one of the best comments our paediatrician made was that most babies hate getting swaddled but love being swaddled. That was 100% true for us, swaddling was one of the best things for my little one. But she hated the process, pretty much as intensely as she loved the result.
Currently 30 weeks pregnant with my first. Due to COVID, all the prenatal classes at my hospital were cancelled. Your videos are amazing! I’ve been taking notes and saving all tour videos for future reference! Thank you!!!
So glad I could help. Look into online classes too. My hospital has switched to zoom childbirth edu classes. If you still feel like you are missing some info, online classes can be really useful!
If it helps at all, my childbirth classes made me feel more confident but I didn't use any of the tips/tricks I learned in the class. I think your instincts just take over.
I’m so glad you mentioned it being normal to not have that instant attachment and love for your baby. I felt no connection when I was pregnant, tho I was very excited to finally be a mom. It took until her first yawn for me to actually feel a connection (not sure why). Now I’m absolutely obsessed with her since I’ve had a month of bonding so far 💚
Same here. Excited but feeling nothing for my first son. It took me 4 hours to feel the connection, after the labor I only saw him twice for a few seconds and then they brought him to me after 4 hours where I start to feel things. It's ok,at first we don't truly realise what is going on
Don't worry too much, I was in the same boat. I am 30 weeks now approx and, whilst I'm not excited, I do feel calm and accepting. Try not to worry or I think the stress will affect you getting 'into It. As my friend said, it's hard to be excited by something you don't know, so give yourself time :)
@@aniya113 I didn't start to get attached until I started feeling him really kick and roll and punch. Being able to feel his actual feet and stuff. But we wanted a baby. It seems like there is a point for most mothers, who aren't narcissists and stuff, where they'll connect. I still feel somewhat disconnected because he's right there, but he feels so far away.
I didn’t cry when either of my babies were born. A few hours after my 2nd birth the woman in the room next to mine delivered and I sobbed. For my deliveries I was so shocked that they were actually here all of a sudden that I didn’t have emotion.
You just went through so much....it's not a movie....we feel how we feel. We need to give ourselves freedom to feel whatever, whenever.... all the best!👍
Thank you for utilizing your platform to inform women about birth. I’ve found your videos extremely helpful, you put me at such ease. I’m 38 weeks as of tomorrow so I’m just waiting on her to decide what day will be her special day. Your videos are very informative and comforting, your positive energy and vibes are felt across the screen! Thank you so much! If only you could be my L&D nurse! Take care:)
Honestly if I knew I'd have a nurse like you, I might be more open to a hospital birth. You're wonderful and I'm so thankful you exist! Your laboring mothers are very blessed to have you as a care provider!
I’m literally being induced in TWO DAYS and due to COVID I haven’t been able to attend any parenting/pre labor classes I have been BINGE watching your videos 😭❤️
I tried swaddling with regular blankets for my newborn. He hates his arms swaddled and always manages to wiggle out of the even tightest wrap. Those halo sleep sacs saved my life. I can leave his arms out so he is more comfortable and I know he won’t wiggle out of the velcro maintaining a safe sleep environment in his basset.
I catch myself swaying when I’m not even holding baby. I’ve noticed myself doing it at the grocery store 😂 So yea the natural rhythm of swaying is real lol
My mom is eight months pregnant now, I’m literally so excited that I’m watching this video even tho I’m not pregnant lol (and the fact that mom already has four kids so she probably knows a lot lol) Thank you so much for making this tho 🥺 Really helpful and easy to understand, (also you’re really calming, in a way, and idk I just appreciate it :( 💘 )
Could you possibly make a video on your story becoming a labor delivery nurse? Where you went to school, requirements and what you had to do after you finished nursing school? It would make me so happy, as I aspire to be like you! Thanks love. 🖤
I am due this month, thank you for posting this! You helped me realize how much the baby has to get used to being a human on top of myself getting used to motherhood.
Your nurse is what can make or break your hospital experience, what your nurse is like makes a bigger difference then who your doctor is (baring complications you almost never even see your doctor until it is time to push) six hospital births and I have had good and bad nurses (clueless or indifferent may be a better word then bad) and your labor and delivery nurse, postpartum nurse make such a big difference. You sound like one of the best, knowledgeable and compassionate.
My youngest child is 14 years old and it still hurts my heart that he had to go straight to the NICU immediately after birth so I missed out on skin to skin and the first big breastfeeding session. I was very nervous that he wasn't going to breastfeed well since we were several days delayed (and this was my 1st attempt at nursing a baby. I bottle fed my older child). But to my surprise, we had no issues. I ended up breastfeeding him until he was 2 years old then he weaned himself. 😪 I still had a ton of breast milk in the freezer so he drank it out of a cup until it was gone. I wouldn't trade that experience for anything in the world!! 💖
I am so happy that you guys had a such a long and beautiful breastfeeding relationship. It really is the most special relationship I have personally ever had. 💗
I'm 32 weeks and just found your channel. I feel like I'm not doing that much to be more knowledgable about giving birth or taking care of new born babies just because I don't really like reading long articles or watching long videos. But somehow your videos really caught my attention and I love how you are so informative and easy to understand. Thank you so much!! I subscribed right away!
My son was exhausted right after my c section. He slept for 6 hours then was ready to eat. Drove the nurses nuts! Definitely showed a glimpse of the future of what his strong willed personality.😂
Due in two weeks with my second. I can honestly say you are so right about that overwhelming love feeling not being there in the beginning for some. Everyone in the room was overjoyed and crying when I gave birth to my first except me. I was on what I call autopilot.she was born and felt like ok, my responsibility is officially here. The butterflies and warm fuzzy feeling didn’t come until months later for me.
I am currently pregnant with baby #5. Your videos are a great refresher and are getting me so excited for what an empowering and special time this is. Thank you for your informative videos. You do a great job of explaining and normalizing what really happens during labor and recovery.
I wish you had this platform 17 yrs ago when I was thinking about how my labor & birth would. Thank you for providing information to new moms & families
Of course I loved my son when he was first born, but I didn't have that overwhelming fierce love that she talked about. Now he's two months old and my god, his smile makes me the happiest mom in the world. It just takes time.
I'm a first time-soon to be mum, I'm only 9 weeks but I will be more than prepared by the time I'm due thanks to your videos! I've already learnt SO much.
I'm not pregnant yet.. I'm hoping for the positive test to come soon.. I've been watching every baby care and preparation video awaiting for it to happen. I have loads of clothes from my partners childhood (and his sisters) and I've brought a few bits that are too cute to pass. I love watching videos from professionals because I know it's right and a lot stuff on the internet is wrong. I love your videos because it's helping me to write a little how to guide for me when I'm in my panic postnatal tiredness stage (and for baby daddy in general). I can't wait to welcome a baby of my own. It'll give me love again in this world apart from my partner. I'll keep you posted on the if the positive comes.
I was also prepping before birth. It's never too early! Always so much to learn =) Wishing you the best, one day at a time, in God's time (or the universe, whichever you believe in :))
I have to say, as an expecting mom that last thing you mentioned is so nice to hear. I already love my baby but mostly in my first trimester i was terrified of not being able to connect with my baby, though as time as gone on and my anxiety has subsided i feel 100% better. it's still nice in case i personally am overwhelmed to know that this is normal for when baby comes! I love watching your videos especially as a first time mom and not knowing a whole lot about babies
I find out my due date tomorrow but I think I'm about 7 mo. So far! Youve really helped ease my fears of giving birth especially in a hospital and doing so alone. Thank you SO MUCH!! ❤
My mom had me so fast my dad thought i wasn’t his. The nurse tried explaining it was just severe bruising from being born in less than an hour. Which is odd cause he is also a dark skinned mexican so its like why wouldn’t you expect a baby to be darker skinned
I was sort of the opposite and my dad kinda had same reaction. He's from Bangladesh so has the stereotypical "Indian" skin tone, my mum is white and when I was born, I was white, well pink I guess but you know what I mean lol I didn't start getting my skin tone I have now until a few days/weeks. My mum took one look at me and said "she's yours, I swear!!" Before he had the chance to say anything lol Once my eyes took their colour, there was no doubts as I'm his spitting image :(
Nurse Zabe you have been such a help through my pregnancy and now to help with my newborn( it’s been almost a decade since my last baby!) your information about the sneezing gave me peace of mind.
I really needed this video. I'm a first time mom and my baby boy is 10 days old right now. There have been a couple of times so far that I've just felt overwhelmed. I've been watching your videos to try to prepare for his arrival but now it seems nothing really prepares you .
I love you ♥️for the last month every day I’m falling asleep with you even wake up in the night ( almost every night...) and listening to your voice explaining things I am 9 month now and waiting every day, it is wonderful to listen to you I wish my nurse at the hospital will be nice and sweet as you are🥰😍❤️
I'm pregnant with my first baby. I just found your channel last night and I am sooo thankful for your videos. They have been beyond informative and have really helped to set my mind at ease. Thank you so much!💕
I just had my baby last Sunday (January 10th, 2021) and I’ve been so overwhelmed. I feel super unprepared because all prenatal classes were canceled due to Covid. This whole week has been super scary and I’ve had so many questions. Thank you for answering some of my questions.!
My wife & I are having twins in November & this helped alot. I've been watching tons of youtube videos almost every night & staying up later then I wanted to most nights. I hope my L&D - PP nurses are as good as you.
Im only 11 weeks now but already freaking out. My pregnancy was planned but I feel like there is sooo much stuff to know and what if I forget something? You know
I gave birth a couple days ago to #5 and had a natural birth despite needing pitocin. I didn't make a sound and my nurse was impressed how good I did. I love your videos so much, they helped me with my experience.
I'm 35 weeks with baby #2 and it's been so long since I've had a newborn i forgot some of this. It was a great refresher for me 💖 thanks nurse zabe! 🙌🏻
Your videos have been helping me soooo much since I first found out I was pregnant. This will be my first child, i’m 34 weeks and you’ve taught me sooo much as well as ease most of my concerns as a new mommy. Thank you so much!! ❤️
Wishing you the best of luck for a healthy and safe delivery! I’ll be getting induced with baby #1 tomorrow, and i found this video has perfect timing haha
Thank you for your last message!!! I’m 28weeks and one of the people who never planned or wanted children, but here we are... My husband is super excited, while I really can’t get too many warm feelings (especially after 22 weeks of hyperemesis gravidarum). I really needed someone to say that! Thank you again!
Aww Ms.Zabe,thanks for putting up this educations about labor and delivery! I am a maternal newborn nurse and I just love how you explain things to the viewers. 💗 love love!
My boy also had a burst capillary in his left eye from the intensity of birth. At first I was scared that he scratched his eye. He later got pretty bad acne. It didn't bother him, and cleared up after about a month with good moisturizing. My nurses also helped me express colostrum into a spoon to help feed him while we were struggling with latching.
I didn’t get the vbac I was hoping for, unfortunately. But I did get the most beautiful baby girl! And I didn’t puke and pass out during the procedure this time 👍🏻 so I got to see her very soon afterwards and spend some moments with her. It was a traumatic day but we are healthy, together, and recovering ❤️
Thank you so much for this video I am babysitting my nephew Because her mom was diagnosed with Covid 19 and she's still in the hospital recovering, I have no preparation and not enough knowledge on taking care of a newborn baby this video helps a lot. 👍👍👍
Thank you for telling new mommas it's ok to not immediately feel the overwhelming love that is often described. Sometimes, you have to get to know that little person face to face and fall in love with them. It's not always easy and hormones do not help sometimes.
I had my first little one May 29th and your videos helped so much. I told my team about you and my motto was ONE LESS after every contraction. Thank you so much!
I think that last point is so important, thank you! I felt like I was in shock after giving birth and didn't feel that instant connection. I was like, what planet have I landed on? I feel like I've been run over by a truck and this baby won't stop screaming and I'm supposed to be head over heels? Lol. Your description of woah this is a lot is accurate. I felt very guilty until I read how common this is. And the love comes! Just takes time and adjustment to this new phase of life. ♥️
Good to know this so I'm prepared. hehe I guess if we could love our husbands/partners despite their shortcomings, we could love a sweet innocent baby for sure! :p
This channel has been VERY informative throughout my pregnancy. I found out I was pregnant when I was 17(2 months before I turned 18) and I’ve definitely needed a lot of help lol I’m 37wks2D now and I’ve been so nervous as I could go into labor at any time now(already dilated to a 3 and thinning out).
I really appreciated how you talked about how you feel right after delivery! I had complications during my emergency c section and was so out of it and in shock from seeing her for the first time!🥰
I absolutely love your videos and how honest you are! I'm currently 31 weeks pregnant with my first baby and your advice has been very helpful and calming. I'm in transition of switching obgyn because the one I was seeing left me feeling so depressed. He pretty much fat shamed me for how much weight I've gained during my pregnancy. He spewed a lot of worst case scenarios at me including an unavailable C-section, me bleeding out, having my "vagina fall out later", and even having a brain dead baby. He told me I was a failure in my pregnancy which really just made me shut down. He reassured me I wouldn't be able to lose weight between now and my due date. His words just keep replaying in my head but I'm trying to be optimistic. I just hope my next obgyn is as helpful and informative as you are.
I have no idea how much these videos help me. I'm a 21 year old first time mother (Due Oct 10th)and I'm trying so hard to prepare as much as possible. Thank you so much for the videos ❤️
Thank you so much for all your videos. You have no idea how much you have helped me get through my pregnancy and the first months of caring for my first born.
You are just so, so wonderful. I don’t have any babies yet, but we are probably going to try within the next year. The longer we wait, the more daunting pregnancy, L&D, and motherhood seem to become. You provide so much comfort and reassurance heading into that phase of my life. Thank you!
As a PP nurse I LOVE this video, you answered the questions I get every single shift. I find that a lot of parents did research on babies but not the first 24 hours and that really throws them for a loop.
Thank you for this video. I just had my baby 18 days ago and I watched your videos during my pregnancy. This "fourth trimester" is absolutely a different kind of challenge. Your message at the end was helpful and reassuring. Thank you for all the information you've shared.
Just had my first baby in June and he had jaundice. Wish I had watched this before labor, I had no idea what it was and was a bit overwhelmed by the whole process. We did the light therapy for a couple of days and had to supplement with formula until my milk was fully in. That was the hardest part for me, caused all kinds of insecurity and fear (mostly due to lack of knowledge on the subject). Anyways, he’s a month old now and exclusively breastfeeding so if any other mommas out there are reading this know you’ll overcome it 💗
You saying normal gives me so much comfort!! My son will be here January 3rd 2021 💙 I pray God keeps us during birth and after birth! I pray and think about my baby daily.. for a first time mom I know that’s NORMAL! 😆😊..thank you nurse!
28 weeks pregnant and I LOVE your videos. They have helped so much, especially with Covid reducing resources and cancelling appointments here and there.
I was a new mom to twins. One of my girls had bad jaundice so she had to go through phototherapy. My other twin had to be in the nicu for quite awhile. You are such a supportive nurse and I appreciate all the information. I wish I had as amazing nurses as you are.
My mini one is 11 days old today and was almost 3 weeks early. When you said sometime they come shooting out I felt that. The doctors/nurses barely made it into the delivery room on time once I felt like pushing lol.
I needed this, thank you so much! I just had my first child two months ago and I hear everyone speak of this magical moment when they place the baby on you, but boy that was not my experience. Of coarse I love him SO MUCH but I didn’t have that initial feeling and I have definitely felt guilty about it. I’m so thankful for your videos because they have helped me a ton!!! You rock!!!🥰👍🏼
So normal to not have that magical moment, but it definitely makes you wonder if something has gone wrong. Congrats on the birth of you sweet little one! 💗
I’m 27 weeks today and have come across your videos by chance. You have such a sweet and kind nature, you’re super informative! Please keep them coming 😍
My 5th baby is a year old now and I still find myself watching videos like this. I have to agree with the commenters that said if all hospital LD nurses were like you I’d feel better about hospital birth. All of my experiences have been different but I always felt railroaded into what the nurse or doctor wanted even though at the beginning they always ask what you want when it comes down to it they have all shut down my requests and forced me to do things at their comfort level. From position during labor and delivery to delayed cord clamping to baby’s first bath over 5 deliveries I have always left feeling like I wasn’t heard.
15:02 you can clearly see that your thumb and palm of the hand is pressing on baby’s soft spot. Lots of people with no experience can hurt their babies if they don’t pay attention what they are doing. Thank you for sharing this video
My daughter had clear discharge on second day, first girl, was stressing out, but luckily to find out its completely normal. Scary to deal with so much new
Hello! I am not even a mom and not pregnant but I really enjoy videos like this, they are very informative and I think nurses are great, thank you for educating us :)
one of the best comments our paediatrician made was that most babies hate getting swaddled but love being swaddled. That was 100% true for us, swaddling was one of the best things for my little one. But she hated the process, pretty much as intensely as she loved the result.
I love this!!
I'm pretty sure this is why some parents think their baby doesn't like being swaddled.
I want to remember this
Thank everyone I
Instablaster.
Currently 30 weeks pregnant with my first. Due to COVID, all the prenatal classes at my hospital were cancelled. Your videos are amazing! I’ve been taking notes and saving all tour videos for future reference! Thank you!!!
So glad I could help. Look into online classes too. My hospital has switched to zoom childbirth edu classes. If you still feel like you are missing some info, online classes can be really useful!
If it helps at all, my childbirth classes made me feel more confident but I didn't use any of the tips/tricks I learned in the class.
I think your instincts just take over.
Same here! 32 weeks!
I only hope all L&D and PP nurses are as sweet as you! Also, you should collaborate with Mama Dr Jones!
They are! 💗 And that would be super fun!!
I agree!
Oh yea that would be great
Yessssss MDJ is great that would be an epic video.
OMG yes please!!! I love mdj
Unrelated but she reminds me of Drew Barrymore so much!
I kept thinking the same thing!
Yesss
Yes I was trying to figure out why she seemed so familiar
Okay nooo but a mix between Sarah Paulson & Drew Barrymore
Omg she does
"She's super petite, but she's VERY angry" I know a couple people who go by that description 😂😂😂 including my daughter 😂
New moms out there! You are not alone. Being a first time mom comes with some anxieties! Don't be hard in yourself you got this!!
I’m so glad you mentioned it being normal to not have that instant attachment and love for your baby. I felt no connection when I was pregnant, tho I was very excited to finally be a mom. It took until her first yawn for me to actually feel a connection (not sure why). Now I’m absolutely obsessed with her since I’ve had a month of bonding so far 💚
That yawn is adorable.
Same here. Excited but feeling nothing for my first son. It took me 4 hours to feel the connection, after the labor I only saw him twice for a few seconds and then they brought him to me after 4 hours where I start to feel things. It's ok,at first we don't truly realise what is going on
This part of my fear only I did not want a kids. I’m 20 weeks and I don’t feel anything yet.
Don't worry too much, I was in the same boat. I am 30 weeks now approx and, whilst I'm not excited, I do feel calm and accepting. Try not to worry or I think the stress will affect you getting 'into It. As my friend said, it's hard to be excited by something you don't know, so give yourself time :)
@@aniya113 I didn't start to get attached until I started feeling him really kick and roll and punch. Being able to feel his actual feet and stuff. But we wanted a baby. It seems like there is a point for most mothers, who aren't narcissists and stuff, where they'll connect. I still feel somewhat disconnected because he's right there, but he feels so far away.
I didn’t cry when either of my babies were born. A few hours after my 2nd birth the woman in the room next to mine delivered and I sobbed. For my deliveries I was so shocked that they were actually here all of a sudden that I didn’t have emotion.
I know the feeling.
Same!! I cried hours later holding my baby because I was so in love lol
Omg yes I didn’t cry either! My husband was bawling his eyes out lol and I think I was just in a state of shock.
You just went through so much....it's not a movie....we feel how we feel. We need to give ourselves freedom to feel whatever, whenever.... all the best!👍
Thank you for utilizing your platform to inform women about birth. I’ve found your videos extremely helpful, you put me at such ease. I’m 38 weeks as of tomorrow so I’m just waiting on her to decide what day will be her special day. Your videos are very informative and comforting, your positive energy and vibes are felt across the screen! Thank you so much! If only you could be my L&D nurse! Take care:)
Thankful to have a platform to help women feel educated and empowered in their births! Wishing you a safe and supported birth! 💗
Wow I’m 38 weeks tomorrow as well !! This just made me so excited lol. Congrats and I hope you have an amazing Labor and delivery
I second this comment!!
Hey! I'm 38 week today😍
Hey! We have the same due date!! 🥰🥰
I wish you could be my labor and delivery nurse!
I’m sure you nurse will be fabulous and perfect for you and your family! 💗
i second this!!!
I was thinking the exact same thing!!!❤️
The way you talk is so uplifting and calming at the same time.
Honestly if I knew I'd have a nurse like you, I might be more open to a hospital birth. You're wonderful and I'm so thankful you exist! Your laboring mothers are very blessed to have you as a care provider!
Also I'm 16 weeks pregnant and so freaking excited! 😁😁😁
There are many wonderful labor nurses around the US and the world! But thank you for the sweet compliment! 🤗
I’m literally being induced in TWO DAYS and due to COVID I haven’t been able to attend any parenting/pre labor classes I have been BINGE watching your videos 😭❤️
Hope everything went well x
I tried swaddling with regular blankets for my newborn. He hates his arms swaddled and always manages to wiggle out of the even tightest wrap. Those halo sleep sacs saved my life. I can leave his arms out so he is more comfortable and I know he won’t wiggle out of the velcro maintaining a safe sleep environment in his basset.
I agree. Halo sleep sacks have worked for all 3 of my babies. arms in or out, I could accommodate both
Yeah, I’m a good swaddler and I rocked the halo sleep sacks quite a lot!
There's also those sleep sac pods. Where the baby can have their arms up instead of kept down.
I catch myself swaying when I’m not even holding baby. I’ve noticed myself doing it at the grocery store 😂
So yea the natural rhythm of swaying is real lol
same here. i was swaying side to side while waiting in line at the store. i can’t stand still anymore ever since i had my baby 6 weeks ago 😂
HAHAH! this made me smile 😆 Will take note when my baby arrives ahahhaha
Maria Salazar guess we know how to spot which moms have babies when we’re out somewhere. Just look for the ladies swaying while waiting in line 😂
dawn for life in Switzerland congratulations 🙂 when are you due?
I start swaying in pregnancy 😆
My mom is eight months pregnant now, I’m literally so excited that I’m watching this video even tho I’m not pregnant lol (and the fact that mom already has four kids so she probably knows a lot lol)
Thank you so much for making this tho 🥺
Really helpful and easy to understand, (also you’re really calming, in a way, and idk I just appreciate it :( 💘 )
I wish you could be my nurse, you've told me more insight than my OB
Could you possibly make a video on your story becoming a labor delivery nurse? Where you went to school, requirements and what you had to do after you finished nursing school? It would make me so happy, as I aspire to be like you! Thanks love. 🖤
I am due this month, thank you for posting this! You helped me realize how much the baby has to get used to being a human on top of myself getting used to motherhood.
Yes, that 4th trimester is a beautiful and challenging time for moms and babies. Take things slow and give you both plenty of grace. 💗
You should do one on 6-12 month and so on with children’s development
Interesting idea, not my area of expertise, but maybe I could consult a fellow nurse!
Your nurse is what can make or break your hospital experience, what your nurse is like makes a bigger difference then who your doctor is (baring complications you almost never even see your doctor until it is time to push) six hospital births and I have had good and bad nurses (clueless or indifferent may be a better word then bad) and your labor and delivery nurse, postpartum nurse make such a big difference. You sound like one of the best, knowledgeable and compassionate.
Just gave birth may 30 with my first baby and pushed her less then 10 minutes I was shocked !
Great work and congrats on your sweet little one!
My youngest child is 14 years old and it still hurts my heart that he had to go straight to the NICU immediately after birth so I missed out on skin to skin and the first big breastfeeding session. I was very nervous that he wasn't going to breastfeed well since we were several days delayed (and this was my 1st attempt at nursing a baby. I bottle fed my older child). But to my surprise, we had no issues. I ended up breastfeeding him until he was 2 years old then he weaned himself. 😪 I still had a ton of breast milk in the freezer so he drank it out of a cup until it was gone. I wouldn't trade that experience for anything in the world!! 💖
I am so happy that you guys had a such a long and beautiful breastfeeding relationship. It really is the most special relationship I have personally ever had. 💗
I'm 32 weeks and just found your channel. I feel like I'm not doing that much to be more knowledgable about giving birth or taking care of new born babies just because I don't really like reading long articles or watching long videos. But somehow your videos really caught my attention and I love how you are so informative and easy to understand. Thank you so much!! I subscribed right away!
Thank you! Glad my videos are able to answer some questions for you! Sorry I talk so much 😂🤦🏼♀️
My son was exhausted right after my c section. He slept for 6 hours then was ready to eat. Drove the nurses nuts! Definitely showed a glimpse of the future of what his strong willed personality.😂
Great reminders even though this is my 2nd baby! You should do one about adjusting to having multiple kids/helping big sibs adjust :)
I’ve got one!
10 Things Your Labor Nurse Wants You to Know about Baby #2+
Baby #3 or will it apply?
I seriously love this lady, she is an angel❤
Due in two weeks with my second. I can honestly say you are so right about that overwhelming love feeling not being there in the beginning for some. Everyone in the room was overjoyed and crying when I gave birth to my first except me. I was on what I call autopilot.she was born and felt like ok, my responsibility is officially here. The butterflies and warm fuzzy feeling didn’t come until months later for me.
Totally normal. Birth is so overwhelming, it can take a while to meet this beautiful little person you created. 💗
I had my baby yesterday perfect timing 🤩
Dang, that is! Congrats on your little one!
Watching this with my 1-day-old!
Congratulations!
I am currently pregnant with baby #5. Your videos are a great refresher and are getting me so excited for what an empowering and special time this is. Thank you for your informative videos. You do a great job of explaining and normalizing what really happens during labor and recovery.
That is awesome to hear even with 5 pregnancies these videos are still helpful. Hope all is well with you and your precious family 💕
I wish you had this platform 17 yrs ago when I was thinking about how my labor & birth would. Thank you for providing information to new moms & families
Of course I loved my son when he was first born, but I didn't have that overwhelming fierce love that she talked about. Now he's two months old and my god, his smile makes me the happiest mom in the world. It just takes time.
I'm in my mid thirties and having my first, Thank God for Nurse Zabe!!! 🥰❤
I'm 34 weeks pregnant and I'm pretty sure I've seen most of your videos throughout this pregnancy 😭 thank you for being so informative and sweet ❤
I'm a first time-soon to be mum, I'm only 9 weeks but I will be more than prepared by the time I'm due thanks to your videos! I've already learnt SO much.
I'm on baby number three and know most of this, but I still couldn't stop watching because you have an amazing teaching voice and skill!
I'm not pregnant yet.. I'm hoping for the positive test to come soon.. I've been watching every baby care and preparation video awaiting for it to happen. I have loads of clothes from my partners childhood (and his sisters) and I've brought a few bits that are too cute to pass. I love watching videos from professionals because I know it's right and a lot stuff on the internet is wrong. I love your videos because it's helping me to write a little how to guide for me when I'm in my panic postnatal tiredness stage (and for baby daddy in general). I can't wait to welcome a baby of my own. It'll give me love again in this world apart from my partner. I'll keep you posted on the if the positive comes.
💗 Love that you are preparing even before you’re pregnant. Definitely keep us posted. 😊
@@Nurse_zabe Will do. Thanks!
Sending a ton of baby dust to you!!!
I was also prepping before birth. It's never too early! Always so much to learn =)
Wishing you the best, one day at a time, in God's time (or the universe, whichever you believe in :))
Blessings and good 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!!!!
I have to say, as an expecting mom that last thing you mentioned is so nice to hear. I already love my baby but mostly in my first trimester i was terrified of not being able to connect with my baby, though as time as gone on and my anxiety has subsided i feel 100% better. it's still nice in case i personally am overwhelmed to know that this is normal for when baby comes! I love watching your videos especially as a first time mom and not knowing a whole lot about babies
I find out my due date tomorrow but I think I'm about 7 mo. So far! Youve really helped ease my fears of giving birth especially in a hospital and doing so alone. Thank you SO MUCH!! ❤
My mom had me so fast my dad thought i wasn’t his. The nurse tried explaining it was just severe bruising from being born in less than an hour. Which is odd cause he is also a dark skinned mexican so its like why wouldn’t you expect a baby to be darker skinned
Oh my goodness 😬
Same happened with my husband and both our sons and he is from India, yet he found weird how they had darker skin their first hours.
I was sort of the opposite and my dad kinda had same reaction. He's from Bangladesh so has the stereotypical "Indian" skin tone, my mum is white and when I was born, I was white, well pink I guess but you know what I mean lol I didn't start getting my skin tone I have now until a few days/weeks. My mum took one look at me and said "she's yours, I swear!!" Before he had the chance to say anything lol Once my eyes took their colour, there was no doubts as I'm his spitting image :(
Oh wow, I could have used this when I had my first!! What a great resource for new moms (or refresher for the rest of us!!)
Nurse Zabe you have been such a help through my pregnancy and now to help with my newborn( it’s been almost a decade since my last baby!) your information about the sneezing gave me peace of mind.
I really needed this video. I'm a first time mom and my baby boy is 10 days old right now. There have been a couple of times so far that I've just felt overwhelmed. I've been watching your videos to try to prepare for his arrival but now it seems nothing really prepares you .
Please please do a video on hyperemesis gravidarum. I am suffering so much every day
Yes. I second this, I have been suffering with this my entire pregnancy. Hospitalized 3 times, it's no joke and not much awareness about it.
Yes please ..I’m 10 weeks and trying not to die ;(
I love you ♥️for the last month every day I’m falling asleep with you even wake up in the night ( almost every night...) and listening to your voice explaining things I am 9 month now and waiting every day, it is wonderful to listen to you I wish my nurse at the hospital will be nice and sweet as you are🥰😍❤️
You are too sweet. Wishing you a safe and supported delivery so soon. So excited for you to have your beautiful baby in your arms. 💗
I'm pregnant with my first baby. I just found your channel last night and I am sooo thankful for your videos. They have been beyond informative and have really helped to set my mind at ease. Thank you so much!💕
I just had my baby last Sunday (January 10th, 2021) and I’ve been so overwhelmed. I feel super unprepared because all prenatal classes were canceled due to Covid. This whole week has been super scary and I’ve had so many questions. Thank you for answering some of my questions.!
My wife & I are having twins in November & this helped alot. I've been watching tons of youtube videos almost every night & staying up later then I wanted to most nights. I hope my L&D - PP nurses are as good as you.
Im only 11 weeks now but already freaking out. My pregnancy was planned but I feel like there is sooo much stuff to know and what if I forget something? You know
Your Channel has helped me so much with feeling less scared of being a first time mom. I’ve learned so much! Thank you 🙏
I gave birth a couple days ago to #5 and had a natural birth despite needing pitocin. I didn't make a sound and my nurse was impressed how good I did. I love your videos so much, they helped me with my experience.
I'm 35 weeks with baby #2 and it's been so long since I've had a newborn i forgot some of this. It was a great refresher for me 💖 thanks nurse zabe! 🙌🏻
Your videos have been helping me soooo much since I first found out I was pregnant. This will be my first child, i’m 34 weeks and you’ve taught me sooo much as well as ease most of my concerns as a new mommy. Thank you so much!! ❤️
31 weeks (tomorrow) with my first baby and love these videos 🥰😁
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I took you up on your drinking game. Lol 😂 you where not kidding about being hydrated if I take a swig of water every time you say “normal”
Drinking game, but make it pregnant 😂
Lol
Same
Due in 2 more weeks!! I have a 4.5 year old so this refresher is so appreciated! 😭💕
It’s amazing how much you forget with all that sleep deprivation! 😬😂
I'm due the 22nd. I have a 7 yr old and a 3 yr old and I'm still watching! Ha
Very helpful, first time mom due June 3rd and I'm very thankful for you sharing your knowledge!!!
Good luck! You will be amazing 🥰
You’re so welcome! Wishing you a safe and supported delivery! 💗💗
Wishing you the best of luck for a healthy and safe delivery! I’ll be getting induced with baby #1 tomorrow, and i found this video has perfect timing haha
Good luck! Our little boy was due June 3rd but came early May 22! It’s been hectic but it’s beautiful.
@@KylaPlumlee congratulations!!! 💙💙💙
Thank you for your last message!!! I’m 28weeks and one of the people who never planned or wanted children, but here we are... My husband is super excited, while I really can’t get too many warm feelings (especially after 22 weeks of hyperemesis gravidarum). I really needed someone to say that! Thank you again!
Aww Ms.Zabe,thanks for putting up this educations about labor and delivery! I am a maternal newborn nurse and I just love how you explain things to the viewers. 💗 love love!
My boy also had a burst capillary in his left eye from the intensity of birth. At first I was scared that he scratched his eye. He later got pretty bad acne. It didn't bother him, and cleared up after about a month with good moisturizing.
My nurses also helped me express colostrum into a spoon to help feed him while we were struggling with latching.
Thank you so much for all these video's. I am now 11 weeks Pregnant and feel so unprepared. Watching your videos make me feel a little more relaxed.
17 weeks pregnant and crying, tips are amazing and the reassurance is even better. Thank you for putting out such positive information
I’m getting induced with my 2nd tomorrow at 6 am!! Hoping for a vbac and to actually get to be with her for those first few moments of her life ❤️
Good luck!!! Let us know how it goes. You’ve got this. 💪🏼💗
I hope it went well! :)
I didn’t get the vbac I was hoping for, unfortunately. But I did get the most beautiful baby girl! And I didn’t puke and pass out during the procedure this time 👍🏻 so I got to see her very soon afterwards and spend some moments with her. It was a traumatic day but we are healthy, together, and recovering ❤️
@@bridgetj7003 aww glad to hear you and baby are well! congratulations mama!
I just had my second baby 6 days a go, a girl this time... That pseudo mensis really shocked me, I had no idea!
It’s so crazy all the hormones shifts these little people go through after they are born!
Me too! I was so not prepared for that..
Thank you so much for this video
I am babysitting my nephew
Because her mom was diagnosed with Covid 19 and she's still in the hospital recovering,
I have no preparation and not enough knowledge on taking care of a newborn baby this video helps a lot. 👍👍👍
Thank you for telling new mommas it's ok to not immediately feel the overwhelming love that is often described. Sometimes, you have to get to know that little person face to face and fall in love with them. It's not always easy and hormones do not help sometimes.
I had my first little one May 29th and your videos helped so much. I told my team about you and my motto was ONE LESS after every contraction. Thank you so much!
I think that last point is so important, thank you! I felt like I was in shock after giving birth and didn't feel that instant connection. I was like, what planet have I landed on? I feel like I've been run over by a truck and this baby won't stop screaming and I'm supposed to be head over heels? Lol. Your description of woah this is a lot is accurate. I felt very guilty until I read how common this is. And the love comes! Just takes time and adjustment to this new phase of life. ♥️
Good to know this so I'm prepared. hehe I guess if we could love our husbands/partners despite their shortcomings, we could love a sweet innocent baby for sure! :p
This channel has been VERY informative throughout my pregnancy. I found out I was pregnant when I was 17(2 months before I turned 18) and I’ve definitely needed a lot of help lol I’m 37wks2D now and I’ve been so nervous as I could go into labor at any time now(already dilated to a 3 and thinning out).
Also I wanted to add that this video has made me very emotional...I think it’s because I know I’m so close to this.
Aww, your baby will already be around 3 years now! ❤ How time flies!
I really appreciated how you talked about how you feel right after delivery! I had complications during my emergency c section and was so out of it and in shock from seeing her for the first time!🥰
5 weeks away and terrified and excited and just a mish mash of everything and I’ve been returning to this video ever since 1st trim!
I absolutely love your videos and how honest you are! I'm currently 31 weeks pregnant with my first baby and your advice has been very helpful and calming. I'm in transition of switching obgyn because the one I was seeing left me feeling so depressed. He pretty much fat shamed me for how much weight I've gained during my pregnancy. He spewed a lot of worst case scenarios at me including an unavailable C-section, me bleeding out, having my "vagina fall out later", and even having a brain dead baby. He told me I was a failure in my pregnancy which really just made me shut down. He reassured me I wouldn't be able to lose weight between now and my due date. His words just keep replaying in my head but I'm trying to be optimistic. I just hope my next obgyn is as helpful and informative as you are.
I am currently about 34weeks. This was so beautiful. I'm bawling rn.
I want her as my nurse. I could listen to her talk all day😍😍
I have no idea how much these videos help me. I'm a 21 year old first time mother (Due Oct 10th)and I'm trying so hard to prepare as much as possible. Thank you so much for the videos ❤️
Thank you so much for all your videos. You have no idea how much you have helped me get through my pregnancy and the first months of caring for my first born.
You are just so, so wonderful. I don’t have any babies yet, but we are probably going to try within the next year. The longer we wait, the more daunting pregnancy, L&D, and motherhood seem to become. You provide so much comfort and reassurance heading into that phase of my life. Thank you!
God bless you, you are for sure an angel. I believe most nurses are angels in disguise
As a PP nurse I LOVE this video, you answered the questions I get every single shift. I find that a lot of parents did research on babies but not the first 24 hours and that really throws them for a loop.
Yeah, babies are weird little creatures, especially when they are super fresh! Anything you’d add to the list?
Thank you for this video. I just had my baby 18 days ago and I watched your videos during my pregnancy. This "fourth trimester" is absolutely a different kind of challenge. Your message at the end was helpful and reassuring. Thank you for all the information you've shared.
Just had my first baby in June and he had jaundice. Wish I had watched this before labor, I had no idea what it was and was a bit overwhelmed by the whole process. We did the light therapy for a couple of days and had to supplement with formula until my milk was fully in. That was the hardest part for me, caused all kinds of insecurity and fear (mostly due to lack of knowledge on the subject). Anyways, he’s a month old now and exclusively breastfeeding so if any other mommas out there are reading this know you’ll overcome it 💗
Had my baby 8 months ago but still love watching you!! ❤❤
Thanks for hanging around!
You saying normal gives me so much comfort!! My son will be here January 3rd 2021 💙 I pray God keeps us during birth and after birth! I pray and think about my baby daily.. for a first time mom I know that’s NORMAL! 😆😊..thank you nurse!
You have been my close personal friend these last couple months of my first pregnancy 😅💕 I feel so informed thank you so much!!
28 weeks pregnant and I LOVE your videos. They have helped so much, especially with Covid reducing resources and cancelling appointments here and there.
I was a new mom to twins. One of my girls had bad jaundice so she had to go through phototherapy. My other twin had to be in the nicu for quite awhile. You are such a supportive nurse and I appreciate all the information. I wish I had as amazing nurses as you are.
My mini one is 11 days old today and was almost 3 weeks early. When you said sometime they come shooting out I felt that. The doctors/nurses barely made it into the delivery room on time once I felt like pushing lol.
I needed this, thank you so much! I just had my first child two months ago and I hear everyone speak of this magical moment when they place the baby on you, but boy that was not my experience. Of coarse I love him SO MUCH but I didn’t have that initial feeling and I have definitely felt guilty about it. I’m so thankful for your videos because they have helped me a ton!!! You rock!!!🥰👍🏼
So normal to not have that magical moment, but it definitely makes you wonder if something has gone wrong. Congrats on the birth of you sweet little one! 💗
Never going to have kids but for some reason I love watching your videos. I have no clue why but I do.
It’s always nice to know more! Thanks for watching!
I'm preg with baby number two and it's been awhile. I love watching her videos bc they remind me that I'm okay and baby is okay! Thank you!
I hope my labor nurse is as nice as you! I’m a first time mom so it’s scary!
I’m 27 weeks today and have come across your videos by chance. You have such a sweet and kind nature, you’re super informative! Please keep them coming 😍
My 5th baby is a year old now and I still find myself watching videos like this. I have to agree with the commenters that said if all hospital LD nurses were like you I’d feel better about hospital birth. All of my experiences have been different but I always felt railroaded into what the nurse or doctor wanted even though at the beginning they always ask what you want when it comes down to it they have all shut down my requests and forced me to do things at their comfort level. From position during labor and delivery to delayed cord clamping to baby’s first bath over 5 deliveries I have always left feeling like I wasn’t heard.
Thank-you so much for this! I feel like I just took a mini prenatal class! I'm going to show my husband this! =)
Yay! I teach this info at my hospital’s prenatal class, so that’s probably why!
15:02 you can clearly see that your thumb and palm of the hand is pressing on baby’s soft spot. Lots of people with no experience can hurt their babies if they don’t pay attention what they are doing. Thank you for sharing this video
I’m on baby number 4 and 35 weeks along. I still want ALL the information and LOVE your videos. Haha
My daughter had clear discharge on second day, first girl, was stressing out, but luckily to find out its completely normal. Scary to deal with so much new
Hello! I am not even a mom and not pregnant but I really enjoy videos like this, they are very informative and I think nurses are great, thank you for educating us :)
Thank you so much this has taught me so much! I’m 16 and 37 weeks pregnant she’s due anytime from now! 💞😊