwood3054
      @lukekirkwood3054 6 лет назад

      I'm so sorry for your loss I know I hope he went out with as little pain as posible as a merciful death I wish the best

    • @mellowins1832
      @mellowins1832 6 лет назад

      Exact same story here😭😭

    • @deborahmclean9635
      @deborahmclean9635 6 лет назад

      My heart is absolutely breaking for you! My grandpa just died too, it sucks. Like a lot. I am praying for you and everyone who replied to your comment! I really hope it helps! My number is 469-767-2010 if you want to text or even call if you need to talk it doesn't just have to be about this plus it would be nice to know that I am not the only one going through this.

  • @lexxi9324
    @lexxi9324 4 года назад +434

    Can't get out of depression, I feel like I'll never accept it

    • @emesass5959
      @emesass5959 4 года назад +9

      I'm so sorry to hear that, you are in a lot of pain. Would you like to hear something encouraging? Who did you lose?

    • @samualhogan8517
      @samualhogan8517 4 года назад +1

      same.

    • @emesass5959
      @emesass5959 4 года назад

      @@samualhogan8517 What is the hardest part for you, if I may ask?

    • @Rope5070
      @Rope5070 4 года назад +2

      I'll be there for you whenever you feel down. Don't worry.

    • @IbarraAlejandro
      @IbarraAlejandro 4 года назад +6

      Same here but not only depression severe anxiety stress, problems with family they don't care of help at all, CPTSD neglection and horrible past memories wish l was dead, my life is ruined and nothing going to change it or fix it. 😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔

  • @Floridabum1
    @Floridabum1 6 лет назад +190

    RIP Dad, you cared more for me and my brother than you did your own well being. And that's why you're not here.... I miss you and wish I could've said goodbye and told you I love you.

    • @DysmasTheGoodThief
      @DysmasTheGoodThief 6 лет назад +1

      Floridabum1 that's a good dad. That's how I feel about my son.

    • @DysmasTheGoodThief
      @DysmasTheGoodThief 6 лет назад +2

      Floridabum1 he knows you love him!

    • @beezy2764
      @beezy2764 6 лет назад +5

      Same thing just happened to me my father went to work and had a heart attack. He was hurting all along and never showed it. He spent his last day taking care of stuff for the house when he should’ve been resting. I love and miss him so much like I know u do with your dad but the only thing keeping me sane is the fact I know he did his job and got to raise all his kids right. Our fathers will truly be missed and remembered Stay strong 💪🏾

    • @yeremiafrans9425
      @yeremiafrans9425 6 лет назад

      Me too,dude.

    • @jaredmorales9763
      @jaredmorales9763 6 лет назад

      Floridabum1 sorry for your loss 😥

  • @TotalTech2.
    @TotalTech2. 9 лет назад +268

    My mother just died. And life is really crappy right now
    Please pray for me

    • @Not_Rage
      @Not_Rage 9 лет назад +1

      Ill pray for u man

    • @Bwana_mademm
      @Bwana_mademm 9 лет назад

      I'll pray for you

    • @TotalTech2.
      @TotalTech2. 9 лет назад +3

      Thank you. God bless you as well. My father just told me I love you which is very rare as we don't have the best relationship. Things are not easy right now. However I know that Jesus never fails and life does go on

    • @Bwana_mademm
      @Bwana_mademm 9 лет назад

      yes indeed

    • @TotalTech2.
      @TotalTech2. 9 лет назад +1

      Thank you. Its really difficult to deal with life right now. I don't want to go into too much detail here but it isn't the fact that she is gone that hurts so much. Its the fact that she choose to leave that bothers me. With that being said I do understand that life goes on eventually despite how painful it can get

  • @MaddieLovesEveryone
    @MaddieLovesEveryone 5 лет назад +76

    It's my mom's birthday today. It's been 15 years since I have seen your beautiful face. I love you so much.

  • @oliviastokes5716
    @oliviastokes5716 6 лет назад +152

    I lost my cat today. His name was gonzo and he was very sick. I also lost my dog Tara late 2017.
    I fell into a deep grieving for a few months after Tara's death.

    • @andreduran645
      @andreduran645 5 лет назад +8

      My dog just died yesterday and I’m really sad I know how you feel and I’m here if you ever need to talk just reply

    • @johndetheshape3095
      @johndetheshape3095 5 лет назад +9

      I wacthed my cat die a few days ago
      It has been the saddest week of my life so far

    • @alakasam6921
      @alakasam6921 5 лет назад +5

      I just lost my 14 year old cat to illness to, 1 in the morning, hour drive to the vet hospital to put her down. it was rough being with her and seeing her go like she did. Also my mom's favorite cat was named Tara. Sorry for your losses.

    • @christiangonzalez3894
      @christiangonzalez3894 5 лет назад +1

      My dog had cancer and we put her down today. She was my best friend and the happiest animal. It’s hard to believe this all happened and I’m just waiting to wake up...

    • @moonandlunagachagirls6959
      @moonandlunagachagirls6959 5 лет назад +6

      My birdie just died.... He was only 3 yrs old... I called him applejack... He may of had a weird name but he is still in my heart... My cat died too, he died on Xmas day... I really want to die...
      Edit: Sorry for your losses..

  • @alexrowdyrodrigues9716
    @alexrowdyrodrigues9716 3 года назад +13

    I lost my grandfather on Wednesday to a heart attack. Honestly, I'm still shocked that he is gone because it doesn't seem real to me. My grandfather was a larger than life guy who believed that Honesty, Hard Work, and Happiness were the keys to living a good life. 2 of the 3 H's I usually have down but my happiness was never something I cared about because I didn't think it mattered much but when my grandfather was around I was always happy. Always willing to listen to the stories he had to tell and the lessons he was willing to teach. The day before his death he told me that he was proud of me and that he was proud to have me as a grandson and we had given each other a big hug and I told him that I loved him and that is the last great memory I have had with him and I will hold it and him with me for the rest of my life. It is up to me now to hold up the mantle and standards that he upheld in his life and live the way my grandfather wanted me to live. Even though he isn't here in physical form, he is definitely with me in my heart and mind. Til we meet again at the end of the road Grandpa Jacinto. I'm gonna miss you.

  • @haruchinen9959
    @haruchinen9959 5 лет назад +171

    I lost my boyfriend..we had just started living together..we only got 5 months together then he died in an astma attack, his astma was very bad..he did not get any air for an hour..he..he became braindead. He died in my arms waiting for the ambulance..at least I was there even though I could do nothing to get air into his lungs. He got some heavy meds and his body just could not take it anymore :(

    • @haruchinen9959
      @haruchinen9959 4 года назад +3

      @@latkagravas986 I'm so sorry for your loss :( sending strength and hugs your way

    • @latkagravas986
      @latkagravas986 4 года назад +1

      @@haruchinen9959 - Thank you...I respectively say Im not ready for the Memory Lane part of this grieving process or denial...'Yes, Im that far gone' go,

    • @haruchinen9959
      @haruchinen9959 4 года назад

      @@latkagravas986 I am far gone ad well, I can't remember and smile, I only remember all the hardships and how he died in my arms. I take depression meds, calm and sleep meds. Several times I have said kill me repeatadly when I can't bare it. Yet I'm still here while he is not. He is everywhere. I can't hide and don't want to but I still do.

    • @latkagravas986
      @latkagravas986 4 года назад

      @@haruchinen9959 what do you mean on this? I can't hide and don't want to but I still do.

    • @haruchinen9959
      @haruchinen9959 4 года назад

      @@latkagravas986 everything reminds me of him, it hurts but I at the same time don't want to forget everything we had in common. But it hurts so much to remember, thats why I often hide as a defense. "Hide" from photos for example, avoid stuff that hurts to much instead of facing it.

  • @itsjayjay4466
    @itsjayjay4466 7 лет назад +91

    I feel like I moved on and then... It always repeats itself again and again and I'm tired of it, I want to be able to remember her and smile, not cry and slowly fade away.

    • @manichairdo6346
      @manichairdo6346 6 лет назад +3

      The Crazeh Jay Grief is often described as coming in waves. Sometimes very overpowering, knocking us over. Sometimes, like gentle waves, a sweet memory. Unexpected. The intensity and the frequency will diminish. E.g. Much loved songs would tear me apart. Then, I decided I had to switch the radio off if one was playing. Now, I can listen without agonising pain, or maybe a smile and sometimes a tear still falls. Sometimes, I'll dance. You will walk on firmer ground one day.

    • @zinagarnier6295
      @zinagarnier6295 6 лет назад +2

      The Crazeh Jay + Zina when i thought i had good friends they didn't Come Around like i thought. 1st Of all Dear friend Ithasnt been Very long for your grieving, it seems as rhough Life just Cant go On... I cry when i see other's Grieve. It's the Worst i know... Very hard... Choose To turn to God, so far i too have lost Dad & 3 brothers. Michael most recently... my last brother died 8yrs. ago but, I Couldnt afford the Plane ticket So they Put him on the Phone With me. They said he Couldnt Speak i fought bacl my tears & said, Louis this is your sister, i Know u Can Hear Me & I said the Lords prayer with Him. I could Just Tell he was Hearing me, then I cho8ked back my tears & was told he was taking his last Breath... it's SO darn hard! But, I encourage you dear. Hang Onto the Love, the Memories, and Think of Your Good memories! Even Silly one's but Hang onto your Love 4 Ur Mom loves you.. Much hugs & Love 💓

    • @KVeneris
      @KVeneris 6 лет назад

      Move -it may help...

    • @zaysays
      @zaysays 6 лет назад

      It’s Jay Jay omg that’s how I feel it’s over and over and over every time i think it’s easing

  • @sabrinasoistmanofficial
    @sabrinasoistmanofficial 5 лет назад +247

    My friend passed away two days ago soooo unexpectedly. She was only 24. RIP Megan 💔😢

    • @willianbonon3578
      @willianbonon3578 5 лет назад

      I hope you're doing okay today!

    • @travftp
      @travftp 5 лет назад

      I'm sorry for your loss l, hope you get better ❤️

    • @shivmangalprasad3503
      @shivmangalprasad3503 5 лет назад +2

      My friend died about 6 hours ago today. He was 16 years old.

    • @yuvrajdhillon1036
      @yuvrajdhillon1036 5 лет назад

      So young it breaks me 😭

    • @gailrubin9029
      @gailrubin9029 5 лет назад +3

      I lost my 13 year old son 21 years ago . I am trying to speak about my journey to help others
      ruclips.net/video/SQRzIK0o-NA/видео.html

  • @OGaurabless
    @OGaurabless 3 года назад +13

    Just lost my only living parent, Mom on Saturday. She raised me and my sister since we were little (8 for me and 10 for sis). My father was estranged and not caring and passed maybe 6 or 7 years ago. He never reached out prior to passing. I wish I appreciated my mom more but if I ever have kids I'll let them know how loving and proud she is of me and them.

  • @curst8622
    @curst8622 8 лет назад +73

    I am 11 and i lost my mom today, nothing could take away from the fact that every morning i dont get to see her face every moring i dont get to hear how was your day or how was school.......all i can think about is her and nothing else This video opened my eyes a bit and helped me cope but nothing happiness fame fortune could coer this gap that will never seal up............

    • @otakunationweeaboopower7797
      @otakunationweeaboopower7797 7 лет назад

      YourLocalWeirdo hey I know it's hard believe me My parent died when I was 11 I'm 14 and I haven't got over it but it gets better don't let deprwsion take your away just try to think of the good times

    • @drexeytop9870
      @drexeytop9870 7 лет назад

      Going threw the same thing

    • @gusandus5967
      @gusandus5967 7 лет назад

      I feel that every day since my dog died, trust me it gets better with time

    • @camscendants3096
      @camscendants3096 7 лет назад

      I can realate im 12 and my mom passed away 3 weeks ago and yesterday was her birthday and i completely relate to everything you just said know that you are not alone i hope you are feeling better i know that the gap can never be filled but you will see her again keep that in your mind.

    • @lemon_rat25
      @lemon_rat25 7 лет назад

      YourLocalWeirdo I am sorry for your loss and I want you to know that I am here with you 🙂

  • @hanayehuwala8608
    @hanayehuwala8608 4 года назад +68

    I lost my sister to COVID two months ago. She was pregnant and the baby had to be taken out prematurely. We have her 3 beautiful baby girls and I try to stay strong for them. Me and my mom are trying our hardest to be brave. She doesn’t know I cry myself to sleep every night. I try to keep quiet by crying in my pillow. Today I broke down collecting mail from her apartment. I’m so lost, I don’t know how to express my grief and I know it’s unhealthy but I’m bottling everything inside. I’m praying that I overcome this, but it makes me feel better knowing I’m not alone.

    • @Myhomedayy
      @Myhomedayy 3 года назад

      Don't hold your emotions it's ok to cry she wouldn't want you to be sad her legacy lives through her beautiful children. Celebrate her wonderful life ❤❤🙏🙏 may she rest in peace

    • @itsevangaming6691
      @itsevangaming6691 3 года назад

      God bless you and your sister. NEVER keep emotions to yourself.

    • @sethgamesandmorehedleyh3049
      @sethgamesandmorehedleyh3049 2 года назад

      I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @MollyMargolisBillCipherIsBae
    @MollyMargolisBillCipherIsBae 8 лет назад +354

    My cat passed away today. He was like a brother to me and I could never replace him. I miss him so much.

    • @datboi849
      @datboi849 8 лет назад +15

      My cat is like a younger sibling too. I couldn't imagine loosing her, and I can't even imagine how much pain you're in. Stay strong and remember: Things will get better.

    • @snoozerelli
      @snoozerelli 8 лет назад +21

      My cat died as well. Yesterday. It hurts so much because I wasn't able to take him back to the vet in time. I saw how much he suffered and can't stop blaming myself. I got to this video because I was looking for ways to stay strong. I hope things will get better for everyone experiencing this one day.

    • @YurikoKataoka
      @YurikoKataoka 8 лет назад +8

      Molly Margolis We are going to let my grandpa fall in sleep today.. He will never be awake anymore.. I don't want this..

    • @chocksc6356
      @chocksc6356 8 лет назад +5

      mine aswell i cant stop crying😭😭

    • @bugwatrix
      @bugwatrix 8 лет назад +6

      chock sc my cat died yesterday she was hit by a car rn am currently crying we'll holding here collar

  • @chongjenni9595
    @chongjenni9595 3 года назад +10

    My 6 weeks black kitten, Shadow died yesterday(9th of April, 2021) and I miss him so much. Still crying more than I thought I would but I'm happy that he doesn't have to suffer anymore. Shadow, may you go to a better place and bless us the power and courage to get through this heartbreaking grieving process. We will always miss you and love you as you're still our kitten. Rest in peace.

  • @kmtokyi5323
    @kmtokyi5323 4 года назад +198

    Lost my dog today , I can’t imagine what it feels like to lose a person because this hurts so much , he was family , but he fought for his life , I’m so proud of my boy , my best friend ❤️

    • @moe504_
      @moe504_ 3 года назад +1

      :( mine was such a good boy I had to get rid of him since my parents said so and I let him off In a rich neighborhood hoping he finds a better owner then my sorry ass, I came back 2 min later to the same street to get him since I regretted leaving him and I found him laying on the floor ran over

    • @thatrandomdoodler.5606
      @thatrandomdoodler.5606 3 года назад +4

      I understand your pain I lost the most important thing in my life to me, my cat she was my best friend.

    • @kmtokyi5323
      @kmtokyi5323 3 года назад +1

      @@moe504_ I’m so sorry, you tried to do what was best, I hope your alright and I wish happiness for you, they crossed the rainbow bridge :)

    • @kmtokyi5323
      @kmtokyi5323 3 года назад

      @@thatrandomdoodler.5606 i have 2 cats and I can’t imagine losing one of them, I’m so sorry for your loss, I wish so much happiness for you, they’ve crossed the rainbow bridge :)

    • @PoeLemic
      @PoeLemic 3 года назад +4

      @@kmtokyi5323 Sorry about the loss of your dog. I too lost my beloved pet in Sept-2021. It's been hard since then. For me, it was out-of-the-blue, and Vet said that it was serious and nothing could be done. I only wish that I had more time. She was a really, really great dog. Every day is a struggle for me / us right now. So, I know how you feel about losing your pupper. You are not alone.

  • @kokichiouma4789
    @kokichiouma4789 4 года назад +31

    i lost my grandma over a year ago, and i’ve cried about her every week since. i feel so helpless. she made me feel accepted and safe in a way that no other family member has. i miss her. she was the best person in my life. i love you, grandma. i wish you could have seen me grow up. i wish you could see me figure out myself. maybe i could have re-introduce myself. i’m not your little granddaughter. i’m your grandson. thank you for caring about me, grandma. i love you.

    • @angel-ju6du
      @angel-ju6du 3 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry. I just lost my grandma this morning. Sending prayers to you and your family

  • @cxra6804
    @cxra6804 6 лет назад +104

    My mum died today, she had cancer and she was only 45. I miss her so much already and I don't know how to cope. She was understanding, beautiful, smart kind, wonderful and many other great traits. I just burst into tears when I think about her. I just regret not being next to her when she died to comfort her. I was in Dorothy House and she couldn't speak or blink but she was breathing, due to her medication, then me and some of my other family members went on the tiniest walk while the nurse was looking after her for 5 minutes, when we came back she wasn't breathing. I started saying her name countless times, but she wouldn't wake up. I cried for hours, I just couldn't bring myself to the fact at 12 years old I wouldn't have my wonderful mum anymore...I don't know how to cope, I think I'm depressed...On the last birthday she had, me and her had an argument, she went to a restaurant with me, not my dad (They were not getting on well at all) I just wish I hadn't argued with her, I feel like it was all my fault..maybe if I had stayed to comfort her she could've lasted a little bit longer and I could've told her everything I wanted to say before she died. I wish she could've told everyone she loved them, even though I know she does...I just wished she could be right here with me now, cuddled up beside me...Telling me how much she loved me...I thought she was gonna get through it...But I guess cancer is a horrible thing...Evie x

    • @solracrazalas3397
      @solracrazalas3397 6 лет назад +4

      I got a similar experience so I teared up from your story.

    • @lisettesandoval7312
      @lisettesandoval7312 6 лет назад +2

      Cxra So so sorry for your loss.

    • @kamalomar358
      @kamalomar358 6 лет назад

      Cxra mk

    • @irisplant1312
      @irisplant1312 6 лет назад

      I’m so sorry. That’s horrible

    • @MokraKrastavica
      @MokraKrastavica 6 лет назад

      I'm so sorry bro. I lost a family member by cancer too a few days ago and i know how you feel. Please stay stong for me even though it's hard. Push through this and never give up my guy!✊❤

  • @salty8704
    @salty8704 2 года назад +45

    Lost a huge role model and I’m trying to cope but I feel so miserable. So many amazing memories. ❤. I don’t know what to do.

    • @Leechlordfestus
      @Leechlordfestus 2 года назад +9

      Technoblade? Me too bud

    • @zxergsfjkdhu
      @zxergsfjkdhu 2 года назад

      @@Leechlordfestus get technoblades racist ass out of here, this guys probably talking about his dad

  • @cruz6000
    @cruz6000 5 лет назад +49

    My best friend committed suicide a month ago. He was my first friend in high school. I hung out with him everyday and I could actually talk to him. He seemed so happy and he always wanted the best for others. Him and I were going to join the Marine Corps together. Rest easy Fabian

    • @pingunootnoot1165
      @pingunootnoot1165 4 года назад +2

      I don't wanna be rude or something but why did he kill himself? R.I.P to your friend.

    • @phoebe5861
      @phoebe5861 4 года назад +1

      pingu NOOT NOOT he probs was sad

    • @caketin4216
      @caketin4216 4 года назад +1

      pingu NOOT NOOT people always hide how there feeling he probably got overWhelmed

    • @StasisXman
      @StasisXman 4 года назад +1

      pingu NOOT NOOT why

  • @travftp
    @travftp 5 лет назад +291

    Rest easy grandma I miss you, you were everything to me, I hope you are in a better place now. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @soccermaster6165
      @soccermaster6165 4 года назад +14

      My beautiful grandma passed away in October 2019, she loved me so much, and every night I cry for her to come back and hug me.

    • @mirrr5467
      @mirrr5467 4 года назад +6

      Soccer Master mine too bro Ik exactly how u feel, I miss her too much , just stay strong man you got this

    • @soccermaster6165
      @soccermaster6165 4 года назад +4

      Amir Foy Smith Thx man!

    • @alcisgoodforu
      @alcisgoodforu 4 года назад +2

      Soccer Master me too

    • @manny2640A
      @manny2640A 4 года назад +7

      Mine passed away yesterday I cant stop crying...

  • @abigail-tq4md
    @abigail-tq4md 4 года назад +75

    My dad passed away a month and a half ago. I cry almost every night because I keep reliving all the memories I have of him. It hurts so much and I feel so alone. It feels like I can't talk about it with any of my friends because I'll bring down the mood. I just miss him so much and I can't believe I have to live the rest of my life without him.

    • @David3
      @David3 3 года назад +3

      Mine passed away 3 weeks ago. I am 17 years old, he won't even get to watch me graduate high school... 😢

    • @meeladsamadi
      @meeladsamadi 3 года назад +3

      @@David3 its ok bro, he's gonna be watching you graduate from heaven. ❤️ stay strong brother

    • @hiletodell5929
      @hiletodell5929 3 года назад

      mine passed a few days ago

    • @meeladsamadi
      @meeladsamadi 3 года назад +2

      @@hiletodell5929 I'm sorry to hear that sweet heart, god bless him

    • @premasankaran5250
      @premasankaran5250 2 года назад

      I lost my father last year to covid. I still feel the same way as you have described. I still miss him so much and can't believe I'll never get to see him again and that he won't be around for my wedding whenever it happens! Love you so much dad!

  • @spencerprescott9814
    @spencerprescott9814 Месяц назад +1

    Just lost my mom this morning at 23 years old and thank you for this video it really does help and knowing others have been in my position is comforting to know. To those who lost a loved one I wish you the best in your journey to healing.

  • @cnkilts
    @cnkilts 6 лет назад +86

    I am dealing with alot of guilt and grief right now. My disabled brother passed away two weeks ago. I was his guardian, and have taken care of him since we were kids. My brother was getting pneumonia from swallowing his food, so I agreed to let him get a feeding tube surgery. That surgery don't go well and we spent two months in the hospital trying to fix it before he died from dead bowels. I was staying with him in his room the night the nurse found him bleeding to death. His face looked at me peacefully but I was terrified. My brother was a gift from God and the light of my family'slife. I feel so guilty that I signed off that stupid surgery. The hole that I feel in my heart and my life is almost unbearable and I don't really know how to handle it. I missed him so much.

    • @chefhuncho2048
      @chefhuncho2048 6 лет назад +14

      Chris Kilts you loved him and you did the thing you thought would be good for him. Thats all that matters. The fact that he looked peacefull shows he knew that you loved him and instead of blaming yourself,you should be proud that you did all in your power to help and care for him. I bet he will protect you now just as you did for him.

    • @orlansmith6230
      @orlansmith6230 6 лет назад +1

      Chris Kilts
      R.I.P ❤

    • @evelynduran1699
      @evelynduran1699 6 лет назад +3

      Chris Kilts Don't feel guilty!!! You should feel proud of yourself for trying to make your brother feel better. You said he was getting pneumonia from swallowing food so that was the only choice. You were a caring brother. Also in his last moments he was looking at you peacefully and even though he wasn't going to make it, I think he wanted to let you know that he loves you and that it's not your fault.

    • @MokraKrastavica
      @MokraKrastavica 6 лет назад +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can go through this moment and even though it will leave a scar in your heart it will make you stronger. Keep your head up brother, and don't let life bring you down!❤

    • @godzillafart6531
      @godzillafart6531 6 лет назад +2

      Please do not feel guilty, and it was not your problem and fault. You just wanted to put a tube for him to consume food. You DID NOT choose to KILL him. It is never your problem.

  • @gfbumble
    @gfbumble 4 года назад +139

    Lost my 18 year old dog. He was my best friend and hope you’re on the other side waiting with all the other pets. Healthy, playing and running free from pain. I miss you Munchkin. ☹️

    • @Anna-ql9gl
      @Anna-ql9gl 4 года назад +12

      I'm truly sorry for your loss. I just lost my 19 yo pup. She was also my best friend. I'm heartbroken.

    • @gfbumble
      @gfbumble 4 года назад +5

      Anna I’m so sorry to you as well.

    • @emlmm88
      @emlmm88 4 года назад +7

      I just lost my 16 year old dog three days ago. This is quite difficult.

    • @wilwiklm
      @wilwiklm 4 года назад +7

      Well he has a new friend to play with now. My dog at the age of 16 was put down this Monday. I loved that dog more than myself and I’ll never be the same. But I’m glad to know that she can have someone to play with now that I can’t. Sending love and support your way, munchkin and Macie will be forever missed ❤️

    • @oxkroggzzs8407
      @oxkroggzzs8407 4 года назад +6

      I lost my cat today...

  • @deloresquattlebaum7306
    @deloresquattlebaum7306 3 года назад +82

    I just lost my dad, right before my 18th birthday. almost 18 years ago, I lay in the NICU, clinging onto life by a mere thread. My dad stood next to my incubator, watching me. through the many tubes and wires hooked up all over my body, I grabbed onto his pinkie with my tiny hand. He was there for me. Now I have no one. I just feel so terribly alone.

    • @KaoDragon
      @KaoDragon 3 года назад

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @giahuy7332
    @giahuy7332 Год назад +1

    I lost my cat 2 weeks ago by an accident and I'm still devastated. I see him everywhere. He was an innocent and free soul. The thought of me wasn't there for him in his last moment shatters my heart to pieces. Not a single day goes by that I don't wish for time to go back. I could die for him if I could. I wish I could see and hold him one last time, to tell him how much I love him. I love you so much Bodhi, wherever you are, I'll see you again.

  • @superduper5494
    @superduper5494 5 лет назад +110

    when i lost my grandmothers in the span of a month i felt like everyone in my family or everyone i love in general could’ve died any day and i was so scared of death, i felt like everything in my life was fragile and could be swept away the next day and there would’ve been no way of stopping it, if you’re feeling like this, you’ll find hope again, you may feel like “wow i’ve been living in lies and dreams all along and this is real life, everything is bad and everything good will turn bad” but it’s not like that, you’re meant to be happy, you’re meant to find peace and calm in your everyday life, the pain of losing someone will last but the fear and the horrible thoughts that come with it will go away, and dealing with your loss will be easier day after day. i hope this helped someone ❤️

    • @chrissywangui3909
      @chrissywangui3909 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you for this, exactly what I have been feeling after the loss of two family members at the same month. Am so terrified of life I don't know how to deal with it.

    • @JoelManrique
      @JoelManrique 5 лет назад

      Yeah relationship matters...I've lost my four-year old daughter.

    • @JoelManrique
      @JoelManrique 5 лет назад

      @@chrissywangui3909 this might help you
      ruclips.net/video/X21DqbHScvg/видео.html

    • @katiespark7271
      @katiespark7271 5 лет назад

      I just lost my nana and now my grandma died today and Idk what to do. I’m so scared and I feel like I’m gonna die

    • @JoelManrique
      @JoelManrique 5 лет назад

      @@katiespark7271 hang in there Katie...take it one day at a time...I lost my daughter and I hope this helps you.
      ruclips.net/video/_v5xgLa6IHg/видео.html

  • @celestinemain4941
    @celestinemain4941 4 года назад +89

    Reading these comments really let me know that this happens to people all over and I’m not alone .... I recently lost my dad August 5th 2020 due to an unexpected severe stroke his blood vessel popped in his head and was pronounced brain dead. There was never a goodbye or heads up I just woke up and boom . It feels so good to get this out and see I am not the only one loosing a loved one close to you is hard . May my father and everyone’s loved ones Rest In Peace ❤️🌹🌹❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽(.)

    • @petergaffney2992
      @petergaffney2992 3 года назад +3

      same deal for me. woke up today to learn my really close uncle and cousin were killed in a house fire. praying for you

    • @Devilsslettuce
      @Devilsslettuce 3 года назад +2

      My father passed august 5th 2011. We aren’t alone

    • @meeladsamadi
      @meeladsamadi 3 года назад +2

      god bless all of your loved ones ❤️

    • @itsevangaming6691
      @itsevangaming6691 3 года назад +1

      God Bless you.

    • @hannahdickson8492
      @hannahdickson8492 3 года назад +1

      My mom just recently passed on 12/31/21. She was as well pronounced brain dead, after having a brain aneurysm, in the hospital after 3 days of being there. It was a big smack in the face, and a slow burn. I lost my father 9 years ago and am still grieving his loss. I think what gets me is the big milestone I won’t see them at, but they’ll still be there. After grieving him for 9 years I’ve learned some thing but now that my mom is gone it’s hard to teach myself the same things again. But like you said, knowing that there are so many other people in the same position makes you feel like you can get through it and you can. Much love 💕

  • @Jessica-pz1lx
    @Jessica-pz1lx 6 лет назад +225

    My bestie passed away from an ATV accident over her vacation, she was only 12. 💔11/11/05-9/10/18💔

    • @andreduran645
      @andreduran645 5 лет назад +1

      Jessie _bvby sorry for your lost

    • @kristinonline4647
      @kristinonline4647 5 лет назад

      Only 12? Wow, I'm so sorry.

    • @highflyingknowledge5659
      @highflyingknowledge5659 5 лет назад

      I am so sorry

    • @kristinonline4647
      @kristinonline4647 5 лет назад +1

      @Skullz she did get the dates right, you need to remember that this happened 10 months ago.

    • @mayam2479
      @mayam2479 5 лет назад

      Bless you, baby. I'm sorry you've experienced this so young. Sending love and prayers your way. Stay strong, young one. Your bestie would want that for you.

  • @kindledpassion3397
    @kindledpassion3397 Год назад +4

    I just lost my mom yesterday, reading the comments and seeing the video is a start. Thank you, all of you.

  • @xtgobox3088
    @xtgobox3088 4 года назад +77

    I lost my dad 4 months ago. I’m only 16 it hurts. 10-3-19💛

    • @mteumemes8358
      @mteumemes8358 4 года назад +1

      I lost my dad too yesterday, he went swimming and didnt come back.. Still waiting to hear what actually happened. Im only 17, he didn't get to see me turn 18.. I miss you dad... Also stay strong guys.. Lets get through this together

    • @Tuna_fishgirl
      @Tuna_fishgirl 4 года назад

      ❤️💕

    • @krishparwani5117
      @krishparwani5117 4 года назад

      I lost my dad due to covid today and I can't stop thinking abt him. I fuckin miss him a lot. I am 16 yrs old.

  • @MagnCheese
    @MagnCheese 5 лет назад +87

    I lost my dad almost 3 years ago. I still feel like I should have noticed him slipping. He called me his "little genius," but what kind of genius lets their father die?
    10/23/16

    • @leeroy9713
      @leeroy9713 5 лет назад +10

      it’s not your fault. keep your head up.

    • @Lana_x00
      @Lana_x00 5 лет назад +6

      it was not your decision, so its not you who is to blame. nobody is.

    • @JoelManrique
      @JoelManrique 5 лет назад +2

      It's not your fault my friend ..I lost my four-year old daughter...I blame myself but I know it doesn't do any good.
      ruclips.net/video/X21DqbHScvg/видео.html

    • @Nefdan
      @Nefdan 4 года назад +7

      I too lost my beloved father two months ago and I cry every day. I just miss his lovely smile and face and It just seems so unfair that he's gone. I did everything I could, saw his health go down, heard him say to me that he loves me so much, because he knew he was going to die. . I couldn't say many things, only that I love him. I feel so sad I can barely function some days, other days are better. But the whole pain of losing him feels very often unbearable. I love him so much. I just feel like I carry him in my heart and that's the only way I can go on.. and feel my pain a bit relieved.

    • @JoelManrique
      @JoelManrique 4 года назад +2

      @@Nefdan my heart grieves with you. You are very fresh on this grief journey and you are holding a lot...I'm 17 months into the loss of my daughter...I hope this helps.
      ruclips.net/video/_v5xgLa6IHg/видео.html

  • @laurenmarie7160
    @laurenmarie7160 4 года назад +58

    I’ve lost two friends to suicide in the last 5 months. Every so often I feel like I can’t breathe when I think about it and this is one of those times.

  • @Rengga-pb7gx
    @Rengga-pb7gx 3 года назад +12

    my Dad passed away just a week ago.. i never knew that loss of loved ones can be this much of hurt.. i still feel his presence around me..... our life completely changed more than i can imagine before

    • @NoxForest
      @NoxForest 3 года назад +1

      I lost my dad around the same time too. I know how you feel. Stay strong.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 2 года назад

      @@NoxForest I hope my best friend's story helps you find true peace.
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html

  • @missingmygrandma3489
    @missingmygrandma3489 5 лет назад +171

    I lost My Grandma 😢 and I love my Grandma so
    much I did not want her to leave 😢 I Miss My Grandma Everyday 😢 this do not seem real this is like a Dream 😢

    • @ДмитрийДровокол
      @ДмитрийДровокол 5 лет назад +5

      I know what it feels like, it feels like that our lost loved ones are still here with us even though they're gone. But what if this is a sign telling us that they really are still here, in our hearts and minds and perhaps in a better place.

    • @dreamingforever802
      @dreamingforever802 5 лет назад +4

      I lost my Grandma yesterday. I know how it feels- my grandma was only 73 and she died of cancer, but it really feels like she's still here. Yeah- it feels all like a bad dream. Except I'll never awake from it.

    • @kayleyjames2309
      @kayleyjames2309 5 лет назад +3

      Missing My Grandma my nan is going to die in obout a week from cancer and it’s so annoying I think it’s a dream what did you do

    • @josephj.155
      @josephj.155 5 лет назад

      Kayley James today is the day... god bless your grandma

    • @trudierichards9895
      @trudierichards9895 5 лет назад

      Me too

  • @x-vixim-x
    @x-vixim-x 5 лет назад +51

    my dad died of cancer on the 29/12/2019.
    yesterday i went to his funeral.
    it was hands down the hardest thing i will ever have to do but i know it will get better.
    for everyone else who is here,i hope that your loved ones rest in peace and i am so sorry for your loss,
    but it will get better,even if it doesn't seem that way
    ❤R.I.P Dad❤

    • @Sophie-qe3lt
      @Sophie-qe3lt 4 года назад

      my dad died exactly 2 years ago. i miss him so much and just wish he didn't have to go so soon :,( i hope you're doing okay and are coping, in most moments I'm better, it's only when I'm alone at night. you're not alone, stay strong!

    • @hope48
      @hope48 4 года назад +1

      no one here is dead yet but i keep having bad anxiety about them passing cause of how old my parents are. they’ve had issues and mental health issues i’m worried my mom will suddenly pass away or go into cardiac arrest or my dad might die at work

    • @Ingrid_11Sa
      @Ingrid_11Sa 4 года назад

      hey its_meh my mom also died from cancer on the 29 December, but in 2018🥺 Rest in peace to your dad and my mom ~ and all other people who has passed💖😔I hope we all will find a way to heal someday🌟

  • @retterisaac8229
    @retterisaac8229 6 лет назад +47

    I just lost my mom to a heroin overdose (2 days ago) and it's so hard but ik that she is still there for me. And i already didnt have a father so i live my my grandparents. To all who lost a loved one stay strong you'll get through it💓

    • @versesquared4945
      @versesquared4945 6 лет назад

      Heroin is love 🖤 home made oxytocin the bonding hormone therapy

    • @f.b.i9512
      @f.b.i9512 6 лет назад

      Ghosts Can't Eat Cake I lost my step dad 3 days ago but he overdosed on pain killer and he had about 400 and I just can’t get over it

  • @creekstones6959
    @creekstones6959 3 года назад +11

    I lost my grandfather on Friday (November 26th). I’m having a hard time still accepting that it’s real. My family is pretty small and we keep to ourselves (jsut my parents and my sister pretty much) so my grandpa would be on the phone with my parents almost 3 times a day. He couldn’t leave his retirement home very much so we’d always face time him and send him photos of wherever we travel. It’s hard without him here and now it just feels empty. My sister and I would even drive him to church on Sunday’s lately and I just wish I could’ve talked to him more and appreciated that time more. I was so worried about myself most of the time that I forgot to just appreciate others. I know I can’t change the past I just wish we all could’ve talked to him one last time before he went. Though I know he’s up in Heaven with my grandma. I’m praying for all those in here who are experiencing grief. I’ve never felt it like this, it’s like everything I look at reminds me of him and just makes me cry. I know he’s happier now but I really miss him and just want him to spend one more day with my family.

  • @TheDinosphere
    @TheDinosphere 4 года назад +56

    My cat passed away almost two months ago. He was the closest person to me, my best friend since I was 11.. for more than 9 years he was always by my side. I always went to him whenever I was feeling down. He made me feel loved and accepted. Now he’s gone and I can’t seem to be able to move on. I still cry myself to sleep sometimes and I feel so guilty for not being with him in his final hours. He was sick and we left him in the hospital. I was going to visit him in the morning but he passed away before I could. I feel so guilty and I miss him so much.
    I left him alone in his final hours and I will never ever be able to forgive myself for that. A part of me doesn’t even want to move on because I don’t want to ever forget him, and because I don’t deserve to. I’m just waiting for the day it all ends so I can meet him again.
    I’m scared of opening up to my friends and family because if they mock me for it or try to belittle the situation by saying something like it was just a cat or just get another one, Idk how I’d react. I just wish I could’ve seen him one last time, that I could’ve said goodbye. Everything reminds me of him and my heart hurts so much all the time.
    My birthday is coming up in a couple weeks, the first one I’d spend without him in a decade.. I’m dreading it so much already. But I still have to act happy because I don’t want others to know I’m still grieving.
    Sorry for the word vomit, I just needed to let it out somehow.

    • @Wendyj55
      @Wendyj55 4 года назад +2

      I get it. Please consider some talking therapy. Your relationship with your companion was, and always will be, significant

    • @bhaweshthapa4672
      @bhaweshthapa4672 3 года назад +2

      If you don't mind, can you tell me what your age is? Young kids get attached more. Elders can somehow forget emotions thanks to worldly deviations.
      I was a child when I had a dog 🐕. He was with me from when I was around 4, he died when I was around 15. I am 28 now. To this day, I remember him. Though not always, he comes in my mind regularly.

    • @thatrandomdoodler.5606
      @thatrandomdoodler.5606 3 года назад +3

      My cat died recently so I understand, she was.. my coping mechanism, she helped me get through everything.

  • @xmynationalanthemx
    @xmynationalanthemx 4 года назад +42

    Here for my sweet angel of a grandmother, who touched my heart more deeply than anyone else has in the entirety of my whole life. She passed away on 2/3/18 from pancreatic cancer. I miss her every day.

    • @nicolepreston6497
      @nicolepreston6497 3 года назад +2

      I understand ❤️😭 my G’ma was my very best friend, she has dementia her last 7 years of her life, it was always her biggest fear so i can’t understand why someone that good could have that happen, I didn’t get to see her for 10 months due to COVID, then I got to see her, 2 weeks later, yesterday, she went to heaven, very few understand the relationship I had w my G’ma, I would say we are the lucky ones to have such special relationships w our G’mas. It’s so rare I guess your only the second person I’ve heard of that felt like me. How are you doing now ?

    • @kennethl7429
      @kennethl7429 3 года назад

      My grandma has pancreatic cancer and only has a few more days to live 😞