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Size does matter. But it's different for each woman. You actually gave it away. You said it's exciting with an elated expression then you said avg with a more bored expressing. So in other words, a woman looking for excitement will cheat on you with the bbc if there's not much excitement in the relationship.
...it’s basically about how you carry yourself...there’s nobody nature has given all or taken all from...we just have to be the best version of ourselves and the kind of love we deserve will come to us...
Jessica, not that these topics matter to me, but l think you are genuinely a very nice and lovely person. A great all round personality, a great ambassador of Ghana, Africa and and humanity in general..Thank you.
I feel both sexes should never penalize a person for things they can't control like: height, penis size, breast size, skin complexion, hair texture,hair loss, butt size, shoe size, body type,etc.If you're born with bad teeth make sure they're white until you can afford to fix them. You have a big gut.Get in the gym and watch what you eat.Essentially control what YOU can control and men: No matter how big or small you are, make sure you ALWAYS please the woman first.Foreplay is the key.Also if you dont have a great body make sure you wear the right clothes that fit your shape/ size.
As you get older, you tend to not worry about these things. You become more comfortable in your own skin. Women look for confidence; being able to dress well; and the ability to connect through conversation.
I’m short but one thing I believe is I’m hardworking and take good care of myself. That makes me not too worried. I rather go with a woman that fall for dreamer than the one looking for physical looks. Thanks for this great video
Personally, In my adult life I have never had a woman that didn't want to marry me. All of them at some point asked me to marry them. And that's true money isn't everything, But money is the answer to a lot of things.
Lol! Remember guys Jessica is speaking as a 30 something year old, Logical woman. Most women are not like this. Don't take dating advice from women. Acquire wealth, stay in peak fitness and never listen to what women say!
Short guys will say height doesn’t matter, cosmetically challenged women will say beauty doesn’t matter, poor people will say money is not everything..... And it goes on and on ! Of course it does matter! if it didn’t, why even ask the question? Why even make it an issue?
6 insecurities about women men don't care about 1.) Her degree. It's just a piece of paper, give us a piece of ur personality lmaoo 2.) Her money. Money is just a tool. No need to flex. Relax..we aren't the fucking IRS lmaooo 3.) An obnoxious laugh. Men actually adore a woman who can throw chips on the table. Not a chip on her shoulder lmfaoo 4.) Imperfect skin. We human!!! 5..) Stretchmarks. Stretchmarks, sweetpants, chillin with no makeup, that's when she's the prettiest hope she don't take it wrong lol 6.) Chipped nails. That's some squirrel shit lmfaoo
Does size matter? Yes. Do looks matter? Yes. Does money matter? Yes. Does status matter? Yes. You've just been red pilled. Congratulations! Now that you know the truth go out there and do something about it (act accordingly).
Unfortunately, social media has allowed women to have access to so many men via Instagram, etc. that it has warped their mindset because they are experiencing so many men to compare . Appreciate your videos
JESSICA , I wonder if you realized that you are god given angel to men . If only you know how much things I have learned from you .I am making a catalogue that contains only your vidoes because they mean so much to me . My Jamaican family loves you so keep up the remarkable work that you are doing .
My spouse was six foot, I was 6 foot and 1/2 inch. She weighed 165 and I weighed 235, solid muscle. When she put on heels she looked taller than me and asked me if it bothered me. Of course not, I have a 52 inch chest, 38 inch waist and 42 inch hips. I am hugely strong, everyone knows who the male is.
So here's the best advice any person can receive about attraction.(especially with men).... who cares what "she" is attracted too, or what "she" wants out of life from a man, or anything "she" wants. Be confident, know that your the prize just as much as she is or wants to be, be clean, smell good, groom yourself and just be confident. Don't do anything for her that you except something else in return. Just be natural, layed back, and flirt. Don't buy her a drink, don't do shit for her. Be classy and a gentleman and be confident. Period. The confident man always gets what he wants. And don't care about rejection it happens to everyone... practice on random women without any expectations and you will see a huge improvement in your numbers.
Does SIZE really matters? No to women and capital YES to the man. Reason why, a man feel less a man at the initial penetration when he sees no sign on her face that says "I am in". Begin to thrust , she just lays there like she's not feeling him in her, bothers some men. Upon taking my boxers off, I want her to acknowledge it, sees it and go, whoa! man, you're packed! Its the best compliment that makes a man feel like a man.
This topic, discussion, debate, argument, & whatever else you wanna call it has been going on forever and it won’t stop! & tbh there’s one simple response and one simple answer. SOME WOMEN honestly do care about the 6 insecurities that was mentioned in this video, while SOME WOMEN honestly do not care about any of those things. I’ve noticed it’s always 50/50 & my response to that will be to love yourself no matter what & always have confidence. & if you don’t then please go find and work on yourself. Everyone has personal standards, expectations, & preferences. As arrogant, close minded, immature, & shallow they may be sometimes but that’s people & that’s life. Find someone who likes you for you & loves you for you & respectfully walk away & stay away from the people who don’t. & remember to always be yourself and always be honest.
I watch your videos and I realize just how insecure I had always been in my own way. Met a girl for the first time this year who picked the tab, and a girl who lent me money... really really wish I'd met you earlier in my life. Thanks Jessica... alot
Jessica has earned my outmost respect for schooling us males from a women perspective,this is truly helpful. She indeed just earned a new subscriber from my side with so much more to come since I’ll be recommending.🔥🥂
I believe most women are cynical about the 4th thing you mention. Not only are they often dishonest about how they feel about it they aren’t interested in a partner who doesn’t satisfy them.
OMG Jess. I am Short but believe me I have no issue with that. Infact the irony is, my height is the point of attraction all the time. My buddies are even wishing to be short sometimes 😄😄. God is wonderful
Thanks again. Too bad, I don't think I have any insecurity, I sincerely believe I owe no man/woman nothing. This is my one time of existence and nothing will ruin it for me.
Being a sound engineer, am Still so blown away by the adjustments you made on the sound. You are the first you tuber that has positively responded to my sound quality suggestions and I can't say thank you enough. Most people usually ignore and do nothing and in one case , the guy even told me off (sammy flex show). Good Sound mix and quality is a big problem in Africa yet its very important. So, thumbs up to your recognition to this... btw, your general sound is always great from vocal levels, quality, etc..keep it up
As a sound engineer, I would say that she and her team has good sound adjustments, however you saying all you have said,, is an understatement or probably showing you just got in the world of sound engineering.. there is a whole galaxy to explore.. however I am not saying @jessica Os you have it wrong
You guys in the comments saying that Jessica's information isn't accurate must realize that she's not talking about just any women. She's talking about the humble women. To the humble women, the male insecurities listed in this video will not be much of a problem or none at all. But to the prideful vain women, they will be. You gotta understand what kind of women you're going for as it will save you much time and energy.
Very interesting topic...one that a lot of people don't want to address...me personally, I do what I'm comfortable with, I'm not no mack...but I can hold my own, when I'm comfortable, confident and cordial in my approach, because I expect more from me, than the woman, so she doesn't feel obligated or impressed to have to navigate my ego, and vice-versa!
Thanks for trying to help our self esteem Jessica. Your videos help a lot. But some of our insecurities are too deep seeded that only reversing them with acquisition of said inadequacy will help. Some of them though, cannot be acquired. Thanks for trying though. You’re a beautiful person, inside and out. ❤️
Great points 🔥...women are more opened up these days 🤩....the unnecessary attributes don't matter anymore - therefore guys get rid of the insecurities 🔥. Big ups Jessica 👏❤️
I am seeing more beautiful women,like herself,coming from Africa,it's makes me want to go to their country,love the videos,keep it coming beautiful!!!!!!!!
@@lukehood5546 In the context of beauty here which obviously is characterized by natural appearance (color and other features typical of where she belongs), who would look like this and not come from Africa?
@@shepherdboy6492 I hope this is not a rhetorical question because certainly you know beauty in the form of blackness can come from any continent. Don't be silly and foolish all your life
Any guy who is insecure about anything, has been exposed to the wrong women. Same goes for women... some people are hallow and they tend to project their insecurities on other people.
Could make a video like this about what men don’t really care about. Your body/breast/butt type would be of minimal concern if you don’t bring stress into his life and bring peace instead. I promise!
I discovered your channel yesterday and I have watched slightly over 10 videos already. This channel is so addictive and educative! Keep up the good work gal!
You have a very honest unbiased breakdown! This aids tremendously in dispelling the common illusions that males are confronted with in regards to understanding women.
that's where you are wrong...the G spot is about 2inches deep.......the soundtrack is just to fuel your ego and believe me it hurts them more than they enjoy it
Seriously Jessica at first I had psychological effects of my baldhead but ironically I have able to overcome it, because there is nothing I can do about it and this does not put food on the table
I'm 6ft 2in, bald-headed and I don't really think about it, I've been shaving my head from before my hairline start to recede in my late twenties, I'm not insecure about it and I actually don't care really.
Right on, just I miss the long hair I had in my 20's. But, this bald thing I got going now is cooler and way less maintenance, and at 6'5" I think the top of my head exceeds the tree line anyway. LOL. Let's be our bald selves and have fun with it.
Jessica your head is packed wisdom...For me as long as my creator loves me it's all that matters..I got inner peace..I really don't allow any life stressor to control me.
I’m a young man who after accomplishing some goals of mine in terms of academics..wanna settle. Your videos are really blessing me and opening my mind massively. And I love the fact that you’re very straightforward and truthful using yourself for some examples. Good job 👏 👊😊
I don't care if a woman doesn't want me because I don't drive a good or expensive car, or I don't have money, situation can change at any time and I'm not lazy or a lay-about, I work hard to look after myself.
As a proud african man i dont care about the size of me weener! Its all about how you perform the deed😎👊✌🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦!! Much love and respect from cape town south africa!!
I've followed so many people on u tube but honestly it's hard to stand this lady's beauty,I can't focus on the video when my all I'm doing is admire you, let me first deal with it locally
You always hit the key factors Jessica. Your evaluation is quite on point wow. I’m absolutely amazed with your insights on the issues of having a good relationship. Thanks so much sweet Onelove ❤️💛💚
Although I'm not a Relationship person neither am I an Aromantic being.... I'll agree with you that these things don't really matter but , there's this exponential new world order that has impacted so much on ladies in terms of tastes and satisfaction .. They tend to look for Big things in all aspects of a man before diving into a relationship... Well I'm just saying from my observation... ☺️
@@JessicaOS Good day sunshine. Great sermon. LETS REFLECT:~ Reference to insecurities, i think its more of a preference thing than (size matter). Most women just prefer a certain length, girth and depth over others pleasure wise. No shame in our game🤷🏿♂️adults here right! Similiar to how sum men are accustomed to their women. I.e; sum men in their 30s love younger women. Sum love women in their 40s simply because, such matured women exihibit more recipe, culture, substance. Secondly, reference to ya comment "stand taller in other departments".🤣Well, you & I know that if they only shine down south but lack luster in other aspects of their lives like assertiveness, chemistry, communication etc. Then gameover, That'll be (one time trial experience for women)😁short lived due to gravity trumps blood vessels (erections)= cant last long nor keep it up🙈. Lastly, I must admit. A lovely gemstone necklace📿 would really complement not just ya video presentations, but your beaut and grace as well. Ashe'
My best friend's dad is actually short than his wife . And I've never met a women who care about her husband like her. That's why guys should not worry about it. Personally looks attracts but character makes her stay with you. So chill out. I'm 6'1 and I have my own insecurities and it's ok. We have such mentality. But that's not a prob when you just have the courage to stand up for who you are.
I like medium to average and soft not hard. My womb is very important and I don't want to be peeing on my self when I cough. Money is important to buy a nice house a car and afford the basic amenities, travel once every year,pay for children's activities, dine at a restaurant every month, you know simple normal things.
Stupid people will most likely wind up unhappy. You know people who are unable to realize the things that are really important. That goes for men and women.🤔🙄😁
Love listening to you and looking at you. You are extremely gorgeous. You have great conversation and lovely chocolate skin. Very pretty. Very good advice and being a woman I take in what your saying from a woman's point of view. I learn a lot about women just by listening that's why we have 2 ears and one mouth. Men just listen to a woman and check out her body language while you have a conversation with her. You will learn a lot.
Simple truthful answer to whether size matters is, YES. To prove my point, if he is so small, you can't tell if he is inside you, then size matters. And yes, there are some guys who have this issue.
Wow Jessica, this video is explosive, so so Informative and true. Thanks for the video. It clears off a whole lot of myths. Keep up the great work!! Kudos!!! 😁😁😉👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Depends on the person really. Obviously you don’t want to be broke and if a woman makes good money, she naturally wouldn’t want a bum for a boyfriend who will live off of her just like men don’t want a woman to bum off of him, otherwise I doubt most people would want someone who’s earning $100,000 plus who owns at least one property when most people aren’t making that much money
@@Waitai22 thanks for the piece, which means to some extent money is still needed because I'm definitely going to take my woman for a treat, give shopping and even buy gift which revolve around money
@@mosesaaron5085 you’re missing the point. It’s far from the most important thing, if it was so important than why do you see women with men who are unemployed? Men who make less money than they do? Men who make less than their parents?
Sex is rather a connection that just penetration. Sex is better if you connect with the person, emotionally, mentally and romantically not just in and out
I've been over weight for over half my life and I've never had problems conversing, in relationships, or dating plenty of beautiful women. It's really about ur inner spirit and not was on the outside. It should be about 2 people connection with one another. Everything that glitters isn't gold. Or every fruit that may look good on the outside doesn't mean it isn't rotten on the inside. Big Facts💯 . Respect my blk Queen
Unfortunately the society we live in is superficial shallow and lacks substance. So things like money appearance and material things matter most. Your mind lives in a fairy tale world!!
I laughed so much till I almost drown myself in tears at the "size doesn't matter part". It may be true that size doesn't matter, but society these days is overemphasising how pleasure in the bedroom is supposed to feel. We look at contents from unnatural sources and measure our anticipations based on that, so we are setting up a much bigger but unnecessary status quo. People who are already exposed are rather creating a problem for the masses. great content Jessica. Big ups.
Honestly speaking, size does matter. Especially here in Europe. And money does matter too. There’s a Nigeria movie that says money stop nonsense, that’s the gospel true.
Jessica i've being listening to quite a lot. You are making so much sense.You are closer to the land masses than you think. Continue my beauty, we are listening.
Wow! You are very well articulated. I speak English, but I am not a big fan of the English language. However, it is a delight for me to listen to to you. 👍
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
, please say something about facial appearance because some of us are being told by girls that we have ugly faces
Hi I like your channel and topics they are very interesting.
Size does matter. But it's different for each woman. You actually gave it away. You said it's exciting with an elated expression then you said avg with a more bored expressing. So in other words, a woman looking for excitement will cheat on you with the bbc if there's not much excitement in the relationship.
@@johnnyc3397 lol why the BBC and not the bwc
Women don't really know what they want so guys just be yourself and stop stressing.
I totally agree and live by that for every phase of my life. Best advice EVER!!!
I agree
Correct!
God bless you uncle
🤣🤣🤣
Guys, don’t listen to words. Only pay attention to women actions. Then the truth will be revealed.
dawg,
they're not ready for that kind of advice.
...it’s basically about how you carry yourself...there’s nobody nature has given all or taken all from...we just have to be the best version of ourselves and the kind of love we deserve will come to us...
Never let a woman know about your insecurities are she will use it against you anytime she get the chance specially during arguments
not just women. It's a people thing!
Jessica, not that these topics matter to me, but l think you are genuinely a very nice and lovely person. A great all round personality, a great ambassador of Ghana, Africa and and humanity in general..Thank you.
Awww thanks
Gotta agree
Has she grew up in Ghana her accent doesn't sound so please don't take it personally I'm just interested ?
@@JessicaOS ⁹⁰⁰0⁰pp9pp[⁰]
Took the words straight out of my mind.😂 I'm 20 & I just admire her wisdom in matters of relationships with women.
I feel both sexes should never penalize a person for things they can't control like: height, penis size, breast size, skin complexion, hair texture,hair loss, butt size, shoe size, body type,etc.If you're born with bad teeth make sure they're white until you can afford to fix them. You have a big gut.Get in the gym and watch what you eat.Essentially control what YOU can control and men: No matter how big or small you are, make sure you ALWAYS please the woman first.Foreplay is the key.Also if you dont have a great body make sure you wear the right clothes that fit your shape/ size.
As long as you are interested in women, there's always one for you, no matter how you are. Forget whatever insecurity.
Especially when getting into their thirties and no profession their expectation changes. Guess you can say that for both genders.
As you get older, you tend to not worry about these things. You become more comfortable in your own skin. Women look for confidence; being able to dress well; and the ability to connect through conversation.
I’m short but one thing I believe is I’m hardworking and take good care of myself. That makes me not too worried. I rather go with a woman that fall for dreamer than the one looking for physical looks. Thanks for this great video
Personally, In my adult life I have never had a woman that didn't want to marry me. All of them at some point asked me to marry them. And that's true money isn't everything, But money is the answer to a lot of things.
Lol! Remember guys Jessica is speaking as a 30 something year old, Logical woman. Most women are not like this. Don't take dating advice from women. Acquire wealth, stay in peak fitness and never listen to what women say!
I want to listen to Jessica all my life. The accent, the tone
God!
Aaaaaaaaand she's a gorgeous melinated sister!!!
I just like listening to her talk. She sounds awesome!!!
aeeiii ma guys then the day she show you her other beauty attributes u go collapse!
Short guys will say height doesn’t matter, cosmetically challenged women will say beauty doesn’t matter, poor people will say money is not everything..... And it goes on and on !
Of course it does matter! if it didn’t, why even ask the question? Why even make it an issue?
6 insecurities about women men don't care about
1.) Her degree. It's just a piece of paper, give us a piece of ur personality lmaoo
2.) Her money. Money is just a tool. No need to flex. Relax..we aren't the fucking IRS lmaooo
3.) An obnoxious laugh. Men actually adore a woman who can throw chips on the table. Not a chip on her shoulder lmfaoo
4.) Imperfect skin. We human!!!
5..) Stretchmarks. Stretchmarks, sweetpants, chillin with no makeup, that's when she's the prettiest hope she don't take it wrong lol
6.) Chipped nails. That's some squirrel shit lmfaoo
@Shaddy I AGREED with most of your List, BUT I don't wanna see my Woman with Chipped Nails! Sorry Sir!
Does size matter? Yes.
Do looks matter? Yes.
Does money matter? Yes.
Does status matter? Yes.
You've just been red pilled. Congratulations! Now that you know the truth go out there and do something about it (act accordingly).
😂,I like this post...
Jess don kill me today. This more than Sunday sermon. Jess, this Is the kind of videos we want. You never disappoint
Unfortunately, social media has allowed women to have access to so many men via Instagram, etc. that it has warped their mindset because they are experiencing so many men to compare . Appreciate your videos
I just love the confidence of this lady and how clear she drives home the point in her presentation. I love her videos.
JESSICA , I wonder if you realized that you are god given angel to men . If only you know how much things I have learned from you .I am making a catalogue that contains only your vidoes because they mean so much to me . My Jamaican family loves you so keep up the remarkable work that you are doing .
My spouse was six foot, I was 6 foot and 1/2 inch. She weighed 165 and I weighed 235, solid muscle.
When she put on heels she looked taller than me and asked me if it bothered me. Of course not, I have a 52 inch chest, 38 inch waist and 42 inch hips. I am hugely strong, everyone knows who the male is.
So here's the best advice any person can receive about attraction.(especially with men).... who cares what "she" is attracted too, or what "she" wants out of life from a man, or anything "she" wants. Be confident, know that your the prize just as much as she is or wants to be, be clean, smell good, groom yourself and just be confident. Don't do anything for her that you except something else in return. Just be natural, layed back, and flirt. Don't buy her a drink, don't do shit for her. Be classy and a gentleman and be confident. Period. The confident man always gets what he wants. And don't care about rejection it happens to everyone... practice on random women without any expectations and you will see a huge improvement in your numbers.
Does SIZE really matters? No to women and capital YES to the man. Reason why, a man feel less a man at the initial penetration when he sees no sign on her face that says "I am in". Begin to thrust , she just lays there like she's not feeling him in her, bothers some men. Upon taking my boxers off, I want her to acknowledge it, sees it and go, whoa! man, you're packed! Its the best compliment that makes a man feel like a man.
This topic, discussion, debate, argument, & whatever else you wanna call it has been going on forever and it won’t stop! & tbh there’s one simple response and one simple answer. SOME WOMEN honestly do care about the 6 insecurities that was mentioned in this video, while SOME WOMEN honestly do not care about any of those things. I’ve noticed it’s always 50/50 & my response to that will be to love yourself no matter what & always have confidence. & if you don’t then please go find and work on yourself.
Everyone has personal standards, expectations, & preferences. As arrogant, close minded, immature, & shallow they may be sometimes but that’s people & that’s life. Find someone who likes you for you & loves you for you & respectfully walk away & stay away from the people who don’t. & remember to always be yourself and always be honest.
Seriously Jessica you're beautiful. Real authentic beauty.
God bless you mama.
I watch your videos and I realize just how insecure I had always been in my own way. Met a girl for the first time this year who picked the tab, and a girl who lent me money... really really wish I'd met you earlier in my life. Thanks Jessica... alot
Your fluency inspires 🙌🏾 All the way from KE 🇰🇪
Jessica has earned my outmost respect for schooling us males from a women perspective,this is truly helpful. She indeed just earned a new subscriber from my side with so much more to come since I’ll be recommending.🔥🥂
Thanks 🥰😊🙏🏾
The fact that she posted this video 4 months ago and she is still replying to comments really amazes me. Such a nice person. Love it
Lol! And why not though... 🤗🤗
Money is everything. Case closed
Money solves most these issues
facts
I believe most women are cynical about the 4th thing you mention. Not only are they often dishonest about how they feel about it they aren’t interested in a partner who doesn’t satisfy them.
Jessica ur just a well rounded black woman,respect and manners keep up the good wrk.
A kind loving man beats out muscles & all of these so -called insecurities everytime. 💕🥰
OMG Jess. I am Short but believe me I have no issue with that. Infact the irony is, my height is the point of attraction all the time. My buddies are even wishing to be short sometimes 😄😄. God is wonderful
Thanks again. Too bad, I don't think I have any insecurity, I sincerely believe I owe no man/woman nothing.
This is my one time of existence and nothing will ruin it for me.
You hit the nail in the head bro
@@yungzel8154 Thanks
Being a sound engineer, am Still so blown away by the adjustments you made on the sound. You are the first you tuber that has positively responded to my sound quality suggestions and I can't say thank you enough. Most people usually ignore and do nothing and in one case , the guy even told me off (sammy flex show). Good Sound mix and quality is a big problem in Africa yet its very important. So, thumbs up to your recognition to this... btw, your general sound is always great from vocal levels, quality, etc..keep it up
Thanks for the feedback
As a sound engineer, I would say that she and her team has good sound adjustments, however you saying all you have said,, is an understatement or probably showing you just got in the world of sound engineering.. there is a whole galaxy to explore.. however I am not saying @jessica Os you have it wrong
@@jefflevin196 I have been a sound engineer for 25 yrs. Anything else you want to know?
@@gabrielomondi4630 maybe in your 25 yrs you forgot something sir?
@@jefflevin196 what exactly is your issue here? Explain so I can understand
You guys in the comments saying that Jessica's information isn't accurate must realize that she's not talking about just any women. She's talking about the humble women. To the humble women, the male insecurities listed in this video will not be much of a problem or none at all. But to the prideful vain women, they will be. You gotta understand what kind of women you're going for as it will save you much time and energy.
👍
Facts
Very interesting topic...one that a lot of people don't want to address...me personally, I do what I'm comfortable with, I'm not no mack...but I can hold my own, when I'm comfortable, confident and cordial in my approach, because I expect more from me, than the woman, so she doesn't feel obligated or impressed to have to navigate my ego, and vice-versa!
Thanks for trying to help our self esteem Jessica. Your videos help a lot. But some of our insecurities are too deep seeded that only reversing them with acquisition of said inadequacy will help. Some of them though, cannot be acquired. Thanks for trying though. You’re a beautiful person, inside and out. ❤️
I just found this video and-
1)You have an amazing voice
2)You are beautiful
3)You are authentic
Thank you
@@JessicaOS >>> FWIW: I have a face for radio, and a voice for wireless telegraphy...😊😊😊
{BTW, I agree about _your voice._ ♥️}
@@Allan_aka_RocKITEman thanks
@@JessicaOS >>> You're Most Welcome!
Great points 🔥...women are more opened up these days 🤩....the unnecessary attributes don't matter anymore - therefore guys get rid of the insecurities 🔥. Big ups Jessica 👏❤️
Yes,,lol, if the woman dont want them,,,then move on. Lol
I am seeing more beautiful women,like herself,coming from Africa,it's makes me want to go to their country,love the videos,keep it coming beautiful!!!!!!!!
Is she really from Africa?
@@lukehood5546 yes from Ghana
@@lukehood5546 In the context of beauty here which obviously is characterized by natural appearance (color and other features typical of where she belongs), who would look like this and not come from Africa?
@@shepherdboy6492 I hope this is not a rhetorical question because certainly you know beauty in the form of blackness can come from any continent. Don't be silly and foolish all your life
Assuming you are in the US, there are beautiful black women right here. And you don't need a malaria shot to go see them.
Nobody is Perfect always remember that
For me, the best voice on RUclips. I like Jessica.
When a truthful person lies it's quite apparent they can't hide it you are a truthful person and you have somewhat lied in this video
I was never insecure about my size. It was good enuFF for everybody I gave it to and Nobody ever complained! So, tHeRe!!
probably had something to do with your screen name too
Any guy who is insecure about anything, has been exposed to the wrong women. Same goes for women... some people are hallow and they tend to project their insecurities on other people.
Some things I just can't change them...It is what it is
Could make a video like this about what men don’t really care about. Your body/breast/butt type would be of minimal concern if you don’t bring stress into his life and bring peace instead. I promise!
Great lesson. Size does not matter. It’s how you played with it
I discovered your channel yesterday and I have watched slightly over 10 videos already. This channel is so addictive and educative! Keep up the good work gal!
Hahaha! Welcome to the fam and thanks for watching
@@JessicaOS u are addictive, those stuffs u do with your eyes 👁️👁️ 🥺is a turn on for me
On the issue of size, we the blessed guys create our own space beyond what is called average to some. It has never been disappointing.
i agree brother
You have a very honest unbiased breakdown! This aids tremendously in dispelling the common illusions that males are confronted with in regards to understanding women.
God bless you Sis Jessica. . You are one of the best female presenters I have listened to. You are doing a great job. God bless you.
Size matters both ways!! Some women are big (wide)too which makes a man’s 7 inch appear ‘smaller’ to them and no one talks about it!!!!!
FACT!
that's where you are wrong...the G spot is about 2inches deep.......the soundtrack is just to fuel your ego and believe me it hurts them more than they enjoy it
Seriously Jessica at first I had psychological effects of my baldhead but ironically I have able to overcome it, because there is nothing I can do about it and this does not put food on the table
I'm 6ft 2in, bald-headed and I don't really think about it, I've been shaving my head from before my hairline start to recede in my late twenties, I'm not insecure about it and I actually don't care really.
Right on, just I miss the long hair I had in my 20's. But, this bald thing I got going now is cooler and way less maintenance, and at 6'5" I think the top of my head exceeds the tree line anyway. LOL. Let's be our bald selves and have fun with it.
Jessica your head is packed wisdom...For me as long as my creator loves me it's all that matters..I got inner peace..I really don't allow any life stressor to control me.
I just love Jessica, I sometimes cry watching her videos, it's so on point.
Awwww
Jessica down to earth realities about men’s insecurities very well done thank you again Jessica
Why is this woman so beautiful?😳 Just down right breathtaking!
If a woman loves you she won't care about anything. She will just love you.
I’m a young man who after accomplishing some goals of mine in terms of academics..wanna settle. Your videos are really blessing me and opening my mind massively. And I love the fact that you’re very straightforward and truthful using yourself for some examples. Good job 👏 👊😊
I don't care if a woman doesn't want me because I don't drive a good or expensive car, or I don't have money, situation can change at any time and I'm not lazy or a lay-about, I work hard to look after myself.
As a proud african man i dont care about the size of me weener! Its all about how you perform the deed😎👊✌🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦!! Much love and respect from cape town south africa!!
I like your voice, how you speak and the way you carry yourself in your videos. Keep it up
There is no Beauty like Chocolate Beauty! You’re a heart stopper!
I've followed so many people on u tube but honestly it's hard to stand this lady's beauty,I can't focus on the video when my all I'm doing is admire you, let me first deal with it locally
Some great points Jess keep it up! Men, live your life for you chase your goals put yourself first everything else will fall in place✅
JESS is a queen with confidence keep posting ♥️🙏🏿
Jessica. Women care about one thing. Money to shop. That same woman or women will like anything with a security blanket called. Money..
I’m 5”9 and don’t consider myself tall, but never had any problem attracting chicks.
You're average height dude of course. That's WAY different than a guy like myself , I'm 5'4
You always hit the key factors Jessica. Your evaluation is quite on point wow. I’m absolutely amazed with your insights on the issues of having a good relationship. Thanks so much sweet Onelove ❤️💛💚
Your Voice, smile & your eyes, Jessica are very memorable.
as a 'hit and go" they like bigger put long term they like it smaller
Although I'm not a Relationship person neither am I an Aromantic being.... I'll agree with you that these things don't really matter but , there's this exponential new world order that has impacted so much on ladies in terms of tastes and satisfaction .. They tend to look for Big things in all aspects of a man before diving into a relationship... Well I'm just saying from my observation... ☺️
We here on a Sunday..getting that sermon
hahahaha!
@@JessicaOS Good day sunshine. Great sermon. LETS REFLECT:~
Reference to insecurities, i think its more of a preference thing than (size matter). Most women just prefer a certain length, girth and depth over others pleasure wise. No shame in our game🤷🏿♂️adults here right!
Similiar to how sum men are accustomed to their women. I.e; sum men in their 30s love younger women. Sum love women in their 40s simply because, such matured women exihibit more recipe, culture, substance.
Secondly, reference to ya comment "stand taller in other departments".🤣Well, you & I know that if they only shine down south but lack luster in other aspects of their lives like assertiveness, chemistry, communication etc. Then gameover, That'll be (one time trial experience for women)😁short lived due to gravity trumps blood vessels (erections)= cant last long nor keep it up🙈.
Lastly, I must admit. A lovely gemstone necklace📿 would really complement not just ya video presentations, but your beaut and grace as well. Ashe'
@@JessicaOS is there a WhatsApp group or some forum we can always reach out to you
@@mitchellkarama1417 u can send me an e-mail
Thanks Jess
I think life and humanity is just all around ugly and sad really. Thank you for your honesty.
My best friend's dad is actually short than his wife . And I've never met a women who care about her husband like her.
That's why guys should not worry about it. Personally looks attracts but character makes her stay with you. So chill out. I'm 6'1 and I have my own insecurities and it's ok. We have such mentality. But that's not a prob when you just have the courage to stand up for who you are.
My girl told me the same thing about the size. They fantasize about the big ones but wants a medium one for life, but they don't want the tiny ones.
Then why fantasize about a big one ?
With all do respect, you are the exception to the rules. If the majority of women thought like you, the marriage rates would be higher
Jessie you are the next Oprah.Your next project Jess TV Show
Absolutely.. hope she sees this comment ..
It's nice to have someone with money but it will be nice to build something together.
Sis,i really do appreciate your videos.they helped me get over some sort of emotional stress I was passing through recently.
Love DON'T pay the bills
100%
I like medium to average and soft not hard. My womb is very important and I don't want to be peeing on my self when I cough. Money is important to buy a nice house a car and afford the basic amenities, travel once every year,pay for children's activities, dine at a restaurant every month, you know simple normal things.
Stupid people will most likely wind up unhappy. You know people who are unable to realize the things that are really important. That goes for men and women.🤔🙄😁
Love listening to you and looking at you. You are extremely gorgeous. You have great conversation and lovely chocolate skin. Very pretty. Very good advice and being a woman I take in what your saying from a woman's point of view. I learn a lot about women just by listening that's why we have 2 ears and one mouth. Men just listen to a woman and check out her body language while you have a conversation with her. You will learn a lot.
You were "dead-on" with your comments! I wish more brothers would accept this and not run for the hills!
Simple truthful answer to whether size matters is, YES. To prove my point, if he is so small, you can't tell if he is inside you, then size matters. And yes, there are some guys who have this issue.
Wow Jessica, this video is explosive, so so Informative and true. Thanks for the video. It clears off a whole lot of myths. Keep up the great work!! Kudos!!! 😁😁😉👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Honestly speaking, money has become super important in a relationship. Lets be honest
I feel like Money is not just important but very very important
Depends on the person really. Obviously you don’t want to be broke and if a woman makes good money, she naturally wouldn’t want a bum for a boyfriend who will live off of her just like men don’t want a woman to bum off of him, otherwise I doubt most people would want someone who’s earning $100,000 plus who owns at least one property when most people aren’t making that much money
@@Waitai22 thanks for the piece, which means to some extent money is still needed because I'm definitely going to take my woman for a treat, give shopping and even buy gift which revolve around money
@@mosesaaron5085 you’re missing the point. It’s far from the most important thing, if it was so important than why do you see women with men who are unemployed? Men who make less money than they do? Men who make less than their parents?
important but does it make it worthwhile for both parties?
Sex is rather a connection that just penetration. Sex is better if you connect with the person, emotionally, mentally and romantically not just in and out
You hit the nail on the head 😜
I've been over weight for over half my life and I've never had problems conversing, in relationships, or dating plenty of beautiful women. It's really about ur inner spirit and not was on the outside. It should be about 2 people connection with one another. Everything that glitters isn't gold. Or every fruit that may look good on the outside doesn't mean it isn't rotten on the inside. Big Facts💯 . Respect my blk Queen
Unfortunately the society we live in is superficial shallow and lacks substance. So things like money appearance and material things matter most. Your mind lives in a fairy tale world!!
How tall are you?
I love watching this lady. The way you talk is so charming. I listen to you all day all night.
I had to subscribe 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪. How comes i never knew this channel before
I laughed so much till I almost drown myself in tears at the "size doesn't matter part". It may be true that size doesn't matter, but society these days is overemphasising how pleasure in the bedroom is supposed to feel. We look at contents from unnatural sources and measure our anticipations based on that, so we are setting up a much bigger but unnecessary status quo. People who are already exposed are rather creating a problem for the masses. great content Jessica. Big ups.
Honestly speaking, size does matter. Especially here in Europe. And money does matter too. There’s a Nigeria movie that says money stop nonsense, that’s the gospel true.
Money the main thing if ur 2inches with big bank account bet u can still get alot of women lol
Jessica i've being listening to quite a lot. You are making so much sense.You are closer to the land masses than you think. Continue my beauty, we are listening.
Wow! You are very well articulated. I speak English, but I am not a big fan of the English language. However, it is a delight for me to listen to to you.
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