HOW TO BE DISCIPLINED |5 WAYS TO MASTER SELF-DISCIPLINE IN YOUR 20s AND BEYOND| LUCY BENSON

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  • HOW TO BE DISCIPLINED|5 WAYS TO MASTER SELF-DISCIPLINE IN YOUR 20s AND BEYOND| LUCY BENSON
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  • @daniela_ugare
    @daniela_ugare Год назад +12

    I am personally a huge believer in self-discipline. You get a banging body just with your actions, you get your dream job just because you've been reaching out to people constantly, and it applies to every part of your life. Hope everyone get's there and creates their life according to their conditions, no compromises! You are worth the best

  • @Suzan.ne_s
    @Suzan.ne_s Год назад +24

    1.Engage in what you enjoy.
    2.Embrace the quality over quantity.
    3.Remove all distractions.
    4.know what adds value to your life.
    5.Reward yourself.

  • @lilianchizaram1786
    @lilianchizaram1786 Год назад +173

    (1)Indulge and do things you love doing.
    (2)To understand and appreciate the value of quality over quantity.
    (3)Set goals for yourself(have a plane for yourself,set short term and long term goals).
    (4)Eliminate distractions.
    (5)Give yourself treat(reward yourself if you hit a milestone).

  • @andilemngomezulu7504
    @andilemngomezulu7504 Год назад +7

    I just turned 21 and the pressures of life are already getting to me... This video really reassured me in just trusting God and doing my part as best I can. ❤

  • @Lorriluxxe
    @Lorriluxxe 2 года назад +142

    My type of video🙌🏽 I’ve learnt that I’m naturally disciplined in some aspects in my life and not disciplined in others. So I had to reflect on what made me more motivated and disciplined in other aspects and it’s because I BELIEVED I could attain it and I was knowledgeable/skilled to do it. The best way to for both is to reprogram your mindset and consistency. I’m currently on Day 4 of a 10k steps a day challenge and putting this into practice. It’s not easy but I’m going to keep going until I am disciplined in it! ✨

  • @shericahypolite9625
    @shericahypolite9625 2 года назад +86

    Me being 18 and watching your videos. I love your content Lucy❤️❤️🫶🏾. By the time I'm in my 20s I'll be knowledgeable about a lot of things thanks to you🙌

  • @annvic3996
    @annvic3996 Год назад +17

    "Am I a plantain, am I a potato 🥔 abi am I a chewing gum". 😀😀
    I really can relate on setting goals. I learnt this last year and all my goals I set for this year 2022 are almost achieved, left 1 big one which I am almost completing too. This is amazing content Lucy. 👏

  • @delmagomes5015
    @delmagomes5015 2 года назад +209

    Discipline will save you from so much unnecessary stress 🤌🏽🤌🏽🤌🏽

  • @sweettoothmarie7304
    @sweettoothmarie7304 Год назад +30

    This isn't just for anyone in their 20s. It goes way beyond that age! Very good content...thanks sis!👏👏✨️

  • @elohoroghorodi196
    @elohoroghorodi196 Год назад +2

    God bless you for this Lucy! Ahh…people really just have talk 😂 and yeah sometimes I wonder why I’m not getting what I want. But you see that thing you said about when it’s your time? Spot on!! Like truly when it’s your time it just happens and you really don’t have to do too much, that’s why God is God! He does it just like that.
    Another thing I’m taking from this vlog is to reward myself no matter no how little for every achievement and not wait for someone to do it for me. Yes oh!
    I wish you all the best and I appreciate the motivation. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @graceHumphreyy
    @graceHumphreyy 2 года назад +49

    Like you mentioned Lucy, starting with smaller goals and conquering them can motivate you to take on bigger tasks.
    How much time you have on your hands atm, resources you're in possession of, skills you've amassed over time and the kind of people in your circle, all summed up should help you know what's a realistic goal/plan, so you don't set impossible tasks and in turn, wonder why you're not disciplined 🤕

    • @eunicyjoy5148
      @eunicyjoy5148 Год назад

      Vvvvv the vvvvv I v g to you and then

    • @eunicyjoy5148
      @eunicyjoy5148 Год назад

      G'g'vvg the g'g'vvg v and not go g'day g'day my v

  • @rosemarymawunyoofori2126
    @rosemarymawunyoofori2126 2 года назад +25

    To be honest, watching your videos motivate me every time and it makes me feel refreshed. Sometimes I'm down and not ready to take another step because of a failure but after watching this video, I'm willing to try again and not give up. Thanks girl❤

  • @Lakay8
    @Lakay8 Год назад +5

    So happy I came across this because these things are very true ! Because people only think relationships not it’s everything life, family, friends, spouse etc.. MAKE YOURSELF A PRIORITY! Your time and your life matters ! Always work on you never stop !

  • @abdulrazaqramat3728
    @abdulrazaqramat3728 Год назад +15

    I just really want to say thank you for sharing your reasons on the importance of why should be disciplined and how to identify and avoid distractions. I learned a few things to keep in mind, May God continue to bless you sis for your wonderful advice! :)

  • @ambermoore6541
    @ambermoore6541 Год назад +7

    I’ve been working on my discipline for so long this video really helped me grasp some practical concepts to start applying especially like rewarding myself and tackling small goals before big ones.

  • @shirvellesmart9894
    @shirvellesmart9894 2 года назад +10

    This is the video I absolutely needed. Thanks so much Lucy!

  • @timeoutwithmartina1468
    @timeoutwithmartina1468 2 года назад +6

    Thanks so much Lucy! You've been a great source of inspiration for me. This as usual is enlightening!

  • @peacetolushe5825
    @peacetolushe5825 2 года назад +11

    How to be disciplined in your 20s
    Discipline allow you set goals and boundary, as human beings we need discipline in relationship, families, and careers.
    Tips
    1) indulge and do something you love: in all aspects, the type of food you eat... Whatever you have passion for you can monetize. Happiness and fulfillment is the goal. Do what you love. All the daily things you do around what you love are thin
    2) Quality over Quantity; have the mindset of what value people add to your life. I don't want a lot of friends but just 1person. Even if it's a job. Quality over quantity. We are not looking for temporary happiness.
    3) set goals and have a vision for yourself: No matter how little the vision board is, have one. Start with small goals then you will keep climbing the lather
    4) Eliminate distraction and don't let the struggle of life get to you: it's easier said than done. Start with who. Who are the people you allocate time for? You know when someone is good for you. If someone is not adding value to your life why are they in your life?
    Understanding what is good for you
    The part of not letting depression of life get to you
    Everyone is living glamorous life, sometimes you ask yourself you are doing something wrong.
    If you're not ready to be in relationship don't go into, if you are not ready to get married dont. Especially Africans
    People talk talk and nothing is been done.
    I know how life is, I am aware, sometimes insdk myself am in a plantain, am I a potatoe... Sis take it easy and let God take over it
    5) Give yourself a treat; if you hit a milestone give yourself a tap, but things for yourself. You didn't have to wait for people to do that for you. Everytime you look at the thing you give yourself treat for its gives you joy!
    You're the best beautiful sis

  • @xelfi4433
    @xelfi4433 2 года назад +8

    You are so motivating, as a person who does not have self discipline. You have given me hope. I am toxic and trying not to be.

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 5 месяцев назад

    Gone start putting phone on do not disturb or in living room and get shit done. And make it like a game and feeling good when distractions not winning especially scrolling social media. It’s good feeling to not be controlled by social media. And being and knowing you can do and can be anything. And takes time and effort. And stop comparing ourselves to others especially if they have privilege and you don’t. I’m on my time and Gods time. I love calling my grandma to pray every morning or bedtime and my step dad. Thank you for this video. ❤❤❤

  • @hollymua6825
    @hollymua6825 2 года назад +3

    Thanks Lucy for the video , for no reason I smile while watching your video… and it’s always like the videos are meant for me

  • @Thereal_berny
    @Thereal_berny Год назад +7

    This was beautiful to watch. One can tell you really do practice what you preach. 🙏🏾 I needed this.

  • @liviapierre8288
    @liviapierre8288 Год назад

    Honestly, I keep coming back to this video because I need to hear this over and over and not give up! ❤ thanks!

  • @Priimess
    @Priimess Год назад

    I absolutely love your accent! It makes me so happy to listen to you talk ☺️

  • @rosedibal6131
    @rosedibal6131 2 года назад +2

    The video I needed honestly……thank you so much Lucy 💕💕🤗

  • @ochayialicia7808
    @ochayialicia7808 Год назад +1

    Thank you for helping me , appreciate myself for every step.

  • @christyekere6051
    @christyekere6051 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much .Lucy you just spoke to my life now.God bless you more.I LOVE YOU.

  • @drc4168
    @drc4168 Год назад

    The love/money advice is very important. In my 30s, I decided to return to university to study music. The road was long and hard, but I achieved a PhD shortly before my 40th. Am I in a big job? No, I just research as a freelancer, publish articles and teach piano to a few pupils. But I feel vindicated that I at least get to spend my life on this earth contemplating something I truly love. Bravo to you for this sage and timely advice. You're a gifted communicator. X

  • @ogbonnatheodora8029
    @ogbonnatheodora8029 Год назад

    It's the way you say sis for me, I just love Lucy ❤️

  • @erikaellieansah1564
    @erikaellieansah1564 Год назад

    These videos are so encouraging, thank you so much!❤💕

  • @mercyokorom1713
    @mercyokorom1713 Год назад +1

    I literally failed to go for a training today because of my lack of self discipline. Coming across this video the same day when am feeling bad about letting myself down feels like God's way of helping ,me get better. I hope this helps me🙏🙏🙏

  • @kacykerak3179
    @kacykerak3179 Год назад

    This is one of the most helpful and applicable videos I’ve watched in a long time on this platform or social media in general. Thank you so much!

  • @francesschella110
    @francesschella110 Год назад +2

    Hey dear I want to thank you for taking out your time to get some information out here some of us don’t have people to talk to us like you do.. like you said we ain’t perfect but I appreciate your efforts cos since I subscribed and started following your Chanel I’ve been wielding towards improving and it’s a beautiful journey ❤️

  • @marieezugu1293
    @marieezugu1293 Год назад

    It feels really good hearing someone speak on this. God bless 🙏

  • @zinnystella758
    @zinnystella758 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this. Point 4 is my best. I've been struggling with that lately and it felt good to hear you talk about it.

  • @mindyobuisnez3518
    @mindyobuisnez3518 Год назад

    Thank you queen I needed this

  • @rachfayee
    @rachfayee Год назад +3

    I love your channel and videos so much Lucy! I pray that God shed His grace, peace, mercy and favor on you and in your life! Stay Faithful

  • @rubyenechukwu5659
    @rubyenechukwu5659 Год назад

    Thank you so much Lucy.I am addicted to this page already

  • @CrystalKwashie
    @CrystalKwashie 2 года назад

    Loved this video!! Great tips, I really think the reward piece will work great for me, I’m so hard on myself I never pat myself on the back for how far I’ve come

  • @Thephenomenalore
    @Thephenomenalore Год назад

    Firstly, I love you Lucy! I really needed to hear this, especially the aspect that has to do with accepting that “people’s journeys are different” and the social media pressure out there, whoosh 😢. I’ve always watched all your content and trust me, I learn more and get better. Thank you for being so authentic and inspiring, thank you for reminding some of us that it is okay to take baby steps. Thank you so much. ❤

  • @usmanmeimunat5405
    @usmanmeimunat5405 Год назад +1

    You are such an inspiration ma'am. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  • @nathaleclarke
    @nathaleclarke Год назад +1

    Don’t let social media fool you they may look like they are doing big things but they are struggling
    Trust in God and work on yourself
    11:24

  • @adelekeoluwapelumi4908
    @adelekeoluwapelumi4908 Год назад +1

    Thank you Lucy I love this

  • @luciathefemininewoman
    @luciathefemininewoman Год назад

    Thank you for this, also I’m new to your channel you gained a subscriber. I need to learn how to discipline as an adult because I don’t want to end up like people who doesn’t have any self control and discipline. I actually took notes from this video and took a picture so whenever I need to read what I need to know to stay disciplined as an adult. I think my favorite is creating goals because it gives me a sense of accomplishment.

  • @chisomokafor7839
    @chisomokafor7839 2 года назад +1

    You’re the best Lucy! All my love ❤️

  • @BeingMimo
    @BeingMimo 2 года назад +1

    Thankyou so much,this video is what i needed to hear at this point in my life.Definetly got a new sub!im here to grow!

  • @bezaabate3991
    @bezaabate3991 2 года назад +1

    A very timely video. Thank you. Luv you

  • @1SongBirdspeaks
    @1SongBirdspeaks Год назад

    This is golden advice! The real deal!👏🏾👏🏾

  • @carmencatalina9086
    @carmencatalina9086 5 месяцев назад

    So true about what you love. I use make myself do workout videos when I enjoyed doing 40 minutes on treadmill because others make it seem you need to have complex workouts. Also waking up early I like waking up different times and doing my routine regardless what time I wake up. And taking stuff slow and not needing overnight gratification.

  • @judithchiemela3619
    @judithchiemela3619 Год назад +1

    OMG Ma'am, I'm so touched by your words. Thank you so much.

  • @promisechinecherem8326
    @promisechinecherem8326 Год назад

    Thank you so much Lucy😍😍😍😍

  • @idaraprecious3026
    @idaraprecious3026 2 года назад +1

    Love this video Lucy.. and your style is always givinggg!!!! 😊😊

  • @marinamt4421
    @marinamt4421 Год назад

    you are so smart. I listen, because you are bright and your values are in the right place, that is inspiring. Thank you for sharing!

  • @mummyvee7986
    @mummyvee7986 Год назад +1

    I love the importance you put on discipline, for me: without it , we can not achieve any goal

  • @marionmassaquoi8982
    @marionmassaquoi8982 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video, It was so helpful.

  • @mariexoxo1282
    @mariexoxo1282 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Lucy❤️❤️

  • @TalkgirlAdunni
    @TalkgirlAdunni Год назад

    thank you so much lucy

  • @cecexo8119
    @cecexo8119 Год назад

    Great message. I really like how your hair n makeup looks classy. I like how your part matches on camera 😉 thanks for these vids pretty girl😊

  • @mercycyprian3799
    @mercycyprian3799 Год назад

    I really really love you Lucy🤗🤗you’re the best

  • @AnaFB9696
    @AnaFB9696 6 месяцев назад

    Aside everthing you say have much value, my god i just love your accent. Sometimes i just focus on your accent. Love from Lisbon, Portugal

  • @reemrawahi7391
    @reemrawahi7391 Год назад

    Woman I needed this

  • @sandramulthauf2159
    @sandramulthauf2159 2 года назад +1

    Hi Lucy… super great advice and so encouraging. I am going through some changes in life and I am thinking more about what brings me joy? What am I passionate about? Who do I want to spend time with and what do I want to accomplish? So important to make these assessments periodically throughout life. Thank you for affirming that I need to really dedicate some time and thought into this and start setting those goals for myself.

  • @Mimms-sd6wn
    @Mimms-sd6wn Год назад

    Such a helpful video thank you !!

  • @jasminwashington8102
    @jasminwashington8102 Год назад

    Lucy!!!!! You really outdid yourself with this video! I love your content

  • @jennycuteamara9518
    @jennycuteamara9518 Год назад

    Thank you lucy. Seriously, thank you.❤

  • @vivianbiachomebulo987
    @vivianbiachomebulo987 Год назад +1

    You're the best Lucy 😍😍😍😍

  • @Safoyaahh
    @Safoyaahh Год назад +1

    I admire you so much! And so thankful i came across your page! God bless x

  • @Vipvid
    @Vipvid Год назад

    I absolutely love this

  • @MichellGracefulLiving
    @MichellGracefulLiving Год назад

    I enrolled for a music theory course, feeling very excited. I love music. Thank you for your great tips

  • @bamideletaiwo5085
    @bamideletaiwo5085 Год назад

    Yes, so motivating and aspiring. Good life tip.

  • @edehijeoma2424
    @edehijeoma2424 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing with us, I am happy I clicked on that video it was very helpful honestly.

  • @victorianyawiragitau4111
    @victorianyawiragitau4111 Год назад +1

    Exactly what I needed to hear! I love how articulate and funny Lucy is😍😍💐

  • @chardebroc5518
    @chardebroc5518 10 месяцев назад

    Love it. Watched it 3 times

  • @imaniblack
    @imaniblack Год назад

    This is a great video. Thank you!

  • @elamejabea2137
    @elamejabea2137 2 года назад

    Thank you for the video, it was really helpful for me ❤

  • @lucratia
    @lucratia Год назад +2

    The best recommendation RUclips has ever made for me!!! I am so happy I came across this video 👌🏽💯 I really enjoyed it, thanks sis!!! You just got yourself a new subbie🤗❤ defs telling my friends about your channel bc I mean who are you subscribed to if not your channel 😂 😁. I can't wait to binge watch some more of your videos 🤍💫

  • @dooseabege
    @dooseabege Год назад +5

    Loved your tips sis . Will definitely apply to myself . Quality over quantity always 🙏🏾💕

  • @emmanuellaaire9849
    @emmanuellaaire9849 2 года назад +1

    Well said Lucy thanks for this

  • @augustaonyejekwe1002
    @augustaonyejekwe1002 2 года назад

    Thanks Lucy, you really inspired me

  • @yemiallwell1298
    @yemiallwell1298 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing. You are a blessing.

  • @queem5682
    @queem5682 Год назад

    I love this, esp quality over quantity

  • @esthermutua1287
    @esthermutua1287 2 года назад +1

    The lesson meant for me thanks alot Lucy ,,, woiii I fell inspired already woow point taken 👍💯👍💯👍 can't wait looking forward this great message 🙏 ,,, am waiting for the vidieo of which perfumes are good to put on 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Moyo_Lampejo
    @Moyo_Lampejo Год назад

    I love your energy

  • @bellababy6235
    @bellababy6235 2 года назад

    Girl you are really intelligent. First time paying full attention to your video and I’m happy for you 😘

  • @gosiameramitheki7845
    @gosiameramitheki7845 Год назад +1

    i love your videos😍

  • @scholarspeaksinspired
    @scholarspeaksinspired 2 года назад +2

    Wow ! 5th to comment...I recently discovered your channel and you inspire me when creating my own content as a very new youtuber...I love self improvement contents..I am inspired sis..thank you...

  • @lifewiththemba9924
    @lifewiththemba9924 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing your videos for free , they are really changing my life as a twenty two years old, your videos are a life guid they introduced me into adulthood. I love you

  • @paulamakish3351
    @paulamakish3351 Год назад +1

    Sometimes people do things not because they love to but because they want to put food on their table and hope for better opportunities. My humble opinion is to be focus in life and put God first, no matter the place or job you find yourself, God will always grant our heart desires.

  • @dalia9713
    @dalia9713 Год назад

    Love your energy ❤❤

  • @heytheredeliilaa
    @heytheredeliilaa Год назад

    So happy I found your channel!!! ❤️

  • @AllDolldUp69
    @AllDolldUp69 2 года назад

    Wow i needed this video thank you! This video alone made me subscribe

  • @Jesusheals70
    @Jesusheals70 Год назад

    Love this. Well said 🌹💖

  • @solomonvictoria5432
    @solomonvictoria5432 2 года назад

    Thank you Lucy 💕

  • @carineokeh3543
    @carineokeh3543 Год назад

    Thanks for this video. Discipline is my thing. This will motivate me to put more efforts.

  • @NenyenwaOkwara__
    @NenyenwaOkwara__ Год назад +1

    I pray all your tips works for me Amen😌❤️

  • @anidobeebube2882
    @anidobeebube2882 Год назад +1

    Thanks a lot girl for this video. This video popped up on my fyp just at the time I needed it. I hope to see results soon cos I’m taking these tips very serious.

  • @zubaida.x
    @zubaida.x 2 года назад +1

    Eliminate distraction. Best sis💗💕💕 Much 💕💕

  • @samanthakamau
    @samanthakamau 2 года назад +1

    I loved this video 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Onyigift
    @Onyigift Год назад

    Always a pleasure listening to you Sis

  • @melindakelly3969
    @melindakelly3969 Год назад

    Thank you for the video❤