The fact that Lana is so stunningly beautiful that she could just become a model and life off her looks, yet she decides to use her wisdom and to help others. If the world was blind, Lana, you'd still impress so many. Thank you for spreading your light.
What if that "someone else" happens to be someone you love like your own child, significant other, parent, sibling or your best friend? Would you abandon yourself for their sake now? Would you do it if it was for the combined sake of literally everyone you love? I am not saying that you shouldn't love yourself. You definitely should but I think that it is possible to take the idea of self-love too far and into the territory of plain selfishness and narcissism and it's not obvious to me where to draw the line between the two.
"I don't abandon myself for someone else", a great quote! We should make sacrifices when needed, help each other, and so on, but abandon one self is the same as suicide even if the body and mind still lives on. But what is the point of life if you abandon yourself?
I'm 21 and my whole life I was people pleaser now i come on stage that I don't want to please anyone I started to forgive myself and care more and take small steps everyday. Everyone deserve true love and kindness so be the person for yourself.
Much needed to hear this. Since last 2 days I've been beating myself up for saying no to a friend who always break my boundaries. This video is such a relief to me❤ Thank you so much Lana❤❤❤ "I don't abandon myself for someone else😌"
Lana, its great that you decided to share your wisdom with everyone. At 71 years of age, I never met anyone like you. You are unique and special. Keep it up.
It can be so easy to fall into the trap of self-doubt and self-criticism, but your video reminded me of how important it is to take care of ourselves and to love ourselves for who we are💐💗💗
I love watching video's on these topics as they serve as reminders for me. What youre embodying serves as an opportunity for me to jump into who i truly am, or who im working towards becoming whooo. We are all just reflections for each other
It’s been so hard for me to love myself..I often get into uncomfortable situations because of it, I’m really grateful for this video, thanks Lana 💗 When I hear you explaining various things it calms my anxious heart and mind..I slow down and start to think about it in a better way rather than jumping to conclusions about myself which are mostly just my own thoughts.
This channel is A GAME CHANGER. You inspired me to have my RUclips channel about weight loss and glow up , AND I GOT 48k VIEWS from 0 account. All thanks to you! I just stopped fearing and started to go forward + using all your tips!
Your hair is so healthy! ❤Your video about self-love is a masterpiece. It contains lots of love and helpful advice which will lead to fulfillment in people's lives. You have a good heart. I am happy that you want me to love myself.
So much practical and real life advice. By watching this video we understood what is the unconscious reasons for so much types of negativity we experience. Thanks a lot 👌👍☺️
i always find these videos funny. it's easy to love yourself when you look like that. this shallow world gives value to you. but how could you love yourself if no one else did? that's something you can pretend to understand, but you'll never.
Once you find people that truly love you , you will notice they don't love you for your looks they love you for what's inside. "People won't always remember how you looked or what you did but they'll always remeber how you made them feel" love yourself by feeling confident and proud of what's inside and not outside. ❤
This stuff is so powerful and liberating. I have analysed many times where I treat myself harshly and overly critically and not the way I would treat someone loved. I do care for myself but I guess it's time to pump it up. Thanks a lot Lana!
It depends on each person. But for me, Self-love was always a priority for me. As long as I love myself, I don’t have a time to interfere in other people’s lifes. Only Being present in what I do and at peace with myself everyday 🤍🤍🤍 I have no attachment or aversion to anything or anyone. And that’s beautiful 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Thank you Lana Blakely. I am your big fan from China. I really love the way you talk, just like a slow stream. Watch your video really comfort me a lot. I will always remember the phrase that don't abandon yourself to satisfy someone else. I learn a lot from your video, grateful to you all the time!
At First I used to watch your vids (frankly anyones') at 2x😌 Now I realised that the speed u are talking in naturally has a reason and i am able comprehend more
I used to blame myself and depressed many times. But your sentence 'Don't give yourself, or people discounts' help me being more kind to me. Thanks Lana.
soo sorry the audio goes from loud to quiet during some parts. I was moving around quite a bit when filming and wasn't wearing a lav mic hehe, hope it's not too annoying. love you.
Thanks! Definitely getting better at loving myself but that also means putting others down and walking away when you know you deserve better, sometimes we don't have to be the first one to be kind, especially when we are kind always, how about others be kind and respectful, show up and be present this time instead of hiding behind the scenes, give credit, give them what they deserve instead of putting them down, give them that promotion, that respect and credit they deserve, show them they are valued because that is what they need from you. Otherwise, walk away.
I love your content in general, but this is my favorita video. I struggle with self love and I believe a lot of people do too, and this is so... basic Honestly, thank you so much for sharing these humble and kind videos and life lessons ❤
Exactly! It doesn't matter that ''no one sees'' as long as I see that! In the end of story I am the person who's opinion matter the most so I can't let's say litter excusing it that it's fine until no one sees it! Very good video!
This video on self-love is so inspiring and empowering! It's easy to get caught up in negative self-talk and self-criticism, but the tips you shared remind us that we deserve to treat ourselves with love and compassion. I particularly appreciated the emphasis on setting boundaries and saying no to things that don't align with our values and goals. Thank you for sharing this important message and helping us all work towards greater self-love and self-acceptance.
I’ve recently found this channel and lately I’ve been binging all your videos. I definitely feel like I neglected self love in the past and even now I feel like dumb mistakes in my past take over my mindset some times rather than focusing on where I want to go in life. I definitely think it’s good to take time and get to know yourself such as who is the person you want to be and what your goals are but if you beat your self up all the time that can be hard to do. I guess it’s all about balance with self care and holding yourself accountable
something I once found that really changed my view on self- love and my moral compass was "be the person you would ideally fall in love with". that made me reinterpret my definition of both self-love and love I can be given by someone else
As someone who is at sea level looking up at the mountain, I appreciate you sharing your experience to help those of us ascending/planning our own mountain. love.
Such a good video! For me personally, the hardest part about setting your boundaries is when people make you feel bad about that. For example, I don't eat meat and the amount of time people in my family try to make me feel weird or bad about it is insane. But I've learned to stick to my moral compass, even if it results in not being understood oder being perceived as somewhat different. Thank god, my friends are totally different. Also, about saying no: I often feel selfish when I say no to doing smth "because I don't feel like it", because I know it would make the other person happy if I did said thing. I definitely say yes too often.
Thank you for this, Lana. You have helped me so much in my journey of solidifying my character, healing my insecurities, and appreciating myself. You have taught me a lot. Thank you. 💗
I'm really not being negative but why is it that self love lessons are always given by people who look like her? That makes me think obviously it's easy for her to say because she looks so good already and when you are good looking you get good treatment from most of the people and it makes it easy for you to love yourself
You may be right, but only partially. Because you must be aware, like me, that there are people who are not so beautiful but who have a charm and magnetism that captivates anyone. And you will also certainly meet beautiful people who, when they speak, don't say anything well and end up not captivating anyone. I think the lesson here is to really have the self-love and self-respect necessary so that, deep down, you attract situations and people into your life that will be advantageous for you. I think it has more to do with attitude than beauty. But beauty is very relative too. What is beautiful for some may not be beautiful for others. And we can all improve our aesthetics, whether by exercising, changing a haircut, changing a style of dress, besides nowadays, if you have the possibility to do so, there are thousands of aesthetic treatments to change what we don't like so much. I know it's not all that linear, but physical beauty can be important, but if there's no content, it ends up having no meaning. It's a personal opinion of course
I don't know why every time i watch your videos I feel I gained my energy back. I feel fresh and energetic. May God bless you with a beautiful life dear🤍
The Ultimate Guide to Self-Love in Just One Step! In this empowering video, discover the single most important step to kickstart your journey towards genuine self-love and acceptance. Embrace this transformative insight to unlock a life filled with confidence and positivity! Don't miss out on this essential guide - it's time to start loving yourself unconditionally.
Brilliant as always, thank you! ❤ PS: How come you are always sitting there so summerly dressed while it is still so cold outside? Sorry for the offtopic, but I was always wondering if you never get cold 😅
I have a chubby face and a mole on my left cheek people always make fun of my chubbiness it hurts me so bad that I even cry for like 30 min it takes so much time to even heal myself because my heart brokes into million pieces May be this video was made for me 💘🙃
I'm not sure where or when it began, but throughout my teenage to now adult life I've carried a deeply rooted underlying, hidden assumption that if I was not in some kind of pain, then certainly I was not doing anything worthwhile. In other words, if there is no struggle in what I was engaged in it was worthless(or I somehow figured that no progress was being made). Long story short, this deeply rooted(near-visceral) assumption resulted in my body body rejecting my doing some pretty important things. Like, even if I were to have been given hundreds of thousands of dollars, I would not have done them(in some particular cases). And of course, when you send your neurobiological system little to no signals of joy or reward in a certain context, what the heck else can one expect! This I'm sure has/had as one of its main constituents a lack of self-love; and here I thought that I had little issues with such a thing at this point. Hahah, I'm currently acutely aware this of course, and am always on the lookout for its multiple manifestations. I allow myself to 'be good at' things, to have fun during, and to not *have* to be in a state of war throughout the whole process. Been a minute, nice to see your community is going strong. Thanks for the drop, Lana B!
Lana that was really powerful of you to say such things!! I will absolutely taking notes. As a people pleaser, i find this very helpful to help me love myself even more💗 Thank you for a billion times!
It’s validation. Building confidence in ability to do something special creates the result of validation. Do something special. Do it habitually. Get good at it. And even if no one cares that you got good at it, I guess it’s a little bummer that no one cares but, you did it. You’re validated. And that is the beginning of self love. ❤ Take care
it's kinda crazy how nobody's talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest
The fact that Lana is so stunningly beautiful that she could just become a model and life off her looks, yet she decides to use her wisdom and to help others. If the world was blind, Lana, you'd still impress so many. Thank you for spreading your light.
oh wow this is so sweet. thank you for your kind words.
@@LanaBlakely i agree! Lana i deeply admire you and how wise you are 💕
Looks fade, wisdom is worth more.
@@ajaychandel5650 hello
@@Ivaorz from where
"You do not abandon yourself to satisfy someone else"-SO TRUE
“Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is looking.”
I think about this every time I’m about to throw my apple core out the window.
It'll biodegrade anyway, a plastic bottle is a different story though.
"I don't abandon myself for someone else" That quote was beautiful. Lovely take on self love.
" I don't abandon my self to satisfy someone else "
What if that "someone else" happens to be someone you love like your own child, significant other, parent, sibling or your best friend? Would you abandon yourself for their sake now? Would you do it if it was for the combined sake of literally everyone you love?
I am not saying that you shouldn't love yourself. You definitely should but I think that it is possible to take the idea of self-love too far and into the territory of plain selfishness and narcissism and it's not obvious to me where to draw the line between the two.
"I don't abandon myself for someone else", a great quote! We should make sacrifices when needed, help each other, and so on, but abandon one self is the same as suicide even if the body and mind still lives on. But what is the point of life if you abandon yourself?
I'm 21 and my whole life I was people pleaser now i come on stage that I don't want to please anyone I started to forgive myself and care more and take small steps everyday. Everyone deserve true love and kindness so be the person for yourself.
Much needed to hear this. Since last 2 days I've been beating myself up for saying no to a friend who always break my boundaries.
This video is such a relief to me❤
Thank you so much Lana❤❤❤
"I don't abandon myself for someone else😌"
Lana, its great that you decided to share your wisdom with everyone. At 71 years of age, I never met anyone like you. You are unique and special. Keep it up.
It can be so easy to fall into the trap of self-doubt and self-criticism, but your video reminded me of how important it is to take care of ourselves and to love ourselves for who we are💐💗💗
I love watching video's on these topics as they serve as reminders for me. What youre embodying serves as an opportunity for me to jump into who i truly am, or who im working towards becoming whooo.
We are all just reflections for each other
It’s been so hard for me to love myself..I often get into uncomfortable situations because of it, I’m really grateful for this video, thanks Lana 💗
When I hear you explaining various things it calms my anxious heart and mind..I slow down and start to think about it in a better way rather than jumping to conclusions about myself which are mostly just my own thoughts.
I love how you talk slowly and you take your time to tell things . Whenever i watch your videos i feel relax 😌 thanks🇲🇦 🇲🇦 for everthing
Honestly from my heart , wish you healthy, wealthy and peaceful life ✨
This channel is A GAME CHANGER. You inspired me to have my RUclips channel about weight loss and glow up , AND I GOT 48k VIEWS from 0 account. All thanks to you! I just stopped fearing and started to go forward + using all your tips!
Lana uploads gotta stop what I’m doing and watch this, so let’s find out what I’m doing wrong with my life and how to improve.
@@ajaychandel5650 ha ty!
@@Ivaorz from where
Yeah just now realizing this, after tired of being hurt by someone else actions. When the whole time I just need to focus on myself.
Girlll you gotta show your hair routine...boy oh boy every time it looks so good and I've always admired it! love the video btw!
Your hair is so healthy! ❤Your video about self-love is a masterpiece. It contains lots of love and helpful advice which will lead to fulfillment in people's lives. You have a good heart. I am happy that you want me to love myself.
Lana is truly elegant & beautiful, very calming voice & always offering good sensible encouragement. ❤❤❤❤❤
So much practical and real life advice. By watching this video we understood what is the unconscious reasons for so much types of negativity we experience. Thanks a lot 👌👍☺️
“how deep is this love that you have for yourself?” powerful line
i always find these videos funny. it's easy to love yourself when you look like that. this shallow world gives value to you. but how could you love yourself if no one else did? that's something you can pretend to understand, but you'll never.
Exactly. It gets to a point where the type of shit that she preaches, sounds juvenile and shallow.
Once you find people that truly love you , you will notice they don't love you for your looks they love you for what's inside. "People won't always remember how you looked or what you did but they'll always remeber how you made them feel" love yourself by feeling confident and proud of what's inside and not outside. ❤
This stuff is so powerful and liberating.
I have analysed many times where I treat myself harshly and overly critically and not the way I would treat someone loved.
I do care for myself but I guess it's time to pump it up.
Thanks a lot Lana!
It depends on each person. But for me, Self-love was always a priority for me.
As long as I love myself, I don’t have a time to interfere in other people’s lifes.
Only Being present in what I do and at peace with myself everyday 🤍🤍🤍
I have no attachment or aversion to anything or anyone. And that’s beautiful 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Thank you Lana Blakely. I am your big fan from China. I really love the way you talk, just like a slow stream. Watch your video really comfort me a lot. I will always remember the phrase that don't abandon yourself to satisfy someone else. I learn a lot from your video, grateful to you all the time!
At First I used to watch your vids (frankly anyones') at 2x😌
Now I realised that the speed u are talking in naturally has a reason and i am able comprehend more
I used to blame myself and depressed many times.
But your sentence 'Don't give yourself, or people discounts' help me being more kind to me.
Thanks Lana.
Positive Vibes to everyone here 🙌🏽✨🌻 We all deserve to be the best version of ourselves ❤ Love you Lana ❤
Love u Karla
please bring back The Lana Blakely Podcast to life 😭💜 I'll keep refreshing till I see a new episode 💜
soo sorry the audio goes from loud to quiet during some parts. I was moving around quite a bit when filming and wasn't wearing a lav mic hehe, hope it's not too annoying. love you.
Didnt notice
No problem. Your audio doesn't annoy me at all. Thank you for such an important video about self-love. I love you too
Thanks! Definitely getting better at loving myself but that also means putting others down and walking away when you know you deserve better, sometimes we don't have to be the first one to be kind, especially when we are kind always, how about others be kind and respectful, show up and be present this time instead of hiding behind the scenes, give credit, give them what they deserve instead of putting them down, give them that promotion, that respect and credit they deserve, show them they are valued because that is what they need from you. Otherwise, walk away.
❤ support you!
Didn't even notice 22
This Sundays uploads are a vibe
Listening to your talking on any topic , always feels like a meditation to me soothing the mind and soul 🙏
I love your content in general, but this is my favorita video. I struggle with self love and I believe a lot of people do too, and this is so... basic
Honestly, thank you so much for sharing these humble and kind videos and life lessons ❤
Thanks for posting this video Lana, such wise words that I think I will need to refer back to often. 👍
Hi Lana!! Can you do a video of your makeup and hair? Thank you :))
Exactly! It doesn't matter that ''no one sees'' as long as I see that! In the end of story I am the person who's opinion matter the most so I can't let's say litter excusing it that it's fine until no one sees it! Very good video!
thank you lana . i love everything about about your videos , the serenity watching you is priceless . I take notes everytime
Love this, Lana. Treating yourself with respect & love is imperative to a happy life! Awesome insight as usual. BTW, I thought the audio was fine.
This is probably the best video I've seen on self love. Thank you. :)
your videos always make my day! Thanks for this. :) love from India
Excellent! Exactly and succinctly to the main point!
Definitely beautiful , your face glows like a flower does in the sunshine. And u have a great way of explaining and clarifying 😍
Tack Lana! Behövde verkligen det här
What a beautiful video 💛
This video made me cry and inspired me
This video on self-love is so inspiring and empowering! It's easy to get caught up in negative self-talk and self-criticism, but the tips you shared remind us that we deserve to treat ourselves with love and compassion. I particularly appreciated the emphasis on setting boundaries and saying no to things that don't align with our values and goals. Thank you for sharing this important message and helping us all work towards greater self-love and self-acceptance.
Thank You Lana for this amazing video ☺
I LUV U LANA.
The advice I need right now. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you 🤍
Lana you are absolutely so lovely and beautiful...❤️🌻🌹🙏🏼
💯
Thank you Lana❤❤
I’ve recently found this channel and lately I’ve been binging all your videos. I definitely feel like I neglected self love in the past and even now I feel like dumb mistakes in my past take over my mindset some times rather than focusing on where I want to go in life. I definitely think it’s good to take time and get to know yourself such as who is the person you want to be and what your goals are but if you beat your self up all the time that can be hard to do. I guess it’s all about balance with self care and holding yourself accountable
When you love yourself you dont depend on others for anything
This was so needed. I need to learn how to say no and stick to it. Because actions speak louder than words. I gotta be there for myself
I had come here to improve my English because iam studying for IELTS ..
Unfortunately i fell in your eyes 👀 sleepy eyes very bonny looks mashallah
something I once found that really changed my view on self- love and my moral compass was "be the person you would ideally fall in love with". that made me reinterpret my definition of both self-love and love I can be given by someone else
As someone who is at sea level looking up at the mountain, I appreciate you sharing your experience to help those of us ascending/planning our own mountain. love.
Such a good video! For me personally, the hardest part about setting your boundaries is when people make you feel bad about that. For example, I don't eat meat and the amount of time people in my family try to make me feel weird or bad about it is insane. But I've learned to stick to my moral compass, even if it results in not being understood oder being perceived as somewhat different. Thank god, my friends are totally different. Also, about saying no: I often feel selfish when I say no to doing smth "because I don't feel like it", because I know it would make the other person happy if I did said thing. I definitely say yes too often.
Thank you for this, Lana. You have helped me so much in my journey of solidifying my character, healing my insecurities, and appreciating myself. You have taught me a lot. Thank you. 💗
Your videos really help me to take good care of myself and my well being. It means a lot to me
I'm a simple man. I see your eyes I press like.
Amazingly awesome love your friendly advice you are cool and very smart you make it look so easy your buity is timeless
I need someone to talk about this matter 😢😢😢
☕.. Trust the gut feeling, prioritise that! 😎😎😎
A big problem with a lot of people is they love and take themselves way too serious.
Why are all the videos explaining how to love yourself delivered by beautiful people?? I promise if I'm this beautiful I'll love myself
Omg Lana your hair is so beautiful 😭
I DON'T ABANDON MYSELF TO SATISFY OTHERS!
Thank God this channel exists. I’ve been here for almost 1.5 years and I learned so much. Thanks Lana❤
Hallo saya dari Indonesia, konten anda sangat bermanfaat. Terimakasih
Hey Lana, could you pls talk about weak character in ur next video?
thanks ❤
One more thing loving yourself includes not mocking or shading others
Hope you understand Lana🌚
This video was AMAZING. Thank you so so much for making this 🙏🏼💞🍉
Your voice is really soothing, its always nice to listen to you 🤍
G R E A T C H A N N E L ! ! !
I'm really not being negative but why is it that self love lessons are always given by people who look like her? That makes me think obviously it's easy for her to say because she looks so good already and when you are good looking you get good treatment from most of the people and it makes it easy for you to love yourself
You may be right, but only partially. Because you must be aware, like me, that there are people who are not so beautiful but who have a charm and magnetism that captivates anyone. And you will also certainly meet beautiful people who, when they speak, don't say anything well and end up not captivating anyone. I think the lesson here is to really have the self-love and self-respect necessary so that, deep down, you attract situations and people into your life that will be advantageous for you. I think it has more to do with attitude than beauty. But beauty is very relative too. What is beautiful for some may not be beautiful for others. And we can all improve our aesthetics, whether by exercising, changing a haircut, changing a style of dress, besides nowadays, if you have the possibility to do so, there are thousands of aesthetic treatments to change what we don't like so much. I know it's not all that linear, but physical beauty can be important, but if there's no content, it ends up having no meaning. It's a personal opinion of course
only partially true. being beautiful can be a blessing and a curse.
I’ve created a world where saying no is like gaining more time. Time is the most precious thing on Earth even if I use it to do nothing at all.
I don't know why every time i watch your videos I feel I gained my energy back. I feel fresh and energetic. May God bless you with a beautiful life dear🤍
Lana blakely, your voice is like an ASMR! 🎉❤
My beautiful...thank u for like that somehow motivational words....you can treat me I any situation)♡
Thank you!!!
The Ultimate Guide to Self-Love in Just One Step! In this empowering video, discover the single most important step to kickstart your journey towards genuine self-love and acceptance. Embrace this transformative insight to unlock a life filled with confidence and positivity! Don't miss out on this essential guide - it's time to start loving yourself unconditionally.
Brilliant as always, thank you! ❤ PS: How come you are always sitting there so summerly dressed while it is still so cold outside? Sorry for the offtopic, but I was always wondering if you never get cold 😅
Because you’re so beautiful, don’t get me wrong
Thanks Lana is teaching us how to live. This video is going to favorites bar in Chrome!
💜💜💜 I just say thank you a million for being here. You are literally my soulmate💜💜💜
I want to work for you one day. I'll work on my own portfolio till then. Hope to see you when I have enough to prove my capabilities as a creative.
you are so incredybly beautiful.
I have a chubby face and a mole on my left cheek people always make fun of my chubbiness it hurts me so bad that I even cry for like 30 min it takes so much time to even heal myself because my heart brokes into million pieces
May be this video was made for me 💘🙃
Hey sweetie thank you.
I'm not sure where or when it began, but throughout my teenage to now adult life I've carried a deeply rooted underlying, hidden assumption that if I was not in some kind of pain, then certainly I was not doing anything worthwhile. In other words, if there is no struggle in what I was engaged in it was worthless(or I somehow figured that no progress was being made). Long story short, this deeply rooted(near-visceral) assumption resulted in my body body rejecting my doing some pretty important things. Like, even if I were to have been given hundreds of thousands of dollars, I would not have done them(in some particular cases). And of course, when you send your neurobiological system little to no signals of joy or reward in a certain context, what the heck else can one expect! This I'm sure has/had as one of its main constituents a lack of self-love; and here I thought that I had little issues with such a thing at this point. Hahah, I'm currently acutely aware this of course, and am always on the lookout for its multiple manifestations. I allow myself to 'be good at' things, to have fun during, and to not *have* to be in a state of war throughout the whole process.
Been a minute, nice to see your community is going strong. Thanks for the drop, Lana B!
lana is so beautiful and intelligent, and speaks so well, if she starts giving advice, life can truly transform.
Lana that was really powerful of you to say such things!! I will absolutely taking notes. As a people pleaser, i find this very helpful to help me love myself even more💗 Thank you for a billion times!
Who else stopped at "You don't abandon yourself to satisfy someone else" to take a note?
It’s validation.
Building confidence in ability to do something special creates the result of validation.
Do something special.
Do it habitually.
Get good at it.
And even if no one cares that you got good at it, I guess it’s a little bummer that no one cares but, you did it. You’re validated.
And that is the beginning of self love.
❤
Take care
You help me see the light for a better future, thank you always for your amazing messages
you always release videos about exacly what I need in the moment. thank you so much for all your videos!