WEB EXCLUSIVE: Letting a Relationship Change YOU
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- Опубликовано: 28 июл 2019
- Girl, we ain’t done chattin’ yet. We're giving you another web exclusive Girl Chat! Let us know below... Do you think it's a bad thing to lose a little bit of yourself in a relationship?
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Jeannie shading Freddie’s trump supporting family 😂
😎SHE'S KEEPING IT REAL!!
As opposed to the clownish Dems? Lmao
Stephanie Arteaga lol! ❤️
Alex James women have more degrees then men in the us lol
Jae Yoon Bae I was just going to comment that😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I LOVE THIS TOPIC! A Relationship should change you...but for the better. It should challenge you to grow, to trust and to be vulnerable. THANKS FOR SHARING!!!
I totally agree with you!
💯
Justine Mfulama amen
Justine Mfulama amen!
Hey there! Where are you from?
I have a passion of travel. My ex and I were in such a toxic relationship I didn’t even drive more than 10 mins from my house. Now me and my current boyfriend and I have traveled to 5 countries in about 6 months, he taught me to swim, had a road trip of 8 hours and I drove. So you can change for the better with the right person ;))
Wow 😍😍that's awesome...I Am also passionate about travel
Cravethiscraving Crave thank you:) I’m so glad you’re out!! Family is soooo important ❤️ wish you the best now ☺️
Good for you, girl!
@Cravethiscraving Crave girl same thank God we are free now. Nothing like freedom and peace
Wonderful! How did u meet him and how much time between the relationship before.you gave it another shot?
That's wondeful girl, u guys are equally yoked!
Loni looks like a beautiful black queen...Man, she is gorgeous amd glowing
Wow Adrienne really is preaching in this clip.. glad to see how much she’s grown up❤️
Yes!!
I remember in the first seasons when Loni said short hair doesnt suit her but look at her now!!!! She looks amazing with short hair 🙌🙌🙌
yesss real pretty on her
It's so fresh and youthful 😍😍😍
I think it makes her face too round
No that type of short hair ..it was so damn short!
If i recall it correctly i think it was mixed with purple or blue it was awaful
Positive influence in any relationship is a great thing. Suppressing yourself is not...
I love the way Loni listens to the other ladies and let's them express herself before she does and she is looking good!!!😍😍
I agree! She looks so good!
bet! was just thinking the same!
Yes! And Loni is very pretty
Yes! I love that hair on her and her skin is glowing
Thank you Jeannie for being real and giving us your story. A lot of us have changed in a relationship. It’s the awareness and commitment not to let it happen again! #knowWHOYOUare
Noelle Leslie yeah like Freddie felt proud to watch Jeannie always crushing on African American Rappers while they were married
Kenneth Rodgers wtf does having innocent crushes have to do with knowing who you are...
Myronn Coleman shush
@@kennyray4458 😎
YOU SOUND DUMBER THEN DUMB 😝LOL😝BYE
Myronn Coleman lol it’s so obvious people that are very insecure couldn’t handle a woman like Jeanie. They really be tellin on themselves in the comment section 😂
Am I the only one that has never been in a relationship? I'm 25 by the way lol.
It's fine girl. Me neither and I'm 23
Me neither! And I’m 26... 🤗
Me either sis I’m 21
I didn’t have my first bf until I was 24. I’m 24 lol
20 and same lol
A relationship should compliment you.
"When you’re loved properly, you become the best version of yourself" - That doesn't necessarily mean that you need a relationship to become the best version of yourself. You can become the best version of yourself by yourself too.
Very true! Being loved properly includes you loving yourself properly and becoming the best version of yourself
It doesn’t have to be a relationship or a significant other.... for me it was a close friend who’s opinions I valued.
For me its my gran
Its hard having to divorce a member of your family but I can't take someone picking at my Soul anymore. I'm tired
Hmmm interesting
I agree with Adrienne when you meet the right person who loves you for who you are will not influence you to change from who you are.
"when you are loved properly, you become the best version of yourself" 👍🏼😊😌
I want to change for the better in my relationship, not for the worse.
It's sad but it does happen! We need to be aware of our behaviour so we won't lose ourselves when we're in love.
I feel like this is exactly why knowing who you are and practicing self-love is SO important prior to getting in any relationship. If you don't know who you are and what you deserve you can quickly fall into relationships that dim your light. A relationship should (as Adrienne said) bring out the best things about YOU.
This made me think of Adrienne’s engagement to Lenny. She wasn’t herself at all. Glad she’s found her happiness.
"When you're loved properly, you become the best version of yourself." Thank you Adrienne!
it’s crazy cause this what the table finna look like this september 😂😭
They gotta new cohost apparently 😭
That is true... I'm dating a Nigerian guy and he loves me and it makes me look at myself and be proud of the woman I am
We Nigerians are such sweet suckers for love🤗
Listening to this really makes me think a lot about the relationship I'm in.
iGotBulletproofSunshine thank u, next !! Do you know the song lover by Taylor Swift? If your love doesn’t feel like that then leave it alone
Sometimes, when you’re in the right relationship with the right person then your change can be for the best. Some relationships teach lessons that hold a mirror to you and show you the ugly that’s in you. Then the change is for the best.
A relationship should definitely add to your self worth and encourage you to be a better version of yourself. 💖
I'm glad I did change for the better. My husband helped me so much in areas no one else would have. Same for him. We thank each other for that all the time.
Here’s comes Jeannie with THE TRUTH... she is so real
'Don't start doing drugs with him" Good point!
Adrienne out here preaching and stating straight up FACTS! Romance and love is totally her expertise. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
home girl gave me goosebumps with her quotable responses.
Anybody else love Loni's smile??
I love it she looks so radiant and happy!
I love her smile, yes.
My entire life the #1 attraction I had/have to men is their intelligence. I find intelligence super sexy. For me, I like learning from the man I am with. Whether it is his world vision, spirituality or something technical. One ex was into computers and taught me HTML coding. Another that was into P.R. taught me public speaking. Just as I want to learn from my guy, likewise I want to teach him something new as well.
I agree
I feel like if youre losing a bit of yourself subconsciously instead of gaining a partner that will keep you up to what they know you can be and want you to be... then there’s something wrong
I'm super glad Jeannie left that marriage. She wasn't happy and she was losing herself. She is spot on about letting her old relationship change her... In her hello hunnay video where she re-decorates, I could see there was such a heavy Freddy style influence and vibes; she tried to please him and make him more comfortable in her world to the expense of herself. I'm excited about her growth, falling in love with herself, thriving and taking the time to be alone to heal and get to know herself and her inner voice again. It is an inspirational journey and growth.
Awww, when Adrienne was complimenting Loni, the look in her eyes was so cute
Loni seems so happy and peaceful. I love it!
I want to hear what tamera would’ve said
where is she??
Same :(
Where is Tamara.
Missing her.
Girl chat is incomplete without her.
My last relationship turned me into a jealous, insecure hoochie. And imma keep that 100%.
What impressed me with the influence Is had on Adrienne is that not only was she happier in general, but she finally started singing again and making music! She has a great voice and thanks to Israel for encouraging and believing in her 💞💞
A good relationship can bring out the best in you and a bad one can bring out the worst
Ad is dropping those wisdom nuggets! Loni is beautiful! Jeannie coming through with the deep life experiences and lessons. Love these ladies!
This is a GREAT TOPIC!!! Turning 30, 2 years into marriage with culture differences..away from original family job changes .. i NEEDED to hear this!!!!! Thank you so much 🥺😊🙌🏾
My current relationship made me a better women however i really lost my self in my previous relationship my ex made me feel like i had to look,talk and act a certain way in order to be with him and that messed up my self esteem
مريم احمد was he muslim
jagir probably tbh
My God Jeannie and Freddie really weren't compatible! Its really nobody's fault. It's scary to think that you can fall in love with a good but it still doesn't mean he's the man for you. I'm sure both of them are great people but they were too different. We used to joke about it years ago. But the shift was real. Look at Jeannie now she's thriving so much. I'm sure Freddie is thriving too....
Loni is beautiful...a person will always change you,but you have to make sure it's on a good way,and don't loose yourself
Good topic. You never want to lose the real essence of what makes you you. Thanks ladies.
When you’re loved properly, you become the best version of yourself 💯❗️
What about when you’ve been in a relationship with someone since a teenager and you don’t “change” because you never really got a chance to grow into yourself? Does that make sense? I’m not sure if I said that right lol
Being Tasha I feel like I’m that respect that’s where it would be beneficial to spend quality time with friends and family without your partner so you can find your individuality without feeling like you have to leave the relationship. Just my opinion though xx
Right.honestly that's why I don't agree with like deep romantic relationships for teens and early adulthood cause that's when everything changes the most and you both need That time to be free to grow as an individual. If anything, friendships that are no pressure is the most i agree with. No one needs a boyfriend at a young age. Just be friends and life might bring you together when it's the right time...OR youd be surprised to see who that person and who YOU become while apart and realize you're a lot different
Tay Dumal or just her spending some time with herself apart from her partner too because sometimes you can’t see yourself if you are getting influenced by your friends and family as well. Time alone and learning to love that alone time with yourself can be very beneficial.
I agree with loni. My bf helped me understand more where he’s coming from. So I’ve noticed he’s changed me for the better. And we communicate way more.
Eh. Single life is a gift😁
Preach
Not for me. I don't havr fun being single. Maybe I want it so much because I've never been in a relationship ?
Facts.
God didn't create humans to be alone... I love, LOVE... me and my life partner love being together. we dont always agree but we disagree and not disrespect. he tells me Im beautiful even when I know he lying lol.. I hope you find healthy love.. having someone to be tgere for you 100% is amazing.. being single is good, staying single isnt healthy . blessings
Hell yeah! Some of us get annoyed with people easily and prefer veing alone but people who want relationships and dont like being alone dont understand. When i dont want to be alone, i have a lot of people to talk to so its no biggie
Omg. Absolutely love everything about Adrienne's look today 😍😍
I didn’t think Adrienne was big like she always said she was but now seeing her here compared to her current self she really did that!
you girls are glowing... am always in love with Adrienne outfits... preach it A... love you
Change for the BETTER, then YES!!! If it is getting worst, then he/she are not the one!
Loni looks so young with short hair i love it
y'all dropped some GEMS , love this!
Loni lookin so fineeee yaassss girl!! Love that hair color and her makeup’s on POINT. Swear she’s glowing♥️♥️🙌🏽
Yaaas love this girl chat session so true y’all !!😍😍
Thing is I'm very conscientious about myself, and when I learn about other people's upbringings it's up to me to choose to adopt their ways if it appeals to me. I'm stubborn, I never allow myself to sacrifice or compromise myself for someone else, and if you can't respect what brings me fulfillment then you may leave.
Y’all always giving great advice ❤️
Adrienne PREACHING today! 👏🏾👏🏾
Adrienne talks a damn lot but sometimes she be coming out with some wisdom🙌🏾🙌🏾
If its positive change be grateful and move on
If you're changing yourself then it was not part of you anyway. We all go through changes in life and some of our behaviors or way of thinking is changes as we evolve. There's nothin wrong with changing or adapting to your new environment.
Good advice given. I hope the right people were listening.
First off, LONI you look good! Like yasss the eyelashes hair color make up like everything is bomb!
I want a younger hairstyle on Jeannie. I feel the eyeshadow was a bit lazy and the shirt is not it at all. I want to see a bold lip like red and straight hair maybe cut with some color.
Adrienne, you look bomb per usual.
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Jacob Hernandez i mean i like it but its not as fabolous as she usually is
Jacob Hernandez idk its just plain no real effort. Shes beein rocking the wavy dated hairstyle for a while now
I needed to hear this 💜 Thanks ladies
I agree and this advice about compatibility also apply for friendships.
Yes, change is good when you're with someone who had your same mental as far as same types of goals, etc
Are you kidding me RIGHT BEFORE watching this I had a conversation w my mom about a similar concern I’m having in my relationship and you guys were just the big sisters/friends I don’t have have giving me your input 😭😭
This was a great conversation. It felt like a good church service. Short and sweet.
Compatibility is sooo important! Yess Loni!
Oh wow, Loni is looking so good. She's glowing and I love that she's happy. I love that all these beautiful ladies are at a happy place in their lives....😘😘😘
"The crack" lmao Adrienne wtf
I lived for my husband and kids for 21 years. Now that we’re separated I see how that messed up my own self. It’s so hard to find my essence again.
Try being the best version of your present self, don't look back. Finding yourself can be one of the hardest things to do! Best of luck!
Loni’s makeup is Finally on point !!!!
Adrienn always has good points ....love thar
This speaks to my soul.... It makes me so sad Because I dont have that. After 10 years Ive grown so much and we're not compatible anymore
I like when a relationship is good enough or bad enough to change me in ways that are good and useful and even needed.
Ugh I definitely know what Jeannie is talking about. Yes girl you do you don't ever let anyone or a man dull your shine.
Your each and every word is influencing girls you are awesome ❤️❤️❤️💗💗💗
the pastel pink look was really working for Adrienne , all the ladies look so beautiful!
This also applies to friendships. Surround yourself with people who motivate you and that encourage you to be your best authentic self. Protect your energy and soul. And of course, don’t forget to be your own best friend.
I agree with Adrienne 100%!!!!!!!
Dude, these ladies are truly the big sisters every girl needs man.
What a wholesome video this honestly just brightened my day
Lonis consistency should be applauded... She is always in the house
Such a good topic!! So important!
lmao there is low key shade thrown at her cheating ex and I'm all here for it XD YESSS
these girls are so gorgeous and the best. i love you ppl!
Great topic and u ladies let one another speak bravo love you !
Wow Jeannie had a great point!
Lord Jesus I needed this video! ❤
This made me feel better
Loni has a natural glow. So pretty😍
If it’s a good change I don’t see it to be bad.. sometimes there’s things in us that should be changed and the right person comes and it naturally changes.
Loni looks BEAUTIFUL... I love her hair, makeup, and dress, u betta werk! 💯
That right it’s wouldn’t change your Personality , it’s change what you leaning, hear it help a lot even with Positive I was same I just wanted be home till I move out with my love in Ca so I told him I’ll only go out on weekends that it so every Saturday we go shopping, going to park and more now I’m like ok can we go to park lol
I definitely noticed Jeannie being more her authentic-self after the divorce!
It’s not about changing yourself. It’s about growing with your partner and with the relationship, and self-development.
Loni your makeup looks amazinggg!