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  • @goblinguy3103
    @goblinguy3103 11 месяцев назад +163

    We as leftists need to have a chat about valid vs reasonable. All emotions are inherently valid because *you’re having them*, but a lot of them aren’t reasonable.
    Friend take a bit longer to text back and now you’re angry at them? Valid, but not reasonable.
    Someone correct you on their pronouns and you think they were trying to embarrass you? Valid, but not reasonable.
    Just because your feelings are valid doesn’t mean they’re reasonable, and that’s okay

    • @AnarchicCrow
      @AnarchicCrow 11 месяцев назад +15

      Dude I hadn't thought of this, you put it very eloquently in a concise, easy to understand way, thank you ❤️

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад +7

      Yo that makes so much sense

    • @Fishie226
      @Fishie226 11 месяцев назад +7

      you are a better teacher than any i’ve ever had tbh

    • @darkacadpresenceinblood
      @darkacadpresenceinblood 11 месяцев назад +5

      yes this! you put it into words perfectly

    • @iupiter.161
      @iupiter.161 11 месяцев назад +7

      I need this thought in German now! I always think these super smart things in English, but I only communicate in German because I live here. I can't express my f.cking feelings and thoughts to the world around me😭
      Edit: could be also due to autism lol
      (Also, this is my daily comment)

  • @Icepid
    @Icepid 11 месяцев назад +77

    I remember a time where I had asked my mom, “why?” And she seemed to get really upset. I’ve always been confused as to why whenever I ask “Why?” Authority figures get mad. You can’t expect a teenager, a child, or a toddler to always follow you without question. I think it should actually be encouraged for a child to question authority, because that way we can learn the reason why 1) how the thing I’m about to do is bad, and 2) other things I can do/say instead of that thing.

    • @stxrstruck6755
      @stxrstruck6755 11 месяцев назад +10

      They get mad because they feel personally attacked when you question them. Like it's disrespectful. It's not, kids are curious, they wanna know things and you punishing them is diminishing all trust they have in coming to you with things in the long run.

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад +8

      Remember that “because I said so” isn’t a valid answer from a parent

    • @starglaze-
      @starglaze- 11 месяцев назад +6

      @@CorvusMoon22 i wish i could tell my parents this

  • @ErutaniaRose
    @ErutaniaRose 11 месяцев назад +57

    TW: ED
    The amount of times I have had doctors have me write down everything I eat or go on a strict medical diet without checking me for any eating disorders or eating disorder tendencies honestly makes me livid.
    I've had to stop both diets and measurements and tell the doctors I cannot do it because it makes my disordered eating habits worse, I feel guilty about what I eat when I do it, and I end up feeling physically so much weaker either due to the habits I have or the actual diet itself. (Ex: On my most strict diet that was for anti-inflammation I was so weak I could barely get up out of bed to go downstairs and eat. A week after being off of it I literally carried two 7ft pine wood logs on a wagon back to my house from the end of the block. Like...that is a DRASTIC energy level difference.)
    Most doctors are not dietitians, but they should get some BASIC ASS TRAINING for real.

    • @Avrysatos
      @Avrysatos 11 месяцев назад +7

      I had a doctor try to tell me what to eat. I asked them what training they had in nutrition and if it was none, please leave that to the professionals. He never made weird diet claims at me again. Its hard to be assertive to these doctors that think they know more when in reality most of them have no more training on diet, eating disorders, and nutrition than the average person.

    • @pierce7992
      @pierce7992 11 месяцев назад

      You but a tw for you ertion disorder lmao what a looser

    • @Rene-is-confused
      @Rene-is-confused 11 месяцев назад +2

      agreed!! i have been told i should go on anti inflammatory diets but the things that make my condition worse(in some intense) make me restrict littarly everything i eat and to the point where the "clean" food i eat doesn't help me. like it boils down to "you can only eat most meats, and some vegtbles but only these" I've just had to go around the diet stuff and figure out what helps me feel good and what doesn't on my own.
      tw ed talk:
      and not to mention when i brought up my restrictive eating habits and disordered eating to my mental heath professional she didn't even let me finish speaking about what i experience and how badly it effects my ability to funciton. she straight up cut me off the second i said i might have an eating disorder and said "i think its JUST disordered eating, its not bad enough" and the "its not bad enough" has now been a trigger to my stupid brian to restrict more until it gets "bad enough" and then I'm allowed to get help when i get to the "bad enough" point....

  • @bluefiregamer0680
    @bluefiregamer0680 11 месяцев назад +20

    we should make politicians wear their sponsors like in nascar

  • @axelrose8481
    @axelrose8481 11 месяцев назад +12

    tried starting a conversation with my parents about "the system we live under" (i really just wanted to trash talk capitalism but i had to pretend to be dumb so that i don't get in trouble and i don't use any buzzwords 😔) and after like an hour of my parents defending capitalism and not letting me explain my points, it basically ended with my mom saying "i think the system we live under is great because i work hard so i deserve more things in life than someone who chooses not to" which is literally so cruel and i want to slam my head in a door oh my fucking god

    • @kthearcher3357
      @kthearcher3357 11 месяцев назад +1

      They never understand until it's not only too late but a disaster happens to them in the same way they have criticized others ie poor etc.

  • @QUR_LvR
    @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +50

    my mom's being weird today :/
    she wants me to clean my room and the method she chose to make sure i did is to come into my room after she's done with work when IM NOT THERE (since i have a shift today), which is making me paranoid because 1) she's invading my privacy (and thinks that it's totally fine) and 2) i have stuff in there that i don't want her seeing and i'm paranoid that i'm not gonna clean my room "good enough" and she'll "do it for me"
    god, i cannot wait to move out soon. i genuinely can't, it sucks living like this :(

    • @vic_x
      @vic_x 11 месяцев назад +8

      my dad does the same thing, he enters my room all the time and doesn’t even knock. i hope everything ends up okay for you💕

    • @PssyOfTheMoon
      @PssyOfTheMoon 11 месяцев назад

      dude just clean your fucking room its not hard you live in her house its your responsibility to take care of it. you shouldn't even be hiding shit period

    • @AG-vb6vv
      @AG-vb6vv 11 месяцев назад +3

      It’s her room, she owns and pays for the house. You have no privacy.

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@superbowserfan64 i dunno how soon yet since i'm still in school and i have nowhere near enough money to move out on my own yet, but i really do hope i find a way out at some point :(

    • @Feather899
      @Feather899 11 месяцев назад

      @@AG-vb6vv You should care about the fucking child you brought into this world.

  • @goblinguy3103
    @goblinguy3103 11 месяцев назад +105

    People who grew up in healthy households don’t understand this *one thing*
    There is nothing I could do to make my family like me. Nothing. I could chop my arm off and sell it for them and they would claim I’m trying to get out of work. Y’all don’t get it. Stop acting like if we (abuse victims) just found the secret code everything would be fine.

    • @AG-vb6vv
      @AG-vb6vv 11 месяцев назад +2

      Maybe you could try respecting your parents and listen to them?

    • @stxrstruck6755
      @stxrstruck6755 11 месяцев назад +22

      ​@@AG-vb6vvWhat makes you think they haven't been doing that but are getting abused anyways? Once you're the scapegoat of the family you're that forever until you cut ties.

    • @goblinguy3103
      @goblinguy3103 11 месяцев назад +21

      @@AG-vb6vv you didn’t read my comment. Get out.

    • @stxrstruck6755
      @stxrstruck6755 11 месяцев назад +15

      Also, people who have healthy households don't know that they could make mistakes and not have the fear of getting hit. No matter how annoyed or angry your parents make you, you know they'll never hit you, some of us do not have that. That's why I avoid all confrontation 🏃🏾

    • @stxrstruck6755
      @stxrstruck6755 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@AG-vb6vv Bro doesn't know what an abusive household is like.. You obviously don't know what you're talking about shut up.

  • @radioactivegummyworm
    @radioactivegummyworm 11 месяцев назад +78

    i'm making a kandi belt chain today‼️‼️ how are you folks?

    • @broken_queer_but_fighting8589
      @broken_queer_but_fighting8589 11 месяцев назад +6

      Ooo cool

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +11

      not as good as of recently, but i'm still kicking!!
      also KANDI BELT CHAIN💕💕💕💕💕

    • @FenikMori
      @FenikMori 11 месяцев назад +5

      Great, thank you. How are you?
      Also, good luck with the belt chain!

    • @Fishie226
      @Fishie226 11 месяцев назад +4

      ooh that sounds cool!

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад +5

      I’m doing alright. And yourself?

  • @goblinguy3103
    @goblinguy3103 11 месяцев назад +19

    10:54 AS A DISABLED SCORPIO THIS HURTSSS 😭😭

    • @Fishie226
      @Fishie226 11 месяцев назад +6

      as a scorpio who is also disabled this also hurts!! 😭

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +5

      i'm not a disabled scorpio, but i am a disabled sagittarius and,, *ouch-*

    • @Rene-is-confused
      @Rene-is-confused 11 месяцев назад +2

      im a disabled aries, and that one stung a little 😭😭😭

  • @blueberrypancakebatter
    @blueberrypancakebatter 11 месяцев назад +20

    I haven't been feeling good today (shaking, teeth hurt, and head hurts) so I'm watching this with one of my cats who is keeping me company and cuddling with me :3

  • @8randnewcity
    @8randnewcity 11 месяцев назад +7

    1478 days until WHY DID FIRE ERUPTED LANDS ARRIVE

  • @gordshorde
    @gordshorde 11 месяцев назад +11

    hey guys saw spider verse yesterday and i wanna talk about it so
    SPOILER WARNING FOR SPIDERVERSE
    miguel is having a mental breakdown. he's overworked and carrying the fate of the multiverse on his shoulders, everyone else goes on missions yes, but he seems to be the only one during his specific job.
    he needs people the share the burden of monitoring the multiverse and a big ass nap.
    also hobie is amazing and i love him.

    • @vic_x
      @vic_x 11 месяцев назад +6

      definitely i feel really bad for him bc not only is he coping with the loss of his family he’s also trying to balance the whole ass multiverse
      and yes hobie my beloved🙏🏼💕

  • @4LLT0G3TH3R
    @4LLT0G3TH3R 11 месяцев назад +9

    @2:00 is such a beautiful dream. I dream of an animal rehab/safe space for kids/community food garden

    • @4LLT0G3TH3R
      @4LLT0G3TH3R 11 месяцев назад

      @GreenMayoMan69_ I love that so much! I'm down to collab!

  • @eggfroggowo
    @eggfroggowo 11 месяцев назад +15

    Not having fun rn(menstrual cramps suck) I want to practice drawing on ibispaint but my cramps hurrrttttt

    • @vic_x
      @vic_x 11 месяцев назад +4

      cramps suck fr, hope you feel better bestie💕

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад +3

      Bottle of hot water(like a thermos)and hold near your lower stomach. It’ll help❤️

    • @eggfroggowo
      @eggfroggowo 11 месяцев назад +2

      Thank y'all so much and I'll definitely try doing the water bottle thing

    • @SuchitaBhattacharya
      @SuchitaBhattacharya 11 месяцев назад +3

      Yikes, I hate period cramps. Idk if this'll work for you, but I've always noticed that an ice pack or cold compress works better than a hot compress *for me.*

    • @katt1996
      @katt1996 11 месяцев назад +4

      when i get bad cramps i take a hot bubble bath and that usually helps. i use ibispaint too, it's my favorite drawing app :))

  • @zaymlsspam
    @zaymlsspam 11 месяцев назад +8

    3:43 my mom always said if it looks like a duck, acts like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it's a duck

  • @Zero_Is_Stopping_Time
    @Zero_Is_Stopping_Time 11 месяцев назад +9

    Hey comrades! So I’m writing a book and I very much want to give some of the black characters locs but its a fantasy setting and I need resources for how to weave the history of the hair style(s) into a fantasy setting. Have a great day :]

    • @Rene-is-confused
      @Rene-is-confused 11 месяцев назад +1

      i dont have resources that i can think of off the top of my head but i can boost this for ya!!

  • @QUR_LvR
    @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +9

    we're doing life size Clue today!! i'm very excited cause i absolutely love puzzles

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад

      @GreenMayoMan69_ it actually wasn't a board!! it was only really some tape on the floor and some posters put up telling you where you are and the game went great!! it was definitely as fun as the actual board game :3

  • @TazzleSundress
    @TazzleSundress 11 месяцев назад +8

    Does anyone know the @ of the person some comps ago who were talking about “the only thing a tolerant society should not tolerate is intolerance” and that they successfully drove away a notsee? I really want to learn more from them! Thanks

  • @Fishie226
    @Fishie226 11 месяцев назад +6

    7:53 i think this is something we all needed to hear

  • @gordshorde
    @gordshorde 11 месяцев назад +6

    trying to figure out if i'm full or if i have room for pudding.

  • @in.cod.we.trust1312
    @in.cod.we.trust1312 11 месяцев назад +10

    bird rambles!!!!
    i got to take a shower in my shower for the first time since june today :3 now i smell like my soap and i get to finally put some of my normal products in my hair (my hair has been ASS these past days because of the lack of stuff) and it was very nice because i get to shower my favorite way without worrying someone else needs the bathroom
    im just very happy because how i shower is very specific and i wasnt able to do that on my trip :3
    hope all is well with everyone. stay safe, take care of yourselves, and punch a fascist

    • @in.cod.we.trust1312
      @in.cod.we.trust1312 11 месяцев назад +1

      @GreenMayoMan69_ YEA!!!!! i like to take showers with a little bit of water covering my feet so if my legs hurt i can sit down in the nice warm water and i couldnt do that in the hotels it was so nice

    • @Rene-is-confused
      @Rene-is-confused 11 месяцев назад

      lets go!!! showring after a long peirod of not can feel sooo good,(someone who cant stand in the shower for longer periods of time and not risk a fall or get sick feeling afterwards)

    • @ichthysking863
      @ichthysking863 11 месяцев назад +1

      Sidenote: The correct spelling is 'fascist', not 'facist'

    • @siilverREAL
      @siilverREAL 11 месяцев назад

      @GreenMayoMan69_ fellas..... its spelt with an S before the C

    • @in.cod.we.trust1312
      @in.cod.we.trust1312 11 месяцев назад

      @@ichthysking863 that makes more sense!!! im dyslexic so like the extra s gets lost with me a lot, thank you so much!!!

  • @stxrstruck6755
    @stxrstruck6755 11 месяцев назад +4

    Im obsessed with applesauce rn its the only thing I eat for lunch, take this away from me

  • @Feather899
    @Feather899 11 месяцев назад +9

    got lots of stuff done, still waiting for genetic testing to come back

  • @HajoonFF6123
    @HajoonFF6123 11 месяцев назад +5

    Does anyone elae have little cultural quirks that aren't things everyone does? Some examples are the Italian hand thing or 'Aiyah'
    for me, any time I say thanks, or apologize, or greet someone I punctuate it with a bow. I say Aigo when the situation applies.
    Also, I was reflecting with my family and realized I have experienced more mirco aggressions than I realized. ouch.
    QOTD :
    "don't practice until you get it right, practice until you don't get it wrong" - unknown
    "I've chosen who I've been, don't have to condone it but I'll fight off the voices that oppose" -Will stetson.

  • @Feather899
    @Feather899 11 месяцев назад +12

    9:44 I’m an Aquarius, FUCK YEAH IM DISABLED, AND PROUD!

    • @AG-vb6vv
      @AG-vb6vv 11 месяцев назад +1

      Proud of having issues lol. What’s next, I’m mentally retarded and proud?

    • @Feather899
      @Feather899 11 месяцев назад

      @@AG-vb6vv I’m proud of myself for being so strong. It’s disgusting you would use that word.

    • @AG-vb6vv
      @AG-vb6vv 11 месяцев назад

      @@Feather899 Retarded is a medical word, wdym it’s not offensive? In fact you acting like it’s a slur is, as many people suffer from that affliction. And you can be proud of yourself for preserving and excelling despite the disability, but being proud of the disability makes no sense. Like a soldier who gets back from Ukraine with his arm blown off, you can be proud of them for rehabilitating and making do without, and the ermotmoys coursge, mental fortitude and pain that goes alongside this, but to be proud of them having no arm is weird?

    • @Feather899
      @Feather899 11 месяцев назад

      ⁠​⁠@@AG-vb6vvit’s a slur, it doesn’t have a good history in general. I’m not ashamed of my disability’s. Do you mean the autism spectrum, (ASD) or something else?

    • @AG-vb6vv
      @AG-vb6vv 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@Feather899 Any disability is bad and shouldn’t a source of pride or shame for that matter. It’s just something bad that you happen to have, but it’s not your own fault. The idea of disability pride makes no sense. I also have ASD and also ADHD and dyslexia, I don’t make a big deal out of them, or say I’m ashamed or proud, I just live my life by my values and get on with stuff.

  • @moonfairie
    @moonfairie 11 месяцев назад +21

    hello guys! sooo i have a question on something! so theres this person at school whos basically been spreading rumours about me, and making her whole friend group hate me, and its been going on for months. ive also recently
    round out that she told her whole friend group my deadname! which is not okay and even worse considering they identified as trans once too. its getting super repetitive now and im not sure whether i should get the school to speak to her about it or not, they said they will and they can sort it out but i feel like she’d just make up more lies about me in defence and it would make it even worse, but i dont want her to get away with it. every time she’s near me she looks at me super weird (i have literally done nothing to her ever) and one time her and her friends made gagging and throwing up noises when i walked past them. anyway, i dont know whether i should talk to someone about it as its affecting my mental health and as someone who already struggles with that its not nice. and telling her friend group my deadname was the last straw for me. anyway if anyone has any advice id be super willing to listen!! thank u for reading and i hope everyone has a good day! 💗

    • @BeeRavenBoy
      @BeeRavenBoy 11 месяцев назад +2

      you should talk to the school about it. Let them know previous specific things that have happened(they really like specifics) and let them know you are worried that they will try to lie their way out of it.

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад +4

      Go to your school counselor. By law everything you tell them is confidential unless it’s something life threatening or you’re being abused at home. The person doing this to you is a bully and they bring other people down because they have nothing of any real value to offer. If it’s affecting your mental health then you absolutely NEED to talk to someone. Do you have a therapist? If you don’t maybe try talking to one :)

    • @moonfairie
      @moonfairie 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@BeeRavenBoy thank you for the help!! the only thing is i feel like itd start up more drama and that she would tell her friends more lies about me but maybe the school would talk to her and make sure she wouldn’t again?

    • @moonfairie
      @moonfairie 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@CorvusMoon22 i have a therapist yes! ive talked to her about it before but sometimes she doesnt really help, but our school has a thing called a hub where you can go if you need support with things or having struggles going to lesson. im there alot so therefore have a good relationship with some of the workers there so i think ill talk to them. thank you again for advice!!!(⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

    • @moonfairie
      @moonfairie 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@BeeRavenBoy im also going to write down all the stuff she’s done so i can read it out for the specifics! thank you for the idea!!

  • @AnarchicCrow
    @AnarchicCrow 11 месяцев назад +20

    🐸 Questions 🐸
    1) Do you have any dietary restrictions and can it be difficult to accommodate them?
    2) Sparkling water or flat water?
    3) What positive representation is there not enough of if your opinion?
    4) What is your comfort film?
    5) Dolphins or sharks?

    • @gordshorde
      @gordshorde 11 месяцев назад +8

      1) gluten and maybe garlic. it can be hard to accommodate especially with my sensory issues.
      2) flat, bubbles give me tummy aches :(
      3)aro/ace rep. we barely have any cannon rep as it is ;-;
      4) probably into the spider verse. unfortunately the movie is harder to find now and i don't have money to buy it ;-;
      5) sharks

    • @radioactivegummyworm
      @radioactivegummyworm 11 месяцев назад +8

      1. nope!
      2. flat water
      3. aromanticism!
      4. into the spiderverse probably
      5. sharks

    • @Feather899
      @Feather899 11 месяцев назад +6

      1) no, but I need to eat things with salt or sweet things so I don’t pass out
      2) both
      3) pan/trans
      4) Song of the sea. So underrated.
      5) sharks. sea puppies :3

    • @goblinguy3103
      @goblinguy3103 11 месяцев назад +7

      1- I would eat a shoe if it looked good
      2- flat. Sparking is the devil
      3- disability! The best system rep I’ve ever seen if from monster high and that’s not okay 😭
      4- howls moving castle
      5- sharks 🦈

    • @AnarchicCrow
      @AnarchicCrow 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Feather899OMG SONG OF THE MOTHERFUCKING SEAAAA 😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @michealmistilteinn
    @michealmistilteinn 11 месяцев назад +4

    First time commenting on these videos!! Just wanted to say that these really like. Whoa.
    I've always had skewed, right-wing information spreading around my house (conservative stepfather moment), but these are so like. Not skewed, despite being leftist tiktoks. They're people who care and support others! Just makes my missing heart beat again with happiness.
    Also pspspspspsp anyone who recognizes me from rne sillyanomaly server gets a cookie

  • @TheLeftistLynx
    @TheLeftistLynx 11 месяцев назад +8

    0:15 This!
    2:34 I WANT THIS 🥹
    3:37 Yes.
    3:47 THIS
    6:01 I'm probably not gonna graduate high school cause I can't get myself to do shit about it :/
    7:53 What if I can't always tell the difference between a boundary vs. disrespect or being stuck-up or cocky? :]..
    9:40 PLEASE BUT I'M A SCORPIO 😰
    11:04 Annoying :/
    14:23 THIS
    I finished watching a cool Gacha series yesterday! Go look up 'The Music Freaks' by RosyClozy!
    Also, starting to feel sick the night before an ortho appointment, then switching to rubber bands 24/7 after changing wires at said ortho appointment

  • @Fishie226
    @Fishie226 11 месяцев назад +29

    i’ve been thinking about my gender identity lately. after doing a lot of research i think that i may be gender fluid but i’m still not completely sure.
    anyway, remember that it’s completely ok to not be sure what your gender is! 🏳‍⚧

    • @radioactivegummyworm
      @radioactivegummyworm 11 месяцев назад +3

      omg gender twins :0/lh/pos

    • @radioactivegummyworm
      @radioactivegummyworm 11 месяцев назад +1

      @GreenMayoMan69_ let's goo (also tysm for joining the discord :3)

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +2

      hell yeah, figuring out stuff‼️‼️
      hope your research yields good results :D

    • @o00M00o
      @o00M00o 11 месяцев назад +2

      Gender quadruplets😎

    • @tobitheminnow
      @tobitheminnow 11 месяцев назад +2

      I thought i was gender fluid but turns out im masc nonbinary! Take your time itll come soon enough and no mater what love your body and love yourself ❤^-^

  • @Lemonsherbertzzz
    @Lemonsherbertzzz 11 месяцев назад +6

    2 days until the summer holidays starts!!!!

    • @Lemonsherbertzzz
      @Lemonsherbertzzz 11 месяцев назад +2

      @GreenMayoMan69_ we got a half day on Friday and it’s also non uniform!
      (my teachers are also doing a spice girl performance so I wanna see how that plays out)

    • @Lun4rLight
      @Lun4rLight 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@Lemonsherbertzzzy school may also be doing that!! Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Idk.
      Edit: the non-uniform and half day I mean.

    • @Lemonsherbertzzz
      @Lemonsherbertzzz 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@Lun4rLight same they don’t tell most people as well so you have to figure it out by word of mouth

  • @broken_queer_but_fighting8589
    @broken_queer_but_fighting8589 11 месяцев назад +6

    Hey can you take care of yourself? Just do one small thing that will make yourself happy. And if you feel like you can do more, please stretch, drink some water, and eat something. You matter so much. I send all the virtual love. 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

  • @Malachite07
    @Malachite07 11 месяцев назад +27

    Hey comrades! I've got a question for people with both autism and ADHD.
    What are your experiences living with both of them? Which traits are more obvious/severe? How much do the both of them clash? How do both of them present in you?
    (you don't have to answer if you don't wanna)
    I have autism and I think I have ADHD, but I don't know enough about having the 2 together to be 100% positive. I've taken abt 15 online tests and all but 2 have told me that I probably have ADHD, but I just don't know. Idk if it's ADHD or something else.
    The only person I know who has both is my best friend(we're very similar but we haven't talked that much about ADHD) so it's kinda hard to compare my traits 😔.
    I think the main reason I have doubts about having ADHD is that I'm not hyperactive (I know that it's different for everyone but it would be much more obvious if I was hyperactive). Because I'm not hyperactive 24/7 my parents don't believe that I have ADHD, also probably because I don't present the same as my brother(s?) with ADHD :/
    I align pretty well with the traits of ADHD but there are always doubts, mostly from my parents. I mostly have problems with my attention span and focus, but I know that other things could be the cause of those problems which is another reason why I doubt whether I have ADHD or not.
    Anyway, that's all I got for today. I hope you all have an amazing day/night! And I love you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!! Cya in the comments again soon 👋
    - Malachite (they/them)

    • @moonfairie
      @moonfairie 11 месяцев назад +4

      hi!! i don’t think i have adhd but i am autistic and i know some stuff about adhd! for the hyperactive thing you said, there are different types of adhd and not all of them result in hyperactivity so maybe tell your parents that?? if you search the different types of adhd and do some research on them then maybe you can be super educated and have a lot of info to display to your parents!! and another thing id reccomend is maybe going through childhood photos or stories to see if you can see any of those symptoms in childhood too

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +4

      honestly sometimes it feels like my ADHD kinda blends into my autism?? it also tends to be an indirect back and forth with my autism (and OCD at times) having a strict schedule and a list of things i need to do and then my ADHD will suddenly take over once it finds something that gives it enough dopamine and just kinda take charge till i'm too tired to do anything else. it's a very interesting battle to watch, but it almost always getting nothing done for like 2 weeks until i finally snap out of it and actually get stuff done. that's just me though, and i probably have more about this that i just didn't get in this comment, guess we'll never know :3

    • @Malachite07
      @Malachite07 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@moonfairieI'm doing my best to research ADHD and traits that I align with. Seeing if I show any traits as a kid is a good idea! I'll have to ask my parents for stories about me when I was younger. Thank you for the suggestions!!

    • @moonfairie
      @moonfairie 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@Malachite07 your welcome!!! i wish you luck on your journey 🐟🐟

    • @in.cod.we.trust1312
      @in.cod.we.trust1312 11 месяцев назад +3

      hii!! i have both and they clash a lot. one of the things i struggle a lot with is schedule things and routine. my adhd needs things to be spontaneous and new and my autism needs it to be set in stone and so half the time functioning is hard. having moments of being hyperactive or overly talkative i attribute to my adhd, but almost always after i shut down and dont talk for a while which i think is the autism(or social anxiety). i get hyperfixated on things very easily and so when i really want to learn more and everything about it i try but sometimes executive dysfunction from either gets in the way. idk if this is helpful at all its just stuff that came to my mins
      also, incasw tou didnt know, there are 3 types of adhd: the hyperactive and most known, inattentive which used to be ADD but has since changed, or a mixture of the two which is what i have :3

  • @thehappyee
    @thehappyee 11 месяцев назад +4

    i love living here/j

  • @trashcanwithbugsinside
    @trashcanwithbugsinside 11 месяцев назад +5

    I’m so upset, a week or so ago I made this necklace and I wanted to add stuff to it today and I can’t find it anywhere ):

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +1

      aw man, that sucks :(
      i really do hope you find it at some point!! losing stuff tends to be really upsetting so i hope you take care

    • @trashcanwithbugsinside
      @trashcanwithbugsinside 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you, im kinda upset abt it bc the rock on it was so pretty

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад +1

      Noooo I hope you find it

    • @trashcanwithbugsinside
      @trashcanwithbugsinside 11 месяцев назад +1

      Ty

  • @C0rpse.G1rl
    @C0rpse.G1rl 11 месяцев назад +7

    Hey- this is kind of a long comment, just a warning as i'll be talking about sex and stuff.
    Reminder that you can support sex workers and not sex work. The sex working/porn industry is inherently abusive and exploitative. Sure, you could argue that as long as both parties consent, but even then, our thoughts and actions don't all fit in a vacuum. We are conditioned to want or think about wanting/doing certain things & you can't defend an industry that is literally rooted in human trafficking & being exploitative. All this being said, I'm not shaming sex workers or anyone in that industry for being there & you shouldn't either.

    • @vorona_
      @vorona_ 11 месяцев назад +2

      finally a take on sex work that isn't braindead

  • @boredcat9206
    @boredcat9206 11 месяцев назад +3

    6:10 I think more people need to hear things like this. I know being kind to yourself can sometimes be difficult, but it is okay if your long-term / short-term goals change over time. It is disappointing when our dreams no longer seem in the plan, but I've learned from a therapist that, *dreams /goals can be adjusted to where you are now and how you're doing now.* I can't remember everything that was said but I really resonated with that and this video puts it so much nicer and really goes in. You are getting where you need to be. Just hang in there and don't be too hard on yourself. It is coming along.

  • @Unknownperson14744
    @Unknownperson14744 11 месяцев назад +7

    Hey was wondering about Cuban experiences and what the countries political views are for a school project would love if any of yall could share since Cuba's political values have been pretty contradictory in most of the research I've done.

    • @user-gw4li9lk8w
      @user-gw4li9lk8w 11 месяцев назад +1

      I’m a bit late to respond and I’m not Cuban, but I went on vacation to Puerto Rico recently, and my dad and I met a Cuban guy and had a short conversation with him.
      Apparently Cuba is essentially, an empty country full of old people because all those of working age have left because there are no economic opportunities. He had left five years ago to work in Puerto Rico. Of course, government officials embezzling all the money they get from selling their island to China and Russia are still there, living in opulence and stuff.
      I know this isn’t exactly what you were looking for, and it’s gonna be pretty hard to cite, “a random kid on the internet who met a nice Cuban man on vacation who said some interesting stuff”, but no one else responded so I figured, why not?

    • @Unknownperson14744
      @Unknownperson14744 11 месяцев назад

      @@user-gw4li9lk8w thankyou! im doing an mun and got Cuba so I guess im essentially fucked lol

  • @TheProletariat321
    @TheProletariat321 11 месяцев назад

    My mom constantly (wether intentionally or not) tries to make me feel guilty for not talking with her about myself and the things that interest me. My mom has always been really homophobic/transphobic/fatphobic/racist/ classist, so when I tried to come out to her as bi a few years ago, she told me it was just a phase/I was being corrupted by the internet. When I complain about something or challenge her biases, she makes me feel like I'm disrespecting her and I feel pressured to validate her ego so I can get out of talking to her. She doesn't respect my boundaries. My brother was taken away by CPS two weeks ago. I'm not gonna say that he's a complete victim either. I don't like my mom but that doesn't mean she's always in the wrong. My brother doesn't do well in school. My parents and I don't know wether its because he doesn't care to study or he genuinely is having problems with studying because he doesn't tell us at all. But he's also queer and gender non conforming and just like me, he feels unsafe with our parents. But we both took a different aproach to dealing with that. I was just gonna pretend to be a good cis hetero christian girl until I become an adult and am financially independent. My brother wanted to leave. He told CPS that the reason he didn't want to come home anymore, was because he was scared what his mom might think about his grades. Thats probably not the complete truth. My mom once looked at my youtube watch history and saw that I had watched a video relating to pride and masculinity. She proceeded to tell both me and my brother, that if we were to be gay, we would be *dead* to her. According to my brother, she allegedly told him "I brought you into this world, and I can take you out of it"...."I regret ever having given birth to you" I can't confirm if she said that because I wasn't there. My brother's best friend was the person that told him to call CPS. And its also important to note that his friend is also gay. My mother thinks that he was "corrupted" by that friend. When she found out that he was gay, this is how she described him: "He manipulated (my brothers name). Be careful, "those people" act nice in the beginning, but they're just trying to manipulate you into their satanic agenda." Bare in mind, that my brother's friend is 12 years old. Its really weird how she sexualizes queer children 🤢. After two weeks now, she's been crying about how my brother betrayed our family. I don't know wether I should feel bad or not. She kept telling me how much she loved us and how we could talk to her about anything. But I know that if she knew I was queer she'd never accept me. I don't like spending time with my parents. But why would I like spending time with a bigot. She's heartbroken that I'm so closed off and don't wan't to hug her. But why is she trying to make me feel guilty for setting boundaries. When I speak my mind, she gets angry and threatens with violence, so I learned never to confront her. "I should respect her opinions even when they disrespect other peoples existence*

  • @hauthot287
    @hauthot287 11 месяцев назад +10

    Someone should redesign the communist flag where instead of a hammer and sickle it’s two axolotls

    • @AG-vb6vv
      @AG-vb6vv 11 месяцев назад

      Or 999 gender identities? I mean, seems that’s what modern communists care more about lol?

  • @giddyspiderboy
    @giddyspiderboy 11 месяцев назад +2

    roblox went into apocalypse mode and it feels so weird seeing the top games not even hit 10k players

    • @sexygirlmax2019
      @sexygirlmax2019 11 месяцев назад

      whats apocalypse mode

    • @Feather899
      @Feather899 11 месяцев назад

      @@sexygirlmax2019 Roblox went down for the 100th time

    • @giddyspiderboy
      @giddyspiderboy 11 месяцев назад

      @@sexygirlmax2019 basically the servers crashed and thats what i mean by apocalypse mode

    • @triple-AAA-battery
      @triple-AAA-battery 11 месяцев назад

      @@giddyspiderboyHOLY MOLY ITS THE SPIDER DUDE FROM HONEY IM HOME BY GHOST-
      I LOVE THAT SONG (although there’s no way I’d regularly be able to listen to it lol)

  • @Lun4rLight
    @Lun4rLight 11 месяцев назад +12

    Hello!! How is everyone?
    My friend and I were talking about stims, and like, does anyone else have some really random ones? Because one of mine is growling and I have no idea where that came from.

    • @goblinguy3103
      @goblinguy3103 11 месяцев назад +3

      YES oh my gosh!
      I learned how to make my hands go completely limp (hyper mobility) which allows me to clap with one hand! Very tism

    • @eggfroggowo
      @eggfroggowo 11 месяцев назад +1

      I like chomping, touching and barring my teeth, also I'll randomly say "chipotle chicken bowl" in a British accent whenever someone brings up the topic of chipotle. The list goes on lol🧍

    • @goosegoddess
      @goosegoddess 11 месяцев назад +2

      minesw like saying a certain word or phrase over and over like rn i keep saying breakdancing 😭😭😭

    • @vic_x
      @vic_x 11 месяцев назад +2

      one of my stims is meowing whenever i finish doing something stressful.

    • @QUR_LvR
      @QUR_LvR 11 месяцев назад +2

      it's a curse i've come to terms with, but a curse nonetheless.
      *i will randomly talk in a british accent. i don't what it is, probably all the tea parties my mom made me go to as a kid, but whenever i'm talking to myself or someone else i will just break out in british and not stop. help me.*

  • @TheWaywardCheckpoint
    @TheWaywardCheckpoint 11 месяцев назад

    Got my first mobility aid today

  • @my.beloved.turtle2136
    @my.beloved.turtle2136 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi everyone :3!! Watching this later becaus i was doing a rabbit show earlier today! My boy got 2nd in the first class he was in (senior holland lop buck) and i got 2nd in showmanship. Hes our schools rabbit, but i still had loads of fun!!

  • @4RC4D3K1D
    @4RC4D3K1D 11 месяцев назад +3

    hi comment section!
    I have access to tumblr now :3

  • @Rene-is-confused
    @Rene-is-confused 11 месяцев назад

    i think i just started my first big ole debate online lol

  • @dinolover8183
    @dinolover8183 11 месяцев назад +2

    In London rn so I'm late lol watched mama mia

  • @cuppiesaur
    @cuppiesaur 11 месяцев назад

    10:10 As an Aries I can confirm everything they said!

  • @toaster2428
    @toaster2428 11 месяцев назад

    12:34 same with jazz

  • @ohnotheyatethecookiesrun
    @ohnotheyatethecookiesrun 11 месяцев назад +4

    what's up yall? found some wild raspberries next to the lakehouse we're staying at, but I got caught in the thorns of the bush 😭 I'm thinking of eating them what do yall think?

    • @rainabahadur3621
      @rainabahadur3621 11 месяцев назад +2

      Eat them

    • @ohnotheyatethecookiesrun
      @ohnotheyatethecookiesrun 11 месяцев назад

      alright might get some 😈

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад

      Make sure it’s raspberries and not underripe blackberries because they are both red and look almost the same

  • @rainbowpuppet77
    @rainbowpuppet77 11 месяцев назад +3

    yall im stupid so can someone tell me the main differences between a leftist and a liberal? because ive always seen them used interchangeably so i just thought they were mostly the same

    • @Rene-is-confused
      @Rene-is-confused 11 месяцев назад

      liberals are more centric and right-leaning and leftists are well.... left on the political spectrum.

    • @rainbowpuppet77
      @rainbowpuppet77 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@Rene-is-confused i thought liberals were like the complete opposite of conservatives through??? like fully open-minded and loving and stuff like that! ive never heard of them being any kind of right-leaning especially since all right-wingers and conservative hate liberals because they're "too woke"

    • @Rene-is-confused
      @Rene-is-confused 11 месяцев назад

      @@rainbowpuppet77 i guess what i mean is as far as economic ideals they lean more right but stay pretty central if that makes sense. i do here a lot of the "too woke" stuff but i also know that a lot of those people use leftist, communist and liberal interchangeably. here is the copy past of the google search 'where do librals fall on the political spectrum" because I'm not wording it well lol. Liberalism can mean different things in different contexts, being sometimes on the left (social liberalism) and other times on the right (conservative liberalism or classical liberalism). Those with an intermediate outlook are sometimes classified as centrists.

  • @eirhanhayes8960
    @eirhanhayes8960 11 месяцев назад +4

    Making costume to see barbie tonight

  • @pierce7992
    @pierce7992 11 месяцев назад +1

    Im pro franco yall got no dads

    • @siilverREAL
      @siilverREAL 11 месяцев назад

      ur obsessed bro 💀💀

  • @kwowka
    @kwowka 11 месяцев назад +1

    My dream is being able to grow food I can eat in a home with all the people that o care about. My dream is making the world better for those who aren’t even born yet, the future trans kids, the future disabled kids. My dream is raising a child with my friends and rejecting the nuclear family. I want to walk into that kindy class with that kid surrounded with weird, neurodivergent, queer adults who let them feel safe. My dream is making community gardens and talking to every homeless person in my city because I love hearing peoples stories and I want to give more people homes. I don’t know. I just want a world where everyone is safe.

  • @davidjones2921
    @davidjones2921 11 месяцев назад +2

    Boost

  • @tuesdaywithanh
    @tuesdaywithanh 11 месяцев назад +8

    rambling to fight the, feel free to ramble in the replies :)
    i started using the leg emoji (🦵) when texting people, and it didn't originally have a meaning, but it's become like an acknowledgement, or like a "yeah I'll do that" :)

    • @nerdywolverine8640
      @nerdywolverine8640 11 месяцев назад +1

      (k) :D its a steppy!

    • @CorvusMoon22
      @CorvusMoon22 11 месяцев назад +2

      That’s beautiful :’) sometimes my cousin and I (both autistic) communicate in primitive ways.
      Example (they’re 1 and I’m 2)
      1 “Go?”
      2 “Wwüb?”
      1 “Go outside. Yes?”
      2 “dä”
      1 “Ééē”
      2 “bëb”
      1 “where you wanna go?”
      2 “eg drbdfx bublb”
      1 “yes big tree”