What to do when she wants to be 'Just friends'
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- Опубликовано: 2 июн 2024
- You really want more from this girl but she won't give you time of day. Is it possible to get her to change her mind? Indeed, what do you do when a girl wants to be just friends? Watch this video now!
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00:00 - Intro
00:58 - Sponsors message
02:45 - Why do women friend zone men?
04:29 - Option 1
06:28 - Option 2
08:27 - Option 3
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I was friends with a girl for at least ten years & repeatedly tried to be with her. So me thinking that there could've been something more kept trying. Well one year I just stopped.... Stopped being available stopped calling all the time & I came out & told her I was dating.... She cussed me clean out in jealousy she then & only then realized she liked me for a romantic relationship. That's when I let her have it & told her I tried for 10yrs to be with you. Now I'm happily married & not to her lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣That's true they always want to see you suffer
Shit fam 10 years is a whole new level of simpery I highly doubt once she finally liked you that you left lol biggest cap I heard in this topic
@@fml5910 bro are u joking or are u serious? If you are serious listen bro, she is clearly playing you and laughing behind your back. I'm not trying to be no asshole but seriously. You're missing the most important kind of respect, self respect. If you cant respect yourself how Can a woman respect you? A woman only has sex with a man she respects. Again I am not trying to be an asshole, I'm being completely crudely honest brother. When she said she loves u but she doesn't she meant to say she loves u like a brother (non sexually) women just sometimes can't even learn to express themselves correctly, and it's bit irritating I know. Also when you didn't hug her the first date mightve been you very big mistake. You gave her the impression that you didn't see her in that way and that's exactly what caused all this honestly from what I understood
@@southernguru1455 I did leave her alone I had a girlfriend at the time. I don't play that game.
@@southernguru1455 I agree she has played for a dam fool, way too long. And probably is laughing behind my back.Along with the older ugly guy she is with. I do have respect for myself, I told her how it is, and am done kissing her ass, I figured it out that is what she wants. Haven't heard from her in over 2, and half months no text messages, or phone calls.
Walking away is the best. Never beg for a woman's love lol.
If she hasn't made that decision to be with you, pls gerrit and expand ur search.
We all know what we want and I'm sure none of us need to be 'forced' into a relationship.
@@kwamedanquahii2671 I don't think there was any confusion in what I said lol
@@theawesomeinc_6483 not in the least..its crystal clear.....walk away if you ever have to beg for love...
"The Best relationships are the ones not forced"💯
Thank you
@@shebahdebrah6076 👍
Word🙌
@@nana1official those are lasting relationships. You don't struggle to make things perfect
@@shebahdebrah6076 absolutely dear and I pray for such one day
If a man forced a woman into a relationship, she is prone to cheat on that man because she didn't wants him in the first place.
true
Well said 🎯.But to be honest being on a friendship zone with someone you got feelings for " it will end in tears one day "
Guys, it's not that serious. If she just wants to be friends, just leave. Have some self respect. And have an abundance mindset. Chances are that you'll flip the switch and she will not want to lose you, so she'll start chasing you. If that doesn't happen, it will mean you saved time and emotions on another girl and you will reap the benefits there. Win/Win.
Thank you for this
This is the right answer. Let her go, move on, and carry on with your life. And one more thing, you cannot never negotiate with a woman who has made up her mind, specially coming from a logical standpoint. Just take your L, chin up, and walk away.
My girlfriends comes back from a 10 day holiday , tells me she missed me so much and loves me so much , spends the night with me everything seems so good , then she drops the bomb can we be friends after dating 2 years , what your opinions
@@darrenspeirs3474 agree with her and move on. You're a man. You'll only appreciate in value. It is difficult and it hurts in the beginning but it will definitely pay off in the long run.
She'll try to chase after you if you walk away. But she's chasing after the validation and attention you give her. She still won't give you the affection sadly.
I, personally, think that walking away is the best option, overall. Negotiating is no good, because the woman should already know if she wants you, especially if you've been friends for quite a while. All that has to be remembered is that a man should exercise self-control and not allow his feelings (and, ultimately, his loins) to get into an uproar for a woman who hasn't said 'Yes!' yet.
And no one should EVER think that they deserve a relationship with anyone who is not onboard with that. Thinking like that is what produces stalkers, etc.
Absolutely!
Facts 💯, one thing I observed is women knows who they want from the get go so for the fact that she still thinking about it, your an OPTION.......
Negotiating is best if she says maybe.
Same, once I’m shut down and they want to be friends I move on
Better to forget that particular girl and talk to another girl. She is playing mind games
My guy if she only wants to be friends it's not a sin... Just focus on your life and look for someone who doesn't want to only be friends with you but wants to be in a relationship with you... Don't waste your life it's as simple as that or you can risk being beaten by another guy who is not even on your level 😂😂
This is how I do it: #1. There is simply no option of accepting that insulting offer. #2. If I demonstrate to her why I am the best suited for her and she insists, I will make it clear that I want nothing less of a romantic relationship and walk away. If she comes back to me within a reasonable time, say in under 2 weeks, I will pursue a relationship with her fully as if no hitch had occurred. I will understand that she might have had her uncertainties (they are normal) or she was probably going through something. #3. If I walk away and she comes back to me after months, a year or several, then I know that she has been in another or several relationships she thought would be better than what I could offer but they have disappointed her. She's therefore only coming back to me as a second (or third or fourth, or....) option. Now that's an insult and I ususally do 1 of 2 things. If the woman is still looking hot and appealing to me sexually, I will get intimate with her and dump her and tell her my mind to her face. If I no longer find her appealing even physically, I will tell her off and remind her everything and show her the middle finger. In either case, there is just no way I am dating the woman who rejected me on mundane grounds. I am not a wastebin. And, ironically, when you walk away, she will ALWAYS come back looking for you, somehow. No matter how long it takes.
If she calls you cause “she misses you” after you walked away you’re just a rebound and a second option!
How could you be a rebound if you walked away from the same woman ?
@@larryhurley2314 thank you for logic stepping in finally in these comments.
thank you very much I have been friend zone today, Option 4 is the best option for me
Option 3 is the only options when she wants to be "just friends". he didn't gather the courage to ask her out to just be her friend. He could have simply asked her to be friends. What kind of "friendship" exists where she gets 100% of what she wants from him and at most he gets 50% of what he wants from her? She merely wants to continue to get his attention, validation, and any potentially any other perks.
*Never try to convince a heart which doesn't like you to like you. It's like rain falling in a desert pm sand.*
Correct
So tonight, i basically walked away, i sent a beautiful text, expressing my feelings, describing what i saw in her and what i wanted, but since she is on a different page, I have no choice but to move on... it really hurts... but i can't do this anymore... Deeply i want her to process what happened and change her mind, so wish me luck!! But if she doesn't change her mind, I'm taking my premium frienship somewhere else!!
I feel you!!
Hey, how did it go?
@@mangogirlknight We had a small conversation some time later, but never talked again
@@Dabsteras oh damn. Any advice? So me and this girl started talking in July and we were both in summer break so we only ever texted or sent each other snap chat vlogs. Then in September in person we went on a few dates and I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes but then broke up a few days later because she wasn’t ready for a relationship. Her ex was very abusive and they only broke up a few months ago. We stayed normal friends for a week until we started making out again but two days ago I told her I loved her and now she says she wants to stay friends forever. She still likes me and I still like her. Sorry this was long
@@mangogirlknight I’m not good at advice but I’ll give you my opinion. To me she seems a little bit confused. Don’t push things any further, give her some time to think and process all of this, after a while if she still want to stay friends and you can’t handle this you don’t really have a choice but to let go, believe me, I know it’s hard but you shouldn’t wait forever if she may change her mind. Explain to her that since you are on a different page, you have to move on. Now if you cut contact with her and she was feeling something, she may get scared that she will lose you and try to come around, but if she doesn’t come around you will know that her mind was already made up and she probably won’t miss you…
Walking away best option ever🎉
Good advice.. I negotiated and got my foot in the door. Only takes one date to fix it.
Never accept Option 1. Even if your feeling are not so deep, it may grow if you stay. Option 2 does not make sense. If you were rejected, there is no point to ask her to reconsider. She may do it only with a time. Option 3 is the only one. Someday, she may get back to you, but even if it happens, the chance that it will work later is not really high.
Jessica always knows the right topics and knows the perfect time to talk about it is is what am going through now
Likewise me
Haaaaaha same here 😂😂😂😂
Bro you are here too, hmm. The best place for advice for young men, Mummy really appreciate whta you are doing 💕
Likeee😌
I tell you... Seems to be in the spirit... Hahaha 😁
I felt like she was falling for me because she was starting to pursue me. However, at that point, she started to back off and I wasn't ready for that. It caught me off guard and I lost my s**t.
I started pursuing her and becoming needy. I know, that was a bad mistake.
She dumped me and even told me she founded someone else (I don't know if that was true or a lie).
I went no contact and, after two months of radio silence, she reached out. However, nothing good came out of it. The strange thing was that she wanted to know if I was dating someone else and tried to make me jealous.
At the end of the summer I asked her for a date and she used some BS excuse to reject my offer.
I told her that for me it was over and walked away. It's been six months since then and I've never heard from her again.
The friend zone is a consolation prize from a game show that you just lost.
Option 3 is best guys
why do guys always feel so forced to get a girl?
-your insecurities and depression don't get magically fixed, because you now date someone
-if someone forces you to buy their product... you won't buy it, so why should the girl feel forced to date you?
-you ARE NOT the center of the world, others aren't obliged to please you
-living on your own and building your own career is also fulfilling. still live with your mom? well, how is a girl going to find that secure and sexy?
Thanks a lot Coach.
Thanks so much for the message
I was friends, which later transformed being lover, then friends with benefits then lover again with a girl who stayed many 1000 kms away. Due to pandemic and war we aren’t able to meet for the last 2.5 years. We also broke up for a year. She came back to be lover, which again changed to be friends. I told her that I love her and can’t remain friends with her. She offered to be friends with benefits. I walked away today wishing her love, light and luck. I feel lighter dropping the weight of the one sided love, honestly I don’t feel too bad and somehow I saw that I’m better off alone and use the learning from this relationship.
Your points are top notch. Most of the time when you're friendzone. it's always difficult to come out of it most especially if she doesn't find you as someone she will love to have as a boyfriend. meanwhile she doesn't want to lose your sight. it's manipulative kind of relationship when you're the one in love there. And The best option is to walk away if you don't stand a chance.
Always on point sister
Jess you are brilliant
So helpful I love option 2
Jessica! Genius.
On point jessica
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Awesome. Love every bit of it. Keep up the good work.
You are a genius always a 100% right
Woe!! what an amazing points to note 😏
Nice one Jessica 👍
Relationships are not forced.
If a woman tells you she wants to be a friend. Ma guy don't waste your time. Just forget her and move on. That's all.
Thank you Guru. I have my answers now.
Great content 👌💥
Woow! very helpful pals
Thanks very much for this video it's helpful
Thank you Jessica...
Thank you
I love the content‼️
Thanks Jessica for another great job 👍
Thanks Jessica you cheered me up.👍
You've helped me so much Jessica
100% true. Good content
Good advice, just walk away. I had to do this exact thing about 10 days ago. It was not easy, I was very attracted to her.
Same, once I get rejected that person is a stranger to me..
Jessica always coming in clutch 🥶🔥
Babe the last point you dropped was 🔥 lit. Very much on point
I swear you be finding the perfect topics 💯 thank you for the knowledge
Thank you Jessica,I could watch this one again. Very helpy
Love you Jessica ..You're the best
Thanks. Your advice is always the absolute business 🤗
Thank you so much. I feel better now 😅
So inspiring
Top notch video
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Just on time
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Thanks indeed have learnt something serious and have watched it at a time where am experiencing such
Jessy, please keep it up cos you are my mentor 🥰🌈
Am so grateful I had to come across to this video
Very helpful indeed.
First! Keep rising and grinding Queen 👸🏾 💪🏾
A big thanks to you Jessi....Our Sister.... thanks 💯💯
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You are wise... Too wise Jessica.. Seriously thank you...
I just see this video.I have to watch until the end.I have not find the time,but I will because I really need to hear this ♥️🇧🇸⚓
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Nice one
I love you so much, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and intellect!
Jessica.... You're the bomb, thanks for sharing these tips on your channel, it has really helped me a lot. God bless
Purposefully and beautiful one,, God bless this Woman...
Wow Jessica is really awesome when it comes to this relationship matters and I really enjoyed her videos
I love this and I'm doing it right away (walking away)
Jessica 👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Shuuu .... such a powerful message Jessica. It's a right thing to accept when you are not ready. It's hard because you feel hurt and feel jealous 😔.
Thanks, Jessica, please the link you dropped for '' how to escape and friend zone and get the relationship you deserve '' keeps directing me to another video.
True Jessica you speak with passion can't force someone to love you the best is let it go the same way you find her still find someone else what is important is to focus on solutions and make a decision weather it hurt you or not and is to appreciate the outcome and always respect a person who openly tell you the position means someone care for you and looking for best for you because fighting too much you end up missing opportunity around you
Thank you for your honest and candid advice. It was respectful and to the point. We don't want to be belittle anyone. I'm grateful I stumbled upon your video. God bless you!
Sister I thank you so much for this am facing the same problem and decided to walk away
Life is a Mastery indeed 😊
Love listening to this lady, feeds your brain with so much!!! I walk away many times for me to be friends with a girl that has to start from childhood otherwise no… girls friend zoning you is a disrespect and what she trying to tell u is that she is better than you and your not in her league
re-directing thoughts is basically a way of manipulation. If a woman is not interested the best option is to walk away and move on, life is too short to wish for something to happen while the person you like is not interested or attracted to a different person and you're the second option
wow..wow..wow this just gave me goosebumps. I am kinda in a similar situation but in this case, the lady is confused. I have given her the option that we take things slowly or I walk away from her life totally and damn it, I am good at walking away. Just friends with her aint an option.
Dope content
you respect it and you move on
Thank you, Jessica Os. That is one of the problems most girls have. Some of them want to friend zone a guy they truly want to engage in a romantic relationship with just to prove hard to get, not knowing that some guys don't know how to love a girl twice. By the time she is ready for a relationship, the guy might have lost all interest in her but will pretend to play along just to get back at her, and that's when she will feel like the guy is a bad guy. Sincerly grownup guys hate chasing girls.
Hi Jess, you're right on point....The "Walk Away" part works magic...I can attest to that... My long forgotten Ex girlfriend came back begging for us to be at least friends after a year plus of break up. what's your advice?
You’re one of the few channels that I get notifications for every time you post and I have a plan to watch all of your videos!
Thank you
Kind of reality pyschological shits love from tz
I'm really enjoying this...
Now u like the person that very much and you told her ur feelings and she's aware of it buh she's not certain if she should be with you, buh she's trying to be nice and later she tells you she can't do this, and u're broken hearted... Buh u tried and walked away, buh in ur heart u wish she'll come back to you.. and months later or even years that ur wish comes true ..
Do you accept her that easily or u'll also pretend u don't want her, buh in ur heart u really wants her to come back
I wish your video came out yesterday.
Great video. You're really good at this. Thanks for the insight.
Glad it was helpful!
Yeah, my problem is I'm in mid-40s, and she's in mid 20s. But she started all the flirting knowing this already. Then she pulled back. I'd say mostly my fault for getting swayed.
Taking my premium friendship elsewhere!! Great vid💯
You are very clever my friend, unique one and intelligent, love you so much, keep it up,,,
Awesome,wow
There is a quote, if u are found in the friendzone and you really like her..... first walk away, and when she will come back just say to here" i dont press u to be my lover, why u are pressing me to be your friend? I have clearly said i see you sexually" ..... and walk again away.... most of the times she wont chase u, but it wont matter because you dont deserve that kind of attetion and feelings in your life.....
I respect the options, just do number 3
I swear i really needed this. Am in this situation. Thanks 💯
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......
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Public comment. Jessica really enjoyed your wonderful video. You are amazing Jessica..continue the great work..i wish you health and strength and peace and happiness always.