Are Women Addicted to Toxic Men?
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- Опубликовано: 22 мар 2021
- What happens when you fall for the charm and wit of a toxic man? One article suggests that many women are addicted to chaos and drama, so of course we had to weigh in.
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Do you find yourself attracted to toxic people?
Nope. My aura attracts positive people with good vibes. If I sense you are toxic or unstable I'll bounce so quick. I prefer stress over peace any day!
No i don't think so
Sometimes not an intense drama
I’m not attracted to toxic at all!!!!!!
When you’re inexperienced, yes. Once you know how things really go down, HECK NO! 🙅🏼♀️💆🏼♀️
Adrienne hit the nail on the head about some women being addicted to chaos cuz everything goin smoothly is boring. Sounds to me some women are trying to say they want someone who will challenge them to grow in life, but they just don't kno how to say it.
Lol @ "They don't know how to say it"
Yeah, they don’t know how to go about getting what they desire in a healthy way.
I thought Adrienne was gonna say why she in her toxic relationships
@@llbabygirl1528 🤣
I've noticed more men are addicted to chaos then women are. Women are usually the ones putting up with everything, and then the men get upset why she won't react. It's ridiculous.
I just had to choose myself for the first time and it was honestly one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.
I’m proud of you for choosing you! Knowing your worth and what you deserve and most importantly treating yourself / setting the standard on what you deserve, will attract that same energy!
Way to go! Good for you super proud of you❤❤❤❤
Nope not me. I can't stand a man that's toxic and unstable. I prefer the low-key and chill dudes, I like men who I am comfortable around. If I have to walk on eggshells everytime I am around you then it's a wrap. My mental health comes first 💯
Hit the nail on the head!
You go gurlllll
Same girlfriend. After two years of abusive and toxic relationship I ended it so I could remain alive. I was that girl who wanted to save the guy, and it sucked the life out of me. I was lucky to leave alive. I was broken, I was hurt , it took a year to recover but I healed all grace to God.
@@Simplelivingslowliving wow so brave! Glad you are well and healing. God bless you ✨ happy that you left and didn't go back
💯 Right
Loni's "1987, that happened to me" got me hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣; and by the time Adrienne finished sharing her 2 and a half baby mama story, I was in stitches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. The ridiculousness of it all🤣🤣🤣🤣
I keep forgetting Garcelle is older than Loni. She looks so good!!
She looks sooo damn good! How old is Garcelle?
@@CandiceKoko 54
@@CandiceKoko is she a permanent host? I like her tho
I still don’t believe it! Lol. she’s gorgeous
Oh my gosh I didnt know that. She's absolutely beautiful.
Toxic people attract other toxic people, believe it or not!
No toxic people latch onto who ever tolerates their toxicity. If they get firmly told to take their mess elsewhere they know you are not the one.
Some people genuinely don't believe the love is real unless it hurts. That television, movies, and childhood for you.
I believe some of us are carrying out generational curses without realizing it. We have wounds that have been energetically past down & unfortunately history repeats itself. Having it together in one area of your life means nothing if there is still energy within that is not healed. You will still be subject to these toxic scenarios playing out in your life. I think everything stems from self love or lack there of. But one thing about it we all have a breaking point.
We go with what’s familiar, if u haven’t had healthy or positive relationships w men (any gender ur attracted to) in ur life then it’ll most likely match w ur relationships. Like Jeannie said before “you date your psychology” if u notice all ur relationships are trash u gotta look within and fix the root
When I was younger I attracted toxic men, but that’s cus I was toxic myself. Now that I’ve grown and life has ran me through the damn wire, I’m thankful for the caring NON-toxic man in my life👏🏾😂
Same.
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Truth! The one we attract is a personal mirror.
People are “addicted” to the drama with toxic men because of their childhood. It’s a comfort zone and what they saw growing up. We have to heal those family curses or we tend repeat those patterns.
You cannot help someone who does not want to help themselves.
Did Loni said 1986⁉️😂
I wasn't even an embryo ‼️
A stork delivered me that year
I was 5 in 86.
Relationships are reflective we often attract what we are,so if successful women are attracted to toxic men then maybe they're a little toxic themselves.
I grew up having girlfriends that were so addicted to drama in their relationships. I never understood it. I think ppl mimic the relationships they see sometimes and alot of us saw disfunctional relationships. Also low self-esteem has alot to do with it. you may see arguing etc as love. Breaking up to make up.
I really like Adrienne's look here ... actually inspired me to get a neclace like that and pair it with a similar olive green top
Sexy
Garcelle may say then "Bye Felicia" 👋👋👋😂😂😂😂
It can be funny for some days like cleaning up and managing a big project....after a few years it's hyper tension, nervous breakdowns, panic attacks and the project never ends. I promise you he will make you feel like a failure.
It isn’t a gender issue. Toxic people are attracted to toxic people.
Not really. Codependents are the nicest ppl ever. But, they are always attracted to toxic ppl because they can't set boundaries and have the biggest hearts.
@@hawaaabadiro I agree to a certain point. They are attracted to toxic (narcissistic) people to change them or because the don’t think they deserve better. So that makes them toxic too.
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I think in some cases this is the instance where the ideology of “ Good Girls Love Bad Boys” should be something in the past cuz if you like a dude that isn’t like 100% himself and tries to keep up the facade of being this dude with thuggish ruggish bone in his blood and swag... it’s like how long til that gets boring ?! Like there are some men that truly want to treat a lady the way they should be treated with love , respect , kindness , vulnerability and hell even caters to her love languages without making her feel like it’s corny or “ not my thing “ like stop with that “ I want u to be mine but I ain’t really gonna do anything to show u mean a lot to me “ bs ! Like Adrienne literally had a guy that showed no PDA and thought he was too cool to do so... didn’t even allow her a key to his parent til she ASKED ! Like that too cool for school stuff getting old... cut the games ! Stop the toxicity ! And end the foolishness
Girl we work so hard we don't need a bumm
Loni's red flags😂 & Adrienne's story, man that was all kinds of messed up
My idea of being equally yoked is when two people's vision and energy are on the same frequency. @Adrienne's scenario is a whole movie already.
Ha haa ahaa ahaa laughing my ass off g 😆 🤣 this was very funny especially Loni ohh lord she made me cry of laughter
Toxic sex is good because it’s the only time that person is giving you positive attention which keeps you craving for more.
😂😂😂😂the way adrian is telling the story got me on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂
I think we all went through that phase of wanting a 'Bad Guy' I know I did when I was around 25, thinking that I will be The one who will change him or make him stay. And I didn't realize what came with wanting a bad guy like the cheating, the disrespect etc. The toxic relationships to me come from a low self-esteem thinking you don't deserve beter. Ones you start loving yourself that's when you start wanting a good man.
This reminds me of when they had the girl chat, and Tamar and Adrienne talked about how they would purposefully start fights in their relationship just to keep it spicy. Lol like why Adrienne acting like we can’t go back and watch the clips. I liked it better when Tam played the good, Christian, consistent one. It doesn’t fit Adrienne as much as they are trying to act like it does.
Can we really talk about toxic if women are addicted to that kind of men who make them suffer ? As a man i know which kind of woman is toxic for me. Something toxic is something u don't accept, accept yourself and what you want before to say other people are toxic, sometimes ur own desire is toxic ;)
I think it’s two-fold, one is you date what you think you deserve and at times that you can fix them or heal them which it took me a long time to see that for myself. However, through my healing and spiritual journey, you break the cycle of toxicity. You realize what a waste of time and that your worth and validation comes from yourself always
I laughed too much at lon's statement about living with his mama 😂😂😂😂
Garcelle needs a map to navigate 2 and half baby mama 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was confused for a second too
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She said "Shut up" lmaooo Adrienne 😅😊
Dark hair on Adrienne is EVERYTHINGGGG!!!!!
Not changing the name of the one kid 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol if adrienne was 3 in ‘86 then loni was 15.. there is a 12 year difference between them 🤣
And Garcelle was 20.
😂🤣Yeah Loni said she was 4 in 86😅
They are not being serious.
Then that means Jeannie would have been like 6 or 7 dang since people be saying their like 3 or 4 yeaars apart
I swear these girls!!!!🤣🤣🤣 when you live with yo mama you always in drama🤣💀🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 word
No matter who is talking I have to keep my eye on Loni because you never know what she will say or do. 👀👀And those facial expressions have me floored🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And now I can't take my eyes off off Loni...comedian🤣🤣🤣
I don’t want peace. I want problems always
Loni!! You were 15 in 1986 😂😂
Girl byee😂😂😂
Loni you're so funny 🤣😂
Very true
Where’s Jeanie
Messy/ toxic/ selfish in the relationship attracts the same.
They Need balance!!! Not toxicity 😆😆😆😆🙏😇go Lonie😆😆😆😂😂🤣😂
I am not attracted to toxic people but looking back my ex husband had his moments so I guess you can say I attract them lol😂😂😂!!!!
That was slick, he was you ex husband for a reason, so obviously you’re attracted to him in some way. The way you worded it was clever, “I attract them” nah you’re attracted to them too😂
@@adrijiyuda actually I said what I said if you didn’t like it that’s you issue no mine !!!!!
@@Nique1986 You didn’t disprove my comment, just another over emotional response, typical 😂
So true... my brother is 40yo and toxic af and he lives with my mum
Not just women addicted to chaos It's men and just some people or many people in general that are addicted to chaos, fame, power, etc. Which is what creates the dysfunctional relationships on both sides.
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Daily dose of joy 😅😅
Can Adrienne stop bringing up how toxic sex is the best sex? Like that justifies having a toxic relationship? If you are having sex with a toxic person, their toxic behaviour isn't justifiable and it's still not right. There's also toxic people that sexual abuse their partners and thats never okay.
I was that girl that wanted to save the guy and would hold on to the toxic relationship when he said sorry for his verbal, emotional and physical abuse. I was that girl who also was sexually abused by my then boyfriend. I'm grateful to have left that relationship and the toxic sex was definitely NOT Worth it. I left alive, broken, hurt ; I took a year to myself and was able to heal. He was the worst person to ever come into my life but the experience was my greatest lesson.
Where is Jeannie?
I believe this 1
Loni.looks amazing
DUH!! lol We All know that's the ideal and that's what a relationship is supposed and Should be BUT Then Life/Reality steps in between all of that and you end up in some kind of drama/chaos/dysfunction, etc. With the exception of those few great and awesome relationships that are loving and balanced across the board for years to come BUT not realistic for most. For example Adrienne you have a good Christian man now but one wrong move you would have stayed in that dysfunctional relationship with "R" and been dealing with some of those very issues. You had a mom and support system to talk you off the ledge.
YESSSSSS🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I get it
Are women addicted to toxic me?
Me: where have you been living
Cough....Khloe Kardashian😂
Ooooooh this topic...
That segment was weird... topic was interesting but it went off 😕
Loni's right Adrienne is always comin up with some weird excuse lmao
I need a map lmaooo
That’s not 1 & a half that’s 2 baby mamas
We need a partner, not a project!
Answer: yes
Where is my girl Jeanie??
How is Felicia 1/2 a baby momma? Int she just a whole other one? 😂
I think because Felicia is with someone that had an ex husband, and the wife and the ex husband are parents, and then Felicia got pregnant too so she’s an addition to the already completed parents, which is the wife and the ex. I’m not sure if this made sense but that’s how I see it in my mind? Idk 🤷♀️ 😂😭😂
@@lalaland746 oh ok I kinda get it sorta 🤣🤣
Is Adrienne over Loni? lol or is she over The Real?
Women definitely love toxic men
Where’s Jeannie?
I think this was when she was sick
Garcelle is beautiful 😍
Two and a half?
What is this? A house?😑😑😑🤔
Yes Garcelle !!! 👏🏽
This reminds me when women say they want a bad boy and people take it literal. Lol well... at least for me I always thought they meant a dude that looks the part not literally a bad boy. Haha. That’s how I wanted it.
Insecurities and subconsciously not feeling worthy of goodness. Not knowing your worth/value. Hope for a change...that will never come in him.
Right on.
That’s like Ross knocked up Susan!!
How is that HALF of a baby mama?
I would love to see Loni's past boyfriends. What they look like😳
U just gotta get it out of ur system then u will want a normal relationship
I am ROTFLMAO I AM SCREAMING
Take pitty on them more to say...treatn like a baby..bs
Loni is definitely drinking a lil sumthin behind that camera and in between shots 🤔
Right all that giggling 😅
My whole life is toxic loool
It would be 2 baby mommas
Omg I'm in a toxic relationship lol
Women are also addicted to lack of accountability.
Garcelle😂😂😂
Loni🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not Felicia 💀💀💀
That’s just 2 babymamas where’s the extra half?
Fallow the Leader which can't do now Based .🤣😡😤😎
Garcelle is right
Women as well can be toxic
I'm sorry some women can just be so intelligent but at the same time be relationship ignorant hence why they get with toxic men or they get with a good man and they ruin the relationship and punish the good man.
1986!!!
It is always her own decision to search for bad Boys who missuse them,,, it is very stupid always make d same mistake on and on again,,, no mercy.
I think Felicia wanted a baby with the same DNA as the first. Bro was set up😳😂