19 pieces of advice you didn't ask for but need to hear
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- Опубликовано: 10 июн 2024
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Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction
00:13 - It's ok to let people go
00:37 - Adults aren't always right
01:00 - Memento mori
01:40 - You choose your purpose
02:10 - Spoil someone while supporting the environment
04:12 - Don't isolate yourself
04:54 - Don't ignore the opinions of your loved ones
05:09 - You'll get over your first hearbreak
05:12 - Make reading more accessible
05:31 - Give yourself approval
05:58 - I live by my calendar
06:25 - Ask yourself questions that make you think
06:57 - Don't be a half-asser
07:24 - Don't assume, ask
07:28 - Plan but be open to something different
07:59 - Don't wait around for opportunties
08:11 - Be less reactive and pick your battles
08:42 - Regret hurts more than rejection
08:44 - You're stronger than you think
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Another Lady over here! :D
Thank you Lana for tromendous and amazing idea, also sharing with us in Indonesia 👍👍👍 love you full and always 💓💓💓💓
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1. It's OK to let people go.
2. Adults aren't always right.
3. Memento mori (you'll die one day)
4. You choose your purpose.
5. Be comfortable with your own company, but don't isolate yourself. Know the importance of healthy relationships.
6. Don't ignore the opinions of your loved ones (be open to different views).
7. You'll get over your first heartbreak.
8. Make reading more accessible.
9. Give yourself approval (that's the only approval you truly need).
10. Plan and write your plan (use calendars).
11. Ask yourself questions that make you think constructively (for e.g., Would I do this all over again if I could start over?).
12. Don't be a half-asser, finish what you started.
13. Don't assume, ask.
14. Plan, but be open to god's plan too (hope for the best, prepare for the worst).
15. Don't wait around for opportunities.
16. Be less reactive, pick your battles (choose to put your energy into things that matter more).
17. You're stronger than you think.
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Thank you : ))
13th one hits diff for me
@@rngpsMBBS fellow overthinker?
Lana is a great self-help book in human form.
exactly
Lana Rhodes
Oh so you see her as an object smh
Self help books are a cancerous business
@@javier8672 it's just an expression
Never let anyone pressure you into friendships either, we decide who is in our life.
Exactly what I am going through
Needed that reminder
Exactly! Sometimes too we're better off alone.
Thank you for sharing this message! I have really needed it
thank u, thats what i need to hear today
"You'll get over your first heartbreak."
Really needed that Lana. Thank you
Absolutely :) xx
Man I'm going through mine right now
@@yeric9631 hope you're better!
me too… :(
How about the third one?
You're always so calm and seeing that I feel good...and your videos just gives me a new perspective to think and work on specific...
True, she is my idol
THIS
Lanas hair is so fluffy!!
She's my official internet mom y'all could never
She's my internet sister🥺💙
1. You're not as bad as you think you are.
2. Other people have just as many doubts and insecurities as you do.
3. The only thing that separates successful people from unsuccessful people is perseverance.
4. It's okay to be scared and it's normal to feel insecure sometimes - just don't let those feelings stop you from trying anyway.
5. There's no shame in admitting that you don't know something - everyone is learning every day.
6 . Taking care of yourself should be a priority - both physically.
Lana stepping in as our collective big sister. I love it 🥰
:')
💞👍
I’ve always been amazed how “friendships” are a product of proximity.
"I'm a lot stronger than you think. And so are you." - you really have a special way to end these videos that hit in the feels, but it's also exactly the things I needed to hear. Thank you!
Everytime I hear you talk its like everything suddenly makes sense. I'm glad to know there are people like you
You're my comfort person girl.
Sending you love and well wishes
hugs :))
Such a gorgeous Lana💘🌷💯
I love the way you talk. It's so deliberate, well thought-out with the right amount of pauses. And it's so calming!!
Congrats on 1 million Lana!!! Thank you so much for the videos that you've put out in the recent years, they've really helped out so much & I appreciate them so, so much. Keep doing what you're doing! :D
Awesome life advice as usual, Lana! I'm surprised how wise you are at such a young age! Keep up the great work!
I would like to thank you Lana for these tips for I am already going through so much hassle in life as of now and just can't put my mind straight at things as there are so many happening so quickly and you putting out this video and so many other self help videos are helping me in a way you might not know. Don't stop making these and thank you once again for helping me in times when I thought I couldn't believe in myself! Stumbling upon your channel was one of the best things to happen~ Much Love.
Following you since 3 years. I can't be more grateful. Thank you for being here. 😭😍
I am telling you honestly, I was stressed and worried about something and just 5 minutes into the video I feel relaxed. You provide calm and peaceful vibes.
Grateful
I hope more people find this channel, you're very wise for your age and the world needs more of this in our younger generations especially
"Assumtions are the devils. Ask instead." This is the suggestion I realized my own a month ago. I assume a lot of things instead of just asking and then I mess myself & my head around for no reason. We should ask, question about stuffs we don't know as it is our right.
You have such a calming energy, I truly appreciate both the advice and your consideration in even sharing this with all of us. Hope you have a wonderful life full of genuine love, happiness, and success. Best of luck with everything and hope the remainder of your year goes well! ❤️
DON'T KNOW WHAT SOOTHES ME YOUR VOICE, CHARISMA OR WORDS BUT THANK YOU
It’s so calming to watch your videos
Lana you’re amazing, your content is always so inspiring and I want to thank you for being such a great person 🫶🏻
Could not agree more💗
thank you
Thanks for this great reminder Miss!☺️ After all, I thought my thoughts and ideas as invalid but since I heard and watched most of your videos, It reminded me that I have nothing to care about what other people would throw on my way or behind my back laughing because I am never as good as them. You will be forever blessed by helping people who don't even believe on themselves. Btw!! You are so beautiful ❤️
Thank you for the advice Lana, I appreciate you friend!! Always helping everyone out!!
Thank you for these, Miss Lana. You're like the big sister I don't have, but needed. Your wise words comfort me.❤
Those are some of the best advices, especially about the friendship and making assumptions. I really needed the reminder about getting over your first love.
I did feel good hearing about the control freak part 😂
Thank you, your videos are very helpful and I really like your insights, they're very intriguing.
i’ve been terrified of rejection, all kinds of it, my whole life. but recently i was in a situation in which i had to make the choice, and that was when i truly realized i would regret not trying more than being rejected. so i finally managed to make myself bite the bullet and take the risk regardless of my fear! it really hurt being rejected, but it made me realize this so very important life lesson. i really don’t want to keep living my life in regrets anymore
Lana I am so thankfull for your videos, they just teach me a lot and calm me down , when I am stressed.
ive recently become an active watcher of your videos and you truly have become such a mentor to me...just like an elder sister and i love it!💓
heartwarming
Hi Lana 👋,
Thanks for sharing your 19 pieces of advice with us. I can definitely say that the vast majority of them are what I personally needed to hear the most.
Sending you lots of love!!! ❤️❤️❤️🤗
I love how you explain your sponsor ads . Not straight scriptish
girl ! you bring peace to my soul with ur videos🖤🖤
i love this kind of videos. with age u start to understand all this things. trial and error and then u notice what works, what should be done and what kind of human you truly want to become. so dont stress too much on the now cause exactly now, nothing big or extraordinary may be happening, but it will....... if you truly desire it. so work towards it and focus on the process theat leads you to the end goal. sometimes, the journey is more enjoyable than the destination itself cause it is what forms and develops your character and strength.
loved it Lana. Im new here, im glad you showed up on my feed. ;)
I like the sincerity that I can see through her eyes.
Omg, the letting people go part applies to me right now lately. I hung out recently with a friend and I just felt like we were so different that it was kind of awkward… Thank you for the advice, I really needed this right now!!
your man gotta be the luckiest one among us! you have such a charm, keep it up.
the so are u hit me so hard thank u lana
Your voice is nice to listen to😭
Your wise words are very helpful ✨
Love from Namibia❤️
your video always makes me so happy :) also I listened to your podcast after a while
This was in my recommended and I think I really needed to hear it. Thank you
Lady you made my day
I literally learned so much from you
Thanks for the video
I am 16 and hope these will help me and others in our life
Hope you have great life ahead
Agree with a lot of this !!!! Definitely a video to watch & listen to for everyone interested in betterment !!!!
Love from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪
Your content is always inspiring
This was actually so beautiful thank you sm
1. Let people go
2. Adults are always right
3. Memento mori
4. Choose your life purpose
5. Dont make yourself isolated
6. Dont ignore the advice of loved ones
7. You'll get over your first heartbreak
8. Make reading accessable
9. Give yourself the approval, you seek from others
10. live by your calendar
11. ask yourself questions that make you think
you're really so pretty
Aren't Always right
💞👍
I've had experiences with past friends, who I haven't connected with, and were only with them because I felt I didn't have a choice. I now have come to the realisation that it is important to find true friends, and at the end of the day, it is your health and well-being that matters most.
All of them were amazng. Thanks Lana!
purpose isn’t found; you choose it and build on it… FOR SURE ❤
thanks for your video and genuine advices :) xoxo
i miss your podcasts Lana! glad you’re taking a break for your own psyche but want you to know you’re content is missed!!!
Thank you Lana! Much needed video! You are awesome! :)
Some time ago I found a quote: "Giving up is the birth of regret." We don't want to look back at our lives and end up wishing we had done the things differently.
After having scrutinized my life thus far I have come to the conclusion that fear is the only thing stopping us from doing what we want. With that being said, we should never let the fear dictate our future decisions in life. We can be stronger than we think.
This is your first video! Got it through recommended.
Thank you LANA for these valuable points!.
:)
I really love it when Lana explain things so simple but yet it's gravity is massive😊. I just wanna say thankyou to you for being so humble and kind enough to make such videos that can uplift another individual with more determination. Once again thankyou Lana. Sending love and blessings from Sri lanka❤️🇱🇰
Lana, you are such a wonderful person. Your videos have literally got me through the darkest of times
Love you for that
Right now i dont know but i want to hide myself from everyone specially to my parents. My mother. She isn't helping. I kinda depressed.
you're the old sister I always want to have, thank u for sharing all the things you learn Lana.
I love your videos and you really inspire me to embrace my calm and collected disposition
This is really great video like always. When I listen you, I feel myself comfortable
Omg she looks like she's 19 or 20 years old
Lucky to have your video recommended and found your channel
Looking for the approval of others will always lead to your dissapointment. You need to be proud of yourself first. Great vid, you're a smart woman.
Recently I've been very tired. Even though things are great right now and nothing bad is happening, I am drained and full of melancholy. I hope it passes soon because it makes it hard for me to enjoy activities I usually loved partaking in... I also feel very sorry for one boy, who wants to date me - he's really nice but I feel like, currently, the anxiety that I get from romantic relationships would literally destroy me.
This is very true people change and that’s ok. I think is important to value the good moments and understand that at some point we are going to evolve ❤
Thank you so much,Lana
Lana - that was by far, one of the best self help videos I have seen in a while. So precise and such clarity of thought. The whole presentation is so refreshing. You are indeed an inspiration! #Respect
You are so sweet! Don't change your heart.
I the video today and I felt better, I just want to say thank you from deep heart.
piace
I just love your hair for some reason. It's so thick it looks good
Thank you!!
Lana is a therapy session in person free of cost ❤❤
I love it, lucky me finding your advice 😊 Thank u
I had no idea how much I needed this
Your videos help me conceptualize how to "look" at myself "outside" of myself if that makes sense lol. Another great video 🌻
One teaching in Buddhism helped me slowly overcome my isolation and coldness towards others.
You never know when is the last time you'll see someone, so every time you interact with someone, treat it as your last time with them, and when you see them again, be grateful you got to see them again.
Such a positive and calming energy
It relaxed me very much. Thanks Lana for doing these videos they are all helpful ..
i love this woman so much
Lana..you are such an angel...I needed this. Love your content ..wish you the best of the best honey
Your words are always comforting 😌🫂.
I come back to Lana just to listen to her voice sometimes! So soothing.
you are absolutely right AND i really enjoying your voice and tactic lol love you dear
u are the person i aspire to become, i just love you and find you very inspiring. thank u BIG TIME.
this comforted me
Thank you Lana💗
Great advice, all of them, thank you, Lana🥰 I can definitely see myself coming back to this video to be inspired again❤
p.s. Would you share your hair styling tips as well? Cause your hair looks amazing🤩
Thank you so much for your beautiful words
the thing about remembering you will eventually pass is so good because it makes you value moments more and worry a lot less
I dont usually comment on videos, but this video was so wholesome, I just really wanted to let you know that you're helping a lot of people Lana!
warms my heart :)
Can we be friend
I don't usually commented on videos,but your opinion made me thinking very differently. your opinions are priceless 🙌.
wow i rly needed some of these... thank you
i loved this video! by the way your hair looks amazing :)
Thank you lana 😮💨
Outstanding material! Phenomenal perspectives! I wish you abundance of universal love, health and prosperity! Please make more!
this helped me a lot
Your voice is really soothing
Thanks for these much needed advises, ❤️❤️
needed it ❤️
Being rejected yesterday in a painful way this is something I needed to hear. To be fair few days before in conversation with her I realized how it was going to play out. After that I just threw a lure to see what kind of person she is.
As I found out, the toxic type. The type who demands your attention without making time for you. I said it anyways because I knew the answer. The answer was a no.
Which got me angry for a minute but I was happy. A lot happier than I was for the past few days. I knew the answer but I didn't know if I was right or wrong. I wanted that clarification. At point I didn't care about her yes or no. Just that Unknown factor was feeling like a shard of broken glass stuck in my throat.
Well like they say "If she calls you a brother, there is always another and her mother"