If she's sending you mixed signals, do this NOW

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
  • Is she interested or not? Women send a lot of mixed signals all the time. This video helps answer all your questions.
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    00:00 - Intro
    01:43 - Video Summary
    01:58 - Why do women give mixed signals
    03:13 - 6 mixed signal to look out for
    04:16 - Signal 1
    04:41 - Signal 2
    05:18 - Signal 3
    05:41 - Signal 4
    06:25 - Signal 5
    07:00 - Signal 6
    07:45 -What to do
    08:41 - Solution 2
    09:32 - Solution 3
    10:51 - Solution 4

Комментарии • 185

  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  Год назад +10

    Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

  • @refusetolose7528
    @refusetolose7528 Год назад +94

    Guys please dont get stuck in a situation like this. There shouldnt be any games if its mutual . Its all a waste of time and effort if their actions dont match their words. The person will always give you hope that it will work out. Dont be disrespected, you dont deserve to be treated like that.

  • @King_Ajani
    @King_Ajani Год назад +101

    I’ve endured this for the past 3 months. It was draining and gave me anxiety. We spent time when she wanted to only but she wants to talk/text me daily. She never wanted to open up to me. I had to bargain for her time. I was putting out the most effort and communicating how I felt. I was vulnerable, transparent, emotionally available and honest. I decided it was enough because it was heading no where. I was losing my focus and couldn’t concentrate on what’s important in my life, which is completing my master’s degree in nursing. Fellas, take heed to this video and allow no one to string you along. That feeling of uneasiness inside can kill your motivation and cause unnecessary stress. Thanks Jess!!!!!

    • @salamiganiuolatunji1033
      @salamiganiuolatunji1033 Год назад

      Hey Ajani, how did you deal with this?

    • @smith6603
      @smith6603 Год назад +10

      Brother, I endure it for 4 months and your experience is like gazing in a mirror. I decided to remove myself and take back that power away from her and focus more on myself and goal.

    • @King_Ajani
      @King_Ajani Год назад

      @@salamiganiuolatunji1033 I was never the type of guy to deal with women who have daddy issues and emotional baggage. I never thought she would allow her past to seep into what we were trying to establish. She was an emotional terrorist. I would pull away, she would text me an say she misses me. I would be suckered back in. We would talk about it and everytime I think we bend a new corner, the same issues arise. I don't know how and why I dealt with it. I genuinely liked her. I seen her and said I wanted to make her my girlfriend but that was a wrong thought. In the end, I told her, I am letting you go for good.

    • @King_Ajani
      @King_Ajani Год назад +4

      @@smith6603 Put thyself first, be stingy. I am not saying to treat women bad going forward. Be careful of these females who are dating out here and they aren't fixed/heal. One must reflect, hold themselves accountable, atone for your past, evolve, enjoying being single, love yourself before you start dating. These females jump from man to man and not fixing their mindset. Protect your peace by any means necessary.

    • @sensualm1
      @sensualm1 Год назад

      I also experienced this for 6 months until I sent an email saying I won't be "chasing" her any longer. There's more to the story but sounds more fictional than factual...

  • @IntegraDIY
    @IntegraDIY Год назад +51

    Yep, at the end it usually ends up splitting ways. Either ignore her when she reaches out and play her game, or best of all walk away, and let her play games with someone else.

  • @KDuB9I6
    @KDuB9I6 Год назад +57

    Its all a test men; stay stoic, patient and always keep your purpose #1.

  • @buzinesempire3427
    @buzinesempire3427 Год назад +23

    Women doesn't want to take responsibility for their bad behaviors they just want to be professional victims guys cut off any woman who tries to come with any form of negativity and drama without any warning your peace of mind is not negotiable

  • @rodneysessoms8804
    @rodneysessoms8804 Год назад +24

    Because they don't know what they really want. Been through it before, but I had to let her know I know what I bring to the table( no time for nonsense) and I hold both of us down if needed to let her know no she can depend on me during trying times. Some women need to realize only they can fix what's broken with them selves

  • @sfisomlondo6699
    @sfisomlondo6699 Год назад +6

    You're amazing Jess. Keep up

  • @tricckwrites4130
    @tricckwrites4130 Год назад

    Accuracy at its peak!!! Thank you so much Jess

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 Год назад +9

    Thank you Jessie,I always get a lot out of listening carefully to your advice,it keeps me on an even keel as relationship problems can be a real test on one's sanity,I sometimes watch more than once to try and take it all in, by the way I love your hair do,looks fab💯👍

  • @businessboom6143
    @businessboom6143 Год назад +6

    Love dinning at Jessica's Table of "Wisdom!"

  • @rossdepopo9630
    @rossdepopo9630 Год назад +1

    You are absolutely amazing and inspiring to this generation…God bless you!!

  • @mpwheroes
    @mpwheroes Год назад

    you are the legend jessica..everyday I'm learning to be better with what i want from women and relationship by your videos..thank you

  • @jimmysolumand2910
    @jimmysolumand2910 Год назад

    I like your hair style. It looks so beautiful. Thank you far all your teaching. We glade to having you to build our knowledge. Be blessed!!! Jessica.

  • @bigabwa03
    @bigabwa03 Год назад +2

    Thanks to be on our men’s side… very good messages to us…

  • @belloabideen5197
    @belloabideen5197 Год назад +3

    Thanks for this video Jess and I also learn a lot from people's comments. My opinion is if a lady really interested in you, she won't be playing games, she will be the one doing the chasing. Mix signals thing sucks, it drains out the energy in you and make you lost focus. Just walk away without the intention of going back to her. Focus on your goals.

  • @FatsoMpyatona
    @FatsoMpyatona Год назад +5

    I love this channel so much. You’re so articulate.

  • @muteesarichardkizza7548
    @muteesarichardkizza7548 Год назад

    Thanks Jessica I like your explanation you always heat on the forefront.

  • @metfreak100
    @metfreak100 8 месяцев назад

    Brilliant advices. 1000 times better than sooo many dating coaches on youtube, who keep on going with jaded formulas, and selling false hopes(eg.turning a cold girl hot for you) etc its very sad tbh.

  • @fernandmichel4073
    @fernandmichel4073 Год назад +4

    You're such a bright soul Everytime I look and listen to you my holly soul vibrates instantly. I love you Jess💯

    • @turnback9866
      @turnback9866 Год назад

      Such a weak man 😂😂😂 u should know all these before now wtf , lol, a woman gotta teach u these things ? 🤣🤣 weak

  • @daltonfearon4791
    @daltonfearon4791 Год назад +1

    These are some real powerful words Jessica I love them

  • @africanqueen3611
    @africanqueen3611 Год назад +3

    Thanks for everything 😘😘😘

  • @kevincroft9848
    @kevincroft9848 Год назад

    Waw thanks Jessica for your video on mixed messages .
    I've learned alot from this video.
    I follow all your videos they are just the best out there . All the others just don't do it for me .But somehow your videos hit the mark every time .
    Thankyou once again for such a great help for me .
    Keep making great relationship videos.
    Us men out there in the real world will really thank you for your very good help
    Thank you
    Kevin xxx

  • @chinemezeobialor8361
    @chinemezeobialor8361 Год назад

    Thank you very much Jessica for sharing. I got value.

  • @Pawans21
    @Pawans21 Год назад +4

    Great command over english language and proper use of right words jessica.. i must say your channel is growing rapidly.. cheers from india !! Learning allot about the behaviour of females from this channel

    • @buzzafrique3700
      @buzzafrique3700 Год назад +1

      I bet Ghanaian's speak the best english in the whole african continent

  • @angelbwalyachate
    @angelbwalyachate Год назад +1

    Wonderful teachings👏

  • @MrDavidigobwa
    @MrDavidigobwa Год назад

    I have joined Lemonade finance courtesy to Jessica. I love it.

  • @kevincroft9848
    @kevincroft9848 Год назад

    Yes thank you for all your relationship videos I love them all Iam learning so much more about women thanks to you
    God bless you for this gift he has given you to help many thousands of us me who need your help
    Thank you Jessica xxx
    Kevin x

  • @Strangingness
    @Strangingness Год назад +5

    Jessica, you're a straight up head turner with that hairstyle if I may say so.

  • @TSixSix
    @TSixSix Год назад +10

    Women will gaslight the hell outta you and then holler about “where are all the good men” and that BS “pressure” talk they always use..

  • @tresorsumbu2904
    @tresorsumbu2904 Год назад

    Thank you Jessica I’m soooo blessed

  • @venividivindicator3483
    @venividivindicator3483 Год назад +2

    "Taking action will give you a clear idea of where she's at in her mind"

  • @thembinkosimukarati8875
    @thembinkosimukarati8875 Год назад

    Thanks for this vid Jessy ,it has come on the right time for me

  • @denzpitt1
    @denzpitt1 4 месяца назад

    you hit it head on.. awesome advise

  • @johnampiah3841
    @johnampiah3841 Год назад +1

    Am a reverend minister...apart from the bible and I carefully listen u....this channel helps me in my counselling job....I am really learning...hmmm..u have no idea....u re the best ...

  • @4hinson777
    @4hinson777 Год назад

    Joining your channel Jessica Os was for all the right reasons. 👏🏽👌🏾🔥😘

  • @user-qg5js3uq6h
    @user-qg5js3uq6h 11 месяцев назад +2

    U was right everything you said...worked made her come right back. ❤ u a Boss Jessica 😘 thanks

  • @olisa8518
    @olisa8518 Год назад

    Loved this so much

  • @owenspetersgichinga6053
    @owenspetersgichinga6053 Год назад

    Thanks so much jessica I have experienced it. Infact I thought you were talking about me... thanks once again God bless

  • @a.shakuur_
    @a.shakuur_ Год назад +1

    You’re simply amazing, Jessica
    You have answers for all my problems in my relationship 😌

  • @davidmathenjwa2293
    @davidmathenjwa2293 Год назад +1

    Jessica looking out for us❤❤👏👏

  • @Sebastian-bw9el
    @Sebastian-bw9el Год назад

    You the best. 🙏🏿

  • @godwinjosiah2557
    @godwinjosiah2557 Год назад

    That’s what I searched to hear from this channel a month ago. I decided to move on but I wasn’t sure if I did the right decision. But I’ve heard you, now I know my fives months are gone just like games😒

  • @yawbless7188
    @yawbless7188 Год назад

    Great video 💕

  • @SinglesandDating
    @SinglesandDating Год назад

    Wonderful video, I like every bit of it

  • @eddiekingtheflames8791
    @eddiekingtheflames8791 Год назад

    Thank you Jessica

  • @rolandnormiljacques1678
    @rolandnormiljacques1678 Год назад +2

    Once again you nailed it. Thank You Jess!

  • @gregorylatta8159
    @gregorylatta8159 Год назад

    Love your hair 😍

  • @OiVinn-eq1ml
    @OiVinn-eq1ml Год назад

    Great video!
    If she does this, delete her & move on. It's not worth the stress & headache
    You don't want a woman like that anyway...

  • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
    @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 Год назад +1

    Very helpful & insightful. I'd rather always walk away from incoherent girls.

  • @jasperemerald1522
    @jasperemerald1522 Год назад

    Thank you Jessy

  • @kevincroft9848
    @kevincroft9848 Год назад

    Thanks Jessica fabulous as usual great teaching on this video
    Kevin fro
    Radcliffe Manchester
    UK 🇬🇧

  • @denisnyantori3661
    @denisnyantori3661 Год назад

    Perfect Jessica

  • @peaceful1548
    @peaceful1548 Год назад +1

    Jessica, youre so beautiful. thanks so much for these counsels.

  • @daveondiekaaron2204
    @daveondiekaaron2204 Год назад

    VERY CORRECT 💯%✔️

  • @linasmith9708
    @linasmith9708 Год назад +2

    Perfect 👍

  • @profesorhutmanchanda7626
    @profesorhutmanchanda7626 Год назад

    I like how u are coming out

  • @samuelspiff
    @samuelspiff Год назад +1

    I like your new hair.

  • @kaustavkar932
    @kaustavkar932 Год назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @davidamper4648
    @davidamper4648 Год назад +1

    Jessica bringing FIRE in this one!! Thank you Jess for helping us imperfect guys to not waste time on women that bring drama and BS into our lives. It's nice to know there are still women like you that actually care about a man's masculinity. Especially in a time when masculinity is pounded on. God bless you Jess! And have a Power House day!!
    💪🏽🔥

  • @narehkumar1110
    @narehkumar1110 Год назад

    You are very smart

  • @kenonjohnson6630
    @kenonjohnson6630 Год назад +25

    Dealing with this right now. Thank u Jessica. It’s like u are always on time with what I’m experiencing…❤️

    • @kimosabehmar1671
      @kimosabehmar1671 Год назад

      Going through this too I contacted her once she did reply me and she said I don't know so I will start the no contact now
      She's going through difficult times and I know that she's talking to someone

  • @InsaneSupercars
    @InsaneSupercars Год назад +2

    Hate how I started watching all these dating videos after I had been ghosted, & owed money at the start of this year😑 But this will prepare me for the next girl🙏🤞 Crazy how it’s already going to be 2023, & been no contact since February

  • @patrickahiatsi75
    @patrickahiatsi75 Год назад

    Looking gorgeous, lady Jesse

  • @kevincroft9848
    @kevincroft9848 Год назад

    Jessica this video was fantastic for me Iam in a friendship relationship but I want to take it to the next level but I keep getting mixed singled.
    Just like you

  • @fitforlifepft1
    @fitforlifepft1 Год назад +24

    If she is Sending more MIXED SIGNALS than🚦LIGHTS , you will CRASH at the RELATIONSHIP INTERSECTION!!! LEAVE!

    • @merlinparviz1474
      @merlinparviz1474 Год назад +1

      No you just have to wait for the green light!!

    • @fitforlifepft1
      @fitforlifepft1 Год назад +1

      @@merlinparviz1474 No, you have to go to the INTERSECTION that has the LEAST TRAFFIC!! :) Those places, do not NEED LIGHTS at all! Just Simple 🛑 and Go!

    • @merlinparviz1474
      @merlinparviz1474 Год назад +2

      @@fitforlifepft1 Lol, dude you should write a book about this 😂!

    • @fitforlifepft1
      @fitforlifepft1 Год назад

      @@merlinparviz1474 lol I have a name for this.. It is called “Traffic Lighting” lol

    • @flint9889
      @flint9889 Год назад +1

      I was talking to this girl for a few months. She works at a bar I hang out. She then pushed me away so I avoided for a month. She started coming back but backed away again. Then she came back by walking close to me. Darting glances and really looking where I'm at. I would say hi but I didn't approach. Now she avoids eye contact. Did I miss my shot?

  • @meshackantony5157
    @meshackantony5157 Год назад +1

    Jessy jessy.much love from kenya

  • @Ronald-gh6jl
    @Ronald-gh6jl Год назад

    Nice content

  • @seankelly1366
    @seankelly1366 Год назад +4

    This has always been a "super " challenge for me.....She always expressed interest when we have private or alone time but when she gets involved with the mundane avenue of common people who have absolutely no idea about how to express passion, she pulls back and leaves me on "hang"

  • @NJBoham
    @NJBoham Год назад +4

    Maybe I needed to see this video at this time. Going through right now and it's not even funny anymore.

  • @chishimbabc4004
    @chishimbabc4004 Год назад +1

    We are in 2022 and the year is almost ending 🙌🙌🙌 The fourth point Jess......am "walking away"🚶🚶🚶🚶

  • @TheInnovatrixAI
    @TheInnovatrixAI Год назад +3

    Jess your locks are 🔥🔥👍🏾

  • @jivonstephen6677
    @jivonstephen6677 Год назад

    Gonna pretend I didn't see that lol, can't pretend to not feel it tho, I'm all cherry cheeks popping here ,omj ...... on point as ever . i needed that , thanks Jess hope your ok and all is well within stay safe and sweet 🍯 queen . Nice keys to notice even folded sleeves appreciates hard work so Have a bless one still Yuh feel meh till soon.

  • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
    @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 Год назад

    Matthew 11:16-19 sums it all.

  • @vuyanitheo971
    @vuyanitheo971 Год назад

    Great , insitefull

  • @josephwalker1150
    @josephwalker1150 Год назад +1

    Thank you Jessica I guess there's no woman out there for me

  • @daviddevlogger
    @daviddevlogger Год назад +1

    Try and fail, but don't fail to try.

  • @TheInfamous730
    @TheInfamous730 Год назад +2

    I received mixed signals from someone then i decided to move on and now she wants me and i dont want her..... sometimes its not worth the headache

  • @kennethlawen8092
    @kennethlawen8092 Год назад

    I will move definely and both partners should compliment one another

  • @1p974
    @1p974 Год назад

    I wish i get this information months ago

  • @chrisarroyo7990
    @chrisarroyo7990 7 месяцев назад

    5:54 BRO I WAS LEGIT SLOUCHING AND WHEN I GOT UP TO SIT UP. I WAS SHOCKED ABOUT THE TIME LOLL. on a serious note thank you for the advice. with everything going on it makes me feel better knowing im not the only one here

  • @kubel83
    @kubel83 Год назад +3

    If you keep playing games with someone then eventually you will only attract people playing games.
    Good luck and see if it is fun when the wall hits.

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 Год назад +1

    It's best to move on

  • @akonluis6457
    @akonluis6457 Год назад +1

    The conclusion says it all ma'am mixed signals are always negative signals. It is advisable to quit the relationship as early as possible unless you are the type that is in for games.

    • @akonluis6457
      @akonluis6457 Год назад

      Finding difficulties meeting him online

  • @bwalya773
    @bwalya773 Год назад +2

    Forget the mixed singles love your dreadlocks

  • @nss7661
    @nss7661 Год назад

    Immediately after watching the video,she texted
    That’s crazy

  • @ekumfitv
    @ekumfitv Год назад

    SHALOM

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 Год назад

    Hmmmmmmmmm
    Noted

  • @ugabeitch1673
    @ugabeitch1673 Год назад +4

    Been going through this with a friend for a while now that gives me these signals like touches my arms, laughs at everything i say, etc. When I finally told her how I felt about her, she said she dosent feel the same so we stopped talking for a few months. Now shes hitting me up again and whenever we do hang, she starts giving me the same signals. I was confused, but this clarifies a few things, thank you ❤

  • @fidel_autos
    @fidel_autos Год назад

    I played it too

  • @effiya_ephya
    @effiya_ephya Год назад

    ❤️‼️

  • @Karidugan
    @Karidugan 3 месяца назад

    He just said he love me, and then says he was just joking so not wasting my time!!

  • @tumentajohnson1320
    @tumentajohnson1320 Год назад

    Let me share this

  • @marcellusbrown7940
    @marcellusbrown7940 Год назад

    🌙 Is a regular day, Wednesday 28 2022, for it bring sunshine, cool breeze and a clear sky. Show evidence of a luminous day, and u r able to do activities like go to work, jog, shop, or lounge at the beach, or restaurant. There’s the critique to weather in my community. Bye have a great day

  • @titanniki412
    @titanniki412 Год назад +1

    It's even Harder when your in Love with a Beautiful Queen who suffers from Bi Polar!!
    Confusing!!
    Is it her or the Bi Polar??
    I'm still hanging in there after 16 months!!

  • @torres870rem
    @torres870rem Год назад

    On #5... I was told a chick. " Are you going to keep talking about". Big red flag.

  • @keithdevine8281
    @keithdevine8281 15 дней назад

    I'm a male and I don't like showing my affections in public

  • @del-multichannel937
    @del-multichannel937 Год назад

    💕💕💕💕

  • @achirakol2560
    @achirakol2560 Год назад +1

    Mixed signal are for the others guys not me ,I will just tell her what I want and if she doesn't respond I just leave, take it or leave it and it work for me.

  • @JohnPhoenix918
    @JohnPhoenix918 Год назад

    if the guy reports her as a one off does the bloke still lose and still goes to jail his self for relorting