I just lost my mother today... I don't know how to deal with it.l had a strong connection with my mother and the void left by her is unexplainable. Hope she gets peace and love wherever she is... This video is very helpful
Mary, You will want to take the lessons from SRF Mother Center, Mount Washington, CA., then apply after 6 months for 'Kriya' meditation technique, the Kriya practice will take you to the higher state of meditation awareness (awakening). Please read Autobiography of a Yogi, by Paramahansa Yogananda, chapter 26 The Science of Kriya Yoga.
I'm 28 years now, I lost my Mother when I was 8 then my Father when I was 12 , I never enjoyed my childhood the way I was supposed to. Their loss only made me stronger because I chose to take it in a positive way. I Thank God everyday to be with me since day one ☄️🙏🏽 Pray for me.
Lost my mom 4 days ago on 21st January. She was suffering from advanced colon cancer throughout the last year and inspite of getting treatment she couldn't make it and passed away at an age of 46. Maa, may your soul rest in peace and please give me strength so that I can fulfill your dream by becoming a good doctor. Thanks mom for everything and I promise I will make you proud in future. - yours babai / Aaishik
Hi, you are not alone. My mom passed away on the 19th of January 2023, due to stage four pancreatic cancer. She has been fighting for it for the whole of 2022 with the family. I believe both of us will have extremely wonderful lives and futures. I always believe Mom is blessing me and I will make her so proud. I hope you can stay strong. ❤
18/05/2023 2:17PM -This is my worst moment of my life My grandfather passed away this time And can’t stop my tears till now 😭 I have to achieve air 1 in gate cse For them and then i will donate maximum (as much as possible) to vriddhashram I know he will get heaven and he will become king of heaven God bless you Miss you Aajoba …love you forever ❤
My son was murdered in September at the young age of 21. Today now my older sister died. The pain is unbearable. I never ever thought this would be my life and how i would end up. Please keep me and my family in your prayers.
The older I grow the more I value my parents...I feel like this means it will be harder to deal with loosing them because they are more and more precious as I grow
Spen as much time with them as you can go places if possible , my most regret was not spending more time with them , I was to busy with work , my kids - I regret not including them more often, it will be easier to heal knowing the good memories that were made before they pass
Tracy Haupt I feel all these comments on way or another but this one really HIT ME DIFFERENTLY/HOME because I feel the EXACT SAME WAY those very same words you used is how I felt,feel ,I wrote about ,and ALSO I know THAT’s THE SAME FEELING,THOUGHT,REAITY THAT I KEEP COMING BAK TO .It was meant for This but I’m getting emotional just talking/writing about it and yes the only feeling that can get me outta my body do yea Good luck and HOLLA BACK IF YOU WANT MY INFO AND IM NOT NO WEIRD OR LAME AZZ PERSON NEITHER BUT THE WEAK AND THE STONGEST OF THE STRONGEST NEED SOMEBODY THAT can feel them st8 up you know you my name is JAMIE
I am 56 and lost my dad 3yrs ago. I have never been the same. I am still grieving and don’t think that will ever end. My mom is 85 with dementia. Life has gotten hard and I long for the days when everything was “normal”. What I wouldn’t give to be back in the 80s again when life was fun. 😓😓😓😓
I feel the same, I want to go back in times in the 80’s and have the normal life with mum again, hug her more and tell her how much I loved her. My mum passed in June 2022 unexpectedly. I am totally heartbroken.
I lost 2 brothers who were murdered in 2008 . I lost a mother 2018. I lost so m any p eople who died over the years . My mother hat Ed me . I lost people , places and things and my man t beloved dogs and cats. I am a SURVUVOR. I AM 80 yrs. old, now . There are SO VERY MANY FORMS OF GRIEFS, which the SANHGURA , DID NOT SPEAK ABOUT. I LIVE IN USA , AND DID TGE AMERICAN WAY, . I AM ITALIAN AND A WOMAN . GRIEFS CAN UNRAVEL A PERS’ life and life energy.
I lost my father 2 days ago. It’s so hard to process and believe. I’ve cried already so much my tears dried up. My heart hurts so bad. Rest In Peace dad. I love you so much. ❤️🙏
I lost my dad to suicide 2 years ago. I’m in my 20’s. Nearly every day I cry. I feel deeply for everyone who has lost a parent no matter what age or cause. A lump builds in my throat. My back of my heart feels unsupported and empty.
Chant the name of God intently for 2 hours daily. Everything will change in your life in a very short time. You will find support and your heart will no longer feel empty.
I lost both my parents during the pandemic. It feels like I can’t relate to anyone these days. I realized that I didn’t have the relationships and support I needed. I’m trying to build new ones. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽
I can fully understand I lost my mother two months ago and two weeks before that my boyfriend dumped me and best friend left me and I am going through this grief by myself. You don't need those people in your life you can be strong and go through it all by yourself and you are never alone God is always with us
I also lost both my parents during the pandemic. Keep moving forward, that is all you can do. Do not look to others, look within. You are strong enough to keep going.
I am 30 years old and lost my mom a few days ago, I feel like I will never be the same again. I am open to any prayers and love sent my way, especially for my brother and his children. I know my mom is with me always 💙🦋 she is showing me signs and that is making it easier
I said the same thing when my mom died last year and I stay close to people who also lost their parents especially their mom, they understand fully . My condolences to you . I know my mom is in heaven and can hear her on occasion . I will always miss her until I see her again .
Sorry for your loss. It's been 3 years since my mom transitioned and it seems like yesterday. I remember this feeling of torture inside me because I did not know where her energy was and could no longer physically see or feel her. I wish you much peace during this difficult time.
I lost my mother last year dear, wen I was 28 yr old, I can understand ur pain, no body can compensate loss of mother, bt we have to bear it, every body has to depart like this one day, nothing eternal on earth.
I lost my mother 1 year ago but remember her each day, sometimes I thought I die with my mother itself since it is very difficult to live without my mother,she was everything for me,she was my world
I lost my mom 8 days ago and it still feels like yesterday.. I pray I get past it. I don't know what else to do with my life . She was everything to me
My mother passed away in a car accident on 31st July and then father was hospitalized because of that accident he came home on 16th August and passed away in sleep on 18th August. Both my parents passed away in a span of 19 days and i am just 24 years old. I needed this video so much. Thanks Sadhguru.
I realized that I needed to release my mother. She was in a lot of pain. After she passed, I felt a physical, then an emotional and then a spiritual release. I had a vision of her dancing across galaxies to the music of the spheres. She was pain free and full of joy! I am at peace with her passing.
And remember life is eternal with gateways called birth and death. I have an inner knowing that some time in the eternal NOW I'll meet my loved ones again. Wish all who suffer much solace
To think that my parents won't be there someday is so scary. I'm 24 and an only child. My parents had me really late. They're in their 60s. To see them grow so old right before me whilst my best years are still to come, is heartbreaking. I wish for them to have a LONG and JOYFUL life ♥️🙏🏼
i feel the same when i saw my parents sleeping if many times scars me one day they may no more that's makes me motivated everyday by keep reminding myself 'kbhi yebhi nhi hoga'.
Hey bhumika I can understand what you are going through. I have the same situation I had my son at 34yrs old. He is my only child. It worries me what will happen when we are not there.
My father .. I wasn't there with him but that day I cried hopelessly , No one told me about him until a week later when I came back to see him .Last I saw him was before leaving . It didn't left any hole in me .It shattered me completely. The truth is I survived 5 heart attacks and am improving only because of your videos available on the internet . He resembled you completely .🙏
Whether you are below 21 or above 42 losing a parent or love one at any stage, can impact your physical body because it is connected to your heart and mind. Memories are stored for a lifetime, it's ok to be human and grieve...
I miss you dad. You left a huge hole in me when you passed... but I know that the hole you left is a reminder of the love and memories that I will forever cherish. The feelings of sadness are just moments of love that I will never get to give to you again. I hope that one day we will meet again. Until then I will carry this hole as a reminder of the person I was because of you. See you soon dad
Dealing with loss of parent is a crushing experience...I'm 30 years old, I've not been myself ever since my mom left us. The grief struck me physically, emotionally and mentally. I've not been able to focus on life as it is. I pray to God, to keep everyone's mom alive and well. So that they don't have to live with unresolved feelings and unfulfilled dreams. As many of you mentioned earlier, I do feel the resentment deeply towards God for not answering my prayers..not sure what to pray for anymore. Just being there for my dad n brother. But can't deny everyday thought does cross my mind that it should've been me not her..
You being here is no accident. Just make you mom proud by being the best person you can be. She is not gone, she is just absent. Losing a close loved one is like driving a nail into a post. You can remove the nail, but the hole remains. Fill that hole with love and you will be fine. I send much love to you❣️🥰
Just when I had started to do Good in life and wanted to do great things for my mother she left us all...I feel lost incomplete...please pray for her eternal happiness and salvation!! My mom my Superhero
I had the worst stomach ache like nothing before, like something was ripped out of me.. 4 hrs later i was told my father had died..will never forget, grieved for a long time, still brings tears 14 years later..i am a women aged 46 at the time..🙏
So sorry to hear that! May you find strength and light again in life and God bless you! Was it natural feeling you got just before your father's death?? And did u get that fear of his death before anytime or just on that day only?
rip to ur dear mom and dad my friend im 45 lost my mom last year the pain is real as she really suffered…💔 God BLESS The Dead r only wish is there in a better place now
My father kept chanting 'om namah shivay' till his last day. Have been trying to distract myself from past few months to overcome or forget the loss. Its not easy and I have accepted it. Anyone reading who has lost a parent or seen them in pain. lots of love and strength. may you heal soon and shine again :)
Sad to hear of your Mother’s passing. May God’s love and grace be always with you. I lost my mother due to COVID 10 days ago 😔😓💔 I know how your feeling
I lost my 93 year old Mother on 2/24/22. I lost my Father in 2008. I am an only child, and the pain I am feeling now at 64 is almost unbearable since I have no one close to share my experience and pain. I feel this video did help, and thank you.
I too lost my mother last month. I lost my father when I was 10. She was 97. I am 49 and had her with me for such a long time that I made up in my mind she would never go. But on 8/16/22 she took her last breath after suffering a stroke in May. She showed so many signs of getting better and has always been a healthy fighter that this took me by surprise. I cared for her until the end. I miss her intensely and with purpose. Life on this earth will never be the same without her
I lost my mother who was 83 last year 2021 my dad 6 years ago. I am not in my right frame of mind and getting sick quite often. I still cannot believe my mother is no more 💔
U lucky u got to have your parents that long. My mom died when I was 27 and my dad died when I was 37 and I'm an only child also. I wish my mom lived that long. That's a blessing
I have lost my husband at 39 years old and I have lost my baby son : Sadguru is rightfully precised with the intensity of suffering and the Runarabhandra attachment. I bow down to you my Guru.
@@bheenachoytooa1604 This is the reason why I've been training my daughter since 5 yr old. Whenever she says " I love u daddy", I reply back I "dharmic you" which means neither love nor hate. Runanabandha can be handled if ego is fixed. It is always mind over matter and shiva (consicousness) over mind (thoughts)
@@indianmilitary sir please reply. My age is 20years old. I lost my father in 2018. Is runanabandhana good or bad? Even today when I see my father's pic my eyes filled with tears. Even today I cry for him. Even today I am missing him so much. Each day My mother cries for him deeply. Also we are small family. We don't have much relatives.
Sadhguru my pet died few days ago, I took him when he was 10 days old, even he opened his eyes at our home. Going through enormous emotional pain, video is helpful to cope with the pian. For some he was just a 🐕 but one who has pet at home can understand my pain 😔
i lost mine doggy last year... my dear i understand your emotions in your level... my heart goes to with you... but be happy he s in a happy place.... they only go to heaven.. such beautiful souls they are
My father passed away last year and I cried the whole time watching this. I was in Texas and he was back home. Before I knew, I felt it... I loved him so much.
I lost my father before 18days. Worst pain I have felt in my 29years of life. Don't know how to handle this pain. I will nvr b the same person like before.
When I lost my father, I went into a big depression which led to alcoholism. I would get anxiety attacks, feeling like I couldn’t breathe. This loss made me go through a Dark Night of the Soul. He came “to visit” me in my dream explaining death & how death is not the end & we will see each other again. After this, I healed, went through a spiritual awakening & little by little I’m understanding the truth about life, about us. Yes, I miss my dad but that feeling of emptiness is no longer within
My father passed away when I was 7. And my mother passed on 3rd Dec 2020 and I am just 25. Losing parents at young age hurts too much, emotionally and physically.
You really brave and strong person and your parents blessings always be their with you forever I know it can tough but you can overcome this grief . Be strong 🙏
Dealing with grief is personal. It's been 3.5 years I have lost my father. I cry every single day, sometime to grief his absence, sometime to stay in the path he have paved for me. Overall grief is a way through which I speak to him. I will not loose it for the world. It is a reminder that all my other problems are just a speck.
And there are so many so many Yogis and Rishis, st this point of time too, who are there, they just do not come out, because they are happy realizing the absolute truth... if they start talking, the whole world will just shine...
I was 10 when my mom passed and I can tell you, it does hurt both physically and emotionally. Even if some memories of her are very vague, I still "feel" it.
Death is a process of life part of the cycle. Is not an easy process. My cousin passed away 8 months ago and It feels like he is still around . I feel his presence.
This tittle. I'm crying before I hear what's coming here. Nothing will ever console me. I lost both patents four years ago, then my younger brother couldn't cope, so he started telling me he was feeling suicidal. An extremely intelligent young guy who got distinctions thru college and university in Civil Engineering. Then he got a mental illnesses and died two years ago. I'm left with our last born girl. I'm on medication now for depression and anxiety, been in and out of hospitals, severe panic attack, fainting at work, etc. Agonizing life. And Sadhguru speaks so easily. Lucky him
My god 🙏 I can never say don't worry but u should cope up.... everything will be alright....ull be fine sir....god bless you...ur family will be blessing you....will be feeling so bad to leave you void.....ull be fine sometime.....just cope ip
I'm so sad for you I can't imagine the pain and sorrow you feel every day, try and do the best you can that's really all you can do. I wish you could start to heal 🙏
I lost my mom very suddenly in Aug 21. My mom was my first love. I miss her so much and thank her for being there for me. It’s never easy losing a loved one. It’s tough that they aren’t here physically, but they will always be here spiritually!!! I love you mommy!!!!
My greatest fear through life was losing my parents, when it did happen it wasn’t as bad as I imagined, it was worse. Nobody ever tells you about the vacuum created, the deep and powerful void which then exists after they go. You don’t ever get over it, but you do get used to it, the void starts to fill but never completely. So much pain and suffering is caused not by death itself, but our attempts to deny its existence.
Your parents brought you here, don’t be sad they are gone.. be grateful & know that this 3rd dimension is just that.. enjoy your avatar & know family are still with you.
A thought of losing my parents makes me shiver. I can never be prepared. That's why I don't like this life on earth. Being human cannot be the best thing. I should be a tree.
Human Well, please don’t let anxiety rule your thoughts.. it feeds from fear.. allow love to come in to your mind, heart.. let nature flow through you as it should. Death is a part of life.. Ying & Yang.. Please allow me to remind you that everything that is within this universe is also within you. So in effect .. as I am you & you are me; just experiencing this plain in a different way.. we are also that tree you wish to be..
I lost both my parents and life will never be the same again. To recover from the grief, I keep myself busy, mentally, physically and financially. I remember my parents with a smile, the happiness that they brought to my life. I enjoy being a recluse and hopefully I will start my journey to travel the World again. Love, respect and be kind to people and when they are gone they are gone for ever. Each day, create beautiful memories and live your life as if it is the last day on Earth. Parents always want happiness for their children, so start living your life and make them proud on the other side as soul never dies!
The pain of losing a parent suddenly is terrible.. it’s been a year since I lost my father but the pain I feel can never go away, it’s as though the pain is engraved in my bones & has changed something inside of me forever.. Sadhguru, we understand life is mortal but grief becomes so much a part of life.. please post some videos on how to cope with grief better, thanks
My grandfather died when I was 18 years old, I remember the next day I went to school and I didn't talk to anyone, I kept my self alone for about a week and tried to withdraw as much as I can, it may seemed strange, but at that time for me somehow it felt right. After watching this video now I know why it was the right thing to do and probably it was the thing that saved me. My grandfather was very close to me he was like a father to me, I learned a lot from him... He will always be a part of me.
I lost my mum November 8 - she passed the same date her own mother passed, i think she missed her terribly, as much as i miss my mum so terribly, i will reunite with them all one day, in spirit - until then i must continue the life they gave me, each and every one of my ancestors
I lost my dad 2 weeks ago😭 and I still can’t believe it! It’s like I’m dreaming.. hè was my best friend.. I loved him so much😔 he was my mentor in life .. I miss him so much .. I cry everynight papa jtm
My mother died because of heart attack.. She was only 40 yrs old 😭😭😭😭 i really miss her... Bhagwan acche logon ko hi utha le jata hain 😭😭 pls come back na mummy 😭😭😭😭
I felt it in my soul hours before my Mother passed away in 2002. It was so painful that I had to tell myself months later to pull myself together or else I would lose myself.
Stumbled upon this video and same here, lost dad at 6 and mum at 10. Their loss impacted in a greater length. Life was very hard cuz I felt no one understands me and I used to cry alot. Only God/Ambal is with me all along. I talk to her and thank her for each of my sadness and happiness. I'm in my forties and a mother of 4 kids now. I still miss my parents but but understand my role on this earth and mentally very strong. I thank Ambal for everything she's given to me and my sincere love/ prayers to all the children who lost their parents at very young age. There's is always a hope and light in the darkness. Wishes🌹🙏
Loved one who suffers badly and dies before time, such death leaves a big hole rather than someone who dies of old age. Suffering of loved one gives excruciating pain.
My mother passed away 2 days ago. I feel like I’m too young to be dealing with this. She was my and my brother’s only emotional support. I am open to any prayers that come towards my mother’s soul and especially my brother and father. I can never get over my love for her. Love never dies. I love you mumma
@@mv45654 hi, i hope you find some light in life again and i can imagine this never-ending pain and i can understand it naturally feels suicidal in this situation but try to live life for your dad and brother or sister and your mother would be very proud of u from heaven. Please don't take any wrong step bcoz think of your father or brother and always keep your mother in heart! May God bless u!
My aunt passed away yesterday.We had a very close relationship such that she was really more than my mother to me and because she understood the disconnect between my mother and I she always took that extra care with me.She really loved me tenderly .I called her weekly and she would be so happy and told me how special I was to her and that I was different and always made her feel.special.She sufferd a stroke and I 2018 she visited and we spent quality time I would take her everywhere in her wheelchair she had so much fun as I did.I travelled 1000km to visit her in 2019 I slept with her in the same bed ,gave her massages ,pedicures and manicures.She was just super special to me.I feel ok about her passing I'm actually so happy for her.She wanted to give up on life and I get that she had too much suffering but she tried to keep up her spirits.I remember when I pushed her in her wheelchair on the pier she was breathing in the air and she said oh they never take her out sometimes I think they are embarrassed of me
I lost my father 5 months ago. Before taking him to the hospital, I was crying and forcing myself to pray for his recovery but no prayer was coming out of me. Probably my soul knew. I suffered from insomnia and depression. It was also a time when I felt a disconnect from God and then spiritual awakening followed. My father's death spiritually changed me.
I’m sorry for your loss😢. I just lost my parents within 6 months of each other this year. It devastated me. Lots happened at that time and I fell apart. However, the crisis brought me to a profound spiritual awakening. I miss them horribly but they have both come to me in different ways. They are always with us. I’m working on filling up the space they left behind. Love and light to you, 🙏💕
@@karen.island3697 thank you for sharing it with me. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what a grief it must be to lose both parents in such a short time. I wish you find peace and happiness in your life. The most I can say is that you can count on me if you feel like talking to anyone. Stay blessed! 🙂
I lost my grandparents 8 months apart both from lung cancer when I was 23. They raised me. My grandma was basically my mom my grandpa a second father. I took care of them full time and was always super close to them from the day I was born. That physical pain you feel is unbearable and indescribable. I’m 26 now and there are days when the grief will pop up as the day when they died and I will feel that pain. I miss them daily. I think I will always at some points feel that pain as the grief pops up over the rest of my life. It will probably lessen, but never completely stop. I just love them so much. Just because they’re gone doesn’t mean my love for them is. They were the greatest blessing in my life. You don’t find people like them anymore.
@@halfgeorgian6886 I lost my grandmother as well at 101 this year. She died so peacefully with my family around her and is buried with her husband, my grandpa. I feel you both on this. The grief never stops. We don't move on from it. We just move forward in this life with the memory of their love to sustain us. My condolences for your loss.
so true. And I would disagree with Sadhguru completely on a few things... one of them being distractions. It's ok to distract yourself for a short while and have family and friends do stuff for you. We need to know that this is temporary and ultimately we will have to sit with ourselves alone and deal with our pain, but I also think it's ok to use crutches here and there as we get through what is one of the worst possible things to happen to us emotionally. Give yourself the space to not do all the right things, call on friends and neighbours if you need.
Understanding this prepares us from becoming devasted by the loss. We cannot prevent the loss. But we can prepare our mind for the loss and remain balanced.
I have pain of my father dyingit still haunts me as I'm divorsed and my mom and my family went through a hit even my grandma last year ,Pray for my strength and I became weak lost weight and no hopes I felt than God looking aftere me every I meet is a cheater and has bad intentions , in a toxic family system ..but parents are different than husband or wife..their love is next to God
@@drgoodwell1082 you will get through. Time heals everything. I know the pain as i lost my mother recently. It keeps haunting for few weeks or upto 2 months and grief kicks in. Slowly we accept and that memory starts to fade away. Just realize even we have our clocks ticking, thats how it works. Accept the reality and plan to use your time that is left to you for yourself. You will get through. Stay strong.
This brought me to tears, and I guess it just reminds me that my ill mother of 79 is doing poorly, and she was my biggest connection. I am 52 and I even understand it is already her time, and have come to terms with that. I know she will be in a better place and won't be in the pain she is now. I have told myself to be strong but I think when that time comes, I wont be. Sadhguru, I have learned many things from your videos but this one has touched me the most. Peace to you.
Scott do give her healing, that is life giving energy and can resume life in the body in many ways and can extend life as well, if you are interested that is.
I lost my mom at 23...15yrs later that hole and pain feels like it was yesterday😔😔😔 and these last 15 yrs my health physically and mentally has been nothing short of horrific.. THANK YOU for this video🙏🙏🙏
yes agree - was a single parent for 33years, then sudden death, i kissed the forehead of my son in a casket. We were extremely close as it was always very close to the end as a result of being a only parent. NO WORDS CAN DESCRIBE ..........2 Years in bed in isolation and 1 year of trying to find strength and courage to work and rebuilding my "life" still working on it. NAMASTE
My father passed away when I was 16.. now 55 .. still coping up .. all fine when people around , when alone tough , even now .. I understand your pain ..
My mum passed at Christmas, I have felt her around a lot. This month on my birthday, I awoke and started thinking about what I was going to do that day,I had taken the day off, don't usually take it off, and as if she was at my bedside she said "happy birthday darling " she is always there if I need her 💗
I lost my mother suddenly and unexpectedly to pancreatic cancer last year. The gaping hole it has left in my heart feels irreparable. She was a caregiver to many for over 40 years. 😭 Praying for you all as well.
I lost my mother and grandmother 25 yrs ago, 2 months apart. Extremely difficult. I was 21 yrs old. A day does not go by where I don't think about them and is still very heavy. Anyone going through this, it will become manageable and you learn to live without but they will always be with you and the pain of loss will always be there. Blessings and love!
I loss my dad 1 year ago and I am still in pain, I have a hard time recovering from his passing I tried to just let go and accept he is gone already but everytime I remember our moments together I will always put to tears no matter what I do.
I lost my dad 3 weeks ago. It has been a profoundly life altering experience and though it has been painful and difficult, it has given me pause to reflect on the value and meaning of life as well as mortality.
I mourned my Mother's death for at least eight years. I was taken to paradise where I saw her and other family members. Afterwards .. I was completely comforted.
Saghguru is correct. My mother pass on this year at age 96. I see my father age 98 physically in mourning and pain months after my mum departure. Knowing Saghguru by accident ... is the best thing ever happened to me. I listen to his video almost every night to falls asleep..
Take care of them very carefully just like we take care of our own childrens ,even our aged parents r our own children, I say dis bcuz recently I lost my beloved daughter (mom) .. once gone and never she ll return ...but death is also bitter truth...stay blessed
Why do u want to see them in misery? Life is not easy for 100-year-olds. May parents live a full and happy life .Not a life that's too long filled with pain .
May her departed soul rest in heaven with peace. May she achieve every happiness in the world which none has experienced. May she is living the life of queen in heaven with lots of positive souls. May she becomes the most happiest person ever. Don't feel alone without her. Feel like she is the owner of this planet and we are living on it. She is unexplainable. She is a queen. This is her era and we are living on it. She is a mother of the world and specially she is loving you
I lost my mother yesterday to radiotherapy side effects after she got the all clear of being cancer free. However, the doctor was going to inform her that the cancer was back on Monday. I'm glad she never got to hear that it would have broken her. Thanks for the video. rip mum, I love you❤
It's sad when our loved ones die but must remember there gone to a better place, there watching over us and protecting us as we keep living our everyday life down here. I love you my love ones above💛
I just lost my mother today... I don't know how to deal with it.l had a strong connection with my mother and the void left by her is unexplainable. Hope she gets peace and love wherever she is... This video is very helpful
Prayers to you. Tomorrow will make a year for me 😞😞
I just lost my mother too. I understand this void in your heart. I can only try to feel her energy and move forward the way she would want me to.
@@blackomega4061 your mothers are waiting in heaven for you.
So sorry for your loss
Om Shanti 🙏, and strength to you
"Every breath you take, you are getting closer to the grave. But every breath you take, you can also get closer to your liberation."
- Sadhguru
I like to meet U face to face,
Practice Kriya meditation as taught by Paramahansa Yogananda, it's your airplane route to God (liberation).
@@jornfox3545 how? Any channel suggestions?
Mary, You will want to take the lessons from SRF Mother Center, Mount Washington, CA., then apply after 6 months for 'Kriya' meditation technique, the Kriya practice will take you to the higher state of meditation awareness (awakening). Please read Autobiography of a Yogi, by Paramahansa Yogananda, chapter 26 The Science of Kriya Yoga.
YES 🙏
I'm 28 years now, I lost my Mother when I was 8 then my Father when I was 12 , I never enjoyed my childhood the way I was supposed to. Their loss only made me stronger because I chose to take it in a positive way. I Thank God everyday to be with me since day one ☄️🙏🏽 Pray for me.
May God bless you abundantly
God bless you 💗
🙏❤
So bold ...more power to you
May there guiding light be with you always
I will keep you in my prayers
Lost my mom 4 days ago on 21st January. She was suffering from advanced colon cancer throughout the last year and inspite of getting treatment she couldn't make it and passed away at an age of 46. Maa, may your soul rest in peace and please give me strength so that I can fulfill your dream by becoming a good doctor. Thanks mom for everything and I promise I will make you proud in future.
- yours babai / Aaishik
Stat strong ❤️
Hi, you are not alone. My mom passed away on the 19th of January 2023, due to stage four pancreatic cancer. She has been fighting for it for the whole of 2022 with the family. I believe both of us will have extremely wonderful lives and futures. I always believe Mom is blessing me and I will make her so proud. I hope you can stay strong. ❤
My mom died at 46 as well
18/05/2023 2:17PM -This is my worst moment of my life
My grandfather passed away this time
And can’t stop my tears till now 😭
I have to achieve air 1 in gate cse
For them and then i will donate maximum (as much as possible) to vriddhashram
I know he will get heaven and he will become king of heaven
God bless you
Miss you Aajoba …love you forever ❤
Rest in peace to mom. Stay strong sir she will always be there with you
My son was murdered in September at the young age of 21. Today now my older sister died. The pain is unbearable. I never ever thought this would be my life and how i would end up. Please keep me and my family in your prayers.
So sorry for your losses. Terrible situation. You are in my prayers.
Saying prayers for your sadness
Your grieving
God bless you and help you
@@Aka_Venator thank you very much
@@meenaa972 thank you very much
I lost my mother due to covid 19.she dies 15 days ago pls pray for her may her soul rest in peace...i missed her badly 😭😭
Hare Krishna🙏 sorry for your loss may god give u and your family strength
@Trigger may she get quick recovery pray upon lord krishna🙏
RIP
You are really a strong man who could handle it..🙏👍👍 she will be very happy for you.. take care of everyone..🙏
Sry for your loss....om shanti 🙏🚩
The older I grow the more I value my parents...I feel like this means it will be harder to deal with loosing them because they are more and more precious as I grow
Perhaps you know time is running out. Enjoy each day and accept the way things are for us all.
I thought I knew what death and loss was. Then I lost my mom. I had no clue what pain and grief was. This is pain like no other😢
Spen as much time with them as you can go places if possible , my most regret was not spending more time with them , I was to busy with work , my kids - I regret not including them more often, it will be easier to heal knowing the good memories that were made before they pass
@@tracyhaupt9031 worst pain I've ever experienced.
Tracy Haupt I feel all these comments on way or another but this one really HIT ME DIFFERENTLY/HOME because I feel the EXACT SAME WAY those very same words you used is how I felt,feel ,I wrote about ,and ALSO I know THAT’s THE SAME FEELING,THOUGHT,REAITY THAT I KEEP COMING BAK TO .It was meant for This but I’m getting emotional just talking/writing about it and yes the only feeling that can get me outta my body do yea Good luck and HOLLA BACK IF YOU WANT MY INFO AND IM NOT NO WEIRD OR LAME AZZ PERSON NEITHER BUT THE WEAK AND THE STONGEST OF THE STRONGEST NEED SOMEBODY THAT can feel them st8 up you know you my name is JAMIE
I am 56 and lost my dad 3yrs ago. I have never been the same. I am still grieving and don’t think that will ever end. My mom is 85 with dementia. Life has gotten hard and I long for the days when everything was “normal”. What I wouldn’t give to be back in the 80s again when life was fun. 😓😓😓😓
I feel exactly like you describe. There are days I want to "go home" and I don't know where or when that is.
I feel the same, I want to go back in times in the 80’s and have the normal life with mum again, hug her more and tell her how much I loved her. My mum passed in June 2022 unexpectedly. I am totally heartbroken.
Your father would want you to enjoy the rest of your days!
I lost 2 brothers who were murdered in 2008 . I lost a mother 2018. I lost so m any p eople who died over the years . My mother hat Ed me . I lost people , places and things and my man t beloved dogs and cats. I am a SURVUVOR. I AM 80 yrs. old, now . There are SO VERY MANY FORMS OF GRIEFS, which the SANHGURA , DID NOT SPEAK ABOUT. I LIVE IN USA , AND DID TGE AMERICAN WAY, . I AM ITALIAN AND A WOMAN . GRIEFS CAN UNRAVEL A PERS’ life and life energy.
True I don’t know how to erase the memory
To everyone who lost a parent (especially if you were close to them)
I feel deeply for you
We are gonna get through this
I pray
You never heal you only get used to it.
Yes that is True Kashu. I am thirty, and my dad passed away eight years ago when I was in college! = (
🙏
Thank you that's beautiful what you wrote, thank you ❤️
I lost my father 2 days ago. It’s so hard to process and believe. I’ve cried already so much my tears dried up. My heart hurts so bad. Rest In Peace dad. I love you so much. ❤️🙏
🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
i also lost my father 1 year ago i feel very unsafe .
but belive in god the god will ok all the things
@@adityaalok1079 I’m so sorry dear. ❤️🙏
I lost my father last Friday still in disbelief. I don’t know how I’m going to get through it. I pray the lord for strength
He loves you too. He is with you. ALWAYS. ❤
I lost my dad to suicide 2 years ago. I’m in my 20’s. Nearly every day I cry. I feel deeply for everyone who has lost a parent no matter what age or cause. A lump builds in my throat. My back of my heart feels unsupported and empty.
all my love🤗
Chant the name of God intently for 2 hours daily.
Everything will change in your life in a very short time. You will find support and your heart will no longer feel empty.
Enough love from everyone if you reach out for help and comfort. Just talk with someone.
Love you my girl... I can feel your pain❤️much love from Mauritius
☹
I lost both my parents during the pandemic. It feels like I can’t relate to anyone these days. I realized that I didn’t have the relationships and support I needed. I’m trying to build new ones. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽
If you can’t have friends or people you hang with at your lowest then you don’t need them at an point again in life
I can fully understand I lost my mother two months ago and two weeks before that my boyfriend dumped me and best friend left me and I am going through this grief by myself. You don't need those people in your life you can be strong and go through it all by yourself and you are never alone God is always with us
I also lost both my parents during the pandemic. Keep moving forward, that is all you can do. Do not look to others, look within. You are strong enough to keep going.
Horrible. So sad. Hope you've found solace now. Very unfortunate. You'll meet them after your death but till then it's very bad. I'm so sorry.
*"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."* -- Norman Cousins
@david you have a wonderful channel sir ❤️
True...
@@nehakhatri2826 hi baby
@@vatan1083 do not ruin the vibe brother ..
@@anshumanshaw1655 :-) thanks Anshuman
I am 30 years old and lost my mom a few days ago, I feel like I will never be the same again. I am open to any prayers and love sent my way, especially for my brother and his children. I know my mom is with me always 💙🦋 she is showing me signs and that is making it easier
I hope you are doing OK. I lost my father and it's really terrible
I said the same thing when my mom died last year and I stay close to people who also lost their parents especially their mom, they understand fully . My condolences to you . I know my mom is in heaven and can hear her on occasion . I will always miss her until I see her again .
Sorry for your loss. It's been 3 years since my mom transitioned and it seems like yesterday. I remember this feeling of torture inside me because I did not know where her energy was and could no longer physically see or feel her. I wish you much peace during this difficult time.
I will pray for you.
I lost my mother last year dear, wen I was 28 yr old, I can understand ur pain, no body can compensate loss of mother, bt we have to bear it, every body has to depart like this one day, nothing eternal on earth.
“After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box.”
- Italian Proverb
Think Different - Thought Provoking Ideas - Finita la musica, passata la festa... (Greek proverb)
i like that
Yeah but our opinions don't go into the box, we seem to always need to put certain people on a pedestal no matter what they do.
👍
Death makes us all humble.
I lost my mother 1 year ago but remember her each day, sometimes I thought I die with my mother itself since it is very difficult to live without my mother,she was everything for me,she was my world
Same in my case😢
Same with me lost a month ago
Life is cruel without mother 💔
I lost my mom 8 days ago and it still feels like yesterday.. I pray I get past it. I don't know what else to do with my life . She was everything to me
@@michaelseye7698 the pain never goes got to learn with it and she was there for you till now by grace of shiva 🙏
My mother passed away in a car accident on 31st July and then father was hospitalized because of that accident he came home on 16th August and passed away in sleep on 18th August.
Both my parents passed away in a span of 19 days and i am just 24 years old.
I needed this video so much.
Thanks Sadhguru.
Please take care of your yourself 🙏
@@jayantiraj2164 thank you so much for your support
GOD bless you ❤🙏
@@jaquamusic4344 thank you
my prayers with you brother. hang there tight.
I realized that I needed to release my mother. She was in a lot of pain. After she passed, I felt a physical, then an emotional and then a spiritual release.
I had a vision of her dancing across galaxies to the music of the spheres. She was pain free and full of joy!
I am at peace with her passing.
That’s so Beautiful. She wanted you to know she’s Free from the trouble of this world.🙏🏽🌹
This is strange to hear.When my mum died,she had dementia, I felt similar,somehow happy for her soul.I am glad I am not the only one feeling this way.
Did you help her to be released from body!!? If yes! How!!
This makes so much sense. This how o felt when my mom left us that atleast she is free now from this worldly pain and suffering.
This made me cry
Sadh Guru... i was 33 when I lost my mom, I have never been the same since, she was amazing and her death affected me physically very much so.
"Don't look for distractions. Distraction is not a solution." So precious. Thank you.
Dealing with death can be very difficult but we must remember that no one was meant to stay in this physical world forever. Stay blessed everyone!
Reyna Singh
Only the roles (ego identity) die NOT us (Shiva + ShakthI).
And remember life is eternal with gateways called birth and death. I have an inner knowing that some time in the eternal NOW I'll meet my loved ones again. Wish all who suffer much solace
@Imperfection Perfected1980 Yes, my parents have moved on to other lives but they live happily in my heart
@Imperfection Perfected1980 Sorry Imperfection Perfected for misunderstanding
@Imperfection Perfected1980 exactly
To think that my parents won't be there someday is so scary. I'm 24 and an only child. My parents had me really late. They're in their 60s. To see them grow so old right before me whilst my best years are still to come, is heartbreaking. I wish for them to have a LONG and JOYFUL life ♥️🙏🏼
I wish to GOD for your parents with longgggg lifeee😇😇😇
@@ritus5803 Didi, can you please share some specific source. Would like to read up on it. Thanks in advance.
i feel the same when i saw my parents sleeping if many times scars me one day they may no more that's makes me motivated everyday by keep reminding myself 'kbhi yebhi nhi hoga'.
You are not a child you are a BABY. I am 45. Life starts at 40.
Hey bhumika I can understand what you are going through. I have the same situation I had my son at 34yrs old. He is my only child. It worries me what will happen when we are not there.
I have both Parents.. I'm thankful to God ♥️
May God gives Strength to everyone who lost their loved ones
May God and Guru bless your parents and give them a long life.lost my father a few years ago and mum a month ago missing them especially mom
@@qeytmyok2473 I wish you strength in your sadness 🌹
@@sound7lyrics995 thank you I really need it
man you r so lucky
We will all experience losing a parent.
I lost my mom last night... I love you so much mama. You will be forever in my heart.
My father .. I wasn't there with him but that day I cried hopelessly , No one told me about him until a week later when I came back to see him .Last I saw him was before leaving . It didn't left any hole in me .It shattered me completely. The truth is I survived 5 heart attacks and am improving only because of your videos available on the internet . He resembled you completely .🙏
Take care 🙏🙏
Stay strong man 🙏
🙏take care
There are simple ways to stay out of heart strok.. follow them.. god bless
God bless you!
Whether you are below 21 or above 42 losing a parent or love one at any stage, can impact your physical body because it is connected to your heart and mind. Memories are stored for a lifetime, it's ok to be human and grieve...
This thought disturbs me so much that i didn't wanted to watch this video but I did kind of realize I cant run away from reality
U should read his book
My parents died and from that day i started thinking differently,i have health anxiety,always think worst things about health😔
@@stranger4782 which book !!?
@@Harsh-im6qn Death- An inside story
Ditto
I miss you dad. You left a huge hole in me when you passed... but I know that the hole you left is a reminder of the love and memories that I will forever cherish. The feelings of sadness are just moments of love that I will never get to give to you again. I hope that one day we will meet again. Until then I will carry this hole as a reminder of the person I was because of you. See you soon dad
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Dealing with loss of parent is a crushing experience...I'm 30 years old, I've not been myself ever since my mom left us. The grief struck me physically, emotionally and mentally. I've not been able to focus on life as it is. I pray to God, to keep everyone's mom alive and well. So that they don't have to live with unresolved feelings and unfulfilled dreams. As many of you mentioned earlier, I do feel the resentment deeply towards God for not answering my prayers..not sure what to pray for anymore. Just being there for my dad n brother. But can't deny everyday thought does cross my mind that it should've been me not her..
You being here is no accident. Just make you mom proud by being the best person you can be. She is not gone, she is just absent. Losing a close loved one is like driving a nail into a post. You can remove the nail, but the hole remains. Fill that hole with love and you will be fine. I send much love to you❣️🥰
Why not me?? Why her??
Take care of yourself
You took the words straight out my mouth! Im trying
Should’ve been me not my mama… everyday i think of it
Just when I had started to do Good in life and wanted to do great things for my mother she left us all...I feel lost incomplete...please pray for her eternal happiness and salvation!! My mom my Superhero
Yes that is what seem to happening to us. Very troubling
I can understand your feelings, don't know what to do anymore. Prayers for your mother, may she rest in peace.
Mine, too.
same here
I had the worst stomach ache like nothing before, like something was ripped out of me.. 4 hrs later i was told my father had died..will never forget, grieved for a long time, still brings tears 14 years later..i am a women aged 46 at the time..🙏
So sorry to hear that! May you find strength and light again in life and God bless you! Was it natural feeling you got just before your father's death?? And did u get that fear of his death before anytime or just on that day only?
EXACTLY 💯 WHEN MY HUSBAND DIED
I’m 51 , I lost my father when I was 22 then 6 weeks later I lost my mother the pain never truly leaves you,
rip to ur dear mom and dad my friend im 45 lost my mom last year the pain is real as she really suffered…💔 God BLESS The Dead r only wish is there in a better place now
I really hope
Om Shanti 🙏 May you find peace & solace from this immeasurable grief
Yes life will never be the same
I also loose my father 😭😭
My father kept chanting 'om namah shivay' till his last day. Have been trying to distract myself from past few months to overcome or forget the loss. Its not easy and I have accepted it. Anyone reading who has lost a parent or seen them in pain. lots of love and strength. may you heal soon and shine again :)
What does ‘om namah shivay’ mean? I’m so sorry for your pain but happy you had a father filled with love 🙏🏽
@@crystalmasters8582 I bow to lord Shiva
So sorry for your loss bro what was uncle age
When he said "someday I may die" that felt....that felt badly....
He is not ,he may die ...bad jus he given example nothing to feel bad
The very thought of missing him saddens.
No it doesn't
@@Sthmohtwenty ???
I lost my mother due to COVID-19 I miss her so much I feel like I died from inside a big hole in my heart
Please pray for her
Sad to hear of your Mother’s passing. May God’s love and grace be always with you.
I lost my mother due to COVID 10 days ago 😔😓💔 I know how your feeling
@Trigger I’ll pray for her dear 🙏 very stressful time keep calm and positive energy
I lost my father 😭 same feelings
Strength and power to you.. RIP 🙏🏻
I also lost my mother due to covid-19
I lost my 93 year old Mother on 2/24/22. I lost my Father in 2008. I am an only child, and the pain I am feeling now at 64 is almost unbearable since I have no one close to share my experience and pain. I feel this video did help, and thank you.
I too lost my mother last month. I lost my father when I was 10. She was 97. I am 49 and had her with me for such a long time that I made up in my mind she would never go. But on 8/16/22 she took her last breath after suffering a stroke in May. She showed so many signs of getting better and has always been a healthy fighter that this took me by surprise. I cared for her until the end. I miss her intensely and with purpose. Life on this earth will never be the same without her
I lost my mother who was 83 last year 2021 my dad 6 years ago. I am not in my right frame of mind and getting sick quite often. I still cannot believe my mother is no more 💔
@imdivyanshiraj I'm so sorry for your loss I know the feeling of losing a mother 💔💔😢
U lucky u got to have your parents that long. My mom died when I was 27 and my dad died when I was 37 and I'm an only child also. I wish my mom lived that long. That's a blessing
I too lost my mother she was 70 and I am 42 . I am feeling so lonely .
I have lost my husband at 39 years old and I have lost my baby son : Sadguru is rightfully precised with the intensity of suffering and the Runarabhandra attachment. I bow down to you my Guru.
Bheena Choytooa Yes I did feel it even Today!But I know my Mom is in a Good Place Now,better us Earth!
@@rosisunny9302 yes and Sadguru is an enlighten being who can perceive many subtle changes.
@@bheenachoytooa1604 This is the reason why I've been training my daughter since 5 yr old. Whenever she says " I love u daddy", I reply back I "dharmic you" which means neither love nor hate. Runanabandha can be handled if ego is fixed. It is always mind over matter and shiva (consicousness) over mind (thoughts)
@@indianmilitary my salute to you, you have gone very far in your meditation level. Thank you very much, I will do it for my grand children one day.
@@indianmilitary sir please reply. My age is 20years old. I lost my father in 2018.
Is runanabandhana good or bad? Even today when I see my father's pic my eyes filled with tears. Even today I cry for him.
Even today I am missing him so much. Each day My mother cries for him deeply.
Also we are small family. We don't have much relatives.
Sadhguru my pet died few days ago, I took him when he was 10 days old, even he opened his eyes at our home. Going through enormous emotional pain, video is helpful to cope with the pian. For some he was just a 🐕 but one who has pet at home can understand my pain 😔
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
@Inner Peace Replace the word -----until---- with the phrase---- as long as----- and you will have the correct sentence😊
@@logixpro5026 shame on you.
i lost mine doggy last year... my dear i understand your emotions in your level... my heart goes to with you... but be happy he s in a happy place.... they only go to heaven.. such beautiful souls they are
@La Bella first learn english behen ji.....its not dose its those😂
Missing my father ! Love your parents ! They are everything ! ❤️
My mum passed away early this morning 😔 this is a pain I’ve never experienced before but I’m taking comfort in the fact she’s no longer in pain
May she rest in Paradise✨🙏u will see her again💕
Sorry Carole I lost my mother too the pain of it never left me ..they say time heals ❤
Rest in peace.
Be strong ma'am her blessings always be with you. 🙏
Blessings or condolences will not work
My father passed away last year and I cried the whole time watching this. I was in Texas and he was back home. Before I knew, I felt it... I loved him so much.
Lost him in 2018dec
🙏
@@tusharkantighosh1857 🙏
Thank you! I lost my father in 2018, my mother in 2019, my best friend July 4th 2020. You always have a way to make it better! Thank you and bless you
It's too much dear 💔 everyyear you lost someone i hope ki ap recover kr pao but it is so difficult for you but i know you can do it.
God Bless You...
@@tingle2323 thank you and I stay positive and I try to meditate every day. Some days I can't make time. God bless you and one love.
So sorry to hear :(
Sorry to hear about your loss brother
I lost my dad last month. It is the worst pain I have felt in my 23 years of life. I needed to see this video, thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I lost my father before 18days. Worst pain I have felt in my 29years of life. Don't know how to handle this pain. I will nvr b the same person like before.
I hope you both are doing okay
I lost my father last month and I feel like I can't breathe ..I'm suffocating. God please bring me peace and heal my heart.
When I lost my father, I went into a big depression which led to alcoholism. I would get anxiety attacks, feeling like I couldn’t breathe. This loss made me go through a Dark Night of the Soul. He came “to visit” me in my dream explaining death & how death is not the end & we will see each other again. After this, I healed, went through a spiritual awakening & little by little I’m understanding the truth about life, about us. Yes, I miss my dad but that feeling of emptiness is no longer within
Wow ❤️❤️
I pray my father comes to me. He passed a week ago. 😢😢😢
Yeah I'm honestly going to just end my life when my dad dies. No point.
My father passed away when I was 7. And my mother passed on 3rd Dec 2020 and I am just 25. Losing parents at young age hurts too much, emotionally and physically.
Api obath ekka innawa Tripple gem bless you.
The energies of your parents will continue to shadow and guide and protect you. Develop your intuition and greater clarity will prevail
You really brave and strong person and your parents blessings always be their with you forever I know it can tough but you can overcome this grief . Be strong 🙏
Dealing with grief is personal. It's been 3.5 years I have lost my father. I cry every single day, sometime to grief his absence, sometime to stay in the path he have paved for me. Overall grief is a way through which I speak to him. I will not loose it for the world. It is a reminder that all my other problems are just a speck.
Sir you are a gem of a person....india is so blessed to have such a mystic saint within it....🙏🙏🙏
Not just India my friend! The whole
world is blessed by him 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
🙏🙏
Absolutely!
He isn't a saint his what you need him to be now.
And there are so many so many Yogis and Rishis, st this point of time too, who are there, they just do not come out, because they are happy realizing the absolute truth... if they start talking, the whole world will just shine...
I was 10 when my mom passed and I can tell you, it does hurt both physically and emotionally. Even if some memories of her are very vague, I still "feel" it.
How are u now?
Death is a process of life part of the cycle. Is not an easy process. My cousin passed away 8 months ago and It feels like he is still around . I feel his presence.
This tittle. I'm crying before I hear what's coming here. Nothing will ever console me. I lost both patents four years ago, then my younger brother couldn't cope, so he started telling me he was feeling suicidal. An extremely intelligent young guy who got distinctions thru college and university in Civil Engineering. Then he got a mental illnesses and died two years ago. I'm left with our last born girl. I'm on medication now for depression and anxiety, been in and out of hospitals, severe panic attack, fainting at work, etc. Agonizing life. And Sadhguru speaks so easily. Lucky him
Sorry about that sweetheart
My god 🙏 I can never say don't worry but u should cope up.... everything will be alright....ull be fine sir....god bless you...ur family will be blessing you....will be feeling so bad to leave you void.....ull be fine sometime.....just cope ip
I'm so sad for you I can't imagine the pain and sorrow you feel every day, try and do the best you can that's really all you can do. I wish you could start to heal 🙏
I lost my parents at 13 but something burned inside ur words give me some relief.ur 100%right
I lost my mom very suddenly in Aug 21. My mom was my first love. I miss her so much and thank her for being there for me. It’s never easy losing a loved one. It’s tough that they aren’t here physically, but they will always be here spiritually!!! I love you mommy!!!!
I lost my mum exactly a month ago and it was extremely sudden too.
My greatest fear through life was losing my parents, when it did happen it wasn’t as bad as I imagined, it was worse. Nobody ever tells you about the vacuum created, the deep and powerful void which then exists after they go. You don’t ever get over it, but you do get used to it, the void starts to fill but never completely. So much pain and suffering is caused not by death itself, but our attempts to deny its existence.
Your parents brought you here, don’t be sad they are gone.. be grateful & know that this 3rd dimension is just that.. enjoy your avatar & know family are still with you.
Yes😇
A thought of losing my parents makes me shiver.
I can never be prepared. That's why I don't like this life on earth. Being human cannot be the best thing. I should be a tree.
Human Well, please don’t let anxiety rule your thoughts.. it feeds from fear.. allow love to come in to your mind, heart.. let nature flow through you as it should. Death is a part of life.. Ying & Yang.. Please allow me to remind you that everything that is within this universe is also within you. So in effect .. as I am you & you are me; just experiencing this plain in a different way.. we are also that tree you wish to be..
Yeeeeees!
Imperfection Perfected1980 My mother is..
I lost both my parents and life will never be the same again. To recover from the grief, I keep myself busy, mentally, physically and financially. I remember my parents with a smile, the happiness that they brought to my life. I enjoy being a recluse and hopefully I will start my journey to travel the World again. Love, respect and be kind to people and when they are gone they are gone for ever. Each day, create beautiful memories and live your life as if it is the last day on Earth. Parents always want happiness for their children, so start living your life and make them proud on the other side as soul never dies!
The pain of losing a parent suddenly is terrible.. it’s been a year since I lost my father but the pain I feel can never go away, it’s as though the pain is engraved in my bones & has changed something inside of me forever.. Sadhguru, we understand life is mortal but grief becomes so much a part of life.. please post some videos on how to cope with grief better, thanks
Almost 3 years ago , in 2021 , when I was 15 my father died at 45 . I still feel the same pain everyday 😔
I lost both my parents with covid this year one month ago. Shattered beyond words. A biggest void.
My mom is my everything to me I can’t imagine my life without her I love my mom most than anything
Hi someone 👍🏼
Me too i cant even think of it
Your mom will be very very proud to read this comment.Stay bless.
My grandfather died when I was 18 years old, I remember the next day I went to school and I didn't talk to anyone, I kept my self alone for about a week and tried to withdraw as much as I can, it may seemed strange, but at that time for me somehow it felt right. After watching this video now I know why it was the right thing to do and probably it was the thing that saved me. My grandfather was very close to me he was like a father to me, I learned a lot from him... He will always be a part of me.
I lost my mum November 8 - she passed the same date her own mother passed, i think she missed her terribly, as much as i miss my mum so terribly, i will reunite with them all one day, in spirit - until then i must continue the life they gave me, each and every one of my ancestors
I lost my mum a week ago, its so hard.
I lost my dad 2 weeks ago😭 and I still can’t believe it! It’s like I’m dreaming.. hè was my best friend.. I loved him so much😔 he was my mentor in life .. I miss him so much .. I cry everynight papa jtm
I’m so sorry praying for strength 🙏🏽🤞🏽
I lost my dad too 5/20 it still doesn’t feel real either....
I feel your pain. I lost my mom 3 years ago. She was also my best friend. It is an unimaginable pain. Felt like of piece of me went with her.
Jai Mahakal
May his soul rest in peace
My mother died because of heart attack.. She was only 40 yrs old 😭😭😭😭 i really miss her... Bhagwan acche logon ko hi utha le jata hain 😭😭 pls come back na mummy 😭😭😭😭
Om Namah Shivay 🙏
My prayers.. she will be with you ..
She is still with you...
I’m so sorry for your loss, I lost my mom when she was 39, but many years ago. Your heartache will ease with time🙏🙏🙏
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My mom passed away on Wednesday which is what brought me here. The hole in my heart is still fresh. Much love to everyone 💗
Praying for you
Thank you. It’s been a month and the sadness comes in waves. “We are a dying kind of people”
How are you. She will always be there you are not alone in this journey.🙏 Be strong
I JUST LOST MY UNCLE YESTERDAY...AND THIS VIDEO SHOWED ME IN RECOMMENDATIONS....
Pavan Kumar kachala He is okay in a better place,some day you back together!💜 🙏
It would be an honor just to meet Sadhguru in this lifetime of mine.
It's a lifetime achievement if we can touch his feet and recieve his blessings
Maybe he has already met you n you just don't know.. 🙂🙏🏼🙏🏼
Let us all plan and go to isha centre!🤗
@@manpreetapr9 yes maybe 🙂thank you
@@ujwalsharma7631 would love to go there
I felt it in my soul hours before my Mother passed away in 2002. It was so painful that I had to tell myself months later to pull myself together or else I would lose myself.
A r u ok now,?
@@chamaripriyadarshani7559 no words or anything can ever heal this pain. It feels like a life-long darkness
Stumbled upon this video and same here, lost dad at 6 and mum at 10. Their loss impacted in a greater length. Life was very hard cuz I felt no one understands me and I used to cry alot. Only God/Ambal is with me all along. I talk to her and thank her for each of my sadness and happiness. I'm in my forties and a mother of 4 kids now. I still miss my parents but but understand my role on this earth and mentally very strong. I thank Ambal for everything she's given to me and my sincere love/ prayers to all the children who lost their parents at very young age. There's is always a hope and light in the darkness. Wishes🌹🙏
So sorry for your loss. Your children are lucky to have you.
Till date nobody is intelligent and knowledgeable person like sadhguru 🙏
Yes. True.
true, Sadhguru is a gem
Loved one who suffers badly and dies before time, such death leaves a big hole rather than someone who dies of old age. Suffering of loved one gives excruciating pain.
I miss my elder brother.He was just 45 years old.The memories are sometimes so painful.I wish wherever he is,he is happy.
My mother passed away 2 days ago. I feel like I’m too young to be dealing with this. She was my and my brother’s only emotional support. I am open to any prayers that come towards my mother’s soul and especially my brother and father. I can never get over my love for her. Love never dies. I love you mumma
I lost my mother 1 month ago,, this world is unreal, trust me
@@goodindianboy4060 I am so sorry for your loss, this world is very cruel. I cannot wait to leave it.
@@mv45654 hi, i hope you find some light in life again and i can imagine this never-ending pain and i can understand it naturally feels suicidal in this situation but try to live life for your dad and brother or sister and your mother would be very proud of u from heaven. Please don't take any wrong step bcoz think of your father or brother and always keep your mother in heart! May God bless u!
@@Saurabh-mf1ez thank you for your kind words saurabh!
@@mv45654 👍🙏
My aunt passed away yesterday.We had a very close relationship such that she was really more than my mother to me and because she understood the disconnect between my mother and I she always took that extra care with me.She really loved me tenderly .I called her weekly and she would be so happy and told me how special I was to her and that I was different and always made her feel.special.She sufferd a stroke and I 2018 she visited and we spent quality time I would take her everywhere in her wheelchair she had so much fun as I did.I travelled 1000km to visit her in 2019 I slept with her in the same bed ,gave her massages ,pedicures and manicures.She was just super special to me.I feel ok about her passing I'm actually so happy for her.She wanted to give up on life and I get that she had too much suffering but she tried to keep up her spirits.I remember when I pushed her in her wheelchair on the pier she was breathing in the air and she said oh they never take her out sometimes I think they are embarrassed of me
I lost my father 5 months ago. Before taking him to the hospital, I was crying and forcing myself to pray for his recovery but no prayer was coming out of me. Probably my soul knew. I suffered from insomnia and depression. It was also a time when I felt a disconnect from God and then spiritual awakening followed. My father's death spiritually changed me.
Pray the soul finds peace and you find strength to cope with the loss
I can understand, had a similar experience with someone else
@Moreno Dos Santos - Tribe Music thank you for sharing it with me. It means so much!
I’m sorry for your loss😢. I just lost my parents within 6 months of each other this year. It devastated me. Lots happened at that time and I fell apart. However, the crisis brought me to a profound spiritual awakening. I miss them horribly but they have both come to me in different ways. They are always with us. I’m working on filling up the space they left behind. Love and light to you, 🙏💕
@@karen.island3697 thank you for sharing it with me. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what a grief it must be to lose both parents in such a short time. I wish you find peace and happiness in your life. The most I can say is that you can count on me if you feel like talking to anyone. Stay blessed! 🙂
I lost my grandparents 8 months apart both from lung cancer when I was 23. They raised me. My grandma was basically my mom my grandpa a second father. I took care of them full time and was always super close to them from the day I was born. That physical pain you feel is unbearable and indescribable. I’m 26 now and there are days when the grief will pop up as the day when they died and I will feel that pain. I miss them daily. I think I will always at some points feel that pain as the grief pops up over the rest of my life. It will probably lessen, but never completely stop. I just love them so much. Just because they’re gone doesn’t mean my love for them is. They were the greatest blessing in my life. You don’t find people like them anymore.
I lost my grandma a week ago. She also raised me. She was basically my mum. Maybe we can keep in touch in some way...
@@halfgeorgian6886 I lost my grandmother as well at 101 this year. She died so peacefully with my family around her and is buried with her husband, my grandpa. I feel you both on this. The grief never stops. We don't move on from it. We just move forward in this life with the memory of their love to sustain us. My condolences for your loss.
My mom passed on 12/21/2021 man it hurts so bad, so much love is there and it's breaking me down.
Intelligence about death is useless when you loose your parents/child.
The grief is unexplainable.
so true.
And I would disagree with Sadhguru completely on a few things... one of them being distractions. It's ok to distract yourself for a short while and have family and friends do stuff for you. We need to know that this is temporary and ultimately we will have to sit with ourselves alone and deal with our pain, but I also think it's ok to use crutches here and there as we get through what is one of the worst possible things to happen to us emotionally. Give yourself the space to not do all the right things, call on friends and neighbours if you need.
Understanding this prepares us from becoming devasted by the loss. We cannot prevent the loss. But we can prepare our mind for the loss and remain balanced.
I have pain of my father dyingit still haunts me as I'm divorsed and my mom and my family went through a hit even my grandma last year ,Pray for my strength and I became weak lost weight and no hopes I felt than God looking aftere me every I meet is a cheater and has bad intentions , in a toxic family system ..but parents are different than husband or wife..their love is next to God
@@drgoodwell1082 you will get through.
Time heals everything.
I know the pain as i lost my mother recently. It keeps haunting for few weeks or upto 2 months and grief kicks in.
Slowly we accept and that memory starts to fade away.
Just realize even we have our clocks ticking, thats how it works.
Accept the reality and plan to use your time that is left to you for yourself.
You will get through. Stay strong.
Uma mahesh . Extremely well said 🙏🙏
I lost my mother 4 days ago at age of 52 due to Covid 19. It is really really painful. Feels like somebody ripped my heart out.
I went through the same thing...how r you coping now?
I am so very sorry Pranjal.
I lost my mother and my aunt from covid 19 last year. My uncle died from heart attack. 3 family members gone in 2021. 😓
My mom also passed away bofore 3 months. cant imagine to lives wirhout her.
I lost mine due to that virus too. May God be with your mom also.
This brought me to tears, and I guess it just reminds me that my ill mother of 79 is doing poorly, and she was my biggest connection. I am 52 and I even understand it is already her time, and have come to terms with that. I know she will be in a better place and won't be in the pain she is now. I have told myself to be strong but I think when that time comes, I wont be.
Sadhguru, I have learned many things from your videos but this one has touched me the most.
Peace to you.
Scott do give her healing, that is life giving energy and can resume life in the body in many ways and can extend life as well, if you are interested that is.
I lost my grandmother a day before...... I love her the most , every time I'm getting emotional while remembering the memories.
I lost my mom at 23...15yrs later that hole and pain feels like it was yesterday😔😔😔 and these last 15 yrs my health physically and mentally has been nothing short of horrific.. THANK YOU for this video🙏🙏🙏
yes agree - was a single parent for 33years, then sudden death, i kissed the forehead of my son in a casket. We were extremely close as it was always very close to the end as a result of being a only parent. NO WORDS CAN DESCRIBE ..........2 Years in bed in isolation and 1 year of trying to find strength and courage to work and rebuilding my "life" still working on it. NAMASTE
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My father passed away when I was 16.. now 55 .. still coping up .. all fine when people around , when alone tough , even now ..
I understand your pain ..
I want to hug you. I feel your pain like a stab. I know what u mean... It's my greatest fear....
May u find peace. 😔😔
@@pinkred8790 appreciated 👐🏻🤗
My mother passed away when I was 18 now I’m almost 21. I definitely feel when you said the physical and mental issues around that age
Both of my parents are gone. They lived a good long life. I am glad they were there. We will meet again some day!
The whole world is blessed by sadhguru.
My mum passed at Christmas, I have felt her around a lot. This month on my birthday, I awoke and started thinking about what I was going to do that day,I had taken the day off, don't usually take it off, and as if she was at my bedside she said "happy birthday darling " she is always there if I need her 💗
I lost my mother suddenly and unexpectedly to pancreatic cancer last year. The gaping hole it has left in my heart feels irreparable. She was a caregiver to many for over 40 years. 😭 Praying for you all as well.
I lost mine a year ago. May God be with your mom.
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I lost my mother and grandmother 25 yrs ago, 2 months apart. Extremely difficult. I was 21 yrs old. A day does not go by where I don't think about them and is still very heavy.
Anyone going through this, it will become manageable and you learn to live without but they will always be with you and the pain of loss will always be there. Blessings and love!
I loss my dad 1 year ago and I am still in pain, I have a hard time recovering from his passing I tried to just let go and accept he is gone already but everytime I remember our moments together I will always put to tears no matter what I do.
My father passed away yesterday.. Guruji's words comforted me
So sorry
Ah
Lossing parents is like loosing world
I'm sorry for your loss mine died 3 weeks ago bless u
Same I just lost my grandfather.
I am not skipping ads , or watching at least 30 seconds of the ad so that Isha Foundation can get some revenue.
Every drop helps.
Exactly
Indeed, I do put up with some ads; as a token of appreciation, for all the wisdom shared from all who made it possible, THANKS
I do the exact same thing, at least I'm contributing in some way.
Sadhguru goes much deeper into the topic in his book 'Death: An Inside Story'. It's about the mechanics of death and beyond.
I lost my dad 3 weeks ago. It has been a profoundly life altering experience and though it has been painful and difficult, it has given me pause to reflect on the value and meaning of life as well as mortality.
I'd rather the person than the lesson
Love this. My mom passed last year in May and my mom and I had a close bond and since she's passed on, my life will never b the same again .
I mourned my Mother's death for at least eight years. I was taken to paradise where I saw her and other family members. Afterwards .. I was completely comforted.
I glad you were finally able to be comforted. 🙏🏽
@@daron6616 Thank you. You are very kind.
@@MD.orion1 Thank you. 🌹
How did u see them.. Please tell me.. I could do anything to see my dad n mom again
Paradise means what
I just lost my dear mother a week ago, thank you for this video.
your mother will never be lost
I lost my Beautiful mother and my Stepfather 2 days ago Im hurting plus Im trying to stay strong for my Brothers .. Pray for US 😔🙏🙏
Saghguru is correct. My mother pass on this year at age 96. I see my father age 98 physically in mourning and pain months after my mum departure. Knowing Saghguru by accident ... is the best thing ever happened to me. I listen to his video almost every night to falls asleep..
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omg wow. very touching. thanks for sharing.👍🏼💛
May my parents live more than 100 years....❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Take care of them very carefully just like we take care of our own childrens ,even our aged parents r our own children, I say dis bcuz recently I lost my beloved daughter (mom) .. once gone and never she ll return ...but death is also bitter truth...stay blessed
Why do u want to see them in misery? Life is not easy for 100-year-olds. May parents live a full and happy life .Not a life that's too long filled with pain .
She means quality life rather than quantity life
@@raghavendrakm1 she wrote " more than 100 years?"
@@shompurnagunjan agreed
Thanks for this video, I lost my mother today to Covid, she was only 66 years old
May her departed soul rest in heaven with peace. May she achieve every happiness in the world which none has experienced. May she is living the life of queen in heaven with lots of positive souls. May she becomes the most happiest person ever. Don't feel alone without her. Feel like she is the owner of this planet and we are living on it. She is unexplainable. She is a queen. This is her era and we are living on it. She is a mother of the world and specially she is loving you
I am so very sorry Jacson.
I lost my mother yesterday to radiotherapy side effects after she got the all clear of being cancer free. However, the doctor was going to inform her that the cancer was back on Monday. I'm glad she never got to hear that it would have broken her. Thanks for the video. rip mum, I love you❤
I'm so sorry.. My mom died several days ago to chemo side effects..
It's sad when our loved ones die but must remember there gone to a better place, there watching over us and protecting us as we keep living our everyday life down here.
I love you my love ones above💛
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Why you say that women should not do cremation or other death rituals for her parents,I did it for my mom
@@gunjanbhardwaj4151 you must do.
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