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Love won't have you confused. It isn't worth it. If she's saying she likes you but doesn't want a relationship, it's probably because you're not her ideal type in terms of looks, if it's not any of the other things that Jessica said.
The best thing you can do is respectfully tell her that you don’t want to keep talking to her just to be friends. You don’t slam the door in her face, but you also don’t make it very clear that she’s gonna have a chance in the future. This will leave her analyzing if she made the right decision, and she’ll eventually come back if she truly liked you. Even with ex’s that broke up with me, this level of uncertainty, and your assertiveness in you being unavailable to them for anything less than a relationship, makes them crave you more. A woman only respects a man who’s willing to walk away. That shows that you have value and other options, which is attractive. No pick me behavior will ever be desirable. Show her your worth, and if she’s lucky, you’ll give her a second chance when she realizes she fucked up! Sometimes that goes south too, and in that case, you close that chapter for good.
just gave this reply to someone earlier, so was I Walk away I just did exactly what Jessica said.she read my message , but trust me like you or not you will be in her mind, but don't let her be in yours,, as long as your energy is pulling on someone you cannot have, they will feed off it knelt or not ... when you bring your energy to the here and now, and look forwards then they will feel you unplug and that high energy drain away,... she will feel it go then you allow new energy to enter. Most girls will come stalking and curious to know if your still are into them, the very fact they are getting attention is enough, regardless of weather she wanted to date you. from here she will try small tests to get your attention, bearing in mind if she had any interest at all in the first place, so send a last message don't say you wont message or call again, just disappear and you have to mean it and action that will, then you will one see how much she was into you, or two it also allows you to let go so its a win win . Never invest in anyone who isn't willing to give you the same, women are not attracted to easy they like mystery. if not that person is not meant to be in your story.
1.she is not attracted to you, sexually 2.fearing to be heart broken again 3.have nice conversation.bring her mind to uh 4.dont be too serious to her.we need to talk stop this. 5.tell her actually how uh feel,don't beg 6.tell her wat uh want ,let her know like her 7.listen to her carefully. 8.focus on ur self.stsrt working on ur goals. 9 give her time to think
I hear what you saying Jessica O But Like My Mom told me When You show a woman your interested and she doesn't show you the same interest in return she's not interested. I'm not playing these guessing games with someone that doesn't show interest I Dismiss myself quick. There's no need to talk or even continue even a platonic relationship period. God Told me to Find The Woman not chase her period I'm The Prize not The Woman. When a person shows you with their actions they not interested, Lose Interest and move on ! 💯 O.G. Florida 🌴
Extremely good insight as always from Jess. But as always don't Simp for any woman. Move on and start working on yourself. You'll be alright without her and probably any women. Don't be afraid to live your life alone.
Competition among men for her is fierce without them necessarily knowing. So she treats her lower options like that, confuses but not rejecting them so they stay around if her higher options fail. Validating her too, increase her self esteem and libido so she goes to the next guy full of confidence. On the other hand she is pretty clear with her higher options, she could directly tell him how much she likes him, she wanna live with him, wanna move in his place, wanna see him tonight in her place. While she treats her lower options like a school girl 😉 that lower options act like a free psychologist and free psychology booster 😉😜
Walk away I just did exactly what Jessica said.she read my message , but trust me like you or not you will be in her mind, but don't let her be in yours,, as long as your energy is pulling on someone you cannot have, they will feed off it knelt or not ... when you bring your energy to the here and now, and look forwards then they will feel you unplug and that high energy drain away,... she will feel it go then you allow new energy to enter. Most girls will come stalking and curious to know if your still are into them, the very fact they are getting attention is enough, regardless of weather she wanted to date you. from here she will try small tests to get your attention, bearing in mind if she had any interest at all in the first place, so send a last message don't say you wont message or call again, just disappear and you have to mean it and action that will, then you will one see how much she was into you, or two it also allows you to let go so its a win win . Never invest in anyone who isn't willing to give you the same, women are not attracted to easy they like mystery. if not that person is not meant to be in your story.
Sometimes you have a natural chemistry with someone, but they don't meet your standards for a relationship. This happens to both men and women, it's just part of dating. Don't chase after someone who has to be "convinced" that you're up to snuff
wow....this for real changed my life. I have been in this weird on and off cycle for 10 years where she would say I don't think I want a committed relationship while still telling me that she loves me and wants to "end up" with me. This was helpful. Thank you sis.
I swear sometimes i think Jessica knows what is going on in my love life lol. Just met this that i really like a lot but she's not ready yet for a relationship. It bothers me because i can't figure out what is going on with her. As always Jessica you are right in the money! Thanks for all your advice queen 👑
My ex who dumped me a while back, still likes me although she doesnt wanna get back with me. So i felt like "she's not attracted to u" made sense. For the most part, I strongly feel like ive grown pass all the other tips i just heard. Nonetheless, i think this was a good video. My fav tip was probably the last one she shared: focus on your self. Or just give it time if u have time. If u dont, then keep it moving bc there's plenty of fish in the sea.
I have a friend in the same situation. They even kissed but she says she's not ready to fall in love. Now my guy is confused as to whether to commit or not 'cos he seriously don't want to get hurt and I'm not ready to be a comforter in that regard.
Guys, if a girl ever shows u that she's not interested, be respectful to both of u and her n let it be, try another girl. U'll find urself a woman who'll be ready for a serious relationship.
I was this close with the lady but after proposing she told me she has nothing to do with relationship with me. So we should maintain the friends zone and nothing more because she isn't interested.
She says she likes me as friends, but gets jealous of other women around me. And wanna spend time with me, but shies away from intimacy. I said I wanna stop taking this bs
A many of women have told me that she "don't want no man"; but they want to shed some "crocodile tears"-I still have feelings 'bout certain ladies, though I don't jump in bed with just any woman: I'm celibate almost 10 years & scared of most of these ladies!!
Thank goodness that I am happily divorced and do not want to be in a relationship, I am content just being a single female and travel alone and do things by myself. Relationships can be a nightmare if one isn't lucky. Life is short and try to be happy by yourself.
You’re her plan B, she doesn’t want you, but just Incase her plan A doesn’t work out, you have to be available FOR HER that’s why she doesn’t want to see you with any other woman, you’re her backup plan
I have been watching for sometime now you're full of wisdom Jess. I love the way you speak . I'm pass looking for relationships but l still watch your videos because I find them very interesting. Keep up the good work. Awurade Nhyira wo paàà.
This video is going to help lots of people. I've been there before and looking back I'm proud of myself because some of the useful things I did are listed here. Great video Jessica, thank you.
*If she’s clear about not wanting a relationship, it’s important to recognize and accept that. Show her that you can still have fun and enjoy the connection, but don’t push for more - let things unfold naturally.*
I know a lot of guys get stuck thinking the one girl they know is the one for them. She is not. Move on if she tries to put you on standby. There are so many other girls out there who won't play games with you
Probably seeing another person or she has feelings for another man. Won't reject you straight but keep you around just in case. Could be she is a gold digger too
Thanks for the advice. Last weekend I told my crush what I wanted. And she seemed cool. If not I can move on. But I'm happy I told her how I feel. So she knows what I want. But so far she seems cool. We are just going on dates at the moment. But I'm happy I was honest with her. Again if nothing happens oh well. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
Powerful piece. Thanks so much for sharing this, I'm grateful Jessy, cuz you're saving many of us (guys) from getting ourselves being dragged to the ditch by today's ladies...
well, maybe there's a reason or something about the guy that she isn't 100% sure about or something the guy is lacking or missing and she can't say it. or you can ask her what would make her want to date you, be bold and communicate just like Jess pointed out, it's not easy at all. have a happy day my friend.
I don’t like to be committed to anything or anyone I like to be free to walk away when I want . No more crazy drama Their is no such thing as love and I’m not willing to give anyone a chance, you’re lucky to get my time💙
This video was of much help, l went through still going through almost everything you said here my power is l don't chase her and then she end up texting tryna find where l am what am doing, she claim to be single, we spoke about us then she said she was hurt before so she scared to date/commit and she doesn't want to be toxic to me l realised she probably still want to mess around, sometimes she go out on Saturday come back on Sunday late feeling guilty l don't ask none honestly sometimes it's because l don't care ... like sometimes l feel like quitting
Thankyou Jessica brilliant video this video was very helpful for me as Iam a seperated person for last two years and I can't seem to move on with my life I find it very hard and she says it's up to her if she wants to come back to She said its my choice. I feel I need to do something quickly as there are women who like me. Kevin from Radcliffe Nr Manchester UK 🇬🇧 Kevin xxx
Wants me to stay at night, double texts, likes my attention, gives me affection, and initiates. But, I have to move to france and she desires to move too. I truly believe she likes me enough. But, she is scared of inevitable heartbreak. But desires love too? I just don’t know whether to keep it going and enjoying our time until it leaves, maybe even transforms into certainty of a relationship. Or, if i should walk away and close this chapter.
I agree in part with what Jessica is saying....however I think as adults we need to be up front and very honest about what we are looking for and want.....I believes that type of honesty will save a lot of time and keep you from investing time in someone who really doesn't want to be there.....But we have to look at the signs and look at things for what they are and not for what we want them to be .....if a person doesn't want to be there , just go and stop trying to convince them....in some ways trying to sell yourself is SIMPISH...imo😀
She matched with me we talked for hours. We went out on my B-day which was confussing because, I asked her before and she said she wasn't ready. Then she asked me out on my B-day. She said she had a great time and she wanted to do it again. When I said I just wanted to maybe take a walk, talk and maybe hold hands...she said she wasnt over her ex and we could be friends. Thats cool and everything but Im not looking for friends and my profile and I myself expressed this. Now its me making all the efforts...if I didnt message we probably wouldnt talk for days. I ask all the questions and she just piggie backs on them. She said that I had to pick the next place we go to. I told her I needed to think about it and I would keep her posted. That was a few days ago. I havent said anything because I dont want to fall in love with another emotionally unavailable lesbian. I'm over dating because its always the same...they arent ready, they arent over their ex, they dont want anything serious, they just want friends...it just all sounds like I need to just go mind my own business at this point.
Jessica your such a blessing and I really love you very much and for your detailed videos on these very necessary and most important subject matters. God richly bless you and give you more wisdom to guide us always. Thank you 🙏
I av a girl who calls me her friend in front of people,it's quite very painful bcos I really like dis girl and since we met I haven't seen any girl who I love dis way....m in a quagmire,,,I pray God help me come out of diz.
This person was really pursuing me. When things got serious she got cold feet. Said I was the closest thing she has ever wanted in a guy but because we live on different islands she cant do it because she needs someone here and now... and she wont come see me because shes gonna fall hard for me if she met me.
Tough situation for me. We've liked each other for near a year, and she gets heavily jealous when im around other girls, and she constantly wants hangout with me, and texts me constantly.
Been there done that my neighbor perfect example. Seemed we were very compatible but...... She only knew me for doing repairs and her personal 24 hour supermarket. Lasted only 3 weeks as got tired of her dreaded knock at the door. Big smile and of course oh do you have this do you have that, can you fix something for me. In the 3 week time she " borrowed " 16 items and asked me to fix 4 things. Never had the items returned. Even knocked on my door 1230 am with a huge glass and wanted some milk took every drop I had without concern that I had none myself left
I’m talking to someone who got out of a multi year relationship. She says she mentally is not ready for a relationship but she says she has feelings for me and even says we’re dating and are exclusive to eachother. Essentially she still wants time to become mentally prepared for our lives to become intertwined which would be caused by a relationship. I told her I want to be with her and that I’m willing to wait until she feels mentally ready. As of right now we’re going to continue to date and be exclusive until she is ready. To add more context she has told her close friends about me, we see eachother consistently etc. I feel that is a good sign? Any thoughts?
My ex and I where together for two years she begged me to wait for her while she went to school we were a match she said I love you first , will you move in with me and so on always her starting first . Now since she’s in school and doesn’t have time for me now she wants to be just friends says she commit to things she doesn’t know if it will happen and when . We have never been in a fight and had a great year she’s used me and hurt me so I walked
There’s plenty of other fish in the sea, but very few keepers. That’s the same as saying there’s a lot of horses but you’re looking for a unicorn. Walking away from that unicorn is hard
I'm in this situationship right now. It's a long distance relationship and I've told her that I want to be more than just what we have and we've said our I love yous and pretty much everything else a couple does, but she says she's not ready for a committed relationship. There's way too many mixed signals and I just can't figure her out. She speaks in codes and I just feel so confused. I love her to death but it's exhausting
Hi. About advice no.4 i don't agree. Saying out about expectactions especially in the early stages of s relationship can only kill the whole chances for a relationship. If a woman know what our plans are, it kills all the mystery.
She said she likes me and to talk to me but apparently we just did not click the way she needs to be in a relationship? Went on 4 dates across 5 months
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Ladie talk to your fans, followers what's up with that?
@@elijahmiziyabo7036 those who find me on Patreon do. Lol
Happy New Year! 🍾
Jessica,i really love u,you are really a woman that strikes the soul with wisdom,God bless you more,thanks
Love won't have you confused. It isn't worth it. If she's saying she likes you but doesn't want a relationship, it's probably because you're not her ideal type in terms of looks, if it's not any of the other things that Jessica said.
I can tell you from recent personal experience RUN don't walk away from that arrangement.
The best thing you can do is respectfully tell her that you don’t want to keep talking to her just to be friends. You don’t slam the door in her face, but you also don’t make it very clear that she’s gonna have a chance in the future. This will leave her analyzing if she made the right decision, and she’ll eventually come back if she truly liked you. Even with ex’s that broke up with me, this level of uncertainty, and your assertiveness in you being unavailable to them for anything less than a relationship, makes them crave you more. A woman only respects a man who’s willing to walk away. That shows that you have value and other options, which is attractive. No pick me behavior will ever be desirable. Show her your worth, and if she’s lucky, you’ll give her a second chance when she realizes she fucked up! Sometimes that goes south too, and in that case, you close that chapter for good.
I’m currently in a situation like this… it’s kinda frustrating… especially when she says she likes you… but she’s not giving a positive answer
just gave this reply to someone earlier, so was I Walk away I just did exactly what Jessica said.she read my message , but trust me like you or not you will be in her mind, but don't let her be in yours,, as long as your energy is pulling on someone you cannot have, they will feed off it knelt or not ... when you bring your energy to the here and now, and look forwards then they will feel you unplug and that high energy drain away,... she will feel it go then you allow new energy to enter.
Most girls will come stalking and curious to know if your still are into them, the very fact they are getting attention is enough, regardless of weather she wanted to date you. from here she will try small tests to get your attention, bearing in mind if she had any interest at all in the first place, so send a last message don't say you wont message or call again, just disappear and you have to mean it and action that will, then you will one see how much she was into you, or two it also allows you to let go so its a win win .
Never invest in anyone who isn't willing to give you the same, women are not attracted to easy they like mystery. if not that person is not meant to be in your story.
Walk away and if she wants you, she’ll come after you. If not, protect your heart and move on
Move on bro, you’ll see something better ahead
Cut her off ✂️ & move on bro
1.she is not attracted to you, sexually
2.fearing to be heart broken again
3.have nice conversation.bring her mind to uh
4.dont be too serious to her.we need to talk stop this.
5.tell her actually how uh feel,don't beg
6.tell her wat uh want ,let her know like her
7.listen to her carefully.
8.focus on ur self.stsrt working on ur goals.
9 give her time to think
I hear what you saying Jessica O But Like My Mom told me When You show a woman your interested and she doesn't show you the same interest in return she's not interested. I'm not playing these guessing games with someone that doesn't show interest I Dismiss myself quick. There's no need to talk or even continue even a platonic relationship period. God Told me to Find The Woman not chase her period I'm The Prize not The Woman. When a person shows you with their actions they not interested, Lose Interest and move on ! 💯 O.G. Florida 🌴
Extremely good insight as always from Jess. But as always don't Simp for any woman. Move on and start working on yourself. You'll be alright without her and probably any women. Don't be afraid to live your life alone.
Yea there’s some bad advice here
Competition among men for her is fierce without them necessarily knowing. So she treats her lower options like that, confuses but not rejecting them so they stay around if her higher options fail. Validating her too, increase her self esteem and libido so she goes to the next guy full of confidence. On the other hand she is pretty clear with her higher options, she could directly tell him how much she likes him, she wanna live with him, wanna move in his place, wanna see him tonight in her place. While she treats her lower options like a school girl 😉 that lower options act like a free psychologist and free psychology booster 😉😜
For real
Well said Jessica!
Sometimes one rejection just leads you to a better option down the line.
I'm in that exact situation actually and I'm amazed to see that God's talking to me through you Jess❤️
Walk away I just did exactly what Jessica said.she read my message , but trust me like you or not you will be in her mind, but don't let her be in yours,, as long as your energy is pulling on someone you cannot have, they will feed off it knelt or not ... when you bring your energy to the here and now, and look forwards then they will feel you unplug and that high energy drain away,... she will feel it go then you allow new energy to enter.
Most girls will come stalking and curious to know if your still are into them, the very fact they are getting attention is enough, regardless of weather she wanted to date you. from here she will try small tests to get your attention, bearing in mind if she had any interest at all in the first place, so send a last message don't say you wont message or call again, just disappear and you have to mean it and action that will, then you will one see how much she was into you, or two it also allows you to let go so its a win win .
Never invest in anyone who isn't willing to give you the same, women are not attracted to easy they like mystery. if not that person is not meant to be in your story.
Lol
Hopefully soon you would find the right person for you.
Google is the GOD that brought you to this video.
LOLZ
I don’t like commitments .
Or to be caged. This lady is exposing women if a man stays it’s at his own risk.💙
Sometimes you have a natural chemistry with someone, but they don't meet your standards for a relationship. This happens to both men and women, it's just part of dating. Don't chase after someone who has to be "convinced" that you're up to snuff
it's simple, you move on and don't stress about someone who doesn't want you
wow....this for real changed my life. I have been in this weird on and off cycle for 10 years where she would say I don't think I want a committed relationship while still telling me that she loves me and wants to "end up" with me. This was helpful. Thank you sis.
I swear sometimes i think Jessica knows what is going on in my love life lol.
Just met this that i really like a lot but she's not ready yet for a relationship.
It bothers me because i can't figure out what is going on with her. As always Jessica you are right in the money!
Thanks for all your advice queen 👑
Most likely she’s not into you liek that
@@theworldisimmenseno
My ex who dumped me a while back, still likes me although she doesnt wanna get back with me. So i felt like "she's not attracted to u" made sense. For the most part, I strongly feel like ive grown pass all the other tips i just heard. Nonetheless, i think this was a good video. My fav tip was probably the last one she shared: focus on your self. Or just give it time if u have time. If u dont, then keep it moving bc there's plenty of fish in the sea.
I have a friend in the same situation. They even kissed but she says she's not ready to fall in love. Now my guy is confused as to whether to commit or not 'cos he seriously don't want to get hurt and I'm not ready to be a comforter in that regard.
This emotion happens all the time you know.
She's not interested, he shouldn't chase after or offer one-sided commitment to someone who is ambivalent
Attention doesn't mean Intention 💔💔💔💔💔
Bars my guy!!!
Guys, if a girl ever shows u that she's not interested, be respectful to both of u and her n let it be, try another girl. U'll find urself a woman who'll be ready for a serious relationship.
Yeah that is the best decision out there..
It may mean the Lady is not meant for you out there,
💯
I was this close with the lady but after proposing she told me she has nothing to do with relationship with me. So we should maintain the friends zone and nothing more because she isn't interested.
Thank you so much madam ur voice is so helpful for everyone and I hope to have broad minded and open hearted soulmate like you.
Very educative Jess. Thanks!💙
She says she likes me as friends, but gets jealous of other women around me. And wanna spend time with me, but shies away from intimacy. I said I wanna stop taking this bs
Work on yourself. Pursue your goals. Give her time and space.
That's fine with me not looking for a relationship myself 💯
💯💯
A many of women have told me that she "don't want no man"; but they want to shed some "crocodile tears"-I still have feelings 'bout certain ladies, though I don't jump in bed with just any woman: I'm celibate almost 10 years & scared of most of these ladies!!
Jess this is wat I was waiting for
Thank goodness that I am happily divorced and do not want to be in a relationship, I am content just being a single female and travel alone and do things by myself. Relationships can be a nightmare if one isn't lucky. Life is short and try to be happy by yourself.
She said she doesn't want a relationship but she gets jealous when she sees my with another ladies
This is the art of all ladies. They hate seeing a guy with another girl at all costs
You are forcing the options to be smaller, and if there is one thing that women do not like, it is less choices!!
Get her really pissed off kiss your new lady passionately right in front of her
You’re her plan B, she doesn’t want you, but just Incase her plan A doesn’t work out, you have to be available FOR HER that’s why she doesn’t want to see you with any other woman, you’re her backup plan
@@TrapHausCreo Bingo!! And there could be an C and D plan and most guys are those lol
I have seen this happen when she only wants your money. The guy is usually too blind to see
I have been watching for sometime now you're full of wisdom Jess. I love the way you speak . I'm pass looking for relationships but l still watch your videos because I find them very interesting. Keep up the good work. Awurade Nhyira wo paàà.
Dis was all I was waiting for 😊 Łøvê u Jess
Excellent content. keep up the great work.
Thanks you jess this message couldn't have found me in a better time...needed to hear this.
This video is going to help lots of people. I've been there before and looking back I'm proud of myself because some of the useful things I did are listed here.
Great video Jessica, thank you.
Hi Jessica.
You impressed me with your content. I should have started to watch your videos long before.
All the best.
*If she’s clear about not wanting a relationship, it’s important to recognize and accept that. Show her that you can still have fun and enjoy the connection, but don’t push for more - let things unfold naturally.*
Sincerely, you've touched on every topic possible in the issue of relationship. Hope to see more✌️
THIS is the conversation I needed to hear. All confirmations. Thanks, Jessica! 💛
Not to sound sexist but she’s one of the very few women whose advice I trust.
I know a lot of guys get stuck thinking the one girl they know is the one for them. She is not. Move on if she tries to put you on standby. There are so many other girls out there who won't play games with you
thank you so much i really needed this advice she was cheating the whole time !
Probably seeing another person or she has feelings for another man. Won't reject you straight but keep you around just in case. Could be she is a gold digger too
Thanks for the advice. Last weekend I told my crush what I wanted. And she seemed cool. If not I can move on. But I'm happy I told her how I feel. So she knows what I want. But so far she seems cool. We are just going on dates at the moment. But I'm happy I was honest with her. Again if nothing happens oh well. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
Powerful piece. Thanks so much for sharing this, I'm grateful Jessy, cuz you're saving many of us (guys) from getting ourselves being dragged to the ditch by today's ladies...
Since I am a single female, sometimes it's you men that cause us to drag our feet.
@@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 more elaboration
well, maybe there's a reason or something about the guy that she isn't 100% sure about or something the guy is lacking or missing and she can't say it. or you can ask her what would make her want to date you, be bold and communicate just like Jess pointed out, it's not easy at all. have a happy day my friend.
I don’t like to be committed to anything or anyone I like to be free to walk away when I want . No more crazy drama
Their is no such thing as love and I’m not willing to give anyone a chance, you’re lucky to get my time💙
Good. Fair exchange ain't no robbery
This video was of much help, l went through still going through almost everything you said here my power is l don't chase her and then she end up texting tryna find where l am what am doing, she claim to be single, we spoke about us then she said she was hurt before so she scared to date/commit and she doesn't want to be toxic to me l realised she probably still want to mess around, sometimes she go out on Saturday come back on Sunday late feeling guilty l don't ask none honestly sometimes it's because l don't care ... like sometimes l feel like quitting
I love the way you speak. I celebrate your Wisdom. I'm a big fan. My book is full. We'll meet one day @Jessica Os
Yeah I have, maam
Nice one Jessica, I love the way you come clean in all your topics. 🫡
Thankyou Jessica brilliant video this video was very helpful for me as Iam a seperated person for last two years and I can't seem to move on with my life
I find it very hard and she says it's up to her if she wants to come back to
She said its my choice.
I feel I need to do something quickly as there are women who like me.
Kevin from Radcliffe Nr Manchester UK 🇬🇧
Kevin xxx
Thank you Jessica for such helpful insights and advice!
Thank you for Norishing & wisdom advice, watching you from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Wants me to stay at night, double texts, likes my attention, gives me affection, and initiates. But, I have to move to france and she desires to move too.
I truly believe she likes me enough. But, she is scared of inevitable heartbreak. But desires love too? I just don’t know whether to keep it going and enjoying our time until it leaves, maybe even transforms into certainty of a relationship. Or, if i should walk away and close this chapter.
I agree in part with what Jessica is saying....however I think as adults we need to be up front and very honest about what we are looking for and want.....I believes that type of honesty will save a lot of time and keep you from investing time in someone who really doesn't want to be there.....But we have to look at the signs and look at things for what they are and not for what we want them to be .....if a person doesn't want to be there , just go and stop trying to convince them....in some ways trying to sell yourself is SIMPISH...imo😀
💯
Hey Jes, I really admire your knowledge
She matched with me we talked for hours. We went out on my B-day which was confussing because, I asked her before and she said she wasn't ready. Then she asked me out on my B-day. She said she had a great time and she wanted to do it again. When I said I just wanted to maybe take a walk, talk and maybe hold hands...she said she wasnt over her ex and we could be friends.
Thats cool and everything but Im not looking for friends and my profile and I myself expressed this. Now its me making all the efforts...if I didnt message we probably wouldnt talk for days. I ask all the questions and she just piggie backs on them. She said that I had to pick the next place we go to.
I told her I needed to think about it and I would keep her posted. That was a few days ago. I havent said anything because I dont want to fall in love with another emotionally unavailable lesbian. I'm over dating because its always the same...they arent ready, they arent over their ex, they dont want anything serious, they just want friends...it just all sounds like I need to just go mind my own business at this point.
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Jessica your such a blessing and I really love you very much and for your detailed videos on these very necessary and most important subject matters.
God richly bless you and give you more wisdom to guide us always. Thank you 🙏
Thanks you, I always Hear, Consider and Value your Insights (Even is sometimes is Not at 100%)
Nice one, many thanks Sis, Stay blessed
Yes this is really confusing😂
I av a girl who calls me her friend in front of people,it's quite very painful bcos I really like dis girl and since we met I haven't seen any girl who I love dis way....m in a quagmire,,,I pray God help me come out of diz.
Thanks Jessica
This was very helpful🙏
I wished you made this video early tho
Thanks Dr i jst did that and it worked for me the first point
This person was really pursuing me. When things got serious she got cold feet. Said I was the closest thing she has ever wanted in a guy but because we live on different islands she cant do it because she needs someone here and now... and she wont come see me because shes gonna fall hard for me if she met me.
Tough situation for me. We've liked each other for near a year, and she gets heavily jealous when im around other girls, and she constantly wants hangout with me, and texts me constantly.
Thanks for sharing
There are Bunch of Fish in the 🌊 Sea
Jessica you are simply the best I have ever watched ❤😘🫶💪
Been there done that my neighbor perfect example. Seemed we were very compatible but...... She only knew me for doing repairs and her personal 24 hour supermarket. Lasted only 3 weeks as got tired of her dreaded knock at the door. Big smile and of course oh do you have this do you have that, can you fix something for me. In the 3 week time she " borrowed " 16 items and asked me to fix 4 things. Never had the items returned. Even knocked on my door 1230 am with a huge glass and wanted some milk took every drop I had without concern that I had none myself left
Wow. Thanks for sharing this experience bro. Some of our ladies today are just selfish and parasitic without consideration.
Stop blaming the women only because the men are also doing it.
man thats not a woman showing interest, thats a woman with out a handyman who doesn't want a man in the house, you where Handy 🤣😂🤣
@@missrockstarglamazon6846 ha ha I can fix pretty well anything but I could not fix the problem of being her handymart and available 24 hours
oh my goodness, she is something else, lol.
Ma, you're just a wonderful psychology teacher respects goes to you
I’m talking to someone who got out of a multi year relationship. She says she mentally is not ready for a relationship but she says she has feelings for me and even says we’re dating and are exclusive to eachother. Essentially she still wants time to become mentally prepared for our lives to become intertwined which would be caused by a relationship. I told her I want to be with her and that I’m willing to wait until she feels mentally ready. As of right now we’re going to continue to date and be exclusive until she is ready. To add more context she has told her close friends about me, we see eachother consistently etc. I feel that is a good sign? Any thoughts?
I'm in that same boat
@@alfredmatthews1746 the uncertainty of it sucks bro
You don’t really know women 😅 I pray you don’t get disappointed anyway
Let her go you’ll get hurt
My ex and I where together for two years she begged me to wait for her while she went to school we were a match she said I love you first , will you move in with me and so on always her starting first . Now since she’s in school and doesn’t have time for me now she wants to be just friends says she commit to things she doesn’t know if it will happen and when . We have never been in a fight and had a great year she’s used me and hurt me so I walked
There’s plenty of other fish in the sea, but very few keepers. That’s the same as saying there’s a lot of horses but you’re looking for a unicorn. Walking away from that unicorn is hard
I'm in this situationship right now. It's a long distance relationship and I've told her that I want to be more than just what we have and we've said our I love yous and pretty much everything else a couple does, but she says she's not ready for a committed relationship. There's way too many mixed signals and I just can't figure her out. She speaks in codes and I just feel so confused. I love her to death but it's exhausting
Thank you
1 year later seeing this im in the same situation "The freind zone" i can relate this
Thanks for this information
Greetings Mr Jessica. She told me, she's not good for me. That she's not worthy of my care and concerned.
I love your teaching
Hello Jessica your hints are so helpful and educational
Kelvin writing for Finland
Thanks Kelvin
There are plenty fishes in the sea
Very nice of you GOD bless
Hi. About advice no.4 i don't agree. Saying out about expectactions especially in the early stages of s relationship can only kill the whole chances for a relationship. If a woman know what our plans are, it kills all the mystery.
True, you amazing 😍
Everything you just said was helpful,,,
THANK YOU JESS.... 😀
I responded like :- I will always love you i didn't start to live you because I wanted a gf
Okay. So Madam Jessica, what kinds of phrases can you use to ask her state your position in her life?
I just love this woman ❤️
Thank you Mama 🙌
Thank you Jessica
Very interesting 👌
Thx Jessica fr this video walai
Thanks Deary
I’ve done all of that and it always ends up bad for me. I just don’t know what to do anymore
Thanks a lot 🙏
She said she likes me and to talk to me but apparently we just did not click the way she needs to be in a relationship? Went on 4 dates across 5 months