10 THINGS THAT INSTANTLY MAKE YOUR APPEARANCE LOOK CHEAP|REASONS YOUR OUTFITS LOOK CHEAPlLUCY BENSON
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- 10 THINGS THAT INSTANTLY MAKE YOUR APPEARANCE LOOK CHEAP|REASONS YOUR OUTFITS LOOK CHEAPlLUCY BENSON
Hey Guys, Todays video is 10 things that instantly make your appearance look cheap, Reasons your outfits look tacky and cheap, I hope you enjoy the video💞
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I think wearing the wrong under garments is one of the most common mistakes people make. Having the CORRECT size bra, with the correct straps needed, in the right color will instantly help. Thong / seamless underwear, strapless bra, shapewear, and in nude or black are necessary in your wardrobe!
Yes and then to make it worse so many of us weren't taught how to find the right bra size or what underwear are appropriate with what. I was raised by a single father so I didn't find a proper fitting bra until I was 18, I couldnt do my own hair until I was 20(he always just paid for it lol), etc and once I did I immediately taught my younger sisters so that they knew how to keep themselves presentable and not look a mess. Its sad to know how many other girls dont know stuff like this either.
And when she say nude ladies nude is YOUR skin tone !!!
Yes...very correct...
I'm guilty of the bra straps
Do you know where you can get the right bra? I like fenty but you have to subscribe. Not really about that subscription life.
As a young woman wanting to transition into a more classy look this was super helpful and beneficial. Thank you!
Same now I know NOT to wear flip flops outside 🥺😂😂
Totally agree
Whatever.. ultimately no one cares about what you wear..
A lot of y’all in this comment section needs to chill. We love to judge ppl without having all the facts 🤷🏾♀️. We don’t know what ppl are going through or what hardships they have! But instead of uplifting those ppl we bully and judge them 🙄.
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Thank you. It's sad. Alot of these people are very mean and miserable.
Facts
Girl yes and they sound insecure AF I'm never worried about what other pp are wearing lol
This is the first video I’ve watched from you and it was right on time. As a 31 almost 32 yr old woman with no children, I do still love to dress quite sexy & youthful (a little skin here and there) but I’ve been more intentional about keeping it classy and tasteful. I find i love my more mature style much more than how i used to dress at 21! No shame to the younger girlies but the body con dresses don’t really give off the vibe i want to portray at this age. Especially now that my grown woman curves have come in😊. Also, the men i attract are completely different and i love it here! I’ve noticed when i keep it classy the dusties are intimidated to approach. They still drool, but from a distance lol. A vibe. Thanks for the vid girl!🤎✨
Thank you! Keeping it clean and classy is never outdated!
I’m 18 and I’ve being following you since I was 16 and you’ve changed so much about me.. Thank you Lucy❤️❤️
Yes girl. I’m 28 now. I wish I knew about these tips when I was 18. I’m glad you are learning and taking notes. Become that elegant woman woman. ❤️
Wearing a bonnet is equal to wearing pajamas. There are other things to cover your head instead of bonnets just like wearing actual outside clothes instead of pajamas.
I feel you girl. BBL fashion has taken over and it’s problem!
I think the flip flops ones being meant for indoor use depends on the country you come from. It's common around where I'm from for people to wear flip flops cause it gets hot and having your feet in covered shoes, or more heavier to wear shoes isn't ideal all the time.
Compared to the sandles from the places you measured those a great if you aren't gonna doing a lot of walking and the sadly reality is that due to the material they make them, its often too thin to support the weight of your foot and they sweat up your feet more often
I think the same, I've never seen flip flops labeled for in house use. I see what she means in terms of elevating your style with cute slides, but the concept of flip flops as slippers is new to me.
I agree. Flip flops in the U.S.A is made for outdoor wear. It's not slippers lol.
Right I’m from Florida we wear flip flops we have to!
Exactly what I came for.. I’m like what 😂😂 for only indoor use ?!?!? …but then again I live in California and flip flops are very normal everyday wear here.. but we don’t experience extreme weather..
Also in Nigeria it's to hot to always wear cover up shoes especially it's soooooo hot
Or when you go to the market you really don't want your cute shoes to get messed up because of the dirt
K.I.S.S. You're right; trendy doesn't mean classy. Less is more.
Obviously
The bonnet wearing outside is literally shameful, it’s house clothing. Reminds me of people who wear PJ’s outside 😂
It is!!!!
Yes and it looks ratchet
i've started my loc journey and the shrinkage and frizziness was crazy and i'm tryna give my time to get used to this. i've been out with a bonnet before because of these reasons. If you have an actual excuse to wear a bonnet in public, aside from just being lazy with your hair then I don't think its that bad. As long as you don't make it a habit. People have valid reasons for wearing it, most of the time but I understand it might not look the most presentable.
@@ariesgirl6745 I love how I’m seeing different ones are passively discussing the topic in the comments and understanding, and not getting to defensive!
@@ariesgirl6745 sweetheart get a hair scarf, and tie your hair in a way that looks stylish and presentable
Many thanks for your videos about stopping to overshare things. It helped me a lot but I had to cut off a lot of people because they used my vulnerability to hurt me more because I trusted them too much
100% agree with the bonnets. It looks crazy and the eyelashes.
I agree & love it❤️❤️. When my daughters try to wear a bonnet when we run errands. Absolutely not!!! My suggestion is to do a wrapped scarf or stay home.
My teenager wanted to go with me to Target. She wouldn't take her bonnet off so I told her she couldn't come with me in the store. I went in the store. She comes in and I see her. I acted like I didn't know her when she was following me around. Even got my lil ones to play the ignore her game. Next time I'm going to turn the car alarm on so she can't get out. I don't get it. She can't keep the scarf or bonnet on while she sleep but wants to wear it outside. Rant over lol.
@@dukesnbootz7505 I told my daughter that people who wear bonnets outside are on drugs...... I took her to the airport in Atlanta and she started tearing up saying why was so many people on drugs..... Smh... She is 14 and is terrified to wear a bonnet in public. Just tell her that and see if she changes her mind! It works
Flip flops from brands like Ipanema are quite modern alternatives from traditional, flimsy flip flops. It can be observed more prominently in tropical areas or islands. The flip flops/sandals worn aren’t particularly horrible. They’re very fashionable and quite steep in price because they are durable and fashionable.
The bonnets…BUMMY, lazy and embarrassing! I just saw this at the gas station🤦🏽♀️
You're spot on! I've seen supervisors in the work place wear flip flops to work. How could I respect someone that didn't even have the proper judgment to wear the right shoes to work. What you wear is soooo important to how you're perceived.
That's what's wrong with people like you, you think you have a right to disrespect someone because they don't meet your "standards"
Nope you respect is not coming from how pipo dress
@@joannalittleford9937 your right . Everyone deserves respect irrespective of how they dress
I've been trying to change my style "not appearance" on the more classy level I have been doing it...and man the complements I get from people.......I hate loud ass makeup I like a subtle look with a bold lip or even something that goes well with my complexion ....at first I got offended by the title lol but after listening...she has a point!! My grandma taught me never leave the house looking broke ! Busted or disgusted lol
I'm busting up 🤣🤣 I agree and I love this tea time☕ thank you for these videos because the girls that get it get it.
🩴🩴- Outside, beach , poolside , summer in warm coastal climates etc
Slippers- In- doors, with comfy lounging clothes
I think florals are the hardest thing to pull off, but like you say some do it well.
As women our bodies change so much over a life time, and at each stage I feel once you find the pieces that work for you and make you step out there feeling awesome then go for it !
The slip on dress you said every woman should have for example, I would never wear because I know it doesn’t work well for my body shape to each their own I guess.
Body shape also can determine what style one can pull off or not. An example is Rihanna and some of her controversial outfits.
Very true. Knowing how to fit and dress your shape, size and height are key factors to not looking cheap. I'll go out on a limb and add age too. The saying "there are no age restrictions on the way you dress" is a lie.
@@daffodil4500 Age is a factor. There is nothing appealing when a 45 year old is dressed like a teen but the trick is the designs of the clothing shouldn't be a trend going for the very young. One can steal a little but create a more mature look. Also, a slimmer, older woman can get away with a bit more so the body shape takes lead in deciding what really works.
@@reitaebohon7853 I concur
I love this! Can you put together a feminine wardrobe video? Examples of staple pieces, different fabrics, outfit ideas!
Yes please!!
Yes pleaseeeeee♥️♥️🙏
I would love this too
Please!!!!!
Omg yes
Darling,
You need to stop being worried about people coming for you.
Criticize flip flops or whatever you have to. It’s your page and people will adjust to your ways or they bounce.
You are right in all you’ve said
As a black woman I totally agree with most of these. I would include these cheap lace front wigs with the make up showing trying to blend 2 skintone and peacock eye lashes. A hot mess.
I SAW SOME EYE LASHES..SIZE OF A PAINT BRUSH...AND THAT BONNET.
Caterpillar eyelashes, cheap lace front wigs.
YES, I love makeup and lashes but theres a difference between a cute, natural look and looking a mess. So many just go 'but i like it' and thats fine but sometimes its not cute at all.
Facts some people walk around looking like clowns lol they got the screen-door obviously fake wig on,thick fake doll baby sico lashes & makeup as cake up and deep as their shallow personalities lol I’m a female & I agree with most guys when they say half the females now walk around in costumes lol trick or treat….
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This video really helped me out. I don't think people are judging just making us all aware on what looks cheap or bad. You can dress different and cheap for less.
We need to hold ourselves in high regard like we used to. This is done by the way we speak, act, and dress. Bonnets can easily be replaced with head scarfs tied beautifully. Those that are depressed can use a head scarf to add a little confidence and inch them out of depression instead of wallowing in it. I really care about how my people look as a whole and the way we dress, and carry ourselves now reflect low self-esteem. Today we lower our value and call ourselves b*tches compared to how we called ourselves princesses and royalty then. We cared about the way we represented ourselves and each other. Nobody had that ''why are you worried about me being nosey'' type of mindset because we knew it did us good as a whole. Why get defensive when someone is trying to get you represent your own in a presentable way? Today people are ''me me me'' most of time, why not look beautiful for yourself and us? We used to dress how we valued ourselves in the 1900s on back. During the times we felt inferior, at the same time we always knew we were more than what others made us, and deserved more than what was given. So, we dressed like it. Today we still feel inferior however, the knowledge of our worth is dwindling and it shows. Also, it's fulfilling to be able to look around and be proud of us because we look presentable. We'd feel confident seeing other good looking people who look like us. Not saying you have to go all out all the time, but put in some effort.
Very well stated!!
Well said
I approve of this however financial situations and occupations can also have a lot to do with how I dress. I work in a warehouse and only time I really have is to sleep and work. Maybe on the weekends I'll try to dress up but on a normal day to day it's either sleep clothes or work clothes
@@ayshagrasty1365 Thats understandable for all of as far as finances. Nobody should judge anybody for coming out with work clothes because we all have to work to survive somehow. As I stated before, as long as it looks as if it's some effort put in. As far as sleep clothes, we all have other clothes besides those to wear out.
So head scarves cure depression? Lol
I agree with all your tips ❤️💯💯💯✅✅✅. I’ve been thought these things by my mum since I was a child. For the pattern Zara two pieces. I feel like they’re paired better with plain colored outfits
I love your tips and most are spot on with my views. They are really helpful for those who really need it and there are a lot of people who just don’t know ‘how’ to get dressed effortlessly and effectively.
As a creative myself and a trendsetter as I design, I don’t follow ‘trends’ as not everything is for me. I think a starting point should always be YOU! Fashion and dressing, hair etc is all self expression. Don’t be afraid to try new things that YOU like and you don’t need approval or if someone doesn’t like it, tough. Especially in Africa there is a lot of judgement about what the next person is doing/wearing and even giving unasked for opinions but if you are looking for help, I love how this lady gives advice. Take it but always add a little something of your own that makes it unique to you.😊🙏
Lucy you are an amazing person❤️❤️been watching your videos back to back and i have learnt a lot. Thank You 🙏🏽 and keep up with the good work.
I saw a man who was wearing a plain white shirt and jeans with trainers.We got into a conversation only to get to know he's a thriving businessman.I personally don't judge by appearance.Has anyone here seen undercover boss.It could be aswell pple who look expensive or tries to look expensive can actually be broke.
He still looked clean and put together even though his clothes were plain. That's very different from what this video covers.
Can't say the same for her "put together" her wig looks CHEAP
@@niseamulls7880 you're taking this too personally...
@@niseamulls7880 how do you know its it's a wig??
I think it’s ver different from what she is saying.
I love you so much Lucyyy! Your videos are always so inspiring and educative 🤗❤❤
Absolutely nothing wrong with flip flops, it depends on how casual you want to look
Yeah but that’s exactly what this video is not about. It’s about acquiring a classy look.
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I despise flip flops. They’re bad for your feet and if you’re trying to look classy you just styled by Dollar General
Most people wear what they can afford doesn’t mean they don’t know what to where and where to where it
Sometimes it’s okay to let people move around comfortably without being afraid
Of what the next person will say about their outfit
I just came across your post sis and I'm obsessed with this topic.. thanks! You've got a new subscriber❣️❣️
First 2 minutes into this video and I absolutely love it because these are exactly my thoughts on stuffs like this. Thank you for voicing these out!
I agree with everything In this video, class is EVERYTHING.
I just love hearing different opinions and perspectives.... & I love your look in this video 💯💕
Your tips are seriously so helpful. These things don’t come naturally to me, I needed this!
I agreed with mostly all your points except for the flip-flops. I do not wear flip flops in my , however I know a lot of African people do. I find them to be cute and comfortable in the summertime to wear while running errands, or at a pool party, or just to hang out. I would not wear them at night time to a club or to an event. But I have all kind of flip-flops and all kind of colors and all kind of textures.
I understand your opinion I think it’s slightly a cultural thing with the flops because in the US flops are considered a respectable show “for the most part!” In other cultures flops are more only for showers and beach otherwise it’s considered like uncouth
I don't know about that. Flip-flops are only acceptable in summer, casual settings. I work in IT and no one comes to work in flip-flops. Prior military, so i've been a lot of places. Flops are everywhere. Haiti, Caribbean, etc. etc. Besides, I've been to Nigeria, and everyone and their grandma wore sandals and flip flops.
😂 I love this because I’ve had a lot of these thoughts and when I tell my sisters they be like your rude. Although it may seem rude it’s true. I respect your Honesty. Truth hurts sometimes 🤷🏾♀️
Same! I love it and her honesty
“It just looks like you’re confused” I died 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fell in love with your personality..makes perfect sense thank you for sharing ♥️🙌
Great teachings, honestly some ladies really have to listen to this. Kudos 🥳👍🏾
Not when it’s linen. As much as you want to steam linen before you go out, it will always come back wrinkled, it’s linen. You sit and it wrinkles, you’re not going to take your steamer to a restaurant either.
Funny enough, I love the wrinkles in lien. A good linen should wrinkle.
@@zinnubian4010 exactly
I don’t how or why this showed up in my feed....this is an interesting topic... I guess if someone is searching and interested in receiving advice on what “some” feel what can make you not look cheap this is informative....
But a lot of how we dress and present ourselves I feel lies within our individuality and in some instances showcases our style and love for fashion
I used to look at the bonnet craze and think I woulllldddd NEVER but again we now live in a world where self expression is so amazing
We also can factor a lot of items and attire being worn is based off of culture and making things which are seemingly inappropriate unattractive or even cheap taken and made to be cute current stylish trendy
The topic of what looks cheap is very subjective
Now before Im deemed a troll lol I truly understand the intention of this video and it appears to be created to help and not harm
I just think ppl should wear their individuality at any cost be who you are love yourself and shine that is going to attract what is necessary to have a beautiful wonderful journey
Couldn't be said any better!
Literally every word you said! Yes! Individuality is important. If everyone looked how someone is suggesting they look, we’d all look like plain janes. That’s not how someone might want to express themselves or feel comfortable. Very subjective as you said!!
I am LOVING THIS CHANNEL
Idk why I just now decided at 28 to make sure I look put together & Chic but hey I’m glad I decided ❤
I’m 19 and you’ve helped me so much. Thank you😩❤️
I sooooooo agree with you omg this is not for everybody but as they say " the girls that get it get it, the girls that don't don't" lol
Lol right iykyk..💁🏾♀️
Thank you sis ! Totally agree . The bonnet in public got go!! Makes us look crazy !! I can’t!!! Just like shower cap in the 80’s was frown upon ! Certain things are meant for home ... leave it at home . House shoes, bonnets, slippers, pj , there is a purpose for everything. And this not just for people of color , it’s everyone . I seen other people do it too... over it !! It make you looks 👀 crazy , lazy and like you don’t care to much about yourself... even if you do that’s the look your giving . Facts!!!
So I came across your channel and while I know there are things that make people look cheap, you mentioned flip-flops. I think this depends on the country that you are from and probably the occasion. What about you are from the Caribbean and going to the beach, what shoes would you wear?
I’m so confused at the “funky color patterns and colors” meanwhile her shirt is the same….😩
She was referring to colour &/or pattern clashing. With regards to her blouse, I assume she'd be wearing matching or plain bottoms
If you understood what she was saying you wouldn’t be confused. She didn’t say you shouldn’t wear those patterns she said wear them with caution in respect to how you match it.
Thank you for this content. I totally agree with you and I have shared this with my daughter who thinks I am an old school mother. Hearing this from a young, beautiful, classy and educated woman makes me feel so happy. Thanks Lol❤🎉😅
I can't get enough of this video 😍 I'm jus learning a lot from u..thank u 4 this video
Omg I agree with everything you said girl honestly I don't know why a woman will have a problem with this 😍😍😍 thanks
100%
Bonnets can be beautiful, I don’t wear them out often but black women are classy no matter how we adorn our crowns
Glad you were with my
recommendations. I
got a kick out of your
personality . The only
thing I would challenge,
is the flops .
I think everyone should wear what she or he wants. Life isn't this complicated. And we can't all be the same. What we wear don't change our bank accounts.
I love this ♥️🙏🏽
But, sometimes it opens doors to opportunities. Ppl will judge you off your appearance. Is it right? No but it's a norm
I love when you mentioned Ironing of Clothes. I clicked the subscribe button immediately. I wonder how people managed to go out without Ironing their clothes.
Love the video and thank you for the tips❤️
Excellent points! It's not easy styling neon outfits
I agree with everything but them flip flops...Sorry yall ..I wear them mostly around the house but..I live in the desert..and I wear them alot when running quick errands in the summer.. alot of folks in my area do..I have nicer ones and not just the rubber ones ..but I'm never just not gonna wear them ..lol..great video though.
Another thoroughly true and enjoyable video! Thank you and God bless! ❤
Bonnets, Pajamas and flip flops outside are an EPIC fail. Flip flops are made for the pool. Get.a cute pair of sandals and go. Peacock eyelashes should be added to this list.
Ik people are going to come for me but why are we wearing skims lounge wear outside as outfits 😩
Whaatttt you better say it💥
I love you❤️Your tips always helps me to improve myself ❤️❤️
Me too girl
It's my first time on your channel, but I love it already! Already subscribed.
My first time seeing your piece N I'm loving you already!
I agree
Especially with the steaming/ironing of clothes
I see ladies now wearing their bonnets in the bus. like come on nowwww. Im in Toronto btw
Lol 😂
True 💯 bonnets are for bedroom
Some of the girls are going to be mad, but everything you said was accurate😌
Very Accurate ‼️❤️
Facts!!
Yeap
I am 100% in support of not wearing wrinkly clothes, it's a no-no for me 😩
I have never watched a video of yours before.
This randomly showed up in my feed.
I appreciated it.
Seems like good, solid advice
I was pleasantly surprised to note that most of the tips you gave are things that I already, inherently, intuitively knew.
I noticed that most of those things are things I notice on other people & flinch.
However, I am now flinching, at myself, looking at the flip-flops I wore to the Dentist's Office. 😉
Oh sis, I feel you. ❤️
Just came across your channel, and I like you already. Thank you for the tips
if I wouldve seen this video a year ago i wouldve been so offended 😂😂 but getting more mature i definitely agree with most of these now. my style has changed so much in just a year
I love this. Great tips
Thanks Lucy
"It remains in the bedroom" I feel like this should be on a t-shirt lol 💯
I love this🥰much love
Wearing the strap that holds your wig down around the edges is a no for me as well.
Girl😂
Facts! 😂
Love your videos so much!!
I love the hair, not sure if it's a wig but it looks amazing!
Thank you for the fashion tips🌹
Love it. Dear you are on point
My type of girl. I agreed 101%
I can't believe people take this personal 🙄
Kkk of course we do 😂
I am new here... I love your Explanations on looking Presentable... Others will differ because "to each his/her own"... As for me I love "Classical Appearance"
I am in love with these tips
Could u pls do a video on how to pair oversized clothing
Would really appreciate
The word "cheap" was overly used here. I think getting the right terms to better describe a certain "fall out" in your opinion would help.
@@michellegomez5429 #FACTS
Can I just say Yara Shahidi as Zoey Johnson is a Queen at pulling off weird funky patterns and color combinations.
I admire her outfits a lot, but I can't try it😂
So trueeee!
Thanks a lot for this sis. It was very helpful 💓💓
I honestly hate clothes with logos /labels on them .I can't honestly .
Same applicable to me
Ima wear my bonnet on the plane cuz ima sleep comfortably
You actually right
So accurate 😌
Wear what you want to wear. What other ppl wear doesn’t bother me at all 🤷🏽♀️ Why would I spend my time & mental space worrying about what ppl wear?
Thanks for this ☺️ i love it ❤️🥰❤️
I ❤ my flip flops out side i love my puffy slides I get compliments about them all the time on time..
People are vain asf, most people do NOT care what you look like outside. They're living their life, most people, only people who are critical of others as if their opinion matters care. Some of these are correct if you care about dignity but the rest is silly.
I totally agree with all you said
I think the debate comes when you have a mom that my have a lot on her plate and is tired but still needs to get things done for her family and is a hurry. So, she ran to the store as is but that’s not who she is as a person as a whole. People are always going to have a moment were they really don’t care some much about their appearance for the sake of someone else’s viewing purposes to be “judged”, and not knowing what that individual is going through at that particular moment in “THEIR” life. Although this is a video that is based off your opinion on another woman’s lifestyle.
right. like what if my hair no done and its in plaits. and My baby got sick i gotta run to the store and get some medicine. I guess im tacky for that😂😂
Can you tell us the details for the top you're wearing please ? 😍❤️
the first tip is soo true!!!