im super judgemental usually most the time about the people who need to be judged its usually a whole things about a dude at school being rude and other situations but i have always been someone who likes to see the bad in people first so its easier for me to see the good but i get what you're saying some poeple take it too far and some people are friends of minee
I think hating on everything takes too much energy. Sometimes it's better to leave things alone and move on. It's similar to how i feel about cringe culture, sometimes things are so ridiculous you have to laugh instead of taking it so seriously, also it's way better to let people be if they're not harming anybody. There are certain things we definitely can't/shouldn't ignore which is completely natural and fair depending on what it is. It's also unrealistic to think you won't have a single negative thought or petty things to say, some people suck ass and i will talk shit if i want to. So i won't hate on everything but i will hate on some things, after all i am bitter by nature.
one day i was being a hater (per usual) in math class and this kid looked at me and said "damn why are you so miserable" and i was like "woah why am i so miserable" inside my head ofc. and #1 that person has no room to talk bc hes a big hater and #2 i really do need to fix my attitude towards the world. im unhappy with myself, and everything irritates me so much that im just a big hater. we can get through our character development together ben 😭🤞🏼
my drama: so theres this girl and weve been best friends for about 2-3 years and ive tried talking to her about things that happen or things that bother me, basically venting, but she only really cares about her boyfriend anymore and barely pays attention to me or our other friend, but it feels so selfish to ask for her attention and idk what to do love ur videos!!
MY DRAMA: my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because she would never listen to what i had to say, she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. its a situation where of she doesnt get what she wants then she kicks off. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore. lysm ben 💖
theres some people who need help but wont accept it when they NEED it or WANT it theres other ways to help tho like your solution "look gurly im sorry but i cant help you if you wont listen" or "gurlll...if you wont accept my help then....🤷🏾♀" or you could approach her with more options like "uh ok is there anythign you would want me todo in certain ways🧍🏾♀?" or " do you want me to give you solutions?🧍🏾♀" other than that if she doesnt stop shes either doing it for attention or really is hurt and cannot be helped.
i dont wanna sound dramatic but i mean this is drama mama after all; this is my favorite podcast episode ever. i absolutely adore your new approach on everything and how you just chose to be a lover. truly changes my perspective, thank you
My drama in a nutshell‼️: My grandparents kicked me out and then went to all my friends very strict parents saying i was being human tra*****ed and had s*x.
Drama: My bsf last year ignored me all summer, and now pretends not to see me in the halls at school or ignores me when I wave to her. I sent her a text about it, and she still ignored me. Turns out, next quarter, we have a class together, and idk what to do about it. (Also, you read my drama about this same person on your Island Boys episode)
MY DRAMA RAMA so like I moved very far from where I’m used to being…like everyone here is country…and because of that it’s been so very difficult..that’s not the point tho 😀 Anyway this girl randomly started a rumor about me (it was the most horrid thing Istg) it was about me and my brother (BIOLOGICAL) making out 🥲 And because she’s known and stuff I can’t really talk against her or anyone bc they’ve all known each other for a long time…so they all go against me … So my question is should I stay in the school or should I like move schools (I have a solid 2-3 friends…I think) PS I LOVE YOUR PODCASTS THEY MAKE MY DAY BRO…I LOVE THE FACT YOUR SWITCHING UP LOLLL💕💕💕
my drama: i have theses two friends and one does like bad things at a young teen age. such as, drinking, drug type of things and etc. but lies alot too and i never know when to believe her what do i do?
😂this is the first time that Ben has given Big Ramble energy. On another note, this gave me a different perspective on me questioning the stuff I interact with/to.
Ben i hope you know that you make a difference, every time i want to do SH i start one of your vids and most of the time it helps me to put the blade down. I really hope you realize that you make a big part in my mental health❤
MY DRAMA: my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because everything i already said wasn’t helpful to her she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore.
Heyy Ben my drama is, so my bestest friend moved 2 hours away and I know it’s not that far but I barely see her anymore, she’s making new friends and I’m scared she’ll forget me cause of our distance. Any tips?
My entire freind group keeps making fun of my appearance and being rude for no reason, I don't know what to do because they are the only people I can hang out with during school (they are my only freinds) I have always been self conscious of my appearance and them calling me a boy and telling me I look like a boy is bringing down my self esteem, what do I do????
HEYY Ben my drama is, so I’ve had anxiety my whole life not gonna get deep into it but it’s getting worse idk what to do I can’t speaking to anyone really I tried getting into a school nurse for mental health but my mum found out and doesn’t think I need it , Idk what to do. Any tips?
my drama: i kid u not ben this JUST HAPPENED TODAY. my friend and i have this tradition every year we make christmas cookies and she literally invited some girl over i barely know(btw it’s at my house)and she texted me asking me if it was okay even tho my original friend hasn’t asked me at all if it was okay i said yes bc i’m nice, i have a hard time saying no to people. any advice?
my drama: so basically I was best friends with this girl (She was really senstive) and she had this friend who was rlly mean especially to me and my "best friend" would roll her eyes at me and such so i cut her off and she comes to me i tell her how i feel and she says she will do her best to do better and so all was good until...... she was asking about her birthday get together and i was like "well i dont wanna go bc so and so is going to be there and she hasnt apolgized for being mean but ill go bc ur my best friend" (obviously i told her to keep it a secret) the she goes off tells the girl and when i confront her she lies to me even though i heard them talking about it and she tries to apologize after i tell her that i know she is lying and i told her no u said sorry two days ago ur not rlly sorry and she went and cried and told her mom ( a teacher at our school) who then sent passive agressive texts to my mom and the girl and her friend are still mean to me to this day and its been like 6 months
I love that Ben has transferred and recognised his wrongs! And he’s a lover now so I don’t need to be embarrassed to comment cause I’m a 9 year old,lol
Hi Ben, he is my drama, so my friend Sophie and Catherine broke up and then Catherine dated a boy named Emery for a little bit. Then he broke up with her now Catherine is starting to call Sophie names and stuff and Sophie starting to call her names and all of our friends are getting in the middle of this. Can we have your advice?
Hey Ben! This isn't really new and this situation been going on for a while, and as a very socially awkward I was wondering if you had any advice for what happened. I had a classmate who made me very, very uncomfortable. He liked me for two years and teamed up his friend (we'll call him Alex) to try to get us in a relationship. Alex thinks i liked him but i never did. He won't ever really stop ranting about how rude he thinks I am for simply standing up for myself and telling him that he's making me uncomfortable.
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The fact that he posted this 21 hours after posting a video called "cursing everyone that i hate" is hilarious 😭
😭💀😂
Real
@imtodeluluuu chill on the caps
FOR REAL
FRRRRR
BEN WHAT IS THAT JACKET😭
Umm a slaying chaqueta of course😶
(Jacket)
It is dope
it’s amazing
It is amazing
Chuuuya
ben on drama mama: "im done being a hater"
ben's latest video on beoftheweek: "CURSING EVERYONE THAT I HATE"
imagine copying someones comment for likes
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IKR!!
You're so real for this Ben bc I'm honestly tired of judging people just to fit in with my friends 💀
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no same bc like why do have to be mean just to be friends w u 🤨🤨
Bro for real
im super judgemental usually most the time about the people who need to be judged its usually a whole things about a dude at school being rude and other situations but i have always been someone who likes to see the bad in people first so its easier for me to see the good but i get what you're saying some poeple take it too far and some people are friends of minee
LITERALLY IM GLSD SOMEONE SAID IT❤
WE WILL MISS YOU BEING A HATER 😭
SO TRUE 💔💔
@@realvinestaffWHOS THE REAL POMNI?
@blackyw796 WE'RE ALL POMNI
@@Fizzymilkshakee WAIT.. WHO AM I? WHERE .. AM I??!?
im the real one!@@blackyw796
THE KEYBOARD OUTFIT IS EVERYTHING
I think hating on everything takes too much energy. Sometimes it's better to leave things alone and move on. It's similar to how i feel about cringe culture, sometimes things are so ridiculous you have to laugh instead of taking it so seriously, also it's way better to let people be if they're not harming anybody.
There are certain things we definitely can't/shouldn't ignore which is completely natural and fair depending on what it is.
It's also unrealistic to think you won't have a single negative thought or petty things to say, some people suck ass and i will talk shit if i want to. So i won't hate on everything but i will hate on some things, after all i am bitter by nature.
Ben: “I am no longer a hater”
Bens newest video from his BENOFTHEWEEKS channel:
*I disagree*
one day i was being a hater (per usual) in math class and this kid looked at me and said "damn why are you so miserable" and i was like "woah why am i so miserable" inside my head ofc. and #1 that person has no room to talk bc hes a big hater and #2 i really do need to fix my attitude towards the world. im unhappy with myself, and everything irritates me so much that im just a big hater. we can get through our character development together ben 😭🤞🏼
everytime ben says there's some annoying sound in the bg there's always nothing there 😭
that jackets gonna make me alt+f4
Hello Ben, I absolutely love your video's they got me through 2020! ❤
cool
my drama:
so theres this girl and weve been best friends for about 2-3 years and ive tried talking to her about things that happen or things that bother me, basically venting, but she only really cares about her boyfriend anymore and barely pays attention to me or our other friend, but it feels so selfish to ask for her attention and idk what to do
love ur videos!!
MY DRAMA:
my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because she would never listen to what i had to say, she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. its a situation where of she doesnt get what she wants then she kicks off. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore.
lysm ben 💖
sometimes i think listening is enough maybe? ask her if she expects something from you as she vents out to you.
theres some people who need help but wont accept it when they NEED it or WANT it theres other ways to help tho like your solution "look gurly im sorry but i cant help you if you wont listen" or "gurlll...if you wont accept my help then....🤷🏾♀" or you could approach her with more options like "uh ok is there anythign you would want me todo in certain ways🧍🏾♀?" or " do you want me to give you solutions?🧍🏾♀"
other than that if she doesnt stop shes either doing it for attention or really is hurt and cannot be helped.
@@harshehyeah i thought that to begin with but if i didnt give help she’d kick off at me so its difficult 🫤
thanks tho :))
@@mr.bojangles3696yep already said all that to her and she still does it, thanks sm tho :))
BEN PLS POST A FULL VERSION OF THE DRAMAMAMA THEME ❤️❤️
Omg yessssss
Bens outfit is giving silly keyboard vibes🤓
As my mama always says, “get bitter or get better.”
i dont wanna sound dramatic but i mean this is drama mama after all; this is my favorite podcast episode ever. i absolutely adore your new approach on everything and how you just chose to be a lover. truly changes my perspective, thank you
agreed and OH MY GOD I LOVE YOUR PFP HDJKASHDJAK
@@-mxndxght-rxxn- AHAHH TYSMM
ben is embracing his inner keyboard 🛐🛐
LAMAKOONSJSSEI
Toe
shart!!
Really appreciate the message
love how Ben is inspiring and encouraging people to be fun criminals
Making my day better with every Ben video
I have been a lover sense my mother died (2.5 years ago) it’s like a door opened and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been ❤️❤️
i'm sorry :(
I need ben to be my priest at my wedding
What
@@corruptedsociety_did you listen to the episode??
starting Thanksgiving early 😝😝 but no, really, ur spreading so much positivity. It's really beautiful
My drama in a nutshell‼️: My grandparents kicked me out and then went to all my friends very strict parents saying i was being human tra*****ed and had s*x.
this is beautiful, I recently had a similar realization and now im slightly more confident to be myself.
this channel does more than my pills will ever do 💀
u actually make a fair point i agree with
ppl are vrry hateful and judgeful its draining to interact and condone
Ben I love u sm ur my idol u inspired me to not be ashamed of myself thank you I love you! ❤
Drama: My bsf last year ignored me all summer, and now pretends not to see me in the halls at school or ignores me when I wave to her. I sent her a text about it, and she still ignored me. Turns out, next quarter, we have a class together, and idk what to do about it. (Also, you read my drama about this same person on your Island Boys episode)
he ended the toxic gossip train???
MY DRAMA RAMA
so like I moved very far from where I’m used to being…like everyone here is country…and because of that it’s been so very difficult..that’s not the point tho 😀
Anyway this girl randomly started a rumor about me (it was the most horrid thing Istg) it was about me and my brother (BIOLOGICAL) making out 🥲
And because she’s known and stuff I can’t really talk against her or anyone bc they’ve all known each other for a long time…so they all go against me …
So my question is should I stay in the school or should I like move schools (I have a solid 2-3 friends…I think)
PS I LOVE YOUR PODCASTS THEY MAKE MY DAY BRO…I LOVE THE FACT YOUR SWITCHING UP LOLLL💕💕💕
realest because if you hate something why waste energy on it
Exactly
Says ben after posting a video cursing his enemies
“ hellOOOOOOOOOOOO.” Majestic voice Ben. Majestic
jacket is crazy
The jacket is giving icepack🥰
my drama: i have theses two friends and one does like bad things at a young teen age. such as, drinking, drug type of things and etc. but lies alot too and i never know when to believe her what do i do?
its funny watching this podcast right after watching the vid that he posted on his other channel about cursing people he hates lmao
😂this is the first time that Ben has given Big Ramble energy. On another note, this gave me a different perspective on me questioning the stuff I interact with/to.
No one is gonna talk about the jacket like SLAAYY
Ben i hope you know that you make a difference, every time i want to do SH i start one of your vids and most of the time it helps me to put the blade down. I really hope you realize that you make a big part in my mental health❤
No cP. That jacket is🔥🔥🔥
That boba gonna make Ben lose November 💔
That jacket is dope💯😎
MY DRAMA:
my “best friend” kept sending me voice notes of her crying about a certain person. when i said i didnt have any way to help her because everything i already said wasn’t helpful to her she would kick off at me and say she didnt want my help. ive told her how she’s made me feel as this has happened for over a year now and now shes blanking me completely in person yet claims i’m her best friend over message even though ik this isn’t true. idk what to do anymore.
someone already said this..?
love the sweater keyboard.
not you saying this after posting a video where you're "cursing everyone you hate"😭😭
LUV THE FIT ❤
When ben says it he sticks with it .
all the exclamation points😭
Heyy Ben my drama is, so my bestest friend moved 2 hours away and I know it’s not that far but I barely see her anymore, she’s making new friends and I’m scared she’ll forget me cause of our distance. Any tips?
My entire freind group keeps making fun of my appearance and being rude for no reason, I don't know what to do because they are the only people I can hang out with during school (they are my only freinds) I have always been self conscious of my appearance and them calling me a boy and telling me I look like a boy is bringing down my self esteem, what do I do????
If you can try and make new friends because true friends shouldnt make fun of you
where did u get the coat? I NEED IT
1:23 yeah I'm the same. I'm always like *"wtff"* *"get of ur moms phone"* *"eww"* *"I need bleach"*
love the keyboard jacket ben
#spreadkindness It's so important to, especially now a days!
HEYY Ben my drama is, so I’ve had anxiety my whole life not gonna get deep into it but it’s getting worse idk what to do I can’t speaking to anyone really I tried getting into a school nurse for mental health but my mum found out and doesn’t think I need it , Idk what to do. Any tips?
the fact nobody has said anything about the jacket is hilarious live laugh love ben
@@Click_Profile_for_more_info.46 bsfr get out bendoveroftheday
Love the jacket
my drama:
i kid u not ben this JUST HAPPENED TODAY. my friend and i have this tradition every year we make christmas cookies and she literally invited some girl over i barely know(btw it’s at my house)and she texted me asking me if it was okay even tho my original friend hasn’t asked me at all if it was okay i said yes bc i’m nice, i have a hard time saying no to people. any advice?
im not done being a hater
ilysm ben you even make that jacket look hot
Love your costume ben 😍😍😍‼️‼️
Ben in this video is me when i take an extra depression pill
NOOO BEN DONT STOP
No onr gonna tallk abb the jacketttt
IM CRYING THE JACKET
he’s keeping us sane
His sweater 💅🏼✨❤
that jacket is fire
Realizing the jacket is a big ass keyboard😭😭
i want that jacket, that jack…that thing
10 out of 10 on bens keyboard jacket 😭
IM ACTUALLY CRYING THE TITLE AND THE JACKET I CANT
"Today: Never gonna be a hater again.... But tomorrow: Who tf knows"
- Ben
lmfaoo
I would love to own a keyboard jacket, dont gatekeep Ben
Update 25:55 I am at this point in the video… thank you for not gatekeeping
right when he said hate train a train passed my house😭
The jacket.. I love you.
i think ben isn’t a hater anymore
hmmm im not sure🤔🤔
Maybe...
Them layers😭😭
WHERE’S YOUR JACKET FROM??
Loved the vid! You’re so real for this. 🙏
my drama: so basically I was best friends with this girl (She was really senstive) and she had this friend who was rlly mean especially to me and my "best friend" would roll her eyes at me and such so i cut her off and she comes to me i tell her how i feel and she says she will do her best to do better and so all was good until...... she was asking about her birthday get together and i was like "well i dont wanna go bc so and so is going to be there and she hasnt apolgized for being mean but ill go bc ur my best friend" (obviously i told her to keep it a secret) the she goes off tells the girl and when i confront her she lies to me even though i heard them talking about it and she tries to apologize after i tell her that i know she is lying and i told her no u said sorry two days ago ur not rlly sorry and she went and cried and told her mom ( a teacher at our school) who then sent passive agressive texts to my mom and the girl and her friend are still mean to me to this day and its been like 6 months
BEN UR VIDS HELP ME W MY ANXIETYY THANK U
Love the fit😂
The jacket waht
I love that Ben has transferred and recognised his wrongs! And he’s a lover now so I don’t need to be embarrassed to comment cause I’m a 9 year old,lol
i dont think benoftheweek is appropriate for 9 year olds little guy
But that’s ur opinion,I don’t want to fight with 99 year old dudes so would you leave me alone?
watch what you want. everyone was 9 once and heaps of teenagers were on the internet way before 9
Thanks but I had permission before I watched this stuff. Thanks for understanding anyway 🙏
THE JACKET IS ACTUALLY FIRE JUST HOW DO YOU BREATHE
Im dead, the last video he posted on his main was “im Cursing people i hate” 😭😭😭
Hi Ben, he is my drama, so my friend Sophie and Catherine broke up and then Catherine dated a boy named Emery for a little bit. Then he broke up with her now Catherine is starting to call Sophie names and stuff and Sophie starting to call her names and all of our friends are getting in the middle of this. Can we have your advice?
I love the sweater😭😭😭
love how his last video was cursing everyone he hates
Get my man off LA fashion week because WHAT IS HE WEARING
Hey Ben! This isn't really new and this situation been going on for a while, and as a very socially awkward I was wondering if you had any advice for what happened.
I had a classmate who made me very, very uncomfortable. He liked me for two years and teamed up his friend (we'll call him Alex) to try to get us in a relationship. Alex thinks i liked him but i never did. He won't ever really stop ranting about how rude he thinks I am for simply standing up for myself and telling him that he's making me uncomfortable.
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It says "joined nevember 3rd 2023"...
cute jacket
HONESTLY Ben is hilarious ong
COLD ON HALLOWEEN IN LA?? LUCKY YOU BEN. LUCKY YOU.
this was agressive for no reason sorry im gonna stop being a hater too
I’ve never heard someone say Toyota like that 😭