I am 29 and lost my mother a month ago. It has really given me some peace. My mother has done everything for me , so this is my responsibility to make myself happy for her atleast. Love you Mummy ...will always cherish what you taught me . Thank you for being my mother in this life and wish to be your daughter for every life.
Lost my mother 6 mths back. The pain at times is immense. Probably she could have lived for a few more years, but Im happy she was always there for me. I still talk to her and pray to her. Im sure we will meet our loved ones in the other Realm after we complete our journey. I too wish to be her son in every life.
I must be amongst very few lucky ones, like Sadhguru explained, my mother lovingly made me understand that her death should not pain me and I should accept it as normal course of life, she also reminded me that sooner or later I will also die and so will next generation, so it’s a cycle which is not be worried about. She also explained me that I should recognize my role then as a daughter but now myself a mother , she said I must move on from identifying myself not just as her girl but another child’s mother . Last thing she reminded me is that she lost her mother in her teens and I was in my thirtys which itself is blessing . Such great soul she was that knowing she was dying and that I should be steady , she gave this wonderful lesson when she was still alive . When she passed away I did not cry at all, there was some sort of peace in heart, I thank her each day for it, I do miss her a lot, her touch , her smell of her sarees , all her wise words teachings practically everything she gave me to make who I am today I understand the value of her teachings today a step more after listening to Sadhguru and I have been teaching this to my teenage kids as well I want them to have that wisdom when I pass away Namaskaram
The lady is in pain. She said spiritual learnings are not working. Thats the key you don't learn anything spiritual you only realize, untill you realize no amount of learning can help. No guru on this earth can touch ones head and permanently instantaneously make anyone at peace when facing inevitable facts of life. A guru can only guide with realization and thats what Sadhguru can do as well. I hope and prey she finds peace soon.
@JEFFQUICKLE9 You're projecting about embarrassing yourself. The connection between this daughter and her mother has nothing to do with guidance. Its stronger than heroin addiction. Thats why opiates work. They are there to create a deep bond so the mother cares and loves her children and the children also will not runaway from the mother. When soldiers were bayonetted in ww2 most of them called out a word in Japanese which the allies did also. In English it meant mother. It wasn't guru anyway. Pain is pain . Only through immense physical suffering can you make yourself partially immune and by acceptance you ease it considerably. This can't be done in a short space of time such as this case where she lost her mother suddenly only a month ago. He makes a good point about the parents not having to see the child die as happens too often
I lost my mother two days ago because she was suffering from cancer, she was everything to me, I can't even imagine my life without her, she was always with me every moment, I loved her very much, Now she is not with me, it feels like there is complete darkness all around me, I don't know what to do to help me cope... I am also happy that her suffering is over She went because she was in extreme pain... I pray to God that her soul rests in peace. I will try my best to live with her memories, she will always be in my heart, I pray to God that in the next life I am born from my mother's womb and she and I live together for a long time. Jai Shri Krishna
Yes everything people see on social media. They just wanna relate. They act as if bad things only happen to themselves and until they see on social media they think it doesnt happen to any1 else.😂
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
I lost my mother too, she was my mother, friend, comfort, love, support, caring, strong and everything u can think of, She was no less than a God to me, I am just grateful that I got to walk and share the same space in this life. Noone will love me more than her....I am sure I will meet her one day. Stay strong, you never know your mother might be watching over u.
Our body is a temporary garage for our soul....after death the soul is free....it takes a new body later on....depending on one's Karma in previous life. Got it? Some realized souls who have achieved enlightenment do not take rebirth but are united with the infinite. They achieve the heavenly abode.
I lost my mom 3 days ago, she was the resemblance of the position of dad because she did everything for me and my brother and also she has helped so many of people....when she was alive I don't know the value of her and I was like a spendthrift and irresponsible but after she died now I realised Everything. One thing I would like to say to all, please do love and spend a time with your mom and dad , take care of them when they're with you🖤🙂.... I love you Mom you're my queen and you're my inspiration 👸🔥🥺 love you forever 🕯️Lourdes Marie🕯️
Having lost my Mother recently, I have been in the same state of mind as that lady. Suffering from the guilt that I could have done more for her, and why she left so soon. This message from Sadhguru has given me peace of mind. My heartfelt gratitude to you Sadhguru 🙏
I COMPLETELY hear the girl. I lost my ever dearest mom 9 years ago. I always have this flash in my mind. People say time will heal but no one defines the time you see. I am just waiting for the day when I can reunite both my Mom and dad. I count my years to fully be there for my kids/ grandkids if needed and just can’t wait for the day to meet my dearest parents again who sacrificed so much for their children. ❤️
I lost my mother last month. I wish I could talk to this sister and make her understand that when your loved ones die their suffering ends and yours begin, you feel unbearable emotional pain, you miss the support and love they have provided to you in your most darkest time only to keep you happy and keep moving in life. So their prime agenda was to see you happy and keep moving. All you need is to fullfill the void because of their demise by being the same loving and supportive person for rest of your family.
I lost my beloved father to covid... n it was sudden, most unexpected n has left a huge scar in my existence. There's deep emotional pain n constant feeling of hopelessness. Noone can replicate that affection. Im single n its just me n my mother now.... ther's constant fear n insecurity.
I lost my real brother just a few months back that too infront of my eyes in a terrible accident , I was sitting behind him in bike. Some people are finding Sadhguru's this message harsh. But let me tell there should be atleast someone that can tell you things brutally honestly otherwise you won't get anything out of just listening solace. I am thankful he said the way he said it helped me a lot in coping with my brother's demise.
@@anuragnathyal5889I'm so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you. I pray you and your family have the strength to go through these times.
I lost my mother 2 months back and still grieve as though it happened just yesterday. I felt Sadhguru was directly talking to me as I am an only daughter of my loving parents too! Jai Shri Sadhguruji!🙏🙏
I am going through this..on the verge of losing my mom and its depressing and tearful and the spiritual lessons don't work, and somewhere I feel the pain she is also going through 😢
I lost my father last 21 september 2023. I can feel her pain. We need to accept that those persons with whom we have sweetest and selfless memories of our life will go.
@@gaaanaaa that's so mean of you to reply this way. I am not begging for sympathy. I don't want any sympathy from anyone. if you don't want to read the comment then don't read.
I lost both my parents back to back on 13 months of gap. 2021 and 2022. Depression and Anxiety slowly started to grow in me, I started listening to all Sivan songs and Mantras which was in my language Tamil. Started to listen Sadguru’s video, Mangayarkarasi videos and some other positive videos. I overcame depression but this anxiety is still being with me(but I am better now not fully ok) Even this minute I was thinking about my parents and got this video while suffering, it is really really hard to overcome. And I Am the only daughter 😢 To all of us who lost our parents I wish we get to heal sooner.
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
dear sister, The way you overcome this hard time, is a inspiration to all of us. Now you become the light to so many people. GOD BLESS YOU with lots of love , courage, and peace, be HAPPY forever.
@@sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836: Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
I'm 29, my mother died when i was 10, my father died when i was 21. Untill the middle of this video , i really felt terrible due to that, not 24x7 but yes, I do think that, my life is at this state due to their absence, but by the time the video ends, i really feel free. Letting go has happened. Thanks Sadhguru ❤❤🙏
I am feeling like he is talking to me too. My heart really goes out to this woman as I too lost my mother a month ago and I am fallen apart . Thank you so much Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏
My mom was 92 when she passed away.. She did not live a worthy life what she deserved to be!! Last3-4 years was miserable.. Till today I was worrying about her and her miserable life.. making me cry and mentally down!! Today I want to become strong to cherish only her good memories she has left and kindly bless me for that Sadguru 🙏🙏🙏 I have become mentally depressed too seeing her last day’s ( year’s) suffering.. visiting psychiatrists and taking anti depressants.. not worried for she died.. but worried for the amount of displeasure she carried with her.. till her death .. only we could understand.. bless me to over come all these guruji..she was a precious woman than a mother!!🙏🙏🙏
Mother is most precious posession in every one's life So as sadguru said we need to cherish and enlive her dreams and not be sad which any mother doesn't wish for her child Again each person suffering is the result of karma from previous births there is no other reason I think
I lost my Mom 22 years back.. I am sorry, I blasted out crying loud when I heard her cry. Nothing works.. But yes, time heals to a certain extent dear.. Just pray for her that she gets a better family to take rebirth. Pray 🙌🙌for her. Bouts of loneliness will be occasional. Stick to your spiritual pursuits and also friends!
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
This question was like a test for sadguru in my inner conscience .Message was good but wished a better spiritual answer . I lost my mother 8 years back . At class 10 . after her lost , i joined college . No one to guide , no one to restrict . Now, After 8 years . self realizing and seeking spiritual growth .
Come December 7th, it would be 4 years since I lost my mother to cancer. I still have nightmares, feel lack of breath and guilty thinking I couldn’t save her… The pain I get is terrible. My heart goes for this lady and I literally can feel her pain. But really, wonderful message and a blessing from Sadguru. From this moment on, I too will try and change my perspective on this subject 🙌🙏🏻
Same here.even i have nightmares lack of breath sometimes .fearing the loss of my mother to cancer since past 6 months. Feeling i could have saved her .tried a little more.Gurudev plz help me bless me..
I lost my Maasi 3 days back and I loved her dearly. She passed away early at the age of just 39years due to cancer. She lead a difficult life and I hope she’s now in a happier abode. I really miss her so much and it’s difficult to cope with this loss. Please pray for her soul 😞
I lost my mother not too long ago. Lost any and all connection to my family other than my sister, wasn't expecting that. She was always there for me. It has been difficult making loyal friends who I can trust or find a girlfriend who is genuine. Now I am so completely alone. The loneliness and darkness are so vast that it has become like a sentient companion. Pray for me for I am truly lost.
So sorry for your loss. Please go out into the world and meet people, make friends and begin to enjoy life. Life is a special gift given to us. Good Luck.
it's hard truly just lost my mother last month, really painful, left alone, may be we both sailing with the same situation, but the universe will take care of us
Even though i haven't lost my mother, I lost people who were too important. For the past 1.5 yes, i have been in absolute terror off & on. I have met death. I have had a huge spiritual surgery. I have been alone. It's been cruel but I have discovered something beautiful too. Thankfully my parents have been there with me through all this in the background. Now I'm scared about losing my parents. That makes me feel empty & a sense of terror again.
LAMA ZOPA RINPOCHE - "You are not alone because all the time there are numberless buddhas and bodhisattvas surrounding you, everywhere loving you, guiding you, that is what they do."
@Pendragon981 You got my prayers, hope you are doing better and have some peace, You are here on this planet to enjoy life, love and be loved and not only suffer, so please never let the Hope die, I wish you healing right from my heart's center, I wish you love and true joy in every breath you take!!! ❤
Had I seen this video 4 years back when I lost my father... I would have managed myself / my life in better way. This is truly an eye opener for all who lost their parents.
Recently my mother left her body, and as sadguru said, I will cherish the sweetest memories I have with my mom, ofcourse miss her calling me with that much love, none can call me with such love in their words, but I remember her beautiful and sweet smile and will honor her with her joyous smile she always have on her face, shall pass on on mine
This happened to a friend .. n she was so worried abt her Mom esp her afterlife.. whether she is safe 'up' there.. she did a lot of remedies n rituals One day in her meditation she appeared to her n said she is fine .. it's her sadness that's actually making it heavy for them up there.. Ever since she moved on
That was most beautiful, and I will cherish all the memories of my Mother, to honour her, and I will be joyful, and thankful. Much love from her fills my heart so sweetly. Thank you for your very wise words!!!!
I always say this when people ask me how I never went to a funeral in 30 years. I don't go to funerals. Instead of crying because they died, I cherish their lives ❤️🙏☀️
Thank you Sadhguru for this eye opening session. Lost my mom in sep 2023. Cried enough in all these three years I pray for her well being wherever she is. Mummy I know you too will Miss me. Love and hugs my dear Mom forever in my memory
It is exactly one year I lost my mom..I feel thr is no coping... All the videos tat talks about being a mommy's boy, having no skill to move on, this life is a small happening, etc etc... Let them all say whatever... Its like i lost my Shakthi, my sole energy and I feel all am running on is just some dark energy...i just live to complete my obligation to exist and take care of the souls who depend on me... Just one day at a time
You put my feelings into words exactly. I too have lost my Shakti and raison d'etre . I'm existing because others depend on me. Sending you lots of love and hugs. May God comfort and heal you.
My mother died in Dec 21, i was shattered along with family in nursing her to relatively quick death. I am not religious or even spiritual but i was just broken day after day but i started listening to Sadguru and I was able to move forward with his really mind opening talks, certainly recommend it for anyone. My mum lives in my mind quietly to cherish her memories…..
I lost my Mom a month ago. Happened unexpectedly. Heart attack. In the Japanese culture they say nobody ever leaves you. They are still with you. You just have to look for the signs. And this video randomly popped up on my YT feed 😢
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Sadguru i lost my mother 20 years back but she lives on in my heart ❤always. I have so many memories to keep me going.. Every relation is love based .. they leave you but they never go away. ❤
Thank you so much! I lost my father to cancer 7 days ago and my mother is also battling cancer. I am so afraid of losing her too... Your words always help put things into perspektive and i will try to remind my self of them whenever pain and fear take over me. I wish the lady, that spoke at the beginning, to soon be able to find true healing and comfort!
I lost my mom too I can understand.. gradually I realised everyone is in our life for a reason or a season but when you do things to honour her she’ll get a cold breeze in whatever form she is right now
I'd like to think of our loved ones as treasures or gifts from life. When they are gone, the thought that other fortunate beings will be able to receive such a gift, and also the thought that I will meet them one day in a different way, might help a bit to move on... love and hugs and prayers to you all❤
I lost my mom on 24th March 2024, its been like 20 Days. I feel life is meaningless.. I did not get even chance to meet her for the last time. She was everything to me. My mother has done everything to me. She was world to me. She was my Best Friend , My Everything.. I just dont know.. How i will be able to live without her. Everyday seems like Hell , Time does not pass quickly. I just wish wherever my mother is she should be happy and in peace. My mother always told me to be strong, I have younger brother and sister. I miss you Mummy at lot.. !!
I lost my mother last year February. I still not recovered. I am living alone. I don't know how many more days for me on earth. Everyday passing a day has become challenge to me. I will cry for mother and pray to God to send her back and I realize that what foolish thing am asking to God but still this mind wants my mother. Amma come back.
Thank you so much Sadhguru ji you explain so nicely a burden on my heart is also minimise by some way ..I always remember those happy moments with my mother ...love u maa ...forever❤❤❤❤❤
I lost my mum 22nd March 2024 I feel so much for her , i watched an interview of Andrew Garfield talking about losing his mum, and he said "Grief is unexpressed love". I love the way he put it
I lost maa 3 months back all of a sudden. Her only wish was to leave when she was on her feet and not bed ridden with sm disease n dats wat exactly she was granted. But last 5 days she suffered. I couldnt sleep for many nights remebering the sight when she wss in pain. When I think from her angle, I feel its better for her, her body was giving up she was exhausted n tired of living life. She had a miserable one. But then when I think selfishly I feel she shdnt hav gone leaving me alone in this cruel world.
Same here.even i lost my mom 5 months ago.she was tired of living inthis cruel world.she passed of cancer at the age of 70.yes she was in pain last two years.unable to walk.she has gone leaving me alone in this selfish world..
He is not an enlightened guru. He is a sophisticated con guru. A woman torn apart in pain because of her mothers death expecting some sor of consolation from the "holy" Sadguru and in response he delivers pedagocial lectures interspaced with intense LAUGHTER. Sadhgiri you fool, do you think that woman joined in that laughter ?!
@@goranandrijasevic2534you did not get a thing he said. That was the whole message in the way he responded as well. She should not make her mother the source of her pain if she really loves and honours her. At least her mother wouldn’t want that. Otherwise she is just feeling sorry for herself and whining about it.❤
While I liked what he said, common sense and logic do not work in a loved ones death unless you are already at a higher level of consciousness. The grief has to run its course, like an illness. May her grief be shortlived 🕉️
I lost both my parents 20 years ago. I was a young teenager and up till today I still have no idea how to manage the sadness that lives inside of me. Losing someone you love so dearly is heartbreaking. There is no manual or no one who has the right answer to relief one’s pain of loss. But what I can say that has helped me alot is to be compassionate with yourself and others. By being compassionate allows you to share your grief and understanding your deep pains. It’s a slow jounery of healing but what this does is it makes the grief feel more like a connection to your spiritual journey and this connection allows you to slowly accept the pain. At the end pain is pain. The grief we hold inside of us opens our hearts to bring gentle, loving and more kinder.
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Please know that many sages and saints whdn lost thrur nears and dampers started seeking the truth. Theyvrenunicuated society and went to forest ti study under guidance if a spiritual guru. They knew the truth, thus world,other world. That was solution for them. So there are solutions...
I lost my Mother in April, 2024 my being in my late 30s & Mamma couldn't even witness my marriage during her lifetime. I am taking care of my ageing Father along with our home. Papa is trying to stay strong while I emotionally break down when he's not watching me in our home. I feel guilty about my life as a son since Mamma's demise but watching this video made me realize how I can try to avoid feeling guilty & come out of stressful grief regarding Mamma's loss. Thank you 🙏
This was comforting to me as i am incredibly sad. I lost my mom on April 21, 2024. I am 53 years old, so i am fortunate for all that time. However, like Sadhguru said, would twenty more years or one hundred more have been enough? No. I have to think of the natural order of life, and it was her time.
I lost my hero Mum 2 months ago and I felt intense pain 😢but to know that Mum is with Sri Krishna and SriRadharani in the Supreme Abode now and forever in a better place gave me that peace in my soul 😢
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I lost my father 10 months back. Still not able to overcome it. I always need to distract myself to forget the fact that this is never going to be fixed .People said to me, time heals everything .Give it time.The hollowness would never be healed.
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Even I lost both my parents within a year! However hard I try to cope it’s difficult really the mind sways like a pendulum sometimes stable sometimes mess. Sadguru your message was good thanks
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
@@ApexofWar_oh dear! I’m crying as im typing this. I am so sorry for all of us who have to go through this. I lost my dear dad 10 years ago and now my mom has dementia in her 60s only. It’s like she is melting in front of my eyes. The pain is so enormous. She doesn’t recognize me anymore and I am my parents’ only daughter. I only have one brother so my parents gave us their undevided attention because they had only 2 kids. I sometimes wish that I had more siblings so I could share my pain with them. My brother lives overseas. You are not alone. Many of us have suffered this great pain and are still suffering. What makes me mad is that there are some people in their 60s and 70s who still have their parents around. It is so unfair! Let me hug you tight. Please know that I have a heavy heart just like you do and you are not alone 😢😢😢😢😢
I have lost my mother Shakar Khanu and my father as well Dr. Abdul Rasool and I am so depressed, I am now 56 years of age and Iam going to die too but I remember every second of my breath. May Almighty Allah rest their soul in eternal peace. Ameen
if you replace "cope" with "acceptance"? to cope is to overcome a problem or difficulties. and that feeling generates resistance. the reality is we all leave this place. and to accept with gratefulness the natural way of life brings peace in the heart. may you find love and peace in your heart.
Lost my mother on 12/06/2024.She was a single mom and struggled all her life to give me and my brother the best life she could.She died in her sleep,it was so unexpected I'm still trying to accept it. I'll cherish her memories forever, I would live a happy life because that was what she wanted. I Love you mom.If heaven exists and I'm fortunate enough to get there, I would come running and hug you. Thank you Mom for everything. I'll miss you forever.
I was in the same pain a few minutes ago as my father oassed away a few weeks back. The last few lines gave me immense perspective. Indeed I will miss him but choosing a better quality of life will truly honour him. Thanks Sadhguru. I do not need grief counselling anymore.
What a great, knowledgeable man. He also seems so humble. Which takes so much strength while being someone who people look up to. I pray that woman has found more peace. I hope she will see her mother again one day.
I lost my mother over 14 years ago and the pain is something you learn to bare. He is right my mother let us run free to educate ourselves on so many ways. She did this because she wanted to be assured that when it was time for her to go, she would be confident that she had done a great job. I will love her until the day i gave to go.
Thank you for this video! After loosing a pair of twins, my parents, and my grand-parents-mother’s side, I felt empty and lost in this life. The same feeling as the meditator’s question on this video, but, Sadhguru’s explanation helped me understand and decide to honor them. Thank you!🙏
I too am currently going through this pain. Im devastated without her. My heart it aches, I miss everything about her. I hadn’t seen her in a year but we spoke so much! I’m suffering from literal pain in my heart. I’m only 39 and she was 79, I never expected to lose her when I’m still young😢
Lost my mother, it’s two months since she left me. Two months ago at this time she was alive, with me and I did not have the slightly clue that by evening my whole world would come crashing down. I go on with life like a robot. I can’t sleep, I don’t have the same kind of faith in god anymore. I did all the rituals because my mother believed in it. I don’t think I’ll ever recover. I’m the only child and she was all I had. I go on with the hope that I’ll meet her in the afterlife and I try to live because she worked really hard to make something of me. I’ve come so close to giving up but I go on because I have to. Whoever has lost someone dear to you, I hope you find the strength to go on.
Watching this video reminded me of a line said by Tom Cruise in the movie "The last Samurai" : Don't remember people how they died, Remember them by how they lived. ( I have modified the line a bit to fit this context)
Today I was feeling down at the loss of a friend, but I knew that Sadhguru would have insight into how to cope. My search brought me here and now I have peace. Sometimes I don't know where Sadhguru is going with his message and it seems as if he goes off some other direction, but he always returns to the question with an answer and wonderful insight.
My god I share this ladies pain. Like deep deep pain. I haven’t been myself since I lost my best friend. My mom died February 1, 2021 and I have been in deep pain and unrecognizable for the last 3 years. Idk how so many years have gone by but this one message helps me to change my thinking. Having joy doesn’t mean I forget about my mother or leave her behind, it’s carrying her with me in everything because that’s what she’d want, as cliche as that sounds. Thank you thank you thank you for this message..
It's been one year since I've lost my precious person my mother in law we were friends close buddies she was everything to me I can feel her presence still now miss her so much can feel the pain you're going through keep strong
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Thank you for your simple wisdom. It brought a lot of comfort knowing that I am who my parents made me (both have passed on) and I will cherish them and make them sources of joy as I raise my own kids.
I am 29 and lost my mother a month ago. It has really given me some peace. My mother has done everything for me , so this is my responsibility to make myself happy for her atleast. Love you Mummy ...will always cherish what you taught me . Thank you for being my mother in this life and wish to be your daughter for every life.
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Iam 20 years and I lost my mother 20 days back on Mahashivratri night 😢
Lost my mother 6 mths back. The pain at times is immense. Probably she could have lived for a few more years, but Im happy she was always there for me. I still talk to her and pray to her. Im sure we will meet our loved ones in the other Realm after we complete our journey. I too wish to be her son in every life.
Do we meet our dead family members after death?@@Sartaj_1
I must be amongst very few lucky ones, like Sadhguru explained, my mother lovingly made me understand that her death should not pain me and I should accept it as normal course of life, she also reminded me that sooner or later I will also die and so will next generation, so it’s a cycle which is not be worried about. She also explained me that I should recognize my role then as a daughter but now myself a mother , she said I must move on from identifying myself not just as her girl but another child’s mother . Last thing she reminded me is that she lost her mother in her teens and I was in my thirtys which itself is blessing .
Such great soul she was that knowing she was dying and that I should be steady , she gave this wonderful lesson when she was still alive . When she passed away I did not cry at all, there was some sort of peace in heart, I thank her each day for it, I do miss her a lot, her touch , her smell of her sarees , all her wise words teachings practically everything she gave me to make who I am today
I understand the value of her teachings today a step more after listening to Sadhguru and I have been teaching this to my teenage kids as well I want them to have that wisdom when I pass away Namaskaram
So beautiful!! ❤✨🌊 Thank you
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Beautiful...Thanks a lot.❤
I am going to screenshot this. So beautiful❤
It helped.
The lady is in pain. She said spiritual learnings are not working. Thats the key you don't learn anything spiritual you only realize, untill you realize no amount of learning can help. No guru on this earth can touch ones head and permanently instantaneously make anyone at peace when facing inevitable facts of life. A guru can only guide with realization and thats what Sadhguru can do as well. I hope and prey she finds peace soon.
Agree 💯
Why any comments, say good and be good, heal yourself and let her too
Such events are opportunities and turning points of time , to establish knowledge effectively.
@JEFFQUICKLE9 You're projecting about embarrassing yourself. The connection between this daughter and her mother has nothing to do with guidance. Its stronger than heroin addiction. Thats why opiates work. They are there to create a deep bond so the mother cares and loves her children and the children also will not runaway from the mother. When soldiers were bayonetted in ww2 most of them called out a word in Japanese which the allies did also. In English it meant mother. It wasn't guru anyway. Pain is pain . Only through immense physical suffering can you make yourself partially immune and by acceptance you ease it considerably. This can't be done in a short space of time such as this case where she lost her mother suddenly only a month ago. He makes a good point about the parents not having to see the child die as happens too often
Ugh keep ur negativity to urself
I lost my mother two days ago because she was suffering from cancer, she was everything to me, I can't even imagine my life without her, she was always with me every moment, I loved her very much, Now she is not with me, it feels like there is complete darkness all around me, I don't know what to do to help me cope... I am also happy that her suffering is over She went because she was in extreme pain... I pray to God that her soul rests in peace. I will try my best to live with her memories, she will always be in my heart, I pray to God that in the next life I am born from my mother's womb and she and I live together for a long time.
Jai Shri Krishna
stay strong mam and keep doing good work in the name of your mom make her proud always remember she never wanted to see you sad isn't it?
@@Omega-dj9sh🙏🙏
My mum died a week ago my heart is in so much pain ....i.m sorry about your mum and I hope that you feel better now ❤
Daily I'm also praying to just get a birth again in my mother's womb...praying for this day n night ...pray for me 🙏
@@mandywilson5004 🙏🏼🙏🏼💗
I can really relate to this woman’s suffering. Sending all people who have lost someone close to them much love and healing ❤️🩹
Yes everything people see on social media.
They just wanna relate.
They act as if bad things only happen to themselves and until they see on social media they think it doesnt happen to any1 else.😂
🤗🤗
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
I can relate to her suffering but can't relate to him.
lost my mother on November 6 of this month Deep agony feeling to end myself
I lost my mother too, she was my mother, friend, comfort, love, support, caring, strong and everything u can think of, She was no less than a God to me, I am just grateful that I got to walk and share the same space in this life. Noone will love me more than her....I am sure I will meet her one day. Stay strong, you never know your mother might be watching over u.
Life is a unknown way to travel
So wherever we travel let's make it a good one
There is no death.....only a change of worlds....the spirit always lives❤
Yes ❤️
Lol..
After the earth explodes i wonder where the spirit will live?
In space vaccum?
Our body is a temporary garage for our soul....after death the soul is free....it takes a new body later on....depending on one's Karma in previous life. Got it?
Some realized souls who have achieved enlightenment do not take rebirth but are united with the infinite. They achieve the heavenly abode.
@@firuzadegamwala7914seems like u are lord buddha .wow so much knowledge.. its making me cringe
Buddhism don't have a God....I am no God.....I am nothing......nothing to give but Love. And sorry to make u cringe.
I lost my mom 3 days ago, she was the resemblance of the position of dad because she did everything for me and my brother and also she has helped so many of people....when she was alive I don't know the value of her and I was like a spendthrift and irresponsible but after she died now I realised Everything. One thing I would like to say to all, please do love and spend a time with your mom and dad , take care of them when they're with you🖤🙂.... I love you Mom you're my queen and you're my inspiration 👸🔥🥺 love you forever 🕯️Lourdes Marie🕯️
Having lost my Mother recently, I have been in the same state of mind as that lady. Suffering from the guilt that I could have done more for her, and why she left so soon. This message from Sadhguru has given me peace of mind. My heartfelt gratitude to you Sadhguru 🙏
❤
same here i lost both my parents and keep getting these thoughts of guilt
@@jyotsanadang7203I lost my Dad to cardiac Arrest on 5 November the guilt will be there till my last breath
Even I'm ... I lost everything now when Mother is no more..
I lost my mother a month ago. Thank you for this, it’s what I needed to hear.
I COMPLETELY hear the girl. I lost my ever dearest mom 9 years ago. I always have this flash in my mind. People say time will heal but no one defines the time you see. I am just waiting for the day when I can reunite both my Mom and dad. I count my years to fully be there for my kids/ grandkids if needed and just can’t wait for the day to meet my dearest parents again who sacrificed so much for their children. ❤️
Same here sister😢
Even I lost both parents at young age...This is a lifelong punishment for children..
@@suhasdj11i can feel you bro😭😭😭
It has been 41 days since my mother passed away, your precious speech gave me so much courage Sadhguru
I lost my mother last month. I wish I could talk to this sister and make her understand that when your loved ones die their suffering ends and yours begin, you feel unbearable emotional pain, you miss the support and love they have provided to you in your most darkest time only to keep you happy and keep moving in life. So their prime agenda was to see you happy and keep moving. All you need is to fullfill the void because of their demise by being the same loving and supportive person for rest of your family.
I lost my beloved father to covid... n it was sudden, most unexpected n has left a huge scar in my existence. There's deep emotional pain n constant feeling of hopelessness. Noone can replicate that affection. Im single n its just me n my mother now.... ther's constant fear n insecurity.
😢
Not all of us have any family left.
A 100 Sadhgurus would transform this planet. So beautiful.
Let the transformation start with you.Who knows you could be 1 of 100🙏
@@ascetic1very positive words bro.. ❤
Thanks for the positive thought.. we need 100 Sadhgurus.
I felt so much grief hearing that girl i wanted to hug her 😢my eyes were tear filled i do hope she finds some peace❤
Me too❤
@@vlastabaracme too, I was crying and couldn't stop
@@Serene_Lexicon pure emotion. I hope he helped her...but it dosn't work for me that way...
I was almost scared not knowing how this might end. What a beautiful message Sadhguru! 🙏💗🎉
Read my comment, fool.
Good wisdom
Wisdom in pure form ❤❤❤
I lost my real brother just a few months back that too infront of my eyes in a terrible accident , I was sitting behind him in bike.
Some people are finding Sadhguru's this message harsh. But let me tell there should be atleast someone that can tell you things brutally honestly otherwise you won't get anything out of just listening solace. I am thankful he said the way he said it helped me a lot in coping with my brother's demise.
@@anuragnathyal5889I'm so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt condolences to you. I pray you and your family have the strength to go through these times.
My grandmother always said first I will pass then your mother then you then your children it’s the circle of life I’ve never forgotten about this ❤
I lost my mother 2 months back and still grieve as though it happened just yesterday. I felt Sadhguru was directly talking to me as I am an only daughter of my loving parents too! Jai Shri Sadhguruji!🙏🙏
I am going through this..on the verge of losing my mom and its depressing and tearful and the spiritual lessons don't work, and somewhere I feel the pain she is also going through 😢
I lost my father last 21 september 2023. I can feel her pain. We need to accept that those persons with whom we have sweetest and selfless memories of our life will go.
I lost my father on 20 September 2023. Very hard to accept the truth..😢very hard. Still can't believe what has happened.
@@gaaanaaa that's so mean of you to reply this way. I am not begging for sympathy. I don't want any sympathy from anyone. if you don't want to read the comment then don't read.
@@gaaanaaa you have your parents with you?
@@rashmikakhandaki5550 I lost my dad to cardiac arrest on 5 November 2023..Still there is a guilt of I could have saved him
@@rashmikakhandaki5550 i lost my grandfather today who raised me. Life seems too difficult. But I will try to be strong for my mother
The way this girl started, brought tears to my eyes.
I suffered this loss when I lost my father in 2021.
Anyway, Jay Ma Durga, happy Navratri to all.
I lost both my parents back to back on 13 months of gap. 2021 and 2022. Depression and Anxiety slowly started to grow in me, I started listening to all Sivan songs and Mantras which was in my language Tamil. Started to listen Sadguru’s video, Mangayarkarasi videos and some other positive videos. I overcame depression but this anxiety is still being with me(but I am better now not fully ok) Even this minute I was thinking about my parents and got this video while suffering, it is really really hard to overcome.
And I Am the only daughter 😢
To all of us who lost our parents I wish we get to heal sooner.
You are a powerful, peaceful and pure soul.
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
dear sister, The way you overcome this hard time, is a inspiration to all of us. Now you become the light to so many people. GOD BLESS YOU with lots of love , courage, and peace, be HAPPY forever.
Most of us who are single daughters are the worst affected. Missing my mom to....
@@sparrowsadhanarajkumar3836: Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
My heart was in my mouth when i heard her... please god reduce her pain so she can cope up
I'm 29, my mother died when i was 10, my father died when i was 21. Untill the middle of this video , i really felt terrible due to that, not 24x7 but yes, I do think that, my life is at this state due to their absence, but by the time the video ends, i really feel free. Letting go has happened. Thanks Sadhguru ❤❤🙏
God bless you ❤
@@NPPREMA 🙏
I pray for you
@@Awesome46009 🙏
😂 I also pray for you ❤❤
I am feeling like he is talking to me too. My heart really goes out to this woman as I too lost my mother a month ago and I am fallen apart . Thank you so much Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏
My mom was 92 when she passed away.. She did not live a worthy life what she deserved to be!!
Last3-4 years was miserable.. Till today I was worrying about her and her miserable life.. making me cry and mentally down!!
Today I want to become strong to cherish only her good memories she has left and kindly bless me for that Sadguru 🙏🙏🙏
I have become mentally depressed too seeing her last day’s ( year’s) suffering.. visiting psychiatrists and taking anti depressants..
not worried for she died.. but worried for the amount of displeasure she carried with her.. till her death .. only we could understand..
bless me to over come all these guruji..she was a precious woman than a mother!!🙏🙏🙏
I am also suffering the same problem what to do i didn't understand
Mother is most precious posession in every one's life
So as sadguru said we need to cherish and enlive her dreams and not be sad which any mother doesn't wish for her child
Again each person suffering is the result of karma from previous births there is no other reason I think
I lost my Mom 22 years back.. I am sorry, I blasted out crying loud when I heard her cry. Nothing works.. But yes, time heals to a certain extent dear.. Just pray for her that she gets a better family to take rebirth. Pray 🙌🙌for her. Bouts of loneliness will be occasional. Stick to your spiritual pursuits and also friends!
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
@@AnushreeMajumdar29feb Sure! Thanks!
This question was like a test for sadguru in my inner conscience .Message was good but wished a better spiritual answer .
I lost my mother 8 years back . At class 10 . after her lost , i joined college . No one to guide , no one to restrict . Now, After 8 years . self realizing and seeking spiritual growth .
Rebirth there?
Yes I broke into tears when I heard her ...wish Sadhguru had comforted her a bit but I totally agree with his advice
Come December 7th, it would be 4 years since I lost my mother to cancer. I still have nightmares, feel lack of breath and guilty thinking I couldn’t save her… The pain I get is terrible. My heart goes for this lady and I literally can feel her pain.
But really, wonderful message and a blessing from Sadguru. From this moment on, I too will try and change my perspective on this subject 🙌🙏🏻
Same here.even i have nightmares lack of breath sometimes .fearing the loss of my mother to cancer since past 6 months. Feeling i could have saved her .tried a little more.Gurudev plz help me bless me..
Oh man I can feel her pain so hard!!!!!! I wish I could hug her!!! I’m so sorry to this soul!!! 😢
I lost my Maasi 3 days back and I loved her dearly. She passed away early at the age of just 39years due to cancer. She lead a difficult life and I hope she’s now in a happier abode. I really miss her so much and it’s difficult to cope with this loss. Please pray for her soul 😞
May God bless her soul.....evan i lost my mother too ...on this sept 24...bcoz of Blood cancer.....😞
@@mnkp1958May she rest in peace. More strength to you!
@@rituroat8633 Thank you
May the soul of the Maasi and the mother of the respective persons, live in everlasting peace and happiness.
She has been absorbed back into the source the source of are energy the same one that powers the sun and all existence…❤
I lost my mother not too long ago. Lost any and all connection to my family other than my sister, wasn't expecting that. She was always there for me. It has been difficult making loyal friends who I can trust or find a girlfriend who is genuine. Now I am so completely alone. The loneliness and darkness are so vast that it has become like a sentient companion. Pray for me for I am truly lost.
So sorry for your loss. Please go out into the world and meet people, make friends and begin to enjoy life. Life is a special gift given to us. Good Luck.
it's hard truly just lost my mother last month, really painful, left alone, may be we both sailing with the same situation, but the universe will take care of us
Even though i haven't lost my mother, I lost people who were too important. For the past 1.5 yes, i have been in absolute terror off & on. I have met death. I have had a huge spiritual surgery. I have been alone. It's been cruel but I have discovered something beautiful too.
Thankfully my parents have been there with me through all this in the background.
Now I'm scared about losing my parents. That makes me feel empty & a sense of terror again.
LAMA ZOPA RINPOCHE - "You are not alone because all the time there are numberless buddhas and bodhisattvas surrounding you, everywhere loving you, guiding you, that is what they do."
@Pendragon981 You got my prayers, hope you are doing better and have some peace, You are here on this planet to enjoy life, love and be loved and not only suffer, so please never let the Hope die, I wish you healing right from my heart's center, I wish you love and true joy in every breath you take!!! ❤
Had I seen this video 4 years back when I lost my father... I would have managed myself / my life in better way. This is truly an eye opener for all who lost their parents.
I lost both and its not easy,I pray for healing for all that are going thru this,thank you Sadghuru for Wizdom words.
Recently my mother left her body, and as sadguru said, I will cherish the sweetest memories I have with my mom, ofcourse miss her calling me with that much love, none can call me with such love in their words, but I remember her beautiful and sweet smile and will honor her with her joyous smile she always have on her face, shall pass on on mine
This happened to a friend .. n she was so worried abt her Mom esp her afterlife.. whether she is safe 'up' there.. she did a lot of remedies n rituals
One day in her meditation she appeared to her n said she is fine .. it's her sadness that's actually making it heavy for them up there..
Ever since she moved on
can you tell me how her meditation process was and how she received this message?
That was most beautiful, and I will cherish all the memories of my Mother, to honour her, and I will be joyful, and thankful. Much love from her fills my heart so sweetly. Thank you for your very wise words!!!!
I got tears in my eyes.... wisdom pours from his words, pranam Sadguru!!!
😂😂 Jaggi is a wife murdering charlatan
My heart goes out for her , cannot get over my mom's loss it's almost 3 years ago....
❤ I lost my mum 8 weeks ago x
I always say this when people ask me how I never went to a funeral in 30 years. I don't go to funerals.
Instead of crying because they died, I cherish their lives ❤️🙏☀️
Lately im
also not a fan of funerals
the pain in her voice made my heart break... I felt her pain and cried... I wish I could give her a hug! :(
Maa and pita ji is most expensive gifts we have...love you maa and pita ji❤
Thank you Sadhguru for this eye opening session. Lost my mom in sep 2023. Cried enough in all these three years
I pray for her well being wherever she is. Mummy I know you too will Miss me. Love and hugs my dear Mom forever in my memory
It is exactly one year I lost my mom..I feel thr is no coping... All the videos tat talks about being a mommy's boy, having no skill to move on, this life is a small happening, etc etc... Let them all say whatever... Its like i lost my Shakthi, my sole energy and I feel all am running on is just some dark energy...i just live to complete my obligation to exist and take care of the souls who depend on me... Just one day at a time
Sending you much love and compassion ❤
Find yourself a loving wife and pass on the good things your mother taught you. In this way you show your real love for her.
You put my feelings into words exactly. I too have lost my Shakti and raison d'etre . I'm existing because others depend on me. Sending you lots of love and hugs. May God comfort and heal you.
Dear stranger,may you find strength and courage🙏@@NPPREMA
My mother died in Dec 21, i was shattered along with family in nursing her to relatively quick death. I am not religious or even spiritual but i was just broken day after day but i started listening to Sadguru and I was able to move forward with his really mind opening talks, certainly recommend it for anyone. My mum lives in my mind quietly to cherish her memories…..
Hugs
There is no god bro...
Why r u here..sadhguru has said million times he hasnt prayed ever..he doesnt believe in god..
Why r u here ..? Plz dont ..
Beautifully said..my Mum lives in mind too❤
I lost my Mom a month ago. Happened unexpectedly. Heart attack. In the Japanese culture they say nobody ever leaves you. They are still with you. You just have to look for the signs. And this video randomly popped up on my YT feed 😢
signs wont bring your loved ones back to you
@@blackiedarling7539 I get comfort, knowing they are here in spirit
This is a lovely message for all who have suffered loss ❤
I lost my mother 2 month ago, it’s very hard to believe. I can relate to her. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Truth of human nature 🌺🌺🌺🙏
When every things are in front they ignore but when nothing is left they remember everything!!!
Jai Gurudev 🌺🙏🧘🏻♂️❤️
Absolutely 💯 correctly said. I thought exactly like this when my father left for his onward journey 12 years back
Never thought wisdom can be so overwhelming that it can make tear up from inside. Controlled my tears somehow
I can understand and feel what is that girl going through because I lost both of my parents six years ago. I am still a lonely guy. 😢
Sadguru i lost my mother 20 years back but she lives on in my heart ❤always. I have so many memories to keep me going.. Every relation is love based .. they leave you but they never go away. ❤
I lost my mother when I was 6. It was tough. But okay, you heal with time.
My mother just died. My sibling died and father are also dead. I am completely alone.
This video has helped me immensely, you have no idea.
I’m sorry I just lost my mom but I do have siblings I wish you well and we could be pen pals should you need to talk 🙏🏽 Blessings
Thank you so much!
I lost my father to cancer 7 days ago and my mother is also battling cancer.
I am so afraid of losing her too...
Your words always help put things into perspektive and i will try to remind my self of them whenever pain and fear take over me.
I wish the lady, that spoke at the beginning, to soon be able to find true healing and comfort!
Thank you I just lost my mom and hearing this gave me insight of spiritual growth. Thank you
End speech how to cherish.. Was so awesome guruji... Really very blessed to hear all your hear ...
Northern women also remember this thing very well sadhguru ji
I lost my mom too I can understand.. gradually I realised everyone is in our life for a reason or a season but when you do things to honour her she’ll get a cold breeze in whatever form she is right now
Awww. Feel her pain. Praying for her peace
I'd like to think of our loved ones as treasures or gifts from life. When they are gone, the thought that other fortunate beings will be able to receive such a gift, and also the thought that I will meet them one day in a different way, might help a bit to move on... love and hugs and prayers to you all❤
I enjoy listening to him. I always find comfort and peace when I do.
Bless you🙏
I lost my mom on 24th March 2024, its been like 20 Days. I feel life is meaningless.. I did not get even chance to meet her for the last time. She was everything to me. My mother has done everything to me. She was world to me. She was my Best Friend , My Everything.. I just dont know.. How i will be able to live without her. Everyday seems like Hell , Time does not pass quickly. I just wish wherever my mother is she should be happy and in peace. My mother always told me to be strong, I have younger brother and sister. I miss you Mummy at lot.. !!
I lost my mother last year February. I still not recovered. I am living alone. I don't know how many more days for me on earth. Everyday passing a day has become challenge to me. I will cry for mother and pray to God to send her back and I realize that what foolish thing am asking to God but still this mind wants my mother. Amma come back.
@@shridharasg2635 Try doing something in her honour i.e buying medicines for a sick person who cannot afford it, paying a child's tuition...
Thank you so much Sadhguru ji you explain so nicely a burden on my heart is also minimise by some way ..I always remember those happy moments with my mother ...love u maa ...forever❤❤❤❤❤
Knowing hers are healed should heal you too.... Hope you found comfort by the wonderful response from Sadhguru.
I lost my mum 22nd March 2024
I feel so much for her , i watched an interview of Andrew Garfield talking about losing his mum, and he said "Grief is unexpressed love". I love the way he put it
Heart goes out to girl who asked the question
I lost maa 3 months back all of a sudden. Her only wish was to leave when she was on her feet and not bed ridden with sm disease n dats wat exactly she was granted. But last 5 days she suffered. I couldnt sleep for many nights remebering the sight when she wss in pain. When I think from her angle, I feel its better for her, her body was giving up she was exhausted n tired of living life. She had a miserable one. But then when I think selfishly I feel she shdnt hav gone leaving me alone in this cruel world.
I feel for you. So so sorry for your loss😥
@@sbr9719 🥹👋
Same here.even i lost my mom 5 months ago.she was tired of living inthis cruel world.she passed of cancer at the age of 70.yes she was in pain last two years.unable to walk.she has gone leaving me alone in this selfish world..
Yeah he speaks from personal experience.... He has Radhe, his only daughter😊😊😊😊
Jaggi murdered vijji
Very well said. Sadhguru uses logic and common sence that everybody can understand. 👏🏽🙏🏽
He is not an enlightened guru. He is a sophisticated con guru.
A woman torn apart in pain because of her mothers death expecting some sor of consolation from the "holy" Sadguru and in response he delivers pedagocial lectures interspaced with intense LAUGHTER.
Sadhgiri you fool, do you think that woman joined in that laughter ?!
@@goranandrijasevic2534 wow.....The level of ignorance is overwhelming........you want some pity? I have for u....I PITY THEE!
@@goranandrijasevic2534you did not get a thing he said. That was the whole message in the way he responded as well. She should not make her mother the source of her pain if she really loves and honours her. At least her mother wouldn’t want that. Otherwise she is just feeling sorry for herself and whining about it.❤
While I liked what he said, common sense and logic do not work in a loved ones death unless you are already at a higher level of consciousness. The grief has to run its course, like an illness. May her grief be shortlived 🕉️
@@goranandrijasevic2534are you happy now ? after posting your negative comment
The last few sentences are awesome... such a strong message...
I’ve lost my mother just 2 days ago, I can’t imagine how the rest of my life will be without her. She was my everything may god give her peace
I lost both my parents 20 years ago. I was a young teenager and up till today I still have no idea how to manage the sadness that lives inside of me. Losing someone you love so dearly is heartbreaking. There is no manual or no one who has the right answer to relief one’s pain of loss. But what I can say that has helped me alot is to be compassionate with yourself and others. By being compassionate allows you to share your grief and understanding your deep pains. It’s a slow jounery of healing but what this does is it makes the grief feel more like a connection to your spiritual journey and this connection allows you to slowly accept the pain. At the end pain is pain. The grief we hold inside of us opens our hearts to bring gentle, loving and more kinder.
May God bless you in abundance 🙏
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Please know that many sages and saints whdn lost thrur nears and dampers started seeking the truth. Theyvrenunicuated society and went to forest ti study under guidance if a spiritual guru. They knew the truth, thus world,other world.
That was solution for them. So there are solutions...
I lost my Mother in April, 2024 my being in my late 30s & Mamma couldn't even witness my marriage during her lifetime. I am taking care of my ageing Father along with our home. Papa is trying to stay strong while I emotionally break down when he's not watching me in our home. I feel guilty about my life as a son since Mamma's demise but watching this video made me realize how I can try to avoid feeling guilty & come out of stressful grief regarding Mamma's loss. Thank you 🙏
This was comforting to me as i am incredibly sad. I lost my mom on April 21, 2024. I am 53 years old, so i am fortunate for all that time. However, like Sadhguru said, would twenty more years or one hundred more have been enough? No. I have to think of the natural order of life, and it was her time.
I lost my hero Mum 2 months ago and I felt intense pain 😢but to know that Mum is with Sri Krishna and SriRadharani in the Supreme Abode now and forever in a better place gave me that peace in my soul 😢
I've lost my mother recently. Today's just the 21st day of her demise. This video helps me a lot to revive myself. Thank you, Sadhguru. Joyguru 🙏
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
@@AnushreeMajumdar29feb Thanks for your suggestion. I'll look for it. Joyguru 🙏
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I lost my father 10 months back. Still not able to overcome it. I always need to distract myself to forget the fact that this is never going to be fixed .People said to me, time heals everything .Give it time.The hollowness would never be healed.
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Even I lost both my parents within a year! However hard I try to cope it’s difficult really the mind sways like a pendulum sometimes stable sometimes mess. Sadguru your message was good thanks
I lost, my papa this aug. He was ok.. Suddenly.. Started becoming weak. N then got dengue. He was very kind person. Quiet one.. Missing him
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of your questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
My mom has only a few days left as I'm writing this. I'm fortunate to have heard this message while having just a little bit of time left with her ❤️💔
Those few days weren't long enough 😭
@@ApexofWar_oh dear! I’m crying as im typing this. I am so sorry for all of us who have to go through this. I lost my dear dad 10 years ago and now my mom has dementia in her 60s only. It’s like she is melting in front of my eyes. The pain is so enormous. She doesn’t recognize me anymore and I am my parents’ only daughter. I only have one brother so my parents gave us their undevided attention because they had only 2 kids. I sometimes wish that I had more siblings so I could share my pain with them. My brother lives overseas. You are not alone. Many of us have suffered this great pain and are still suffering. What makes me mad is that there are some people in their 60s and 70s who still have their parents around. It is so unfair! Let me hug you tight. Please know that I have a heavy heart just like you do and you are not alone 😢😢😢😢😢
I lost my mother on November 6 of this month, deeply saddened
Sorry for your loss brother may be she is in a better place now
so sorry i lost my mom last year in july suddenly and my dad this year nov. life is cruel
❤🙏🙏🙏
@@jyotsanadang7203What can one do in such situation. Right now I feel like an orphan.
I have lost both parents I don’t think you can ever heal u just learn to live without them
I have lost my mother Shakar Khanu and my father as well Dr. Abdul Rasool and I am so depressed, I am now 56 years of age and Iam going to die too but I remember every second of my breath. May Almighty Allah rest their soul in eternal peace. Ameen
I felt this😭❤️🩹
The last part...🫂
Thanks 🙏 for reminding me
Just lost my parents one month apart this year 💔
So trynna deal with this vacuum 🙏
I lost my papa 2 months back and still don’t know how to cope but crying every single day
if you replace "cope" with "acceptance"? to cope is to overcome a problem or difficulties. and that feeling generates resistance. the reality is we all leave this place. and to accept with gratefulness the natural way of life brings peace in the heart. may you find love and peace in your heart.
Lost my mother on 12/06/2024.She was a single mom and struggled all her life to give me and my brother the best life she could.She died in her sleep,it was so unexpected I'm still trying to accept it.
I'll cherish her memories forever, I would live a happy life because that was what she wanted.
I Love you mom.If heaven exists and I'm fortunate enough to get there, I would come running and hug you.
Thank you Mom for everything. I'll miss you forever.
I was in the same pain a few minutes ago as my father oassed away a few weeks back. The last few lines gave me immense perspective. Indeed I will miss him but choosing a better quality of life will truly honour him. Thanks Sadhguru. I do not need grief counselling anymore.
What a great, knowledgeable man. He also seems so humble. Which takes so much strength while being someone who people look up to. I pray that woman has found more peace. I hope she will see her mother again one day.
I lost my mother over 14 years ago and the pain is something you learn to bare. He is right my mother let us run free to educate ourselves on so many ways. She did this because she wanted to be assured that when it was time for her to go, she would be confident that she had done a great job. I will love her until the day i gave to go.
Great story..Great lesson for all..
Thank you for this video! After loosing a pair of twins, my parents, and my grand-parents-mother’s side, I felt empty and lost in this life. The same feeling as the meditator’s question on this video, but, Sadhguru’s explanation helped me understand and decide to honor them. Thank you!🙏
I too am currently going through this pain. Im devastated without her. My heart it aches, I miss everything about her. I hadn’t seen her in a year but we spoke so much! I’m suffering from literal pain in my heart. I’m only 39 and she was 79, I never expected to lose her when I’m still young😢
Lost my mother, it’s two months since she left me. Two months ago at this time she was alive, with me and I did not have the slightly clue that by evening my whole world would come crashing down. I go on with life like a robot. I can’t sleep, I don’t have the same kind of faith in god anymore. I did all the rituals because my mother believed in it. I don’t think I’ll ever recover. I’m the only child and she was all I had. I go on with the hope that I’ll meet her in the afterlife and I try to live because she worked really hard to make something of me. I’ve come so close to giving up but I go on because I have to. Whoever has lost someone dear to you, I hope you find the strength to go on.
Watching this video reminded me of a line said by Tom Cruise in the movie "The last Samurai" : Don't remember people how they died, Remember them by how they lived. ( I have modified the line a bit to fit this context)
Today I was feeling down at the loss of a friend, but I knew that Sadhguru would have insight into how to cope. My search brought me here and now I have peace. Sometimes I don't know where Sadhguru is going with his message and it seems as if he goes off some other direction, but he always returns to the question with an answer and wonderful insight.
It's scary to imagine a world without parents. But this is the reality everyone will face. How to come to terms is our maturity.
My god I share this ladies pain. Like deep deep pain. I haven’t been myself since I lost my best friend. My mom died February 1, 2021 and I have been in deep pain and unrecognizable for the last 3 years. Idk how so many years have gone by but this one message helps me to change my thinking. Having joy doesn’t mean I forget about my mother or leave her behind, it’s carrying her with me in everything because that’s what she’d want, as cliche as that sounds. Thank you thank you thank you for this message..
It's been one year since I've lost my precious person my mother in law we were friends close buddies she was everything to me I can feel her presence still now miss her so much can feel the pain you're going through keep strong
Wow
Please read chapter "Death of a loved one" from Book "Your Soul's Plan by Robert Schwartz " ....It will bring u healing as u will find answers to many of ypur questions there 🙏🌹🙏🌹
Thank you for your simple wisdom. It brought a lot of comfort knowing that I am who my parents made me (both have passed on) and I will cherish them and make them sources of joy as I raise my own kids.