Back at it again-but this time, I’m clearly stepping it up with the editing (and by stepping it up, I mean getting HELP because let’s be real... we all know it ain’t me with these skills - they are way outta my league 😗✌️) So, how do you like it? Be brutally honest! Seriously, I’m experimenting a lot right now, so all feedback is gold. 💛 Also, a quick shoutout to YOU. Your comments? Like, how cute, funny and thoughtful can a community be?? I read every single one (yes, even the ones that roast me-I see you 👀). Your words seriously make my day and give me so much inspiration. And I love love love seeing you guys supporting each other in the comments! 🥹💖 Speaking of ideas, I’ve been low-key obsessed with topics like fitness, personal hygiene hacks, and psychological tricks to glow up mentally and physically. But I’d love to know what you want to see next. Drop your ideas below! I 10000% will cover it because every time I’ve made a video based on your suggestions, it’s been so much fun!! 🤍 Can’t wait to hear what you think about the video and your ideas for the next one. If you've made it this far, you're a real one. Seriously, thank you so much!!! - Alana 🤍
Hi! I personally don’t like the new editing style, I preferred the one in your earlier videos, but you do you! The content is still amazing and that’s all that matters!
People who think they're "unattractive" yet are confident enough to have that mindset of "so what? Why should I care what they think??" really inspire me. Seeing people with pimples confidently walk around in public without makeup heals my heart because I have many pimples too. I try my best to be like them
I find that wearing makeup exacerbates acne more. They would look fresher without it tbh, they should be comfortable in their own skin. But hey, people don't wear makeup just for that, most wear it for temselves, for self expression
Me?? Thank you. I'm a tall girl(really tall). Used to hunch my back, I woke up one day and was like hell nah. Started practicing good posture etc my shoulders hurt. I'd let it down for awhile. I can even let the done, but I feel much more confident. Maybe thinking that you're enough to be loved and not searching always helped me so much❤
Real😭 my far aunt (wife of my grandmas brother) js says „look how much youve grown!“ girl im 5‘2💀 and my dad says im pretty😭 but noone else rlly compliments me, ive only gotten „she is beautiful in her own way“ from a friend that looked at me from far, smiled and said it (my friends abandoned me some months ago)
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
Nah don't think like that I've been in this phase too ! Just start taking care of yourself little by little you'll understand it's not your who's ugly but the mindset I did this too and it worked to say the least I'm confident and that's what really matters
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
People often stare at me (20yo male) I always assumed I was creepy or off-putting but 2 girls recently told me it's because my dark thicc brows and my demeanor apparently look masculine and easy on the eye 😭 I was blushing so hard I didn't know how to react. It's crazy how altered our visions of ourselves and others can be.
Take photos of yourself from further away zoomed in. The camera distorts your face to try and get a wider field of view, making your nose look bigger. Use a selfie stick or timed photo, or vide yourself and screenshot the video paused.
Thank you, this really made my day. We all should remember to love ourselves. Maybe starting by looking yourself at the mirror in the morning, saying, “Have a nice day.” To yourself.
@@quit3551I’m sorry to hear that. Try your best focusing on loving yourself rather than others for now, one day you will acknowledge the value in yourself. You are your own true friend unlike others can be. I hope this helped. Have a nice day!
🥹 I love this! I always listen to positive affirmations when I'm getting ready for the day. I struggle with negative self-talk too, especially when I think about some cringeworthy moments from my past, lol. Thank you for reminding us to start the day with positive words 🫶🏻
@@BeautyTheoryOfficialAww, you are welcome! I’m glad to hear that you always listen to positive affirmations when getting ready for the day! When you struggle with negative thoughts, I want you to remember that the past is the past. No-one and nothing can do anything about it. And what makes your future is yourself right now!
I've been in a rut lately, not taking care of myself, being productive, all that stuff. But then my roomie invited someone over, I woke up to them talking and they said I was really pretty! It was insane. My hair was messy, my sleep schedule was wrecked so bags were on full display and yet... I caught the attention of someone I never met. I also had a recent mild breakdown because I hadn't socialized in like a month and tried going to an event. My friend comforted me and mentioned that at a previous event everyone was asking about me. These have really motivated me, I want to feel like who these people are seeing. I want to be confident and love myself.
You will see yourself in that way! However, it can sometimes be challenging to develop self-love. That's why I created this channel! I want to support you on your journey. Let's glow up and love ourselves together. You are worth it!!! 🤍
1) people don't hype me up at all with no compliments ever. 2)people don't look at me 3)People don't even look at my unique features 4)I take care of myself but I don't do it a lot 5)people don't admire me at all and I look bad in everything.(all pics) I'm ugly...😔
1} Ppl don't hype you up cuz they're jealous of you 2} Ppl don't look at you because you ARE beautiful and got no bad flaws 3} You're the one to enhance your unique feature by stopping being insecure about it 4} Then you just should do it... It'll make you feel GREAT 5} Gurl when you take a picture of the moon and it turns out bad you don't say "Ugh the moon is ugly" you say "Omg the camera is bad"... Do the same with yourself Lastly... Love yourself because nobody will love you the same amount and everything begins from inside you❤
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
I used to hate pictures, myself, my smile, my body, recording myself, taking pictures, and mirrors. and anything that involved seeing myself I hated because I hated the whole idea of me. I’d usually cry to pictures people took of me or the pictures I took of myself and compare them to those pretty girls on pinterest, instagram, tiktok and my even to own friends.. but I matured to realize that this is MY face I’m doing to have this face for the rest of my life, so I’m slowly learning how to love myself inside and outside, my face and physical attributes and I’m learning how to carry myself with confidence. Just remember that everybody is beautiful. nobody is ugly. “Ugly” doesn’t exist. and if it did, we wouldn’t exist. You are beautiful. Your body is beautiful. All body types are beautiful and again, so are you!
i think the real villain is me because all along, it was me who was overthinking that "i am unattractive" and that i kept telling myself that ppl makes fun of me behind my back. now im starting to realise that, it's really not the people around me who mocks, its actually me who mocks myself
People do not compliment me, people do not take a second look. It is, what it is. People don't approach me either, I'm like a deep sea fish. They say the human mind cannot make up new faces and all the people you see in your dreams are people you've walked by/know. I hope I get to play the villain or a demon in someone's dream one day
Yk what, not as a demon, but in my dreams u were a gorgeous human being! And I was so damn flabbergasted that I am still shook and want to see u in real life!
Omg tysmmm I faced the same problem with my teeth, and fat nose but now I face all these signs and you helped me achieve my confidence, thank you so much!!!!
I am so so happy to hear that! We will make it together and today I promise you I will give my best to support you on your self-love and glow-up journey with this channel🤞🤍
Nowadays...I have started to walk around the school instead of just rotting in my class. I've been getting many compliments from my junior girls!!! I have no idea who they are and they don't know me too but they will just come up can compliment me. This is such a beautiful thing for me. I really believe that people see us differently than how we do so yes, if you're receiving numerous compliments from people, that must mean that you look absolutely stunning!!!!
I think I have all signs. I keep getting compliments, people having feelings for me, and heck, i take care of myself. I didnt think i was that attractive because- I had pimples, my eyebrows were uh.. thick, i was hairy, and my hair is kinda messed up. This video helped me realize i’m unique and pretty in my own way :) Thank you!!❤
The thing about the way others perceive you is true. Everyone has insecurities and will look at you and see something they want so bad in you and immediately think you are attractive. A truly confident person doesn't find others ugly, simply because he doesn't have those insecurities. If someone looks at you and notices that your nose is crooked, for example, then they are insecure about it. Basically, everyone sees their own insecurities in others, you are beautiful
I do think that I'm not beautiful.. i don't think I'm ugly but I'm not beautiful.. but the strange thing about me is recently i noticed how much strangers tend to smile at me and notice me when I'm walking outside or at the university.. i found it very strange but now i get that attractiveness is way different thing than beauty actually.. your video was a confirmation to me .. keep it up girl !❤
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
My cousins,my siblings,my mean aunt,they always say "your so ugly" you look like a roach" "I'm prettier than you" Which made me insecure.That even a slightest sompliment made me upset. Thank you for making this video,this help me a lot!
If someone is acting like how you explained in your comment, saying stuff that will literally destroy one’s self-esteem, just know that person is most likely jealous of you, or envy’s you for the stuff you have, or how much love you give or receive. Yeah they might be attractive but you know what’s not attractive? Their personality. There’s a likely chance they fear and know that you will do great things. Don’t let anyone bring you down. Remember everyone has flaws.
0:48 Sign 6: You get endless compliments • from friends, relatives, strangers etc. 2:02 Sign 5: You get noticed • eg: when you walk in a room, all eyes are you • love yourself and embrace it because everyone, even the prettiest people, have insecurities 3:21 Sign 4: People love your unique features • trends dont last but yor unique features will always be unique to you and you only making you special and different from others forever 4:37 Sign 3: You take care of yourself • people adore when you take care of yourself and know you're self-confident. Don't do it for others. Do it for yourself. 5:51 Sign 2: You are confident • One thing i learned from Mean Girls, confidence is EVERYTHING (I MEAN LOOK AT REGINA GEORGE) • Social media is all filters, plastic and layers of makeup. It's impossible to achieve that. Why? Because you're naturally beautiful. By being confident, you can unleash the unique-you which makes you attractive if you're self-confident. 7:09 Sign 1: Your own perception • You can't capture the beauty of the moon with a man-made photo camera. But you can see it naturally from our very own complex eyes. Similarly, phone cameras dont capture your uniqueness, attractiveness, naturalness and beauty of the real you. We all get only 1 life. Better not spend it trying to be someone else who you're not. "When you die, God won't ask you 'Why weren't you Einstein?'. He will ask you 'Why weren't you Sheldon?' " - That one character that asked this to Sheldon from Young Sheldon "I rather get hated for something I am rather than loved for something I'm not" - Jeon Soyeon "Instead of being someone else, try being your own best version in your head" - Me
Thank you SO much for this video! I was picked on for my appearance at 10 by some gossip-loving, histrionic girls. Afterwards, I hit all the classics after getting bullied- crying in the bathroom, hating life and myself, etc. I moved to a different country, and am currently 11 in a new school with much kinder people. I got a glow-up, and compliments came in from every direction- friends, family, even strangers. I rejected every compliment I got and refused to be happy with what I had, and moved on to hating my dark circles and fat nose. It helped so much me knowing other ppl understand how hard it is to have a positive self-image! Tysm for your content. ❤️
I really appreciate you saying I don’t have to put myself through hell just to make others happy. I used to smile often and received compliments on my smile and my looks, but I stopped smiling as often a couple months ago. I think I wasn’t smiling because I wanted to protect myself from unwanted attention, but this video made me realize that the attention isn’t really my problem. I should focus on living my life and being happy instead of what others think.
4:42 thank you for putting the hijabi girl bc muslim girls dont show their hair that makes them feel less confident or insecure but as a guy i find it so pretty and modest ❤❤
Haha we’re experimenting a little bit😅🤍 What do you think? Tbh I feel like we need to make our character a little bit cuter to match our energy right ?? 😂🩷
@ true, I like the experimental vibe though hehe. You guys are awesome :3 🖤🦇 (also sorry if my comments are hard to read or understand, I have autism so I cant tell if they are or not)
It's your own mind. We can work on it together. I love trying to become the best version of myself because it always makes me feel like I've done my best and boosts my self-esteem 🤍
There are multiple things here. Before diving in those, your voice, and the video editing is really good! Attractiveness is objective. Beauty... is how you carry yourself. More than half the beauty lies in confidence, taking ownership, and being "out there". Attractive features are a cover that people like seeing, but confidence and other things make up the complete. The latter goes deep within and influences people, not just gets their attention, but really goes deep and influences them. So... know yourself, your strengths... carry yourself with confidence... but genuine confidence.
I actually respect your work on this video since this is a big problem between most if not all teenagers, i hope you get all the kindness back and more
There is this one thing that sticks to me whenever I feel like I'm ugly. "Everyone's opinions are different, if someone thinks that your really ugly, another person is going to think that your the most beautiful thing they have laid eyes on." As humans, we all have different opinions on things. I can't tell you how many people I've met that have said that they are ugly but the are actually so pretty. Even if people won't come up and say it to you, when you walk outside I'm pretty sure at least one person has thought in their head that your beautiful. Tbh, what people think don't matter at all. It's how you think of yourself what matters most. So I really hope you remember that!💜💓
this! like yes we can always say about the girls we see online that their pictures may not be natural ect like said in this video. but what about the girls i see in real life with my own eyes? they are standing next to me and i can clearly see that they are naturally pretty without faking it, and that's worse cause what do i tell myself then?
you’re not ugly. you need to surround yourself with people who see beyond your looks and you need to carry yourself better because people treat you and call you what you call yourself. i don’t know you but i’m sure you have beautiful God sent features.
Girl....yk my friend is a super kind and a positive person and when i see her i find her beautiful because she's always smiling, cheering others up and never being pessimist ! And these traits are what made my brain say "my friend is so pretty bcs of her personality not only her looks". She has acne, glasses and she dresses how she feels like it. She doesn't follow trends and she's a natural who loves who she is. In this planet of almost or already 9billion people there is someone out there that found you beautiful (a stranger in the streets, a barista, a colleague, a friend...) i am 100% sure that someone out there loves your smile your laugh your eyes your personality etc. Pls don't put yourself down girlie !!
I literally almost started crying so much because of this video because my friends say I’m pretty and I say, are u sure your not just saying that because I’m your friend? And they said no they meant it😌so thank you so much and ilysm💋
I love this video sm I can’t stop crying I like how she gives advices nicely and not in a way that makes me feel pathetic or stupid. I like how it feels like she really has been through what im feeling it’s like she really understands how it feels to not being able to even look at yourself in the mirror, avoiding eye contact because of how much u hate yourself etc. i’ll try my best to love myself tysm for this amazing video
i realised that the statements in the video are completely true, and isn't just some way to make you feel confident or hype you up in a sort of way. I've always been insecure about the shape of my body, but then I've gotten multiple compliments from individuals stating that they really admire my curves. you're more attractive than you think, and don't let these "beauty standards" on social media get to you. we wouldn't want a world where everyone looks the same, anyway.
I didn't get too many compliments from my friends or relatives but kids in my neighborhood always look at me and said that i am pretty and beautiful. They are only 6 and 7 years old but makes me feel so good when they look at me and smile ☺️
Sometimes i watch these kinda videos to increase my self confidence. It makes my day tbh and helps me to think more positively. thank you so much and good luck💙
Ngl who else gets compliments but doesn’t know how to feel about them? Because two boys have told me im “fine” and “hot” but it just feels super embarrassing and awkward?
maybe it's because of the impersonal nature of those compliments? i've had something similar happen to me and i just laughed it off awkwardly because it felt like they were only noticing my exterior appearance and nothing else
I’m starting to think this is more of a psychological issue within me, I was bullied really really badly back in the day so any type of compliments I get (because I think I got all the points you mentioned but still working on the self care department) my brain thinks they all are lying to me, that they feel sorry for me and that’s why they are telling me this… Because it has become a type of torture that I think it will end up killing me one day
Thank you so much for this! When I was a child, all my relatives used to tell me I was one of the most beautiful kids in the family, and it made me happy. But then I started primary school, and my baby teeth fell out. When my front tooth came in, it had a genetic yellow spot. As expected, I faced a lot of bullying (I got it fixed when I was 12). From ages 14 to 18, I struggled with severe body dysmorphia, and hormonal acne did not help at all. I genuinely believed I had deformities in my bones and skull...yes, it was that bad. I even wished I could get rib removal surgery to have a smaller waist (even though I was thin and often complimented on my body shape). But the humble curves I had just didn't feel like enough to me. I was also fully convinced I had an overbite, but my dentist was confused when I brought it up. He reassured me my teeth were perfectly aligned, but I didn't believe him. I was obsessed and completely delusional. I used to take side-profile photos of Instagram celebrities, overlay them on my pictures, draw over my face, compare, and measure. I was convinced I needed surgery to literally reshape my skull, along with fillers, Botox, a nose job, and more. I even disliked my straight nose because I wanted it to be more of a "button" shape. There were so many irrational things I believed about myself. I was also thinking about ending it all, a LOT. When I started university, though, something changed. I began getting compliments about my nose and side profile. People told me I was beautiful...more than a few times. At first, I hated hearing it because I thought they weren't being genuine, and it made me feel insecure and awkward. But over time (with therapy), I started to see what they meant when I looked in the mirror. I began to believe their compliments. Now, at 20, I feel so much better and genuinely think I'm beautiful. I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely beautiful. I'm so happy I've changed, and I truly wish the same for anyone who's gone through a similar painful experience. Thank you again for this video!
literally leaving high school is what helped with my self confidence, i haven't been bullied since graduating and have gotten flushed with compliments for just being myself, im so identifiable from a crowd and people love it more than you think :))
About taking care of yourself is good but my major problem is: being lazy and a procrastinator. I don't use socials or sum, they don't feel very entertaining to me and that's a big W for me, at least I won't compare myself to anyone. But I'm a very close person (because of past experiences) and I find difficult to being the one to approach, afraid of being of disturbance or being judged. Yeah, I should really work on myself more especially on my body, I'm not fat but surely I'm not thin, my face sure needs some more skin care and also my hair. But as a quote of the first Transformers said: "No sacrifice no victory". Then we gotta work for see the results and I will do it too, I just gotta impose on me to just be better than I'm now.
Ive conceived all these signs lol. I always look in mirror and completely astonished by my beauty. My mom used to call me out for ny nose and hairs at times. I mean idk but ppl often compliment me abt them😭💗so ik I'm a goddess and trust me you are too!
It's more than just compliments too, you literally get treated just overall better. Also omg I completely hear you on the thinking people are mocking you, if you were bullied earlier in life, that mindset is really hard to shake.
I was feeling less of a beauty.... And desired to be like others but u guyz.....are God sent....what I aim now is that I will be my greatest project and a'l stop hurting the girl I always stare at in the mirror and judge💞💗
This actually really helped me thank you!!! Especially the first one, I’ve gotten many complements about my appearance but I’ve always thought they were jokes because of how I see myself 😭
When I went to conference (or was it camp idk) some girl was sitting with her group and stopped them just to say to me “excuse me? You look beautiful.” And I was legit speechless I was on the brink of crying and her words have stuck with me since and I always remember her words when someone compliments me😊
I used to think I was the ugliest girl in the world and when my friends would complement me I thought they were just trying to make me feel better, but then I got a boyfriend who would tell me how pretty I was and I got way more confident
I think you are absolutely right 😊...... When i am studying in 6 th standard, everyone bulling me about my looks (skintone matter) . because of that i take care my self for others without confidence.thats make me more worse than before.i am already heard this thing when i am grew up(about my chubby looks after 2 years , i am become like skeleton 🦴😅...And also i have better teeth than rabbit🐰😅 I am always think that 'i am not perfect,i am most ugly thing in the world 🌎'.... Then now,i realised that 'i am the heroine in my story' .i am become confident and take caring my self.At this time,i felt like i am glowing and everyone compliment me even who made fun of me ...i feel like i am perfect and satisfied with my ownfeatures. I am not too much attractive nor ugly .... my confidence make a big difference that not even a single skincare product can make in my face and body. I didn't laugh because I thought my teeth were ugly. When I started laughing for my own sake, I understood that what beauty is.❤ To be Love yourself ❤
Sign 6 is so me. Everyone in class and every room I step in everyone's eyes on me ❤. Btw I have never seen anyone ugly and how are you not seeing beauty in urself and others are. To everyone watching u r god's creation and u r divine ❤. Just realising that makes ×10 attractive. At the end of the u r more than ur looks. U have potential and sm to offer to this world. Love you all ❤
"you're hating on someone who needs your love the most" hits really hard. As someone's who's insecure about themselves, (who isn't?) this reminded me that I should love myself, and you should too. 💝
what if i fr rarely get compliments, and whenever someone looks at me it just makes me feel like I don't fit in with the crowd, i dont really have any unique features except my super chubby cheeks which are just a sign of me being fat, i also never really do any self care or skin care except anti-acne creams and hydration creams, im rly not that confidence abt myself and the people around me really doesnt make me feel any better, my above words answers how others preceive me so i dont need to answer the last one
Nobody gets to label how you look .... You are so fricking pretty and I just know that ! So please be kind to yourself sweetheart Beauty is in the eye of the beholder☺️
I think your beautiful:) i honestly dont ever look at anybody and think 'Ew they look so weird' i only look at peopke and notice the features that i think make them prettier than me. And i dont think anybody else is looking at your 'Weird' features either and i doubt you even have them. Were all unique in our own ways and beauty standards change year by year. One day they love skinny one day the love chubby. One day people love clear glossy skin and the other they want unique unmatchabke skin. Other people want what you have. And if anybody pokes fun at you, just remember they are most likley wearing a face of make-up to hide their insecuritys that they (Think) they would get poked fun at. I dont need to see you to know your beautiful/ handsom. So keep going, your inportant and god loves you:)
i started reading about human complex and i realise that its all about mindset games. dont bother about what others said about you because in reality, they also think the way you think which is, they also go through the same problem just to satisfied others. live in your world and dont waste your energy just to impress others.
This video made me realise of Thewizardliz. I watch her videos, and when you mentioned you got bullied because of how you look, I can relate to that. Trust me, I thought my hair, my nose, my lips, my teeth MY EVERYTHING was horrible. But then.. I made a new version of myself. I started doing things that the better version of myself would do. Thewizardliz is great for videos like this, and your videos was very encouraging and supportive. Thank you ❤
I needed to hear and see this video bc I’ve always been insecure about myself but I am grateful that I do get the compliments that I do. And thanks!❤😊 I just love being myself even if I am a weird introverted gal lol 😅😂
I dont even know if im ugly or not. I've been called fat and skinny, I've been called ugly and pretty, I've been called mean and nice, I've been called annoying and pleasant. I dont know what to believe anymore.
i hated my crooked teeth, but it was also affecting my dental health so i needed to get braces bc it obstructed my breathing and eating. however, i kinda wanted braces at first to stop the bullying. i don’t regret not getting braces bc i eat better and breathe better now, but i kinda wish i wasn’t insecure
Some time ago I was like super depressed and cared about what people think and comparing myself to others but after I found little details I liked about myself I turned them into my motivation like for example I’m not fat I’m just big boned and because of that I won’t break my bones so easily or it’s just that my skin is a little thicker than usual, it may sound stupid but when you really think about it even these small things can really boost up your confidence. Of corse some people think that and just completely forget abt like it’s important to take care of yourself but even if your big boned or have a big nose that part is something that’s special to you. Me personally I work out basically every day but I sometimes go for junk cause it makes me happy to it something I like lol and that can keep my motivation going, im still the shyest introverted girl on earth with basically no confidence with talking to other people but at least I can attempt to take care of myself to make me feel better :) and about how others view you I can relate the same topic in art when i draw, i see all the flaws and things i can improve but when i look at my friends drawing all I see is the best parts and that basically deletes all the not so good parts my friend thinks she has. Dm me I’m literally a yapping 12 year old with no idea how to give advice but I just wanted to share a bit with others and if you think bad about yourself, don’t your beautiful the way you are but my words can’t change how you think about yourself, only you can❤❤ (Me personally I think I’m a 10/10 baddie😋,lmao I’m sry) Omg I wrote a lot 😭
not gonna lie, i see lots of unconventionally attractive people on instagram with lots of friends who get lots of compliments within their own circle 😬 the more compliments that you get from strangers that are little kids or older people, the more attractive you really look 🤷♀️
I'm not super confident abt myself and my looks - i'm okay with them but 6th and 7th grade were hell for me. I got bullied a hell a lot for no reason in particular and I convinced myself that people just hated me for existing, which took a bad toll on my mental health. I'm in 8th grade now, and since I've joined a new school, I get compliments on my facial features, eyes, hair, body, etc. I feel like I'm glowing now with how happy I feel and I've healed a lot since the past few months. Sometimes you're just surrounded by the wrong people in the wrong place. :) Remember, you're not like those filter-using makeup-covered girls on the internet - you're natural and you don't lie about it, which means you're beautiful! Take care of youself 💖✨
I had been complimented once while I was taking photos in front of a statue and a beautiful girl walked by and said I was really beautiful my jaw dropped seriously I was like in my mind gurl look at yourself you’re complimenting me!?
Back at it again-but this time, I’m clearly stepping it up with the editing (and by stepping it up, I mean getting HELP because let’s be real... we all know it ain’t me with these skills - they are way outta my league 😗✌️)
So, how do you like it? Be brutally honest! Seriously, I’m experimenting a lot right now, so all feedback is gold. 💛
Also, a quick shoutout to YOU. Your comments? Like, how cute, funny and thoughtful can a community be?? I read every single one (yes, even the ones that roast me-I see you 👀). Your words seriously make my day and give me so much inspiration. And I love love love seeing you guys supporting each other in the comments! 🥹💖
Speaking of ideas, I’ve been low-key obsessed with topics like fitness, personal hygiene hacks, and psychological tricks to glow up mentally and physically. But I’d love to know what you want to see next. Drop your ideas below! I 10000% will cover it because every time I’ve made a video based on your suggestions, it’s been so much fun!! 🤍
Can’t wait to hear what you think about the video and your ideas for the next one.
If you've made it this far, you're a real one. Seriously, thank you so much!!!
- Alana 🤍
Hi! I personally don’t like the new editing style, I preferred the one in your earlier videos, but you do you! The content is still amazing and that’s all that matters!
I think the cutesy and aesthetic editing style you had before matched your content so much more and made it much more clickable
@@brumbat4541 Thank you for sharing your opinion. What part didn't you like so I can improve it? I want you all to have fun watching the videos 🥰🤍
The animations
@@brumbat4541Do you mean the animation overall, or would you prefer a cuter character & setting? I got that a lot haha
People who think they're "unattractive" yet are confident enough to have that mindset of "so what? Why should I care what they think??" really inspire me. Seeing people with pimples confidently walk around in public without makeup heals my heart because I have many pimples too. I try my best to be like them
I LOOOVE people like that. Literal QUEENS. You can do it too!
for me it’s “fake it till u make it”
I find that wearing makeup exacerbates acne more. They would look fresher without it tbh, they should be comfortable in their own skin. But hey, people don't wear makeup just for that, most wear it for temselves, for self expression
I'm that person:)
Me?? Thank you. I'm a tall girl(really tall). Used to hunch my back, I woke up one day and was like hell nah. Started practicing good posture etc my shoulders hurt. I'd let it down for awhile. I can even let the done, but I feel much more confident. Maybe thinking that you're enough to be loved and not searching always helped me so much❤
Tip: When you take a picture of the moon, you don't say it's ugly, you say the camera is bad, why don't you say that about you?
What about people giving weird stares...it brings me back to the reality 😭
Ts is beautiful 😭❤
That’s actually really nice to hear
Because that’s delusional 😭😭
because i have iphone 16 and can not blame camera💔😔
1:53 " you're hating on someone who needs your love the most " ouch dude
loved that
also your eyes are very pretty
@@Alien-_-ゝ awwww thank you so much beautiful ❤️
Literally had to stop in my tracks and say “dang” God bless you
i cried omg
i was looking for this comment. it hit hard
No one compliments me except people I’m close with💀
For me it’s literally no one
I’m sure you look too gorgeous for the peasants broski. 🎀
same 😅😅
Same😢
Real😭 my far aunt (wife of my grandmas brother) js says „look how much youve grown!“ girl im 5‘2💀 and my dad says im pretty😭 but noone else rlly compliments me, ive only gotten „she is beautiful in her own way“ from a friend that looked at me from far, smiled and said it (my friends abandoned me some months ago)
This video made me realise that I am actually as unattractive as I think 😂
Bro no u are pretty/handsome even if no one told u ill tell u this🤘
real
Frfr 😭💀
FOR REAL
Yep true 😂
this is making me realize I’m NOT attractive lmao
You can be
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
EXACTLY 😂
Same, I've never had any of the signs that the video presents lol
real lol
I have never experienced these signs 😭
Girl same 💀🙏🙏
same😭😭😭
But i know u r beutiful no video can tell u that u r beautiful or not. Just love urself
Same
im sure you will soon!! :D
so basically i’m still ugly 😭🙏🏽
Nah don't think like that I've been in this phase too ! Just start taking care of yourself little by little you'll understand it's not your who's ugly but the mindset I did this too and it worked to say the least I'm confident and that's what really matters
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
Shut up you are gorgeous😍✨❤
same bro I'm done for 😭💀
Damn man same...🥲
People often stare at me (20yo male) I always assumed I was creepy or off-putting but 2 girls recently told me it's because my dark thicc brows and my demeanor apparently look masculine and easy on the eye 😭 I was blushing so hard I didn't know how to react. It's crazy how altered our visions of ourselves and others can be.
Atleast you are not insecure about yourself now😂
That sounds like what a hot guy looks like. Bless you, man ❤️
W
you sound like such a cutie patootie ♡
I can agree with these two girls you met. LOL A guy with dark thick brows is an attractive feature to me too! I like masculine features on a guy. X3
I don't know how I think I'm "unnatractive" and yet still has the confidence to walk out in public with pimples and my "so-not-smile-looking" smile
What do you mean by going out in public with a smile?
I believe that I look good in mirrors but not photos 😂
That's me, the photos show much of my facial asymmetry 😂😂
Take photos of yourself from further away zoomed in. The camera distorts your face to try and get a wider field of view, making your nose look bigger. Use a selfie stick or timed photo, or vide yourself and screenshot the video paused.
That's so real
especially the back camera💀
Same😅
Thank you, this really made my day. We all should remember to love ourselves. Maybe starting by looking yourself at the mirror in the morning, saying, “Have a nice day.” To yourself.
why did this make me tear up haha, i've been struggling with image issues since i was a child and this struck some chord inside of me
@@quit3551I’m sorry to hear that. Try your best focusing on loving yourself rather than others for now, one day you will acknowledge the value in yourself. You are your own true friend unlike others can be. I hope this helped. Have a nice day!
🥹 I love this! I always listen to positive affirmations when I'm getting ready for the day. I struggle with negative self-talk too, especially when I think about some cringeworthy moments from my past, lol. Thank you for reminding us to start the day with positive words 🫶🏻
@@hyunprk-gt9vz Oh wowwww, I really love you guysss !
@@BeautyTheoryOfficialAww, you are welcome! I’m glad to hear that you always listen to positive affirmations when getting ready for the day! When you struggle with negative thoughts, I want you to remember that the past is the past. No-one and nothing can do anything about it. And what makes your future is yourself right now!
I've been in a rut lately, not taking care of myself, being productive, all that stuff. But then my roomie invited someone over, I woke up to them talking and they said I was really pretty! It was insane. My hair was messy, my sleep schedule was wrecked so bags were on full display and yet... I caught the attention of someone I never met. I also had a recent mild breakdown because I hadn't socialized in like a month and tried going to an event. My friend comforted me and mentioned that at a previous event everyone was asking about me. These have really motivated me, I want to feel like who these people are seeing. I want to be confident and love myself.
You will see yourself in that way! However, it can sometimes be challenging to develop self-love. That's why I created this channel! I want to support you on your journey. Let's glow up and love ourselves together. You are worth it!!! 🤍
REAL real real real, mild breakdowns at events so real :,D
Trust me. If I were attractive, I would know it. However i don't hate my imperfections enough to try and change them.
Imperfections is what made us. And it's beautiful for that.
1) people don't hype me up at all with no compliments ever.
2)people don't look at me
3)People don't even look at my unique features
4)I take care of myself but I don't do it a lot
5)people don't admire me at all and I look bad in everything.(all pics)
I'm ugly...😔
1} Ppl don't hype you up cuz they're jealous of you
2} Ppl don't look at you because you ARE beautiful and got no bad flaws
3} You're the one to enhance your unique feature by stopping being insecure about it
4} Then you just should do it... It'll make you feel GREAT
5} Gurl when you take a picture of the moon and it turns out bad you don't say "Ugh the moon is ugly" you say "Omg the camera is bad"... Do the same with yourself
Lastly... Love yourself because nobody will love you the same amount and everything begins from inside you❤
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
Are you a dude?
Same
you right
I used to hate pictures, myself, my smile, my body, recording myself, taking pictures, and mirrors. and anything that involved seeing myself I hated because I hated the whole idea of me. I’d usually cry to pictures people took of me or the pictures I took of myself and compare them to those pretty girls on pinterest, instagram, tiktok and my even to own friends.. but I matured to realize that this is MY face I’m doing to have this face for the rest of my life, so I’m slowly learning how to love myself inside and outside, my face and physical attributes and I’m learning how to carry myself with confidence. Just remember that everybody is beautiful. nobody is ugly. “Ugly” doesn’t exist. and if it did, we wouldn’t exist. You are beautiful. Your body is beautiful. All body types are beautiful and again, so are you!
i think the real villain is me because all along, it was me who was overthinking that "i am unattractive" and that i kept telling myself that ppl makes fun of me behind my back. now im starting to realise that, it's really not the people around me who mocks, its actually me who mocks myself
I never got to hear compliments 😢
But hopefully i believe in myself that I'm gorgeous and pretty
I think your pretty
i bet ur the most gorgeous and amazing person
You ARE STUNNING !!!!🤍💖
UR SOOO GORGEOUS C'MON !!! 💕
1:12 I don't get compliments, so, yeah, I ain't worthy of one...YET!❤
You are pretty 🤍🌷
You're never gonna be
You're a wonderful and beautiful person ❤
Hey cutieeeeee, one compliment from me💙
Yet!!! Yessss ma'ammm go ahead and slayyyy
People do not compliment me, people do not take a second look. It is, what it is. People don't approach me either, I'm like a deep sea fish.
They say the human mind cannot make up new faces and all the people you see in your dreams are people you've walked by/know.
I hope I get to play the villain or a demon in someone's dream one day
you're such an inspiration 😂
Yk what, not as a demon, but in my dreams u were a gorgeous human being! And I was so damn flabbergasted that I am still shook and want to see u in real life!
•Here's a motivational quote for everyone:
*"You don't have to fit it if you were born to stand out"*
-someone
-Always keep that in mind💕✨
it was from the wizard liz
What does that mean?
Omg tysmmm I faced the same problem with my teeth, and fat nose but now I face all these signs and you helped me achieve my confidence, thank you so much!!!!
I am so so happy to hear that! We will make it together and today I promise you I will give my best to support you on your self-love and glow-up journey with this channel🤞🤍
@@BeautyTheoryOfficial ❤tysm you truly are a gift to this world !
the way NO ONE compliments me is just funny like how am i supposed to like myself if even people don't like my looks
Well people don’t notice me , give me compliments or anything, so my head was right all the time
Nowadays...I have started to walk around the school instead of just rotting in my class. I've been getting many compliments from my junior girls!!! I have no idea who they are and they don't know me too but they will just come up can compliment me. This is such a beautiful thing for me. I really believe that people see us differently than how we do so yes, if you're receiving numerous compliments from people, that must mean that you look absolutely stunning!!!!
I think I have all signs.
I keep getting compliments, people having feelings for me, and heck, i take care of myself. I didnt think i was that attractive because- I had pimples, my eyebrows were uh.. thick, i was hairy, and my hair is kinda messed up.
This video helped me realize i’m unique and pretty in my own way :) Thank you!!❤
The thing about the way others perceive you is true. Everyone has insecurities and will look at you and see something they want so bad in you and immediately think you are attractive. A truly confident person doesn't find others ugly, simply because he doesn't have those insecurities. If someone looks at you and notices that your nose is crooked, for example, then they are insecure about it. Basically, everyone sees their own insecurities in others, you are beautiful
Frr
I do think that I'm not beautiful.. i don't think I'm ugly but I'm not beautiful.. but the strange thing about me is recently i noticed how much strangers tend to smile at me and notice me when I'm walking outside or at the university.. i found it very strange but now i get that attractiveness is way different thing than beauty actually.. your video was a confirmation to me .. keep it up girl !❤
This was a huge blow to my self esteem...
Bless you my darling, you'll get there . May you healed of all your pains 💗🌹
Fr now I feel uglier 🥲
🫂 They are vain. You are beautiful. Life is more than looks. They should admire your humanity, your life, your YOU. Jesus does. God does. Someone who truly loves you will, too. I do. Others will too, houh it won't be everyone. That's fine. You don’t need the world to love you. You need love that is true. That does not have to be romantic. If it should come with romance, they should still be loyal, patient, committed, enduring, and true. Holy Love 1st, then romantic love (separate from ṣẹx̌ůåļ - though this may follow on the wedding night). Wait for what is worth waiting for. Hold on to what is worth keeping indefinitely. Love is the Way of Life, not simply an emotion.
THANK YOUU SO MUCH I REALLY NEEDED THIS
Im sooo happy it helped you!!🫶🏻
My cousins,my siblings,my mean aunt,they always say "your so ugly" you look like a roach" "I'm prettier than you"
Which made me insecure.That even a slightest sompliment made me upset.
Thank you for making this video,this help me a lot!
I bet they're just jealous
I'm so glad it helped you! And I agree, I bet they're just jealous! Don't listen to them.
If someone is acting like how you explained in your comment, saying stuff that will literally destroy one’s self-esteem, just know that person is most likely jealous of you, or envy’s you for the stuff you have, or how much love you give or receive. Yeah they might be attractive but you know what’s not attractive? Their personality.
There’s a likely chance they fear and know that you will do great things. Don’t let anyone bring you down.
Remember everyone has flaws.
I get alot of compliments. Like, you're pretty, cute, or even beautiful. I can't get myself to believe it 😭
Because you have to get your mindset right !! I think I need to make a video about thattt 👀💖
me too.. seriously… i’m so hard on myself that i think they’re doing that because they feel bad for me because of how i look.
Same
Same tbh idk how
Same here 😢
0:48 Sign 6: You get endless compliments
• from friends, relatives, strangers etc.
2:02 Sign 5: You get noticed
• eg: when you walk in a room, all eyes are you
• love yourself and embrace it because everyone, even the prettiest people, have insecurities
3:21 Sign 4: People love your unique features
• trends dont last but yor unique features will always be unique to you and you only making you special and different from others forever
4:37 Sign 3: You take care of yourself
• people adore when you take care of yourself and know you're self-confident. Don't do it for others. Do it for yourself.
5:51 Sign 2: You are confident
• One thing i learned from Mean Girls, confidence is EVERYTHING (I MEAN LOOK AT REGINA GEORGE)
• Social media is all filters, plastic and layers of makeup. It's impossible to achieve that. Why? Because you're naturally beautiful. By being confident, you can unleash the unique-you which makes you attractive if you're self-confident.
7:09 Sign 1: Your own perception
• You can't capture the beauty of the moon with a man-made photo camera. But you can see it naturally from our very own complex eyes. Similarly, phone cameras dont capture your uniqueness, attractiveness, naturalness and beauty of the real you.
We all get only 1 life. Better not spend it trying to be someone else who you're not.
"When you die, God won't ask you 'Why weren't you Einstein?'. He will ask you 'Why weren't you Sheldon?' "
- That one character that asked this to Sheldon from Young Sheldon
"I rather get hated for something I am rather than loved for something I'm not"
- Jeon Soyeon
"Instead of being someone else, try being your own best version in your head"
- Me
Thank you SO much for this video!
I was picked on for my appearance at 10 by some gossip-loving, histrionic girls. Afterwards, I hit all the classics after getting bullied- crying in the bathroom, hating life and myself, etc.
I moved to a different country, and am currently 11 in a new school with much kinder people. I got a glow-up, and compliments came in from every direction- friends, family, even strangers. I rejected every compliment I got and refused to be happy with what I had, and moved on to hating my dark circles and fat nose. It helped so much me knowing other ppl understand how hard it is to have a positive self-image! Tysm for your content. ❤️
I'm sooo proud of you! You've got this 🥹💖
I'm 11 too! Though it's been a bit hard for me to have self confidence
I really appreciate you saying I don’t have to put myself through hell just to make others happy. I used to smile often and received compliments on my smile and my looks, but I stopped smiling as often a couple months ago. I think I wasn’t smiling because I wanted to protect myself from unwanted attention, but this video made me realize that the attention isn’t really my problem. I should focus on living my life and being happy instead of what others think.
My day is made now that you guys posted😊
My day is made seeing your sweet comment 🤍🥹
Nope,I never had experience these things
I did for all of these, this video maybe isn’t just for you.
4:42 thank you for putting the hijabi girl bc muslim girls dont show their hair that makes them feel less confident or insecure but as a guy i find it so pretty and modest ❤❤
The last thing I expected today was for beauty theory to use wojak characters in their videos but here we are I guess. No hate though I love you guys.
Haha we’re experimenting a little bit😅🤍 What do you think? Tbh I feel like we need to make our character a little bit cuter to match our energy right ?? 😂🩷
@ true, I like the experimental vibe though hehe. You guys are awesome :3 🖤🦇 (also sorry if my comments are hard to read or understand, I have autism so I cant tell if they are or not)
Even if you try to believe what others say about you , there is this one thing which never lets me believe them .
What is it?
It's your own mind. We can work on it together. I love trying to become the best version of myself because it always makes me feel like I've done my best and boosts my self-esteem 🤍
There are multiple things here. Before diving in those, your voice, and the video editing is really good!
Attractiveness is objective. Beauty... is how you carry yourself.
More than half the beauty lies in confidence, taking ownership, and being "out there". Attractive features are a cover that people like seeing, but confidence and other things make up the complete.
The latter goes deep within and influences people, not just gets their attention, but really goes deep and influences them.
So... know yourself, your strengths... carry yourself with confidence... but genuine confidence.
I actually respect your work on this video since this is a big problem between most if not all teenagers, i hope you get all the kindness back and more
There is this one thing that sticks to me whenever I feel like I'm ugly. "Everyone's opinions are different, if someone thinks that your really ugly, another person is going to think that your the most beautiful thing they have laid eyes on." As humans, we all have different opinions on things. I can't tell you how many people I've met that have said that they are ugly but the are actually so pretty. Even if people won't come up and say it to you, when you walk outside I'm pretty sure at least one person has thought in their head that your beautiful. Tbh, what people think don't matter at all. It's how you think of yourself what matters most. So I really hope you remember that!💜💓
2:48 SUHOOOOO????EUN WOO
True beauty jump scared me frfr
U read my mind
the worst thing is that im not comparing myself to girls online. Im comparing myself to girls that i know irl and it still hits as hard
this! like yes we can always say about the girls we see online that their pictures may not be natural ect like said in this video. but what about the girls i see in real life with my own eyes? they are standing next to me and i can clearly see that they are naturally pretty without faking it, and that's worse cause what do i tell myself then?
I LOVE this video, I'm already confident but it can't hurt to watch this
The things you think are flaws are the things that make you stand out the most ❤
I think I’m ugly, my siblings think I’m ugly, my friends think I’m ugly :) So I just learn to accept the fact that I am who I am
you’re not ugly. you need to surround yourself with people who see beyond your looks and you need to carry yourself better because people treat you and call you what you call yourself. i don’t know you but i’m sure you have beautiful God sent features.
Then why do I not accept the fact that ur ugly? Why am I still stuck on the thought that u seem so pretty to me?
I'm ugly too so I will be single no boys only money-my solution
Girl....yk my friend is a super kind and a positive person and when i see her i find her beautiful because she's always smiling, cheering others up and never being pessimist ! And these traits are what made my brain say "my friend is so pretty bcs of her personality not only her looks". She has acne, glasses and she dresses how she feels like it. She doesn't follow trends and she's a natural who loves who she is. In this planet of almost or already 9billion people there is someone out there that found you beautiful (a stranger in the streets, a barista, a colleague, a friend...) i am 100% sure that someone out there loves your smile your laugh your eyes your personality etc. Pls don't put yourself down girlie !!
I woke this morning with a crippling anxiety about my appearance, ig this is exactly what i needed , im finally on the good side of the internet
In camera my face look like a potato but in mirror my face looks like a carrot 😅now I get it
Lmao ❤❤😂
I literally almost started crying so much because of this video because my friends say I’m pretty and I say, are u sure your not just saying that because I’m your friend? And they said no they meant it😌so thank you so much and ilysm💋
"Confidence works better than a THOUSAND filters. I promise." I NEEDED THISSS ❤
I love this video sm I can’t stop crying I like how she gives advices nicely and not in a way that makes me feel pathetic or stupid. I like how it feels like she really has been through what im feeling it’s like she really understands how it feels to not being able to even look at yourself in the mirror, avoiding eye contact because of how much u hate yourself etc. i’ll try my best to love myself tysm for this amazing video
i realised that the statements in the video are completely true, and isn't just some way to make you feel confident or hype you up in a sort of way. I've always been insecure about the shape of my body, but then I've gotten multiple compliments from individuals stating that they really admire my curves. you're more attractive than you think, and don't let these "beauty standards" on social media get to you. we wouldn't want a world where everyone looks the same, anyway.
I didn't get too many compliments from my friends or relatives but kids in my neighborhood always look at me and said that i am pretty and beautiful. They are only 6 and 7 years old but makes me feel so good when they look at me and smile ☺️
Kids are the most honest person in the world
made my day thank you!
Sometimes i watch these kinda videos to increase my self confidence. It makes my day tbh and helps me to think more positively. thank you so much and good luck💙
Ngl who else gets compliments but doesn’t know how to feel about them? Because two boys have told me im “fine” and “hot” but it just feels super embarrassing and awkward?
I don't know how to react 😭
maybe it's because of the impersonal nature of those compliments? i've had something similar happen to me and i just laughed it off awkwardly because it felt like they were only noticing my exterior appearance and nothing else
I only accept compliments from other women most of the time because they are more respectful lmao
@@stargirljen fr, like what am I supposed to say after “thank you?”
I’m starting to think this is more of a psychological issue within me, I was bullied really really badly back in the day so any type of compliments I get (because I think I got all the points you mentioned but still working on the self care department) my brain thinks they all are lying to me, that they feel sorry for me and that’s why they are telling me this…
Because it has become a type of torture that I think it will end up killing me one day
Thank you so much for this! When I was a child, all my relatives used to tell me I was one of the most beautiful kids in the family, and it made me happy. But then I started primary school, and my baby teeth fell out. When my front tooth came in, it had a genetic yellow spot. As expected, I faced a lot of bullying (I got it fixed when I was 12).
From ages 14 to 18, I struggled with severe body dysmorphia, and hormonal acne did not help at all. I genuinely believed I had deformities in my bones and skull...yes, it was that bad. I even wished I could get rib removal surgery to have a smaller waist (even though I was thin and often complimented on my body shape). But the humble curves I had just didn't feel like enough to me. I was also fully convinced I had an overbite, but my dentist was confused when I brought it up. He reassured me my teeth were perfectly aligned, but I didn't believe him. I was obsessed and completely delusional.
I used to take side-profile photos of Instagram celebrities, overlay them on my pictures, draw over my face, compare, and measure. I was convinced I needed surgery to literally reshape my skull, along with fillers, Botox, a nose job, and more. I even disliked my straight nose because I wanted it to be more of a "button" shape. There were so many irrational things I believed about myself.
I was also thinking about ending it all, a LOT.
When I started university, though, something changed. I began getting compliments about my nose and side profile. People told me I was beautiful...more than a few times. At first, I hated hearing it because I thought they weren't being genuine, and it made me feel insecure and awkward. But over time (with therapy), I started to see what they meant when I looked in the mirror. I began to believe their compliments. Now, at 20, I feel so much better and genuinely think I'm beautiful. I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely beautiful. I'm so happy I've changed, and I truly wish the same for anyone who's gone through a similar painful experience.
Thank you again for this video!
Clicked on this video to feel better, left knowing my brain was right-
literally leaving high school is what helped with my self confidence, i haven't been bullied since graduating and have gotten flushed with compliments for just being myself, im so identifiable from a crowd and people love it more than you think :))
About taking care of yourself is good but my major problem is: being lazy and a procrastinator.
I don't use socials or sum, they don't feel very entertaining to me and that's a big W for me, at least I won't compare myself to anyone. But I'm a very close person (because of past experiences) and I find difficult to being the one to approach, afraid of being of disturbance or being judged. Yeah, I should really work on myself more especially on my body, I'm not fat but surely I'm not thin, my face sure needs some more skin care and also my hair. But as a quote of the first Transformers said: "No sacrifice no victory". Then we gotta work for see the results and I will do it too, I just gotta impose on me to just be better than I'm now.
I love this girls voice. Its so soothing 🥰
Ive conceived all these signs lol. I always look in mirror and completely astonished by my beauty. My mom used to call me out for ny nose and hairs at times. I mean idk but ppl often compliment me abt them😭💗so ik I'm a goddess and trust me you are too!
It's more than just compliments too, you literally get treated just overall better.
Also omg I completely hear you on the thinking people are mocking you, if you were bullied earlier in life, that mindset is really hard to shake.
I was feeling less of a beauty.... And desired to be like others but u guyz.....are God sent....what I aim now is that I will be my greatest project and a'l stop hurting the girl I always stare at in the mirror and judge💞💗
Yes yes yeessss that's exactly what I want to hearrr 💖
The random girl in gym class my third year who told me I had a beautiful voice, thank you. I still remember you.
I can't relate you about getting endless complements.
This actually really helped me thank you!!! Especially the first one, I’ve gotten many complements about my appearance but I’ve always thought they were jokes because of how I see myself 😭
This made me feel so much better❤ I’m not feeling so good right now because I’m a teenager and… I just don’t feel so confident, but thank you!!❤
When I went to conference (or was it camp idk) some girl was sitting with her group and stopped them just to say to me “excuse me? You look beautiful.” And I was legit speechless I was on the brink of crying and her words have stuck with me since and I always remember her words when someone compliments me😊
I haven’t felt unconfident in a year, I’m scared that watching this video will make me unconfident
I used to think I was the ugliest girl in the world and when my friends would complement me I thought they were just trying to make me feel better, but then I got a boyfriend who would tell me how pretty I was and I got way more confident
I think you are absolutely right 😊......
When i am studying in 6 th standard, everyone bulling me about my looks (skintone matter) . because of that i take care my self for others without confidence.thats make me more worse than before.i am already heard this thing when i am grew up(about my chubby looks after 2 years , i am become like skeleton 🦴😅...And also i have better teeth than rabbit🐰😅
I am always think that 'i am not perfect,i am most ugly thing in the world 🌎'....
Then now,i realised that 'i am the heroine in my story' .i am become confident and take caring my self.At this time,i felt like i am glowing and everyone compliment me even who made fun of me ...i feel like i am perfect and satisfied with my ownfeatures. I am not too much attractive nor ugly ....
my confidence make a big difference that not even a single skincare product can make in my face and body.
I didn't laugh because I thought my teeth were ugly. When I started laughing for my own sake, I understood that what beauty is.❤
To be Love yourself ❤
Sign 6 is so me. Everyone in class and every room I step in everyone's eyes on me ❤. Btw I have never seen anyone ugly and how are you not seeing beauty in urself and others are. To everyone watching u r god's creation and u r divine ❤. Just realising that makes ×10 attractive. At the end of the u r more than ur looks. U have potential and sm to offer to this world. Love you all ❤
"you're hating on someone who needs your love the most" hits really hard. As someone's who's insecure about themselves, (who isn't?) this reminded me that I should love myself, and you should too. 💝
This is just making people belive they're unattractive
Girl i rly needed this, thanks
what if i fr rarely get compliments, and whenever someone looks at me it just makes me feel like I don't fit in with the crowd, i dont really have any unique features except my super chubby cheeks which are just a sign of me being fat, i also never really do any self care or skin care except anti-acne creams and hydration creams, im rly not that confidence abt myself and the people around me really doesnt make me feel any better, my above words answers how others preceive me so i dont need to answer the last one
Nobody gets to label how you look .... You are so fricking pretty and I just know that ! So please be kind to yourself sweetheart
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder☺️
I think your beautiful:) i honestly dont ever look at anybody and think 'Ew they look so weird' i only look at peopke and notice the features that i think make them prettier than me. And i dont think anybody else is looking at your 'Weird' features either and i doubt you even have them. Were all unique in our own ways and beauty standards change year by year. One day they love skinny one day the love chubby. One day people love clear glossy skin and the other they want unique unmatchabke skin. Other people want what you have. And if anybody pokes fun at you, just remember they are most likley wearing a face of make-up to hide their insecuritys that they (Think) they would get poked fun at. I dont need to see you to know your beautiful/ handsom. So keep going, your inportant and god loves you:)
i started reading about human complex and i realise that its all about mindset games. dont bother about what others said about you because in reality, they also think the way you think which is, they also go through the same problem just to satisfied others. live in your world and dont waste your energy just to impress others.
This video made me realise of Thewizardliz. I watch her videos, and when you mentioned you got bullied because of how you look, I can relate to that. Trust me, I thought my hair, my nose, my lips, my teeth MY EVERYTHING was horrible. But then.. I made a new version of myself. I started doing things that the better version of myself would do. Thewizardliz is great for videos like this, and your videos was very encouraging and supportive. Thank you ❤
Girl, now I need to really see your smile. 😅
3:10 when i started doing that my bf (now ex) called a BOP and attention seeker, attention wH0re3E💀 im not even kidding
Thank God he's your ex now
Gone for good
I needed to hear and see this video bc I’ve always been insecure about myself but I am grateful that I do get the compliments that I do. And thanks!❤😊 I just love being myself even if I am a weird introverted gal lol 😅😂
1:23 but the bully has wrinkles😂
LOL
I dont even know if im ugly or not. I've been called fat and skinny, I've been called ugly and pretty, I've been called mean and nice, I've been called annoying and pleasant. I dont know what to believe anymore.
i hated my crooked teeth, but it was also affecting my dental health so i needed to get braces bc it obstructed my breathing and eating. however, i kinda wanted braces at first to stop the bullying. i don’t regret not getting braces bc i eat better and breathe better now, but i kinda wish i wasn’t insecure
“ no one is perfect”❤
“No matter how much you try hard to make your self perfect never works and don
T compare yourself to others on the internet ❤❤❤”
Some time ago I was like super depressed and cared about what people think and comparing myself to others but after I found little details I liked about myself I turned them into my motivation like for example I’m not fat I’m just big boned and because of that I won’t break my bones so easily or it’s just that my skin is a little thicker than usual, it may sound stupid but when you really think about it even these small things can really boost up your confidence. Of corse some people think that and just completely forget abt like it’s important to take care of yourself but even if your big boned or have a big nose that part is something that’s special to you. Me personally I work out basically every day but I sometimes go for junk cause it makes me happy to it something I like lol and that can keep my motivation going, im still the shyest introverted girl on earth with basically no confidence with talking to other people but at least I can attempt to take care of myself to make me feel better :) and about how others view you I can relate the same topic in art when i draw, i see all the flaws and things i can improve but when i look at my friends drawing all I see is the best parts and that basically deletes all the not so good parts my friend thinks she has.
Dm me I’m literally a yapping 12 year old with no idea how to give advice but I just wanted to share a bit with others and if you think bad about yourself, don’t your beautiful the way you are but my words can’t change how you think about yourself, only you can❤❤
(Me personally I think I’m a 10/10 baddie😋,lmao I’m sry)
Omg I wrote a lot 😭
Aww I feel like I really needed this. Thank you.
not gonna lie, i see lots of unconventionally attractive people on instagram with lots of friends who get lots of compliments within their own circle 😬 the more compliments that you get from strangers that are little kids or older people, the more attractive you really look 🤷♀️
Yeah😅 When I see these friends lying I wonder if the compliments I received are real. You brought up a good point:)
Thanks! This just proved I’m as ugly as I thought because none of those 6 signs are me. 😊
I don't have any signs except 3 and I rarely receive compliments on my appearance
Thank you so much for that. It really helps for I am going through teen phases like self judging and this changes my perspective a lot!
Personally, i have seen a ton of people stare, but....
Most of them were middle aged men😭 im a teenager btw...
Middle aged men don't care about your age as long as you're a female😭
STAY SAFE 😭😭
I'm not super confident abt myself and my looks - i'm okay with them but 6th and 7th grade were hell for me. I got bullied a hell a lot for no reason in particular and I convinced myself that people just hated me for existing, which took a bad toll on my mental health. I'm in 8th grade now, and since I've joined a new school, I get compliments on my facial features, eyes, hair, body, etc. I feel like I'm glowing now with how happy I feel and I've healed a lot since the past few months. Sometimes you're just surrounded by the wrong people in the wrong place. :)
Remember, you're not like those filter-using makeup-covered girls on the internet - you're natural and you don't lie about it, which means you're beautiful! Take care of youself 💖✨
I had been complimented once while I was taking photos in front of a statue and a beautiful girl walked by and said I was really beautiful my jaw dropped seriously I was like in my mind gurl look at yourself you’re complimenting me!?
Thank you so much for this video. I would genuinely recommend it to everyone insecure. 🙌