Why women play hard to get with you and what to do when that happens
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- Playing hard to get is a game as old as time. Crafty women leave men befuddled with their hot then cold signals. In this video Jessica highlights why they do that and what to do when that happens. This video really zeros in on why women play hard to get.
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Gents save yourselves time and energy. If she’s truly interested she will never play hard to get. Period.
No lies detected here
That’s true why play silly games
Then you haven’t met some women, some women might really be interested in you but you will never know because they just don’t want to look cheap
💯 💯 💯 Interest is everything when dealing with a lady
U are WRONG!
Any man chasing a woman in 2021 has no purpose. Get on your purpose gents 👍🏽
@Jessica Os How about stop spamming people's pages? Get a life, will you?
@@jazzampa Title of the viseo should be “as a Beta, and good luck with that…”
@@jazzampa The probability that that's her responding is next to ZERO!
why do people always make the year a part of it? It's not like all the women in the world change every year on the same schedule. It's more like we get to a point where we notice these things and and think that said things are a new phenomena that just popped up this year.
@@martin1966 when I see my colleagues neither from AMS (university) nor whichever of the real G on RUclips.....I recognizes y'all 😂😂😂😂😂🙋♂️🤑🏋️♂️
Don't play no games with no lady. Say your intentions, ask about her values and find out if they align with yours (super-duper important!!!). Always keep the focus on yourself and your goals KING. Don't make her your priority if she isn't reciprocating. Finally, If she wants you, she will come around. Bless!!
I came here just to make sure this was stated. 👌🏽
Facts
You hit the nail on the head there, bruh. Awesome.
Great comment. Boyz and the new young men on the block - read and apply.
Your comment speaks volumes.. Are you in the UK? We need men like you at our studio
I disagree...women that play games leave them alone quick. That is a degrading level of disrespect.
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Yep. Kevin Samuels says this on his Podcast on RUclips all the time.
Classic 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Every chick that played hard to get with me were hiding issues/ problems that would've been instant deal breakers had I'd known upfront.
Dawg who you telling . I had this one chick like that who was addicted to drugs real bad , after I found out , a lot of shit became clear .
@@Malitubee 🤣🤣🤣
Life's too short to be figuring out why she's playing games. Guys, I would rather spend that time figuring how to level up, improve my physique, looks and most importantly, my finances. Get on your purpose guys. A lady who likes you plays no games, and they are the best type of women to be with.
Having read over 60 comments, this is by far the best which contains the reality of life and greatest wisdom..others' comments are also insightful! Jessica should tell us whether she's in a relationship or married and if not she should tell us why? If marriage is not her interest then she is defacto disqualified from rendering advice on the subject of relationships and marriage.
@@resetinvestments never take a dating &relationship advise from a woman. You'll end up being something they don't want.
She's doing these videos because most of her audience are men and these videos gets her the views
Great one
@@RaymondAinyam Is there any way we can get in touch on WhatsApp or Facebook?
She's doing this video for views , probably she isn't married upon all the advise she has been given
I had a "queen" waste 3 months taxing my patience with this shit and now she's a never-married 51 year old single mom who's going to spend the rest of her life alone. Congratulations on a job well done, Queen.
So women want to be modern with their sexuality, careers, attitudes and demands...
but men should stay traditional and play these silly 'catch me if you can' games'?
Not gonna happen! Men hate mixed signals and stupid games just as much as women do.
For men like myself, if a woman takes too long to text back, doesn't call and gives mixed signals, I'm out!
If you're interested in me, SHOW IT.
Don't waste my time.
Exactly
Bro,,come let's rock my boat🤣
You're one confident beast !
Off your mic man
Ooh no.. you gave up to early 😂😂😂😂😂😂
***Men must not waste their time by chasing women. Men must always chasse Excellency to build their own life***Let women do whatever they want, but men should first focus on their own life****Man can choose any woman he wants when his life us well built***Let woman chasse you***
That's so true... i support your argurment 100% women don't like broke guys. So its better to focus on getting yourself well equipped, in terms of finance, business wise, and push yourself up on the ladder.
@@shadrachwilson1211 Focus on building yourself for yourself sake and not to necessarily get women.
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Getting a woman is different from building your life except if you want "SUCKERS and VIPERS". What Jessy is say is thinking from a woman point of view to a man. And if you not in for all the "shit" women give then TAKE NOTE of her FINAL statements VERY important.
@@isaacs2539 true
She's just scratching the surface because she's a women but women play hard to get because of the following reasons
1) She's intimidated by the guy who approaches her and thinks he's a player or she's not on his level .
2) She has medium to low interest
3) She has low self esteem and she just wants attention . That's why women say "we can be friends"
4) She's not that sexually attracted to the guy
5) Her fear from bad relationships in the past is stronger than her desire to get with the guy .
Any guy who approaches and talks to a lot of women in his life knows that if a woman really like you . She will make it easy because she doesn't want to mess the situation up !
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i guess thats some of the many reasons, but she didn't cover all of it--Thats because of the reasons one has to experience it to become aware of it. because women don't communicate as men do, they are usually hiding in the dark about a lot of things
You are right but some put up resistance for their egos sake. The like you talk about could be overwhelming sexual /physical attraction ,the type that awes them so much they can't hide their nervousness.
@@randyeduo Not really , because women are so scared of how people will view them if they just say what they truly mean .
Got it right bro.and let me add one,a lady played hard to get because another guy is in her mind.
Work on yourself,get your money,go to the gym,dress well, smell nice and rock your confidence. No woman will play hard to get on you because she knows there's lots of girls chasing after you, never simp and chase a woman.
"Why women play hard to get with you and what to do when that happens"
Just walk away.
Very simple: walk away and build your own future.
👊🏾...my man
True lol
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Yeah walk away don't waste your fucking time
The competition is also stiff with men not only women anymore. If the woman plays hard to get the man quickly shift to another who will definitely play simple to get. cool. Because in the long run both women will exhibit the same purpose in the life that they were destined to fulfill in the relationship they finally end up with. I had a personal experience with a lady who played as such. After three attempts I started ignoring her. Then she attempted to use her body language to bring back my attention without verbally implying it. But them my emotions were already drained for someone else without her knowing. She tried and tried but I just ignored her.
The only thing I give my full commitment and attention to is my BEANS and FRIED PLANTAIN during lunch😂😊😎
I feel you bro, I'm more concerned with my food 😂 Women can not give me headache 😂😂
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Just walk away bro, and save yourself from fulfilling the beta bucks side after alphas phuck.. she will break rules for alphas and make them for betas
When I was much younger I’ve wondered why girls would play hard to get, and I didn’t want to waste my time with that type. When I got older I did, and when I won a couple of them over I came to a harsh realization that they weren’t really worth the wait in the first place. The perspective you’ve provided is what I had to learn the hard way. Appreciate your insight and I’m sure it can help someone down the road.
bro u are speaking wisdom here
I have a woman in my life who seems to be playing mind games. She rejected me, so I withdrew my time and attention and started dating other women and then she accused me of playing hard to get. We work together and she's hot and cold with me, more cold than hot. Another female friend at work thinks she's playing games and doing it on purpose and I can't figure out why. I'd greatly appreciate your thoughts on my situation?
I don't have patience at all.. so if it takes more than a week and u still dragging things I move.
A week ! Bruh you have time ! If you don't return me text or call with 48 hours I'm done . There's too many single women out here to wait a week !
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Sorry it's 2021 no one played those games anymore, but maybe only the simps... Besides it's more women than men...
Why should a man make a woman prize asset? Guys, focus on you and forget going after these broke ladies
This girl is going cold on me and I told her that she looks moody.
It was in the supermarket and there were people close by. But because she is playing hard to get I don't get to see her much and I can't talk to her in private.
Anyway I told her she looked moody. She responded very quitely saying that I always have some suggestions and complains. (It was not true and It made no sense. I hardly get to see her and I never text her any complains).
She said this so quietly that I couldn't hear. I had to bend down (I am at least 5 inches taller than her) and ask her to repeat.
She repeated and I left the place saying it is a peaceful month. (It was the Easter holidays)
Did I react well to her testing?
Some women have big egos no matter what you do or how much you pursue they won't reciprocate. It's not strategy it's mental illness
🤣...guy
One doctor told me 50 % of people has mental illness and another said 75% so its going to be hard out there lol
The more you love a woman the more she degrade you,while less attention means more attraction.Thats is how women psychology works.Always never hung around with women even if you love her.The more she sees that you are running away or ignoring her the more she fall crazy in you.This psychology applies both men and women.Secondly true lovers never hurt each other physically or mentally.They know the purpose that brought them together but they rest behave differently.
This comment is 1000x more useful than the video
"Women wants everything except the responsibilities that comes with it"
it"
-Kelvin Samuels-
Human nature
@Youth Finance SCAM!!!!
Kelvin Samuel talk is crap....always bashing women
@@mryoung205 you are part of the problem
🇯🇲 Anecdotally, less is best.
Beautiful women are used to getting men's attention & being pursued.
That "singled out" male who seemingly gives her " no time of the day", she will come wondering " what is it with you, don't you find me appealing?"
As a male, half your work is done and you've gained her respect.
Yeah treat her like a normal human being. Dont put her on a pedestal. Dont treat her like a celebrity because you will be treated like a fan.
Thank you bruh
Bro 💯
Why should finding love be subject to all these games! It's soooo tiring
It’s simple, “because this present world is corrupt”.
Hello!
Because of the players and heartbreakers
So tiring and fucking stressful
i think what's been forgotten in all this analysis is the age of the woman in question. Her level of maturity counts in whether she will play games with a love interest or not. Factor that along with the fact also that men do not accept no from a woman as final.
It's not about playing hard to get... It's knowing if you have chemistry from the start and being honest with each other...
100%
If I miss out on it, then it wasn't meant to be in the first place. By the way, isn't she also missing out on a good man by playing those petty games? With women, I don't regret at all. One thing I don't do is play those mind games. I don't have that patience at all. Step aside, let room for high value women.
😊 same mentality here!
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I share the same view too. A friend of mine once accused me of giving up easily. Pushing hard seems like you are lowering your own standard too. I mean, this is a relationship not like seeking for loan.
Most men have 'woken up' and are placing high value on their lives, time and dare I say, income. No more games.
Stay on your mission guys. You'll never know if games are being played. Maintain your frame and remember that you are the prize. That's the reason why hypergamy and actually exists. Continuously improve and make him ever you date do the same.
So the rest of men have to pay for what Chad and Tyrone did to her
With all due respect these games are childish and manipulative. Girls that play hard to get, for me is a clear red flag. Best thing to do is to walk away pursue a classy woman.
Hats off to you my man. You’re 💯 correct..
Facts 💯. Especially when the two parties are older.
If a woman plays 'Hard to get', please leave her and find another woman. We have limited time on this planet. Life is short.. Very short
I don't mean to be rude, but most girls that play hard to get aren't worth chasing to begin with, girls should be more straightforward, not only is it easier...but it spares a waste of time which is very important.
The funny thing is most of these women who play hard to get always ends up with a good for nothing man and when they have hit a brick wall they come back desperate. It happens to my brother and now the woman has two kids from two different men and still single. She shamelessly calls my brother thinking that things might work out.
Then your bro will be a simp to accept her back
I hope your bro moved on
She made her bed..... She can lay in it.
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Me de3 if I you start playing games I just delete your number…. I move to the next female. Life’s too short.
So how does the guy play along to all these games and not turn out to be a simp to the ladies? Cuz I know being a simp is also a turnoff to them
You will be put in the simp zone 😂😂😂😂
Well, sir, don't play the game! Focus on your own game: Yourself! Your life's purpose!
Never chase a woman, just chase your purpose, once you are good at what you do that's it, you just lay your cards on the table and at this point she already knows who you are,your values and she knows she won't look cheap
this relationship thing, why does it always have to be like a competition
Nkwaaasem kwa
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How is it that the man is the one losing out if the girl is the one playing games ? Isn’t she losing out on him? And him leaving to search for what he deserves, someone who will be honest with him and not try to push a one sided relationship.
The best relationships I ever had were the ones that approached me first with their intentions and I lived them so much for their courage and going for what they want.. at the end what matters is happiness not how u achieved it. A moment of true happiness is worth more than a life time if agony in a relationship just for the sake of it. That narrative if a girl gives in easily or makes the first move partially makes her cheap should be corrected in Africa abeg
Nobody should be judged for trying to be happy......
But Ur voice e sweet shaaa ooh and the courage u got for biking that monster bike, I'd like to borrow or buy from u if u have some left 😋. Great content and clarity of sound always
My sister this new Generation guy no get time to be toasting one girl for 5 years
Nice tips Jes. I finally got my tough girlfriend to accept me the moment she noticed I took interest in another pretty girl in the same church. So yeah, such a move works like hot knife thru butter 🇳🇬
I really love and agree with most of the ideas in this video, but kinda not inline with a few of what i herd in here. of course i believe a girl might play hard to get either she likes the guy or not.
But if the is interested in the guy, game won't be so tough. girl you work so hard to get mostly want to be the boss in a relationship, and want you to keep going on with that energy and might withdraw interest if you don't funny isn't it.
One thing is that once it taking a little longer to get her, i just withdraw and if she is interested she would find her way like you said and if she doesn't, i don't care anymore as it's better to date someone who is readily for you rather than your boss.
No matter who your are or your status, there is always someone out there for you, someone ready for your or someone with is not willing to play much games with you.
and on the other hand, if i approach a girl for the first time and she's so rude, am totally done, as you should respect yourself as a man.
I'm too old for this...bleep - I know!😆
Love the last point, you impersonated the graceful male response perfectly.
Ain't nobody got time for this immature...bleep!
"I'm mad at you, you didn't call me today" is my exit call. I only recall one woman I think was playing hard to get. She dragged it out for so long I just faded away. When I bumped into her again she was cold and angry with me. What? She actually cared enough to be angry? I haven't heard the term "mixed signals" in a long time. Great video Jessica.
“The older a woman gets, the more she knows what she wants”…Very true👏👏😍
Oh yes
True
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Sad part men love young women. Older women and single have been run through too much. Also a result of not listening to their men.
Older women also know what men Don't want.. an Older woman.
If a woman you like is playing hard to get? Leave her ass right where she is and move on.
Women don't play B.S. games with men they are attracted to, Want, Value and Respect. They just Don't.
Period.
but most girls r always saying how they never liked a guy at first but ended up falling in love with him. So of they don give any1 a shot or show interest they re gonna miss out too cz we giveup thinking they r uninterested
Jesss this came at the perfect time herrrrh 😂😂😂
Y3bl3 oooo
This whole thing is not true women this days chase guys with money 🤑 women Don't chase broke guys.. more reason they play hard to get
Okay now I know why am single coz I out grew the games 🤣 You are sister I never had. So needed this perspective.
A woman who wants to be with you, will never play games. She will chase you and call you constantly. Leave her alone if she is not straightforward. A busy man with value have no time for games.
6 months ago, For the first time in my life I went straight to tell a lady what I really want from her in the long term. I have known her for years but we just used to talk rarely and randomly, so she was surprised. We connect a lot and talk a lot about work, family and future. We even planned to invest in a business together. However, I made my intentions clear, but she seems to shy away when I bring the subject up. We are both in our 30s... I asked her if she honestly see me as someone she can be with but she never answers. So recently I just decided to pull back. Honestly I just don’t have energy to play game. She may be interested but I just stop being available. Now when she calls we only talk about business.
Women often talk a lot but can't communicate. It's a sign of immaturity on their part
Any updates?
YOG
@@Stevengomez-j6q, nothing new, I have no intention to run after her. I only do business with her but she sometimes text me out of nowhere for confort or advise when facing personal issues.
Never tell a woman you want that you love her...you will lose her. I never tell my dog that i love him yet he follows me everywhere and can even die to defend me.
@@unclemax4257 😂that’s right
No body have time to play games little girls 👧 looking for a grownup woman of God !
Most women miss out on great men because of these mind games😇
Yes they do a lot. And most of them must have dismissed their potential life partners in that process.
@@olatundeoladele5093 yes there are lot of weak men who falls prey to these things..
These mind games drive men to became minions to narcissistic influencers like Alpha Male Stategies or Kevin Samuels.
@@africancockney8712 hahahah🤣🤣
@@kid-wp9srwith all due respect right choice of word naive. Weak comes of as condescending.
Usually, I agree with your content but I absolutely disagree with the advice in this video.
For the men and women, since this advice works for both:
If the person can't respect you enough to tell you the truth of whether they're interested in you or not then don't waste your time. And, if you're willing to play those games with them, then make sure to keep your options open also and be honest about it. Tell them exactly why you are keeping your options open if they ask you about it.
For example: "I am talking to other people because you can't make up your mind and it would be disingenuous to myself to allow you to take advantage of my time and attention as you have."
It's honestly cruel for people to string you along and take advantage of you. Sometimes it is hard to cut them off or be honest with them but you always need to be honest with yourself first. I seriously disagree with the "You're simply not trying hard enough" idea. That can be severely damaging to a person's mental/ emotional health and financial stability. Absolutely do not do this, respect yourself and your time; if they like you then they will also put in the effort or attempt to match your energy accordingly. If they are making you chase and aren't being honest with you, then walk away. YOU AS AN INDIVIDUAL DESERVE BETTER
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if she's playing hard to get move on.... chale the ratio of men to women is 1-10 or more.. it's a numbers game guys.. every no brings you closer to a yes..
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Yes & the cure was becoming apathetic. Anytime a woman makes mee feel like she's playing games or if I even feel confused I no longer care about her as a potential partner. Fix is easy enough, establish a boundary & enforce it:)
The statement you made toward the end of this video...I could use it as my line and lay my cards out on the table when the lady of my dream comes my way. Freaking awesome. Thanks Sis.
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Hey Jessica....I love what you do here to bits. However,on this occasion, I don't agree with everything. I don't believe that when I see a lady my intentions would be to make her the queen in my castle. Cos at this point you barely know her. Merely going on attractions at this point. I believe it's only after you start dating for some time and see how compatible you are,then , you will now come to that decision whether or not you're right for each other. Remember, you're going into this for life. It has to be right. Like you said in one of your videos " some girls don't care about a man's wealth". That's bcos they want more than just your money. Same goes for a guy. We want more than just your physical appearance when it comes to settling down or even just a relationship. So.....I'd say if a girl is interested in a guy who's showing interest, she should let him know without dragging it out. It will either work out or not. Dragging it out unnecessarily, would invite lies ( telling her whatever she wants to hear). If a guy meet a girl and starts preaching love and talks about marrying her b4 truly knowing her.......HE IS LYING. Once again I love you to bits Jess.
You're revealing keys.
Many times women who play hard to get are out for something fishy. They never the best so they try to hide their weakness in play games. A woman who knows her worth and is confident of her character will always be plain with someone she loves. Walk away quickly and avoid these play games like plague
Yes!..I totally agree with you in all. ..and that last one got me cutely: *Lay your cards on the table* , that's what works here.. even when you said it, my mind resonated with it. I love folks who are *blunt* . At the end of the day, it is what it is.
Hey Qins, how is it going?
@@relaxingandsoothing7353 am good 🤗
@@qinspride5795 I'm glad 🙏🏼
Stop chasing them, if they want to talk to you they'll make time for you if not move on. I hate games and not going to play them with any women.
Thanks for the video!
PS: in my experience laying your cards on the table to younger women (below 25) is perceived by them as being needy. They appreciate it more when they are older (around 30), because of their biological clock.. Geriatric pregnancy is at age 35 and the guys hitting them up are now less than a couple..(all men want young women, especially successful men). it's not a coincidence myself and many of my friends are bombarded with messages from girls who previously said no to us when they were younger(22-23)..
Another point to be aware of is if she starts to play hard to get, it probably means you showed too much interest right from the start.. You wanna show her you have a purpose, lifestyle and options. And you're not in a relationship because you haven't yet met a woman with the qualities you're looking for.. If you do it properly, she'll try to prove you wrong.. Aka she'll come on a few dates with you... From there if you have sex with her and assuming the sex was good, you've turned the tables around.. She'll start acting needy...
My question is: where do you find women with character and good moral values?
It all starts with you! You must know the both the non- physical and physical qualities you want before you approach women . You have to be extremely cold and unemotional towards women . You must be prepared to be get rejected by a lot of women who you approach in real life . I don't know what qualities you're looking for but at the baseline is a woman must be co-operative and submissive to your program . Please never lie to women ! Always tell them upfront what you want so you don't waste your time .
I fully agree with you. Some of the girls I went to the same school with and the ones I spent my childhood with them in the community/block are chasing me now. They used to reject me due to being less successful and less successful than others at school and in the community. Now that I am educated, I work and I make much money, they start to hunt me as if I was an animal. What is amazes me is that, I am being appreciated by both women(younger and older). Some of them are asking me for marriage. Unfortunately there is no room in my hear for them. They ignored me in such a way that I felt useless in this world. I have to get married to someone who has not shared any table or stage with me.
Many chase the men that they undermined at their younger age, because they have been married for multiple times with a lot of men and the men no longer appreciate them. Their bodies are already dead. So, they find a refuge from their old childhood male friends. 🤣.
Greetings from Moz🇲🇿. Portuguese speaking country
@@falaafrica3114 Never take them back because if you do they will not respect you!
@@Ben256MB I shall never do that in my life. I have been rejected. It is enough
@@falaafrica3114 😆 if you want women you can't avoid rejection and dating is a numbers game just like a business . Any business knows they must market their products and the more they do that . Many customers will say no and but the few who buy will make the business successful . It's the same thing with dating and meeting women . You need to develop a thick skin to rejection and that's how you get the women you really want .
Life is too short to be afraid of women !
Strange that back in my day, girl would straight says that they like you without playing any dumb bullshit game....
The best way to get women is putting them in the friendzone first. It sounds crazy but it works like magic. Before they put you in the friendzone put them first. Don't chase a relationship, or commitment don't chase sex. Just be friends and enjoy each other's company. Little by little she opens up like a book and she'll tell you how she feels about you
Edit: this method won't work for you if you're needy and not fun to be around with. You have to hint her in ways that shows you're interested in her if not she's not gonna know where she stands and that'll make her think you're not serious. So work on your weaknesses and know your strengths.
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While you doing that she getting her gutts blown out by another dude
@@Shadow_Blazer So? Why do you care about that?
A woman who plays hard to get is certainly the kind of woman I would not want to have any interest in. I hate games. Just be a decent human being that acts accordingly.
I think you spoke to me today, I just came back from a date and things didn’t go well. Lol. I’m not hurt though. Just happy I found this channel !
Can we please stop this bs that if a woman sleeps with you within the first one or two dates she is a 304? She may be, but you need to watch out for other things. It surely means that she likes you to some extent, but that doesn't mean that she is 100% cheap or a slnt.
I love this Jessica. You're hitting the salient points. This channel deserves 1m subscribers 👏 🌚. We meuve.
i'm so glad you think so
@@JessicaOS yh your topics are universal and boys abr3 lool. So i think you deserve a wider audience. I know ppl will definitely subscribe once they chance upon a video like this. For sure 👍 💯
@@kobbyattafuah2029 fingers crossed
JESSICA, I feel like you are taking to me 💜👍
@@JessicaOS 🤞🏾🤞🏾
If she is playing hard to get. There is some doubt in her mind. And over time that doubt will not go away. Any type of holding back, is a not interested.
With the last point a lot of guys avoid it cos we are afraid of how it could turn out. Some ladies do say no even if they have feelings for you just coz you provided with that option. It's crazy chale
Not all us guys have had 10000 gfs so when I get cold shoulder I take that as rejection
Very good advice, thanks.
Relationship isn't easy because the decision doesn't lie with you and you feel powerless when you don't have control.
If a woman is playing hard to get it's simple she's not interested in you she's only soaking up the attention that guy is giving her to boost her ego to go to the guy she likes, if a woman is interested in you she will be on her best behavior not to mess up the situation
The men really need their notebooks and pens....these are are very true and valid points 🔥. Good job Jessica ♥️
Thanks sis
@@JessicaOS 🙏🤩
Notebooks for this??? 😂😂😂😂 Notebooks to take notes on being a simp and being the beta bucks 😂😂😂😂 .no thank you
This whole thing doesn't make sense , very stressful
@terrell ivey same here...men are not important like they think of themselves! However they choose to stick to the point of not needing women when in actual sense they do - those who have time will listen 👌
Life is too short for game playing… You’re either in or out… Thanks anyways!
All this video did was reinforce what I already knew. But I'll give you your due praise, this advise is pretty accurate
The truth is
These days A man should not make a woman his focus. Guys its simple Do not i repeat DO NOT FOCUS ON WOMEN. Chase Money
Hit the Gym and focus on your goals = women will Chase you.
Morgan Freeman says A Man should not Chase women.
Had this talk with my mum about a lady I am seeing and I can't really place what is happening with us. I think place all my card on the table is what I will do. Thanks alot for this jessica
Guys. Women who plays mental gymnastics with you, you better proceed with extreme caution. If a woman truly is into a man, she doesn't play these games. She makes herself available to him at the drop of a dime. She becomes a chameleon for the guy she really likes. She doesn't put him into any mental gymnastics whatsoever. Don't play the game men. You will get hurt in the end. Make your intentions known from jump. If she cannot or is unwilling to get on your program, then kindly allow yourself out and dismiss yourself from that woman. Cut off all communication, so they can see that you have a pair. They will either like you even more, or they go about their life. At least they don't get your validation, your resources, and most importantly, "your time."
I can't believe I pursue a woman of my dreams for 4 years, I did everything guys, EVERYTHING! just to show her how special she is to me, but I ended up giving up in mid 2019. I never see and talked to her eversince.
Love your channel ❤️💯
Think of it as a happy ending. You rather chase and fail than not chase and wonder what would happen.
My history is : i get a girl but became needy due to inexperience. Wonderful and painful time, but a scar of war in my heart. A lesson to be told.
The ability to stand up and start over is all it count to finally find the romantic relationship one seek.
She sometimes laughs at u when she chats with her friends , yeah about that dude who chased for soo long and then I wasted his time 🤣🤣
if she play hard to get I put Craig David on my headphone then I Walking Away from the trouble in my life
Your videos are really helpful , am in my early 20s ,before following you , it was really hard for me to really get this concept of women nature but you really have simplified it for me ,thank you
Girl I'm talking to certainly fits the 3rd reason
Yessss - the older I get the more I know about myself! And I agree - let me know what you want; your intentions so we can work it out! hahaha; another good content Jess; you rock😃
@Jessica Os thank you, will await to hear from you
Hello Jessica, how long do you play with the game.?
Very insightful and enlightening. Thank you.
Question why they play hard to get but they don’t want you with nobody else
The more I listen to Jess, the more frustrated I feel with a woman I’m interested but playing games and literally tells she’s keeping her options open. I told her good luck, I’ll have to pull out of that pool of men. Not chasing a woman with baggage and all like that. I’ll pursue you for a short while, but only for a short while. If I see nothing coming out of it I move on. At my age I don’t have time for cat and mouse games. lol too matured for that.
Women monkey branch sooo much... Men don't waste time . Move on .
Im in a situation now . Im not really tripping because I love the chase. Game on.
I always thought that if she is interest in u she jst be straight at point wen u approach
This is good 👍… I mean really good content OS … being my crush I think I will try it on you 🥰🥰🥰. Thanks for the tips
hehehe! good luck! I play the game well
@@JessicaOS 😂😂😂 … play the game paaa …🤣🤣🤣 let pack my bags then. I think I lost the battle before it started 😅😅😅 3ka ba fie
@@clementaniobeng5326 you can't back out just like that brother 🙄
@@welcomehavefun910 thanks for the encouragement. Will push harder 💪
Africa women plays hard to get
What she's achieving on RUclips is nothing short of true genius and grit.
The last part looks needy, but thanks for the info
Just like listening and watching your videos..most of it are often on point..thanks Jessica for the sensitization 🙏🙏
@Jessica Os Okay J...will check him out doing my less busy time...keep on the good work 💪👷 appreciate you for all you do and proud to have your kind 👏👏
Jessi I think this is one of my best Videos from your Channel , If she Play hard to get , Also Play hard to get carefully , That really Got , Much love to you from Nigeria