How To Build self esteem and self love
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- Опубликовано: 25 дек 2023
- Loving and accepting yourself is something we should do by default but our environment sometimes teaches us otherwise. If you want a happier and healthier life, tune in and learn how I did it
I think as men we needed this instead of Andrew Tate
Andrew tate is filled with egoistic personality traits and is caught up in his self righteousness and his examples are only about him.
Misogyny is cool but tate is cringe because he's a muslim and a grifter 💀
I disagree. You can have both
you need both
U need both
“Cuz if you didnt love yourself you wouldnt care so much” hit
100% best sentence ive heared. Watching this video directly prove that you care because u want to love youself. Thats an act of loving yourself.
Literally was just crying in the car yesterday telling myself that I’m my best friend. Truly a full circle moment for someone who didn’t like themselves at all and now I can’t get enough. For anyone who is in this position it takes time to get there and when you do life is so much sweeter
Am glad I met you..
thank you
Love your self no matter what you been through in life don't let the devil win spread love!
Thank you 🙏
Dude I am a 56 year old woman and you have me in tears. I put "how to love yourself" in the search bar. I have spent my whole life people pleasing so much so, it never occurred to me to love myself. I spent so much time criticizing every thing about how I looked and who I was, it never occurred to me. I was not comfortable in my own skin. Let me tell you and the tribe your age one thing that I can possibly give you. When you are my age, if you never loved yourself, you will look back on simple photographs and think "wow, how did I think I was fat? How did I think I was not good looking? I wasted, wasted! all of my good decades being self conscious, low self esteem and for what?" I wasted all my good years. Your tribe will not end up like that because of your amazing heart and soul. Make sure they take these young years and appreciate everything they got because you really need a lot extra when you get older. You are blessed.
Thank you for sharing this ❤
Thank you so much❤
you actually didn't waste any good moment, take a step ahead form every o fyou thought and look back to the best and unique moments you've lived in your youngest years, take a minute to thank God and yourself for you enjoy and giving to people the best feeling and great moments with you by their side.
I hope you find love in everything you see and every inch of you bc you're a soul, full of life and love, you're more than you think.
God bless you
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Every year u alive is ur good year ❤
bro literally became my internet spiritual advisor
same bro same
Shimon,
your videos are intellectual, emotional, wise, purposeful and filled with positive energy. Although it's a video, it feels like that I am engaged in a meaningful conversation with you, while you are protecting me from a hopeless future and showing me the right path. Your videos are valuable and will enable many people to live a better life with fewer negative thoughts. I wish you all the best and hope you achieve everything you want.
🧘🏾♂️much love to you family and this is only the beginning, thank you very much
This man really about to change my entire life and the more i accept what he says the more i realize how much crap i been through theres no way i wasnt ment to be here
Keep going 😁
Real
i hate myself so much that its hard to even watch videos like this because i've convinced myself that im worthless and im scared nothing can change my mind
Don’t give up on urself try to give it one more chance and see how things will go
Same thing
You not alone
Practice makes perfect. You won't get it in one try. Keep trying
You aren't alone in what you are feeling. Don't give up! There will be a time in this life where you love and value yourself! It is on its way. You are already moving towards that.
I'm scared to make this journey, but I'm going to do it. Years of being put down by bullying, rejection, and societal standards weigh down on me and it hurts. It genuinely hurts. I shouldn't look in the mirror and see my worst enemy because, in the end, that's me - and that will never change.
even in the beginning, when youre talking to ya younger self i just started crying....😭😭
You had me crying by the end of this video. Crying is such a rare thing for me. Thank you so much for recording this. I needed to hear these things.
Same bro and idk why this made me crying.
same man
Thank you! Great advice! I'm on the journey of loving myself!
Definitely spot on about the trend thing. In high school people made fun of anime and marvel, and then post pandemic all of a sudden everyone loves it lol
Another reason u have to do this, is cause if u dont and u try and go love someone else, you'll subconsciously seek to fill that void in yourself through thst relationship. And that wreaks havoc on relationships..you have to love yourself to be able to share your love with another person in a healthy way
“I don’t wanna hear no I don’t love myself, I don’t deserve love because we’re gonna work on ALL OF THAT.”
That right there broke me down. Thank you.. i needed that reassurance 🙏❤️
Currently in an real bad state of mind that is slowly healing rn
and let me be honest with you, i'm staring to accept myself for who i am for now bc of you, you are fr legit helping me thru an real difficult time of overthinking and isolation
Thank you Shimon.
Much love to you fam❤️
@@AskShimonman you helped me quit porn talk to girls get a girlfriend feel confident improve my social life and so much more ❤I really appreciate your wisdom and stuff you taught me. My confidence has risen tremendously and I’m no longer bullied and kids at school fw me now.
I know we don’t even know each other but I love you bro❤️ my PTSD, OCD and Anxiety was so high to the point where I felt like taking my life… I then started listening to your videos every night before bed and my mental health feels so much better now… thank you for making your videos🫶🏾
I love you also and I’m happy to help
@@AskShimonthank u brother
Since my parents got divorced my dad has always made it feel like my brother was 10x the man I am. He’s told me I need to be like him. Told him he’s sorry that I’m a sorry excuse for a brother. And its left me with an unfillable hole, that I’m not enough for people. I don’t know how, but I j think I am. And that no matter how hard I try I feel like I need to do better. Your videos help me so much, I’ve suffered with self harm and suicide attempts since I was 12. I’m 16 now. I started using substances and got dependent on them. I got arrested on nov 5th this year and I’ve been completely cold turkey since then. Also I’m 3 months clean from self harm. But since quitting drugs I’ve lost all my friends, I have my gf by my side and she’s amazing but I still feel like I’m not enough for her.
I’m sorry for rambling man but I got nothing but love for you. You’re making a massive impact on so many ppl.
since your girlfriend is stick into you it means she saw in you what u can’t see in yourself and for yourself and for her do the best to make both of you happy and live the life that u deserve I’m proud of you that ur 3 months clean from self harm and the fact that u quit drugs it’s crazy man ur doing amazing at that age I see a bright future for you and u don’t need to be like anyone but yourself isn’t it boring to be exactly like ur brother ? be who you are and be happy ur unique . I usually don’t write comments and never reply on ppl comments cuz my English isn’t the best but trust me I really felt the need to say what I just said I send you so much love and support u can do better in the future 🤍
@@ikhlasbenarbia3760 my girlfriend ended up cheating on me and threw stuff back in my face and lied constantly and stole from me 👍
Another banger video keep it up waiting for next week much love
after my breakup and suffering from my first heartbreak, im motivated more than ever to learn to love and value myself.
Keep doing your thing man. I just found your channel about 30 minutes ago and I’ve already watched about 3-4 of your videos. Your authenticity is what’s going to get you to 100k subs💯
Curti o teu papo mano. Eu tô precisando ouvir outras vozes falando essas coisas. Eu sempre me apeguei a esses pensamentos na minha jornada solitária. Eles me ajudaram a continuar aqui, se você me entende. Mas estou começando a acreditar que esses pensamentos as vezes é muito negativo. Já fui muito machucado por pessoas que deveriam estar comprindo seus papéis, não pedi pra estar aqui, mas resisti no passado e todas as outras vezes anteriores a mais recente.
Essas pessoas me passavam confiança, eram as ante penúltimas pessoas que ainda confiava e elas meteram uma facada nas minhas costas.
Então toda essa positividade rapidamente se transformou em frustração e raiva, completa raiva. E pra piorar eu deixei minha mente voltar no tempo, capítulos anteriores da minha vida que antes eu era ingênuo demais, jovem demais para entender extremamente o que estava acontecendo e isso me deixou numa busca por justiça. Ou de desfazer o episódio. Hoje sou maduro suficiente para saber que há necessidade de desenterrar o passado em busca de respostas porque já acabou a validade, já estamos em outras vidas, estamos no futuro. Mas mesmo assim essas cicatrizes estão comigo.
Eu tenho que sair desse ciclo, eu estou tentando, não posso mais ficar completamente contente e frutífero durante uma semana e simplesmente ser bombardeado por essas memórias no meio do dia.
Pela primeira vez na vida, na idade de 25 anos eu percebi que precisava de ajuda profissional e aproveitei a oportunidade que minha empresa dava para consulta com psicólogo. Ajudou, bastante, só confirmou a minha mente positiva e ajudou a enxergar, entender, as situações por um ângulo completamente diferente; "A culpa não era minha. Nao tinha porque eu abraçar a situação como minha responsabilidade."
Eu já vi uns outros seis vídeos seus e espero continuar na jornada contigo meu mano. Notei que me sinto bem melhor depois dessa "consulta" com vc. Eu estive nas sombras por muito tempo e estou lutando para manter essa tocha acesa até que o Sol brilhe sobre mim novamente.
I remember getting made fun of for liking anime. Now its super popular and mainstream. I also grew up constantly comparing myself to others and always finding "short comings" in myself. I only realized this stuff recently and it really influenced me and made me insecure in myself. I always try to project that I don't care what others think and that I don't care how I'm perceived but it's mostly a facade and I haven't really addressed the root cause of my insecurity. It got to the point where I destroyed my relationship. I wanted to be loved so much that I ended up with a savior complex. I couldn't love myself so I tried to save her from everything, so that she would love me, and I put so much pressure on myself to be perfect and do everything right that I destroyed myself. Realizing this now is hard and it hurts that I drove someone like that away, but I know that I have to love myself before I can love anyone else because it will just end up in codependency. Thank you for the video keep making great content.
Bro… ur a life saver literally, I’ve been looking for these answers all my life.
Needed this as a 14yr old
Genuinely hope this reaches a 14 y/o who needs it like I did
tbh this is the best theraphy ever i used to hate my asian eyes but now it became a trend to have those positive canthal eyes as shimon said you're my g im now inspired to help someone in my class who's being bullied for being fat but i realized how hard it is because i once was him
Im literally crying while listening to this, its been really hard this past few days since I started working and not excelling really well because I lack the confidence to do well on my own, to be firm with what I say, being indecisive and responsible to what I do. Upon hearing those words that I should love myself really hits hard. 2 months have past since I started working and I still have not improve because i lack the confidence to speak english well. The work where I am right now is what my dream job is and its hard for myself to accept that I am not excelling because of the mistakes I make 😔 encouraging words might help but I got to take action in able to love myself.
He’s going to reach 50k, when I saw his subs yesterday he was at 43k now he’s at 50k. That is literally amazing, we need more people like you that’s on the internet, especially now with so many things being fake, AI, and people looking for a quick way to get viral. This will last for years to come, people will come back to this when they need it the most, honestly I love this for you bro, I need this information to help me carve out the life that I want because sometimes the people around me can’t cause that’s just not they perspective. The one thing that helped me was when you said that your quote on quote “job” is your side hustle and not your career and that THIS is your career. I don’t have another side hustle yet at the moment but when I get one that’s what I’m going to consider it. I’ve always been hesitant about working for others because I don’t want to get sucked into that being all my life but thank you for helping me see that it won’t and giving me a new perspective. You deserve anything great coming to you. AND BRING MORE GUITAR VIDEOS 😂 I play myself 😎🎸🤘🏽🤩🤩🤩
Much love to you❤️comment of the year !
he hit 100k
The gym helps a lot with that 💯 this why I advise All the young bros to get in the gym. Great video Bruv
Yes but the days I’m depressed I don’t go to gym, it’s rough
Always close a door to open another, remember the first step to becoming loved by others is being loved by yourself. Once you have love in your own heart, you can give love to others.
man i found this dude not too long ago and i just can't stop watching him. I'm a little young but i feel myself getting more and more mature after learning from him. thank you for being so positive and spreading positivity man ❤🙏🏾
been watching this dude everyday and I've been feeling better every day really appreciate it
My past trauma resulted in this body dysmorphia condition and from last 8-9 days I was having a breakdown whenever I came back from gym. No matter how many compliments I have had received, I was just finding faults in myself. I am glad I found this video, maybe I could fall in love with myself again. Thank you ❤️
Just want to say thank you man I’ve been so stuck and lost ever since my last relapse either just viewing stuff, viewing for small amounts of time n touching myself or pmo to my imagination of stuff I’ve seen or girls I’ve been with. And watching your videos helps me realize I don’t want this and I know it’s deeper than just trying to feel better n I know a lot of the reasons why I do it but still struggle,but I just wanna say thank you because seeing your videos gave me the motivation I needed and helped me no give in today
Aye brother I just came across your RUclips channel 2 days ago and I got to say they’ve been helping a lot with life because it has its distractions and you help reinforce all things high vibrational. I been going through it a lot so thank you.
These videos has helped me gain more discipline and motivation on what I loved doing. Lately I was in the wrong path hanging out with the wrong people and started doing terrible things. These videos helped me regain who I was as a person and pushed me to do better things, thank you Shimon
Lordy!! Im 62 years old and I was raised by a narcissist who continually told me how worthless I was and that no one would ever love me. To this date I believe this. Thank you so much for your words. You are young but you have a very old soul. Thank you for caring! You saved me.
only person that i watched that actually connected with me, need this dawg i greatly apreciate you and im starting my journey today
I love the passion this guy puts into his videos.
this deadass touched my soul i started tearing up thank you for ts bro
I broke down crying after this video. This video was something I really needed at this moment in my life, what your doing is truly life changing. Thank you
Sacrifice yourself for your future self, this line motivates me so much
Hey Shimon, I have struggled with self love ever since I was a child I listen to your videos while I drive from the gym and back. You make me feel better and like I have someone I can look forward to hearing from. Keep up the great videos. 👍
I started to tear up when you said there was nothing wrong with my nose 🐽❤
There’s nothing wrong with it. I love your nose it’s beautiful 🤍
I almost teared up bro, you were fr speaking through my soul so thank you man.
These videos are so calming for me for some reason. Just feels like best friends seeing how each other are yk? Thanks for making these ever since i found you, you have been the person whos videos i look forward to the most.
As of right now, i am under stress and pressure from my sport, from worry and from doubt. But these videos really help. I want to learn to love myself, to build disiplin, to be grateful and more postive and these videos really help. The problem i have is i dont feel i do enough, i am enough but through these teachings, i hope to achieve want i want. Thanks Shimon!
You made me smile, laugh, cry all in the same video. You’re special. I can feel your energy through my phone screen. Keep doing what you’re doing.
By the way, sir, you are gorgeous :)
Appreciate you fr bro, you’re real special and you’re changing the way I view myself. Much love bro
Man. I hope you have the best life ever. What you’re doing is so powerful. I cried to myself in the shower wondering why i didn’t love me and why I thought all of these bad things about myself even when I tried to speak positively about myself bad thoughts just kept jabbing at me and I realized that that’s what I was told. That all the negative things I thought about myself where taught to me. I’m currently working on reversing that learning and connecting with myself on a deeper level but you just gave me all the validation and confirmation I needed. So thank you and I hope you have the BRIGHTEST days that god has to offer. ❤️🤟🏿
I’ve only been watching u for a lil bit and you’ve changed my whole mindset already I just love how u give me life advice and how to love myself a lot more
i have only watched two videos so far but i am so glad i found this man. i believe this is my sign to make meaningful changes to my life and work to improve in any way.
I j found the channel, im tunning in everyday. I was in a neg place for a bit but i finally feel like im evolving, its a great feeling and i wanna keep progressing but i know for that i need to keep learning. There finally a real genuine dude that j role modeling
You are a beautiful young man! I tell my husband that he’s beautiful and he doesn’t like that word. People don’t tell me that I’m pretty anymore but I know that life has taken its toll on me in the past 4 years, but I’m GOING TO turn it around ❤❤❤❤. Thank you so much my brother 🎉🎉🎉🎉
You really like the older brother that ive dont have. Your words really help me understand why things happen and how i should navigate myself and my mind through certain situations i find myself in, so i really appreciate what you do brother ❤
I really needed that wisdom, thank you friend.
I just found your channel and I just wanted to say that you're absolutely amazing and you're a blessing to everyone who knows you personally and virtually. I am going through a rough break up with a narcissist and your words are like a remedy for my soul. Thank you so much 🙏
After watching this video I feel alot more condifent in my self but I know I need to work on my confidence more as time goes on. The way you are helping me makes me feel that I can help others going through troubled times. Have a blessed year man.
As someone with OCD who constantly feels “wrong” and like a bad person, this really resonated. The candid style of your videos is so easy to watch and yet it hits so hard! Thank you ❤
You know I've been going through lots of videos about self-esteem and ways of improving that, and some of them were really good, but in their hardly structured sentences and suggestions I still couldn't see anything I would apply to my own life. So literally I got some good advice, but never used it.
And yesterday I bumped into your channel. What you do is try to tell those complicated ideas concerning self-love in a cozy and very gentle way, so I feel like you're my close friend while watching. I have to say that it takes a lot of charisma for a person to make his viewers feel like that, and you successfully manage to create this entourage of closeness and honesty.
That's something we all need Sometimes: just a bit of simplicity and even naivety (but in a good way), which make this journey much easier.
Thank you bro , keep doing what you do🙏
Love how all of the sudden Prince became my therapist. This video has the authenticity and the feeling of talking to a real homie, thank you for uploading, was really helpful
Hey Shimon, I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and I do have to say that they’ve helped me rewire certain emotional flaws within myself and I thank you and I pray God blesses you for efforts ❤
thank you bro, so much of what you said about not liking your own looks and features has resonated with me, almost like we went through the same stuff. we gon make it !!!
Its crazy how much impact youve had on people, especially teens and young men. I write down some of your advice in a journal to remind myself why i am doing this change. Its been great bud
Stumbled on your videos, and just want to say I appreciate your influence so much.
Woke up feeling down on myself bc of a lot of recent happenings, and your honesty and general vibe has got me feeling calm and just generally good about carrying on.
Much love
I watch your videos when i'm feeling down. You never fail to boost my mood, and i've been taking steps to improve myself recently. I needed someone to show me that life isn''t all that bad, so i thank you!
You have no idea how many tears, feelings, and thoughts I had. The way you made me feel so validated in the sense of someone else (you/possibly others) knows exactly the way I feel and struggle with. Feels good to know I'm not the only one who has felt such a rock bottom, but then to see someone who can achieve as much as you have after such a rock bottom Give Me High Hopes! Much Love Man Thank You, Genuinely♡
thank you for this video. idk why well i do know why but i can’t stop crying. being a teenage girl. i’ve completely forgotten about myself, i literally live off of other people and there acknowledgment too the point where idk how to be alone or to js be happy without people. i don’t think i’ve ever accepted anything about myself. just hearing you explain exactly how i felt and what i needed to fix it got me sobbing 💀
Thank you for your realness. Most people like to make videos similar to these and make it seem so easy to just learn to love yourself like it’s supposed to happen over night. You went deep into detail of how your insecurities later turned into strengths.
Im so glad i found your channel because your not too soft, you talk like u dont feel bad but its convincing tbh. I love that way of comforting and because of that, i felt like giving up today. But watching even five minutes of you just saved my live. Thank you so much.
Knowing what you been through and act the way you do!!!! Exactly what I need to do!! I will do it
you’re amazing man you make me feel at ease. I appreciate you dawg
I practically never comment on RUclips videos but this one deserved it. Climbing my way out of a very dark time after a series of real saddening diagnoses’s n this healed a huge part of my soul. I do deserve love. And I want to strive to give myself that. Thank you. Genuinely thank you from the bottom of my soul
A great way I found to help boost self esteem is picking up an instrument it can be any instrument but the satisfaction you feel after finally playing something you’ve been struggling with can be great for self esteem
I'm in Nairobi,Kenya. A country from Africa. This is day 2 without weed and your videos are playing a major role in that. Thankyou man. Love♥️
man i couldn’t finish the video cause i just kept crying because his advice was needed for along time thanks man
You almost made me tear up bro I'm glad I found this because this is actually what I needed. Acknowledging I have flaws is one thing but the constant feeling I'm not enough at almost anything is exhausting this is what I needed.
I’m grateful for coming across you, man. God bless!
I am so happy that I come across your video, specially this one. I’ve come to realise I am definitely living through other people. I’m a beautiful kind person, but now I know way I feel so miserable. And I have you to Thank for that.
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Your videos have really helped me with my mental health and stopping me from going into a downward spiral I wish I had found this channel sooner, because of you I can confidently look at myself in the mirror and myself that I’m ok.
I want to thank you Shimon , for sharing this meaningful content. It made me feel so good to the point to starting to cry because "I'm not alone in this and I can do something about it" I'm 19 yo and I'm grateful for having found your channel❤ many blessings to you💓
Shumon this is one of the best youtube channel I have ever came across, I am glad i met you man I been watching consecutiving for a few days now and I hope your next year goes well. Thank You My Friend
ian gone hold yall him sayin “i love you” completely had me crying ion think ive heard that from sb n have them meant it (lil rant moment) I love you man keep makin these vids ion regret coming into this channel its helping me since i deleted socials and am tryna work on myself
Thank you for your time, and reminding me why I love myself.
bro u real asf
Preciate this video man been dealing with low self esteem almost all my life you helped me visualize helping my younger self and learn from my rejections before. Had this failed thing with this girl recently and this video somehow actually helped me learn from it much love bro keep doing your thing
Yo shim thanks a lot man and i mean it fr you changed my life for an even better history, history that i'm making every day until my last breath so i send all the blessing from my energy and soul to yours and only the good one cuz you deserve it man thank you very much have an awsome day and night 😇🙏🏻
I'm 15 years old and when y said " it's ok that no one understands you" I really stop the video juts to say that, That's really som that I need to Internalizing, even though I have such conversations with myself in order to try to dissolve the feeling of not belonging, is sometimes difficult. Verbalization is also always more impactful than actual Internal speech, as words are being verbalized with their appropriate meanings, weights and feelings. In a shallow sense, it's okay if no one understands you, but on the other hand, how can I convince myself of this when no one understands me?
I don’t know what it is about him but man it’s like having an older brother with advice especially with what I’m going through thanks man 🙏
Learn who u r , why u feel the way u do , and u where your going
this is what I needed today. i've been going through a hard time and debating hard decisions but this is making me want to get up. shower. clean all the trash piling up in my room. give myself a better environment.
I really admire that dialogue you can have with yourself. most of the time when they say, talk to your younger self, I've no clue what to say.
Bro rlly sparked something in me man. This video God sent.
I’m listening to you and we both have the exact same mindset it’s like hearing myself talking to me, i love you bro keep going forward on your journey nd keep keeping it real
I absolutely love your videos, you bring the kind of energy that exudes kindness warmth and maturity. Much love bro
I just cant thank you enough for this video before this video i used to hate myself like i didnt want to go up from bed or even live like i just hated how i looked. I hated my eyes my face my weight and just about everything about myself and just thought why not just give up theres nothing in this world that make me fell like im loved or even appreciated. But you and this video just made me think like you have a life and you are loved by youre parents so why should you not love yourself en appreciate your self becuase you are you and that i how live is and that i how its going to be and you cant change how you are deep inside of you. I just cant thank you enough again for this video and making me actually think that there are still people in this world like my family and others that actually love me. Thanks
You are loved ❤️
You are so human, brother! Genuine, true and pure... Thanks for showing up... ❤
Felt like 5 hours deep convo and a 5 min one at the same time, like u said everything you needed to say in the time it needed to be said.
Thank you bro, this video is absolute liquid gold.
I know we don't actually know each other but I feel like you are a good friend and you speak such wise words and I am taking your advise from your videos thank you for just talking and making people that don't have many friends feel like they have someone that cares.
lost one of my best friends on my birthday 2 weeks ago. this is the only time i've cried after his death. the last part really hits home. thank you for making this video, Shimon