Top Signs she's using you and what to do when that happens
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- Опубликовано: 17 июн 2024
- This video highlights the Top signs that a woman is using you and what you can do when that happens. Jessica pulls out all the stops in this no holds barred conversation. Happy viewing!
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Never make anyone a priority who treats you like an option or convenience.
Amen 🙏🏿
You are omplaining about your side chick again.
@@heatherfulmore3412
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Very true. I regret being the go to
guy when I'm just an option.
Let the Church say Amen!!! 🙏🏾
"She's always available when she needs you or she wants something from you." Jessica, You just hit the nail on its head. Whenever i see her phone call no matter how long she beats behind the bushes i know she'll still ask for money all the time. Its good am no longer a victim.
Adreas, also beware of some Covert Narcissistic women..a lot this days around!! See then 🏃♂️!! I was a victim once!!
@@adriennduwayo8564 for real fam
Nigeria
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I can never say no to free advice from a woman about women...thanks Jessica 💖....
Love the way she explains everything and how truthfully she is
Manipulative women must be hating her :-)
This is for you men without self love and low self esteem, listen to Jessica, she's telling the truth.
John, I would like to differ. The issue of women using men does not apply to low self-esteem men only but rather it referred to men in general. Rich, poor, average, low self-esteem, shot or fat. Any of them can fall prey to a woman.
@@SpencerAMills-zt1wm men who have good self esteem are not willing to be used. No " prize" is worth that guy's pride
Yep exactly for Simps🤷🏾♂️this chit don’t happen to alpha males
😆 🤣 😂 facts bro
@@dcruffryderz9869 They have to learn some way it's good they want to learn so I don't see the problem.
The truth is that I was once a victim (I can be that caring and emotional) but the more I spend time watching quality content like this I broke free so thank you Jess for putting this out.
My nigga😂
Lol you were not alone bro, i have been there too
Very Good A
@@trustinux Looool
I just notices that aweek before now am leaving in peace
I always say no one owes you anything. This video tells me that if someone is using you, then they’re not strong enough to take care of themselves. A strong person can do well without someone until the right person comes around with the correct game. I’ve put girls on the spot about how they felt about me and the response I received was either they look away and not tell me the answer directly, stutter in their answer, or just flat out lying. Signs like that, I chuck up the deuces. We can be blinded by beauty and other things about that person we like, but the guard has to stay up. I don’t have time to use people. It’s a waste of time. Great video. Keep making more!
This lady is totally right!
I am yet to find a lady who will love me instead of using me for money!
Jessica, men will love you for opening their eyes.
We don’t love her…..We worship her, huni 🍫🥰
@@Bencarson_1 How old are you? Why do you have to write such? If you praise a human being too much, they will take advantage of you.
Your comment is exactly what Jessica is telling men not to do.
If a woman knows you worship 🛐 her, she will tell you to do all sorts of things for her, when you refuse she will show you the "DOOR."
@@truthteller7754 ooo really ?
@@truthteller7754 that case is different!!! He praises her because she's a teacher to him not a girlfriend!!
She is our hero. We have great respect for her
When she shows up with another girl, I give much attention to her friend & next time she'll never do it again 😂
hahaha nice one
That's all😂😂😂
Bad guy
😂😂😂😂😂
I never thought of that. Nice one.
"Eat your money, blow your dough" 😂😂, it's talk like these that make me enjoy your videos so much
Thank You for this.its like you just read my situation and I decided to end all of it
Lots of hun are using us here in SA🇿🇦 i have learned alot since i started watching your videos,am bold and confident i don't entertain mediocre. 🇿🇦
South African women ain't for the faint of heart bro😹😹😹 batlao hurta
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Stop calling skunks hun bro
@@wildafrica7323 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣No lies detected our women will play you
My mother may she (R.I.P...) always preached to my brother and I, " You men don't think!! You need to wake up!! Thanks for the reminder Jessica, we men need to practice more of looking beneath the surface and searching for what's happening on the inside.. putting our personal desires to the side and let our emotional nature do the sensing. Much love to you 🌹 Woman of God!!! Thanks again!!
Your sincerity and honesty with your contents is exhilarating. I really appreciate this piece. Thank you
I looked at a number of videos like this, and I must say u hit it on the nail with this one. Great work👍🏽
Thank you very much for this piece. You have said it all. Infact i feel you. She always have mood swings when she is with you. The 4th one kill me.
You are always on point queen Jessy, keep it going girl, Big up sis.
Jess, You always hit the nail right on the head. The perfect forum for all boys and men.
Good Afternoon Jessica, I dont even know what to say except every word you spoke ,every example you used, every point you came up with today hit my situation right on the head. You have literally opened my eyes to what this lady was doing. I was one of those who said to myself ues people can change for the better or as you said have a change or heart. Well, I think this whole video was about my situation. You keep it real and to the point you always K.I.S.S . Thank you , thank you, thank you. I owe big time you have saved me.
Nothing more, this is precisely correct.
Priceless advice Jessica. Much appreciation. 👍🏾
Oh Jessica speaks so beautifully 😭. I mean your audiobooks and podcasts would be such a listen. ❤️
This is so insightful and most of all definitely true. Thanks Jess🙏🏿
Well said jessica, pay attention to details men its really eye opening to us, a lot of this happens to us without we understanding what it is, thanks alot jessica
Simple advice, get money my guys.
They will obey 😂😂
Work hard for your money and don't expect her to be your slave for spending it on her. Idiot guys use money to try to control women to submission to their personal insecurities. Violence occurs in relationships because these guys wanted a woman to abuse not to love, simple but most women get locked in with the scare of betrayal. Stress is my second nature for my life style except if she behaved in certain ways to attract the wrong crowd of men then she is to blame for dancing with the devil. MONEY MONEY MONEY life journey without an end. Get a life and stop this shenanigan of misfortune. A nation that oppresses its women will become a beggar to the its people.
Wow u deserve Million Likes for this, Thank you Jess
It's about time someone helps guys with stuff like this! Bravo!
Jessica amazes me. Thank you again for the advice my Queen.
Jess is the that bigger sister ever man in the dating game needs. You're awesome Jess!
Hi Jessica you're like a fine piece of gold. Your information regarding this particular aspect of looking at a relationship is very genuine. Thank you so much for sharing.
8:16 pm East coast USA. Thank you so much for the video. I truly needed to hear everything you had to say. Thanks again, you are amazing
Jessica, your channel is fabulous (content-wise)! Love your vocabulary too, it's on point 👌🏿
Well said Jessica, I also think it is vice-versa, if either parties are not ready to be sincere ('cause if you are honest enough you'll ask yourself the question if you can take it if the same thing were been done to you) in terms of defining the purpose of their relationship then they shouldn't be together. I personally don't have patients for these kind of attitudes the moment I noticed you are coming into my space bearing selfishness you will only be warn once, you keep at it I will bid you farewell, even when you come in again you will only be welcome at the doorstep pending the time you can be trusted.
Any kind of relationship that will stand the test of time most be build by both parties
One thing i like about you Jessi is that you are always there for we the guys. You are always there to give us conscious advises, Keep doing the good job and God bless you...
Jessy you are great,you making us know them,thinking through,making us wiggle their minds and break their chains.Well done woman,you are eye opener and we all love you.More grease in your elbow.
Just came across you channel. I wish I had gotten 1/100 of the advice you give from my family or those so say the "care" about me in relation to relationships.
Thank you for doing this 🙂
You're welcome
I need this I needed it so bad 😞 Thank you Jessica
Jessica dear. Just started listening to your VERY INTELLIGENT pieces of "smart" advice on RUclips. A very clever girl you are! You always hit the nail right on head. Many thanks and God bless!
I just found your channel- you are the best! You are a clear thinking counsel with a lot of insight!
Keep up the good work, i just love ur content .Very educative .
I remember when my ex-fiancé asked for a break a week before my birthday. I genuinely accepted, and on my birthday I then decided to spend my birthday with my uncle at the mall. Guess what? I saw her (ex-fiancé) with another guy in a restaurant 🍴. I hate the fact that she knew my birthday was coming but she used that same day to accommodate spending time with another man.
Sign by# 1 check-out
Did that so she wouldn’t have to spend money to get you anything…
@@BrowninArchie I think you are right, but I only wanted to spend time with her not money! She was not even working at the time.
@@Mlee. to a woman like that,time with you must only reap profit. Even if she wasn’t working,there are a lot of things she could’ve done that don’t require her to spend money.
@@BrowninArchie Exactly, this only means that her heart was with someone else. Or she opted to be with someone who she can 'reap profit' from. I really don`t know
Jessica, I 've been watching your videos for a while mow. You do a very good job with topics you bring to the table. And you have a killer smile while your doing them . Thanks
Very well produced...good topics and discussion starters...Diggin it :-)
Even before listening/watching this video am just a true victim of this. I knew from the beginning was just making am not the one over thinking 😊😊
Thank you sister
Blessings
Jessica is my best therapist.. much love from Nigeria😘
Thanks so much. Sometimes we know this but it is great to be reminded and encouraged by you. Hi from west texas.
Absolute quality content, I've experienced alot of this and grown wise to it over the years but it's good to see it being presented in such an informative way
No one knows a woman like another woman.
No doubt
Discovered your channel yesterday. Great content. Well presented too. Nuff respect and Blessings from Jamaica 🇯🇲 Big ups Str8
Thanks and welcome
Hi Jessica! all the points in this video are facts. I have dated a lady who pretended to love me, but
little did I know she was just in for the cash. she was acted exactly like the signs you highlighted.
Fear some women.
You are the best coach I ever met on RUclips. You don't take side you are real.
This was honestly one of the best videos Pertaining this topic 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you Queen 💯
All I'm saying is WOW amazing information Queen thanks for your enlightenment
Love you Jessica!!! You’re a life & wallet saver. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
Watching you from Zambia, loving your content Jessy❤️🙏
I have been going through exactly what you have been talkin about took me a time to realize but I finally realizing and I walked away I don't even accept their phone calls anymore or anyting thank you for the video
Your clarity and lucidity is topnotch. You're extremely clear and authentic in your messages and I love it. Thanks for your invaluable nuggets.
Great tips! Thanks. The ladies won't like you, but whatever is your motivation for putting out these videos, keep going !
What a beautiful ❤️ n sincere woman. This is one in a million to find a woman bringing out the truth about women in general. I think this woman is more than a counselor. God bless you.
Just want to say Thank you for the great insight and now my eyes are wide opened.
Girl, I am loving your content 😍💕, thank you for looking out for us
You are so welcome
I'm watching from Canada. !Yesterday I started to see your videos! and I love them I watched quite a few since!
Thank you 😊
I love your pieces very much Jessy... I’m learning a lot❤️🙏
Hey Jessica I from the Bahamas I really love watching your videos it gives me inspiration to help me with these signs 😊😊😊😊😊thanks so much
God sent Jessi thanks for all the guid lines to us the men
This is so correct, and it's high time as Men to build confidence to escape such relationship instead of finding ways of comforting ourselves 😂 🧤🧤
Jessica, it's a wide range of knowledge that has assisted to tackle our ladies professionally without causing harm.
I love the way you speak, Jessica. Thanks for your incredible content.
These are red flags....not only for the men but women too. Let's get our eyes wide opened.....good job Jessica 👍❣️
🤣🤣🤣 I Know How To Deal With Women Like This Ooooh! I'm Very Good In Ignoring Women 😉
And They Really Feel Painful When I Do That 🤣🤣🤣
Well said
@@kinglordehud 🤩
@@daveondiekaaron2204 🔥
But its scare to see women that spends on man first before the man.. So ideally, this goes for men... Its obsession that could make a woman cloudly spend on a guy and be used..
So true, this lady is good at analysing love situations, we love you and your videos here in Zimbabwe, just like and share guys ..... appreciated
Showing up with friends that comes up daily. Watching from Cameroon
Thanks for the advice..In this contemporary generation,we need more of this .
Coincidentally I needed this advice this afternoon. Thank you Jessica.
Glad it was helpful!
Thanks Jessica you really confirmed my thoughts,cuz sometimes I feel like maybe am not too romantic, but what you just said you have proven my doubts to be real
Look at me 2 years later with a huge debt I am only trying to pay back and a heart that will probably never try to love anyone ever again... wish I had seen something like this back then.
I hope one day when I am settled, I get to have the opportunity to even talk to you. Thanks Jess
I’m so sorry. I hope you find someone who will love you in such a way as to make you love again. You seem to be a genuine person.
Happens brotha. Hang in there women are a dime a dozen
Your videos are awesome, keep it coming. Thanks for sharing
I'm watching this video from Freetown Sierra Leone & I enjoyed it. Thanks Mama
Top quality content here ...its been really handy for me .
I "dated" a women who seemed to like women and men. At some point I asked her what her interest was and she vehemently protested saying she was straight. Regardless whenever and whereever we went out there would suddenly appear "by chance" some of her gfs. After this happened several times I figured out that she was contacting them and inviting them to join us. I was paying of course. Well I figured it out and that ended that. So remember when you are out with someone and you keep running into her crowd and you are buying drinks and food for people it is not happening by chance.
Conclusion.. run brother !
Thank you so much for this lecture.
Kind regards.
Wow!! Thank you for your deep insight Jessica. This was a really big eye opener for me.
You're so welcome!
I mean I literally smashed the like button into pieces ……I dunnu how much effort you have put into this to come this far….speaking truth with this ease ….omg ❤️❤️
Women showing up with a gang of her friends for a date happens here in South Africa too. Lol
This is usually as a form of security, mostly when she has no interest in you but wants you to provide a good time. That is the time they order platters and buckets of buzz at the club. Then again, who takes a woman to the club on the first date unless he knows he is not looking for anything real, but wants a weekend special. Thus the American slang, "game recognise game".
For me, one of the signs is, if you can't hold a simple conversation with each other, one of you should walk away.
tht is so so true wwn one can't hold simple conversation wth women.. .. or she lacking on her part to communicate then u must she not interested in u.. best not to waist u time any further n end it
Super Right especially discussions that are serious.
This is a very intelligent woman.
Yep 👍🏾
Recently found your channel, i really appreciate the truth in your content.
Jessica thank you for putting these wonderful points out there coz it will help the younger generation most. But the older generation were brought up with the mentality of "women should secretly keep money" for security reasons and men should provide for everything as the head. Thank God I live in Western world now where most don't have such mentality. I will surely recommend your channel to my friends. Regards.
Your voice is so peaceful ❤️
I just cant stop watchiing your videos . Top top notch content..
Another good & useful tips from Jessica
Thanks 🙏
I am from Kenya. Having watched this vid and others from your channel, I wish I had this information decades ago. I'd have made better decisions and fewer mistakes. Many men are being used and abused in relationships; many more are subtly aware and do not know how to get out of such situations. I have recommended (and subscribed to) this channel to other men. Thank you Jessica.
Amenisave na hizi vida sai niko rada vibaya😂
Mimi nliinvite dame for lunch...I was actually willing kulipa everything...but that night, akanishow 'don't forget to send fare to & fro' (mind that she is working)....iyo text pekee ilifanya nim block...ata iyo little effort hakuna....at least I never became lambistic 🤣...trust me a genuine girl will give u easy time...
Honestly all you just said is what she's doing to me and I really want us to go far in our relationship
Whenever i watch your videos i just feel comfortable coz whatever is being talked about here is totally helpful....keep up dear😊👍👊
Hi I’m new here. But love your shows. Watched it from Australia Melbourne. Like you energy and the fact you’re telling men the truth. It’s amazing ☺️
i like the positive energy you have today, it make you speak in Ghanaian accent
The Problem is Jessica speaks with a Foreign Accent.
I wish i could see someone like you who knows what to do in a true relationship.
i am here lol
@@vickyvictorious1198 dey play
Great one Jessica. Thank you.
Just joined your channel and your content is awesome...
Jessica I think, you will be my friend and lecturer, for in did you have touched my cases for the past three days I have listened to you . I need more of such educating messages, God bless you.
Big ups to you hun 🥰🥰 you are doing the most 😇😇
Have a wonderful Wednesday Jessica☀️🇧🇧
You be really speaking FACTS and talking to me thank you!!!
This is all I needed to know. Great vid Jess💯
I've had a friend for almost a year and I've been there for her and she just ended the friendship and rip my heart out