This video made me realize how much I didn’t know about love and self-worth. A book I got from Synfla taught me the secrets to being treated like a queen and building real connections. Don’t wait to read it yourself, it's a gem. 🦋
“Grace of god?” My fellow human, that was all you! You are the root of all your pleasures in life, is that not true? Or do you think god is intentionally some sort of helper in your life or something? Wouldn’t it be unfair if he didn’t let you live life through all the good and bad regardless of your actions? The idea that someone is “controlling things” is contradictory! Also, I’m not criticizing your belief in god, I’m criticizing your belief in his actions, because what good is a life where everything is handed to you?
@@omegalite8788I see. God provides, nonetheless that relies on the decisions a person makes out of the God given free will. Like you being able to comment on a RUclips video.
just wanna get this out there so it helps me get over it- i had a messy break up with my girlfriend of about 1.5 years, and she was the best thing that ever happened to me. super talented at the flute, she was into art and she is really good at it. she has immaculate music taste and got me into most of the music i listen to. she was a huge part of me that even if i wrote a three part novel, it wouldnt even begin to encompass the beginning of her. i she wanted me out of her life and she blocked me on everything. the one thing she didnt block me on was surprisingly on roblox. i did a lot of thinking and i wrote something out as a last effort to get her back. i didnt expect her to respond, but she did. she didnt want to deal with any part of me and she wanted me to respect her wishes. i told her i understood and that i was sorry and that was the last she hears of me. the last thing she said to me was kind of crazy though. she said "please stay safe". she knows i go out driving and speeding in my car, but that last show of genuine care still doesnt make sense to me. that even though weve both wronged each other, on some level we still care. i responded with a simple "take care." before she blocked me. i am trying so hard to feel my feelings and understand them so i can get over this, i know things will get better but holy shit this is still hard. hopefully ill get to reread this comment sometime in the future in a better place. if you made it this far, thanks for reading part of my story. i feel a little better having wrote this out, and i plan to do better and focus on myself. posting this publicly as a comment will help me keep accountability.
I appreciate the story man. Seeing someone fall out of love happened to me as well, I had no signs at all and I wish this hadn't happened. Love is a commitment and sometimes it is better for the person to just start over. If they think it's best to get through life without you, it must have a reason. my girlfriend fell out of love with me quite early into the relationship. It's tough and it can make me question myself. But the fact we kept going, is something you should always be positive about. Caring this much about a person is beautiful. Just remember you can get yourself to love this deeply about anything, about your own dog, or even some type of symbol of happiness. All I'm tryna say is, you deserve to be loved and you should never stop trying to show your ways of affection. Keep it up man
@ messy relationship, underlying problems from the start, lack of communication on both our parts, i was clinging onto her too much, made her too much of a priority.
1 Corinthians 13:4 NIV [4] Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud But of course people want to be in their own will and want to ignore or want to forget God
Wtw Shimon, I just wanted to say thank you. You gave me the idea to start a youtube channel about self growth, spiritualality and all of the above. I appreciate it love💯
This came out at the perfect time for me. I have been struggling with my feelings about this guy I've been talking to. I really needed this. Thank you.
man this one thing you said really sticked out to me. Basically thinking about how many people speak highly about you and how many people actually care about you that you don't even think of. When I'm in love I can be so focused on certain forms of affection, that other sources of love become almost completely irrelevant.
You have opened my eyes to how many people could love you without you knowing. I recently just got in a argument with my father and felt absorbed with negativity. But now feel more focused on the love around me. Thank you so much. I will focus more on appreciating the love I miss and love I have for myself and others. 💗
Just lost my best friend, it really sinks one's heart to let go of a person you cared for because we become so attached to them, you shared laughs, smiles, disagreements but you saw a vision that she didn't, and you were willing to sacrifice things in order to make things even better but then you become strangers and your heart is torn, your mind won't stop thinking about that certain person, you wish to share the same moments one last time but for eternity but you just can't... and living life becomes a chore that you can't bother caring for, but you still fight because you know that there is still one person that needs you the most (yourself).
I really wish I understood that during my sophomore year to let go bc it can change your life in amazing ways... finally did end of my senior year and recovering but finding reasons to enjoy the now and move on
This makes me wanna cry. Idk I guess it just feels like what you don’t see isn’t there sometimes. Your wisdom is appreciated. I’m lucky to have 3 people I know I can call whenever something is going on. I met one of them online and I fell in love with them. Humanity is beautiful. It’s scary and beautiful.
Man this was deep and hit me hard definitely right now just got some tough love from my dad. And at first it didn't feel like love but I now see it comes from a place of love. Brought me to a place of exceptince of it. Also love the guitar 🎸 Riffs at the end.
Shimon I just wanted to say thanks you for posting these videos, I had a friend who would give me advice and we would share our experiences with eachother but he’s not really here anymore but your videos really impact me, thank you for posting these.
11:00 that’s exactly how i am about my cousin. I’m willing to drop everything i’m doing just to help him out even though i don’t see him as much anymore. But we were so close as kids that i still feel that connection.
Shimon literally makes me want to drop what I am doing and listen to what he is saying and it just helps me improve on the mistakes that I realized happened in the past and know what to do in the future (ps I think your most helpful video was the conversation starter)
I have spent years paralyzed by fear, but since discovering your channel I have begun to replace that fear with love. Now I feel like I am on my way to healing my wounds and giving myself the affection that I have always looked for in others. Thanks for helping us and congratulations on the deer btw ❤
It's a Wonderful Life is a great example of a movie where a character didnt think they were loved by others until he wished he was never born. Great video btw Shimon, very solid message.
27 and i never experienced mutual romantic love or been in a relationship. It always puts me in a negative mood so i choose not to believe in it anymore. Im done 🙅🏽♀️
I know how you feel but that’s the wrong approach. If you tell yourself that it won’t happen, then it truly won’t. Learn to love yourself and find out why you haven’t found a partner. There most certainly is a reason for it. Wish you all the best for 2025 and maybe this is the year that you will find true love🙏
I come from a small country within South Africa called Lesotho.. look it up.I relate to so much of your life but most importantly, LOVE is always the question.. no matter the upbringing. I see you, I find you wise and calm to listen to and learn from. S/O
HPNY Shimon, event you're just 21 you really impact and resonate with a lot of ppl older than you, including me (I'm 27). Wish you all success for your channel and inner peace for yourself.
I just wanna say Brodie I love your content and what u speak about from experience, I am glad that god has stumbled me into your videos, Thank you for all these vids man❤
All facts bro and I really love the introduction about how u explained love cause I don’t think anyone can explain that for real I tried my best to explain it to my partner but the more I try the more it seems to me like she don’t get it I mean she knows I love her but she really don’t know how much I love her,but to be real bro I don’t know either,I just know that I love her so much and that’s love for you it’s limitless when it’s true
I'm only 20 and I've experienced what love is for the first time in my life. The thing is that it never came from any of my family. And no matter how much I try to give it to them they never showed any form of gratification. And I know that makes me sound selfish. But at some point it starts to affect you
Thank you. I just went through a painful breakup two days ago, I confessed to him that I loved him. I feel like I'm dying, and just existing right now makes me feel numb to everything. He was my first. 💔
Where's the background music from? Keep this stuff up man, we need more people like you in this world, spreading truth & positivity. Have an amazing year brotha 🤙
I have been dating this girl for 4 years now, and we went through a period where we didn't talk for 10 months, and when we started talking again in December, it was great. Now we aren't talking again even though we are still together. advice please
I just wanna say happy new year to you bro and to everyone else here watching who have been helped immensely by this amazing guy, a lot of people tonight will be sharing all their accomplishments but if you are like me and you feel like you may have not accomplished much this year let me let you know that just by you getting through this year us a huge accomplishment and I'm so proud of you all Here's to a happy and healthy new year 2025 let's make it our best everyone, i love you all ❤
Hey brother I just want to come on here and say how helpful all of your videos have been, I always appreciate how chill the videos are it's always amazing vibes, thank you ❤
@ Yoow Shimon, I believe there’s an account pretending to be you, it just replied to an old comment of mine asking for a donation to a charity. If it is you my bad but if it isn’t maybe you could warn people about it.
I highly recommend everyone read Your Life Your Game by Keezano...It beautifully shows how connecting with God and building meaningful relationships can lead to spiritual growth and success in both your personal and professional life. This book truly changed my life...a must-read. God bless!🙏💟💕
Happy New Year yall hope we all work hard for our dreams and work to make ourselves better❤ Thanks you Shimon for all your thoughts. I’m grateful I came across your videos this past year
Happy New Year ❤ Where did you come from brother other than God? I literally ran across ur videos today around 11a.m. this is my 7th video now.Thank you & May God bless even more than you've already been blessed 😇 🙏 ❤
Happy new year yall havent gotten into the video yet but knowing this man its probably something ill be implementing in my life 😂,I appreciate you Shimon and Thank you for all the guidance and advice you give in these videos.Big 2025🎉🎉🎉
Goibg through heartbreak already this year. Me and my ex girlfriend stopped talking some days ago and it feels so shit. I hate im starting my new year like this but i have to get through it. Please keep me in your prayers. I need strength
This is kinda dumb but in an anime that I'm watching I really resonated with one of the characters specifically trying to reciprocate everything the world gives them, for every fruit they eat they plant a new seed, it's beautiful in my opinion
This video made me realize how much I didn’t know about love and self-worth. A book I got from Synfla taught me the secrets to being treated like a queen and building real connections. Don’t wait to read it yourself, it's a gem. 🦋
Happy new year y’all , I pray GOD protects whoever is reading this and always know that GOD loves you
you too ❤
God bless you brotha, Happy New Year🙏
Happy new year, bless you too 🙏🏾♥️
❤
Happy new years! & more life to all❤🎉🫂
Its always weird when it crosses my mind that there will be people that want to know you that never will
I can’t even grasp that, it makes me feel so many things
Think about the people you get excited to see. You’re that person to some people too.
Got a girlfriend from the grace of God this year. So incredibly blessed and am making a goal for the new year to be better to God and her.
You deserve it mate.
Girlfriend just cheated on me. Stay safe bro
“Grace of god?” My fellow human, that was all you! You are the root of all your pleasures in life, is that not true? Or do you think god is intentionally some sort of helper in your life or something? Wouldn’t it be unfair if he didn’t let you live life through all the good and bad regardless of your actions? The idea that someone is “controlling things” is contradictory! Also, I’m not criticizing your belief in god, I’m criticizing your belief in his actions, because what good is a life where everything is handed to you?
@@omegalite8788I see. God provides, nonetheless that relies on the decisions a person makes out of the God given free will. Like you being able to comment on a RUclips video.
Is she a keeper? Then DONT loose her. No divorce neither.
just wanna get this out there so it helps me get over it- i had a messy break up with my girlfriend of about 1.5 years, and she was the best thing that ever happened to me. super talented at the flute, she was into art and she is really good at it. she has immaculate music taste and got me into most of the music i listen to. she was a huge part of me that even if i wrote a three part novel, it wouldnt even begin to encompass the beginning of her. i she wanted me out of her life and she blocked me on everything. the one thing she didnt block me on was surprisingly on roblox. i did a lot of thinking and i wrote something out as a last effort to get her back. i didnt expect her to respond, but she did. she didnt want to deal with any part of me and she wanted me to respect her wishes. i told her i understood and that i was sorry and that was the last she hears of me. the last thing she said to me was kind of crazy though. she said "please stay safe". she knows i go out driving and speeding in my car, but that last show of genuine care still doesnt make sense to me. that even though weve both wronged each other, on some level we still care. i responded with a simple "take care." before she blocked me. i am trying so hard to feel my feelings and understand them so i can get over this, i know things will get better but holy shit this is still hard. hopefully ill get to reread this comment sometime in the future in a better place. if you made it this far, thanks for reading part of my story. i feel a little better having wrote this out, and i plan to do better and focus on myself. posting this publicly as a comment will help me keep accountability.
I hope your healing journey goes well brother, you not alone fr 💯
What did you do??
I appreciate the story man. Seeing someone fall out of love happened to me as well, I had no signs at all and I wish this hadn't happened. Love is a commitment and sometimes it is better for the person to just start over. If they think it's best to get through life without you, it must have a reason. my girlfriend fell out of love with me quite early into the relationship. It's tough and it can make me question myself. But the fact we kept going, is something you should always be positive about. Caring this much about a person is beautiful. Just remember you can get yourself to love this deeply about anything, about your own dog, or even some type of symbol of happiness. All I'm tryna say is, you deserve to be loved and you should never stop trying to show your ways of affection. Keep it up man
@ messy relationship, underlying problems from the start, lack of communication on both our parts, i was clinging onto her too much, made her too much of a priority.
Yea dude she has another guy she's with
1 Corinthians 13:4 NIV
[4] Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud
But of course people want to be in their own will and want to ignore or want to forget God
Go head & yapp on yapp on yapp on, thank you for this message. It definitely resonated 🤙🏾🔥
🙌
This guy is so wise and has so much knowledge for us to hear
Wtw Shimon, I just wanted to say thank you. You gave me the idea to start a youtube channel about self growth, spiritualality and all of the above. I appreciate it love💯
This came out at the perfect time for me. I have been struggling with my feelings about this guy I've been talking to. I really needed this. Thank you.
man this one thing you said really sticked out to me. Basically thinking about how many people speak highly about you and how many people actually care about you that you don't even think of. When I'm in love I can be so focused on certain forms of affection, that other sources of love become almost completely irrelevant.
Yeah, same predicament
You have opened my eyes to how many people could love you without you knowing. I recently just got in a argument with my father and felt absorbed with negativity. But now feel more focused on the love around me. Thank you so much. I will focus more on appreciating the love I miss and love I have for myself and others. 💗
Just lost my best friend, it really sinks one's heart to let go of a person you cared for because we become so attached to them, you shared laughs, smiles, disagreements but you saw a vision that she didn't, and you were willing to sacrifice things in order to make things even better but then you become strangers and your heart is torn, your mind won't stop thinking about that certain person, you wish to share the same moments one last time but for eternity but you just can't... and living life becomes a chore that you can't bother caring for, but you still fight because you know that there is still one person that needs you the most (yourself).
I really wish I understood that during my sophomore year to let go bc it can change your life in amazing ways... finally did end of my senior year and recovering but finding reasons to enjoy the now and move on
This makes me wanna cry. Idk I guess it just feels like what you don’t see isn’t there sometimes. Your wisdom is appreciated. I’m lucky to have 3 people I know I can call whenever something is going on. I met one of them online and I fell in love with them. Humanity is beautiful. It’s scary and beautiful.
you’re so wise, I always look forward to hearing your message and your thoughts!! I’m appreciative, we’re all growing to be better and healthier.
Man this was deep and hit me hard definitely right now just got some tough love from my dad. And at first it didn't feel like love but I now see it comes from a place of love. Brought me to a place of exceptince of it. Also love the guitar 🎸 Riffs at the end.
2025 just took out my dreads, having a brand new journey and nobody can tell you otherwise, have a blessed day everyone!!
all the best brother
Shimon I just wanted to say thanks you for posting these videos, I had a friend who would give me advice and we would share our experiences with eachother but he’s not really here anymore but your videos really impact me, thank you for posting these.
11:00 that’s exactly how i am about my cousin. I’m willing to drop everything i’m doing just to help him out even though i don’t see him as much anymore. But we were so close as kids that i still feel that connection.
Shimon literally makes me want to drop what I am doing and listen to what he is saying and it just helps me improve on the mistakes that I realized happened in the past and know what to do in the future (ps I think your most helpful video was the conversation starter)
I have spent years paralyzed by fear, but since discovering your channel I have begun to replace that fear with love.
Now I feel like I am on my way to healing my wounds and giving myself the affection that I have always looked for in others.
Thanks for helping us and congratulations on the deer btw ❤
It's a Wonderful Life is a great example of a movie where a character didnt think they were loved by others until he wished he was never born. Great video btw Shimon, very solid message.
27 and i never experienced mutual romantic love or been in a relationship. It always puts me in a negative mood so i choose not to believe in it anymore. Im done 🙅🏽♀️
I know how you feel but that’s the wrong approach. If you tell yourself that it won’t happen, then it truly won’t. Learn to love yourself and find out why you haven’t found a partner. There most certainly is a reason for it. Wish you all the best for 2025 and maybe this is the year that you will find true love🙏
God above everything
I come from a small country within South Africa called Lesotho.. look it up.I relate to so much of your life but most importantly, LOVE is always the question.. no matter the upbringing.
I see you, I find you wise and calm to listen to and learn from. S/O
HPNY Shimon, event you're just 21 you really impact and resonate with a lot of ppl older than you, including me (I'm 27). Wish you all success for your channel and inner peace for yourself.
This amazing young man reminds me of Prince, in terms of his intellect and his ability to express himself.
Bro I remember when you first was aiming for 60k-100k you came a long way bro , inspiring fasho
I just wanna say Brodie I love your content and what u speak about from experience, I am glad that god has stumbled me into your videos, Thank you for all these vids man❤
This one touched me deeply. They always do, but man.
❤️🧘🏾♂️
I always have to think of the saying „i like you because of.. and i love you despite of..“
All facts bro and I really love the introduction about how u explained love cause I don’t think anyone can explain that for real I tried my best to explain it to my partner but the more I try the more it seems to me like she don’t get it I mean she knows I love her but she really don’t know how much I love her,but to be real bro I don’t know either,I just know that I love her so much and that’s love for you it’s limitless when it’s true
I'm only 20 and I've experienced what love is for the first time in my life. The thing is that it never came from any of my family. And no matter how much I try to give it to them they never showed any form of gratification. And I know that makes me sound selfish. But at some point it starts to affect you
Thank you. I just went through a painful breakup two days ago, I confessed to him that I loved him. I feel like I'm dying, and just existing right now makes me feel numb to everything. He was my first. 💔
Hows it a break up if they didnt reciprocate your feelings in the first place
I’m sorry. Ik how it feels, someone broke up with me couple weeks ago and it still hurts bc she was the first. It gets better tho stay strong.
@@wahpah We were in a relationship for over a year.
@@not_a_snowman7294 Thank you. I'm sorry to hear that. Much love ❤️
Brooo I remember when you only had about 2k videos per vid, I'm proud of you man, qnd thank you for all these lessons
When Shimon drops, it’s a good day🙏
More people need to see this ❤
Where's the background music from?
Keep this stuff up man, we need more people like you in this world, spreading truth & positivity. Have an amazing year brotha 🤙
What you heard by Brent/sonder
I have been dating this girl for 4 years now, and we went through a period where we didn't talk for 10 months, and when we started talking again in December, it was great. Now we aren't talking again even though we are still together. advice please
Just within two months of following this dude, He's become my favourite RUclipsr.
this is literally an S tier video, this was amazing and so true
we need more people like u bro 🙏🙏🙏
You lucky to have that type of family homie.
I just wanna say happy new year to you bro and to everyone else here watching who have been helped immensely by this amazing guy, a lot of people tonight will be sharing all their accomplishments but if you are like me and you feel like you may have not accomplished much this year let me let you know that just by you getting through this year us a huge accomplishment and I'm so proud of you all
Here's to a happy and healthy new year 2025 let's make it our best everyone, i love you all ❤
Damn im 16 and this resonates with me so well almost started crying 🤧
Man, thank you. You’re like the big brother I never had👊
Hey brother I just want to come on here and say how helpful all of your videos have been, I always appreciate how chill the videos are it's always amazing vibes, thank you ❤
God bless you and may you find your love that’s fit right into you !
Keep the work you spitting wisdom’s and mature words!
have a good new years bro
I discovered your videos recently, I’m an hunter too. Can’t wait to see a video on what hunting means to you.
From 🇫🇷
Absolutely beautiful message
Thank you Shimon! Always great insight. You a special soul friend fr. Love!
Such a inspiration bro, appreciate you and the content you make. Much love from New Zealand ❤
Always greatful for your work man, you have no idea how much you've given to some of us.
My pleasure!
@ Yoow Shimon, I believe there’s an account pretending to be you, it just replied to an old comment of mine asking for a donation to a charity. If it is you my bad but if it isn’t maybe you could warn people about it.
@ that wasn’t me
speechless, im beypnd blessed
God bless you Shimon, your words always help me in dark and light times. We appreciate you! Happy new year 🙏
I am glad I found your channel.
I highly recommend everyone read Your Life Your Game by Keezano...It beautifully shows how connecting with God and building meaningful relationships can lead to spiritual growth and success in both your personal and professional life. This book truly changed my life...a must-read. God bless!🙏💟💕
amazing book l totally agree
absolutely beautiful....the message too
👏🏾👏🏾 happy new years nothing but love all 2025 🫡
Happy New Year yall hope we all work hard for our dreams and work to make ourselves better❤
Thanks you Shimon for all your thoughts. I’m grateful I came across your videos this past year
Happy New Year ❤ Where did you come from brother other than God? I literally ran across ur videos today around 11a.m. this is my 7th video now.Thank you & May God bless even more than you've already been blessed 😇 🙏 ❤
Perfect video as the first video of the year to make it a little bit better than the last one
Appreciate you bro, you never know how far a little love goes❤🤙
I love your background music (your videos as well)
Happy New Year Shimon I’m happy to see you make this realization you deserve nothing but love ❤
happy new year everyone
Thank you for this video.
I was waiting for your video .. thanks
Timing couldnt be any better😭🙏
u been healing my ass everyday since my breakup thanku shimon
I definitely need to listen to this
happy new year bro , this message was powerful really did open my eyes. thank you
Happy new year!
i feel the real truth is that love isn’t real
whenever shimon says " but i say all that to say..." you know it's about to hit fr
Happy new year God bless y’all
Happy new year yall havent gotten into the video yet but knowing this man its probably something ill be implementing in my life 😂,I appreciate you Shimon and Thank you for all the guidance and advice you give in these videos.Big 2025🎉🎉🎉
thank you shimon, happy new year ❤
Happy new year….2025🫶
Same to you!
Happy new year bro and everyone 🎉❤
And bro one of your video helped me a while back i want to say thank you from the buttum of my heart ❤️
Happy to have crossed your page today.
Thanks I needed this
Thank you Shimon
happy new year god loves you. keep up the good work my guy generational run otw.
Same to you!
Happy new year 🎉 young man.
Happy New Year Shimon. I love you bro. Thank you for sharing all your wisdom.
Happy new year!
Happy New Year and thank you for the video bro!
Happy new year!
Happy new year , Happy day, God bless you ❤
Happy new year!
Goibg through heartbreak already this year. Me and my ex girlfriend stopped talking some days ago and it feels so shit. I hate im starting my new year like this but i have to get through it. Please keep me in your prayers. I need strength
U got this!!!!
This is kinda dumb but in an anime that I'm watching I really resonated with one of the characters specifically trying to reciprocate everything the world gives them, for every fruit they eat they plant a new seed, it's beautiful in my opinion
It’s not dumb man, what’s the anime?
Hey nice music at the end you’re very talented! 💫
I appreciate you
Shimon you’re very wise for a 21 year old
So true
Happy new year 🎉
Yes,I always feel I don't love myself 😮😢
But am getting better
I pray your Uncle is well and ok now 🙏
Happy New Year My Man
Happy new year!
Welcome back always. Not sure why the captions are used but a bit distracting? Idk
Helps the non native speakers with English
I appreciate the captions but agree that the each word timed separately is distracting. much prefer the classic 'whole sentence at once'
I got you
Already gave up and I'm not changing my mind.
Happy New Year everyone 🫶🏾🎉🥂 I love you all 🙏🏾