Quick summary: 1. You don't see her. 2. No progress. (Nobody from her family/friends even knows you after months of seeing could be a RED FLAG, important comment to that point imo) 3. Disntant / wants space. 4. Makes you an option. 5. You feel confused.
You can tell by her level of attention, comparing to in person, texts, and social media. Choose those who choose you fellas; invest in those whom invest in you
@@marcmays48 the hardest part about current dating, and what you just said there, is the fact that 80% of men are deemed as unattractive and I'm sure 90% of that 80% are not planning on doing anything about it, and when it comes to women, 5% of them are genuine and worthy of quality men, and the other 95% are all the same, a dime-a-dozen, and are found everywhere in Earth which makes it really hard to have goals of having a family one day, until you find that girl that will follow your lead and put all of that crap behind her, although still the higher body count the less enthused we are. I myself have put that having a wife and kids goal on the bench, while putting some of that wood cement inside the bars of my frame haha
@@LatimusChadimus Like anything else, it's a function of what standards you have, what standards she has, and how much time, money, and effort are you willing to throw at the problem? Meeting the right women is as much of an art, as it is an exact science. Josh Pellicer has a number of good programs; he is one of the few PUAs that I trust, as it is clear that he has put in quite a bit of work, and he does have integrity. In one course, he explains that you have to figure out who you are first. Next, figure out which type of woman would be ideally compatible (the Enneagram book I referenced on Friday is helpful here-- find a woman whose personality type matches your direction of integration). Then, figure out how you work together. Some of this is trying to hit a moving target... because after all, you will change and grow over time, and she will, as well. But that is a good starting point.
It's okay to keep your options open when dating but when it gets to a point where it seems like the woman is not invested in you, you gotta take a step back and maybe even move on. My rule is simple: if you don't feel like the #1 option, then you're not.
@@ATLBraves1992 big facts. I look at it like selling a house. If I only have one client looking at the house and I only focus one person they can play games pullback manipulate etc and I’m their little b*tch for lack of better words. if I have 10 clients come see the house each week all I need to make is one sale to have a great outcome. Let’s say 20 of the clients are manipulative canceling and I have 3 clients that are high interest with contracts which I can make a good deal and let the game playing people fall by the way side let them play with themselves while I move on and make great deals.
Dating with the intent for a meaningful relationship that possibly leads to marriage in this day and age is nearly impossible. Everything is a red flag now days, it's easy to swipe and since it's so easy to connect with people online people think they can always find someone better, therefore it's an endless cycle.
Yep. The sad truth especially women now with ridiculous standards or wasting a guys time. I've tried to train myself that I will die alone inevitably. If only I was born a boomer or gen x I would have had a chance at least.
Yep, exactly. The amount of women I match with and talk to on dating apps only to be carrying the conversation as they are obviously talking to many other guys. I've gotten to the point where if they respond with a lazy response that shows they didn't take any time or focus to respond I just dont bother with them anymore. I don't let myself be treated like I'm not worth someone's time anymore. I know my worth and I think a lot of us men are coming to this realization.
Woman who tell you she needs space, time to look for a new girl friend. Let her go and move on. Act like you're okay with it and if it doesn't work out for her with the new guy. She might comeback to you. It happened to me. It didn't work out for her and she wanted to get back into the relationship. I said no to her.
You're the first woman who does these type of videos I've come across who actually reveals the truth about women. All the others just lie trying to protect the image of women in general and sell you some program. Finally. Thank you. You got my sub.
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@@CourtneyRyan you have my greatest respect for telling the truths and not misleading like some girls do who probably just want attention and validation non stop until they hit their peak and no longer get the notifications they received during the youth.
It isnt complicated. These women wouldn't be playing games if 1) you held your frame and 2) you were rich, famous, and in shape. Women keep you as an option because they feel like they could do better. Find those ugly betties that feel blessed just to have a guy that gives her the time of day. Then you'll find your "true love".
In early stages Gents, you have to be seeing other girls too. She has to feel competition anxiety to want to take you off the market and make things exclusive. And that ask must ALWAYS come from her side. Never the guys. Remember, if you are high value, YOU are the PRIZE. Monogamy benefits her a lot more than it benefits you. When you internalize this your relationships will be a lot better with women.
Lol I just broke up with my ex two days ago because she just completely switched up on me. Started leaving me on seen, then said we needed a break, but I found out she was talking to other people, yet giving me no time. I eventually got tired of it and decided to move on.
Yep! It's highly likely that for every guy talking to 3 women, there are 3 women talking to 10 guys. In this day&age it is hard to find a woman whom is 100% single
@@LatimusChadimus Yes women, especially during their youth will have thousands of notifications and they will end up probably chatting with 20 compared to a man’s very few. Needs to be told that having too many options can do more harm than good because you end up becoming extremely indecisive whilst the notifications keep coming through and I reckon that must be overwhelming because even when I got endless notifications for a social media post, I felt overwhelmed by just that.
As a man, you should still be seeing other people at the beginning stages. Don’t settle until you know sure it’s mutual between the two of you - you want her and she wants you. Key word: Mutual
Exactly. If you’re not, you’re bringing a knife to a gunfight. She has to know you have options, just like she does. That way she’ll be the one with competition anxiety when YOU don’t ask for commitment. Which will force her to, and said commitment will then mean much more to her. Bottom line, spin plates and see which ones want more. If she can spin right, give her a shot. That’s an abundance mindset.
This reminds me of my ex after having a seemingly great relationship for 10 months she checked all these boxes almost overnight. I always suspected cheating but could never prove it. What a terrible coward of a woman. Disgusting how someone can hurt someone so bad and not give a damn. Good riddance to that trash.
Courtney we need more genuine girls like you (and people in general for that matter). It’s extremely sad beautiful and legitimately sincere girls are so rare.
@@Sab7maral I agree with that statement, it goes both ways, so many dudes focus on how bad girls are as of 2022, how bad dating scene is, without realizing men are also one of the biggest causes to these issues. You got Men who sleep around with anything and everything, and unfortunately these are the men women tend to chase. Leading to there own heart break. It’s so sad to see men and women chasing the wrong people, for example, I shy attractive man, might attract a women who will approach them(typically those types are ones that sleep around a lot and get what they want) when things go south. These men get damaged, same goes for girls , just at a different angle.
She has her phone with her all the time and not keeping it on the kitchen counter anymore. She makes excuses not going out on Fridays or Saturdays with you. She dresses up more and saying she's hanging out with her friend instead of you. She's not as affectionate.
Also... she starts putting in noticeable efforts to improve herself... hitting the gym, dressing better, etc. All signs that a woman is back on the manhunt for a new model. 😄
That is funny because there was another channel that does these Tik-Tok reviews and roasts and in one of them a girl claimed that men have their phones on them at all times so when he doesn't hit you back up immediately, it should tell you a few things although I've never seen a guy pouring cement or up on a roof on his phone 24/7, as well as some guys are smart enough to notice red flags that some women will never admit that they have which means they will never be happy and they will likely die alone which is sad but consequences exist in the real world, don't let the school systems and media outlets lie to you. At least there are two examples on this channel that aren't of that low-grade and they both happen to be named Courtney 😂😂🤣
@@Courtney-Alice-Gargani Good riddance. If she's distracted that easily by shiny object syndrome, then I don't need her. Most women are a 'NO,' for me anyhow, so it's nothing that I am going to lose sleep over. 😄
If a woman says she needs her space, it might be she's indirectly trying to breakup with you. She's shopping around to see if she can find a better man.
@@LatimusChadimus Maybe. Women are better at manipulating than men are. I hate to admit it. Usually a man who's confident in himself or an alpha male would breakup with her but a beta or simp would try to work it out with her. He might be asking what's he doing wrong. Men, never ask a woman what you're doing wrong and try to get her to change her mind. She's already planing on leaving you so accept it.
@@Courtney-Alice-Gargani lol men don't call out women because accountability/conviction might mean those kinds of women need humility and modern media tells every one to be their own idol; self idolatry is ugly and dangerous and when a good women is found, she should be honored without the pedestal. Courtney is highly honorable, while humble and genuine. Even though I came for the fashion tips, I support each and every video. More men out there need this content so here's another algo boosting comment lol
I suffer from depression anxiety mental health issues and your videos have helped me to see what to look for in woman or work on myself or people I have been struggling alot lately and I want a girlfriend but your videos Have really helped me alot thank you for what you do and I love you for it thank you Courtney have a great day
Yeah I've noticed that in some of your comments throughout 2022. You're not alone; I've seen others struggling down here in the comments. Keep up the progress, we're here for you, and read through the comments and reach out to those in a state you were and help them
Great tips! If a girl is into you, she’ll drop everything for the opportunity to be with you - she’ll even cancel her plans. Having said that. If she’s not into you - forget about it! It’s just not going to happen, she’ll find every excuse in the book - in order to avoid you! So pay very close attention! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
The earlier you discover this, the better so you can move on and stop wasting time. As long as you know deep down that you did nothing wrong to deserve being ghosted, cheated, etc, realize it's her loss. In that case, don't take it personally because it says more about her than you. Don't try to spin the blame and make it sound like if she's not invested in you or leaves suddenly, then it's because you did something wrong; it's your fault...not necessarily. Not your fault she decided to jump to the conclusion that you're not worth it. Haste makes waste afterall. In any case, this video may have good intentions even though it doesn't shine girls in the best light and they're taking a bit of the heat for once and realize life's too short to have too many options where themselves can't choose
You can tell by just looking at Courtney and her body language and her tone, that she has been the good girlfriend in the relationships, we need more of this!
I've developed this habit now where if it's not obvious she's into me then I just can't find myself to be attracted to her. If things feel more complicated than necessary I just stop putting in effort... This is probably costing me some opportunities, but it does make keeping a level head easier.
I had the situation where she posted a photo of her accident damaged car on social media weeks after the accident occurred. Speaking with her later another time I asked her what was happening this weekend; she replied she was going to see a new release movie on Sunday. Writing to her on Sunday I asked how the movie was & she replied that the movie theatre was busy with lots of coughing people (re: COVID), so instead she went for a drive... "Wait... I thought you totalled your car?", I wrote to her. "So yeah, I needed a car, so I jokingly applied for a loan for a 2009 Porsche Cayan & it got approved...", she said. She didn't tell me she was in an accident, finding out through social media, and she didn't tell me she bought herself a new car, only telling me when she outed herself... She had no interest in talking to me; no interest in involving me in her life, or at least confiding in me dramatic events that have changed her life... Keeping secrets? Maybe... But it's definitely compartmentalizing which stories you're telling which people & why!
@@thatboringblenderguy Yeah, nah... I defriended her on Facebook, but it was about a month later. I should have done it earlier, but I wasn't clear-headed to see that at the time.
Happy Sunday Courtney! It's good to keep your options open in the beginning and after a while, you want to be with the one who treats you the best. Stay beautiful Courtney 😍
Having options initially,you should be naturally narrowing down to the one you are most interested in and go further down with them.Carrying the options all the way till committing to one happens when you are not ready to put value into the relationship and thus it will inevitably fail.
A lot of guys are very very aware of what you re saying here courtney BUT the real problem is scarcity mindset that makes men almost "suck it up and accept it " men KNOW you just know when she s not interested some guys just feel like that girl would be their only shot.am i making sense ?
Your points are very well received. That said, I do think there is a difference in approach between people in general that do/do not have children. I would certainly expect a more guarded initial experience if I was dating a single lady with children...especially when it came to introductions. Perhaps a video with some of your friends that have kiddos and how approach is influenced by that in the realm of dating would be beneficial to some.
Things to start in 2022: - working out - investing money (crypto, stocks, savings) - ending bad habits (snoozing, gosipping, procrastinating) - planning your days - Eating healthier & learning to cook - weekly walks (in nature, no headphones/airpods) - drinking water daily (2-3 liters) - Reading at least 5-10 pages of a (e)book - Quiting drugs/alcohol (you don't need that bs) - meditating - Giving to the less fortunates - cutting out bad friends & family - minimalism - Learning a (remote) skill (coding, music, designing, marketing) [Screenshot this, atleast try it & any questions? Ask them + share this if you feel like it]..
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
I for one was always trying to see the good in people which comes to bite you in the arse usually and something I have learnt aswell is when a person tell you who they actually are, believe them! don’t ignore signs what people trying to tell you not matter how much you like or care for them.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
ok guys women always keep other options in the dating pool.maybe its just a so called friend or someone at work or a guy she sees at a club she hangs out at or whatever.ladies usually keep a backup plan.a lady that looks nice is never really single with no options and readily makes sure she keeps that in her life.what does that really tell u?
Definitely have experience with this. Match with a girl on Facebook dating a couple weeks ago. The conversation was going good, but whenever I would ask her to explain what she did with her day, she would only give me one word answers. Like, you already told me you’re working, and I know you work on the farm. I want to know what you did while you were working on the farm. Girls are confusing.
If she don’t follow through with explanations, dead give away she ain’t into you anymore. Good trick I do is if I’m the one who normally wakes up earlier and sends a text, if I have any feeling she ain’t into me through text, I won’t send a Goodmorning text the next day. If she don’t send anything all day, boom, answer given
I hate when a guy (even one I’m interested in) always asks me what I did with my day. I feel interrogated, like if I did not do enough cool things I will seem like a boring slug. That’s just an insecurity of mine, and not giving details doesn’t mean I’m not interested. Though, being asked that question a lot may lead to me losing interest.
@@deirdrecoulter5823 interesting. I was thinking that could be why she was hesitant, so I told her I was genuinely wanting to hear about her activities for the day. She still wouldn’t give me more than one or two word responses until I started to have to ask questions. It was strange.
@@jrex7486 rather have someone who takes interest and maintains a conversation then feeling like I’m the one who’s carrying the conversation constantly. If I wanted to talk to a brick wall, I wouldn’t even be on a dating app 🤣
It's okay to keep your options open when dating but when it gets to a point where it seems like the woman is not invested in you, you gotta take a step back and maybe even move on. My rule is simple: if you don't feel like the #1 option, then you're not *However, the above name made Spying/Discoveries so effortless and elegant. they help us to find out what was going on*
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours.
Pro tip fellas, if she's a 3-10 and think she's a 9-10, demands a dinner date as a 1st date and you know she might embarrass you because she's not a lady, yet you go out with her....call ahead, give them your card in advance knowing you're paying for your meal, if that phone comes out, the date is over, leave! Also don't forget to tip your waiter.
@@LatimusChadimus I never propose a dinner date until it’s locked in it’s either drinks at the bar or coffee, and never had a women pull out her phone on the date unless I was coming back/leaving the table.
If a man or woman going see other people then you need to let the other person know upfront so no one gets hurt. I believe in dating just one person to see if you have anything in common.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
When I met that Browns fan serving me at that restaurant a few months ago, she was talking with someone else and then ended up seeing him. I got so devastated, but today she still doesn’t treat me like crap (unlike my crush from 2019 who blocked me), and also I’ve moved on from her now. Find other cuties/hotties.
Well she must have viewed you as a man and that brought her to a more comfortable state to be herself, although she is so heavily emotionally invested in another that she can't seem to break away so definitely do not take it personally hahaha call it a compliment because I see it all the time, these girls walking around with their boyfriends or driving their boyfriends around and they're always looking at me, or even smiling and waving when they are pumping gas because their boyfriend is too focused on whatever game he is playing on his phone and I just keep moving, laughing inside
Thanks for the advice. I have a female friend who I was trying to date. I told her let's just be cool and see if you feel me that way, thought things were going fine. I texted her Monday after she came back from NY and never heard from her. Safe to say, she isn't into me so I've started to ghost her. Have to move on and be content with who I am as a man, I won't make this mistake again.
Just started watching your channel. I'm in my early 50s, great shape etc. The gals I generally meet get a "meh" rating at best. It rarely gets this far as my inner monologue says it's time to go.
Hollywood films had thrown some wrong impression on love and relationship movies couple lives very happily but in reality, the main drama starts if a guy is dumbstruck. Then the girl starts to use you and find her right partner. oooh..!! what she can do? if your want a beautiful and eligible girl to be your partner then in return she has the complete right to choose an exact partner for her. Reading women can be really tricky. While she may have made you believe she’s really into you, she might as well just be using you for her own benefits. One day or the other, she’s going to show her true colours and it’s going to hurt real bad. You’re better off without selfish people in your life here are 15 signs she’s just not worth your time. Wake up, and walk off before you go too deep into her trap! 1. She calls you in the middle of the night if she needs you, but is somehow, always busy when you want someone to talk to. 2. She never seems eager to hang out with you usually, but if she’s getting bored, you’re the guy she calls up. 3. She expects you to listen to her problems patiently, but she never pays attention when you talk. She gets distracted easily, starts playing with her phone or changes the topic to something she wants to talk about. 4. She takes you along to parties because she has nobody to go with but starts ignoring you the moment she meets her friends there. She never makes any effort to make you feel comfortable around her group of friends. 5. She conveniently assumes that you’re going to pay every time you two go out. 6. She takes advantage of your chivalry and asks you for favours all the time. You get her phone recharged, you accompany her shopping when her girl best friends are busy, you cover up for her when her parents call, and you do her assignments too. You’re supposed to pick her up, drive her around and then drop her too. She literally lives off you. She’s basically made you her b*tch. 7. She never returns your calls or replies to your texts, unless, it benefits her in some way of course. She is always ready with excuses like “Oh, I forgot” and “I’m so sorry, I was just replying to you but…” But she gets mad if you do the same. 8. She’s never apologetic for her mistakes, never. You can see it by the way she changes the situation by crying. It always ends up with you comforting her, even though she was at fault. 9. Even though she expects you to do everything a boyfriend does for his girlfriend, she refuses to acknowledge the relationship. She keeps reminding you that you’re ‘just friends. 10. She makes you cancel other plans for her and then inconsiderately bails out on you at the end moment. What’s worse is that she’s never even sorry for being so insensitive. 11. She uses you to make her boyfriend or her ex feel jealous. She’s surprisingly flirtatious with you in front of her friends and her ex. While it makes you feel good about yourself, you must know she’s just using you as a device for her own personal gains. 12. She’s always seeking your sympathy. It is almost like she is with you only to feel better about herself. 13. She’s more interested in how much you learn, which company you work for, the kind of people you hang out with, and the restaurants you go to than who you are as a person. 14. Even though she hangs out with you all the time and makes it look like she’s interested, she has never introduced you to any of her friends as her boyfriend. 15. She shows absolutely no interest in your life. It is only about her, all the freaking time.
There are so many choices for her that often no choice is made. They only evaluate, try-out and then move on to the next candidate. Always wondering if they can do even better until they are eventually introduced to the wall. However, if she finds that you've won big with the lottery, you will quickly move to priority status.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
I met this girl a few weeks ago, not someone I was really super excited about, she is 5'2" probably close to 200lbs has 5 kids, but I gave it a shot because that's about the best I can get, we went on a few dates and I fixed some stuff on her trailer, I thought it was going well but she started pulling some of the stuff mentioned in this video. She went really cold. Guess she found someone better. Just figures, and I should have known better after she made up excuses to deny any intamacy, just frustrating after I took her to Walmart to buy some stuff for her kids. Being nice doesn't get you anywhere. Wondering if I go up to a 300lbs women if she would treat me any better.
Women are mostly crappy anymore and won’t admit or take some blame just blame men or the dbags they choose when they have plenty of other guys that would treat them better. I live in Iowa and Midwest girls are so overrated and think they are so cool stay humble ladies I hate stuck up women.
great video as always Courtney, thanks! it's another example of how we still can't escape the obvious. oh, look for a hint here. oh, if she's doing this it means that. I always hear David Attenborough's voice "there! a woman! now she's going to.." and so on, like observing a wild animal. yes, we are mostly animals, but a kind of a step above. she can speak. so can't the girl just say it in words without all the coyness? of course she can because she expects it of men. only she doesn't feel like it. conclusion- she will be treated like an animal, basically a pet. "human up!" is what I might say to women in general. I want a partner not a pet, even if I know how to read and control a pet 😎
What is wrong with dating multiple people AT THE BEGINNING STAGES when looking for a partner? Women get advice to keep all options open until a SOLID COMMITMENT is agreed to.
Your so on point. I wish i knew all of this before i got into a relationship and got cheated on. I should have never ignore her redflags. I tried to ignore her redflags by imagining a beautiful false realtity of her inside my mind. I was emotionally and physically spent. I not gonna let that happen ever again
Saturday night 04 June 2022. HISTORY LESSON: 80 years ago today, the Battle of Midway (AF) began. When it was all over, one American aircraft carrier, the U.S.S. Yorktown CV-5, had been sunk and four Imperial Japanese Navy aircraft carriers, Akagi, Kaga, Soryu and Hiru had been sunk. During that four-day battle, one airplane, the U.S. Navy's Dauntless SBD-3 dive bomber, changed the course of the Pacific war in five minutes. Chase excellence, not women. Courtney, congrats on 323K subscribers and thanks for this great content. Take care.
@Stevo i would of just laughed excused myself quielty payed my portion of the bill and took off w/ out telling her. lol its always better to keep it as classy as possible and excuse yourself no need to let anyone especially a woman throw you off your energy/mood.
Something both men AND women need to keep in mind: dating more than one person is NOT cheating, unless the two of you have agreed to be exclusive (or if you are married, obviously). Sleeping with more than one person on the other hand...
I agree with you to a degree, I think you run into drama and bad situations if you go on multiple dates with multiple people at the same time. You have to juggle multiple plans, convos, etc…it’s just so much work. Especially leading people on who didn’t need to have their time wasted to begin with.
One thing I’ll never agree with while dating that Courtney and other relationship “coaches” say is: Worry about if u like her more than u worrying about if she likes u. I disagree with this because a woman needs to like u for who u are by being yourself during the dating period. U can already be really interested in her and wanting to go further with her but if she isn’t interested in u one bit well u would know where u stand pretty quickly. My thing is u need to figure out if she likes u as more of a priority than seeing if u like her as well. Woman are the decision makers for these three questions: Will u go out on a date with me?, Will u be my girlfriend?, and Will u marry me? So if u already got the date, now u just need to be yourself and figure out if she likes u or not through her actions and words and see if u can progress forward. Men ask these three questions while the women answers them so if u wants a “yes” to all three, I recommend doing what I said above. Make “if she likes u” more priority over “do I like her” when it comes to dating. It honestly doesn’t matter if we like them. we aren’t the ones who answer these three questions. So all we can do is ask and hope for a “yes” because then that’ll tell us that they like us as well or is at least interested.
They make the decisions, yes... but you have to ask them first! Women will almost *NEVER* make the first move, and certainly won't escalate. You'll die a virgin if you wait for them to do so. By having standards, women will respect you more, and they'll be more likely to start chasing you, instead of the other way around. You have to decide what you want, and then fine-tune your game to achieve those outcomes. Women aren't going to do the work for you, and you probably wouldn't be happy to be in a relationship with a woman who does. Put simply, you have to play the male gender role in the relationship. 🙂
Not really, no. Yes, it’s on the guy to make the first approach i.e. will you go out with me? After that you just keep dating the girl. If she likes you you can typically escalate to physical intimacy pretty quickly and then…you just stand pat with a big smile on your face. You’ve got what you want as a man, sex with a pretty girl on the regular. Everything else is her ask, not yours. Do you want to be my girlfriend? No smart guy ever asks that question. Just STFU and she’ll be the one doing the asking. And marriage? Don’t be fooled by what society tells you. That’s not your ask either. She benefits more, so sooner or later she has to be the one dropping hints or giving you conditional proposals or ultimatums. Now, I’m not saying a man can’t be committed, of course he can, but he’s the prize and she has to do the asking. RELATIONSHIPS ARE WOMEN’S WORK. Once you understand this, flip society’s script and play this out, you’ll have all the power in relationships and more importantly a woman who is chasing after you and optimizing her hypergamy, which is far more likely to lead to long term success.
I think good communicators nowadays, should be able to have a good 2x speed voice. You do have that. We live in an era which even warps dimensions and reality in many ways. Seeing near distant people, and time and space. So, I approve that quality of 2x watching speed. I like that.
@@brandon9638 Things had died down considerably over the past couple of weeks. So short answer is yes, but it's not as bad as a sudden break-up out of nowhere. It still sucks though.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
I find your thumbnails hilariously on point, especially when your face says: 'something is definitely wrong!' XD On a more serious note, regardless of who does what wrong, I always get the impression that your comments are generous and open-minded.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
I recently had a chick who i was spending a ton of time with at her suggestions and when we weren't together she was blowing up my txt. Still was talking to other dudes and told me she wasnt. Dont believe anything. And dont get emotionally attached. Not in this dating climate.
Treating people like a basket is eggs is a big red flag. I’ll step aside and discard you if from the very beginning you are treating me like just another option. I cannot be interested in more than one woman at the time and I expect the same from them
What should you do when you know you're a FAR better match for her than her current mate, but she remains committed to him for PRACTICAL reasons. Thus, she never has even a CHANCE of realizing how much happier she'd be with you than him??
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
Hello :)- I am new to your channel and I am a Pisces empath with some psychic abilities. I know when someone is not being honest with me and I know when someone is giving their all or not invested at all. I don't have time for people to start "ghosting" me especially after the 'first date". When I approached her with this "issue"..there were nothing more than one excuse after another!!!! Her LOSS not mine as I know what my value is as someone who lives within his integrity!!! Kudos to you for your efforts and to the information that you bring.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
I like one of my office colleagues but I heard that she is married. I know it sounds creepy to even think about dating a married women but I just wanted to express myself and let her know about my feelings. So when I told her one day about how I feel she clarified that she is not married and it's all a hoax because her family abandoned her for loving someone they didn't approve of and that she doesn't want that truth to come out. She also said that she has broken up with the guy ( she didn't give me the reason for her breakup ) Anyways, she said that she wasn't looking for a relationship and just wanted us to be friends. I have recently come to know that the guy for which she fought with her family and said that she is broken up with is living with her in an apartment. I mean I understand that ex's can be good friends as well but staying in the same apartment, having his number as a emergency contact number, going on hill stations with the guy or using his credit card etc etc is a little hard to believe. Basically I am not sure why did she have to lie to me in the first place. I have left the office for my own reasons I am still in contact with her and she is a good friend of mine. Also she does text me first and makes plans to hangout with me ( of course with our whole group and not just me alone )
She starts going on sudden, unscheduled "business trips" when she is unemployed... She returns wearing a pair of man's shorts and undershirt... She calls you by a number of male (and a few female) names...
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I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months All thanks to Mr Ajayi whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours
Quick summary:
1. You don't see her.
2. No progress. (Nobody from her family/friends even knows you after months of seeing could be a RED FLAG, important comment to that point imo)
3. Disntant / wants space.
4. Makes you an option.
5. You feel confused.
Learned all this the hard way. It really sucked, but at least I learned.
Same here
You can tell by her level of attention, comparing to in person, texts, and social media. Choose those who choose you fellas; invest in those whom invest in you
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People have to be secure to do that. And everyone wants to keep someone on the bench, while they shop for the Bigger, Better Deal. 😉
@@marcmays48 the hardest part about current dating, and what you just said there, is the fact that 80% of men are deemed as unattractive and I'm sure 90% of that 80% are not planning on doing anything about it, and when it comes to women, 5% of them are genuine and worthy of quality men, and the other 95% are all the same, a dime-a-dozen, and are found everywhere in Earth which makes it really hard to have goals of having a family one day, until you find that girl that will follow your lead and put all of that crap behind her, although still the higher body count the less enthused we are. I myself have put that having a wife and kids goal on the bench, while putting some of that wood cement inside the bars of my frame haha
@@LatimusChadimus Like anything else, it's a function of what standards you have, what standards she has, and how much time, money, and effort are you willing to throw at the problem?
Meeting the right women is as much of an art, as it is an exact science. Josh Pellicer has a number of good programs; he is one of the few PUAs that I trust, as it is clear that he has put in quite a bit of work, and he does have integrity. In one course, he explains that you have to figure out who you are first. Next, figure out which type of woman would be ideally compatible (the Enneagram book I referenced on Friday is helpful here-- find a woman whose personality type matches your direction of integration). Then, figure out how you work together. Some of this is trying to hit a moving target... because after all, you will change and grow over time, and she will, as well. But that is a good starting point.
@@marcmays48 wait, i didn't see you here on Friday and I watched that video multiple times like I am here between my deload squats. Hmmm
It's okay to keep your options open when dating but when it gets to a point where it seems like the woman is not invested in you, you gotta take a step back and maybe even move on. My rule is simple: if you don't feel like the #1 option, then you're not.
This makes sense.
Amen brother, so true 🙏
Yup
Thissss. If she is taking all day to respond, sorry man, give up. Especially if you have gone on a couple dates already.
@@ATLBraves1992 big facts. I look at it like selling a house. If I only have one client looking at the house and I only focus one person they can play games pullback manipulate etc and I’m their little b*tch for lack of better words. if I have 10 clients come see the house each week all I need to make is one sale to have a great outcome. Let’s say 20 of the clients are manipulative canceling and I have 3 clients that are high interest with contracts which I can make a good deal and let the game playing people fall by the way side let them play with themselves while I move on and make great deals.
"She's not yours, it's just your turn" 🙂 😏 😉
Eww imagine all those "men" that have been there. Yuck.
Thanks, Rich!
Dating with the intent for a meaningful relationship that possibly leads to marriage in this day and age is nearly impossible. Everything is a red flag now days, it's easy to swipe and since it's so easy to connect with people online people think they can always find someone better, therefore it's an endless cycle.
Yep. The sad truth especially women now with ridiculous standards or wasting a guys time. I've tried to train myself that I will die alone inevitably. If only I was born a boomer or gen x I would have had a chance at least.
I don't know if you have watched Wheat Waffles but it speaks the truth about how women dig for either top-tier looks or materialism.
The paradox of choice.
Yep, exactly. The amount of women I match with and talk to on dating apps only to be carrying the conversation as they are obviously talking to many other guys. I've gotten to the point where if they respond with a lazy response that shows they didn't take any time or focus to respond I just dont bother with them anymore. I don't let myself be treated like I'm not worth someone's time anymore. I know my worth and I think a lot of us men are coming to this realization.
@@joshuarowe1111how’s your dating been now?
A man should not be "worried" about "her" seeing other men .... just work on "you" and "worry" about you ...
Woman who tell you she needs space, time to look for a new girl friend. Let her go and move on. Act like you're okay with it and if it doesn't work out for her with the new guy. She might comeback to you. It happened to me. It didn't work out for her and she wanted to get back into the relationship. I said no to her.
Good
Never take them back
You was her scapegoat. He pumped and dumped her. Now she want you bacc
You're the first woman who does these type of videos I've come across who actually reveals the truth about women. All the others just lie trying to protect the image of women in general and sell you some program. Finally. Thank you. You got my sub.
Happy to have you here 👋🏼 thank you!
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@@CourtneyRyan you have my greatest respect for telling the truths and not misleading like some girls do who probably just want attention and validation non stop until they hit their peak and no longer get the notifications they received during the youth.
Check out melli monoco and bosana too
True Love shouldn't be so complicated. Hang in there guys. Thanks for all you do Courtney!
Fax
It isnt complicated. These women wouldn't be playing games if 1) you held your frame and 2) you were rich, famous, and in shape. Women keep you as an option because they feel like they could do better. Find those ugly betties that feel blessed just to have a guy that gives her the time of day. Then you'll find your "true love".
Kanye west ft. XXXTentacion?
I truly agree on this one. I don't want to be stressed when being in love.🤟
Good lord. It makes less and less sense everyday.
In early stages Gents, you have to be seeing other girls too. She has to feel competition anxiety to want to take you off the market and make things exclusive. And that ask must ALWAYS come from her side. Never the guys. Remember, if you are high value, YOU are the PRIZE. Monogamy benefits her a lot more than it benefits you. When you internalize this your relationships will be a lot better with women.
Only way to do that is become a DJ, an entrepreneur, or a gym owner
@@JdoggStudios Actually, you have to be a professional athlete, or a movie star, or a secret agent 🤪
Lol I just broke up with my ex two days ago because she just completely switched up on me. Started leaving me on seen, then said we needed a break, but I found out she was talking to other people, yet giving me no time. I eventually got tired of it and decided to move on.
Good for you for ending things. All up from here!
Good call. Women like that will be back, when they need something. And once they find out the grass is greener... where the sewage pipe drains out. 😱
SUP LUFFY!!
@@marcmays48 yes, look out for the "heeey you" or "hey stranger!" text. pure venom.
@@CourtneyRyan That happens when you don't have money.
Only two signs are necessary to know if she's dating other people:
1. It's 2022 or after
2. She's a girl
Black pill much? don’t worry the world isn’t as bad as the Internet shows it to be
women today will have 10 dudes waiting in line even when you are in an exclusive relationship with them
I have always assumed a woman was seeing others. Until we have that conversation, it's fair game.
Yep! It's highly likely that for every guy talking to 3 women, there are 3 women talking to 10 guys. In this day&age it is hard to find a woman whom is 100% single
@@LatimusChadimus Yes women, especially during their youth will have thousands of notifications and they will end up probably chatting with 20 compared to a man’s very few. Needs to be told that having too many options can do more harm than good because you end up becoming extremely indecisive whilst the notifications keep coming through and I reckon that must be overwhelming because even when I got endless notifications for a social media post, I felt overwhelmed by just that.
As a man, you should still be seeing other people at the beginning stages. Don’t settle until you know sure it’s mutual between the two of you - you want her and she wants you. Key word: Mutual
Exactly. If you’re not, you’re bringing a knife to a gunfight. She has to know you have options, just like she does. That way she’ll be the one with competition anxiety when YOU don’t ask for commitment. Which will force her to, and said commitment will then mean much more to her.
Bottom line, spin plates and see which ones want more. If she can spin right, give her a shot. That’s an abundance mindset.
She's always seeing other people. Until she isn't.
Dating apps are a cesspool.
This reminds me of my ex after having a seemingly great relationship for 10 months she checked all these boxes almost overnight. I always suspected cheating but could never prove it. What a terrible coward of a woman. Disgusting how someone can hurt someone so bad and not give a damn. Good riddance to that trash.
Courtney we need more genuine girls like you (and people in general for that matter). It’s extremely sad beautiful and legitimately sincere girls are so rare.
Facts 😩 so rare to find genuine women lile her
Do you personally know her?
They are out there it’s just that you gotta find them
@@Sab7maral I agree with that statement, it goes both ways, so many dudes focus on how bad girls are as of 2022, how bad dating scene is, without realizing men are also one of the biggest causes to these issues. You got Men who sleep around with anything and everything, and unfortunately these are the men women tend to chase. Leading to there own heart break. It’s so sad to see men and women chasing the wrong people, for example, I shy attractive man, might attract a women who will approach them(typically those types are ones that sleep around a lot and get what they want) when things go south. These men get damaged, same goes for girls , just at a different angle.
There is no woman who only talking to you .
So the real question is : why bother with someone who can replace you at the next second ?
She has her phone with her all the time and not keeping it on the kitchen counter anymore. She makes excuses not going out on Fridays or Saturdays with you. She dresses up more and saying she's hanging out with her friend instead of you. She's not as affectionate.
Also... she starts putting in noticeable efforts to improve herself... hitting the gym, dressing better, etc. All signs that a woman is back on the manhunt for a new model. 😄
That is funny because there was another channel that does these Tik-Tok reviews and roasts and in one of them a girl claimed that men have their phones on them at all times so when he doesn't hit you back up immediately, it should tell you a few things although I've never seen a guy pouring cement or up on a roof on his phone 24/7, as well as some guys are smart enough to notice red flags that some women will never admit that they have which means they will never be happy and they will likely die alone which is sad but consequences exist in the real world, don't let the school systems and media outlets lie to you. At least there are two examples on this channel that aren't of that low-grade and they both happen to be named Courtney 😂😂🤣
@@marcmays48 She's looking for the Zac Efron and Chris Hemsworth. The minute she's asked on a date by one of these men, it's bye bye to you. Lol.
@@Courtney-Alice-Gargani it seems you know the game pretty well lady.
@@Courtney-Alice-Gargani Good riddance. If she's distracted that easily by shiny object syndrome, then I don't need her.
Most women are a 'NO,' for me anyhow, so it's nothing that I am going to lose sleep over. 😄
If a woman says she needs her space, it might be she's indirectly trying to breakup with you. She's shopping around to see if she can find a better man.
Spot on Courtney!!
It also means that she wants you (the man) to break up with her so that she can play the victim when she's out in public trying to find another sucker
@@LatimusChadimus Maybe. Women are better at manipulating than men are. I hate to admit it. Usually a man who's confident in himself or an alpha male would breakup with her but a beta or simp would try to work it out with her. He might be asking what's he doing wrong. Men, never ask a woman what you're doing wrong and try to get her to change her mind. She's already planing on leaving you so accept it.
@@Courtney-Alice-Gargani lol men don't call out women because accountability/conviction might mean those kinds of women need humility and modern media tells every one to be their own idol; self idolatry is ugly and dangerous and when a good women is found, she should be honored without the pedestal. Courtney is highly honorable, while humble and genuine. Even though I came for the fashion tips, I support each and every video. More men out there need this content so here's another algo boosting comment lol
@CourtneyRyan I'm confused. You say "not necessarily", but then, "spot on".
I suffer from depression anxiety mental health issues and your videos have helped me to see what to look for in woman or work on myself or people I have been struggling alot lately and I want a girlfriend but your videos Have really helped me alot thank you for what you do and I love you for it thank you Courtney have a great day
Yeah I've noticed that in some of your comments throughout 2022. You're not alone; I've seen others struggling down here in the comments.
Keep up the progress, we're here for you, and read through the comments and reach out to those in a state you were and help them
I’m so glad I could help 🥺 rooting for you!
Courtney is a legend ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan thank you for saying that
@@LatimusChadimus thanks bro i appreciate it
Great tips! If a girl is into you, she’ll drop everything for the opportunity to be with you - she’ll even cancel her plans.
Having said that. If she’s not into you - forget about it! It’s just not going to happen, she’ll find every excuse in the book - in order to avoid you! So pay very close attention!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
The earlier you discover this, the better so you can move on and stop wasting time. As long as you know deep down that you did nothing wrong to deserve being ghosted, cheated, etc, realize it's her loss. In that case, don't take it personally because it says more about her than you. Don't try to spin the blame and make it sound like if she's not invested in you or leaves suddenly, then it's because you did something wrong; it's your fault...not necessarily. Not your fault she decided to jump to the conclusion that you're not worth it. Haste makes waste afterall. In any case, this video may have good intentions even though it doesn't shine girls in the best light and they're taking a bit of the heat for once and realize life's too short to have too many options where themselves can't choose
I needed to hear that. She left me hanging mid conversation and ghosted me. Been totally broadsided by it. It sux.
You can tell by just looking at Courtney and her body language and her tone, that she has been the good girlfriend in the relationships, we need more of this!
I've developed this habit now where if it's not obvious she's into me then I just can't find myself to be attracted to her. If things feel more complicated than necessary I just stop putting in effort... This is probably costing me some opportunities, but it does make keeping a level head easier.
I had the situation where she posted a photo of her accident damaged car on social media weeks after the accident occurred.
Speaking with her later another time I asked her what was happening this weekend; she replied she was going to see a new release movie on Sunday. Writing to her on Sunday I asked how the movie was & she replied that the movie theatre was busy with lots of coughing people (re: COVID), so instead she went for a drive...
"Wait... I thought you totalled your car?", I wrote to her.
"So yeah, I needed a car, so I jokingly applied for a loan for a 2009 Porsche Cayan & it got approved...", she said.
She didn't tell me she was in an accident, finding out through social media, and she didn't tell me she bought herself a new car, only telling me when she outed herself...
She had no interest in talking to me; no interest in involving me in her life, or at least confiding in me dramatic events that have changed her life...
Keeping secrets? Maybe... But it's definitely compartmentalizing which stories you're telling which people & why!
Block her
@@thatboringblenderguy Yeah, nah... I defriended her on Facebook, but it was about a month later. I should have done it earlier, but I wasn't clear-headed to see that at the time.
Happy Sunday Courtney! It's good to keep your options open in the beginning and after a while, you want to be with the one who treats you the best. Stay beautiful Courtney 😍
🙌🏼 thanks John! Enjoy your Sunday!
@@CourtneyRyan You too, Courtney! Keep up the good work with your videos 👏🏻
Having options initially,you should be naturally narrowing down to the one you are most interested in and go further down with them.Carrying the options all the way till committing to one happens when you are not ready to put value into the relationship and thus it will inevitably fail.
A lot of guys are very very aware of what you re saying here courtney BUT the real problem is scarcity mindset that makes men almost "suck it up and accept it " men KNOW you just know when she s not interested some guys just feel like that girl would be their only shot.am i making sense ?
If a girl says she's a bad texter or she has a boyfriend, that means she's seeing other dudes. It means you're not as good of a candidate.
Been there done that
Your points are very well received. That said, I do think there is a difference in approach between people in general that do/do not have children. I would certainly expect a more guarded initial experience if I was dating a single lady with children...especially when it came to introductions. Perhaps a video with some of your friends that have kiddos and how approach is influenced by that in the realm of dating would be beneficial to some.
Do you think some of Courtney's points from this video might differ because of the guarding that takes place due to children?
Things to start in 2022:
- working out
- investing money (crypto, stocks, savings)
- ending bad habits (snoozing, gosipping, procrastinating)
- planning your days
- Eating healthier & learning to cook
- weekly walks (in nature, no headphones/airpods)
- drinking water daily (2-3 liters)
- Reading at least 5-10 pages of a (e)book
- Quiting drugs/alcohol (you don't need that bs)
- meditating
- Giving to the less fortunates
- cutting out bad friends & family
- minimalism
- Learning a (remote) skill (coding, music, designing, marketing)
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They should make a movie about this. They could title it "She's Just Not That into You".
I for one was always trying to see the good in people which comes to bite you in the arse usually and something I have learnt aswell is when a person tell you who they actually are, believe them! don’t ignore signs what people trying to tell you not matter how much you like or care for them.
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ok guys women always keep other options in the dating pool.maybe its just a so called friend or someone at work or a guy she sees at a club she hangs out at or whatever.ladies usually keep a backup plan.a lady that looks nice is never really single with no options and readily makes sure she keeps that in her life.what does that really tell u?
Definitely have experience with this. Match with a girl on Facebook dating a couple weeks ago. The conversation was going good, but whenever I would ask her to explain what she did with her day, she would only give me one word answers. Like, you already told me you’re working, and I know you work on the farm. I want to know what you did while you were working on the farm. Girls are confusing.
If she don’t follow through with explanations, dead give away she ain’t into you anymore. Good trick I do is if I’m the one who normally wakes up earlier and sends a text, if I have any feeling she ain’t into me through text, I won’t send a Goodmorning text the next day. If she don’t send anything all day, boom, answer given
I hate when a guy (even one I’m interested in) always asks me what I did with my day. I feel interrogated, like if I did not do enough cool things I will seem like a boring slug. That’s just an insecurity of mine, and not giving details doesn’t mean I’m not interested. Though, being asked that question a lot may lead to me losing interest.
@@deirdrecoulter5823 interesting. I was thinking that could be why she was hesitant, so I told her I was genuinely wanting to hear about her activities for the day. She still wouldn’t give me more than one or two word responses until I started to have to ask questions. It was strange.
@@jrex7486 rather have someone who takes interest and maintains a conversation then feeling like I’m the one who’s carrying the conversation constantly. If I wanted to talk to a brick wall, I wouldn’t even be on a dating app 🤣
@@devenmacintosh4124 pretty much. Hinge or bumble aren’t much better.
It's okay to keep your options open when dating but when it gets to a point where it seems like the woman is not invested in you, you gotta take a step back and maybe even move on. My rule is simple: if you don't feel like the #1 option, then you're not
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they should teach this stuff at school/college on how to retain a relationship.
1. You don’t see her.
2. No progress.
3. Distant / wants space.
4. Makes you an option.
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Wow wow wow. All of these signs are so accurate and thank you for putting this out there for us. Very helpful.
You have a soothing demeanor. Very refreshing this day and age!👍
And a comforting countenance lol
Shout-out from Israel, Courtney. Been a fan since you started your channel
You’re awesome. Thanks for the support! ❤️
When she post a snap of her food and hide the nigga that paid for it 😭
Pro tip fellas, if she's a 3-10 and think she's a 9-10, demands a dinner date as a 1st date and you know she might embarrass you because she's not a lady, yet you go out with her....call ahead, give them your card in advance knowing you're paying for your meal, if that phone comes out, the date is over, leave! Also don't forget to tip your waiter.
Lol, this made me laugh
@@LatimusChadimus I never propose a dinner date until it’s locked in it’s either drinks at the bar or coffee, and never had a women pull out her phone on the date unless I was coming back/leaving the table.
If she has snapchat at all, she's cheating
This really feels like the Olympics where everyone is competing...too busy= lame excuse
Right 🫠
Too busy is a lame way to say "you're not #1"
Choose those who choose you; invest in those whom invest in you. Level up, first
Too busy = I am not making you a priority, but only an option. Keep her as an option, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. 😉
If a man or woman going see other people then you need to let the other person know upfront so no one gets hurt. I believe in dating just one person to see if you have anything in common.
Well, then you’re taking a knife to a gunfight.
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When I met that Browns fan serving me at that restaurant a few months ago, she was talking with someone else and then ended up seeing him. I got so devastated, but today she still doesn’t treat me like crap (unlike my crush from 2019 who blocked me), and also I’ve moved on from her now. Find other cuties/hotties.
Well she must have viewed you as a man and that brought her to a more comfortable state to be herself, although she is so heavily emotionally invested in another that she can't seem to break away so definitely do not take it personally hahaha call it a compliment because I see it all the time, these girls walking around with their boyfriends or driving their boyfriends around and they're always looking at me, or even smiling and waving when they are pumping gas because their boyfriend is too focused on whatever game he is playing on his phone and I just keep moving, laughing inside
Thanks for the advice. I have a female friend who I was trying to date. I told her let's just be cool and see if you feel me that way, thought things were going fine. I texted her Monday after she came back from NY and never heard from her. Safe to say, she isn't into me so I've started to ghost her. Have to move on and be content with who I am as a man, I won't make this mistake again.
Just started watching your channel. I'm in my early 50s, great shape etc. The gals I generally meet get a "meh" rating at best. It rarely gets this far as my inner monologue says it's time to go.
I needed to hear this perfect timing Courtney keep up the positive energy 🌹❤
Wrap it up gents and get tested on the reg! Especially nowadays with everyone dating multiple people. Be smart and safe!
Good dating topic Courtney and no video on Monday’s 😊
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Hollywood films had thrown some wrong impression on love and relationship movies couple lives very happily but in reality, the main drama starts if a guy is dumbstruck. Then the girl starts to use you and find her right partner. oooh..!! what she can do? if your want a beautiful and eligible girl to be your partner then in return she has the complete right to choose an exact partner for her.
Reading women can be really tricky. While she may have made you believe she’s really into you, she might as well just be using you for her own benefits. One day or the other, she’s going to show her true colours and it’s going to hurt real bad. You’re better off without selfish people in your life here are 15 signs she’s just not worth your time. Wake up, and walk off before you go too deep into her trap!
1. She calls you in the middle of the night if she needs you, but is somehow, always busy when you want someone to talk to.
2. She never seems eager to hang out with you usually, but if she’s getting bored, you’re the guy she calls up.
3. She expects you to listen to her problems patiently, but she never pays attention when you talk. She gets distracted easily, starts playing with her phone or changes the topic to something she wants to talk about.
4. She takes you along to parties because she has nobody to go with but starts ignoring you the moment she meets her friends there. She never makes any effort to make you feel comfortable around her group of friends.
5. She conveniently assumes that you’re going to pay every time you two go out.
6. She takes advantage of your chivalry and asks you for favours all the time. You get her phone recharged, you accompany her shopping when her girl best friends are busy, you cover up for her when her parents call, and you do her assignments too. You’re supposed to pick her up, drive her around and then drop her too. She literally lives off you. She’s basically made you her b*tch.
7. She never returns your calls or replies to your texts, unless, it benefits her in some way of course. She is always ready with excuses like “Oh, I forgot” and “I’m so sorry, I was just replying to you but…” But she gets mad if you do the same.
8. She’s never apologetic for her mistakes, never. You can see it by the way she changes the situation by crying. It always ends up with you comforting her, even though she was at fault.
9. Even though she expects you to do everything a boyfriend does for his girlfriend, she refuses to acknowledge the relationship. She keeps reminding you that you’re ‘just friends.
10. She makes you cancel other plans for her and then inconsiderately bails out on you at the end moment. What’s worse is that she’s never even sorry for being so insensitive.
11. She uses you to make her boyfriend or her ex feel jealous. She’s surprisingly flirtatious with you in front of her friends and her ex. While it makes you feel good about yourself, you must know she’s just using you as a device for her own personal gains.
12. She’s always seeking your sympathy. It is almost like she is with you only to feel better about herself.
13. She’s more interested in how much you learn, which company you work for, the kind of people you hang out with, and the restaurants you go to than who you are as a person.
14. Even though she hangs out with you all the time and makes it look like she’s interested, she has never introduced you to any of her friends as her boyfriend.
15. She shows absolutely no interest in your life. It is only about her, all the freaking time.
Yes, narcissists are Bad. But, enough about them. What do you think about them? 😂
There are so many choices for her that often no choice is made. They only evaluate, try-out and then move on to the next candidate. Always wondering if they can do even better until they are eventually introduced to the wall. However, if she finds that you've won big with the lottery, you will quickly move to priority status.
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I met this girl a few weeks ago, not someone I was really super excited about, she is 5'2" probably close to 200lbs has 5 kids, but I gave it a shot because that's about the best I can get, we went on a few dates and I fixed some stuff on her trailer, I thought it was going well but she started pulling some of the stuff mentioned in this video. She went really cold. Guess she found someone better. Just figures, and I should have known better after she made up excuses to deny any intamacy, just frustrating after I took her to Walmart to buy some stuff for her kids. Being nice doesn't get you anywhere. Wondering if I go up to a 300lbs women if she would treat me any better.
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Women are mostly crappy anymore and won’t admit or take some blame just blame men or the dbags they choose when they have plenty of other guys that would treat them better. I live in Iowa and Midwest girls are so overrated and think they are so cool stay humble ladies I hate stuck up women.
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Don't do stuff for her or her kids until after several months at the earliest...she knew she could use you and she did.
great video as always Courtney, thanks! it's another example of how we still can't escape the obvious. oh, look for a hint here. oh, if she's doing this it means that. I always hear David Attenborough's voice "there! a woman! now she's going to.." and so on, like observing a wild animal. yes, we are mostly animals, but a kind of a step above. she can speak. so can't the girl just say it in words without all the coyness? of course she can because she expects it of men. only she doesn't feel like it. conclusion- she will be treated like an animal, basically a pet. "human up!" is what I might say to women in general. I want a partner not a pet, even if I know how to read and control a pet 😎
Thanks for showing us the signs Courtney
What is wrong with dating multiple people AT THE BEGINNING STAGES when looking for a partner? Women get advice to keep all options open until a SOLID COMMITMENT is agreed to.
A sign she's seeing other people is when she calls you another guy's name.
Yes. That is no good at all. 😳
"Oh Houston; what a man"
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I wish I saw this before... Thanks for your content!
i dont know what or if you did anything different, but your lighting is perfect on this video
Start by assuming she is seeing other people. Then end with that.
Make sure she chooses YOU, gentlemen
Your so on point. I wish i knew all of this before i got into a relationship and got cheated on. I should have never ignore her redflags. I tried to ignore her redflags by imagining a beautiful false realtity of her inside my mind. I was emotionally and physically spent. I not gonna let that happen ever again
Here’s a sign. She has an obvious hickey on her neck and tells you it’s from a curling iron despite her hair looking like a mess.
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Chase excellence, not women. Courtney, congrats on 323K subscribers and thanks for this great content. Take care.
idc if she got side dudes if shes wasting time with me you gotta go
Dating isn't tough people are just stupid and make it harder than it actually is, too many games and nonsense along w/ unrealistic standards.
@Stevo i would of just laughed excused myself quielty payed my portion of the bill and took off w/ out telling her. lol its always better to keep it as classy as possible and excuse yourself no need to let anyone especially a woman throw you off your energy/mood.
I see these signs, and not only don't i see her, we don't even text hardly. I'm tired of being an orbiter, i don't stay out in left field for anyone.
Unless you've had the conversation about being exclusive, always assume she's seeing other people.
...because she is.
That’s her conversation to raise, not yours.
@@jleano609 naw you can absolutely bring it up.
Thanks, Courtney for keeping it Real, 💯 👌 👏 you are simply Amazing
Something both men AND women need to keep in mind: dating more than one person is NOT cheating, unless the two of you have agreed to be exclusive (or if you are married, obviously). Sleeping with more than one person on the other hand...
I agree with you to a degree, I think you run into drama and bad situations if you go on multiple dates with multiple people at the same time. You have to juggle multiple plans, convos, etc…it’s just so much work. Especially leading people on who didn’t need to have their time wasted to begin with.
One thing I’ll never agree with while dating that Courtney and other relationship “coaches” say is: Worry about if u like her more than u worrying about if she likes u. I disagree with this because a woman needs to like u for who u are by being yourself during the dating period. U can already be really interested in her and wanting to go further with her but if she isn’t interested in u one bit well u would know where u stand pretty quickly. My thing is u need to figure out if she likes u as more of a priority than seeing if u like her as well. Woman are the decision makers for these three questions: Will u go out on a date with me?, Will u be my girlfriend?, and Will u marry me? So if u already got the date, now u just need to be yourself and figure out if she likes u or not through her actions and words and see if u can progress forward. Men ask these three questions while the women answers them so if u wants a “yes” to all three, I recommend doing what I said above. Make “if she likes u” more priority over “do I like her” when it comes to dating. It honestly doesn’t matter if we like them. we aren’t the ones who answer these three questions. So all we can do is ask and hope for a “yes” because then that’ll tell us that they like us as well or is at least interested.
They make the decisions, yes... but you have to ask them first!
Women will almost *NEVER* make the first move, and certainly won't escalate. You'll die a virgin if you wait for them to do so.
By having standards, women will respect you more, and they'll be more likely to start chasing you, instead of the other way around.
You have to decide what you want, and then fine-tune your game to achieve those outcomes. Women aren't going to do the work for you, and you probably wouldn't be happy to be in a relationship with a woman who does. Put simply, you have to play the male gender role in the relationship. 🙂
Not really, no. Yes, it’s on the guy to make the first approach i.e. will you go out with me? After that you just keep dating the girl. If she likes you you can typically escalate to physical intimacy pretty quickly and then…you just stand pat with a big smile on your face. You’ve got what you want as a man, sex with a pretty girl on the regular.
Everything else is her ask, not yours. Do you want to be my girlfriend? No smart guy ever asks that question. Just STFU and she’ll be the one doing the asking. And marriage? Don’t be fooled by what society tells you. That’s not your ask either. She benefits more, so sooner or later she has to be the one dropping hints or giving you conditional proposals or ultimatums. Now, I’m not saying a man can’t be committed, of course he can, but he’s the prize and she has to do the asking. RELATIONSHIPS ARE WOMEN’S WORK. Once you understand this, flip society’s script and play this out, you’ll have all the power in relationships and more importantly a woman who is chasing after you and optimizing her hypergamy, which is far more likely to lead to long term success.
Thanks, Courtney! Looked for a video about this and turns out you already had one! Resolved a lot of doubt I had
What if I’m confused cause I’m an overthinker
Timing is perfect
She disappears on a Saturday night then pops her head up late Sunday afternoon.
After potentially having had to hitchhike home, and borrow somebody's phone charger haha because she went home with somebody she shouldn't have
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"Only Egg In The Basket." Merch. Needs to happen.
I think good communicators nowadays, should be able to have a good 2x speed voice. You do have that. We live in an era which even warps dimensions and reality in many ways. Seeing near distant people, and time and space. So, I approve that quality of 2x watching speed. I like that.
I was seeing a girl for 5 months but it had gotten to the stage where it was basically just like every point in this video. I ended it yesterday.
I think I am at this point now. Do you find it hard to get through the days when you were so accustomed to being with someone?
@@brandon9638 Things had died down considerably over the past couple of weeks. So short answer is yes, but it's not as bad as a sudden break-up out of nowhere. It still sucks though.
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I find your thumbnails hilariously on point, especially when your face says: 'something is definitely wrong!' XD On a more serious note, regardless of who does what wrong, I always get the impression that your comments are generous and open-minded.
If you are not exclusive, she IS seeing other people
guy's this is what you need to know........... She's not yours.... it's just your turn
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Where does Courtney get those 1980's Sci-Fi outfits ?
You're looking beautiful, Courtney
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I recently had a chick who i was spending a ton of time with at her suggestions and when we weren't together she was blowing up my txt. Still was talking to other dudes and told me she wasnt. Dont believe anything. And dont get emotionally attached. Not in this dating climate.
Treating people like a basket is eggs is a big red flag. I’ll step aside and discard you if from the very beginning you are treating me like just another option. I cannot be interested in more than one woman at the time and I expect the same from them
What should you do when you know you're a FAR better match for her than her current mate, but she remains committed to him for PRACTICAL reasons. Thus, she never has even a CHANCE of realizing how much happier she'd be with you than him??
You know, Courtney, I have yet to be involved in a relationship, I never had it yet, I continue to work on me until then
Signs she's seeing other people: 1.) Her skin is white. 2.) She's attractive. 3.) She lives on planet Earth.
Judging by Courtney's peppy attitude, I just feel like Baldi must be giving it extra effort; putting his back into it; giving it the olde college try.
Sound level is way better in this video. Usually it is too silent. Keep up your great content
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Hello :)- I am new to your channel and I am a Pisces empath with some psychic abilities. I know when someone is not being honest with me and I know when someone is giving their all or not invested at all. I don't have time for people to start "ghosting" me especially after the 'first date". When I approached her with this "issue"..there were nothing more than one excuse after another!!!! Her LOSS not mine as I know what my value is as someone who lives within his integrity!!! Kudos to you for your efforts and to the information that you bring.
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I like one of my office colleagues but I heard that she is married. I know it sounds creepy to even think about dating a married women but I just wanted to express myself and let her know about my feelings. So when I told her one day about how I feel she clarified that she is not married and it's all a hoax because her family abandoned her for loving someone they didn't approve of and that she doesn't want that truth to come out. She also said that she has broken up with the guy ( she didn't give me the reason for her breakup ) Anyways, she said that she wasn't looking for a relationship and just wanted us to be friends. I have recently come to know that the guy for which she fought with her family and said that she is broken up with is living with her in an apartment. I mean I understand that ex's can be good friends as well but staying in the same apartment, having his number as a emergency contact number, going on hill stations with the guy or using his credit card etc etc is a little hard to believe. Basically I am not sure why did she have to lie to me in the first place. I have left the office for my own reasons I am still in contact with her and she is a good friend of mine. Also she does text me first and makes plans to hangout with me ( of course with our whole group and not just me alone )
She starts going on sudden, unscheduled "business trips" when she is unemployed...
She returns wearing a pair of man's shorts and undershirt...
She calls you by a number of male (and a few female) names...
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Best way to deal with this is to be seeing more women than she is seeing men. Hopefully you cross paths when you’re out seeing other women.
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