Do you have a video on saying no because examples in this video can be be caused by a person putting others needs ahead of their own especially family and significant others whom like to guilt trip a good person. I know I always had things planned out, but others were always getting in my way. I had to learn to say no, but then, say you ask family for help then they feel like you should make decisions based on their morals because they helped you. Then, let's say it's a significant other they feel you should do whatever they want because it pleases them, even if it is immorral to you.
REMEMBER - The day you plant the seed isn't the same day you eat the fruit. Amongst being disciplined be patient! For your time will come. Tataa, Take Care. I wish everyone the best.
This is such a lovely quote! I've heard a similar concept phrased different ways but this is so succinct and really resonates with me! Thanks for sharing Miss Amani 💖💖
I believe my biggest struggle at the moment is not knowing what I want in my life. I feel like my life is on hold. I’m just waiting for something to happen...😒 I have no idea what to do. I guess just focusing on my little goals that make it all that better
@@faithelson yeah your right. I can literally do anything. It’s easy to fall in this trap of staying glued to my phone or not starting something because I’m not good at it. How am I suppose to know if I don’t ever start! Thank you. It means so much for your comment.
But what are your little goals leading to? What kind of life do you want to live? Are you creating the life you want to live? If there is something you want to do and fear is stopping you? whats the worst that can happen and how can you find out if you dont do it? idk but i hope these questions helps.
Yesss I agree! I basically have no social life right now because i am in GRIND mode. I am literally putting my entire being into MYSELF, making money, investing, youtube, and other businesses. I have one amazing friend that I see every few months, which is plenty for my introverted soul :)
I have looked back at the last three years of my life and think exactly that...what the hell was I doing with all this time? I could have been in such a great place by now and instead I waisted all my time and freedom. I am now about to have my son at 20 years old. All of a sudden it's like my eyes have been opened and I so badly wish I could go back in time and kick my own ass!
I'm 20 and I feel the same way. I wasted my highschool years and did nothing. I haven't pushed myself to the limit and reached or fulfilled my potential. I was the learner who was half baked. I cannot begin to tell you the opportunities I've missed. 2 years after leaving highschool my eyes have been opened as to how much time I wasted and it's because I kept telling myself I still have time
Yooooo! don't beat yourself up AT ALL you can still do so many great things for real. Best of luck. shoot. if at 20 I knew what I know at damn near 33 id be golden. I didn't turn myself around until my mid-20s to late 20s i went back to school. you're at a beautiful age and don't feel bad. You can do so much! imagine you live to 80 just try to focus on the 60 years ahead instead of the 20 behind you.the past doesn't have to define you. The real thing that I wish I knew is it's all about choice. make a decision for yourself and commit to it and boom you'll be good. I didn't turn things around until my mid-20s. If you can read Think and Grow Rich. That's really the secret, make decisions don't just react
Her channel has literally changed my life and made me a so much better person There’s nothing wrong with discipline but also don’t forget to take breaks and take care of yourself too!
Why can’t I stay consistent good God. I am so happy I came across this video because I get in the way of my own self. Wanting to be perfect or I need to be this certain type to be able to represent myself to the world. Like no... no.... I’m over it. I’m going to do better! Read more! Meditate, pray, and have self discipline. We can do it ladies. ♥️✅
I want to say one thing, I love how you don’t talk down on yourself over something you wish to improve. You open room for a a healthy conversation with yourself. Working towards finding the root to your problems and creating a solution for it. ❤️❤️👌🏼
I needed this video! I need to discipline myself more on RUclips. I’ve been having major breakdowns and problems with depression. I’m doing better though. It’s like sometimes when I push myself too hard I breakdown and idk why.
I think I need to take a social media break , feel like for years iv been online scrolling through FB , Twitter etc and never really took at least a week off my phone ..... I need to take an officL break to work on my goals, thank you for this video
Do it! I felt this exact way last year, around May. Im a nurse, dealing with the pandemic and then the brutal killing of George Floyd happened. I had a mental breakdown, and social media was making me even more depressed. I deactivated my Facebook in June 2020, and I haven't been back. Leaving social media was one of the best things for my mental health.
I’m gonna be 20 soon and I’m putting off getting my licence too😭. I also have one year left in a degree I hate but I don’t want to pursue my passion and be broke 😭💀💔
woww literally me. im 20 years old.. im at the end of finishing cosmetology school and now need to start studying for my license AND i don’t have my drivers license yet but trying to get it before/by summer.. i put it off way too long
@@shaniquawilliamson44 Girl I feel you but a friend told me sometimes you got to take certain jobs to elevate yourself financially. If you feel finance is not an issue here, just go for things that make you happy at the end of the day your happiness is paramount and I wish you all the best on your journey.
I have been aware of the fact that discipline is what’s needed for ultimate success for a very long time but I have such a hard time figuring out where to start and how to follow through with being disciplined...
Try reading James Clears Atomic habits its a really popular book alot of people swear by it xxx its more about building consistant habits easily than relying on discipline becos discipline is draining for some people.
I love that you reference sports. When I’m feeling a little unmotivated in the gym I always search for NBA or NFL players workouts on RUclips. This will get you going! We can apply the mentality of athletes to any area of life
Usually I never comment on videos, but today I was -am- having a mental breakdown about being broke and lost, and I opened my RUclips and this was the first suggestion.
I really needed this.. today was one of those bad days... I'm constantly struggling between trying to get myself out of negative self doubt and sinking back into feeling sorry for myself... it's a constant battle and today was just not the best... I really needed to hear this so thanks 👑
Absolutely needed this! Just ended my relationship with my son’s father and now it is time to take more care of ME. Discipline, self care, and praying is my plan for the remainder of this year. Thank you for this video!!!!
Literally just broke up with my boyfriend and I have to say, this video was perfect timing! I am naturally a disciplined person, but over the last year I have slipped into victim mode and I am not living my best life. it's time to switch things up and I am taking charge and becoming the boss bitch I know that I am! Thank you for the sign :)
“Discipline equals financial freedom, love, power ,success and everything above”!!!! THAT PART! Ive been feeling so uninspired ,bored ,”tired”. I Needed to hear this! Thank you bby
this reality check was much needed in my life and i never really saw that point of “ my single mom could do it why can’t i” but never really saw the time and work she put in! thank you so much hailey ❤️
but also remember, her journey is not your journey. It is commin for children of single parents to compare their lives to their parent but remember you have your own journey. Do things bc you can do it not bc your single mom could have.
Well! Once again I needed to see this❤ I lack discipline and I'm working on it by forcing myself to do small daily things until they become habits. Started working out and even reading a book! My health improved and my mind is improving...not perfect but I'm trying😪❤
I needed this...... I honestly been feeling so down because I feel disappointed with myself for wasting days/weeks/months on nothing and feeling guilty about it which makes me waste even more time. Starting tomorrow (it’s late rn) I’m waking up early and working towards my goals. Thank you so much for this video❤️
you are honestly one of my greatest inspirations which means a lot to me because I've always found it quite hard to find anyone that I could ever relate to and look up to. you're such a genuine and special soul Hailey, it's truly an honor being able to receive your advice and unique help from someone who truly understands the struggles we're going through💕
"This is what discipline is, you don't have to be the best to win!" That point, as a backup of the story of the hare and the tortoise really got home 🏘️💸💰
Are we having a retrograde or somethin because I cried like 4 times this weekend 😭😭😭😭 I hope whatever obstacles are in you way that they turn into seeds of change 💛 sometimes you have to breakdown in order to grow ( think of how a glow stick needs to break in order to shine)🤞🏾✨
Your talks always make me feel better and makes me hold myself accountable (even tho it’s hard to sometimes). I love hearing the advice you give because being the oldest in my family i had to learn a lot of things on my own without the help of my parents which caused me to feel lost/alone. Discovering your channel has helped me in more ways than you will ever know. Thank you so much. Sending you lots of love 🤍🦋✨
THIS IS SO GOOD. I've been having an extremely busy 2 weeks. & I'm moving too! I keep panicking because I feel stressed and I get scared about it affecting my health (like a stroke or something). This video came right on time.
You CONSISTENTLY COME THRU WITH THE THE SPOT ON ADVICE I NEED WHEN I NEED IT! 😭💗 I pray for you to be the best version of Hailey Gamba you can be! You deserve it Beautiful ☺️💗
I am the you, you described in the beginning having a lot going on and experiencing a mental breakdown and I’m the RUclipsr you described in the end (posting once a month or every 2 months) - Thanks for being transparent and reminding me I’m not alone, but I need to do better 😘❤️
I was starting to rise from the ashes after being brought down for a while. I was practicing self care and was doing so good. I’m now at square 1 this is so hard.
Don’t look at it as being at square one. You’re not at square one. You just had a temporary setback. (Regardless if that set back was months long). Try to look at the bigger picture and don’t discount the work you have already put in even if you have back slidden. Give yourself positive self talk, not negative. :) I’m learning this for myself as well! Sending hugs and love!
this is was randomly on my recommendation page and this is literally the sign i needed as I am looking into starting my own channel and a lot of other things I have been procrastinating..saved this videos so i can use it as a reminder whenever i am slacking or being hard on myself..thank you, love your energy.
I wanna say this video was following me throughout youtube and I avoided it for like 2 days. I knew I needed to watch this and I'm glad I finally did. it was short, sweet, and needed. One thing I would love to add, you kind of touched on it with how people celebrate their wins. While the mission is never over don't overwork yourself and take care of your mental, and emotional health. Grinding 24/7 isn't healthy and everyone deserves to just take a breath and be present whenever you need it. Don't move faster than the universe because the universe is going to take its time with you.
I needed this... currently finding everything in the book to procrastinate, food, boys, social media. Let me get my ass up and go edit! Thank you for this Hails!❤️
Girl same here, I procrastinate a lot as I know in my mind I work well under pressure which is not good because when a lot of stuff comes up at once you will be stressed
I simply don't want to live a life where I have to work so hard and then relax when I have time....I just don't understand how this new hustle culture is called "greatness"... Structured schedules, goal after goal after goal, always something more to do or chase....im tired.
"It's called discipline the quality of keep going firmly despite adverse circumstances" I believe thats how discipline is described, and i disagree! Once we pretend to just keep going, keep fighting, keep trying, keep working on something while trying to ignore something that turns it harder (like going trough hard moments, bad mental health, stress, bad environment or even a global pandemic) it's same as ignoring that we're human beings and sometimes we just got to slow down and feel the feels. I prefer to believe that yes, we need to be the best versions of ourselves, we need to try and try again, and "when you're tired, don't give up, get a rest". Don't ignore your feelings, only you know what and how it's to be you, the good and the bad part of it. Love your videos Hailey!
This further confirmed the truth that sparked within myself. I meet be disciplined towards what I want in order for it to tap into its grow, nurture, and care. So that one day it will bloom from the seed it was planted.
I def felt sad and I saw this. I def feel lost and bored only because I keep self sabotaging from what I really need to be doing. My husband is gone this week and I am home with the 3 kids. Thanks for this sign!
OMG! Thank you so much for the video. I have been struggling with discipline for awhile. I procrastinate a lot, mainly because I feel as though what I need to get done will cause me pain... well more like discomfort; so I don’t even try. Then when the time comes to actually do the task that I have procrastinated on, I realize that I could have finished it sooner and it would have prevented all the unnecessary stress that I go through.
I ve been feeling like this almost a month, I didn’t know what was happening to me or how call it but the title WOW I’m feeling like that lost, broke and bored, this is a siiign for sure
These past month I’ve allowed my anxiety to take over. I don’t know how to tame It and it’s been affecting my work/creativity. And literally today I thought to myself “I’m literally getting broke, and I’m just stuck, how can I get this dark cloud away from me 😭” Then I open up RUclips and your video pops out, the title definitely caught my attention. I’m so grateful to have watched us needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing
There is no manual and everybody is so hard on themselves. Everything takes time. As long as we know that’s the goal we are doing better than we think.
Im a mother of 4 and i struggle so hard with self care how to start it and what to do because all i know is my kids since having my oldest at 15 . ur channel i feel is goin to help me get it together.
Omg u have 500k almost means half way to 1 mil omg yes! I remeber watching u when u started wow u have grow so much! Finallyy more and more people are finding u! U are the shitttr sis! Everything u post is amazing! I admire u so much! I love the way u think i love ur beauty ajd i love ur vocie and i love everything thank u for always helping us gurls out i looobbvveeeee u!❤️
I had the worst breakdown yesterday. I was so confused about my life, where I want to be, what I want. I feel so behind everyone around me and I feel that I can never do anything that everyone else. I'm sure some of you may also feel that way. That your friends have better grades, your colleagues have better paying jobs, the people around you are GENUINELY happy while you try so hard to strive just to get past a long day, I hope everyone can find peace and happiness in their hearts and minds. May today be the start of a long, fruitful, joyous journey.
I think that discipline is not about doing more, I think it is about doing the right thing. You can't just be extra for no reason. There has to be discipline to say no to things even if it sounds like it's a good thing. And sometimes you do need to go out with your friends so you are refreshed to go after whatever.
Is God trying to tell me something because I’ve been trying so hard for my RUclips channel but I’m not seeing results.It literally makes me cry because I get excited for a video ,edit it and it doesn’t do well. But I keep assuring myself.And sometimes I feel like I’m not trying enough. I don’t have anyone to rant to since not many people around me know much about RUclips so thanks for listening .
I finally started my channel a few months ago and I’m telling you it’s so worth it!! I feel what you mean though about getting excited for a video and having a breakdown afterwards because it didn’t come out as planned. It does get better though, promise:) just takes time. I’m subbing to you too and will keep an eye out for your videos, you got this🥰
RUclips is one of thee hardest things EVER! Between the consistency, hard work YOU put in & overall time and effort to only get ‘X’ amount of views can sometimes hurt. But look at the glass as half full and not half empty. Hard work pays off...keep going girl, especially if you enjoy doing it!
You have no idea how much I needed this video today! I have been procrastinating all day! Tonight I am supposed to work out but I got into a random funk. I was going to allow myself to skip another workout and allow myself to excuse myself once again. Every single thing you have said in this video changed me completely! The fact that it took 7 minutes is mind blowing! After I send out this comment, I'm going to do my workout now. You are incredible and I absolutely thank you for this! Please do more of these❤❤❤
Being the best at something and not taking the time to take care of yourself and be in the moment doesnt mean that is the best for you in the long run. If you have a goal you have to make sure you make a plan and be focused enough to follow trough and flexible enough to know when to change strategies. But dont let what you do be who you are. Thats how a lot of acomplished people end up being burned out.
I totally feel this💓💓 if anyone is struggling with discipline something I’ve learned is strategy pages! Sending love to all my go-getters even if you’re down right now just know you can get up💓
My aunt suffers from the same this. Take a hot shower, mix blax seed oil with raw honey in a hot cup of water, make a tea, drink this and wrap yourself ina blanket. Make sure your room is super quiet and dark. Hope this helps
What is so crazy, is that over the last year I have been implementing routines in my life. Last night, I got high with my roommate (YEET) and ended up eating all of my lemon loaf slices, ice cream, and cookies..... In that moment I finally realized that I lack discipline and it mind blowing---it was one of those yeah i know this but now i KNOW this moments! hahahaha. sooo back to what I was saying, it's just so crazy how this video landed on my page. and I really appreciate it. It's time to get to work because working in Customer Service ain't cutting it sis. ololololo
I was listening to everything you were saying like EVERYTHING, but your voice is so soft when you speak that I just found it very calming, almost like an ASMR video ♥️😍😍 (NEW SUBSCRIBER) 🦋🎉
Thank You so much Hailey I noticed I lack discipline and I really dislike that because I’ve been so more further in my life.. today I started my social media detox and your video popped up on my RUclips and it was very motivational for me .I’m rooting for myself for the next few months . I have 2 main hard goals i would really love to accomplish within the next couple weeks and I’ll be most definitely focus now
Click here for episode 3 ruclips.net/video/eEcptuMI4iY/видео.html !! If you liked this one you will love the next one ☝🏽
You’re the real mvp, big sis energy all day. Thank you Hailey❤️
Sent this to 3 different ppl ! Everyone needs to hear this !
Do you have a video on saying no because examples in this video can be be caused by a person putting others needs ahead of their own especially family and significant others whom like to guilt trip a good person. I know I always had things planned out, but others were always getting in my way. I had to learn to say no, but then, say you ask family for help then they feel like you should make decisions based on their morals because they helped you. Then, let's say it's a significant other they feel you should do whatever they want because it pleases them, even if it is immorral to you.
I feel exactly the same!
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REMEMBER - The day you plant the seed isn't the same day you eat the fruit. Amongst being disciplined be patient! For your time will come.
Tataa, Take Care.
I wish everyone the best.
Such a beautiful comment love!! Blessings to you as well. Feeling down is the only way to RISE 🙏🙏❤️❤️
This is such a lovely quote! I've heard a similar concept phrased different ways but this is so succinct and really resonates with me! Thanks for sharing Miss Amani 💖💖
same to you beautiful
Well said sis
Thank you for this comment ♥️🙂✨✨
I was hesitant about watching this bc I didn’t want to admit to myself that I feel lost broke & bored 😂😭😭🤍✨
Same
I feel U Kamrynn Alexis😭
literally lmao
Truth
Same but I clicked anyway because that just means it’s time to get out of my comfort zone 😌
sending virtual hugs to anyone in need rn. ur blessed enough to be alive rn, AND IT WILL GET BETTER.
Awwwh tysm 🥰🥰
Thank youuuu sis 🤗😌
Aww thank you💜💜
Thank YOU 🙏. I am sending you virtual hugs too 🥰
@@stunningbeaute1037 tysm!! x
I highkey wish I could find more girls who focus on this stuff and like make an accountability group chat or something.
Do it!!! I’ve been looking for an accountability partner today and the fact that you mentioned this would be the best idea ever
Yes please,I would be a member.
I would love this
I’d love to be apart of an accountability group 🙌🏾
Im in !!!
"discipline is self-love" wow thank you for this
I believe my biggest struggle at the moment is not knowing what I want in my life. I feel like my life is on hold. I’m just waiting for something to happen...😒 I have no idea what to do. I guess just focusing on my little goals that make it all that better
Do something rather than nothing. You van always stop if you don't like it
@@faithelson yeah your right. I can literally do anything. It’s easy to fall in this trap of staying glued to my phone or not starting something because I’m not good at it. How am I suppose to know if I don’t ever start! Thank you. It means so much for your comment.
Im the same it results to having no will to live. I feel like giving up i dont know what to do
But what are your little goals leading to? What kind of life do you want to live? Are you creating the life you want to live? If there is something you want to do and fear is stopping you? whats the worst that can happen and how can you find out if you dont do it? idk but i hope these questions helps.
@@aleynao196 don’t give up on life 😢 you can talk to me 💕
This video is the universe giving me a message😂😂😂
I feel ✨quite✨ attacked right now 😂😂
For reallll
Yessssssss!!!
It’s a sign
*God
Yesss I agree! I basically have no social life right now because i am in GRIND mode. I am literally putting my entire being into MYSELF, making money, investing, youtube, and other businesses. I have one amazing friend that I see every few months, which is plenty for my introverted soul :)
I love this for you keep grinding boo, I’m in the same mode❤️
I have looked back at the last three years of my life and think exactly that...what the hell was I doing with all this time? I could have been in such a great place by now and instead I waisted all my time and freedom. I am now about to have my son at 20 years old. All of a sudden it's like my eyes have been opened and I so badly wish I could go back in time and kick my own ass!
I'm 20 and I feel the same way. I wasted my highschool years and did nothing. I haven't pushed myself to the limit and reached or fulfilled my potential. I was the learner who was half baked. I cannot begin to tell you the opportunities I've missed. 2 years after leaving highschool my eyes have been opened as to how much time I wasted and it's because I kept telling myself I still have time
Yooooo! don't beat yourself up AT ALL you can still do so many great things for real. Best of luck. shoot. if at 20 I knew what I know at damn near 33 id be golden. I didn't turn myself around until my mid-20s to late 20s i went back to school. you're at a beautiful age and don't feel bad. You can do so much! imagine you live to 80 just try to focus on the 60 years ahead instead of the 20 behind you.the past doesn't have to define you. The real thing that I wish I knew is it's all about choice. make a decision for yourself and commit to it and boom you'll be good. I didn't turn things around until my mid-20s. If you can read Think and Grow Rich. That's really the secret, make decisions don't just react
@@SayPennita thank you you're one hundred percent right. :)
@@SayPennita allowing me to see everything in a new life
Me too girl! But we’re still alive we got time!🥰
Her channel has literally changed my life and made me a so much better person
There’s nothing wrong with discipline but also don’t forget to take breaks and take care of yourself too!
Discipline is all about doing what’s best for you and sticking to it ! Mental health and self care is a HUGE part. Thank you so much babe 🤍
Why can’t I stay consistent good God. I am so happy I came across this video because I get in the way of my own self. Wanting to be perfect or I need to be this certain type to be able to represent myself to the world. Like no... no.... I’m over it. I’m going to do better! Read more! Meditate, pray, and have self discipline. We can do it ladies. ♥️✅
I literally just got home from a therapy session where we talked about this. The universe is definitely telling me to get my life together lol
I want to say one thing, I love how you don’t talk down on yourself over something you wish to improve. You open room for a a healthy conversation with yourself. Working towards finding the root to your problems and creating a solution for it. ❤️❤️👌🏼
"Discipline is self love"
I'm completely into getting my live together and achieving all my goals by working hard🙌🧡
I needed this video! I need to discipline myself more on RUclips. I’ve been having major breakdowns and problems with depression. I’m doing better though. It’s like sometimes when I push myself too hard I breakdown and idk why.
Pace yourself ! Discipline also mean prioritizing your mental health 🙏🏽
I think I need to take a social media break , feel like for years iv been online scrolling through FB , Twitter etc and never really took at least a week off my phone ..... I need to take an officL break to work on my goals, thank you for this video
Whew, i felt this. Same AF
Me as well
Literally going through this as well atm
Same here!!
Do it! I felt this exact way last year, around May. Im a nurse, dealing with the pandemic and then the brutal killing of George Floyd happened. I had a mental breakdown, and social media was making me even more depressed. I deactivated my Facebook in June 2020, and I haven't been back. Leaving social media was one of the best things for my mental health.
this was a straight slug towards me😂 i just turned 20 & lord knows i need to get my cosmetology and drivers license but i keep avoiding it
I’m gonna be 20 soon and I’m putting off getting my licence too😭. I also have one year left in a degree I hate but I don’t want to pursue my passion and be broke 😭💀💔
I'm 22 and I'm in the same boat with the drivers' license 😂
woww literally me. im 20 years old.. im at the end of finishing cosmetology school and now need to start studying for my license AND i don’t have my drivers license yet but trying to get it before/by summer.. i put it off way too long
@@shaniquawilliamson44 Girl I feel you but a friend told me sometimes you got to take certain jobs to elevate yourself financially.
If you feel finance is not an issue here, just go for things that make you happy at the end of the day your happiness is paramount and I wish you all the best on your journey.
@@pheonix6347 thank u💓
I have been aware of the fact that discipline is what’s needed for ultimate success for a very long time but I have such a hard time figuring out where to start and how to follow through with being disciplined...
Sis😭😭😭 this me right there
Try reading James Clears Atomic habits its a really popular book alot of people swear by it xxx its more about building consistant habits easily than relying on discipline becos discipline is draining for some people.
Hailey is the big sister I've always needed (as my elder sister was always far away due to studies) and honestly Hailey changed my life. Tysm
I LOVE THIS WOMAN EVERYTHING ABOU HER AND HER CONTENT ARE JUST CHEFS KISS*
I love that you reference sports. When I’m feeling a little unmotivated in the gym I always search for NBA or NFL players workouts on RUclips. This will get you going! We can apply the mentality of athletes to any area of life
Usually I never comment on videos, but today I was -am- having a mental breakdown about being broke and lost, and I opened my RUclips and this was the first suggestion.
Girlll, you must start a podcast!!! 😍
I really needed this.. today was one of those bad days... I'm constantly struggling between trying to get myself out of negative self doubt and sinking back into feeling sorry for myself... it's a constant battle and today was just not the best... I really needed to hear this so thanks 👑
Absolutely needed this! Just ended my relationship with my son’s father and now it is time to take more care of ME. Discipline, self care, and praying is my plan for the remainder of this year. Thank you for this video!!!!
Yess !! On the same journey, it takes time but you will push through
Same journey girl x you got this
Take care of yourself first and everything will work out in order
If this isn't God speaking to me through this video than I don't know what this is 🙌🏽❤
Same! 🙌🏻
Literally just broke up with my boyfriend and I have to say, this video was perfect timing! I am naturally a disciplined person, but over the last year I have slipped into victim mode and I am not living my best life. it's time to switch things up and I am taking charge and becoming the boss bitch I know that I am! Thank you for the sign :)
“Discipline equals financial freedom, love, power ,success and everything above”!!!! THAT PART! Ive been feeling so uninspired ,bored ,”tired”. I Needed to hear this! Thank you bby
this reality check was much needed in my life and i never really saw that point of “ my single mom could do it why can’t i” but never really saw the time and work she put in! thank you so much hailey ❤️
but also remember, her journey is not your journey. It is commin for children of single parents to compare their lives to their parent but remember you have your own journey. Do things bc you can do it not bc your single mom could have.
I'm here to stay. I love contents like this. Much love to whoever is here watching this post
Well! Once again I needed to see this❤
I lack discipline and I'm working on it by forcing myself to do small daily things until they become habits.
Started working out and even reading a book! My health improved and my mind is improving...not perfect but I'm trying😪❤
I needed this...... I honestly been feeling so down because I feel disappointed with myself for wasting days/weeks/months on nothing and feeling guilty about it which makes me waste even more time. Starting tomorrow (it’s late rn) I’m waking up early and working towards my goals. Thank you so much for this video❤️
you are honestly one of my greatest inspirations which means a lot to me because I've always found it quite hard to find anyone that I could ever relate to and look up to. you're such a genuine and special soul Hailey, it's truly an honor being able to receive your advice and unique help from someone who truly understands the struggles we're going through💕
Wow that means a lot to me as well! Thank you for being apart of this journey and being humble enough to hear my advice 👏🏽🤍
"This is what discipline is, you don't have to be the best to win!"
That point, as a backup of the story of the hare and the tortoise really got home 🏘️💸💰
Are we having a retrograde or somethin because I cried like 4 times this weekend 😭😭😭😭 I hope whatever obstacles are in you way that they turn into seeds of change 💛 sometimes you have to breakdown in order to grow ( think of how a glow stick needs to break in order to shine)🤞🏾✨
That’s my explanation! My life has been in retrograde for 3 years!
Your talks always make me feel better and makes me hold myself accountable (even tho it’s hard to sometimes). I love hearing the advice you give because being the oldest in my family i had to learn a lot of things on my own without the help of my parents which caused me to feel lost/alone. Discovering your channel has helped me in more ways than you will ever know. Thank you so much. Sending you lots of love 🤍🦋✨
Needed this! Working on my discipline needed this reminder!
THIS IS SO GOOD. I've been having an extremely busy 2 weeks. & I'm moving too! I keep panicking because I feel stressed and I get scared about it affecting my health (like a stroke or something). This video came right on time.
You CONSISTENTLY COME THRU WITH THE THE SPOT ON ADVICE I NEED WHEN I NEED IT! 😭💗 I pray for you to be the best version of Hailey Gamba you can be! You deserve it Beautiful ☺️💗
ur talks have been so wholesome & deep, thanks for this!!
Discipline Is EVERYTHING period,without it your life Will be chaotic AND sad.
I am the you, you described in the beginning having a lot going on and experiencing a mental breakdown and I’m the RUclipsr you described in the end (posting once a month or every 2 months) - Thanks for being transparent and reminding me I’m not alone, but I need to do better 😘❤️
The title is literally how I felt today 😌
“If I’m going to be online it’s going to purposeful and not randomly scroll through Instagram” LOVVVE 💗
I was starting to rise from the ashes after being brought down for a while. I was practicing self care and was doing so good. I’m now at square 1 this is so hard.
Yeah it’s definitely hard but it’s okay . I’ve learned that it’s normal to have ups and downs . Just don’t stay in the downs for to long .❤️
Hang in there babe! You are not alone - virtual hugs 💖😘
Don’t look at it as being at square one. You’re not at square one. You just had a temporary setback. (Regardless if that set back was months long). Try to look at the bigger picture and don’t discount the work you have already put in even if you have back slidden. Give yourself positive self talk, not negative. :) I’m learning this for myself as well! Sending hugs and love!
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same girl. but we can do this. i was doing so good but life changed up on me so quick.
Discipline is self love. I will receive, prosper and manifest what I love into my life ❤️
I’m already in love with these morning chats
this is was randomly on my recommendation page and this is literally the sign i needed as I am looking into starting my own channel and a lot of other things I have been procrastinating..saved this videos so i can use it as a reminder whenever i am slacking or being hard on myself..thank you, love your energy.
“How the hell was I supposed to know it would be like this?” I felt that on a spiritual level.
I love this new segment! It almost feels like a brief motivational podcast to start the week off!
I am so grateful that this has become a series, it always pops up right when I need it to!
I wanna say this video was following me throughout youtube and I avoided it for like 2 days. I knew I needed to watch this and I'm glad I finally did. it was short, sweet, and needed. One thing I would love to add, you kind of touched on it with how people celebrate their wins. While the mission is never over don't overwork yourself and take care of your mental, and emotional health. Grinding 24/7 isn't healthy and everyone deserves to just take a breath and be present whenever you need it. Don't move faster than the universe because the universe is going to take its time with you.
I needed this... currently finding everything in the book to procrastinate, food, boys, social media. Let me get my ass up and go edit! Thank you for this Hails!❤️
Girl same here, I procrastinate a lot as I know in my mind I work well under pressure which is not good because when a lot of stuff comes up at once you will be stressed
I love u cuz i was feeling like this last week, i need to be more disciplinate and eliminate these feelings that don't help me, thanks ❣️
I simply don't want to live a life where I have to work so hard and then relax when I have time....I just don't understand how this new hustle culture is called "greatness"... Structured schedules, goal after goal after goal, always something more to do or chase....im tired.
"It's called discipline the quality of keep going firmly despite adverse circumstances"
I believe thats how discipline is described, and i disagree! Once we pretend to just keep going, keep fighting, keep trying, keep working on something while trying to ignore something that turns it harder (like going trough hard moments, bad mental health, stress, bad environment or even a global pandemic) it's same as ignoring that we're human beings and sometimes we just got to slow down and feel the feels.
I prefer to believe that yes, we need to be the best versions of ourselves, we need to try and try again, and "when you're tired, don't give up, get a rest". Don't ignore your feelings, only you know what and how it's to be you, the good and the bad part of it.
Love your videos Hailey!
This further confirmed the truth that sparked within myself. I meet be disciplined towards what I want in order for it to tap into its grow, nurture, and care. So that one day it will bloom from the seed it was planted.
The problem is ,,, it looks easy and feels easy mostly when people telling it to you but doing it becomes a lot hard.
It’s easy. Once you are self aware you’ll be able to get out of your own way. You got it 💪🏽🤎
I def felt sad and I saw this. I def feel lost and bored only because I keep self sabotaging from what I really need to be doing. My husband is gone this week and I am home with the 3 kids. Thanks for this sign!
OMG! Thank you so much for the video. I have been struggling with discipline for awhile. I procrastinate a lot, mainly because I feel as though what I need to get done will cause me pain... well more like discomfort; so I don’t even try. Then when the time comes to actually do the task that I have procrastinated on, I realize that I could have finished it sooner and it would have prevented all the unnecessary stress that I go through.
Hailey be in my head for real 😩...... I was like “Nooo....shut up girl I also had a mental breakdown this weekend” 😳😂
I don't know why, but I smile ! I feel precious to be here😂
I ve been feeling like this almost a month, I didn’t know what was happening to me or how call it but the title WOW I’m feeling like that lost, broke and bored, this is a siiign for sure
These past month I’ve allowed my anxiety to take over. I don’t know how to tame
It and it’s been affecting my work/creativity. And literally today I thought to myself “I’m literally getting broke, and I’m just stuck, how can I get this dark cloud away from me 😭”
Then I open up RUclips and your video pops out, the title definitely caught my attention. I’m so grateful to have watched us needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing
I feel personally attacked right now! 😂😅 We've got this ladies! It will get better! 💞
I just had a mental breakdown 40-50 minutes ago then this popped up. I just started a job that I hate and I’m just lost lmao 😂
There is no manual and everybody is so hard on themselves. Everything takes time. As long as we know that’s the goal we are doing better than we think.
Discipline is necessary, along with rest. Rest is needed, it’s all about having balance.
Did I want to hear this? Not really. Did I need to hear this? Yes ma’am. Thank you Hailey ❤️
Im a mother of 4 and i struggle so hard with self care how to start it and what to do because all i know is my kids since having my oldest at 15 . ur channel i feel is goin to help me get it together.
Omg u have 500k almost means half way to 1 mil omg yes! I remeber watching u when u started wow u have grow so much! Finallyy more and more people are finding u! U are the shitttr sis! Everything u post is amazing! I admire u so much! I love the way u think i love ur beauty ajd i love ur vocie and i love everything thank u for always helping us gurls out i looobbvveeeee u!❤️
I had the worst breakdown yesterday. I was so confused about my life, where I want to be, what I want. I feel so behind everyone around me and I feel that I can never do anything that everyone else. I'm sure some of you may also feel that way. That your friends have better grades, your colleagues have better paying jobs, the people around you are GENUINELY happy while you try so hard to strive just to get past a long day, I hope everyone can find peace and happiness in their hearts and minds. May today be the start of a long, fruitful, joyous journey.
Can you share ways to organize yourself as well how to stay Disciplined ?
I NEEDED THIS MAN❤️
I also feel like if we are okay with just being we’d be a lot happier too
I think that discipline is not about doing more, I think it is about doing the right thing. You can't just be extra for no reason. There has to be discipline to say no to things even if it sounds like it's a good thing. And sometimes you do need to go out with your friends so you are refreshed to go after whatever.
This is it!
This came at the RIGHT time!!😍✨✨
Is God trying to tell me something because I’ve been trying so hard for my RUclips channel but I’m not seeing results.It literally makes me cry because I get excited for a video ,edit it and it doesn’t do well.
But I keep assuring myself.And sometimes I feel like I’m not trying enough.
I don’t have anyone to rant to since not many people around me know much about RUclips so thanks for listening .
I finally started my channel a few months ago and I’m telling you it’s so worth it!! I feel what you mean though about getting excited for a video and having a breakdown afterwards because it didn’t come out as planned. It does get better though, promise:) just takes time. I’m subbing to you too and will keep an eye out for your videos, you got this🥰
@@QUEENCHAI 🥺🥺🥺🥺💕💕thanks so much
RUclips is one of thee hardest things EVER! Between the consistency, hard work YOU put in & overall time and effort to only get ‘X’ amount of views can sometimes hurt. But look at the glass as half full and not half empty. Hard work pays off...keep going girl, especially if you enjoy doing it!
@@DAYB. thank you babe 💕
DISCIPLINE IS SELF LOVE.
Thank you so much, I really needed this.
please make this into a podcast.... i love this
I love how full her hairline is on this ponytail
Video Suggestion: RUclips 101! Working with brands, emailing, management, etc. ✨ this is vital information for aspiring/current content creators.
You have no idea how much I needed this video today! I have been procrastinating all day! Tonight I am supposed to work out but I got into a random funk. I was going to allow myself to skip another workout and allow myself to excuse myself once again.
Every single thing you have said in this video changed me completely! The fact that it took 7 minutes is mind blowing! After I send out this comment, I'm going to do my workout now.
You are incredible and I absolutely thank you for this! Please do more of these❤❤❤
Thank you for that closing statement. That was literally everything I needed
Thanks for this!!! I feel so lost and empty right now and just bleh I need this thank you 💖💗
I loved this Hailey. Perfect advice to start your day. It was also short and sweet. To the point!!! Can't wait for more Morning Chats with Hailey!
Discipline is self-live regardless you feel hesitant or overwhelmed whether you want to reach sth you need discipline
Thank you for the sign to keep trying and working on my goals :)
YEHEHEEESS.
She's my big sister i never had, keep it up girl!! So much love!!
Being the best at something and not taking the time to take care of yourself and be in the moment doesnt mean that is the best for you in the long run. If you have a goal you have to make sure you make a plan and be focused enough to follow trough and flexible enough to know when to change strategies. But dont let what you do be who you are. Thats how a lot of acomplished people end up being burned out.
I totally feel this💓💓 if anyone is struggling with discipline something I’ve learned is strategy pages! Sending love to all my go-getters even if you’re down right now just know you can get up💓
hailey i'm 17 and struggling with sleep disorder and insomnia. tried almost everything. can you give me some helpful advice?
My aunt suffers from the same this. Take a hot shower, mix blax seed oil with raw honey in a hot cup of water, make a tea, drink this and wrap yourself ina blanket. Make sure your room is super quiet and dark. Hope this helps
@@taejhia thank u
What is so crazy, is that over the last year I have been implementing routines in my life. Last night, I got high with my roommate (YEET) and ended up eating all of my lemon loaf slices, ice cream, and cookies..... In that moment I finally realized that I lack discipline and it mind blowing---it was one of those yeah i know this but now i KNOW this moments! hahahaha. sooo back to what I was saying, it's just so crazy how this video landed on my page. and I really appreciate it. It's time to get to work because working in Customer Service ain't cutting it sis. ololololo
Stern but not discouraging thank you queen
I was listening to everything you were saying like EVERYTHING, but your voice is so soft when you speak that I just found it very calming, almost like an ASMR video ♥️😍😍 (NEW SUBSCRIBER) 🦋🎉
Lol same hereeee sis
@@TheSonita Yessssss sis lol!!
Thank You so much Hailey I noticed I lack discipline and I really dislike that because I’ve been so more further in my life.. today I started my social media detox and your video popped up on my RUclips and it was very motivational for me .I’m rooting for myself for the next few months . I have 2 main hard goals i would really love to accomplish within the next couple weeks and I’ll be most definitely focus now