my drama: so a boy in my class group wrote a whole paragraph saying how I was a crybaby, underweight, and ugly just because I called him a “loser” as a joke (my class always say these things to each other and never get offended), so I was caught off guard and was hurt
i was literally listening to the drama mama podcast earlier while doing something and i come back to the channel and see i have another video to procrastinate to this is so great
Hey Ben, I have some juicy juicy drama to share. So. My friend is going through a lot right now and she’s started hanging out with a person we both hate because she’s an empath and feels bad for her even though she knows that I physically and emotionally cannot stand being near her. I love my best friend but I can’t hang out with her anymore because of this.
why does that affect YOU tho? people are allowed to have different friends and u may not like them, ur friend also probably doesn't like one of ur friends and she may not tell u. cant people be allowed to have friends different from u? also i dont mean to offend u its rlly js what i think.
I've been the person that people hate before. I know she really just wants to change them but if people are having a negative impact on your mental health or your friend's mental health, LEAVE. it'll hurt the person so much more if they learn you were talking bad about them than if you guys cut it off. Drama is never worth it - sincerely, a girl who went through a hell of a time with a girl who hated and talked bad about everyone ❤️❤️❤️ you got this though ❤️
@@gloomy_gal I know, I really just wanna help her since she’s my best friend but I genuinely cannot be near the person we hate without feeling the urge to hurt someone or myself, I’ve thankfully had enough of self control not to do so
@@I_lov3_Xiao aw I feel so bad for you 😢 those were some of my hardest years that I spent around this person. I hope you grow stronger through it though ❤️❤️❤️
hey ben! i really emjoyed this podcast ep as usuallllll the backround was really fun i really really enjoy ur content and i think your like super cool i hope you have a wonderful day i wish you luck on your drivers test if you end up going for it.. anyways thanks ^^
basically ppl in canada couldnt go to india because the canada pm blamed something on india and ben didnt get his like visa slip to go to india, although all his other family did@@lfks-lv2us
Hey ben heres my drama. This kid was a really close friend to me and then she started acting like a litteral hell spawn to me, it got so annoying. She gaslights SM! i was texting her once and she was yeah ill only ever tell u stuff when we hang (she lives 40 minutes away and im a busy person) i was like not likely im busy thennnnn i was like gtg my gramma that lives 7 hours away is here she was like mhm i know you lying. I was like no my gramma is here i havent seen her much since my grandpa passed and she was like....oh when my GREAT grandpa passed i visited my GG every day thats ur problem....and i was hella pissed at that then...i unadded her on snapchat and texted her "what u said was not okay" and she was like"wtf did i say" i havent talked to her in like a week. (i dislike her but her lil sister is an angel and shes sooo mean to her little sis) what do i do? oh yeah and ive known her since preschool. please help ben ILYSM ur such a cutie ur my world (ur my wallpaper lol) -anya
Hello, Ben. The drama that I have is something that's been going on for weeks. My older sister is constantly belittling me. When I say something jokingly, she gets angry and yells at me. She makes me feel invalid for feeling things, too. Then, I wonder if I'm the one to blame. What are your thoughts?
I had the exact same problem as a kid. I can tell you this: you do not deserve to be belittled or yelled at by anyone, especially your sister. She may be trying to cope with her own insecurities by putting you down, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I think you should not question if you’re to blame, but rather find a way to set boundaries and let her know that you will not accept that kind of treatment.
so..not rlly drama but i need advice, i've had an issue with codependency my whole life, but now i'm getting attached to people who have REALLY hurt me. what do i do?
HEYY Ben my drama is, so I’ve had anxiety my whole life not gonna get deep into it but it’s getting worse idk what to do I can’t speaking to anyone really, Idk what to do. Any tips?
my drama: so basically I was best friends with this girl (She was really senstive) and she had this friend who was rlly mean especially to me and my "best friend" would roll her eyes at me and such so i cut her off and she comes to me i tell her how i feel and she says she will do her best to do better and so all was good until...... she was asking about her birthday get together and i was like "well i dont wanna go bc so and so is going to be there and she hasnt apolgized for being mean but ill go bc ur my best friend" (obviously i told her to keep it a secret) the she goes off tells the girl and when i confront her she lies to me even though i heard them talking about it and she tries to apologize after i tell her that i know she is lying and i told her no u said sorry two days ago ur not rlly sorry and she went and cried and told her mom ( a teacher at our school) who then sent passive agressive texts to my mom and the girl and her friend are still mean to me to this day and its been like 6 months
hey ben here's my drama: Basically as u probably know, it was Friday 13th like two weeks ago and like a lot of shit went down for me. I didn't realise throughout the skl day, even tho we had a fire drill because the skl kitchen toaster literally went on fire. Then on my way home with a friend, these two random guys just started fighting next to me and ✨pushed me ✨ which was great. And then when I went to my after skl spanish lesson, I was waiting for the bus and I literally witnessed a car crash happen like 5 feet away from me. I used to not believe in Friday 13th but now im genuinely scared what will happen next time 💀
Drama! Maybe! Anyways. Hey Ben, I’ve been struggling lately in school w my friends - I don’t believe they like me to well, like, I’ll try inviting them somewhere and they’ll say “I have plans” and then make plans with other friends of mine. I don’t know what to do, because my highschool career is almost over, and I don’t want to lose these people, but at the same time I know how they’re treating me is wrong. Any advice?
DRAMA: I was with my cousins and I left something at their house AND MY AUNT TOLD MY COUSIN TO GIVE IT TO SOMEONE (my cousin is the favorite everything goes to him) And i have to see her tommorow
My drama: I have this friend who my parents are friends with her parents. They’re super close, but this friend is always interrupting and making me feel terrible about myself, but I don’t want to ruin my parent’s and hers friendship by telling her to stop bothering me, I don’t know what to do. (btw I love your podcasts!)
OMG so there's this guy who won't stop following me and my friends around school. He says he just wants to be our friend, but he starts swearing at us and threatening to punch us when we ask him to go away. We've told the teachers, (they're actually trying to help for once), and they told him to fuck off, but HE DOESN'T CARE
Drama of the week: three years ago I had this friend and we’d stay friends until a year later when I started to get really into anime and I guess he had a problem with that because he started to hate me and we haven’t talked since, I only know him from my choir nowadays
i feel the need to say, my brother actually outran the cops in a high speed chase. he was underage in a residential facility, and him and some other guys there stole a set of keys and a car, and ran away. then the cops chased them for a while, they had a helicopter following. they drove the wrong way down a one way road, and the cops decided not to do that and go around to try and catch them. they ended up ditching the car one that one way road, and got away on foot
My drama mamaa (I wont make it too long) I moved recently, like two weeks ago and I'm getting more comfortable/confident at school but I realized my personality is kind of "pick me" and I don't wanna be that gurl so like I'm just gunna act different and not talk as much and not be excited/hyper and it's kind of sad but what should I do bcuz I dont want to be a pick me but I don't want to fake my personality so advice ? :(
Here’s my drama this guy I dated like a couple of weeks ago is now I think dating one of my friends and I don’t know how to feel about it should I be happy for him? (Luv ur vid 🫶)
my drama, I graduated high school 2 yr ago and I've kept 3 friends but 2 of them live far and the one that lives close doesn't put any effort into our friendship anymore so now I feel like I have 0 friends. Help
so basically, I'm in a group of 4 friends and one of my friends has been really rude lately, I even caught her calling me names behind my back, and whenever I ask her about it she says it just a joke. she's pretty much my best friend, and all the other people in my group like her, what do I do???
The phone number, stuff and all the other things after that is just how it is here you need one thing to get the next, but you need that thing to get the thing you were trying to get before it’s just one big circle and it’s messed up because if you don’t have any of those things you’re screwed
Drama: My bsf last year ignored me all summer, and now pretends not to see me in the halls at school, or ignores me when I wave to her. I sent her a text about it, and she still ignored me. Turns out, next quarter, we have a class together, and idk what to do about it.
My drama: okay so i was in class today and peacefully working then some boy was whispering to his friends abt me like “eewwww, look at her legs” and “ughhh. Toothpick legs ew!” So i /harshly/ told him to stop looking at my legs and stop but he kept talking crap about my legs. So i told the teacher and she like filed a notice. Anyway nothing happened to him. Also I just gotta say I love ur vids sm ur my comfort RUclipsr lol
I love watching Ben's sanity get slowly more crazy
its so funny just him screaming 🤣🤣🤣
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he has sanity?
Real
I love how the craziest stories always happen to Ben and he tells us about them like we're his besties I'm so here for it
Same fr
With AI, I can finally live my delulu romantic situationship with celebrities 💀 (Also the background looks very aesthetic, i like it)
frfr aesthetic 😣👽
ben is the only thing that keeps me sane
sames
REAL.
It’s the opposite for me 😂
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you’re so real
Social media is becoming goofy now💀
hes?
ben may not be pregnant, but he always delivers!
he is pregnant tho wdym
naurrr i made that last time 😭😭🥺🥺
@@dannydevito5558 WHAT
I’m so tired of these copy and paste comments bruh
@@tocastars161 who cares it's still funny and it's not malicious not everyone is original sorry
tbh i kind of love ben’s thumbnails bc they’re so funny and chaotic
Ben loosing his sanity is making me more sane
he makes me happy
I love Wednesdays ❤
Same
Same ❤
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ben looks like his name is pablo
💀💀💀
FOR REAL
the sweater is so cute wth
“Driving is hard.” Preach🙌🏽 I’m glad my adult ass isn’t the only one that feels this way🫠
your so right abt programming AI to do actual useful things. who in the world wants a clone of charli damelio😭..
my drama: so a boy in my class group wrote a whole paragraph saying how I was a crybaby, underweight, and ugly just because I called him a “loser” as a joke (my class always say these things to each other and never get offended), so I was caught off guard and was hurt
Lmao what
LMFAO WTH💀💀💀
He’s the one who’s a crybaby 😂😂😂
@@Emmalina2000 😭💕
@@Leeaslife Right
i love this podcast so much it is my favorite thing to listen to and k have listened to every episode thank you ben for this
i was literally listening to the drama mama podcast earlier while doing something and i come back to the channel and see i have another video to procrastinate to this is so great
Ben wowowowow this episode was so intertain! I loved the way you just let you thoughts out. Also i Love the new background!
Hey Ben, I have some juicy juicy drama to share. So. My friend is going through a lot right now and she’s started hanging out with a person we both hate because she’s an empath and feels bad for her even though she knows that I physically and emotionally cannot stand being near her. I love my best friend but I can’t hang out with her anymore because of this.
why does that affect YOU tho? people are allowed to have different friends and u may not like them, ur friend also probably doesn't like one of ur friends and she may not tell u. cant people be allowed to have friends different from u? also i dont mean to offend u its rlly js what i think.
@@giuli.aa_a but the thing is that we both hate her and she just hangs out with her because she feels bad for her (she’s told me that)
I've been the person that people hate before. I know she really just wants to change them but if people are having a negative impact on your mental health or your friend's mental health, LEAVE. it'll hurt the person so much more if they learn you were talking bad about them than if you guys cut it off. Drama is never worth it - sincerely, a girl who went through a hell of a time with a girl who hated and talked bad about everyone ❤️❤️❤️ you got this though ❤️
@@gloomy_gal I know, I really just wanna help her since she’s my best friend but I genuinely cannot be near the person we hate without feeling the urge to hurt someone or myself, I’ve thankfully had enough of self control not to do so
@@I_lov3_Xiao aw I feel so bad for you 😢 those were some of my hardest years that I spent around this person. I hope you grow stronger through it though ❤️❤️❤️
the way the name of blive gights at teddies changed everytime he said it
hi ben your literally my favorite youtuber and person on social media. you literally keep me going! I love you so much!
This podcast gets me throught the day beeenn thank you so much😭😭
ANOTHER HARRY OMFG
@@edachella5926 YESSSS HEHEHE
You are so funny i cant anymore💀 also i love the backround, the car chase was really good for my dumbass brain
I love seeing these posts
The fact that I learn everything from Ben is insane
hey ben! i really emjoyed this podcast ep as usuallllll the backround was really fun i really really enjoy ur content and i think your like super cool i hope you have a wonderful day i wish you luck on your drivers test if you end up going for it.. anyways thanks ^^
are you a real person or a bot
@@peepeeLETMEHAVETHENAME IM REALL.. 😥😥😥😥
I love this podcast 💕
Who remembers when ben got banned from India 😂
??????context?????
basically ppl in canada couldnt go to india because the canada pm blamed something on india and ben didnt get his like visa slip to go to india, although all his other family did@@lfks-lv2us
@@lfks-lv2usits in one of his recent videos i think on drama mama
That’s so recent, who doesn’t?
That was 4 weeks ago
The fact that not even 20 seconds into the video he’s already into the video😭😭
15:00 is me telling my therapist my most recent intrusive thoughts
Watching you talk is my favorite activity.
Love the cool setup:>
Hey ben heres my drama. This kid was a really close friend to me and then she started acting like a litteral hell spawn to me, it got so annoying. She gaslights SM! i was texting her once and she was yeah ill only ever tell u stuff when we hang (she lives 40 minutes away and im a busy person) i was like not likely im busy thennnnn i was like gtg my gramma that lives 7 hours away is here she was like mhm i know you lying. I was like no my gramma is here i havent seen her much since my grandpa passed and she was like....oh when my GREAT grandpa passed i visited my GG every day thats ur problem....and i was hella pissed at that then...i unadded her on snapchat and texted her "what u said was not okay" and she was like"wtf did i say" i havent talked to her in like a week. (i dislike her but her lil sister is an angel and shes sooo mean to her little sis) what do i do? oh yeah and ive known her since preschool. please help ben ILYSM ur such a cutie ur my world (ur my wallpaper lol) -anya
Ben is the only one keeping me sane in my life 💀💀💀
great video man!
Love going slowly crazy with you Ben it’s an experience
Hello, Ben. The drama that I have is something that's been going on for weeks. My older sister is constantly belittling me. When I say something jokingly, she gets angry and yells at me. She makes me feel invalid for feeling things, too. Then, I wonder if I'm the one to blame. What are your thoughts?
same its really sad
I had the exact same problem as a kid. I can tell you this: you do not deserve to be belittled or yelled at by anyone, especially your sister. She may be trying to cope with her own insecurities by putting you down, but that’s not an excuse for her behavior. I think you should not question if you’re to blame, but rather find a way to set boundaries and let her know that you will not accept that kind of treatment.
also the drama mama nation is indeed rising and i'm here for it
Drama mama feels like a little secret club I love it
I love watching Ben slowly go insane
so..not rlly drama but i need advice, i've had an issue with codependency my whole life, but now i'm getting attached to people who have REALLY hurt me. what do i do?
HEYY Ben my drama is, so I’ve had anxiety my whole life not gonna get deep into it but it’s getting worse idk what to do I can’t speaking to anyone really, Idk what to do. Any tips?
Ben is the reason I keep going
Ben getting more insane by the day for our sanity LOVE YOU BEN AND PLEASE COME TO CAPE TOWN
Ben slowly just becomes crazier every episode
ben is amazing
listening to u going insane while making a cart on amazon is my therapy
OMG YIPPE BEN POSTED
my drama: so basically I was best friends with this girl (She was really senstive) and she had this friend who was rlly mean especially to me and my "best friend" would roll her eyes at me and such so i cut her off and she comes to me i tell her how i feel and she says she will do her best to do better and so all was good until...... she was asking about her birthday get together and i was like "well i dont wanna go bc so and so is going to be there and she hasnt apolgized for being mean but ill go bc ur my best friend" (obviously i told her to keep it a secret) the she goes off tells the girl and when i confront her she lies to me even though i heard them talking about it and she tries to apologize after i tell her that i know she is lying and i told her no u said sorry two days ago ur not rlly sorry and she went and cried and told her mom ( a teacher at our school) who then sent passive agressive texts to my mom and the girl and her friend are still mean to me to this day and its been like 6 months
I love this background thou
hey ben here's my drama: Basically as u probably know, it was Friday 13th like two weeks ago and like a lot of shit went down for me. I didn't realise throughout the skl day, even tho we had a fire drill because the skl kitchen toaster literally went on fire. Then on my way home with a friend, these two random guys just started fighting next to me and ✨pushed me ✨ which was great. And then when I went to my after skl spanish lesson, I was waiting for the bus and I literally witnessed a car crash happen like 5 feet away from me. I used to not believe in Friday 13th but now im genuinely scared what will happen next time 💀
Drama! Maybe! Anyways. Hey Ben, I’ve been struggling lately in school w my friends - I don’t believe they like me to well, like, I’ll try inviting them somewhere and they’ll say “I have plans” and then make plans with other friends of mine. I don’t know what to do, because my highschool career is almost over, and I don’t want to lose these people, but at the same time I know how they’re treating me is wrong. Any advice?
I like the background but the lighting needs to change pleaseee
scary point
Y did I think the chair was SOOO much farther away than it actually was (13:50)
Omg FRL same I thought it was wayyyyy by the door but it was so close
Bro, I had the longest day ever and this was such a refresher to my day 😭
the fact that this is literally the only thing getting me through my work weeks - i need a lobotomy
DRAMA: I was with my cousins and I left something at their house AND MY AUNT TOLD MY COUSIN TO GIVE IT TO SOMEONE (my cousin is the favorite everything goes to him) And i have to see her tommorow
good luck fam
@@aquadistant thank you!
yes ben pls keep doing ur pod episodes in ur room also lysm🫶🏻
not having empathy doesnt make someone an evil murderer or something it just means you cant feel someone elses emotions as if they were your own..
ben seems like the guy to accidentally kill his friend
Yesss I love this background
17:43 i listen to is bc its too quiet in my hiuse when i go to sleep lmao
My drama: I have this friend who my parents are friends with her parents. They’re super close, but this friend is always interrupting and making me feel terrible about myself, but I don’t want to ruin my parent’s and hers friendship by telling her to stop bothering me, I don’t know what to do. (btw I love your podcasts!)
Chat gpt tried gaslighting me that 3+4 is 8. I was playing with it for fun, it was genuinely tryna make me believe it.😂😭
OMG so there's this guy who won't stop following me and my friends around school. He says he just wants to be our friend, but he starts swearing at us and threatening to punch us when we ask him to go away. We've told the teachers, (they're actually trying to help for once), and they told him to fuck off, but HE DOESN'T CARE
Drama of the week: three years ago I had this friend and we’d stay friends until a year later when I started to get really into anime and I guess he had a problem with that because he started to hate me and we haven’t talked since, I only know him from my choir nowadays
love how he talked about the actual topic for 2 minutes
i feel the need to say, my brother actually outran the cops in a high speed chase. he was underage in a residential facility, and him and some other guys there stole a set of keys and a car, and ran away. then the cops chased them for a while, they had a helicopter following. they drove the wrong way down a one way road, and the cops decided not to do that and go around to try and catch them. they ended up ditching the car one that one way road, and got away on foot
OMG THAT POLICE CHASE WAS SO ENTERTAINING I WAS WATCHINGIT ON A TIKTK LIVE
the youtube play button is freaking me out lmao 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Wait nobodys watched this all the way through yet its been 21 minutes
23:33 that Canadian accent go crazy 😫
i was gunna say this LOL
@@kennyfrequency”I’m sOURY” 😭😭
@@viaeua 😭😭😭😭
My drama mamaa (I wont make it too long) I moved recently, like two weeks ago and I'm getting more comfortable/confident at school but I realized my personality is kind of "pick me" and I don't wanna be that gurl so like I'm just gunna act different and not talk as much and not be excited/hyper and it's kind of sad but what should I do bcuz I dont want to be a pick me but I don't want to fake my personality so advice ? :(
0:42 “you have worms” HELP
Not me onlys sleeping 3 hours
Here’s my drama this guy I dated like a couple of weeks ago is now I think dating one of my friends and I don’t know how to feel about it should I be happy for him? (Luv ur vid 🫶)
Love u ben
Messenger did this too lol
my drama, I graduated high school 2 yr ago and I've kept 3 friends but 2 of them live far and the one that lives close doesn't put any effort into our friendship anymore so now I feel like I have 0 friends. Help
I’m shipping Ben and Curtis
BEN YOUR ACTUALLY SO PRETTY
last night i was playing a flight game and had this on and i burned through 8 hours of these podcasts
This podcast is the only thing that keeps me from going insane while doing school work 𓆉𓆉𓆉𓆉𓆉
so basically, I'm in a group of 4 friends and one of my friends has been really rude lately, I even caught her calling me names behind my back, and whenever I ask her about it she says it just a joke. she's pretty much my best friend, and all the other people in my group like her, what do I do???
boi switched from ai to how he almost thought he killed his neighbor in a small amount of time
BaCk To Ai
This is giving me a flashback of the time Snapchat AI posted on its story and stopped working and everyone thought robots where comeing to kill them
I like this background more keep it bue
Ben single handedly blows my ear drums out by screaming in every video
The phone number, stuff and all the other things after that is just how it is here you need one thing to get the next, but you need that thing to get the thing you were trying to get before it’s just one big circle and it’s messed up because if you don’t have any of those things you’re screwed
somethings wrong with me. i fall asleep to these whether its a nap or my good nights sleep 😭☠️
ben is my therapist now
Another day another slay from my therapist benoftheweek
WAKE UP BEN POSTED⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️
BEST FEELING EVER ⁉
27:57 HEATHERS REFERENCE!! the second I heard draino I thought of heathers/heather chandler’s death
Drama: My bsf last year ignored me all summer, and now pretends not to see me in the halls at school, or ignores me when I wave to her. I sent her a text about it, and she still ignored me. Turns out, next quarter, we have a class together, and idk what to do about it.
Also, I left drama about this same person (on your island boys episode) that you read.
I like the white wall more ngl 🥺
Ben looks like a Oliver
My drama: okay so i was in class today and peacefully working then some boy was whispering to his friends abt me like “eewwww, look at her legs” and “ughhh. Toothpick legs ew!” So i /harshly/ told him to stop looking at my legs and stop but he kept talking crap about my legs. So i told the teacher and she like filed a notice. Anyway nothing happened to him.
Also I just gotta say I love ur vids sm ur my comfort RUclipsr lol
23:33 his "sorry" is very Canadian here ☝️🤓
ai going crazy frfr