shimone your advice made my social life take a 180. i went from being a loner to being a funny intresting person that people look foward to be around and talk to. i got girls i ended off on bad terms with smiling and happy to see me without even talking. thank you so much
@@quentin1075 I’ve been struggling with that too. I used to know people liked and wanted to be around me when I was fresh out of high school, but after a bunch of trauma and covid, I’ve lost my ability to be myself. I know it’s possible tho, we’ll get there man.
Same bro I remember being rock bottom 2 years ago and being his videos for the first time. It changed my perspective of of my life and helped me to make new friends and become a unique person and just be myself yk💪💪💪
you literally changed my opinion of myself. i hated myself, i thought im ugly but - after watching this video i looked in the mirror and i just felt prettier. like everything changed, but i know that nothing changed. im very sensitive about what others think about me, what they think about the way I look, but thanks to you, that has changed. thank you, shimon.
Jimmy hendrix dude hits different from other RUclipsrs. No cuts at all, just genuine, heart to heart talk. It's like having a deep conversation with someone.
I love that you retalk about topics again and again it allows you to rephrase and redescribe things as well as talk about updated experinces that could've happened.
Your channel has been growing up so much and I'm so glad more and more people are engaging with your content, life hasn't been easy for me so having your channel is truly a relief for me, you're like a big bro to me!! Peace from Chile 🇨🇱
This is very true… looks can attract strangers to want to get more closer to you but having inner confidence and a personality thats speaks louder can actually impact and make people always remember exactly who you are/were… I also have found that people that were usually born attractive are usually aware of the attention or certain social privilege/setback (not being taken seriously at times) without someone always telling them they are and compliments about their appearance doesn’t faze them anymore… jealousy can also blind the ones that assume attractive looking people have it better when in reality it’s not always more greener on the other side as society tries to instill it since the day we are born seeing in ads, social media and family/friends….
Being attractive has it's bonuses, if I ever feel bad about myself I remember that the people that are objectifying me think I'm awesome. That said, those same people hate me for reminding them of what they're not, or what they can't have. If it's a guy/girl that thinks they have a chance I'll get treated like a god walking into the room, but as soon as I don't fulfill whatever fantasy they have I'm arrogant and living proof of their insecurities. Being good looking only works as long as one has the charisma to share their attention equally amongst a crowd, and just like cake everyone loves it if they have the biggest piece so it really takes focus. Things like who I'm looking at when making a funny remark, letting everyone finish their sentences when someone else interrupts. And if anyone reading this thinks that's just normal decent behaviour, it is, but most humans aren't decent. What I mean with that is that I'm like a prize to most of them, turning even normal conversations into a competition if they think there's a chance. I don't even like myself, so having everyone have their opinion based on my looks doesn't help. People LOVE to remind me of any flaw they can find, so I mostly stay to myself cause evey problem I have is a new weapon to someone that's jealous..
Just found this guy today and love this man, a lot of other advice it feels stale and just same thing but he just makes it feel like it is from a older brother and feels like he has been able to feel some small amount of bliss in life. also it feels like this advice will actually help rather then copy and paste advice.
you too are an amazingly attractive person dude!! even if you knew so, its still deserving that you have someone say it back to you. your generosity and kindness of being able to share your wisdom based on your own experience for free is amazing, people would make you pay for therapy to get this kind of advice. keep staying on top and keep going bro !! 🤝🤝
00:00 🌱 Substance is key to attractiveness; focus on adding value and depth to conversations and relationships. 02:30 💡 Embrace being a mystery; having layers to your personality adds intrigue and interest. 04:47 💪 Adding value to others' lives makes you attractive; being helpful and useful fosters connections. 06:24 🦄 Embrace your uniqueness and authenticity; stand out from the crowd by being yourself confidently. 08:37 🚀 Develop substance by gaining experiences, leading conversations, and sharing stories; continuously improve yourself.
As a person that’s currently in 8th grade, it’s tough trying to fit in or be other people, and have that sometimes be the first instinct in that setting. I discovered your channel on a whim about a month ago, but I’ve only now tried to watch regularly, for whatever reason (probably because of dopamine). Your videos are a fascinating, fresh perspective and from a different point of view than most of the world, especially for people in the grades of school judgment and the unintentional tight fitting and molding of one’s personality. You have and will probably help me a great deal more throughout high school 😅. I’ll probably remember you for that, but I even if I forget I’ll remember what you said, and foremost trust in the Lord. In reality, good humans like you are the ones inspiring us, not the videos. With the help of the Christ to be a better person. Thank you. Let’s hope for the best y’all God bless✌️
Man, I wanna meet you one day and give you a really,really big hug. You are a wonderful person. Every thing, every freacking word you've said condicioned my behavior and manners, you've taught me more than anyone what does it mean being a human when I was confused and disoriented. God bless you, have a beautiful day!
Man youre an amazing person really, i dont even have many problems that you talk about but listening to you is just so calming and interesting that when i see a video of yours pop up i just click it without a question in mind, keep up the great work brother much love
it takes time guys, but its worth it to invest in yourself. Please dont ever view yourself or other people as finished products, its a disservice to life
Hello Shimon, you are truly wise beyond your years. Additionally, you truly have a gift to reach so many people with your words of encouragement and empowerment. Continue doing what you do young brotha.
this felt like clickbait in a good way. I forgot we were even talking about being attractive, but this still really helped me. I dont wanna be super venerable but I been going thru it and this really helped me a lot.
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
you're doing for people what I did my best to provide for my little brother. A good big brother can be life changing, a bad big brother can be so destructive. But I needed one too, it's hard to take your own advice sometimes so I'm grateful I get to use yours.
Don’t usually comment on ur vids but I love that last line, find something you suck at and improve on it. A few weeks ago my friends introduced me to free styling and I sucked at it. I’m only good at one kind of flow right now and my topics and roasts are kind of surface level but I’ve been practicing thinking to myself. I went to the internet found a wikihow and from their just let my own ideas on how I could improve guide me and I’m not that impressive but I impressed myself. I may not win the next time we do freestyles but I know I’m not gona stutter as much, know I’m not going to be at a loss for where to start. I know I’ll have confidence that I can make something. And I’ve been doing this my whole life. Just because people say I’m not funny or I can’t rap or I’m awkward doesn’t mean I’m not going to be the funniest person, outgoing person, or the most lyrically talented in the future
I feel like a loner these weeks even though I have people w whom we’ve managed to create and sustain what seem to be meaningful connection, still weirdly secluded in my own world. I guess your point about substance is really valid if you’re not constantly focused on these codependency-spawned stress-based kinds of thoughts, it’s cool when you can let go of other peoples perception so you can actually grow and focus on gaining deeper knowledge on subjects and what you want from life, and I appreciate your respect of difference it’s cool to know that there are eyes which aren’t judgmental
i been wanting a relationship so bad i’m not even expecting nothing crazy i js want that experience man but i don’t like anyone bro or when i do like a girl i be putting them on a pedestal and feel like i’m lower than them i ja want that experience so bad the way you explain substance I personally think i got substance but nobody ever wants to listen to it or talk to me like even my friends don’t talk to me as much as i’d like 😓 love these videos bro i don’t ever usually comment but your videos are great keep going
Your actually too funny, we are literally the same, the way you ended your video is exactly how I act randomly I’m pretty sure I have adhd but I haven’t checked
You know what?! you just inspire me a lot every time I watch your videos...I'll be stressed throughout the day but when I sit throughout the durations of your videos...I get the most peace. Thank you😊
There’s red pill blue pill then there’s you. You feel like a green pill and you speak to my soul and not my ego. Love you and your content and you give me faith that my time is coming. 🤙🏼🖤
When you said people are clones and unapologetically two random song titles from two different artists that have king in their name. King kash and king iso their music at times can help open my mind to things I don't see or concepts I didn't get at first. But this video was really informative and thought provoking for me personally thanks as always Shimon for sharing your thoughts as always in a very constructive and thoughtful way. Much love to you and the nice people in the comments ❤
ngl bro a LOT of people I talk to say I have good looks/I'm attractive or whatever cuz I kinda am and I put effort into how I look but then they say I have a trash/shit/bad personality. Btw my mum even said I have a bad personality. And it's somewhat true because I used to not even be able to talk to people cause of being insecure and social anxiety and shit. People sometimes say I used to look ugly if they even remembered who I was. But idk how to be charismatic when talking to girls because I barely do. Like tf do people want from me when I'm quiet it makes me shy when I talk it makes me sound not charismatic I guess but idk man. Fan from AUS btw - love your vids bro ♥
Bc they want you to talk what they like , find people that like what you like and youll be able to talk, i was convinced i was shy, its just i didnt care about some stuff they did but was hard for me to put them down. To not be too disrespectful.
@@Wishmaster145 I recently just got a girlfriend. Pretty much just met on the same bus and talked and got eachothers socials now we're together. She's really pretty too and she loves music. Ig it was around the same time I started having more conversations.
personally, ever since i started watching this channel, i’ve heard your words resonate in my life multiple times thanks for sharing and keep it up bossman !! love u too lmao
The reason so many people walk, talk and dress the same is because the western world is based on an individualistic frame of mind. It is a way for people to find community in a part of the world where competition with peers is the norm. People copying others is part of a bigger issue then them just being mindless sheep. Fixing this in yourself is more then just 'being yourself'. We are social creatures. No sense of community takes it's toll on the mind. The idea is that you replace where you get your sense of community from. This extra step makes being yourself easier. Handling rejection better is another but takes a little more time and hardship then shifting the way you think about things
I feel like I be a clone to play safe. I hate conflict so much because my family is always having issues with one another. I feel like I’m always hurting someone else by speaking my mind. By doing what I think is right. My siblings act like kleptos and I feel like such a villain trying to curtail them. It’s not my responsibility but in my mind it feels like it is because my parents are counting on me as the oldest. I say it gently to them but it’s like they don’t care. But I love them and I know it only gets worse. Maybe I think too much. They act like I think too much. Some of them say it to my face. I’m afraid I’m not compatible with my siblings even though they mean the world to me. The issue could also just be I don’t know how to speak my mind correctly. I don’t know.
When something bad happens I like to call it character development. But it all seriousness, this makes so much sense, recently I explained I am in marching band and the person asked what I play. I said I play trumpet but just recently switched to the drumline as a bass drum. When I tell you they lit up, they got so excited to hear that, it honestly made me feel proud and we aren’t I even in school yet lmao. But I do truly believe the substance thing is so important because as an artist it’s basically my job to see someone and see what makes them them, and I just do it without realizing it, so many people have the same personality at school, with all the same name brand stuff, but when I meet that person that has their own personality that isn’t just loud or expensive, it’s so interesting to see what kind of person they are, and honestly it’s some of those most interesting people that I end up taking inspiration from to put into my comics :)
Youre content and advice is a breath of fresh air for me,it’s nice to see someone give such deep spiritual advice to improve people’s lives,instead of just telling them to improve their appearance,be confident,and call it a day.keep it up!
This video is so so good. Loved the advice. Never heard someone say things like this before with such certainty. Definitely will put it into practice!!!
I fucking love this channel. I just came across it yesterday and everything that he speaks is straight facts. Yo man if you see this please hmu I have soo many things I want to ask🙏
I think I'm different from most of the viewers here as I actually figured most of this stuff by myself, but hearing it from a different person still feels nice and gives me (hopefully not too big) ego boost. I really hope this channel becomes a counterbalance to stuff like andrew tate and all of that toxic masculinity, because young men really need it.
I always believed that i was always ugly ,i had a very low expectatation of myself ,till i asked myself am i really that ugly,thanks bro this video really helped ❤❤
It sucks for me because I find everyone I'm around shallow. They're basic and can't think of anything outside of the box. There are exceptions to this but I hope I find deeper people.
Whole video is another banger but that very last line of “that ended weirdly. But who cares?” Hit me. It’s true. Things end. Things begin. How that happens will always be weird and different. And that’s ok cuz so are we.
You are so good and attractive man but if you will be a Muslim person it will be more attractive and gorgeous and u could have amazing personality and i hope you will become a Muslim insha'Allah my allah will bless you ❤❤
Let me say something that has been on my mind for months, “a bunch of clones” isn’t new, but it’s growing insanely fast with phones, all I do at school is look around and see zombies staring at their phones, I wish people would interact more
Very nice video Shimon! I’ll be sure to apply some of the things you said. You’re a hidden gem on this platform and sure to make it even bigger. Could you maybe talk a bit on how to talk with a girl you like on a party? I’ve seen your conversation starter video’s, but I feel like it is just a tiny bit different happening outside a party, compared to inside of one
The reason everyone feels like clones is because this guy stole all the style and personality to himself. I feel legit compelled by every word that comes out of his mouth, its crazy.
Nearly everybody has substance. It's very difficult not to after being alive for so many years. It's mostly just about being able to recognize and express that. Those people you view as empty most likely weren't.
"Even the sun hides behind the clouds some days" that hit different
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“A bunch of clones” you’re so right. I remember being made to feel like my individuality and quirkiness was wrong.
Word brother
Fr fuck that i love that i'm a rare thing
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shimone your advice made my social life take a 180. i went from being a loner to being a funny intresting person that people look foward to be around and talk to. i got girls i ended off on bad terms with smiling and happy to see me without even talking. thank you so much
My man !❤️💯I’m proud of you g
I'm still workin on it😓
I just want ppl to look forward to seeing me
@@quentin1075 I’ve been struggling with that too. I used to know people liked and wanted to be around me when I was fresh out of high school, but after a bunch of trauma and covid, I’ve lost my ability to be myself. I know it’s possible tho, we’ll get there man.
We’ll all get there eventually
Same bro I remember being rock bottom 2 years ago and being his videos for the first time. It changed my perspective of of my life and helped me to make new friends and become a unique person and just be myself yk💪💪💪
Bro always laughs then gives us that poker look seconds after😭😭
Bro Locked in
I like that 😂😂
“Even the sun hides behind the clouds”
holy craps that’s a good quote
My smile makes people around me happy. I always greet strangers with a big smile and they are always happy to see me.
that's great!
I love how your advice is pretty much universal, no matter what gender, age, etc
you literally changed my opinion of myself. i hated myself, i thought im ugly but - after watching this video i looked in the mirror and i just felt prettier. like everything changed, but i know that nothing changed. im very sensitive about what others think about me, what they think about the way I look, but thanks to you, that has changed. thank you, shimon.
Jimmy hendrix dude hits different from other RUclipsrs. No cuts at all, just genuine, heart to heart talk. It's like having a deep conversation with someone.
I love that you retalk about topics again and again it allows you to rephrase and redescribe things as well as talk about updated experinces that could've happened.
“Be yourself” a single point through different perspectives
Nowadays being yourself is hard in this modern time fam great content respect
Your channel has been growing up so much and I'm so glad more and more people are engaging with your content, life hasn't been easy for me so having your channel is truly a relief for me, you're like a big bro to me!! Peace from Chile 🇨🇱
This is very true… looks can attract strangers to want to get more closer to you but having inner confidence and a personality thats speaks louder can actually impact and make people always remember exactly who you are/were… I also have found that people that were usually born attractive are usually aware of the attention or certain social privilege/setback (not being taken seriously at times) without someone always telling them they are and compliments about their appearance doesn’t faze them anymore… jealousy can also blind the ones that assume attractive looking people have it better when in reality it’s not always more greener on the other side as society tries to instill it since the day we are born seeing in ads, social media and family/friends….
Being attractive has it's bonuses, if I ever feel bad about myself I remember that the people that are objectifying me think I'm awesome. That said, those same people hate me for reminding them of what they're not, or what they can't have. If it's a guy/girl that thinks they have a chance I'll get treated like a god walking into the room, but as soon as I don't fulfill whatever fantasy they have I'm arrogant and living proof of their insecurities.
Being good looking only works as long as one has the charisma to share their attention equally amongst a crowd, and just like cake everyone loves it if they have the biggest piece so it really takes focus. Things like who I'm looking at when making a funny remark, letting everyone finish their sentences when someone else interrupts. And if anyone reading this thinks that's just normal decent behaviour, it is, but most humans aren't decent. What I mean with that is that I'm like a prize to most of them, turning even normal conversations into a competition if they think there's a chance.
I don't even like myself, so having everyone have their opinion based on my looks doesn't help. People LOVE to remind me of any flaw they can find, so I mostly stay to myself cause evey problem I have is a new weapon to someone that's jealous..
Just found this guy today and love this man, a lot of other advice it feels stale and just same thing but he just makes it feel like it is from a older brother and feels like he has been able to feel some small amount of bliss in life. also it feels like this advice will actually help rather then copy and paste advice.
This the guy just popped up In my life and was like am about to turn your life around for the better. 🔥🔥
you too are an amazingly attractive person dude!! even if you knew so, its still deserving that you have someone say it back to you. your generosity and kindness of being able to share your wisdom based on your own experience for free is amazing, people would make you pay for therapy to get this kind of advice. keep staying on top and keep going bro !! 🤝🤝
00:00 🌱 Substance is key to attractiveness; focus on adding value and depth to conversations and relationships.
02:30 💡 Embrace being a mystery; having layers to your personality adds intrigue and interest.
04:47 💪 Adding value to others' lives makes you attractive; being helpful and useful fosters connections.
06:24 🦄 Embrace your uniqueness and authenticity; stand out from the crowd by being yourself confidently.
08:37 🚀 Develop substance by gaining experiences, leading conversations, and sharing stories; continuously improve yourself.
Someone def notices. the moment u stop being a clone and standout, youll notice a lot more glances towards you
As a person that’s currently in 8th grade, it’s tough trying to fit in or be other people, and have that sometimes be the first instinct in that setting. I discovered your channel on a whim about a month ago, but I’ve only now tried to watch regularly, for whatever reason (probably because of dopamine). Your videos are a fascinating, fresh perspective and from a different point of view than most of the world, especially for people in the grades of school judgment and the unintentional tight fitting and molding of one’s personality.
You have and will probably help me a great deal more throughout high school 😅. I’ll probably remember you for that, but I even if I forget I’ll remember what you said, and foremost trust in the Lord.
In reality, good humans like you are the ones inspiring us, not the videos. With the help of the Christ to be a better person. Thank you.
Let’s hope for the best y’all
God bless✌️
I love how smooth you explain with all these metaphors, you have a way with your words
this video made me cry hard because it hits hard, you are 1000000% Correct, I need to face my fear of being myself.
Man the moment u go from 😀 to 😐 be so funny, ty for another banger of a video, stay healthy and keep cooking the good content 🙏
Man, I wanna meet you one day and give you a really,really big hug. You are a wonderful person. Every thing, every freacking word you've said condicioned my behavior and manners, you've taught me more than anyone what does it mean being a human when I was confused and disoriented. God bless you, have a beautiful day!
watching this in the toilet is a mood
I'm doing the exact same thing 😂
Be careful don’t stay for too long or you’ll get hemorrhoids
Them shits hurt like a mf@@Cher1111
Guys! Please listen to Cher’s warning!
It’s not fun :(
Nothing more important than substance there
Already know this a banger by the title. Gonna watch after work
Always
Man youre an amazing person really, i dont even have many problems that you talk about but listening to you is just so calming and interesting that when i see a video of yours pop up i just click it without a question in mind, keep up the great work brother much love
it takes time guys, but its worth it to invest in yourself. Please dont ever view yourself or other people as finished products, its a disservice to life
Hello Shimon, you are truly wise beyond your years. Additionally, you truly have a gift to reach so many people with your words of encouragement and empowerment. Continue doing what you do young brotha.
this felt like clickbait in a good way. I forgot we were even talking about being attractive, but this still really helped me. I dont wanna be super venerable but I been going thru it and this really helped me a lot.
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
you're doing for people what I did my best to provide for my little brother. A good big brother can be life changing, a bad big brother can be so destructive. But I needed one too, it's hard to take your own advice sometimes so I'm grateful I get to use yours.
Don’t usually comment on ur vids but I love that last line, find something you suck at and improve on it.
A few weeks ago my friends introduced me to free styling and I sucked at it. I’m only good at one kind of flow right now and my topics and roasts are kind of surface level but I’ve been practicing thinking to myself. I went to the internet found a wikihow and from their just let my own ideas on how I could improve guide me and I’m not that impressive but I impressed myself. I may not win the next time we do freestyles but I know I’m not gona stutter as much, know I’m not going to be at a loss for where to start. I know I’ll have confidence that I can make something. And I’ve been doing this my whole life. Just because people say I’m not funny or I can’t rap or I’m awkward doesn’t mean I’m not going to be the funniest person, outgoing person, or the most lyrically talented in the future
I feel like a loner these weeks even though I have people w whom we’ve managed to create and sustain what seem to be meaningful connection, still weirdly secluded in my own world. I guess your point about substance is really valid if you’re not constantly focused on these codependency-spawned stress-based kinds of thoughts, it’s cool when you can let go of other peoples perception so you can actually grow and focus on gaining deeper knowledge on subjects and what you want from life, and I appreciate your respect of difference it’s cool to know that there are eyes which aren’t judgmental
i been wanting a relationship so bad i’m not even expecting nothing crazy i js want that experience man but i don’t like anyone bro or when i do like a girl i be putting them on a pedestal and feel like i’m lower than them i ja want that experience so bad the way you explain substance I personally think i got substance but nobody ever wants to listen to it or talk to me like even my friends don’t talk to me as much as i’d like 😓 love these videos bro i don’t ever usually comment but your videos are great keep going
Your actually too funny, we are literally the same, the way you ended your video is exactly how I act randomly I’m pretty sure I have adhd but I haven’t checked
That whole “you’ll be fine/ you wont be fine” thing fucked my up for a second
This is definitely one of the best channels i have found
You know what?! you just inspire me a lot every time I watch your videos...I'll be stressed throughout the day but when I sit throughout the durations of your videos...I get the most peace. Thank you😊
There’s red pill blue pill then there’s you. You feel like a green pill and you speak to my soul and not my ego. Love you and your content and you give me faith that my time is coming. 🤙🏼🖤
Watch tykwondoe trust me, he’s the best DOJOTODAMOON
Green pill. I like that.
Please stop with the pill stuff
When you said people are clones and unapologetically two random song titles from two different artists that have king in their name. King kash and king iso their music at times can help open my mind to things I don't see or concepts I didn't get at first. But this video was really informative and thought provoking for me personally thanks as always Shimon for sharing your thoughts as always in a very constructive and thoughtful way. Much love to you and the nice people in the comments ❤
ngl bro a LOT of people I talk to say I have good looks/I'm attractive or whatever cuz I kinda am and I put effort into how I look but then they say I have a trash/shit/bad personality. Btw my mum even said I have a bad personality. And it's somewhat true because I used to not even be able to talk to people cause of being insecure and social anxiety and shit. People sometimes say I used to look ugly if they even remembered who I was. But idk how to be charismatic when talking to girls because I barely do. Like tf do people want from me when I'm quiet it makes me shy when I talk it makes me sound not charismatic I guess but idk man. Fan from AUS btw - love your vids bro ♥
Bc they want you to talk what they like , find people that like what you like and youll be able to talk, i was convinced i was shy, its just i didnt care about some stuff they did but was hard for me to put them down. To not be too disrespectful.
@@Wishmaster145 I recently just got a girlfriend. Pretty much just met on the same bus and talked and got eachothers socials now we're together. She's really pretty too and she loves music. Ig it was around the same time I started having more conversations.
You’re so adaptable bro you look different every month
personally, ever since i started watching this channel, i’ve heard your words resonate in my life multiple times
thanks for sharing and keep it up bossman !! love u too lmao
The reason so many people walk, talk and dress the same is because the western world is based on an individualistic frame of mind. It is a way for people to find community in a part of the world where competition with peers is the norm. People copying others is part of a bigger issue then them just being mindless sheep. Fixing this in yourself is more then just 'being yourself'. We are social creatures. No sense of community takes it's toll on the mind. The idea is that you replace where you get your sense of community from. This extra step makes being yourself easier. Handling rejection better is another but takes a little more time and hardship then shifting the way you think about things
I feel like I be a clone to play safe. I hate conflict so much because my family is always having issues with one another. I feel like I’m always hurting someone else by speaking my mind. By doing what I think is right. My siblings act like kleptos and I feel like such a villain trying to curtail them. It’s not my responsibility but in my mind it feels like it is because my parents are counting on me as the oldest. I say it gently to them but it’s like they don’t care. But I love them and I know it only gets worse. Maybe I think too much. They act like I think too much. Some of them say it to my face. I’m afraid I’m not compatible with my siblings even though they mean the world to me. The issue could also just be I don’t know how to speak my mind correctly. I don’t know.
Man, Shimon is such an awesome guy, everyday learning more w/you!
I lowkey thought he meant substance as in drugs 🤯
bro 😭😭
When something bad happens I like to call it character development.
But it all seriousness, this makes so much sense, recently I explained I am in marching band and the person asked what I play. I said I play trumpet but just recently switched to the drumline as a bass drum. When I tell you they lit up, they got so excited to hear that, it honestly made me feel proud and we aren’t I even in school yet lmao. But I do truly believe the substance thing is so important because as an artist it’s basically my job to see someone and see what makes them them, and I just do it without realizing it, so many people have the same personality at school, with all the same name brand stuff, but when I meet that person that has their own personality that isn’t just loud or expensive, it’s so interesting to see what kind of person they are, and honestly it’s some of those most interesting people that I end up taking inspiration from to put into my comics :)
Youre content and advice is a breath of fresh air for me,it’s nice to see someone give such deep spiritual advice to improve people’s lives,instead of just telling them to improve their appearance,be confident,and call it a day.keep it up!
Idk how this man does it but what he says sticks to my head
I notice the smallest things to the point i can feel peoples gaze
This makes me feel uncomfortable though
your voice is so soothing
This video is so so good.
Loved the advice.
Never heard someone say things like this before with such certainty.
Definitely will put it into practice!!!
Bro is a poet
These videos are awesome. Thank you Shimon for sharing this to everyone.
I fucking love this channel. I just came across it yesterday and everything that he speaks is straight facts. Yo man if you see this please hmu I have soo many things I want to ask🙏
your voice is really nice to listen to man❤
I think I'm different from most of the viewers here as I actually figured most of this stuff by myself, but hearing it from a different person still feels nice and gives me (hopefully not too big) ego boost. I really hope this channel becomes a counterbalance to stuff like andrew tate and all of that toxic masculinity, because young men really need it.
Damn I am so glad I subscribed to you. Your videos keep me motivated in life. Thank you ❣
❤❤❤❤ thank you so much, Shimon. I swear you are one of my favorite people on the planet. Your vids make me feel better. Thank you for being you
Man’s always dropping gems
bro is so calming to listen to
Yesss love the tips and the advice.
That anime villain laugh is too real
You are so necessary! Thank you for doing this.
u needa make a podcast bru love listening to these 🙏🏽
Finding your channel was the best thing so far that happened to me in this year 💯💯💯💯
Absolutely love this channel man, so comforting listening to you videos.. keep it up ❤️
Bro this channel is wisdom personified.
I always believed that i was always ugly ,i had a very low expectatation of myself ,till i asked myself am i really that ugly,thanks bro this video really helped ❤❤
That was stare was so intense, I almost got pregnant
Following you was an incredible decision
Bro i know im gonna randomly meet you one day i can legit feel yo energy thru my screen wtf
It sucks for me because I find everyone I'm around shallow. They're basic and can't think of anything outside of the box. There are exceptions to this but I hope I find deeper people.
Whole video is another banger but that very last line of “that ended weirdly. But who cares?” Hit me. It’s true. Things end. Things begin. How that happens will always be weird and different. And that’s ok cuz so are we.
Bro being silly at the end and still spittin fax tho strong vid ma boi
broo shimon i really love the message u show to us and the way of doing it keep pushing king
greetings from uruguay
You are so good and attractive man but if you will be a Muslim person it will be more attractive and gorgeous and u could have amazing personality and i hope you will become a Muslim insha'Allah my allah will bless you ❤❤
Honestly, the best content I've seen in a while🔥
You are so loved and appreciated ❤️
This guy is so smart I really need this I feel happy
I like how you added substance in the end truly brilliant 😂
Let me say something that has been on my mind for months, “a bunch of clones” isn’t new, but it’s growing insanely fast with phones, all I do at school is look around and see zombies staring at their phones, I wish people would interact more
I'm loving your videos bro, keep up with them. Love from spain!
Your channel is amazing man. Love the genuine vibe you radiate, so unique 💪
Very nice video Shimon! I’ll be sure to apply some of the things you said. You’re a hidden gem on this platform and sure to make it even bigger. Could you maybe talk a bit on how to talk with a girl you like on a party? I’ve seen your conversation starter video’s, but I feel like it is just a tiny bit different happening outside a party, compared to inside of one
I'm so scared that maybe I'm one of the people who are boring...
Thx for posting on my bday man
The reason everyone feels like clones is because this guy stole all the style and personality to himself. I feel legit compelled by every word that comes out of his mouth, its crazy.
This guy. Such a little goober, even a silly goose if you will. FR though, I am glad to have found your channel
Nearly everybody has substance. It's very difficult not to after being alive for so many years. It's mostly just about being able to recognize and express that. Those people you view as empty most likely weren't.
YOU ARE FINE!!!
This channel is a goldmine of knowledge
LOVE YOU BRO AWESOME STUFF AS ALWAYS
thank you man i followed your advice and started taking substances now i am attracting all the cops.
Hey man love your videos and am currently experiencing my first heartbreak and am working on my self love and your videos are a huge help
damn bro, I feel glad that I found your channel, good videos
I didn’t know I need to watch this
i started to watch you when you were at a few hundreds of subricriberrs youve grown soo much
Incredible ending