Without effort, activate your brain from time to time. In less than a minute, you can solve one or more math problems and thus activate your brain. thank you
Im with you. Recently I have been “disecting” my behavior and why I am like that. And it just came to me that my insecurities rooted from “I dont know this and that” . And so I decided to finally try things that I really wanted to do. I will start from taking a driving test 😁 wish me luck guys!
I agree. I had never had any serious experience with romance until I'm 22, and my first experience was a situationship, in which I was extremely emotionally invested. Needless to say, it left me devastated and I went through the worst 3 months of my life. Though I cannot say I "treasure" the experience - because it indeed wounded me deeply and left me with so many unresolved issues, I still have to admit I have grown and learned a lot in terms of romance. Until now I still haven't had my first boyfriend, but what I went through was both destructive and enriching.
@@LamHoang-ek4je that sounds exactly like something I went through at 20. same, it left me devastated and I’m still not totally over it almost a year later. But yeah, if I could go back in time I would still let it happen because it was an important experience.
My insecurities come from not knowing and being a perfectionist. I'm scared of looking stupid, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself, I don't like making mistakes, I don't like not knowing everything that might happen. I'm trying to be okay with not knowing everything and accepting that embarrassing moments can happen and it's okay.
i hope you recognize that you too are a human being, who is capable of making mistakes. it’s totally okay for you to not know stuff, because that is how we learn new things. not knowing stuff is what drives us to learn, omniscience is not meant for humans. i’m all about aiming for the sky but trying to be perfect is like setting yourself up for dissatisfaction. i think you should try treating yourself like you would treat someone you love, meaning you would never view their mistakes as embarrassments, failures or imperfections. i hope you recognize that you not knowing something is the most human thing a human can do. i hope this message finds you in peace and happiness. i wish you well on this journey!
@@fatimarehmannn Wow! Thank you very much for your kind words. I don't really know why I'm like this. I think part of it is because every time I made mistakes I was always concerned about what my loved ones would say about me and every time I failed at something it was always criticism that I received from them to the point that I'd rather hide what I'm doing to them and tells them if I already succeed on it.
@@adish24 Nah, I wouldnt go out there and suffer. I'm 'happy' when I'm in my comfort zone. Besides I'm dealing with mental issues, I'm just trying to be kind to myself
“A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because it’s trust it’s not on the branch but on its own wings” love this quote mentioned by Lana ❤ thank you 🥺
14 easy things that made me a confident person. Leaving self-labeling in the past. Learning new things. Anything. Shift your focus outwards. Body language. Smelling good. The spotlight effect. Getting better at Smalltalk. Embrace femininity. Don’t choose comfort or happiness. Do your homework and be prepared as best as you can. Being useful to others. Getting a haircut. Wear the clothes that make you feel good. Adopt social optimism.
As a 14 year old who just started highschool this year, i've been feeling so insecure lately and struggling with confidence. After watching this video I feel a little better, you literally talked about the things which have been bothering me for a while, I just want to say thank you for being this amazing and spreading positivity 💕
Same here am 15 and I entered high school and I felt so uncomfortable and insecure my social anxiety and lack of confidence and so many things made it even hard for me as an introvert
Without effort, activate your brain from time to time. In less than a minute, you can solve one or more math problems and thus activate your brain. thank you
There are a lot of good tips here, but from my personal experience, the one thing that truly leveled up my confidence is deliberately practicing making eye contact. GAME CHANGER.
I think one of the things I became aware of that helped boost my confidence was the spotlight effect. We see ourselves as on a stage and the world is our personal audience. The fact is that we really don’t matter that much. People aren’t spending all of their time assessing us and judging us. Most people don’t really notice us. Realising this made me trust the choices I was making for myself.
Without effort, activate your brain from time to time. In less than a minute, you can solve one or more math problems and thus activate your brain. thank you
@@sarahalkubissi and I am chinese living in Spain (I was adopted since I was 2 months). When I was younger I feel insecure about my aspect. I also suffered racism, and that hurts my self-esteem... However, I learnt to love myself.
You are speaking my language, being an introvert and socially anxious person with ADD, I just can't explain myself and sometimes it takes me long time to realize what I like/don't like and say my feelings but after watching you whatever I wanted to say, helping me to be little more expressive
I never comment on youtube videos ever but I was in a pretty dark place and had to start going on walks. I listen to your videos everytime I go for my everyday stroll and it’s honestly so calming and it’s my me time. Well plus you! Thanks Lana, keep doing you :)
it's really the little everyday things that boosts confidence. any act with the purpose of getting confidence at the back of your mind probably would give it to you. all it needs is being honest with yourself and ask for it, just like that all the ways you can do it will pop up. thank you for great content.
I was thinking about how much more confident you look this last year compared to the previous one and I really like it, it suits you, and it really inspired me as well.
from my life experience and who i become till this moment, the most important key is challenging every fear you have in the present moment and had in your past and what you think will have in future. and I'm talking here about the real confident not the one titled by the thing you own or have. respect from a small RUclipsr ✨
A Bird sitting on the Tree is not afraid of the branch breaking because its trust is not in the Branch but its wings....Loved this❤️ And LOVE YOU LANA😊❤️
Thanks for this amazing video, Lana! The lack of confidence is a real problem for me, and your tips here I'm sure will help me on my way to self-confidence. Thanks so much dear!!!
Lana you are made to make my life better. I am an infj with social anxiety 🤡 not the best combo and you somehow make videos on thr exact thing that i search for. I have so much in common with you and I love your vibe, your editing, your content, even your haircut and blowdry. AND THE SMALL TALK YESS i think ive finally learnt it and it comes really naturally to me now and its not that bad yk? To talk to other people. I just... thankyou for existing, especially on youtube.
"Confident comes from within" and it couldn't be more true. It all starts with the self and that internal feeling is what really makes you feel confident and what will show to the outside world.
Your videos are helping me so much. I've been in an awful place for the past few months now and these videos are exactly what I needed to comfort myself. It feels weird if I don't watch at least one video of yours daily. Tysm. Fr :)
Whatching your videos motivates me to try and be the best version of myself. I'm still pretty young so I live with my parents which means I don't have a full control over my life. Knowing that just makes me so pround because I'm giving my best despite my age and my solcial status. I am truly thankfull. I thank you
What an incredibly good video again. Thank you so much for your effort to create these video's for us 🌸 And that last quote came litteraly at the moment that I needed it
You didn't just tell me 11 ways to look attractive but also enjoy my own company,don't gossip and don't be like oh,im so tired today and negativity. Thank you so much lana❤❤❤❤❤
your video showed me once again that no one cares how you look unless you show that you don't like it or vice versa :) most people have the same opinion of you as you have of yourself.
Lana, I want you to know that you have always been confident and resilient woman. Your long, open, loose hair is one of many signs that prove your positive and confident mindset ❤️. You never let us down especially with a lovely quote about a bird 🕊️ and a nice joke about the capital of the US. You always dress nicely 👕🎽 and deliver an honest view about the world we live in. ❤️ Confidence comes with self-worth. It allows us to freely express our needs. If we know our own value then we will be able to trust ourselves and do what's the best for us. At this very moment, your existence and life-changing advice can save millions of lives at this point.
Oh! Something that boosted my confidence was getting a buzzcut! As a girl, I never thought I'd be able to cut my hair that short and so many people told me the downsides of buzzed hair as a girl (e.g. boys won't find you attractive, it'll look weird when it grows out etc.) but stepping out of my comfort zone really helped me to feel more confident. When I first stepped out of the house I felt so self-conscious and like everyone was staring at me but now I love the look and feel of it and I realise that no one actually cares :)
My confidence has only started to come back again because I've been slowly removing toxic family members from my life. Years of their bad company has formed a personality within me which is low and sad. I wonder who I am without them in my life permanently. Confident and positive I hope.
This is so helpful and so useful! Another thing is, you know you have found true confidence and inner peace when even if you don’t necessarily like how you look that day and it isn’t your go to “confident” appearance, you still accept yourself and feel the same love for life and yourself as you would if you were doing what normally made u confident. I think confidence is also about, no matter how you happen to look, being okay and secure with yourself and accepting. Acceptance is as beautiful as confidence and forms itself into confidence. Of course that doesn’t mean don’t take pride in the things that make you feel confident (hair,clothes,the food you eat, working out ect.) But even when all that isn’t working for you one day, truly accepting that you are still just as worthy is beautiful. But of course we only have one life (depending on beliefs) so embrace what you love and make the most of the things that bring you confidence! And love yourself you were made for yourself and no one else enjoy it!🤍
I admire this girl in the short time that I have known her, (five hours), because from what little I have seen it is like going to the psychologist or how to talk to a wise person while you get wiser and try to use that wisdom in your life daily
Hi Lana 👋, I love the quote that you shared at the end of the video! I can imagine it opening people’s eyes into learning to be even more confident in themselves because it definitely opened mine!
Thanku so much I feel much better watching your video as a teenager I was always insecure about what others think of me will they like me does my friends like me but by watching your video thoughts like that have become much less blessed to watch your video ♥️
I really admire you, because watching every of your life learning stories just makes me realize what I'm doing wrong. I will follow this video to be more confident and trustworthy of myself
i really like how you filmed this video and your overall editing style, how you speak, go straight to the point and etc. looking forward to the video about femininity!!!
my heart feels weird, my hands started to turn cold, my feet were fidgeting on their own, i tried to play online games, forgot that toxic people exist, then i searched "video to make me feel better" and watched yours as well as others. still didn't feel better enough, i just searched "i feel bad for being rich", and i found this. i feel much better now you won't know how, but i bet you know how it feels when a heavy weight slowly rises off your body by some words from a stranger that you feel thankful to yourself and to the stranger. thank you, Lana.
Thank you for this❤️.. coming out the pandemic it feels so overwhelming to be working 8 hours with people you barely know everyday, feels good to know your the only one, and that is not me going crazy 🤣 hope we all get rid of compulsive thinking.
my boots was delivered last week, and the reason why I ordered it is because of the sound when I walk it. Planning to use it when I go to the office 😊. Never thought I'll be hearing that here!!!!
Thank you Lana, I can really see a difference between now and 1-2 years ago - although I always liked your vibe, now you definitely seem veery self confident in a very cool way. Thank you for sharing this💕
Lana, to be fair, i think it helps immensely that you're very beautiful, skinny, and you speak well. I'm not trying to discredit your points here. But there are people who are not as blessed with your charm and physical beauty. Thanks
I think this really helped me. Nowadays I wear stuff that makes me "expose" my femininity. I always love to walk home because i think it helps me feel more confident. Especially when I see those kids who always waves at me and said hi, i like how they are kind to me. I stopped wearing cap and hiding my face because before I'm really not into people and stuff. But after realizing that i only need to fake it till I make it. Yesterday when I was walking home from school, there's this few kids, they're like "hey girl~" and I waved at them confused because I wonder why they decided to waved at me. But one thing's for sure, they definitely made my day.
I lost my confidence when I gained a lot of weight. I also have ED before. I started to workout and have a good relationship with food now. I can also now wear all the clothes I wore before. I'm so happy now. And alsooo my skin got more clearer than ever.
You go girl! Other people do not matter. They will drag you down and wad you up and throw you away. Worry only about yourself and your family to remain strong. Self confidence is the key to survival in this world!
You look amazing with that haircut. I love your videos, keep being the way you are even when it feels like it wouldn't matter if you stopped putting the effort to be better everyday, just because people don't realize about little things you do for them and how you treat them overall.
On a serious note - the posture thing is a big one. And I feel like a good way to fix a problem in that area would be to learn to feel your core. Possible methods for doing so - meditation, for me it's Wim Hof breathing practices. It's hard to explain, and in my case it took more than two years to start feeling something in that vicinity, but my experience tells me that anything worthwhile cannot be easily attained, it's always a struggle, always a grind.
Beautiful video. So on point with everything. Regarding the posture, I watched this video by Diana Devitt-Dawson, and she teaches the Alexander technique. It's basically about posture also, but its specifically about avoiding the compression of our spine. I've done my best to apply it, and I feel like it makes a difference in the health of my body and it helps me be aware of my posture. The video is rather relaxing also.
First of all, the tip about not being so negative on yourself and saying "I suck", "I'm weird" even if it's a joke really changed me. I learned a lot from this video. Secondly, completely unrelated to the video but you are beautiful! Your face has nice proportions, your hair lays so effortlessly. You look like a girl from a book
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Capitol of US is New York? Lol, I thought it was Washington D.C.
New York isn't actually the capital of the US xx
I think 'experience' is far more important than confidence. A lot of insecurities are born out of avoiding people as much as possible unfortunately.
Without effort, activate your brain from time to time. In less than a minute, you can solve one or more math problems and thus activate your brain.
thank you
Im with you. Recently I have been “disecting” my behavior and why I am like that. And it just came to me that my insecurities rooted from “I dont know this and that” . And so I decided to finally try things that I really wanted to do. I will start from taking a driving test 😁 wish me luck guys!
@@iwannabetheverybestlikenoo381 good luck!! 🍀
I agree. I had never had any serious experience with romance until I'm 22, and my first experience was a situationship, in which I was extremely emotionally invested. Needless to say, it left me devastated and I went through the worst 3 months of my life.
Though I cannot say I "treasure" the experience - because it indeed wounded me deeply and left me with so many unresolved issues, I still have to admit I have grown and learned a lot in terms of romance. Until now I still haven't had my first boyfriend, but what I went through was both destructive and enriching.
@@LamHoang-ek4je that sounds exactly like something I went through at 20. same, it left me devastated and I’m still not totally over it almost a year later. But yeah, if I could go back in time I would still let it happen because it was an important experience.
My insecurities come from not knowing and being a perfectionist. I'm scared of looking stupid, I'm afraid of embarrassing myself, I don't like making mistakes, I don't like not knowing everything that might happen. I'm trying to be okay with not knowing everything and accepting that embarrassing moments can happen and it's okay.
We must accept those weak things inside us in order to change for the better. There is no point in fearing that it is a waste of time
i hope you recognize that you too are a human being, who is capable of making mistakes. it’s totally okay for you to not know stuff, because that is how we learn new things. not knowing stuff is what drives us to learn, omniscience is not meant for humans. i’m all about aiming for the sky but trying to be perfect is like setting yourself up for dissatisfaction. i think you should try treating yourself like you would treat someone you love, meaning you would never view their mistakes as embarrassments, failures or imperfections. i hope you recognize that you not knowing something is the most human thing a human can do. i hope this message finds you in peace and happiness. i wish you well on this journey!
@@fatimarehmannn Wow! Thank you very much for your kind words. I don't really know why I'm like this. I think part of it is because every time I made mistakes I was always concerned about what my loved ones would say about me and every time I failed at something it was always criticism that I received from them to the point that I'd rather hide what I'm doing to them and tells them if I already succeed on it.
The opposite of your pfp character lol
True, same here
“Don’t choose comfort over happiness” , powerful and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
damn really? that's crazy.. how flipped this world can be
@@wise_fool elaborate why.
what if comfort is happiness
@@adish24 Nah, I wouldnt go out there and suffer. I'm 'happy' when I'm in my comfort zone. Besides I'm dealing with mental issues, I'm just trying to be kind to myself
How can there be happiness is you're not comfortable 🤦♀️
"I know it's New York, it's just an example." Girl, I'm laughing on the floor, your humor is priceless. 😂
That's the first comment that I read about this joke ! I'm stunned it was so good !
was it really a joke?
@@inesnunes9750 of course it was. It was like a sarcasm
omg I totally fell into the joke. you got me Lana😂
I guess it wasn't a joke... but okay. At least I hope it was 🙄
“A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because it’s trust it’s not on the branch but on its own wings” love this quote mentioned by Lana ❤ thank you 🥺
love it too!
14 easy things that made me a confident person.
Leaving self-labeling in the past.
Learning new things. Anything.
Shift your focus outwards.
Body language.
Smelling good.
The spotlight effect.
Getting better at Smalltalk.
Embrace femininity.
Don’t choose comfort or happiness.
Do your homework and be prepared as best as you can.
Being useful to others.
Getting a haircut.
Wear the clothes that make you feel good.
Adopt social optimism.
H.E.R.O
Thank you
u will go to heaven
As a 14 year old who just started highschool this year, i've been feeling so insecure lately and struggling with confidence. After watching this video I feel a little better, you literally talked about the things which have been bothering me for a while, I just want to say thank you for being this amazing and spreading positivity 💕
Hey I’m in the same year as you, Let’s do our best to be the best version of ourselves!! 💪💪✨
@@Cara.s1place YESSS GIRLY!!!
Same here am 15 and I entered high school and I felt so uncomfortable and insecure my social anxiety and lack of confidence and so many things made it even hard for me as an introvert
@@Naerii_777 I feel you girl, let's just work on ourselves and become the best version of us!!
Same boat girlfriend. We are in this together
I think everyone struggles with confidence from time to time so I’m glad you’re talking about it 💛
if you dont struggle confidence your not a real person
I see you everywhere
Hey girl, how are you? I See you everywhere, hope you are having a lovely day.
Without effort, activate your brain from time to time. In less than a minute, you can solve one or more math problems and thus activate your brain.
thank you
girllll are you an agent??😂🤍
There are a lot of good tips here, but from my personal experience, the one thing that truly leveled up my confidence is deliberately practicing making eye contact. GAME CHANGER.
So true, that really has a huge impact
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@@user-th3ez5sj9y "frrrrr" ?
@@yohaizilber “for real” that means what u said is true
@@user-th3ez5sj9y #feelingold
I think one of the things I became aware of that helped boost my confidence was the spotlight effect.
We see ourselves as on a stage and the world is our personal audience.
The fact is that we really don’t matter that much. People aren’t spending all of their time assessing us and judging us. Most people don’t really notice us.
Realising this made me trust the choices I was making for myself.
Try being a 5’11 girl 😅 I wish I could go unnoticed
@@sarahalkubissi I’m the short one in my family at 5’8” so my sister would definitely agree with you!
Without effort, activate your brain from time to time. In less than a minute, you can solve one or more math problems and thus activate your brain.
thank you
@@sarahalkubissi and I am chinese living in Spain (I was adopted since I was 2 months). When I was younger I feel insecure about my aspect. I also suffered racism, and that hurts my self-esteem... However, I learnt to love myself.
@@outlinehappiness you’re the perfect height ❤️
You are speaking my language, being an introvert and socially anxious person with ADD, I just can't explain myself and sometimes it takes me long time to realize what I like/don't like and say my feelings but after watching you whatever I wanted to say, helping me to be little more expressive
"don't go out to the world prepared to hide" bruh....this hit me really hard😢😢😢
Dress well
Smell good
Shift your focus outwards
The more you do it , easier it gets.
I’m just so grateful that such powerful content exists to shift my mind to the positive.
09:07 lana’s humor is so underrated. I’m not lying when i say that she always cracks me up
I never comment on youtube videos ever but I was in a pretty dark place and had to start going on walks. I listen to your videos everytime I go for my everyday stroll and it’s honestly so calming and it’s my me time. Well plus you! Thanks Lana, keep doing you :)
Hi
Hi
it's really the little everyday things that boosts confidence. any act with the purpose of getting confidence at the back of your mind probably would give it to you. all it needs is being honest with yourself and ask for it, just like that all the ways you can do it will pop up.
thank you for great content.
I was thinking about how much more confident you look this last year compared to the previous one and I really like it, it suits you, and it really inspired me as well.
"I know it's New York" hahahaha loved it!
I’m glad someone got the joke lol
I know that answer is wrong, but what did you say New York? Is it a reference to something? I’m not understanding the joke.
I started to write a comment like „hm no Washington D.C….“ thought about it, got it, and laughed about myself 😅
@@sunflowersyndrome i guess because NY is such a famous city and one could think that's the capital, when in reality it isn't
I searched for this comment to make sure I wasn’t the only one who got it
"Don't go out in the world, prepared to hide". That's some facts, that's some facts, my dudes, that this lady is stating in this video.
from my life experience and who i become till this moment, the most important key is challenging every fear you have in the present moment and had in your past and what you think will have in future. and I'm talking here about the real confident not the one titled by the thing you own or have. respect from a small RUclipsr ✨
That posture difference demo is so helpful because it is visually clear, hence, is another inspirational point of your video!
Agreeed
Lana, this is so timely. Been struggling with confidence recently. Thanks girl 😘!
hope this helps xx
Hope this helps xxx
It does
@@LanaBlakely you are very cute😻
A Bird sitting on the Tree is not afraid of the branch breaking because its trust is not in the Branch but its wings....Loved this❤️
And LOVE YOU LANA😊❤️
Thanks for this amazing video, Lana! The lack of confidence is a real problem for me, and your tips here I'm sure will help me on my way to self-confidence. Thanks so much dear!!!
Good video; still working on being confident at 37, it's nerve-wracking, and I am in awe with how you have grown.
I love listening to ur videos like they’re podcasts. I do my normal daily things, workout, eating, cleaning, etc. i enjoy it thank you
Lana you are made to make my life better. I am an infj with social anxiety 🤡 not the best combo and you somehow make videos on thr exact thing that i search for. I have so much in common with you and I love your vibe, your editing, your content, even your haircut and blowdry. AND THE SMALL TALK YESS i think ive finally learnt it and it comes really naturally to me now and its not that bad yk? To talk to other people.
I just... thankyou for existing, especially on youtube.
was shocked because i’m also infj with social anxiety hahaha
"Confident comes from within" and it couldn't be more true. It all starts with the self and that internal feeling is what really makes you feel confident and what will show to the outside world.
Being different should be embraced, not ashamed. Follow that mindset and you'll go far in life.
Awesome tips as usual, Lana! I always learn something from you! Love your confidence! Got to be you! Keep up the excellent work!
I agree!
Girl you are GLOWING. You're inspiring me to curl my hair because your hair is BEAUTIFUL!
Its such a blessing to see you smile your smile is angelic in some way keep smiling and stay confident ❤❤
This is the only video on confidence that has ever helped me and given GOOD advice. THANK YOU!
Your videos are helping me so much. I've been in an awful place for the past few months now and these videos are exactly what I needed to comfort myself. It feels weird if I don't watch at least one video of yours daily. Tysm. Fr :)
Watching you vlog in paris alone gives me confidence 🧡 love you channel!
makes me happy!!
I really like your content and the way you articulate yourself, very concise, clear and useful! Thank you for being.
Whatching your videos motivates me to try and be the best version of myself. I'm still pretty young so I live with my parents which means I don't have a full control over my life. Knowing that just makes me so pround because I'm giving my best despite my age and my solcial status. I am truly thankfull. I thank you
What an incredibly good video again. Thank you so much for your effort to create these video's for us 🌸 And that last quote came litteraly at the moment that I needed it
Your voice is naturally ASMR!
Lana, I love your videos!❤ You have such a calm, feminine and soft presence. Thankyou for helping me connect with my inner calmness and femininity🙏
Being confident for me is knowing what you are doing and having things in control and not control by other people or the outer world.
You didn't just tell me 11 ways to look attractive but also enjoy my own company,don't gossip and don't be like oh,im so tired today and negativity.
Thank you so much lana❤❤❤❤❤
I definitely need to work on my confidence and trying not to overthink things. Those are two of my many major fatal flaws.
your video showed me once again that no one cares how you look unless you show that you don't like it or vice versa :) most people have the same opinion of you as you have of yourself.
Lana, I want you to know that you have always been confident and resilient woman. Your long, open, loose hair is one of many signs that prove your positive and confident mindset ❤️. You never let us down especially with a lovely quote about a bird 🕊️ and a nice joke about the capital of the US. You always dress nicely 👕🎽 and deliver an honest view about the world we live in. ❤️
Confidence comes with self-worth. It allows us to freely express our needs. If we know our own value then we will be able to trust ourselves and do what's the best for us.
At this very moment, your existence and life-changing advice can save millions of lives at this point.
Her voice is constantly. Thank goodness
Smelling good and wearing a scent that I like does so much for me. Love your tips :) Can you do a video about your perfume collection?
Oh! Something that boosted my confidence was getting a buzzcut! As a girl, I never thought I'd be able to cut my hair that short and so many people told me the downsides of buzzed hair as a girl (e.g. boys won't find you attractive, it'll look weird when it grows out etc.) but stepping out of my comfort zone really helped me to feel more confident. When I first stepped out of the house I felt so self-conscious and like everyone was staring at me but now I love the look and feel of it and I realise that no one actually cares :)
Your eyes and hair are so pretty and complement each other so well
I always have to watch your videos with a pen and paper on the side, great video!
❤️❤️
How I look like in others’ eyes -> What impression is this person leaving on me. Love that!
My confidence has only started to come back again because I've been slowly removing toxic family members from my life.
Years of their bad company has formed a personality within me which is low and sad.
I wonder who I am without them in my life permanently. Confident and positive I hope.
This is so helpful and so useful! Another thing is, you know you have found true confidence and inner peace when even if you don’t necessarily like how you look that day and it isn’t your go to “confident” appearance, you still accept yourself and feel the same love for life and yourself as you would if you were doing what normally made u confident. I think confidence is also about, no matter how you happen to look, being okay and secure with yourself and accepting. Acceptance is as beautiful as confidence and forms itself into confidence.
Of course that doesn’t mean don’t take pride in the things that make you feel confident (hair,clothes,the food you eat, working out ect.) But even when all that isn’t working for you one day, truly accepting that you are still just as worthy is beautiful.
But of course we only have one life (depending on beliefs) so embrace what you love and make the most of the things that bring you confidence!
And love yourself you were made for yourself and no one else enjoy it!🤍
I admire this girl in the short time that I have known her, (five hours), because from what little I have seen it is like going to the psychologist or how to talk to a wise person while you get wiser and try to use that wisdom in your life daily
Hi Lana 👋,
I love the quote that you shared at the end of the video! I can imagine it opening people’s eyes into learning to be even more confident in themselves because it definitely opened mine!
I think, it is from Victor Hugo.
such a calming voice
I love your videos A LOT. pls never stop making them
Good tips! and the most important people need to understand that confidence is a skill everyone can build from scratch.
Thanku so much I feel much better watching your video as a teenager I was always insecure about what others think of me will they like me does my friends like me but by watching your video thoughts like that have become much less blessed to watch your video ♥️
I really admire you, because watching every of your life learning stories just makes me realize what I'm doing wrong. I will follow this video to be more confident and trustworthy of myself
Thank you! Especially the last quote! Finally a video where I feel like the advice was meant for me🌸
i really like how you filmed this video and your overall editing style, how you speak, go straight to the point and etc. looking forward to the video about femininity!!!
my heart feels weird, my hands started to turn cold, my feet were fidgeting on their own, i tried to play online games, forgot that toxic people exist, then i searched "video to make me feel better" and watched yours as well as others. still didn't feel better enough, i just searched "i feel bad for being rich", and i found this. i feel much better now you won't know how, but i bet you know how it feels when a heavy weight slowly rises off your body by some words from a stranger that you feel thankful to yourself and to the stranger. thank you, Lana.
Thank you for this❤️.. coming out the pandemic it feels so overwhelming to be working 8 hours with people you barely know everyday, feels good to know your the only one, and that is not me going crazy 🤣 hope we all get rid of compulsive thinking.
Thank you! I deal with social anxiety but I'm learning to be more confident in myself. Also, the shooting bubbles part cracked me up
my boots was delivered last week, and the reason why I ordered it is because of the sound when I walk it. Planning to use it when I go to the office 😊. Never thought I'll be hearing that here!!!!
Thank you Lana, I can really see a difference between now and 1-2 years ago - although I always liked your vibe, now you definitely seem veery self confident in a very cool way. Thank you for sharing this💕
Sometimes, you just can’t get what you want, but it doesn’t mean that you can never have it. Everything takes place at the right time
Lana, to be fair, i think it helps immensely that you're very beautiful, skinny, and you speak well. I'm not trying to discredit your points here. But there are people who are not as blessed with your charm and physical beauty. Thanks
The final quote is so beautiful 🥰❤️❤️
I think this really helped me. Nowadays I wear stuff that makes me "expose" my femininity. I always love to walk home because i think it helps me feel more confident. Especially when I see those kids who always waves at me and said hi, i like how they are kind to me. I stopped wearing cap and hiding my face because before I'm really not into people and stuff. But after realizing that i only need to fake it till I make it. Yesterday when I was walking home from school, there's this few kids, they're like "hey girl~" and I waved at them confused because I wonder why they decided to waved at me. But one thing's for sure, they definitely made my day.
Lana's videos feel like cool summer breeze in a hot day!
I lost my confidence when I gained a lot of weight. I also have ED before. I started to workout and have a good relationship with food now. I can also now wear all the clothes I wore before. I'm so happy now. And alsooo my skin got more clearer than ever.
Happy Sunday Lana!! Your confidence helps us too, we appreciate everything you do!!
you are the queen of introverts
Ugh Lana, I love you and your videos so much x
thank you!! x
shooting bubbles from your middle region or your stomach😂 love your calm vibe
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I Love that pause you took about bubbles it's so cute .
You go girl! Other people do not matter. They will drag you down and wad you up and throw you away. Worry only about yourself and your family to remain strong. Self confidence is the key to survival in this world!
your videos are free theraphy i love you :*
this is so timely lana! ive been feeling really down because my self esteem is so low
love these tips Lana! thanks a lot
I love your videos so much ! I’ve been watching Ted talks and I found your videos!! The one abt relationships amazing
Fact : Lana is the most beautiful motivation speaker in the house 🥰✨
Iam struggling with confident so much as a teen, its so lucky for me to find out this, it helps alot! Thanks Lana❤️
You look amazing with that haircut. I love your videos, keep being the way you are even when it feels like it wouldn't matter if you stopped putting the effort to be better everyday, just because people don't realize about little things you do for them and how you treat them overall.
On a serious note - the posture thing is a big one. And I feel like a good way to fix a problem in that area would be to learn to feel your core. Possible methods for doing so - meditation, for me it's Wim Hof breathing practices. It's hard to explain, and in my case it took more than two years to start feeling something in that vicinity, but my experience tells me that anything worthwhile cannot be easily attained, it's always a struggle, always a grind.
I've been watching some of your videos for a while now, just wanted to say thanks for your amazing content! Really refreshing and uplifting :)
Beautiful video. So on point with everything.
Regarding the posture, I watched this video by Diana Devitt-Dawson, and she teaches the Alexander technique. It's basically about posture also, but its specifically about avoiding the compression of our spine. I've done my best to apply it, and I feel like it makes a difference in the health of my body and it helps me be aware of my posture. The video is rather relaxing also.
Thanks for sharing ur experiences. I love the way that how you talk so fluently and beside of it all you're so beautiful 😄👍🏻
Shooting bubbles from ...
Made me smile
I follow you on RUclips and instagram and I can say that you really helped me to be more confident and be productive. THANK YOU
Babe you look so good in this video. The lighting is perfect. You are beautiful x
You have a beautiful content!
I wonder how happy and contented you are within yourself...
You made my morning ma'am!
I see the title, I see your thumbnail, me : your natural voluminous hair and your natural beauty makes you confident☺️
hey Lana your content is smart and intelligent always!
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First of all, the tip about not being so negative on yourself and saying "I suck", "I'm weird" even if it's a joke really changed me. I learned a lot from this video. Secondly, completely unrelated to the video but you are beautiful! Your face has nice proportions, your hair lays so effortlessly. You look like a girl from a book
Lana, you just earned a follower and a subscriber. I love this content. I needed it now, thank you. 💕 from Nigeria.
Loved this video so much Lana