I'm writing this with tears in my eyes. I felt so bad about feeling jealous and I thought I'm a bad person. You comfort my feelings so much. I'm shacking literally
Loooooved this! I swear, this for example is something so "widely known about" but that is rarely spoken about but it totally makes the difference in the way you see and interact with others in your daily life!
This is so true!! Im 18 years old and this mindset has damaged my friendships a lot. I don't feel anger towards them. I just feel resentment towards the world in general. This notion that everyone is going through something might be right but from an objective point of view, some people simply have better lives than others.
Thanks lana, I feel like we ve come to a point where we 're constantly trying so hard to show a non-chalant and resilient persona but in reality these thoughts you 're sharing are really humane and bonding in a sense. We may feel this jealousy but at least we are together in it so we 're not feeling weird about feeling bad....
Hi! I had a feeling like as your videos are my terapeut sessions and now was the time where confronting should start haha. I loved it. Also loved that there was no sound when you were speaking to soul. Made me more connected with the thoughts you wanted to transfer. Thank you for that! Adela from Slovakia
Class exists to remind us, that their life is not my life. We can sacrifice, and strive, to reach a higher class, but at some point, you do have to realize, that we did not start at the same point, that those of a higher class started! I have learned that Equal and Fair are cruel to humans, they trick us out into believing that they are real, but they really do not exist.
one thing i've learned is that alot of people rather talk bad about others to justify their lack of hard work, I've done the same but actually stopped and realised what I was doing was wasting my time
Hey Lana! Your vlog on jealousy really hit home. Love how raw and honest you were about such a relatable topic! As a video editor, I was really impressed by how you conveyed such deep emotions through your storytelling. Would love to help bring more of your authentic content to life if you're ever looking for an editor! Keep being real! 💫
I kept thinking to myself that for the first time ever, we have a difference of opinion because I knew that, sort of inherently or say through life experience and just general knowledge, that anyone who seems "perfect" in any way, of course has not so "perfect" things I don't know about. And thinking this wasn't even to like, comfort myself or to not feel jealous, it just somehow felt like a fact. Because even if somebody has literally everything because of sheer luck, there's still one thing they wouldn't have and that is experience of not having such a perfect left. BUT then, you started talking about seeking validation about it online and getting happy by seeing others' "flaws" or downfalls. And that's when I knew, even this time, we actually don't have a difference of opinion lol. And everything you said definitely did make sense. Even tho, as I said, I don't really get that affected by others' "perfection" because I don't need external validation about their imperfections to feel better about myself, and moreover I do keep analysing my own self whenever I feel envious and then work accordingly towards that by maybe taking a tennis class ^^ this video still made me think deeply about this topic along with a few more perspectives from you. Thank you for posting Lana, missed you! And really hoping you're being happy and healthy, and that your hearing gets better. Sending lots of hugs and positivity your way! ❤
I could say alot about this but maybe for a start: When I'm unsatisfied, I imagine myself as a homeless bum sleeping under a bridge, no teeth, decrepit and with absolutely no other people in his life. And I try to feel that and be at complete peace with it. Makes life seem like a nice bonus. Or as Lester Levenson put it: Trying to find peace in the external world is a recipe for disaster.
thank you lana for uploading again!! I usually don’t comment often on things but your videos always make me feel calm, inspired and let me see things from different perspectives :)) i wish you all the best an keep going!! All the best from Switzerland ☀️
basically in short is its like The healthy way of being jealous is wishing you had that the INDECENT way of being jealous is wishing they didn't have that.
@@LanaBlakely It'll be soon...💖 Everything happens for a reason You're so strong you're handling it SO well Sending love and virtual hugs you're such a role model Lana you don't understand the impact you make Love you wholeheartedly 💖
Jealous people can become really toxic guys. This video is really calming and I also love this perspective ❤ Love you Lana I love when she post new videos 😘
may be something happening inside you ,which you r not able to hold...and you know tears are the gems of eyes... tear less eyes are like a desert so be happy for that...🙂
Lana, when we are jealous of things that others have and we don't, we are always only looking at it from our own perspective. But does that really make these people happier? Those who have a lot can also lose a lot. In truth, we are only happy when we develop and are successful and when we realize that we have to find contentment within ourselves.
Lana I was Watching your Old Videos and Suddenly I saw your Notification came I clicked so fast😭💗✨ and you always brighten up my day special with your New Video
Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. I do believe that. My fraternal twin sister (who looks nothing Iike me) has always been considered more attractive than me by others. People would always stare at her and no one at me and sometimes I felt very jealous. But one day this guy stared at me like I was a piece of art… I swear I looked behind me to see if he was looking at someone behind me, but no he looked right at my face and kept his gaze for like three minutes straight… I was flabbergasted.. it was the first time someone had looked at me like that for so long, almost like he was transfixed. For the first time I felt beautiful… I literally cried when I came home and u still shiver sometimes thinking that ok maybe someone in this world thought I was this absolutely gorgeous person too, even if I don’t look like these other socially accepted pretty women
Besides the grass is greener. The most beautiful person according to the standard will attract, I mean it could lots of superfisial people, relationships
Jealousy is the shadow of greed. Those whom may be consumed by this emotion tend to be miserable human beings. In large part their thought pattern is driven by social structures that are flawed within themselves. They do not realize that trying to adhere to standards of which they did not construct they are guaranteed to lose. So one needs to let go of adhering to these social structures of "beauty standards", "social status", "monetary evaluation". All of these are a distraction and are meaningless. Fore if there was such a thing as beauty standard mother nature would have made everyone look the same way obviously that didn't happen. Social status is meaningless, another mechanism that is used to drive a wedge between each other. Monetary structures meaningless for everything we see, hear, feel, touch and taste all was created for free by the universe. We humans created this sense of value from monopoly money, which only stagnates progression and innovation. Hopefully humans one day can evolve beyond these things. Life is what you make of it.
hi Lana I think a lot of jealousy that we feel is directly linked to social media. What if someone was jealous of you ? It could well be so. Sometimes I find it's good to make a list of the positive things in my life and try to focus on them
I don't know if it was just me, but at the beginning of the video, it seemed like you were almost crying... I hope I was mistaken! Lana the first video I watched of yours (by accident, like 90% of youtube videos) was one where you were in a cafe, in a park, and were talking about the awkwardness of talking like that (to yourself) in public. To me YOU looked perfect! So, no matter how imperfect we see ourselves, please keep in mind that in someone else's eyes, YOU are that perfect girl, boy, human. I believe, the reason we keep comparing ourselves to others is due to the fundamental primary need to be accepted! If you did not get accepted by a group in tribal times, your survival was at risk. If a baby is not accepted by his caregivers, his survival is threatened. That is why from a very young age we strive to be liked/accepted by our family first, and then expanding to the community around. From what I have seen so far in my life, is that people that were raised in families where they were seen, accepted and loved unconditionally, where they were praised for being the unique self they were, they went out in the world being so complete, that no "perfect" woman/man would shake their perception of self. Because perfect does not exist, or better said: We are all perfect beings of nature! The way we were created and function is a miracle so big, that 100 life-times wouldn't be enough worshipping it! It's a journey for all humans to reach this completion of soul-body-mind. So take your time. Love and cherish yourselves as much as you can! Big hug from Albania 💖
I think I’m too much of a Sagittarius with prominent Aquarius placements to relate to this. Never in my life have I tried to find flaws on people for self gratification and I’m seldom jealous of people. I usually just want something but for ME. I don’t want what anyone else has, I want that thing but designed for me. I really don’t gaf most times. 😭
I think you r living ur best life ... not because you have everything or something which is is good in my eyes....but because you live so close to yourself being so aware .... may be that's my way of looking at ... but ultimately life has no meaning and even no meaning is also a meaning,even that's not there nothing is there nothing can be done ....knowing this experiencially is a way to become free ... I am still unable to control my ego ... it is so powerful....even wanting to control also comes from ego ...😶🌫️😶🌫️😶🌫️
Not sure where you are talking about.. But I think you are pretty and it seems you are doing your best to be A better person. Something I can appreciate.
I never felt envy since my adult days. Why should I? I am very happy for those people who got a better life and are happier and more blessed by the Lord then I am. When one got love for our fellow humans in his heart, he will always feel happy for them and feel good about their good life and their blessings. I find it a bit disturbing you said being jeaulous and having envy for other people would be natural. I don't see it that way and I do not think it is natural to feel bad about your fellow humans living a better life then yours. You cannot envy your fellow human beings if you really love them.
Focus on Jesus and in Him you'll find your true identity. In Him you will know who you belong to and who you really are. I love you, Lana. How I wish you will be my future wife.
I'm writing this with tears in my eyes. I felt so bad about feeling jealous and I thought I'm a bad person. You comfort my feelings so much. I'm shacking literally
Loooooved this! I swear, this for example is something so "widely known about" but that is rarely spoken about but it totally makes the difference in the way you see and interact with others in your daily life!
This is so true!! Im 18 years old and this mindset has damaged my friendships a lot. I don't feel anger towards them. I just feel resentment towards the world in general. This notion that everyone is going through something might be right but from an objective point of view, some people simply have better lives than others.
Lana, your videos heals me
Thanks lana, I feel like we ve come to a point where we 're constantly trying so hard to show a non-chalant and resilient persona but in reality these thoughts you 're sharing are really humane and bonding in a sense. We may feel this jealousy but at least we are together in it so we 're not feeling weird about feeling bad....
26:52
"Something can be true and STILL be an excuse."
Truer words never spoken, Lana.
Hi! I had a feeling like as your videos are my terapeut sessions and now was the time where confronting should start haha. I loved it. Also loved that there was no sound when you were speaking to soul. Made me more connected with the thoughts you wanted to transfer. Thank you for that! Adela from Slovakia
Class exists to remind us, that their life is not my life.
We can sacrifice, and strive, to reach a higher class, but at some point, you do have to realize, that we did not start at the same point, that those of a higher class started!
I have learned that Equal and Fair are cruel to humans, they trick us out into believing that they are real, but they really do not exist.
one thing i've learned is that alot of people rather talk bad about others to justify their lack of hard work, I've done the same but actually stopped and realised what I was doing was wasting my time
Hey Lana! Your vlog on jealousy really hit home. Love how raw and honest you were about such a relatable topic! As a video editor, I was really impressed by how you conveyed such deep emotions through your storytelling. Would love to help bring more of your authentic content to life if you're ever looking for an editor! Keep being real! 💫
So relatable, been feeling the same lately
I kept thinking to myself that for the first time ever, we have a difference of opinion because I knew that, sort of inherently or say through life experience and just general knowledge, that anyone who seems "perfect" in any way, of course has not so "perfect" things I don't know about. And thinking this wasn't even to like, comfort myself or to not feel jealous, it just somehow felt like a fact. Because even if somebody has literally everything because of sheer luck, there's still one thing they wouldn't have and that is experience of not having such a perfect left. BUT then, you started talking about seeking validation about it online and getting happy by seeing others' "flaws" or downfalls. And that's when I knew, even this time, we actually don't have a difference of opinion lol. And everything you said definitely did make sense. Even tho, as I said, I don't really get that affected by others' "perfection" because I don't need external validation about their imperfections to feel better about myself, and moreover I do keep analysing my own self whenever I feel envious and then work accordingly towards that by maybe taking a tennis class ^^ this video still made me think deeply about this topic along with a few more perspectives from you. Thank you for posting Lana, missed you! And really hoping you're being happy and healthy, and that your hearing gets better. Sending lots of hugs and positivity your way! ❤
This was so timely 🥺 thank u for sharing this
I could say alot about this but maybe for a start: When I'm unsatisfied, I imagine myself as a homeless bum sleeping under a bridge, no teeth, decrepit and with absolutely no other people in his life. And I try to feel that and be at complete peace with it. Makes life seem like a nice bonus. Or as Lester Levenson put it: Trying to find peace in the external world is a recipe for disaster.
Today your each word said is so true & touching. I can totally relate 💯
Thank you for sharing this 🙏🫶
thank you lana for uploading again!! I usually don’t comment often on things but your videos always make me feel calm, inspired and let me see things from different perspectives :)) i wish you all the best an keep going!! All the best from Switzerland ☀️
love listening to you! always helps me change my mindset on things thankyou💌
We need to be our own person more
Stop giving power to strangers ~
Lana Blakely
Real advice
Thank you Lana, I love your videos❤
I say this regarding being insecure: There's so many reasons to be insecure that you can't control!
basically in short is its like
The healthy way of being jealous is wishing you had that
the INDECENT way of being jealous is wishing they didn't have that.
Is your hearing good now honey?
unfortunately not
@@LanaBlakely It'll be soon...💖 Everything happens for a reason
You're so strong you're handling it SO well
Sending love and virtual hugs you're such a role model Lana you don't understand the impact you make
Love you wholeheartedly 💖
@@LanaBlakely hope you heal fast!! take care 💗
your videos make me calm and relax in a way healing from thinking too much,
and you're so perfect you may don't even know!
Life is unfair & acceptance is the key. To me you are very beautiful and wise. Thanks for guidance
Jealous people can become really toxic guys. This video is really calming and I also love this perspective ❤ Love you Lana I love when she post new videos 😘
My soul is literally crying🫠
may be something happening inside you ,which you r not able to hold...and you know tears are the gems of eyes...
tear less eyes are like a desert so be happy for that...🙂
Lana, when we are jealous of things that others have and we don't, we are always only looking at it from our own perspective. But does that really make these people happier? Those who have a lot can also lose a lot. In truth, we are only happy when we develop and are successful and when we realize that we have to find contentment within ourselves.
Lana I was Watching your Old Videos and Suddenly I saw your Notification came I clicked so fast😭💗✨ and you always brighten up my day special with your New Video
hiiii
Thank you for this Lana! I think this was super helpful and relatable
We cannot change anything unless we accept it 🙂
loved the video! love the way you bring me peace and so much comfort with every single thing you post❤
actually watched it with tears in my eyes... thank you a lot for comforting me about jealousy feelings❤
Had a bad day, you brightened up my mood
I'm glad
much love all
thank you !!
I just wanted to say- thank you soo much for whatever you're doing! I hope you never stop spreading positivity
Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. I do believe that. My fraternal twin sister (who looks nothing Iike me) has always been considered more attractive than me by others. People would always stare at her and no one at me and sometimes I felt very jealous. But one day this guy stared at me like I was a piece of art… I swear I looked behind me to see if he was looking at someone behind me, but no he looked right at my face and kept his gaze for like three minutes straight… I was flabbergasted.. it was the first time someone had looked at me like that for so long, almost like he was transfixed. For the first time I felt beautiful… I literally cried when I came home and u still shiver sometimes thinking that ok maybe someone in this world thought I was this absolutely gorgeous person too, even if I don’t look like these other socially accepted pretty women
Besides the grass is greener. The most beautiful person according to the standard will attract, I mean it could lots of superfisial people, relationships
Your videos really help me keep a cool head .
Love ya !!! From Morocco ❤❤❤❤
ily !!!!
I hope and prayed for the best of you (including your heariing))...Aaameen...🙏🙏🙏
I was deliberating this for days. Why are chances I want i cant get? I might never. And see so many people getting what I want effortlkessly.
There you are Miss Blakely looking younger than ever!
hahah thanks !!
Thank u for this video Lana, we love u❤
Jealousy is the shadow of greed. Those whom may be consumed by this emotion tend to be miserable human beings. In large part their thought pattern is driven by social structures that are flawed within themselves. They do not realize that trying to adhere to standards of which they did not construct they are guaranteed to lose. So one needs to let go of adhering to these social structures of "beauty standards", "social status", "monetary evaluation". All of these are a distraction and are meaningless. Fore if there was such a thing as beauty standard mother nature would have made everyone look the same way obviously that didn't happen.
Social status is meaningless, another mechanism that is used to drive a wedge between each other. Monetary structures meaningless for everything we see, hear, feel, touch and taste all was created for free by the universe. We humans created this sense of value from monopoly money, which only stagnates progression and innovation. Hopefully humans one day can evolve beyond these things. Life is what you make of it.
Very well said!
Lana you are naturally beautiful women who does not excite me but calme me down.
Hi Lana! Love your videos
hi Lana I think a lot of jealousy that we feel is directly linked to social media. What if someone was jealous of you ? It could well be so. Sometimes I find it's good to make a list of the positive things in my life and try to focus on them
Always waited for your videos
I'd be happy just to have supportive parents. I don't need money (not that I have any) but It would be enough.
I don't know if it was just me, but at the beginning of the video, it seemed like you were almost crying... I hope I was mistaken! Lana the first video I watched of yours (by accident, like 90% of youtube videos) was one where you were in a cafe, in a park, and were talking about the awkwardness of talking like that (to yourself) in public. To me YOU looked perfect! So, no matter how imperfect we see ourselves, please keep in mind that in someone else's eyes, YOU are that perfect girl, boy, human. I believe, the reason we keep comparing ourselves to others is due to the fundamental primary need to be accepted! If you did not get accepted by a group in tribal times, your survival was at risk. If a baby is not accepted by his caregivers, his survival is threatened. That is why from a very young age we strive to be liked/accepted by our family first, and then expanding to the community around. From what I have seen so far in my life, is that people that were raised in families where they were seen, accepted and loved unconditionally, where they were praised for being the unique self they were, they went out in the world being so complete, that no "perfect" woman/man would shake their perception of self. Because perfect does not exist, or better said: We are all perfect beings of nature! The way we were created and function is a miracle so big, that 100 life-times wouldn't be enough worshipping it! It's a journey for all humans to reach this completion of soul-body-mind. So take your time. Love and cherish yourselves as much as you can! Big hug from Albania 💖
LANA BLACK ERES ESPECIAL, UNA REINA , MUJER HERMOSA TKM 😍😍🤩🤩
I think I’m too much of a Sagittarius with prominent Aquarius placements to relate to this. Never in my life have I tried to find flaws on people for self gratification and I’m seldom jealous of people. I usually just want something but for ME. I don’t want what anyone else has, I want that thing but designed for me. I really don’t gaf most times. 😭
Lana you are amazing❤
I think you r living ur best life ... not because you have everything or something which is is good in my eyes....but because you live so close to yourself being so aware .... may be that's my way of looking at ...
but ultimately life has no meaning and even no meaning is also a meaning,even that's not there nothing is there nothing can be done ....knowing this experiencially is a way to become free ... I am still unable to control my ego ... it is so powerful....even wanting to control also comes from ego ...😶🌫️😶🌫️😶🌫️
Yeah jealisist is an intrusive thoughts my psk told me to just take a deep breath and forget about it but I still love you you have nice channel
Not sure where you are talking about.. But I think you are pretty and it seems you are doing your best to be A better person. Something I can appreciate.
my girl crush❤🌷
How are youuu?❤️
hi !! I'm good how are you?
@@LanaBlakely I'm good too lana, thankss. Love your videos so much❤️ and hope you take care of yourself
Hi Lana, I'm from Jakarta Indonesia...now here at 24:40 pm
I would like to recommend the book "As A Man Thinketh" by Alan James. May I?
Grateful
I never felt envy since my adult days. Why should I? I am very happy for those people who got a better life and are happier and more blessed by the Lord then I am. When one got love for our fellow humans in his heart, he will always feel happy for them and feel good about their good life and their blessings. I find it a bit disturbing you said being jeaulous and having envy for other people would be natural. I don't see it that way and I do not think it is natural to feel bad about your fellow humans living a better life then yours. You cannot envy your fellow human beings if you really love them.
Love u from Russia ❤
hi !!
Amizing
Loveable❤
Very beautiful
Good 👍 video 😊
❤
Focus on Jesus and in Him you'll find your true identity. In Him you will know who you belong to and who you really are. I love you, Lana. How I wish you will be my future wife.
Klo-ben?
i cant believe i am this early. literally first comment. MISSED U LANA
hiii !!!
From malaysia 👍
hello !!
Jealous? What am I jealous of?
LANA BLACK ME PODRÍAS ENVIARME UN SALUDO
I AM NOT JEALOUS I DON'T CARE YOUR JEALOUS ON ME
1st comment pls say hi 👋
hiiii
@ thank you so much you made my day 🥰
First
Love heal everything, but not in the ways we'd like to expect though 🤍