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  • Опубликовано: 4 июл 2023
  • Have apology videos reached their boiling point? After years of creators navigating the art of the apology videos, Colleen Ballinger reached new heights last week when she posted an apology video in the form of a 10-minute ukelele song with lyrics like, "all aboard the toxic gossip train, chugging down the tracks of misinformation". This week Ben discusses the latest in "cancel culture", predicts the future of the creator apologies, and as always, reads your listener submitted drama!
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  • @sadietapes
    @sadietapes 11 месяцев назад +1777

    people don’t know how to apologize anymore 💀💀

    • @madsyourmirrorball
      @madsyourmirrorball 11 месяцев назад +66

      fr. the best way for influencers to apologize when the do something like colleen or shane, is to fall off the face of the earth and spare our ears and eyes from terrible songs! 😃

    • @LestifyYT
      @LestifyYT 11 месяцев назад +6

      Lol

    • @ArminArlert69
      @ArminArlert69 11 месяцев назад +8

      Fr man...

    • @Abby_.lee56
      @Abby_.lee56 11 месяцев назад +29

      all aboard the toxic gossip train !!🙈

    • @Blushfall__
      @Blushfall__ 11 месяцев назад +18

      chugging down the tracks of misinformation !! 😘

  • @BenjaminBeoker
    @BenjaminBeoker 11 месяцев назад +1142

    The fact she didn’t really address it and actually apologize is infuriating. She literally sent kids inappropriate things to MINORS and also had people come after Adam and send him death threats and raid his house is even worse. Also the poses she made kids do in live shows and the clips that show 9 year olds having to stick their hands down her pants is disgusting. She deserves every last but if hate that people give to her.

    • @Taytay-og7ms
      @Taytay-og7ms 11 месяцев назад +44

      Danm... I know that am a random person on the internet but I feel very bad for Adam I hope he's doing ok.

    • @ukiii..
      @ukiii.. 11 месяцев назад

      she also made a kid shove their hand down her pants at a live show.

    • @KaiKailuv
      @KaiKailuv 11 месяцев назад +10

      Who’s Adam?

    • @BenjaminBeoker
      @BenjaminBeoker 11 месяцев назад +15

      @@KaiKailuv one of the victims

    • @HunYO_GCM
      @HunYO_GCM 11 месяцев назад +12

      Adam did not deserve that at all but his response to the video is so hilarious 😂

  • @kennethmccormick4744
    @kennethmccormick4744 11 месяцев назад +439

    I hate that people keep calling Colleen’s video an apology because it literally wasn’t even an apology 😭

    • @e.normastits00000
      @e.normastits00000 11 месяцев назад +6

      THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING

    • @DEIMOZZ1337
      @DEIMOZZ1337 10 месяцев назад +12

      it was literally just “youre wrong and you should feel bad for me”

    • @MorusSooo
      @MorusSooo 10 месяцев назад +5

      I think Annamarie's term "acknowledgement video" should be used more

    • @kennethmccormick4744
      @kennethmccormick4744 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@MorusSooo it wasn’t even that tbh she barely said what exactly she did all she said in it was “I did bad things but stop talking about it because I don’t like it” 😪

    • @kymanpup
      @kymanpup 10 месяцев назад

      extremely off topic but kenny pfp

  • @Humanbeing278
    @Humanbeing278 11 месяцев назад +323

    She talked like 2 minutes about what she did, didn’t say sorry, and then blamed it on us, calling us ‘toxic’ and ‘not having information’ and ‘spreading rumors’ like, dude, actually apologize, Colleen.

  • @sarah2slayy
    @sarah2slayy 11 месяцев назад +167

    calling her video an apology is actually incorrect since she never said “i’m sorry”

    • @vllin7247
      @vllin7247 11 месяцев назад +18

      She did say sorry…
      That we thought that she owed anyone an apology :/

    • @theratwithchez6992
      @theratwithchez6992 11 месяцев назад

      She did say sorry watch it again

    • @wasteland.baby.
      @wasteland.baby. 10 месяцев назад +6

      “well,i’m sorry,i’m not gonna take that route” basically saying she’s sorry that she’s not sorry

    • @BubbIyash
      @BubbIyash 9 месяцев назад

      @@theratwithchez6992not for what she did 💀💀

  • @sturnxben_
    @sturnxben_ 11 месяцев назад +305

    no cause when I was watching Colleen's vid, my jaw DROPPED TO THE FLOOR. I don't think people know how to apologise anymore lmaooo

    • @SamP-hg3cd
      @SamP-hg3cd 10 месяцев назад +2

      Nah, cuz SAME. I was like "There IS NO WAY this is the way she apologized..." I was so disappointed in her😭💀

  • @Ella-jj5on
    @Ella-jj5on 11 месяцев назад +263

    I don’t even think we can consider Colleen’s videos as an apology.. all she did as gaslight people into thinking she did nothing wrong and that she wasn’t a creep. She is ridiculous.

    • @13._.1
      @13._.1 11 месяцев назад +10

      “Gaslight”💀💀💀 as if anyone believed her

    • @kaytlinkociemba
      @kaytlinkociemba 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@13._.1​​⁠she still has genuine supporters over this who go “i never believed a thing!” lalalalala

    • @lillieluvs.u
      @lillieluvs.u 11 месяцев назад +3

      the worst part is that young children who are too young to understand will continue to support her and be gaslit and groomed

  • @bewitchedbri
    @bewitchedbri 11 месяцев назад +61

    The thing that bothered me the most about the entire situation is how there is LITERAL PROOF. If she would’ve genuinely showed the tiniest ounce of remorse for the victims and maybe even reached out to them and tried to have a conversation people wouldn’t have reacted this way. You would think a woman in her late 30’s would be able to take accountability it baffles me that she can’t just be the bigger person and say she’s sorry

  • @stellbell4u
    @stellbell4u 11 месяцев назад +41

    the way she planned that video out, thought up the song, wrote the lyrics, recorded it, took MULTIPLE takes, captioned it, and posted it

  • @addimiller4451
    @addimiller4451 11 месяцев назад +167

    These "apologies" are literally outrageous

  • @officiallychelz6508
    @officiallychelz6508 11 месяцев назад +294

    I used to love watching, “Haters back off”, Miranda was just the funniest character and was so silly. I can’t believe Colleen would do something like this.

    • @kennethmccormick4744
      @kennethmccormick4744 11 месяцев назад +17

      I hated haters back off

    • @officiallychelz6508
      @officiallychelz6508 11 месяцев назад +7

      @@kennethmccormick4744 why? And how? It was hilarious

    • @deziswiththeband
      @deziswiththeband 11 месяцев назад +14

      i also used to love watching her show and channel and then i grew out of it and saw all of this

    • @officiallychelz6508
      @officiallychelz6508 11 месяцев назад +8

      @@deziswiththebandI always thought of watching it again but I had always put it off. But now that I’ve seen this! Hell nah

    • @kennethmccormick4744
      @kennethmccormick4744 11 месяцев назад +17

      @@officiallychelz6508 I just never found it funny, and I always thought it was such a weird show when I was young

  • @ilov3chlo
    @ilov3chlo 11 месяцев назад +61

    “i’m not a groomer, just a loser”
    well congratulations we have the number 1 over achiever of the year!

  • @ad0rem3
    @ad0rem3 11 месяцев назад +27

    These influencers getting brushed off as “being canceled” and not actual criminals is crazy. They don’t get punished, and they really need too…

    • @Stanenhive
      @Stanenhive 11 месяцев назад +6

      IKR like there's proof on the internet but the police be like : 👨‍🦯👨‍🦯👨‍🦯 👀 ❌

  • @Sydneyn558
    @Sydneyn558 11 месяцев назад +121

    It's wild how people get away with these things😰🙈

  • @moshroomba
    @moshroomba 11 месяцев назад +39

    less people take accountability and just give nothing as their "apology," making a statement is so different than addressing and apologizing for things
    edit: typo smh

  • @hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii6
    @hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii6 11 месяцев назад +39

    People have forgotten how to apologize... especially Colleen 💀

  • @erinpearsish
    @erinpearsish 11 месяцев назад +15

    Here is my drama:
    So basically me and this friend got along really well during school and when we graduated she said "I hope we don't loose contact over summer." so i have been trying to make plans and stuff but she just wont follow through and make plans or says she's busy, and also she keeps blocking my other friend and i don't know what to do.

    • @Thisisfae
      @Thisisfae 11 месяцев назад +9

      Babe, the best thing you can do is just let that friend go. If you are making plans/arrangements and they just arent following through, they aren’t worth your time and effort of staying in contact. If they wanted to, they would show that and put in the same effort. If you aren’t benefiting anything from this friendship it isnt worth it to try. Yeah, its selfish, but being selfish about this type of situation is a good thing. Again, if they arent very clearly showing they care about the situation, it isnt worth your time.
      (😼 I hope I could give u sum advice)

  • @TheLucidDreamrr
    @TheLucidDreamrr 11 месяцев назад +19

    The "Not a groomer!.. just a loser" bit of her song reminds me of those "But i guess I deserved it... heh.. :/" people 💀

  • @aevsabeliana
    @aevsabeliana 11 месяцев назад +42

    Ben never misses, i dont like podcasts but I love Bens cause he’s always saying facts

    • @aevsabeliana
      @aevsabeliana 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@mini.moooon right! He always manages to put a smile on my face 💕

  • @nihal.b3658
    @nihal.b3658 11 месяцев назад +15

    I SAW THE TITLE AND IMMEDIATELY KNEW WHAT IT WAS GONNA BE ABOUT😭😭

  • @Zoeeeeeeeee272
    @Zoeeeeeeeee272 11 месяцев назад +28

    People can get away with things so easily by doing the smallest things

  • @Zephyr_755
    @Zephyr_755 11 месяцев назад +10

    Nine words, Colleen. “I’m so sorry and take accountability for my actions” like girl

  • @funninesswithanna4436
    @funninesswithanna4436 11 месяцев назад +18

    I feel so bad for trisha because she was just a joke to colleen and didn't even view her has a person. Trisha thought colleen was a friend and colleen was sending her (trishas) ADULT photos to minors and making fun of her body with groups of people which is horrible and truly shows how disgusting colleen is.

  • @luvlyys
    @luvlyys 11 месяцев назад +18

    No because Colleen ballingers apology video made me physically ill

  • @delslovesyourdad
    @delslovesyourdad 11 месяцев назад +10

    I used to LOVE her when I was little, and now finding out she’s a child groomer is just..literally heartbreaking, and absolutely disgusting.

  • @PennyJane.
    @PennyJane. 11 месяцев назад +14

    It’s crazy how she is accused of being a child groomer and she apologizes with a song… like wtf
    And it wasn’t even an apology it was a denial of it ever happening

  • @dj_didit
    @dj_didit 11 месяцев назад +23

    all aboard the toxic gossip train!! 🤗

  • @AiAiBuTeRfLy
    @AiAiBuTeRfLy 11 месяцев назад +19

    When she pulled up with the ukulele i had officially lost faith in humanity🥰

  • @Esther-10E
    @Esther-10E 11 месяцев назад +12

    colleen knowing she's done for after they tell her she can't bring her ukelele :😥

  • @camdaman4792
    @camdaman4792 11 месяцев назад +8

    That isn't "I'm sorry 😔😔" thats "I'm gaslighting people 😫😫"

  • @TulipGardens
    @TulipGardens 11 месяцев назад +12

    the way she didn’t apologize yet she says she took accountability???💀

  • @Stanenhive
    @Stanenhive 11 месяцев назад +14

    Colleen's vid wasn't even an "apology" vid it was a defense video

  • @rileyhendrix
    @rileyhendrix 11 месяцев назад +15

    I was literally just thinking “Ben is gonna do a podcast about coleens apology”

  • @meltedthursday7691
    @meltedthursday7691 11 месяцев назад +7

    One girl I used to be friends with became really upset with me because she was trying to be friends with the boy I liked, but she didnt realize that boy hated her and she blamed it on me. She's rlly annoying but she thinks everyone loves her. should I tell her?

    • @Dubsgetw
      @Dubsgetw 11 месяцев назад +4

      Yes that is toxic behavior

  • @U.dontknow_Amirah
    @U.dontknow_Amirah 11 месяцев назад +12

    Colleen isnt sorry, she’s scared and panicking abt The fact that her career Is deteriorating. She’s trying to convince ppp to feel sorry for her

    • @Nora-fm9qq
      @Nora-fm9qq 11 месяцев назад +1

      fr. she’s getting attention that she hasn’t had in while. she kinda fell off so maybe this was her way to make a (bad) comeback to fame 😭

    • @vibrantgleam
      @vibrantgleam 10 месяцев назад

      imagine she comes back with an even shitter video like "y'all are just hatrs!121211"

    • @vibrantgleam
      @vibrantgleam 10 месяцев назад

      @@Nora-fm9qq It's oddly clever, I mean the video was disgusting and I hate how she "responded" to the things about her, but it kind of does feel like she made that as a last middle finger to the whole youtube community.

  • @silly_goofy318
    @silly_goofy318 11 месяцев назад +11

    But also its disgusting how she voilated a 17 year old's girls body. She also didn't address about that in her "apoliogie" video, she only brought up the things that people were saying that weren't true. And yes people made some rumors but what about the things that were true. Going into your fans dms and say have u lost ur virginity or talking about you know what. She also was saying im just here to take accountablity for her actions even though she didn't. Your not the victim here. She just needs to be canceled. Oh wait she is. Grow up.

    • @moshroomba
      @moshroomba 11 месяцев назад +1

      if you're talking about the young girl on stage, I'm pretty sure she was in her early teens/late tweens. Adam was 17 but the girl on stage had to of been much younger

  • @n3rds_n_sk1ttles
    @n3rds_n_sk1ttles 11 месяцев назад +5

    I watched my first episode of this podcast yesterday and let me tell you.. Ben has given me entertainment in the best way. I love these podcasts! They’re my form of keeping up with the news. Forget TV or radio stations.. DRAMA MAMA is here.
    Edit: Here’s my drama………
    ……..Okay, so it all starts with the fact that I’m going to a whole new school next week! I don’t know what to do.. should I try to be more social than I actually am or just stick to being myself? I’m confused and a little scared. Thank you!

  • @gazedstars
    @gazedstars 11 месяцев назад +4

    I WAS WAITING FOR THIS EPISODE

  • @ryan-xv6vx
    @ryan-xv6vx 11 месяцев назад +8

    It's crazy how creators today can get away with basically anything for a few years before getting called out for their actions.

  • @brookedits_1
    @brookedits_1 11 месяцев назад +17

    colleen embarrasses herself even more every day

  • @dantemoscarelli2967
    @dantemoscarelli2967 11 месяцев назад +6

    we need to talk abt sienna maes fucking DANCE apology

  • @cloudfaeri
    @cloudfaeri 11 месяцев назад +3

    hi ben here's my 'drama'. i dated this guy from the start of the year and we recently broke up but have not really properly ended things. my mental health was deteriorating and that resulted in him getting frustrated at me and calling our relationship a burden to him, i still see him almost every day around school and im not sure whether to cut him off completely because i want closure, or if i should just leave it (i sit next to him in physics, its not fun)

  • @graysonlyurs
    @graysonlyurs 11 месяцев назад +5

    Another « apology » that comes to mind is that one tiktoker that did an interpretive dance about her still being young and still learning 😭 forgot her name but she was a body positivity person i think?

  • @dgtlnerd
    @dgtlnerd 11 месяцев назад +12

    i already know this is gonna be a good episode

  • @kuromisoul914
    @kuromisoul914 11 месяцев назад +2

    i ran as fast as i could 🙏🏼 I WAITED FOR U TO POST AB THIS

  • @seouIcyborg
    @seouIcyborg 11 месяцев назад +9

    I’m surprised you didn’t mention the Sienna Mae apology 😭 my god that was so bad especially for what she did

    • @AAAAAAAlexWentWhere
      @AAAAAAAlexWentWhere 11 месяцев назад +2

      What did she do?

    • @seouIcyborg
      @seouIcyborg 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@AAAAAAAlexWentWheresexually assaulted her best friend at the time and her apology was an interpretive dance.

    • @Stanenhive
      @Stanenhive 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@seouIcyborgthat dude wasn't even her boyfriend he was her best friend

    • @seouIcyborg
      @seouIcyborg 11 месяцев назад

      @@Stanenhivemy bad, I thought they were dating

    • @Stanenhive
      @Stanenhive 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@seouIcyborg it's ok

  • @hedgeater
    @hedgeater 11 месяцев назад +66

    She had NO RIGHT making that apology so catchy tho

    • @silversin_66
      @silversin_66 11 месяцев назад +20

      ALL ABOARDDDD!
      🎶The toxic gossip train~!🎶

    • @pinkdiorrr
      @pinkdiorrr 11 месяцев назад +9

      @@silversin_66 chugging down the tracks of manipulationnn

    • @Ilovetoxicyuri
      @Ilovetoxicyuri 11 месяцев назад +15

      @@pinkdiorrr🤓actually it’s *misinformation* ☝️

    • @Ilovetoxicyuri
      @Ilovetoxicyuri 11 месяцев назад +13

      She stole the chords from Bo burnham Istg

    • @hedgeater
      @hedgeater 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Ilovetoxicyuri lmao

  • @addison2578
    @addison2578 11 месяцев назад +28

    i literally love this podcast with every blood speck in my body

  • @oltolphia
    @oltolphia 11 месяцев назад +5

    I really feel like me and ben are going back and forth gossiping because of how we're both sitting and looking shocked 😭

  • @mikio8595
    @mikio8595 11 месяцев назад +6

    2023 just isn’t real anymore

  • @tabbytab3
    @tabbytab3 11 месяцев назад +12

    If you ever apologize you should know what your getting into

  • @mlisswal
    @mlisswal 11 месяцев назад +8

    i’m not a groomer… just a loser😞 is the same energy as a stereotypical pick me girl

  • @uhhh_ali
    @uhhh_ali 11 месяцев назад +3

    Toxic Gossip Train (Collen’s version) (10 minute version)

  • @Damon.776
    @Damon.776 11 месяцев назад +2

    Drama shit: I’m a guy, I knew I liked guys to an extent but I hated the way I was treated for it, and I went to the mental hospital, saw a boy, we made friends, came out of the mental hospital, and were still friends. It’s been a couple months now but I am 100% in love with him and he’s bi, but he shows zero emotion and I’m scared to talk to him about it.

  • @batolmyrblz6915
    @batolmyrblz6915 11 месяцев назад +5

    I think the reason behind colleen"s peculiar way of apologizing is bc she didn't want to be like any other youtubers apology video she wanted to stand out more and to show that she was coming from heart but also try to be received well unlike the other youtuber apology video but that obviously didn't go like how she wanted .It backfired. not that i am justifying any of her actions at all or i stand by what she said she was VERY wrong let me make that clear.take this with a grain of salt...

  • @sinead2997
    @sinead2997 11 месяцев назад +11

    It’s allways a great day when Ben posts

  • @Preppybootyheadd
    @Preppybootyheadd 11 месяцев назад

    I’ve always loved your videos and I love how you react and give your advice to people with really interesting stories.
    Anyways, here’s my drama: so there is this guy that I like, and most of his friends and my friends say that he likes me back, but he doesn’t talk to me like he talks to every other girl. Our conversations are always awkward. Sorry, this one is pretty long but it’s kinda hard to summarize this. Love your videos-! ❤

  • @c0miko
    @c0miko 11 месяцев назад +10

    we love drama.

    • @7_Kiki_7
      @7_Kiki_7 11 месяцев назад +4

      100% agree✨✨

    • @Shino_is_crazy
      @Shino_is_crazy 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@7_Kiki_7 101% percent agree👍

    • @7_Kiki_7
      @7_Kiki_7 11 месяцев назад +1

      121% agree✨✨✨

  • @sherIfpawz
    @sherIfpawz 11 месяцев назад

    my drama : i normally hang out with my cousins, because i’m lonely, and lately (not lately it’s always happened) after about an hour of hanging out they just run off without telling me where they’re going. i have just more or so, stopped wanting to hangout with them as this is the final straw, they’ve talked behind my back, got me into drama/in trouble without a reason, etc. i want to confront them, how should i? or should i just cut them off?

  • @Leah3-ib9yn
    @Leah3-ib9yn 11 месяцев назад +2

    yess! I was waiting for ben to make this video🙏

  • @SummerGal19
    @SummerGal19 11 месяцев назад +1

    YES BEN THANK I HAVE BEEN BEGGING AND PRAYING U MAKE A VID ABOUT THIS THX

  • @cats_are_amazing
    @cats_are_amazing 11 месяцев назад +5

    i know this is gonna involve the apology song

  • @seveneleven264
    @seveneleven264 11 месяцев назад +4

    they should really just say ''im sorry for what ive done i know what i did was wrong and if you want to unfollow or do anything like that just know i understand. i really hope yall can forgive me it was a really dumb thing to do and just know i love all of yall.''

  • @Veronicam343
    @Veronicam343 11 месяцев назад +1

    I was hoping Ben would make a video about this

  • @melly_wellyy
    @melly_wellyy 11 месяцев назад +1

    love your vids sm i watch them a lottt

  • @ava-px9ny
    @ava-px9ny 11 месяцев назад +1

    heyy ben ily and i need advice so here’s my drama-
    last year i had become best friends with someone, but this year i started to get closer with other people. is it right for them to say i’m replacing them after they had replaced me times before? (there super toxic btw and didn’t comfort me at all in dark times)

  • @daisy_bloom457
    @daisy_bloom457 11 месяцев назад +11

    Apology videos always made me cringe. Love you Ben ❤

  • @totallynotezri
    @totallynotezri 11 месяцев назад +6

    How do they even get away with the things they do? like they should be in jail or something

  • @Im_a_proud_hater
    @Im_a_proud_hater 11 месяцев назад +4

    “Groom your kids… JUST KIDDING and if I did that was a long time ago so I’ve learned. I’m not a bad person I’m just so quirky and a loser.”

    • @saisha-1709
      @saisha-1709 11 месяцев назад

      "I'm not a groomer I'm just a loser😔😔😔 uwu I'm so small omg I'm litteraly such a loner🥺🥺" LIKE SHUT UP U THIRTY YEAR OLD WOMAN WITH A CHILD

    • @s_e_l_e_n_e
      @s_e_l_e_n_e 11 месяцев назад +1

      the 10 minute video summarized in two sentences.

  • @HwangHyunjins_toasteroven.
    @HwangHyunjins_toasteroven. 11 месяцев назад +2

    What mic do you use for your podcasts and videos?

  • @emma.w.a.dilemma
    @emma.w.a.dilemma 11 месяцев назад +2

    ok i have a drama!!!!! IT MIGHT BE LONG IM SORRY. me and my friend were in a fight (ill call her rose) rose told my other friend abt me and her (roses) sister going on vacay together after she swore not to, and also like ever since we've been friends she always says mean stuff abt me to her sister (my bestfriend) and im finally fed up with it. yesterday me, rose, roses friend, and roses sister went to see fireworks for the 4th of july and rose and me just hit started talking like nothing happened. after the 4 of us had a sleepover and it was super fun but idk if i should just forgive her that easily. BTW BEN ILYSM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @LxserGhxul
    @LxserGhxul 11 месяцев назад +2

    Timing too good frfr

  • @Artforest606
    @Artforest606 11 месяцев назад +2

    I honestly love Ben and how he explains things. He’s like the most relatable podcaster I have ever seen

  • @grr4y
    @grr4y 11 месяцев назад +1

    🚨dramamamm story 🚨
    i have this friend(online) who likes me and is very weird about it. i dont like her back and usually i dont make people feel bad if they like me because you can’t control it. some examples would be: i was talking about my crush and she got all salty and said “im better” ,or when i talk abt my interests she suddenly knows everything abt it any advice on how to slowly drift from her? theres so much more but the limit is 3 sentences

    • @RandomUser0239
      @RandomUser0239 11 месяцев назад +1

      Tell her how u feel, and if she can't accept that and keeps pushing then it's best to cut her off cause that is IMMEDIATELY a red flag

  • @novavr5
    @novavr5 11 месяцев назад +3

    Drama of the week: So, my brother is extremely obnoxious, and when I get older, I am thinking of cutting contact with him. He calls me names, acts like he's smarter than me, and coaxes my parents into thinking I'm in the wrong. He thinks that just because he is in football, he has a rite of passage to do horrid shit to me, and sometimes my family, going as far as to almost hit my mom. My main question is, should I cut contact with him?

    • @bigheartbigboobs_
      @bigheartbigboobs_ 11 месяцев назад

      Just don’t talk to him, block/remove his number and all social media, don’t tell him where you move and see if you can also inform your parents of you not wanting him to know. Other than that, I’m very sorry about the situation and seriously hope things change for the better for you AND your family.

    • @novavr5
      @novavr5 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@bigheartbigboobs_ thank you, but the sad thing is, one, I'm 14, two, he's my twin, and three, we share a bedroom, so I'm kinda stuck with him, but I still thank you for your advice

    • @bigheartbigboobs_
      @bigheartbigboobs_ 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@novavr5 I’m sorry abt that, I’m also 14 and have some family issues, we’ll get thru it together

    • @novavr5
      @novavr5 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@bigheartbigboobs_ no worries, you did nothing wrong, but fr though, and I already have enough problems as it is (mostly including my weight, but I've been losing some). But still, thank you.

  • @Lsterling22
    @Lsterling22 11 месяцев назад +2

    My drama is this girl who has been rude to me my entire life and treated me like a pet when we were friends cheated on my boy bsf and has reeked havoc on me and my friends is attacking my healthy relationship and when I defend myself she threatens with calling the cops or getting me suspended should I tell her off or js let it go

  • @itsdianax
    @itsdianax 11 месяцев назад +2

    the fact that she played victim instead of owning up to her mistakes is horrible.

    • @AAAAAAAlexWentWhere
      @AAAAAAAlexWentWhere 11 месяцев назад

      I know righ!! It’s horrendous to see how she just sang a terrible tune over and over in a 10 min long video
      It’s horrific (in the worst way)

  • @kalysse.
    @kalysse. 11 месяцев назад +2

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU TO TALK ABOUT THIS

  • @charleyandre330
    @charleyandre330 11 месяцев назад

    I just listened to this episode on Spotify it is so good, never give up Ben and if you feel like giving up, don’t because we all love you and think you are so funny😂😂❤❤😊😊

  • @AfkSavannahh
    @AfkSavannahh 11 месяцев назад +3

    the fact that her video wasnt even an apology💀💀

  • @TeaParty-bh2fs
    @TeaParty-bh2fs 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you Ben for the advice, I REALLY NEEDED IT TBH! (Also, I love your videos so much)

  • @YhBillie
    @YhBillie 11 месяцев назад

    I’ve never really been a big fan of school and I’ve always struggled with it, and recently I’ve just stopped going and I’m in my last year of secondary ( year 11 ) got any tips?

  • @mawdoesnotlikechips
    @mawdoesnotlikechips 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hey
    It's been a while since you saw my face
    I haven't been doing so great
    So I took a little break
    So a lot of people are saying some things about me that aren't quite true
    Doesn't matter if it's true, though
    Just as long as it's entertaining to you, right?
    You guys having fun?
    [Chorus]
    All aboard the toxic gossip train
    Chugging down the tracks of misinformation
    The toxic gossip train
    You got a one-way ticket to manipulation station
    Toxic gossip train
    Tie me to the tracks and harass me for my past
    Those rumors look like facts if you don't mind the gaps
    I won't survive in the crash, but hey
    At least you're havin' fun

  • @aevsabeliana
    @aevsabeliana 11 месяцев назад +5

    You never miss ben!! ❤

  • @Yoongireve
    @Yoongireve 11 месяцев назад +3

    As a ukulele player, I do not claim her.

  • @xoxo.cresryll
    @xoxo.cresryll 11 месяцев назад +4

    bae wake up benjaminen posted

  • @deshaddix6728
    @deshaddix6728 11 месяцев назад +1

    This whole thing just absolutely baffles my mind

  • @Thegoatmd
    @Thegoatmd 11 месяцев назад +1

    when my ex broke up with me she said i was to needy but she facetimed me 24/7 and left almost no dime for my family

  • @isa.8aa
    @isa.8aa 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Ben! I loved this episode bcz its honestly facts about this ✨disgusting✨ topic lol
    Heres the dRaMa for me:
    So I have been friends with these girls and apparently recently one of the girls, we'll call her H, found out that the others girls were calling her a pick-me, toxic, and other rude things. If im honest, H can sometimes be a slight bit annoying and although it may seem rude, toxic. However, I have been growing closer with H than the other girls and feel bad taking the opposite side. I love all of them and am not sure if I will ruin one friendship by taking the side of the other.
    What should I do? 😞

  • @--Paws--
    @--Paws-- 11 месяцев назад +2

    Futility is the word.

  • @Kxri.7
    @Kxri.7 11 месяцев назад

    My drama, I have this friend who kept gaslighting me and making me always to look the bad person I tried breaking of the friendship atleast three times but I did'nt really have anybody else, then one day she just blew up on me and I told her we didnt have to be friends if she didnt want to, she told everyone I was the one who got mad at her, her friends who dont even know me started talking trash about me, What do you think I shoud'lve done?

  • @TheRealGretz
    @TheRealGretz 11 месяцев назад

    Hii ben! amazing video again!❤

  • @LilyBehling
    @LilyBehling 11 месяцев назад +2

    "my managers said I shouldn't say anything about it, so I'm gonna sing it :D" tf, no. You asked for nudes from a 14 year old and used the excuse that he was gay, to make it acceptable. And the fact that she has her own family is even more upsetting. Its not gossip Colleen, its fact. There are screenshots of the messages, AND thousands of people saw you ask for a kid to put his hands down your pants. So who's gossiping now?

  • @80Janae80
    @80Janae80 11 месяцев назад +2

    I'm sure a five year old would quickly make an apology but a 36 year old couldn't do that ? Seriously..

  • @jih_ooo
    @jih_ooo 11 месяцев назад +1

    i love your podcast so muchh

  • @zzzamber
    @zzzamber 11 месяцев назад +1

    yk its good day when ben posts

  • @theodorington
    @theodorington 11 месяцев назад +3

    Spoken]
    Hey
    It's been a while since you saw my face
    I haven't been doing so great
    So I took a little break
    A lot of people are saying some things about me that aren't quite true
    Doesn't matter if it's true, though
    Just as long as it's entertaining to you, right?
    You guys having fun?
    [Chorus]
    All aboard the toxic gossip train
    Chugging down the tracks of misinformation
    The toxic gossip train
    You got a one-way ticket to manipulation station
    Toxic gossip train
    Tie me to the tracks and harass me for my past
    Those rumors look like facts if you don't mind the gaps
    I won't survive in the crash, but hey
    At least you're havin' fun
    [Spoken]
    Uh, hi, everyone
    I've been wanting to come online and talk to you about a few things
    Um, even though my team has strongly advised me to not say what I want to say
    I recently realized that they never said that I couldn't sing what I wanna say, so
    Here I am, and, um, today I only wanna talk about the facts
    So, I hope that you'll be willing to listen
    Here we go
    Many years ago, I used to message my fans
    Uh, but not in a creepy way like a lot of you are trying to suggest
    It was more of a loser kind of way
    Where I was just trying to be besties with everybody
    It was kinda like, uh, when you go to like a family gathering, you know?
    And there's a weird aunt there who keeps coming up to you and going like "Hey, girl, what's the tea!"
    And you're like "Ehhh"
    Um, that was me, but in group chats with my fans, it was weird
    You might also like
    Beauty and the Beat Boots
    Todrick Hall
    You’re Losing Me (From The Vault)
    Taylor Swift
    Cupid (Twin Version)
    FIFTY FIFTY (피프티피프티)
    [Verse 1]
    I've been sharing my life online for over 15 years
    I've poured my heart out to you and because of that I feel
    Like I'm talking to my friends, but, in the beginning of my career
    I didn't really understand that maybe there should be some boundaries there
    There were times in the DMs when I would overshare
    Details of my life, which was really weird of me
    I haven't done that for years, you see
    Because I changed my behavior, and I took accountability
    [Spoken]
    But that's not very interesting, is it?
    [Chorus]
    So let's go on the toxic gossip train
    The locomotive's fueled with hateful accusations
    The toxic gossip train
    Steamroll over someone's reputation
    Toxic gossip train
    Hop on board, but close your eyes, otherwise you'll realize
    That the train is made of lies and that person you despise
    Maybe didn't deserve to die
    But hey, at least you're havin' fun
    [Spoken]
    In all seriousness, I do think it's really important to hold people accountable for their mistakes
    Um, y'know, we should hope that everyone can learn from their mistakes
    And grow, and change their behavior, and be a better person
    This is something that I've always tried to do when I make mistakes
    And is something that I will continue to try t- what?
    Oh, you don't care? Oh, okay
    [Verse 2]
    I thought you wanted me to take accountability
    But that's not the point of your mob mentality, is it? No
    Your goal is to ruin the life of the person you despise
    While you dramatize your lies and monetize their demise
    [Spoken]
    Yeah, um, I feel like I can already hear the comments on this video
    "She's gaslighting, manipulating!"
    "Ugh, she's a narcissist and a rat!"
    "I would never make a mistake like that."
    [Verse 3]
    Oh, I'm sorry I didn't realize
    That all of you are perfect, so please, criticize me
    Bring out the daggers made from your perfect past
    And stab me repeatedly in my bony little back
    I'm sure you're disappointed in my shitty little song
    I know that you wanted me to say that I was 100% in the wrong
    Well, I'm sorry, I'm not gonna take that route
    Of admitting to lies and rumors that you made up for clout
    [Verse 4]
    "Hey everybody, I found someone new to harass
    She did some things that I do not like, in her past
    So everybody, gather 'round, 'cause we're about to attack"
    But not based on facts, oh no
    Your loaded lethal weapon is your fingers on the keys
    You don't need any armor when you can hide behind a screen
    So, shoot me down, quick, with a click, and bam
    My reputation's deceased
    [Spoken]
    Uh, I also wanted to take a minute to talk about that girl, Miranda Sings
    You know the one, yeah her
    Uh, she's PG-13, it says that on my website
    [Verse 5]
    And it's always been that way
    And that's why you won't find my videos on the RUclips Kids app
    Anyway, um, I didn't realize it was my responsibility
    To decide what was appropriate for every kid to see
    I've always relied on parents to decide if they're comfortable
    With their families watching my RUclips videos or coming to my live shows
    Now, have I made some jokes in poor taste? Yes
    Have I made lots of dumb mistakes? Yes
    Am I sad that there's some fans that feel betrayed? Yes
    But was my intention to manipulate? No
    [Spoken]
    It doesn't really matter what my intention was
    'Cause it seems as though everyone's already decided on that
    Let me tell you, it's not very fun to have millions of people all over the world
    Call you the most vile, horrendous, disgusting, life-ruining words
    That a person can be called, in my opinion
    Um, it doesn't matter that these things aren't true
    Uh, everyone just believes that you are the type of person who manipulates and abuses children
    So, I just wanted to say that, um
    The only thing that I've ever groomed is my two Persian cats
    I'm not a groomer, I'm just a loser
    [Verse 6]
    Who didn't understand I shouldn't respond to fans
    And I'm not a predator even though a lot of you think so
    Because 5 years ago, I made a fart joke
    So, even though I know this video won't change anyone's mind about me
    I still felt it was important to come on here and defend myself a little
    And take accountability
    And I also wanted to say that
    To anyone out there who has ever supported me in any capacity
    [Spoken]
    I really, really appreciate you, thank you
    For what it's worth, I never had any bad intentions
    But I do feel like shit
    [Chorus]
    The toxic gossip train
    Chugging down the tracks of misinformation
    Toxic gossip train
    You got a one way ticket to manipulation station
    Toxic gossip train
    You tied me to the tracks and harassed me for my past
    Rumors look like facts when you don't mind the gaps
    I won't survive in the crash, but hey
    Hope you had some fun
    [Spoken]
    Actually, y'know, I feel like maybe I should let you guys know something, um
    Seems like, maybe you're confused about something? I don't know
    Let me try to help, um
    [Outro]
    Sometimes people make a mistake and it doesn't make them a horrible person, whoa
    Sometimes people can make a mistake and they're still a good person
    Crazy, I know
    Sometimes people can make a mistake and you don't have to take that mistake, oh no
    And twist it up, and grind it, and add some lies to it, and pulverize it
    And stab it with knives, and ruin a life, and, oh no
    Sometimes people can make a mistake, it doesn't mean you gotta send them hate, oh no
    Sometimes people can make a mistake and you can kindly let them know, and help them to grow
    Sometimes people make mistakes, simply because they made a mistake?
    And that mistake doesn't make them a terrible human
    It just makes them a human
    [Spoken]
    But what do I know?
    Fuck me, right?

    • @LeReubzRic
      @LeReubzRic 10 месяцев назад

      You literally Ctrl+A'd the genius page.
      I can see the "you may also like" heading

    • @theodorington
      @theodorington 10 месяцев назад

      @@LeReubzRic yeah, but i’m saving the lyrics for later

    • @LeReubzRic
      @LeReubzRic 10 месяцев назад

      @@theodorington oh ok

    • @naenaeoclock
      @naenaeoclock 10 месяцев назад

      why did i pause the video and start singing along ☠

    • @LeReubzRic
      @LeReubzRic 10 месяцев назад

      @@naenaeoclock it's an EARWIG!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @boi5738
    @boi5738 10 месяцев назад +1

    “Im sorry, what I did was wrong. I have learned from my mistakes.”
    It’s THAT simple 🙄

  • @katelynmorris313
    @katelynmorris313 11 месяцев назад +1

    my drama is abt sh so if u read pls give TW but its that my best friend since i was 2 was bullying me cuz i used to cut myself when i was 9-11 (im 13 now) and is now mad at me for not talking to him when i already said 2 times that was wrong and i wouldn’t hang out with him anymore if he didn’t apologize and he still hasn’t after 1 1/2 months what should i do also sorry if this is kinda venting i just really need some advice also if you’re reading this ilysm ben you’re part of the reason i stopped

  • @cone1584
    @cone1584 11 месяцев назад

    the song is stuck in my head rn I