Never thought about it. But will not tolerate other people's opinions trying to change how I would want that day to be. Like, no entourage for dress shopping is an example.
If I'm being honest, if I accept an invitation to a destination wedding, the wedding is the least of my priorities, lol. If I'm going to Paris, I'm *going to Paris* . Wish the happy couple well and be on my way!
My entire family called me crazy only because I've always been one to speak my mind out loud. I still speak out and young at heart and I really don't care who thinks what Now.
I disagree with Adrienne. If you don’t want to accommodate your guests, DON’T INVITE GUESTS! If you don’t want to consider the people that you are inviting to your wedding, have a wedding and just let it be the bride and groom and that’s it! A wedding is an event that YOU ARE HOSTING. The event is to celebrate you but you are also the HOST. What kind of a host throws a gathering and just dismisses the needs and concerns of the guests? Celebrate your day BY YOURSELF if you do not want to consider other people. Placing the burden on the guest to decline the invitation rather than on the host is beyond selfish. That is literally the equivalent of saying “I don’t really care whether you come to my wedding or not,” and if you don’t really care if that person accepts, why are you even inviting them? You are making the guest choose between supporting you without question or risk looking like the worst friend in the world, and risk losing the friendship entirely, if they decline. If you are getting married, you should be a grown, mature adult. Either you care about the people in your life or you don’t. Just tell it like it is! People use their wedding days as an excuse to be selfish and inconsiderate. It’s a shame.
Literally took all the words from my mouth. I don't understand how brides feel like they can make any demands on their guests and if they the guest don't oblige, 'they never liked you or were never your true friend'.I was a bridesmaid once for a destination wedding, but bride also wanted to have a destination bridal shower week before the wedding on another continent. It was SUPER important that it was another continent. The wedding was in Italy but she wanted her bridal shower in Mexico...we all live in London. it made no sense. Her dad was paying for all of her expenses so she didn't care that most of us couldn't afford it. When we all politely explained it was financially impossible, she kept dropping subliminal on instagram about 'fake friends'
Yeah she took that way too personal the woman just said bride and grooms are doing too much these days. When they are the cake, dressing up, and big party is not what a wedding is about it's about committing to someone to God and in front of your family & friends. There is nothing wrong with wanting the material things, but expect people to bend over backs and bot complains just shows how insecure a person really is.
Sometimes I question people that decide to question the validity of a person’s experience or feelings by making remarks like “ oh their crazy “ or “I don’t know why they acting like that “ or “ it’s not that deep “ but to that I say “ what did YOU DO to make them act or feel this way “ what’re you doing that make them go crazy... it’s literally like dealing with a narcissist who thinks they do nothing and make everyone around them the attacker just so they can feel like the victim
That's what we should do! "Were they really crazy, or do you just disagree with the way they responded to a stressful situation?" So many people will gaslight and call people crazy just to make themselves feel validated.
If you KNOW a wedding has a dress code, which you do because it is clearly stated on the invitation, do not wear whatever you want. That is disrespectful.
Another episode of the real daytime show is fantastic viewing and enjoying for me to hear and see from the beginning to the end of the real daytime show end.
It sounds a bit elitist to say “you came across the world for me and so make it about me.”When you spend 5k to fly and stay somewhere for somebody else, you want to at least get something out of it for yourself. But you’re probably spending the days and week leading up to the wedding at wedding-related events and dinners and not getting any time to enjoy a trip you probably won’t get to make again for a long time. It’s selfish to say do this for me and you can’t get any enjoyment out of it for yourself and no time with me (the bride/groom) either. And even worse what A said about doing it on purpose, to make sure people who couldn’t afford it wouldn’t go. Dang, so harsh and elitist. Not cute
I wouldn't be going. If you only have a selected few your going to pay attention to then thats all who needs to be there in not spending my money to sit on the sidelines. I could have took this trip later in life so if I couldnt get a conversation in, I'd be upset too. I just would have concluded that may maybe they not that close of friends after that.
I wouldn't be going. If you only have a selected few your going to pay attention to then thats all who needs to be there in not spending my money to sit on the sidelines. I could have took this trip later in life so if I couldnt get a conversation in, I'd be upset too. I just would have concluded that may maybe they not that close of friends after that.
That’s the perk of having a destination wedding. If I wanted someone who couldnt afford it to attend my wedding, I would’ve paid for their flight and accommodations. Otherwise, I’d just let you be, knowing that you probably couldnt afford it anyway
They did get something out of the wedding. They went to Paris, experienced another country, danced the night away, ate bomb food, made memories, took photos, etc. You cannot expect to "hang out" with someone at their wedding. They have quite a few people to greet and thank.
I think that the ladies missed the point about wedding guests. Some couples are unbelievably rude and inconsiderate of their guests. I’ve been to two weddings that started 2-3 hours late and the guests were waiting in a hot church. That’s not ok. A bride should never let go of her vision for her big day but she should also be mindful of the potential inconvenience on her guests to match that vision. For example, I would love to have a formal wedding with a black tie dress code. However most people don’t have formal wear in their closet so they’ll have to go out and buy something. I would hate for someone to have to spend additional money on my wedding and I would hate it even more if someone decided not to attend simply because they couldn’t afford a new outfit. I’m not going to let go of my formal wedding dream but I’ll try to find a solution that won’t be a burden on my guests.
Yes Adrienne was too sensitive about the topic yes it's your special day, but it a day the most people have and will experience, we have made wedding this big thing, but most important thing is committing to someone with God and your love ones being treated like a princess or prince is not necessary.
I immediately thought of Gucci and Keyshia's wedding. I do not understand an all-white dress code. I want to be the only person in white at my wedding.
When it comes to weddings, I do think the "perfect day" idea is getting extreme. I recently heard one bride straight up said that if people didn't try to adhere to formal, black-tie attire at her wedding, they didn't love and respect her.
If you're boyfriend cheats on you and you hit him or start breaking his things or start coming behind him nagging and shouting at him then you're definitely an insecure crazy person. If something like that happens you need to break up with him and move on with your life. Then he'll look like the crazy person for cheating on you.
With situations like that, I imagine that Carrie Underwood song about smashing his headlights and slashing his tires. "Maybe next time, he'll think before he cheats."? Maybe next time, you shouldn't act like a psycho
I notice a lot of men despite a wedding day being both the groom & the brides day..the men usually take a step back because it’s in all eyes fr fr the woman’s big day because she’s being “sent off” to be with the man she is vowing to spend the rest of her life with... so women are usually seen as the ones who are stressing themselves out over the big day and making big demands... so this is interesting to me that a groom is making interesting requests
Dont invite me to something and then ignore me. Especially if I have to spend money. If your going to pay attention to selected few when EVERYBODY has went out of their way is not cool. It should have been a intimate small wedding if you feel like paying attention to your favorite people. But personally I'm not spending, money to be ignored,for nothing and it you cant understand that I wish you well.
The wedding segment... if my invite says dress a certain way then you dress that way or stay home. Also, at most weddings you don't get a ton of time with the bride and groom... that's just unrealistic
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If there are people in your life you wouldn't want to be in your wedding then they shouldn't be in your life anyways. You don't need to fly to Paris to avoid them lol
I understand how someone who spent money to fly to your wedding would feel some type of way if they didn't really get to see you. Shoot I feel that way if I'm just going to someone's party and can't imagine flying to another country. especially if you value quality time. That person should have also set a reasonable expectation.
Adrienne took that way too personal she didn't say she didn't support the marriage she just said bride & grooms are expecting too much these days. Which we are how is you committing to someone mean you get to play prince & princess for a day? I don't agree with the tie thing. The guess knew months in advance that's what they wanted that not asking too much, but their are people that expect the wedding party to give a lot of their time & money knowing their friends or family struggle in that area and are upset when they say they can't do that. Especially with the guest thing they are suppose to be witnesses to your union WE just turned it into this big thing. I think Ade was trying to justify her Paris wedding. It's okay that she got married in Paris, but It's not okay that she trying to guilt people into feelings bad so she doesn't have to.
Adrienne is just like Megan from The View. She always talks over her co-hosts and makes every thing about her and her husband. She really needs to STOP!!
Adrienne did speak a lot in this segment but the fact that many of you used that to attack her personality is ridiculous. Be annoyed at what she does wrong, don't come a spew hate about this woman's whole life/personality
This Jessica person need to have several seats, first of people are allowed have dress codes at their wedding, secondly she ain’t paying for the wedding, thirdly she sound so bitter, she seems to me like an hater😂, Jessica have several seats.
Will you have certain requirements at your wedding?
Give your point but consider others. Know when to pause and allow others on the panel to give their opinion
Never thought about it. But will not tolerate other people's opinions trying to change how I would want that day to be. Like, no entourage for dress shopping is an example.
@@ajemroberts3903 What wedding you talking about? lol
Don't post the couple on social media!
I didn’t my only requirement was to be on time lol😂😂!!!!
Omgi knew lonnie was going to complain about working at Adriennes wedding😂😂😂 she will never let it go
If I'm being honest, if I accept an invitation to a destination wedding, the wedding is the least of my priorities, lol. If I'm going to Paris, I'm *going to Paris* . Wish the happy couple well and be on my way!
Finally some sense!!! 🤣👏🏻
It feels like Adrienne took her speech time and Jeannie’s ! 😂😂😂 That’s a LOT
All the yelling and ranting...they need a moderator...
@@helenmayberry6010 Isn't Loni supposed to be the moderator?
@@ceterisparibus8966It looks like Loni checked out as a moderator.
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Well if she is she's not doing a good job ...all the cross talk and yelling
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Exactly
Look at Garcelle, for God’s sake. She’s a goddess. What a beautiful woman!
Stunning...no work done, she looks the same as she did on the Jamie Foxx show
I really like that Loni gives facts and statistics. It's something for sure that has kept me on this show from the beginning.
Bruh, we all hope to get married ONCE. Let the bride and groom have their perfect day.
My entire family called me crazy only because I've always been one to speak my mind out loud. I still speak out and young at heart and I really don't care who thinks what Now.
I disagree with Adrienne. If you don’t want to accommodate your guests, DON’T INVITE GUESTS! If you don’t want to consider the people that you are inviting to your wedding, have a wedding and just let it be the bride and groom and that’s it! A wedding is an event that YOU ARE HOSTING. The event is to celebrate you but you are also the HOST. What kind of a host throws a gathering and just dismisses the needs and concerns of the guests? Celebrate your day BY YOURSELF if you do not want to consider other people. Placing the burden on the guest to decline the invitation rather than on the host is beyond selfish. That is literally the equivalent of saying “I don’t really care whether you come to my wedding or not,” and if you don’t really care if that person accepts, why are you even inviting them? You are making the guest choose between supporting you without question or risk looking like the worst friend in the world, and risk losing the friendship entirely, if they decline. If you are getting married, you should be a grown, mature adult. Either you care about the people in your life or you don’t. Just tell it like it is! People use their wedding days as an excuse to be selfish and inconsiderate. It’s a shame.
Literally took all the words from my mouth. I don't understand how brides feel like they can make any demands on their guests and if they the guest don't oblige, 'they never liked you or were never your true friend'.I was a bridesmaid once for a destination wedding, but bride also wanted to have a destination bridal shower week before the wedding on another continent. It was SUPER important that it was another continent. The wedding was in Italy but she wanted her bridal shower in Mexico...we all live in London. it made no sense. Her dad was paying for all of her expenses so she didn't care that most of us couldn't afford it. When we all politely explained it was financially impossible, she kept dropping subliminal on instagram about 'fake friends'
ADRIENNE SHUTTTTTTTT UPPPPPPP
Yeah she took that way too personal the woman just said bride and grooms are doing too much these days. When they are the cake, dressing up, and big party is not what a wedding is about it's about committing to someone to God and in front of your family & friends. There is nothing wrong with wanting the material things, but expect people to bend over backs and bot complains just shows how insecure a person really is.
Garcelle couldn't get her point in a second time during the entire time.
Adriene need to let the other women speak. It has become a bad habit.
Yeah I've noticed
Not a habit it’s every show!
@@chiliebeeniemcdonald7306
Exactly...I would love to hear more from Garcelle...she shows compassion and empathy...not always "PREACHING"!!
@@chiliebeeniemcdonald7306
Exactly If I watch I turn the volume down
This is one of Garcelle's best hairstyles!
Loni looks so pretty omg 😍
Sometimes I question people that decide to question the validity of a person’s experience or feelings by making remarks like “ oh their crazy “ or “I don’t know why they acting like that “ or “ it’s not that deep “ but to that I say “ what did YOU DO to make them act or feel this way “ what’re you doing that make them go crazy... it’s literally like dealing with a narcissist who thinks they do nothing and make everyone around them the attacker just so they can feel like the victim
That's what we should do! "Were they really crazy, or do you just disagree with the way they responded to a stressful situation?" So many people will gaslight and call people crazy just to make themselves feel validated.
I absolutely love this hairstyle on Garcelle.
Say it Garcelle about that wedding!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
If you KNOW a wedding has a dress code, which you do because it is clearly stated on the invitation, do not wear whatever you want. That is disrespectful.
Where is Jeannie?!?!?
Preach Gercele! They’re not paying for the meal or drinks and free music so why they complaining for
Another episode of the real daytime show is fantastic viewing and enjoying for me to hear and see from the beginning to the end of the real daytime show end.
Adrienne seriously, I was reading the comments and ignoring them at first but girrrrrrrl you really took over this one 😂😂🤦♀️🤦♀️
It sounds a bit elitist to say “you came across the world for me and so make it about me.”When you spend 5k to fly and stay somewhere for somebody else, you want to at least get something out of it for yourself. But you’re probably spending the days and week leading up to the wedding at wedding-related events and dinners and not getting any time to enjoy a trip you probably won’t get to make again for a long time. It’s selfish to say do this for me and you can’t get any enjoyment out of it for yourself and no time with me (the bride/groom) either. And even worse what A said about doing it on purpose, to make sure people who couldn’t afford it wouldn’t go. Dang, so harsh and elitist. Not cute
I wouldn't be going. If you only have a selected few your going to pay attention to then thats all who needs to be there in not spending my money to sit on the sidelines. I could have took this trip later in life so if I couldnt get a conversation in, I'd be upset too. I just would have concluded that may maybe they not that close of friends after that.
I wouldn't be going. If you only have a selected few your going to pay attention to then thats all who needs to be there in not spending my money to sit on the sidelines. I could have took this trip later in life so if I couldnt get a conversation in, I'd be upset too. I just would have concluded that may maybe they not that close of friends after that.
That’s the perk of having a destination wedding. If I wanted someone who couldnt afford it to attend my wedding, I would’ve paid for their flight and accommodations. Otherwise, I’d just let you be, knowing that you probably couldnt afford it anyway
@@marioher4978 totally, but it’s pretty tacky to say it on tv and hurt everyone in that position
They did get something out of the wedding. They went to Paris, experienced another country, danced the night away, ate bomb food, made memories, took photos, etc. You cannot expect to "hang out" with someone at their wedding. They have quite a few people to greet and thank.
I agree with Adrienne
The "wreck center"! 🤣
I think that the ladies missed the point about wedding guests. Some couples are unbelievably rude and inconsiderate of their guests. I’ve been to two weddings that started 2-3 hours late and the guests were waiting in a hot church. That’s not ok. A bride should never let go of her vision for her big day but she should also be mindful of the potential inconvenience on her guests to match that vision. For example, I would love to have a formal wedding with a black tie dress code. However most people don’t have formal wear in their closet so they’ll have to go out and buy something. I would hate for someone to have to spend additional money on my wedding and I would hate it even more if someone decided not to attend simply because they couldn’t afford a new outfit. I’m not going to let go of my formal wedding dream but I’ll try to find a solution that won’t be a burden on my guests.
Yes Adrienne was too sensitive about the topic yes it's your special day, but it a day the most people have and will experience, we have made wedding this big thing, but most important thing is committing to someone with God and your love ones being treated like a princess or prince is not necessary.
I immediately thought of Gucci and Keyshia's wedding. I do not understand an all-white dress code. I want to be the only person in white at my wedding.
Honestly the ceremony is for the bride and groom when I got married it was a small wedding and really no rules other than be on time !!!!!
The crazy topic was already talked about
Jeannie is getting married
When it comes to weddings, I do think the "perfect day" idea is getting extreme. I recently heard one bride straight up said that if people didn't try to adhere to formal, black-tie attire at her wedding, they didn't love and respect her.
Adrienne has the habit of taking over ,you talk to much , Garcell didn't even really say anything
Why this repeat of "crazy women" segment.
What happened to Jeannie??
If you're boyfriend cheats on you and you hit him or start breaking his things or start coming behind him nagging and shouting at him then you're definitely an insecure crazy person. If something like that happens you need to break up with him and move on with your life. Then he'll look like the crazy person for cheating on you.
With situations like that, I imagine that Carrie Underwood song about smashing his headlights and slashing his tires. "Maybe next time, he'll think before he cheats."? Maybe next time, you shouldn't act like a psycho
Adrienne has always been one of my faves, but I can’t with her sometimes. She was about to say women are crazy until she heard Loni say something lol.
It's called projecting not reverse psychology.
Thank you!! It was bothering me lol. I thought it was gaslighting but that’s not it. It was projecting 🙌🏽
@@gettintipsy101 lol I'm glad my comment helped you I wasn't gonna comment at first
☺️🙌🏽 please comment away
@@gettintipsy101 I will I promise. Lol
please please Adrienne let other people speak 🙄
Dumb Duncey Adrienne like to hear herself talk , plus she still trying to show the Kardashians that she is revelant.
I notice a lot of men despite a wedding day being both the groom & the brides day..the men usually take a step back because it’s in all eyes fr fr the woman’s big day because she’s being “sent off” to be with the man she is vowing to spend the rest of her life with... so women are usually seen as the ones who are stressing themselves out over the big day and making big demands... so this is interesting to me that a groom is making interesting requests
Why is she being "sent off"?
Dont invite me to something and then ignore me. Especially if I have to spend money. If your going to pay attention to selected few when EVERYBODY has went out of their way is not cool. It should have been a intimate small wedding if you feel like paying attention to your favorite people. But personally I'm not spending, money to be ignored,for nothing and it you cant understand that I wish you well.
The wedding segment... if my invite says dress a certain way then you dress that way or stay home.
Also, at most weddings you don't get a ton of time with the bride and groom... that's just unrealistic
Jeannie basically took a spring break 😂😂😂
Adrienne talks alot these days. Don't interfere when others speak, its baad.
Hey I'm a big fan
Garcelle's Look is 🔥🔥🔥 she's so beautiful
Hmm Adrienne says a lot of bitter things, and pretends to say it nicely when she gets called out... I wonder how good of a friend she really is 😐
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Let them know Loni!!!
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If it wasnt about them, why ask them to come at all? There should be a balance.
If there are people in your life you wouldn't want to be in your wedding then they shouldn't be in your life anyways. You don't need to fly to Paris to avoid them lol
I think they are right about being crazy and then there really are some crazy females
I understand how someone who spent money to fly to your wedding would feel some type of way if they didn't really get to see you. Shoot I feel that way if I'm just going to someone's party and can't imagine flying to another country. especially if you value quality time. That person should have also set a reasonable expectation.
Adrienne took that way too personal she didn't say she didn't support the marriage she just said bride & grooms are expecting too much these days. Which we are how is you committing to someone mean you get to play prince
& princess for a day? I don't agree with the tie thing. The guess knew months in advance that's what they wanted that not asking too much, but their are people that expect the wedding party to give a lot of their time & money knowing their friends or family struggle in that area and are upset when they say they can't do that. Especially with the guest thing they are suppose to be witnesses to your union WE just turned it into this big thing. I think Ade was trying to justify her Paris wedding. It's okay that she got married in Paris, but It's not okay that she trying to guilt people into feelings bad so she doesn't have to.
Where is Jeannie???
Where is Jeannie Mai?
I wanted to be at Adrienne and Israel’s wedding.
Yes loni but men don’t even go to the doctor so you can’t use women getting diagnosed as an argument
Adrienne is just like Megan from The View. She always talks over her co-hosts and makes every thing about her and her husband. She really needs to STOP!!
Where’s Jeannie??
Love the show. But you ladies have got to learn to stop talking over each other especially if you want your audience to follow and hear you.
Adrienne n Loni were very annoying on this segment
Why Adrienne be talking over everyone so much? Her stream lagging? Or she just wanna talk no matter who speaking or what the topic is?
Adrienne did speak a lot in this segment but the fact that many of you used that to attack her personality is ridiculous. Be annoyed at what she does wrong, don't come a spew hate about this woman's whole life/personality
I like when Jeanie isn’t there..
Its
This Jessica person need to have several seats, first of people are allowed have dress codes at their wedding, secondly she ain’t paying for the wedding, thirdly she sound so bitter, she seems to me like an hater😂, Jessica have several seats.
Calling someone crazy is dismissive, ignorant, and lazy. Do some research about mental health. Educate yourself.