You'll push her away if you try too hard. Do this instead

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  22 дня назад +9

    Sign up for a private consultation here: www.patreon.com/jessicaos

  • @georgehudson4961
    @georgehudson4961 21 день назад +95

    Date women who have genuine burning desire towards you. Date the woman who loves you and not the woman you love. A man should always chase his purpose. Let her chase you instead.

  • @abiolaoluwatosin6172
    @abiolaoluwatosin6172 21 день назад +29

    This channel helped me from a being a lonely single man to happy married man.

  • @nanapoku5259
    @nanapoku5259 22 дня назад +53

    Fellas, hit the gym, eat right, read, listen to growth related podcast, hang out with buddies etc.

    • @IlCanaleDegliEroi
      @IlCanaleDegliEroi 19 дней назад +6

      Exactly what I'm doing in my life right now. And all of a sudden I'm starting to realize the girl I've been chasing (after she broke up with me) it's not so special as I thought just a couple of months ago

    • @nanapoku5259
      @nanapoku5259 19 дней назад +2

      @IlCanaleDegliEroi Way to go bro! FOCUS matter!

    • @letnothingslide1969
      @letnothingslide1969 19 дней назад

      Amen 🙏🏿

  • @trillmix0652
    @trillmix0652 22 дня назад +38

    "Hey. Is everything okay between us? Are we still on for Friday?" Don't do this fellas.

  • @AfrikaVibes
    @AfrikaVibes 21 день назад +12

    You are the best gift to all male people. Appreciated a lot

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 22 дня назад +12

    *When genuine confidence replaces desperation, it not only makes interactions more enjoyable but also encourages her to invest emotionally without feeling overwhelmed.*

  • @ZahirSohil-mm4pp
    @ZahirSohil-mm4pp 22 дня назад +76

    its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

  • @ierrymills5250
    @ierrymills5250 3 дня назад +1

    What I don't understand is how this works, when pookie and Ray Ray be consistent taking everyone girl. Sometimes this stuff only works if she actually really likes you.

  • @ParthaBarman-n7x
    @ParthaBarman-n7x 22 дня назад +6

    this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

  • @mnickiel09
    @mnickiel09 21 день назад +24

    _FELLAS,CHASE EXCELLENCE.. REMEMBER SHE'S NOT YOURS IT'S JUST YOUR TURN SO REGARDLESS ON HOW MUCH INTERESTED YOU KEEP HER IF SHE'S FOR THE STREETS, THERE'S NONE YOU CAN DO ABOUT THAT_ 😂😂

  • @chiweyufortune
    @chiweyufortune 22 дня назад +5

    Damn, you just saved me from making this mistake, I was planning on going all in with this girl this week,🤝thanks

    • @iamg2s
      @iamg2s 2 дня назад

      @@chiweyufortune Did you later get the girl

  • @OGTrollTroll8
    @OGTrollTroll8 21 день назад +2

    I appreciate you putting time stamps. I dont regret subbing to you. Greetings from the South Pacific Islands.

  • @davidcarby8283
    @davidcarby8283 21 день назад +5

    While I love listening and watching your videos and the truth is your advice are realistic. Not in all cases and all women they can be applied

  • @sallahudinmehuddin8046
    @sallahudinmehuddin8046 20 дней назад +2

    This channel makes me emotional in a good way. I almost get tears and I'm a 40 year old man.

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 20 дней назад +5

    "Don't feel the silence... Let your action speak"
    Apt! 💯
    God bless you Jess
    Thanks for this piece

  • @Baylorbetterthanbrown
    @Baylorbetterthanbrown 21 день назад +8

    Always be confident to let a lady go real quick because to me all it is is b*******if you're showing her you're interested in her and she asked this way let her go real quick and fast

  • @Oshiko_Sam
    @Oshiko_Sam 22 дня назад +2

    This definitely works! No more doubts 😁

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 21 день назад +1

    Thank you so much Jessica for your always exciting videos always showing us better ways and behaviors to improve our relationships and elevate our expectations when applying your knowledge! Thank you sooo much! Love and light to you always!❤❤

  • @issadiawara38
    @issadiawara38 20 дней назад +2

    Jessica was here I haven’t heard this since high school days when it was the trend when we used to leave our signatures everywhere 🤣🤣🤣

  • @J87513
    @J87513 21 день назад +1

    Great video! I find that I have this problem. One thing that really helped was to put my girlfriend (of a few months so far) text messages on silent so I don’t get so anxious and feel the need to immediately reply.

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 21 день назад

    This channel has helped my life in many ways
    God bless you immensely Jessica🎉

  • @snowdaniels
    @snowdaniels 22 дня назад +3

    Love your content from Zambia ❤

  • @shoryuken3305
    @shoryuken3305 22 дня назад

    I just want to say thank you, the timing on these videos is amazing its exactly what I needed to hear today thank you coach!

  • @fonyuymichaelwolani3505
    @fonyuymichaelwolani3505 22 дня назад +5

    The skull in the background reinforces the message. 😂😂

  • @OurovenaAdjankara
    @OurovenaAdjankara 21 день назад

    Hey Jessica your are to much 😂😂😂thanks and gracias all for you 🙏

  • @leosdeals5462
    @leosdeals5462 21 день назад

    ❤ Wow Jessica, Thank You.
    You Described Me Perfectly. And gave me a ton of knowledge at the same time.
    God Bless

  • @zamushodge4590
    @zamushodge4590 22 дня назад

    I facing them circumstances but I swear nothing in that form can move me I am confident it will work out for me how I plan it

  • @dynamic9016
    @dynamic9016 21 день назад

    Respect Sister...

  • @orshimatar4707
    @orshimatar4707 22 дня назад

    Thank you for this invaluable piece

  • @kedarsingh3378
    @kedarsingh3378 21 день назад

    You are right. I love you too ❤

  • @ShubHam-tp1mo
    @ShubHam-tp1mo 21 день назад

    Your advice really helped me a lot.

  • @ericgibbs6348
    @ericgibbs6348 21 день назад +3

    It seems like dating is just a game smh

  • @matjazb.157
    @matjazb.157 22 дня назад +5

    Deal only with those who show interest in you. All the rest is just playing games which bring suffering.

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 21 день назад

    ❤ thumbs up.much love Jessica.great information

  • @samueloriokot9849
    @samueloriokot9849 21 день назад

    I'm loving every series mum J.
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rev_noble30k
    @rev_noble30k 21 день назад +1

    what at all does women want..eei.Jessica you're the best❤❤❤

  • @carllucas1072
    @carllucas1072 21 день назад

    Live Coach ❤loving it thank you sharing

  • @scottkennedy6007
    @scottkennedy6007 22 дня назад

    You're excellent with how you come across.

  • @Hoppahoppa1
    @Hoppahoppa1 22 дня назад

    I can do it tomorrow attitude, that is good, I think. In the end, I owe her nothing in the end, and she owes me nothing. In the end, everyone hates a needy person in their live.

  • @B_stayacting
    @B_stayacting 21 день назад

    Exactly 😆 I’m over doing my job hanging out with my bros and now I’m trying to see her now she’s unavailable

  • @nana1official
    @nana1official 21 день назад

    Jessy ain't never got it wrong ❤

  • @LukeShowBiz
    @LukeShowBiz 16 дней назад

    👍👍💯Thanks Jess

  • @DeborahEyiah
    @DeborahEyiah 21 день назад

    Amazing Jessica is thanks

  • @maungedzorasevhendele
    @maungedzorasevhendele 21 день назад

    Too much of everything has got a negative impact .... . true Jessy ..🙌🏾 much love .

  • @josephkampelya6068
    @josephkampelya6068 22 дня назад

    True!

  • @CorddonteWelco
    @CorddonteWelco 20 дней назад +1

    Advice is fire ..but I'm tired of having to chase women like we're fucking middle school kids. I'm chasing my growth and healing

  • @miltonmawewe5248
    @miltonmawewe5248 22 дня назад

    Madam Jess Hi🤚,, Thanks for the Wonderful Content, Your ever Classy smart ideas,, Whoooop 💋💋
    💙💙✅

  • @daniellillis3333
    @daniellillis3333 22 дня назад

    my mom has been trying to guide me with my relationship right now she thinks i should take a few days off from talking with her... xDi just don't want to hurt her and i feel if i did i would be hurting her i've been watching alot of ur videos recently and someone else's alot that u have talked about i think im haveing trouble with and i can agree with what u have said on a personal note : )

  • @lalalalalalallalallal
    @lalalalalalallalallal 21 день назад

    Please make a video when you’re already in a new relationship and how to keep her engaged and make her fall in love
    Thank you

  • @Safo-h4v
    @Safo-h4v 20 дней назад

    Exactly 😎

  • @Godsbusinessonearth
    @Godsbusinessonearth 21 день назад

    She also has a cough she listens to and that is all games

  • @LeKNG
    @LeKNG 3 часа назад

    Me: *Decided not to text first*
    Her:*Reached out a week later*
    It hurt, but hey, it was a good thing for me

  • @kazeemadedokun3484
    @kazeemadedokun3484 21 день назад

    Just be a 'Alpha bad boy' with a lot going on in his life and women will never want to lose you. That's how I roll

  • @abdulaiali8956
    @abdulaiali8956 20 дней назад

    Thanks

  • @garybowes3081
    @garybowes3081 22 дня назад

    I noticed that. A woman also is attracted to a man who is a bit mysterious as well and figuring out what he thinks about her.

  • @asdfxcvbn746
    @asdfxcvbn746 22 дня назад +2

    ignore that bih.

  • @emmanuelben1393
    @emmanuelben1393 22 дня назад

    Thank you for this advice , these are the things I need to do now, because I am losing her gradually, but how do I give her space when we live together?

  • @VicknowledgeMk
    @VicknowledgeMk 22 дня назад

    When she is taking too much time to reply to your text you must get busy by doing something productive effective positive invest in your dreams to make your vision come to light your absence will make her feel there's so much more to you....

  • @Unshakablemind22
    @Unshakablemind22 22 дня назад

    Thanks Jessica

  • @DonKheru
    @DonKheru 22 дня назад

    Excellent video 🔥 🔥

  • @nelsongoncalves5379
    @nelsongoncalves5379 22 дня назад

    Very important comment ✍️✌️

  • @LyJinSheng
    @LyJinSheng 21 день назад

    At first I thought that I won’t be attractive to the girl I like because I texted her very little and short but in a kind of teasing way and try not to make it boring and when she eventually become my girlfriend she said the number reason she loved about me is because I wasn’t the guy who text or talk a lot so she can have her own space and not get overwhelmed by texts

  • @bike_life_damani
    @bike_life_damani 2 дня назад

    I was holding back not getting attached too quick but still available to her n it got me a girlfriend.... But we broke up couple months ago

  • @lars1480
    @lars1480 22 дня назад

    So The modern area we are in seems to have made it Way more difficult to date due to it’s to Easy to Connect 24/7 Think about that 😊

  • @wealthfit001
    @wealthfit001 21 день назад

    I like watching your videos

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 19 дней назад

    Im still studying the manual,

  • @folaishmail269
    @folaishmail269 21 день назад

    Ok Jess.I love the facts in the video but the context and moments to apply the points is the factor here.Lets say you met this girl and you exchanged numbers ,went on the first date which went well(let's assume) is this the moment you suggest we apply this tips?

  • @mhlambisomasoka6953
    @mhlambisomasoka6953 20 дней назад

    Ohhh I just found out that a girlfriend I was with have been dating a guy in my STR I leave in

  • @wisdomkabwita8884
    @wisdomkabwita8884 21 день назад

    @Jessica OS!! Why do ladies want to date with bad guys but yet want to marry a nice guy 😢?

    • @muchirigachirigachiri3839
      @muchirigachirigachiri3839 21 день назад +1

      NATURE....The problem is you being that life insurance...aka...nice guy... Don't be a NGANUTHIA[nice guy]

  • @Ericgodisgood
    @Ericgodisgood 10 дней назад

    She wanted to be friends my ex I ask tell me why u want to be friends then she said why do u think negative all the time if no body didn’t no u this would pushed them away then ghosted me

  • @godfreyduffus6567
    @godfreyduffus6567 21 день назад

    If she has some other guy in her life she may not think about you and may not reach to you ? also pending on the individual mindset

  • @evoextremeX
    @evoextremeX 21 день назад

    I have a question for you JessicaOS
    How do I push someone away intentionally?

  • @thetravarians3592
    @thetravarians3592 14 дней назад +2

    srsly why does this all have to be so complicated...

  • @Stayedreal
    @Stayedreal 21 день назад

    How can I apply this to my teenage life

  • @andrewnauth101
    @andrewnauth101 21 день назад

    Does this applies to older women as well?????

  • @dukeperry5571
    @dukeperry5571 21 день назад

  • @samueletuk1940
    @samueletuk1940 15 дней назад

    Does this got anything to do with a husband and wife. This is for those still dating.

  • @muchirigachirigachiri3839
    @muchirigachirigachiri3839 21 день назад

    ITS EASY TO UNDERSTAND THIS IF N IF , I SAY IF U HAVE PASSED THROUGH Darius M

  • @leosdeals5462
    @leosdeals5462 21 день назад

    Now I know why women chase me

  • @adeoyeadedoyin7508
    @adeoyeadedoyin7508 20 дней назад

    Hi good evening ma please if you actually told a lady you loved her and her response was she wanted you both to be friends and she doesn't want friendship to scatter. Does this mean she doesn't really have interest or she actually meant what she said about friendship

  • @skepo22
    @skepo22 22 дня назад +1

    Women can be weird lol when u give them attention some will take it for granted and pay less attention to u.

  • @witnessmlotshwa2927
    @witnessmlotshwa2927 22 дня назад

    Jessica, l appreciate you 🥂

  • @aubreytshepondala8667
    @aubreytshepondala8667 22 дня назад

    How do I win her back and show her that I am no longer that guy I was in the past(cheater)? I have changed my ways and apologized for my actions a thousand times. He is till hang up on the past and doesn't wanna let go and work things out. Please advise

    • @nanapoku5259
      @nanapoku5259 22 дня назад +3

      I see "her and he" mixed up in your write up. Can you clarify?

    • @online.hustlers
      @online.hustlers 22 дня назад +1

      😢Bro I think u gotta to move on

    • @aubreytshepondala8667
      @aubreytshepondala8667 22 дня назад

      @nanapoku5259 she is still bringing things from the past. It was a typo error.

    • @pauloluyomisotonwa847
      @pauloluyomisotonwa847 21 день назад

      @@aubreytshepondala8667 you must have broken her trust and she has the right to protect herself from you going forward.
      It's best if you move on.

    • @nanapoku5259
      @nanapoku5259 21 день назад

      @@aubreytshepondala8667 Bro, you got to move on ASAP! She is simply playing the power/manipulative games and you don't need that. I bdt she is thinking you can't have any other woman aside her and see your continuous apology as desperate and weak!

  • @njumesnowl1328
    @njumesnowl1328 20 дней назад

    Hi Jessica , am just trying to know her and we're in a distance. I do the texting but once a day but she always respond. So should I stop texting first ?

  • @Ricardo-xy3lj
    @Ricardo-xy3lj 21 день назад

    Never take advice from the sane gender that plays games while saving they want something serious .😂😂😂

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 16 дней назад

    Great content 👌

  • @mwitimeeme5218
    @mwitimeeme5218 21 день назад

    Thanks Jess