What Has Your Ego Cost You? Plus: Breaking Down Why Some Married Men Cheat
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- Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
- Have you ever missed an opportunity because you had too much pride? We open up about our experiences with ego, and then we break down why we think some married men cheat. Plus, we reveal whether mama really knows best when it comes to the question of marrying for love or money.
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Do you think you should marry for love or money?
So having both is out of the question or something?? I think not! The correct answer is BOTH!! That part!
I think I should marry for money and 💕
Most definitely for love because money doesn’t equal happiness !!!!
If God bless you with money (TAKE IT) if he bless you with love (TAKE IT) whichever way you end up, turn it up. At the end of the day #Money needs love to spend it wisely & #Love needs money to complete the circle... Periodtt 👌.
YOU may get a better answer from women that married a man that is wealthy and yet that man cheats and shows that wife no love. THEY can tell you if they would rather be loved by their husband or just enjoy the luxury life and having a side dude to make up for what they really want.
garcelle ANSWERING the phone 😂💀
I’m Garcelle, Garecelle is I
😂😂 I love her
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Iconic
that was epic, and she was like "yeah i opened the gate"
Garcelle answering the phone had me crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Adrienne is so right!!! That scene in Diary of a mad Black woman when the husband DRAGGED her out of her house 🤬🤬 ALWAYS MAKE SURE UR NAME IS ON THE LEASE LADIES AND ALWAYS HAVE UR OWN MONEY!!
Lol I thought of the exact same scene the moment she said it
That scene!
No it’s not always good to be on the lease what if you partner dips out on you and you’re left responsible for the payments or they bring another person there
The mint green looks great on Garcelle!
“If you wanna be a leader check your ego at the door..” Cheetah girl reference 😂
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"Dig a little deeper" Come thru reference! Yes!
unless you wanna be President :)
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Oh I thought it was a reference from the show alter ego or something like that lmaooo.🥴😊🤭 I don’t watch the show or anything just saying and asking I guess lmaooo.
I wouldn’t tell my daughter to marry rich but I would tell her to know her worth. To marry someone who is passionate, who works hard and who puts his family first. Marry someone who adores you.
I would tell my daughter to not forget about herself within her role as a mother and a wife. Invest and have your own bank card. Don’t feel like you are trapped in a situation.
Yes! People should marry well, not marry rich. Find someone you love, who is stable emotionally, financially, spiritually, etc. Someone who makes you happy but also works with you through problems and challenges you to be the best version of yourself.
GARCELLE ALWAYS LOOKS SO GOOD WTF
That's because ever since she was small it was installed in her to always look her best .I know this because that's how my raised me .
She looks good ..period
Needs a hairdo...think u need lens
@@internationalwoman9547 totally agreed! Same for me! That's wat happen when u r raised with STRICT parents!!!
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😂😂 I love the realness of this video. Everyone shocked by the phone ringing, Garcelle answering her phone to let the person know the gate has been opened, Adrienne carrying on her point after the discovery of whose phone rang lol
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Garcelle is just too pretty!! 💞💞
U really need glasses... hugely BLIND
Ikr 😊😢
I’m just like Adrienne. I got offered a job I wasn’t even qualified for in the MIDDLE of Covid while people in this country are unemployed. Full time hours. (An upgrade from my current job) and I almost didn’t take it because I was scared to fail at it 😰
Glad you decided to take the job, hope all goes well 💛
@@Prosper927 thank you so much! 💕
@M T33 Congratulations!🥳 You can do it!😊👐
Yes! Grow through your fear✨
Done that as well
I can relate with Adrien with the fear of rejection and embarrassment
Financially stable doesn't have to mean "rich" though
education is more important than being married. not every man is good to his wife, not every man makes enough money to support you, a man could fall ill, disabled and how are you going to live? always be able to support yourself
I love the last part, mainly because I struggle with the fear of embarrassment as well. I’m trying to get over it now that I’m 21. I started a RUclips channel like almost a year ago and it’s not where I would like it to be, but I’m not giving up on my dream, and I encourage anyone who has delayed their dreams to just take a leap of faith☺️❤️ Have a blessed day!✨
Garcelle is giving me mint chocolate chip vibes. 😂
Hmmm???? 🥴😊😏🤭 lmaoooo
hahahahahahqhhq lol
Garcelle’s face when the phone rang 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That’s how you know she was guilty 🥴😊😏 guilty as charged lmaooo 🥴😊👀🤨😮
My parents, especially my dad, has drilled into mine and my sisters heads that we do not need to be in a position where we are solely depending on a man's finances. Even if we aren't working but are married we need to have some of our own money beforehand to fall back on if need be so we aren't trapped in a bad relationship because we think we can't afford to leave.
4:28 the way Garcelle answered the phone was so cute xD
That pink on Jeannie’s skin!!! 😍😍🤗
Garcelle, mama 😍🤗
Garcelle* but yeah😊 I love them both🥰❤️ absolutely my favorites or one of my favorites on the show besides loni I guess that it 😁
Adrienne Thank you for your honesty mija - this spoke to me ... and will definitely change how I approach things!! Not letting fear cost me things
“ it sound like y’all getting personal”
Right then they just cut it off on that part right when it was getting good then they moved right into the next topic lol I love this show specifically these virtural seasons they be so funny😄
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I just love A. She's so vulnerable. Gave me confidence being petite and curvy bc she wears it so well
Garcelle lookin like a snow princess ✨❤️
imagine turning down a movie role because of what your boyfriend/men might think 💀
Pick me
It's called respect/loyalty. Shows a good partner.
Lol I love Garcelle for answering the phone 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Adrienne out here running the show yesss, I love how she always speaks her mind #TeamAdrienne !
I have that fear too Adrienne!! I think I am in a working progress. We will be ok.
Adrienne honestly in this is so helpful and I’m loving her more and more ☺️
Thank you
I mean... I have my own money. But I still want to marry rich. Mostly because I want to have the option of taking time off work or stop working after I have kids. I can't do that if my husband doesn't make enough to provide for the family.
My mom taught me to secure my own bag. Also, she told me to marry someone that matches me. Don’t be unequally yoked.
Thank you Adrienne for reminding us that its okay if we're still working through things. Overcoming fear of rejection is really a process ❤
Jeannie is glowing. And spirit is so bright!!
Adrienne is such a vibe, love love love your personality & energy. It's beautiful.
I can so relate to Adrienne! Self doubt and fear of rejection is the worst ever...
Thank you Adriette for being so open and honest. I love your singing with your husbant & family. Greetings to the cast of my favorite show The Real Daytime , your Sis Collette & your amazing Mother. Big virtual hug from Windhoek, Namibia ❤❤❤
I am like Adrienne. 99 ppl will be behind me and I'm crippled with fear because of 1 person who is against me. 😔
May God help us truly to overcome fear, self doubt and anxiety!!
omg this is me! I’m working on it though 😔
Yeah. I face that too sometimes. What helps me is knowing that each of us has a unique mark on this earth like our own fingerprint. Don't let that one negative person(s) take it away from you. it's you're right. wishing you the best. xoxoxo
I loveddd the phone ringing thing omggg
Makes them seem NORMAL! 😃
Me too lol
Like the time when Adrienne was touching up her lips with her lipstick. They too cute. Lol.
@@sarai373 oooh I loved that so much!
But why her phone ring like that tho🥴🥴 make it seem like its a house phone or something instead of an actual cell phone the ring tone so normal & eveything😂😂😄😄 no that it has to be anything facny or anything lol y'all get it😁 just saying😅🤷🏽♀
Excellent conversation ladies!!!! These are the types of discussions where I hope a lot of women take this discussion to heart.
The fact that I’m even commenting. Y’all. Jeannie is looking snatched and beat for the gods, that’s a great hello hunnay episode, whatcha doing girl? Face tapes, expensive creams, Botox. Who’s doing the make up. Tell us. It’s cool
Why does everyone just assume that the woman is gonna be the broke one?
Oh wow. This episode was SO therapeutic! 😭❤
Cher said it best “i am a rich man” lol
Yay, full segment!
"Sound like y'all two getting personal" 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I need that tea 🍵🤣
@@Curlybatgirl Jeannie had to give her ex alimony even tho he was with someone
Her face before she said it like she’s been meaning to say it since forever 😊🥴😏😂😄😭
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Adrienne, we love you and relate to you!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Garcelle answering the phone was just great
It made a huge difference for me definitely needed this advice
Adrienne I seriously love you so much! Plus we have the same problems, thank you for your honesty and also for saying you still haven't learned the lesson, girl that's hard to admit and it absolutely sucks!
Yep. 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
The Mothers who tell their daughters to marry a rich man (good provider) are speaking from the time when people got married, had children, and wife stayed home to raise their child(ren). It was good advice to avoid financial problems and afford them opportunities.
Thank you for sharing your struggle Adrianne.
Thank you for a this length video!!
I really enjoyed this chat. Need more uplifting talk. I struggle with the same thing Adrienne was talking about
Because of opportunity. That's what they want to do. Sometimes everyone that's together shouldn't be together.
"Pay yo taxes " - Adrienne 🤣🤣🤣
Honestly that statement is true about the ring when I was married men luv to approach me and ask do I need a friend was i happy etc so I think it’s because it’s the thrill of going after something they know they can’t have or shouldn’t have !!!!!
This segment is a mood 😂😂😂
I LOVED this episode! 🥰
Great segment!
Lol I’m cheesin came for A, vibes w J, shade / transparency by L and I haven’t tuned in a while and love the teal g I see this squad is still real in terms of how this conversation goes so smooth and plays off each other 🔥✌🏽💜💜 I used to watch y’all a lot a year or two ago (stopped 9-5 and I know I’m a powerful newly found woman (21) so real real talk didn’t know that no fault the lease all this stuff is really eye opening ❤️‼️) thank u guys
My father cried after he saw an animation story of a man that cheated on his wife.
My dad seriously did not understand how a man could hurt his wife and kids like that.
That is the kind of man you should have, a man that has strong norms and values, respect, and loyalty from his personality.
I love it Lony u are such a great persons
Adrienne houghton you have such a great voice who cares what other people think of you I loved you since you were in 3LW
Mamma Mai has probably told Jeannie to marry a rich man lmao
Jeannie, I'm sorry you feel singled out all the time. I love you sis 🥰
Hello there beautiful young ladies at the real daytime. And happy Wednesday to you aswell 😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
Love you guys!
Adrienne has no clue how great her singing is. She’s better than half the Grammy winning artists out there.. she could be an iconic performer
I remember everyone loving the half of everything divorce rule till more women became breadwinners. That spousal and child support hits different when it’s the ex wife paying the ex husband 😭
Yeah that's true. I used to think those were double standards, but now I see it's just that society still thinks men are the ones at fault for a divorce (because they cheat more often), and also because they actually don't take care of children as much as women do, so now women have to work and still take care of the family, they're usually the primary emotional custodian, so in that sense it doesn't seem fair to pay up half.
Well, in the end of the day women & men are different.. Women shouldn’t be supporting a MAN financially...
@@indigo_blue_s2830 Exactly! Most of the time women are the primary caretakers for children so in addition to that, they have to pay half just because they earn more money? That's not fair at all.
Jeannie's hair is bombbb...her pink top is a nice color too.
Jeannie looks beautiful ♥️♥️
These triple segment video
I always say this and other Married women tell me this, never have a Joint account, both have separate accounts and have your own job.
I'm not checkin for no man. When I do, I am going to be successful on my own. If a man is able to handle me in my highest success I will check for him. Pride and ego are dangerous. But that never stopped me. I had genuine problems that needed fixing.
did she just answer the phone? Jeanie got an attitude real quick 😂
😊😁 she always seems to be getting and having an attitude with little everything tbh👀😁🥴🙄🤨 love her tho😊😁😅
I agree with Adrienne about married men going out to DM other women
Lmaooo Jeannie’s face at 15:14 when Adrienne said I didn’t even have to audition but was just offered the role lmaooo that’s a friend right there😊😭👀🥴 like girl what??? What did you just do??? Lmaooo🥴😭😂😁🤨😒
I’m glad Jeannie outta divorce 😭😭😭
Lol Loni's face when Adrienne told the truth.
I’m just like A I get so scared to share anything like that !! Because of judgement and embarrassment this buisness it cruel
What movie was Adrienne talking about? I’m still completely lost trying to figure this out
Yes Adrienne ur doing great so amazing how we get to hear what u feel u express, what has fear cost me? 👌 yung ready to take “risks” except I move smart already “gettin it”
Man A I have so much love for u!!! U are exactly where u need to be bc I’m here now saying wow💣 divine time stay aligned ✨☮️💜
Although I would’ve grown up on more of ur essence, also keke Palmer was supposed to have her own Disney show not Hannah Montana so wild‼️ it’s not wack it is what it is not raising my babies in front of a screen though I was fine but this is what a time to be alive
Ima take it slow see where it go where we go as humanity
Dont you worry about Egos its a Trip if you stand by unexpectedly😭😒😞😳😂
Come onnnn Adrienne 😩
Congratulations with you wedding Jenni
Nah I’m trying to figure out what movie Adrienne is talking about 🤣
Lol me too! I think it Another Cinderella Story that came out in 2008, which was around the time The Cheetahs were still popping
Can you guys go back to the studio already 😩 miss you guys together
It was Loni's bark for me 😂😂😂😂
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does anyone know what the movie that Adrienne was talking about?
Anyone know which movie Adrienne was talking about??
Jeanie and Adrienne are beautiful as always
That's what I taught my kids. It's the parents responsibility to teach this.
Which Disney movie was Adrienne talking about?
The simplest thing is said and he says “does that make sense”
Yeah Adrienne my name was on the lease also and I’m 10k in debt because he stopped paying the rent when we split
May God bless you
Not Loni with a woof woof 😫😂
Does someone know which movie it was?
Yes ade and my mom taught me to not move in with no one who isn't my husband. Ain't no shacking up lol
On another note, I'm from GA and it's not a no fault state lmao
Pride and ego can be dangerous. What was the name of the movie that launched Selena’s career?