1. Energy 2. Confidence 4. Dignity 3. Be real 5. Dont be afraid to be yourself 6. Be a good listener 7. Reinforcing people (positive and necessary) 8. Have that drive (Fire and purpose in your life) 9. Communication skills (Listen more than your speak) 10. Body language and present 11. Get people keep on talking about the things they love 12. Make people interesting 13. Have self respect 14. Dont give time that you don’t have away 15. Health, Hygiene and appearance 16. Take care of yourself 17. Have style
its genuinely feels like an elder brother is having an honest talk with me regarding levelling up in every aspect of life.. i appreciate u and thank u for all ur efforts.. STAY BLESSED KING 👊
Yesterday you were at 33k subs now you are at 35.3k. For a RUclipsr who recently started making videos that's really impressive. I'm proud of you bro keep it up🤗
Man, I saw the title and thought this was gonna be a bunch of self serving BS like plenty of other videos on the same topic. I was proven quite wrong, this video is incredibly enlightening, well spoken, and easy to follow for anyone. Genuinely a gem for the self help side of youtube, and i feel wiser for having seen it. Appreciate you man 🙌🏽
man, as a girl I needed to hear this. it’s like getting advice from an older brother I never had. thanks for being you, and helping young teens like me. we need more real people like you. God bless🩷
Confidence is key 🔑 ……. That’s number one ! i pray every one watching this level up financially, physically, mentally and spiritually in 2024 ! Let's get to work 🙏🏿💰💪🏿
But how do you attain that confidence, when your insecurities concern inherent qualities and the only way I can imagine the insecurities going away, is positive experience in dating and sex... it's like you need to be confident to date, but you need to date to get said confidence... huh
@@Crimson50 Bro just think about what makes u not confident. If you can change it then change it, if you cant then you shouldnt worry about it. Lets say ur 5'3 shit tragic. If you go up to a girl, and she judges you on your height, she wasnt the one for u anyway and u can stop caring about her. Meanwhile if she doesnt then there u go.
I didn’t even need to hear you say anything to know your attractive, I can already sense it through your eyes that your a very confident person, and I definitely will take your words of advice for myself, it’s 2024 and have and still struggle with insecurities, but now today, new year, new me and imma be walking through those school doors with my new found confidence 😎
When you said people just feel comfortable telling you things, I relate to that so much. Literally so many of my coworkers tell me I can just talk to anybody because people for some reason just feel the need to open up to me... I'm trying to figure out how I can use that to make an impact.
I’ve recently been getting used to the new phase of my life outside of college, and it’s made me feel very uncertain and pessimistic about my choices and where I am. Things have been getting better, but it’s still a struggle. I recently discovered your channel, and I just want to say that I really like your style and your messages. It’s both reassuring and yet you also challenge us to be better. Thanks for the help, man
The most attractive thing is to focus solely on yourself. (Not in a rude way, just be goal focused) When someone sees how driven you are they will be drawn to you.
This video made me realize that I do a lot of these things already but I just don’t realize I’m doing them or give myself credit. Thank you for making me realize that.
He touched his nose only when he said on himself that he was attractive.He doesnt believe he is attractive at all.This is how you know that you can trust a person.
one thing I love in this video is the absence of music... it really helps me pay attention to you without the distraction. It feels like we're having a 1 on 1 conversation!
You got a subscription from me brodie! Congrats on your growth... I've been pornography free for 3 days and I've thought about relapsing but I'm focusing on semen retention ! 💯🙏🏼 2024 is the year of rebranding ourselves for real this time around
You actually help me and so many others so much, gonna keep it 100 I'm a youngin but I feel like you help me so much. I seen 200 people sub to you in the last hour. Been free from pornography for 2 days because of you man. Its my goal to keep this up for 2024. I know u prob not gon see this but you fr help me so much my guy. Keep up the vids 💙🙏💯
Puede que no veas esto por el tiempo del video o el idioma, pero estás cambiando mi forma de verme a mi mismo, estás cambiando mis días y agradezco eso de corazón…
Thank you for making these videos they are so amazing and they really make me feel different idk its just something about you that makes me want to keep watching your videos i just cant stop thank you for making these kinds of videos keep it up they are amazing 👍
This is so nice, the other day I was wondering why I was feeling so attracted to someone I met, when usually I go for more conventionally attractiv guys, its because he’s very evidently all of these things, very grnuinely all of this, this is so real, Thank you!
The butterflies analogy has the same logic used by Epictetus, on the benefits from focusing on the things you can actually control instead on the ones you can't. There's also an example that if you believe reincarnation is real, you will try to live your life as a virtuous person so you can be rewarded in a next life. If reincarnation does not exists, then you still recieved and enjoyed the benefits of living as a virtuous person.
Nice video man, went straight to the point and actually gave out an information. Thank you for taking your time with it so you can inspire other people!
I myself am not an addict or have really been one, however I watch your videos because you my friend are the best motivational speaker out there right now. I think its because we can all relate to you in some way shape or form. You have this way with telling us from the heart your experiences. You are human, you take pride in that. It shows, it is what sets you apart from everyone else, you are just like us and you want to help. I thank you Mr.
I think it's a real problem. I've seen this dude have a virtual girlfriend in high-school. All I could think was that this guy is too far gone in terms of dating real women
Yo I never comment on peoples videos, but you really hit deep on what you talk about and it’s helped me bro. I thank God the most that j was able to come across you.
It took me way too long to realize why none of my flannels looked good on me. They're always too long lol, as soon as I cut them a little shorter i was like, "damn i dont look like a high school boy anymore"
This vid was recommended to me awhile ago and I wish I watched it sooner! I really loved how you gave us examples on how to communicate more effectively and effortlessly. This really helped
Certainty Aura - genuine, purposeful Confidence - don't code switch, be true to u Reinforcing people - positively, be real with people Drive - show up and show out
Thank you so much, I never comment on videos but I wanted to tell you how much this helped me. It is exactly what I was looking for specifically the conversation skills it’s the one thing I need to work on most and this advice will help me with my social skills so much. Thank you
Man, this is just such a good video I didn't expect to come across this channel so suddenly, but i honestly love this. And yes, you do look very stylish, especially with that cool hair :)
That’s the thing I realize I want love to distract myself from myself “happiness dependent on a person isn’t happiness it’s just a distraction” and I sat down in the gym realized I hate myself because I’m fat I hate myself because I have no motivation I HATE myself, and now that tells me the only person I really want to love me is just myself
3:40 this is really true, and another thing, making people feel like they are valuable and they have a place in your world The other day I was driving with my friend in the passenger seat and I told him to play me his favorite songs on my bluetooth. He was super happy about that Another great way to do this is to actively listen. Show that you are aware of what someone is saying by taking what they say and expanding upon it, the improv rule of yes, and. I had terrible social skills growing up and due to Asperger’s a few things still feel forced for me like eye contact but you don’t have to be naturally talented at socialization to be good at it. You just have to build and practice that skill, and make people feel heard. The only problem I’ve noticed with this method is sometimes people aren’t used to their words being treated that way and they continue talking as though they were talking to a brick wall. But even if that happens it’s okay, since you’ve shown them some validation and they’ll take it subconsciously
@@AskShimon i appreciate your video 👍 Sometimes i keep to myself just to give myself some breathing space and being conscious about what im doing. But people misunderstood it as something else.
I've become a hater of all this "leveling up" and self improvement false positivity trends, but you're the exception G You're not selling any stupid course or being fake hype, and everything you said is true, but you forgot the most important thing: don't tryhard your way into shit, not even into any of all the points you said Being chill and carefree is where it's at, ppl realize when ur being fake and trying to "improve" way too much, I love being around ppl who don't go into social interactions with all these prestigmas, sometimes ignorance is bliss
i get so insecure about my skin because I have psoriasis and my hyperpigmentation makes the scars sooo dark. I've been called raisin legs before and that shit hurt!! It makes me feel soooo unattractive because like yeah everyone has acne and pimples but nobody has scrars all over their body so it makes me feel like an alien (lol don't laugh🥲)
NGL, i know this for years. Has it worked for me, not really. You are 100% right and I'm still trying to get there, but man, the frustration is insane. Getting confident is easy to say, but to become confident is hard as fck.
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1. Energy
2. Confidence
4. Dignity
3. Be real
5. Dont be afraid to be yourself
6. Be a good listener
7. Reinforcing people (positive and necessary)
8. Have that drive (Fire and purpose in your life)
9. Communication skills (Listen more than your speak)
10. Body language and present
11. Get people keep on talking about the things they love
12. Make people interesting
13. Have self respect
14. Dont give time that you don’t have away
15. Health, Hygiene and appearance
16. Take care of yourself
17. Have style
How can you be yourself if you dont like yourself lol 😂
@@pedrocanales-nh7meUnderstand what you don't like about yourself, and how to change it to a good thing about yourself
Bro you forgot the one and only thing that actually matters:
PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
I just wrote this for myself to remember under this video and now it got 40 likes 😭
@@pedrocanales-nh7me so you won`t success that`s it
its genuinely feels like an elder brother is having an honest talk with me regarding levelling up in every aspect of life.. i appreciate u and thank u for all ur efforts.. STAY BLESSED KING 👊
Likewise fam❤️
Yesterday you were at 33k subs now you are at 35.3k. For a RUclipsr who recently started making videos that's really impressive. I'm proud of you bro keep it up🤗
@@AskShimon You're your community's big brother
I swear on every video I see this comment
Nah, an elder brother would say "Hit the gym bro, get some muscle"
He is like what I wish I could talk to my dad like. He talks so confidently about these uncomfortable things and makes me happy he’s here
Man, I saw the title and thought this was gonna be a bunch of self serving BS like plenty of other videos on the same topic. I was proven quite wrong, this video is incredibly enlightening, well spoken, and easy to follow for anyone. Genuinely a gem for the self help side of youtube, and i feel wiser for having seen it. Appreciate you man 🙌🏽
I appreciate you ❤️
i love how you get straight to the talk and skip the whole "hey whats up youtube" bit, makes it feel more real
man, as a girl I needed to hear this. it’s like getting advice from an older brother I never had. thanks for being you, and helping young teens like me. we need more real people like you. God bless🩷
Confidence is key 🔑 ……. That’s number one ! i pray every one watching this level up financially, physically, mentally and spiritually in 2024 ! Let's get to work 🙏🏿💰💪🏿
🐐
But how do you attain that confidence, when your insecurities concern inherent qualities and the only way I can imagine the insecurities going away, is positive experience in dating and sex... it's like you need to be confident to date, but you need to date to get said confidence... huh
@@Crimson50 Bro just think about what makes u not confident. If you can change it then change it, if you cant then you shouldnt worry about it. Lets say ur 5'3 shit tragic. If you go up to a girl, and she judges you on your height, she wasnt the one for u anyway and u can stop caring about her. Meanwhile if she doesnt then there u go.
@@cardboardcoder9328I love the mindset of “if someone doesn’t like/care about you, then so fcking what, didn’t need em anyway”
God bless
your voice sounds like professional ASMR literally not only elevates and motivates but also helps me fall asleep, thank you!!
I didn’t even need to hear you say anything to know your attractive, I can already sense it through your eyes that your a very confident person, and I definitely will take your words of advice for myself, it’s 2024 and have and still struggle with insecurities, but now today, new year, new me and imma be walking through those school doors with my new found confidence 😎
Pp
Go get me 😂 ❤
13:16 i really like that annotation. Its simple yet true enough to make it impactful
i really needed this
Godbless
I always got you
You're so wise😭 your videos are giving me sm positive vibes and hope thank u sm
When you said people just feel comfortable telling you things, I relate to that so much. Literally so many of my coworkers tell me I can just talk to anybody because people for some reason just feel the need to open up to me... I'm trying to figure out how I can use that to make an impact.
Trust me... Just listening to others and trying to understand is impactful enough. Everyone wants to be heard and listened to.
He's not the hero we asked for, but he's the hero we all need. As a young highschooler i really need someone to talk with me.
When you made an exception for "people in difficult situations" in regards to health and hygiene I knew instantly that you were a real one.
I’ve recently been getting used to the new phase of my life outside of college, and it’s made me feel very uncertain and pessimistic about my choices and where I am. Things have been getting better, but it’s still a struggle. I recently discovered your channel, and I just want to say that I really like your style and your messages. It’s both reassuring and yet you also challenge us to be better. Thanks for the help, man
I'm in the same boat right now, it's a strange feeling but best of luck to the both of us 🎉🎉
The most attractive thing is to focus solely on yourself. (Not in a rude way, just be goal focused) When someone sees how driven you are they will be drawn to you.
You litterally feel comfortable to listen to , it's like a calming audio book . I wish my teachers spoke like you .
give this man a medal NOW
This video made me realize that I do a lot of these things already but I just don’t realize I’m doing them or give myself credit. Thank you for making me realize that.
Now your aware of them.
And its goona keep feeding the cycle
wdym it's gonna keep feeding the cycle?@@jianxiongRaven
I was looking for this comment :( I’m like damn I’m not so bad lol
Bro, you could not have uploaded this at a more perfect time. Thank you for always having our backs and forever dropping the best advice 🙏🔥
Divine timing
devine timing 🤣🤣🤣@@AskShimon
took the words outta my mouth
He touched his nose only when he said on himself that he was attractive.He doesnt believe he is attractive at all.This is how you know that you can trust a person.
so ? he’s giving advice for other to love themselves . he’s honestly helped me a lot , it’s okay to be insecure sometimes everyone has feelings ..
I could listen to you for hours also the main tip I need from this is self care and style
Coming soon! I got you
@@AskShimon3:09 its the voice.The vibration and the deepness of your voice is gonna give much more aura.💯
one thing I love in this video is the absence of music... it really helps me pay attention to you without the distraction. It feels like we're having a 1 on 1 conversation!
This mf dont miss...a single drop of authenticity wasnt missed that day
One of the truest brothers on the tube. Preach my brother! Thank you!
Bro you deserve more subscribers than Mr Beast, You're a lifesaver fr
omg, i have terrible attention span, but watching him, i didn't need to speed the video up bc of his calming voice!! great video, too!
You got a subscription from me brodie! Congrats on your growth... I've been pornography free for 3 days and I've thought about relapsing but I'm focusing on semen retention ! 💯🙏🏼 2024 is the year of rebranding ourselves for real this time around
You a goofy talbin bout 3 days ahh kfc popeyes family bucket eating boi 🫱
i love this guy sm
I love you fam
this guy is pretty cool he is giving out for what your life needs to be like.
You actually help me and so many others so much, gonna keep it 100 I'm a youngin but I feel like you help me so much. I seen 200 people sub to you in the last hour. Been free from pornography for 2 days because of you man. Its my goal to keep this up for 2024. I know u prob not gon see this but you fr help me so much my guy. Keep up the vids 💙🙏💯
bro i can’t stop watching your videos every time a video finishes i have to watch the next one ur the best u helped me alot bro keep it up
your videos are immaculate I needed to hear this thank you
I'm in my early teens and I really struggle with all this stuff so this vid helps way more than you could imagine, thanks!
go get em champ !
I could actually listen to this guy all day
he warned you
Puede que no veas esto por el tiempo del video o el idioma, pero estás cambiando mi forma de verme a mi mismo, estás cambiando mis días y agradezco eso de corazón…
40 seconds in and it's already the best advice I've gotten in years.
Thank you for making these videos they are so amazing and they really make me feel different idk its just something about you that makes me want to keep watching your videos i just cant stop thank you for making these kinds of videos keep it up they are amazing 👍
This is so nice, the other day I was wondering why I was feeling so attracted to someone I met, when usually I go for more conventionally attractiv guys, its because he’s very evidently all of these things, very grnuinely all of this, this is so real, Thank you!
The butterflies analogy has the same logic used by Epictetus, on the benefits from focusing on the things you can actually control instead on the ones you can't. There's also an example that if you believe reincarnation is real, you will try to live your life as a virtuous person so you can be rewarded in a next life. If reincarnation does not exists, then you still recieved and enjoyed the benefits of living as a virtuous person.
mate thank you so much, this is probably the most helpful video ive seen in my life, made me rethink alot.
Bro you're really changing me through your videos ❤.. Big ups to you..
Been watching like 3-4 videos from you and you make me wise about myself and what ive been missing outside of life, appreciate you bro 🙏
Nice video man, went straight to the point and actually gave out an information. Thank you for taking your time with it so you can inspire other people!
I myself am not an addict or have really been one, however I watch your videos because you my friend are the best motivational speaker out there right now. I think its because we can all relate to you in some way shape or form. You have this way with telling us from the heart your experiences. You are human, you take pride in that. It shows, it is what sets you apart from everyone else, you are just like us and you want to help. I thank you Mr.
i really truly love the way your speak.
Thanks to this video my jawline finally protuded, gained 6 inches of height and reversed my balding.
Your my new fave youtuber. Your videos are so helpful thank you for sharing such amazing content!
Make a video about how to overcome a fictional crush
Is this a real problem some people deal with or is it just a quirky trend? I don't mean any offense I'm just asking 😅
I think it's a real problem. I've seen this dude have a virtual girlfriend in high-school. All I could think was that this guy is too far gone in terms of dating real women
@@mymom9741 that's horrible, I feel sorry for him. But thanks for answering, god bless you !
@@PalestinianOrthodoxyeah man it's sad
@@PalestinianOrthodox not a trend its generally a problem that I have
Yes, you are attractive. Yes. YOU. Are👏
why is your voice so relaxing
Yo I never comment on peoples videos, but you really hit deep on what you talk about and it’s helped me bro. I thank God the most that j was able to come across you.
🧘🏾♂️❤️peace and love
I like how he gives subtitles in every video❤
It took me way too long to realize why none of my flannels looked good on me. They're always too long lol, as soon as I cut them a little shorter i was like, "damn i dont look like a high school boy anymore"
Genuinely love this dude. He’s helped me make seriously way better version of myself
My crush be like yo bro shut up ..😅😂
😅😅
@@AskShimon fr fr she too damn classy 😝
This vid was recommended to me awhile ago and I wish I watched it sooner! I really loved how you gave us examples on how to communicate more effectively and effortlessly. This really helped
Certainty
Aura - genuine, purposeful
Confidence - don't code switch, be true to u
Reinforcing people - positively, be real with people
Drive - show up and show out
Thank you so much, I never comment on videos but I wanted to tell you how much this helped me. It is exactly what I was looking for specifically the conversation skills it’s the one thing I need to work on most and this advice will help me with my social skills so much. Thank you
Man, this is just such a good video
I didn't expect to come across this channel so suddenly, but i honestly love this.
And yes, you do look very stylish, especially with that cool hair :)
You are actually changing my life man. Thank you so much, these videos are great❤
Like this bro you're helping me day by day just a tad bit more
❤️happy to help
@AskShimon I been trying to get away from fap and junk food, getting toward working on myself
That’s the thing I realize I want love to distract myself from myself “happiness dependent on a person isn’t happiness it’s just a distraction” and I sat down in the gym realized I hate myself because I’m fat I hate myself because I have no motivation I HATE myself, and now that tells me the only person I really want to love me is just myself
The greatest youtuber on the platform
i found out about you today and tbh your voice is so soothing ur helping me with my life also, keep up the good work and god bless you man
You’re such a grounding person, thank you
Man I really appreciate this videos in the videos of you related of effects of p*rn, you make to change that problem, thank you.
You have a very soothing voice ❤
3:40 this is really true, and another thing, making people feel like they are valuable and they have a place in your world
The other day I was driving with my friend in the passenger seat and I told him to play me his favorite songs on my bluetooth. He was super happy about that
Another great way to do this is to actively listen. Show that you are aware of what someone is saying by taking what they say and expanding upon it, the improv rule of yes, and.
I had terrible social skills growing up and due to Asperger’s a few things still feel forced for me like eye contact but you don’t have to be naturally talented at socialization to be good at it. You just have to build and practice that skill, and make people feel heard.
The only problem I’ve noticed with this method is sometimes people aren’t used to their words being treated that way and they continue talking as though they were talking to a brick wall. But even if that happens it’s okay, since you’ve shown them some validation and they’ll take it subconsciously
Oh my, you’re handsome!!
Damn its reallt true.
Alrdy like you as a person based on how you speak and address situations.
I appreciate that
@@AskShimon
i appreciate your video 👍
Sometimes i keep to myself just to give myself some breathing space and being conscious about what im doing.
But people misunderstood it as something else.
I love how you‘re making hard concepts so simple to understand. Keep it up 🩶
Glad you think so!
I appreciate the advice, brother. Thanks for putting this kind of content out for us.
Me and you are so similar and share the exact same opinions its crazy.
Bro i really really needed this...perfect time
Step 1: Be born attractive.
You’re welcome
you're so calming💓
You're like the big brother i never had. THANK YOU
Yo vids help bro fr. I gave up on tryna get a girl. Lost hope with this generation. Just tryna get to where I wanna be and be happy with myself
I've become a hater of all this "leveling up" and self improvement false positivity trends, but you're the exception G
You're not selling any stupid course or being fake hype, and everything you said is true, but you forgot the most important thing: don't tryhard your way into shit, not even into any of all the points you said
Being chill and carefree is where it's at, ppl realize when ur being fake and trying to "improve" way too much, I love being around ppl who don't go into social interactions with all these prestigmas, sometimes ignorance is bliss
Much love family❤️
This helped me. Thank you for your well spoken words Shimon.
This guy opend my mind up to so many things thank you.
Dude, saw the channel at 4000 subs. It blowing really quick. One day you will have millions.
i get so insecure about my skin because I have psoriasis and my hyperpigmentation makes the scars sooo dark. I've been called raisin legs before and that shit hurt!! It makes me feel soooo unattractive because like yeah everyone has acne and pimples but nobody has scrars all over their body so it makes me feel like an alien (lol don't laugh🥲)
NGL, i know this for years. Has it worked for me, not really. You are 100% right and I'm still trying to get there, but man, the frustration is insane. Getting confident is easy to say, but to become confident is hard as fck.
I wouldn't be surprised if you hit 1 mil by the end of next year! Love the vids and the consistency! Hope your doing well
i enjoy watching videos like this, really opens my mind about life and i feel so glad and happy i know so many more things about life.
damn, i felt positive energy from you throughout man, w
Love your toughts and manners. Greetings from Belarus!
Thank you so much!
Begin by being attractive.
So you have already started!
He seems like one of those people you wanna sit next to by a campfire on a late summer night
I like how you just got straight into it instead of making a 3 minute intro
what i’ve learned is just put self improvement before anything else, and what you want will come to you very naturally
5 seconds in, he better have some explaining to do
Watched 2 vids of you now, Youre doing a great job
you mad inspirational bro thank you
One of the best video i've seen this week. That was really helpful and i really enjoy your voice, quite relaxing. Keep posting bro! ❤❤
You are so real man.
confidence is quiet, insecurity is loud