13 pieces of advice you didn't ask for but need to hear

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @LanaBlakely
    @LanaBlakely  Год назад +45

    Try out @SigmaOS for free using this link go.sigmaos.com/lanablakely. Thank you so much to SigmaOS for sponsoring us today.

    • @Billy33753
      @Billy33753 Год назад

      Loved it

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    • @filippersson5256
      @filippersson5256 Год назад

      Linkedin is a great platform.. 😉

    • @Kyrie.
      @Kyrie. Год назад

      the link is not working for mee :((( it just says "page not found" :(

    • @filippersson5256
      @filippersson5256 Год назад

      @@Kyrie. What's up with that.. 🤔👍

  • @seemranhoro
    @seemranhoro Год назад +580

    Here's more:-
    Don't wear clothes to please others
    Learn to say "No"
    Stop trying to feel happy when you are actually not.
    It's okay to be uncertain no one knows what they are doing
    Parents advice is not always the best for you
    Learn from the stories of Older people
    Always remember the bad times of your life and how you have survived.
    Not everyone around you wants the best for you.

  • @natemarx4999
    @natemarx4999 Год назад +405

    Lana is our therapist every Sunday.

  • @pritamroy8703
    @pritamroy8703 Год назад +94

    I genuinely don't always watch your videos, but, whenever I feel really lost, less alive, kinda depressed, feeling awful about literally everything, then, I never find anyone better than you to help myself. It always helps almost exactly the way I needed. So, i just wanted to say thank you.

  • @yehehehaw
    @yehehehaw Год назад +62

    I just wanna say that this channel is my comfort zone. Whenever I feel stressed or overwhelmed, I always find myself watching your videos, you have this calm and relaxing energy in you that gives me inner peace. Also I have sleeping problems and listening to you talk helps me sleep at night. You're literally my comfort youtuber, and like the big sister I've always wanted. Thank you for that. 💗

  • @mirelasemanjaku
    @mirelasemanjaku Год назад +7

    As someone who has thought of suicide several times for a period of time.. that: "You have to stick around to find out" made me cry..

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Год назад +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @shreyankpatel2591
      @shreyankpatel2591 Год назад +2

      @Mihaila Listening to 21 pilots helped me alot through my hard times, they might help you too.
      ''Now the night is coming to an end
      The sun will rise and we will try again."

  • @mariembejaoui-i2e
    @mariembejaoui-i2e Год назад +4

    how is this so random yet it's everything you NEED to hear ? she's such a comforting person

  • @realblakematthew
    @realblakematthew Год назад +67

    Your insights and personal experiences shared throughout the video resonated with me deeply. One piece of advice that particularly stood out to me was the importance of not making oneself uncomfortable just to avoid making others uncomfortable. It's a powerful reminder that we shouldn't sacrifice our own well-being and happiness for the sake of pleasing others. Thanks for another great video, I really look up to you.

  • @raskeshades208
    @raskeshades208 Год назад +30

    Pretty much living according to everything on this list. Been great for relieving stress, anxiety and most of the unwanted distress in my life. Gotten my sleep routine down, working out, working on family and friendly relations. Been a great year, and even with small steps you can get far with consistency.

  • @AwesomeRando
    @AwesomeRando Год назад +8

    If I had to add some things to this list, it would be this:
    1) Express your feelings through memes. A sense of humor goes a long way.
    2) Read a non fiction book. And specifically a non fiction book. My favorite is a high school physics textbook. Reading is good for your brain.
    3) You do not need to exercise a lot or too hard in order to see significant progress in health and physique.

  • @koomornin7926
    @koomornin7926 Год назад +16

    Im 14 and i hate evrything in life but whenever i watch your videos i just feel soooo relaxed lana honestly thank you

  • @lusindaveyan
    @lusindaveyan Год назад +10

    Lana, your energy is so positive and relaxing. Thank You for creating this warm atmosphere that I feel while watching your videos. 💓

  • @w_poszukiwaniu
    @w_poszukiwaniu Месяц назад

    ok, officially one of my favorite videos on this channel. wow, how could I have missed it. or maybe it just came to me at the right time? anyway all the love to you Lana!! u have no idea how much u mean to me or many other people. we are very grateful for u.

  • @Marinameyers05
    @Marinameyers05 Год назад +1

    The last tip is so true. I developed depression this year. Could not perform well on my external exams required for my national country. But, my own school grades were good enough to get me accepted into medical school in a much prettier country. It’s crazy how life works.

  • @cepe1
    @cepe1 Год назад +2

    I used to be the kind of person who would not lie or even consider that anyone would lie to me but as I got older I have seen that there are soo many people who lie in weird ways which actual led me to lie in various places too, hence the lie cycle started while I know lying is harmless in the situation,
    but has made me feel sooo much bad in myself that I cannot trust myself now 💔

  • @letshavesomewater
    @letshavesomewater Год назад +4

    ur so comforting i love u fr

  • @theintentionalist
    @theintentionalist Год назад +4

    In the morning before work sometimes I just have time to write the word "breathe" in my journal. It makes a difference when starting out my day.

  • @fyhbxfgh2912
    @fyhbxfgh2912 Год назад +1

    Ever since I started watching vids like this my life has changed so much and I’m so happy

  • @bethrhi
    @bethrhi Год назад +4

    I’ve been binge watching all your videos, you are so beautiful just like your soul is too 🤍

  • @KRITIKA555.
    @KRITIKA555. Год назад

    her voice is just what i need at the beginning and at the end of the day she and wizardliz>>>>>>>>>>>>suggest me more channels like these coz i have watched every single vedio of them

  • @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
    @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Год назад +23

    Awesome advice, Lana! Keep being your badass self! Funny about the multi-tasking issue. I have that also! 😆 Funny about the good running shoes. I used to own a running store and I preached that everyday. Very important! Love the Hokas!

  • @ouui
    @ouui Год назад +2

    I high suggest fairtrade shopping, there are stores hidden even in the smallest cities and they are definetly the best option for good quality and fair labor conditions :) You can find different styles and really beautiful clothing, starting to fairtrade shop has been a blessing to my wardrobe!

  • @Fionaedonohue
    @Fionaedonohue Год назад +1

    she’s the big sister we all need! love u lana

  • @hankalorinczova
    @hankalorinczova Год назад +3

    *Dear Lana.*
    I just want to let you know that your videos (or your films) are so cinematic! I really and honestly wish they were projected in the cinema, because they are legitimate, true and real cinematography.
    But the fact these videos are on RUclips is such a great treasure, advantage and priviledge!

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Год назад +7

      Wow this is really kind. I appreciate your words!!

    • @hankalorinczova
      @hankalorinczova Год назад +1

      @@LanaBlakely Lana, I appreciate your words and your response! Thank you so much.

    • @akbargabbar505
      @akbargabbar505 Год назад

      No Debate She's great Personalty💜👩💞❤💯

  • @Zainab-sx3yd
    @Zainab-sx3yd Год назад +1

    watching Lana's video before going to sleep has now become one of my bedtime rituals

  • @mrshammmon310
    @mrshammmon310 Год назад +2

    Iv been feeling extremely low and depressed and I just found one of your videos and it's really help me. Thank you so much 🙏

  • @taextho6953
    @taextho6953 Год назад +5

    Yess My Sunday therapist!

  • @shekhargupta6718
    @shekhargupta6718 Год назад

    Your mindset is the foundation of your success. Build it strong and build it well. Challenges are not roadblocks, they are opportunities to grow and become stronger. Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.

  • @glorii3
    @glorii3 Год назад +1

    At 8:10, the lying part hit just right. For instance I’m still a minor, but I had developed over the past years the habit of lying, even when it was not necessary, even when the motive was stupid. And each time I’m done doing it in my mind I’m just like « Oh God, why did you do it? It wasn’t necessary, you could’ve just told the truth ». So I really want to stop it and I will try my best.

  • @NFSMAN50
    @NFSMAN50 Год назад +4

    When Lana uploads, the world becomes a happier and better place!!

    • @NFSMAN50
      @NFSMAN50 Год назад

      ​@Nature Daydream definitely agreed!!

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Год назад +1

      🥹❤️

  • @vera-marieokafor3827
    @vera-marieokafor3827 Год назад +1

    Thank you ! I just thought that I'm the only one feeling this way so happy someone feel the same way I'm feeling and thinking your title is really true to its meaning it's not a sort of clickbait that most videos do finally thanks !

  • @bloomnbury7387
    @bloomnbury7387 Год назад

    Lana I so much wanna make a RUclips channel and talk about healthy habits and stuff but right now I am holding myself back. You inspire me.

  • @eTLetl
    @eTLetl Год назад +2

    Your videos are super peaceful and you make me feel understood🫶🏻

  • @hnnhml
    @hnnhml Год назад +8

    I still struggle with enjoying to write (often), thats really something i wanna get myself more used to.
    Thanks lana💜

    • @akbargabbar505
      @akbargabbar505 Год назад

      She's S0oooooo gorgeous🌷 great Personalty👩❤ love thissss💜💞

  • @amiraaurelia3378
    @amiraaurelia3378 Год назад

    some of your advices are also what i’ve been giving to myself, but they don’t always stay in my mind so sometimes i forgot about those advices. thank you for making this video and those advices are truly helpful.

  • @Mv3Trader
    @Mv3Trader Год назад +1

    One of the best decisions I've ever made was to stop drinking alcohol. I spent 3 years living in a country where it was illegal, so I pretty much lost my addiction to it then but I started drinking occasionally when I came back home until I had a drink one time with CBD, which made the feeling the following day worse than it usually is. So instead of giving up the occasional CBD I opted for letting go of the alcohol and don't regret it for a single day. 🙂

  • @tanishapareek2278
    @tanishapareek2278 Год назад +1

    Your videos always bring such a warm and comforting feeling, like being right at home.
    Your recent few videos didn't quite capture that classic 'Lana' vibe, but now, it's like Lana is back and better than ever!
    I genuinely hope that whatever you were going through has settled down and brought you peace.
    Sending you all the positive vibes! 💗

  • @RaphaelAvant
    @RaphaelAvant Год назад +2

    One of the advices I would like to consider experiment consistently is journaling

  • @thepoisonousf1sh
    @thepoisonousf1sh Год назад +3

    your videos are the highlight of the day!

  • @taextho6953
    @taextho6953 Год назад +4

    We love lana!❤️

  • @JessBookgirlTV
    @JessBookgirlTV Год назад +2

    You are right about writing daily. It's great exercise for the brain.

  • @rekhadekakakati1102
    @rekhadekakakati1102 Год назад

    You always give the bestest advice. The news thing is really true for me. Like you I also had a phase of regular intake of news and then I screwed my mental health so I stopped it. Also, the last words are golden. Thank you for reminding me that. Also thank you for being my best virtual big sister and teacher for 4 years. Lots of love from me ❤❤

  • @babiioffgun1835
    @babiioffgun1835 Год назад +1

    Thank so much for this videos they really help me lot and others, thank you! Take care

  • @I_Lov_you_
    @I_Lov_you_ Год назад +3

    Life is full of unexpected changes and challenges. Develop your adaptability skills and learn to embrace change. Be open to new ideas, perspectives, and opportunities that come your way.

  • @Lucsy3012
    @Lucsy3012 Год назад +2

    "Sometimes you're the whole package at the wrong adress" I feel this very much

  • @ljlopez9470
    @ljlopez9470 Год назад +3

    I notice your experience and i gratefull a lot that you piece of advice us 💖 thanks

  • @poornimachavan3556
    @poornimachavan3556 Год назад +1

    You make me happy lana love you lana❤️🤌

  • @tamunaberidze8048
    @tamunaberidze8048 Год назад

    This video popped up super unexpectedly! And somehow at least half of the content was something i needed to hear!

  • @sohailkhan5987
    @sohailkhan5987 Год назад

    I like Listening to lana a lot. I don't even wanted those advise but couldn't say no to your calming videos.

  • @ayeshaaslam5903
    @ayeshaaslam5903 Год назад +1

    thank you so much lana! this was very helpful for me : )

  • @Shura_shariar070
    @Shura_shariar070 Год назад

    I love this woman more than a lot of things

  • @kflecha1
    @kflecha1 Год назад +3

    Getting my Sunday inspiration with Lana ❤✨ I hope you guys are doing well 💙✨🙌🏽

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Год назад +3

    Omg! Lana what a perfect timing and my sister love your videos so so much you are my inspiration and I will support you till end💫💝🤗

  • @sophiaisabelle027
    @sophiaisabelle027 Год назад +3

    We sppreciate your pieces of advice. They certainly help us through the obstacles we have to face and come to terms with in our lives.

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml Год назад

      Couldn’t agree more 🤍

  • @lagomholly
    @lagomholly Год назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this advice, it's what we all know but need that reminder of sometimes when life gets away with us :)

  • @annaspeaks373
    @annaspeaks373 Год назад +1

    So cozy to see you in sweater in this summer day😊

    • @LanaBlakely
      @LanaBlakely  Год назад

      I thought it looked a bit off while editing, but I felt cold while filming so… 😅

  • @ashnamansoor4966
    @ashnamansoor4966 Год назад +3

    Heyy lana i really love your videos they are so therapeutic 🥺❤️

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml Год назад +1

      They really are 💙

  • @cugurll1140
    @cugurll1140 Год назад +1

    Oky this girl is got to make everyone back into ✨humans✨

  • @H_bomb_
    @H_bomb_ Год назад +1

    Needed this one, thank you Lana :)

  • @TomInTheSky2001
    @TomInTheSky2001 Год назад +1

    I actually liked the fact I had no idea what you were going to talk about haha. Thanks for the video :)

  • @Anonymous_quirks
    @Anonymous_quirks Год назад

    Hi Lana dear!I hope u're well!You're talking about quitting alcohol and me luckily as a Muslim is already prohibited to consume alcohol/drug.U're making a wise decision here I'm telling you😊

  • @chickenwingwithmayo
    @chickenwingwithmayo Год назад +2

    i loved this video! absolute 'big sister' vibes~!! thank you for this :) have a great day

  • @JamieAsareZiegler
    @JamieAsareZiegler Год назад +3

    Rule #1: Tell the truth.
    Rule #2: Live in such a way that telling the truth is easy.

  • @BrownieEXE
    @BrownieEXE Год назад +5

    I appreciate the advice. Currently doing most of these already 😊

  • @ashmitasarkar1704
    @ashmitasarkar1704 Год назад +1

    Yesss 1st comment... u r like an elder sis to me... i am so grateful to hv found u ❤

  • @Marvel_0731
    @Marvel_0731 Год назад

    You definitely pushed me to start journaling. Thank you. ❤😊

  • @BilalDemiroglu
    @BilalDemiroglu Год назад

    I just wanted to say good morning to this beautiful wonderful person.

  • @PhilosophyWithLilly
    @PhilosophyWithLilly Год назад +5

    Writing things down is the absolute best way to transform the amorphous jumble of thoughts in the mind into some semblance of logical coherency.
    I also made a video or two about this 🤓

  • @Khalifa-gamer
    @Khalifa-gamer Год назад +1

    Thanks you lana! ❤

  • @ursnana
    @ursnana Год назад

    You are an angel in disguise 🥺🥰

  • @pujas134
    @pujas134 Год назад

    I love this so much. Thank you so much for sharing this❤

  • @enxhil9955
    @enxhil9955 Год назад +7

    You’re page and videos feels like Home 🥹 safe space

  • @frankiejesus226
    @frankiejesus226 Год назад

    Thank you for helping me start my day off right 🙂

  • @baraa-m3k
    @baraa-m3k Год назад

    Loved the video! Also I'm so thankful for every piece of advice you said ❤️

  • @anabelapliso
    @anabelapliso Год назад +1

    Thank you Lana! ❤

  • @vanessarincon8222
    @vanessarincon8222 Год назад

    Really appreciate the advice ❤️ Thank you!!

  • @timbrown9731
    @timbrown9731 Год назад +1

    Actually, that’s very interesting that you talk about that situation Lana, I felt the same way when I go out with my friends in the same situation always been an early riser….. maybe I’m just getting old at 44 lol

  • @Mr.Gibo.1
    @Mr.Gibo.1 Год назад +3

    Great job

  • @bbyluvspink
    @bbyluvspink Год назад

    Wow, such a lovely video Lana!!!

  • @taextho6953
    @taextho6953 Год назад +3

    She's pretty, respected and a perfect Woman to exist ❤️

  • @blessyleimapokpam5409
    @blessyleimapokpam5409 Год назад +1

    Exam tomorrow,here because Lana can calm me down

  • @tinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    @tinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Год назад

    i truly look up to u like my older sister. i love you.

  • @andrewlong5444
    @andrewlong5444 Год назад

    Liked this post especially "truth' segment, I will expand, carrying a 'grudge' or 'hatred' are lifetime occupations. Forgiveness and acceptance for things you do not agree with or like is a 'one off act' work round these issues because the rest of life is then uncluttered for doing so 🙂NZ

  • @Afreenzehraa
    @Afreenzehraa Год назад +3

    My exams are coming wish me luck Lana 🦄

  • @atozcreator2413
    @atozcreator2413 Год назад +1

    Love you Lena from India ❤

  • @thebrookeducare
    @thebrookeducare Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing 😍😍

  • @marvinodi3874
    @marvinodi3874 Год назад

    Stunning ✨

  • @jamesporter2788
    @jamesporter2788 Год назад +1

    Hey Lana, nice video! Just a heads up the subtitles go out of sync with the video when the SigmaOS section comes on. That said, keep doing what you're doing. It's well put together. And hey take some longer pauses occasionally. I always feel something when you take a pause in a peaceful, unrushed way.

  • @amyandrews4803
    @amyandrews4803 Год назад +3

    You're my inspiration, Lana!

  • @faizahasan3284
    @faizahasan3284 Год назад

    thank you Lana❤

  • @vibacar93
    @vibacar93 Год назад

    A video that I really needed to watch. Thank you Lana 😊 10:04

  • @Champingcom
    @Champingcom Год назад

    Thanks Lana !

  • @astroarohahanada
    @astroarohahanada Год назад +1

    The last thing ❤

  • @bolangbo02
    @bolangbo02 Год назад

    Lana is Amazing ❤️.

  • @akashs0717
    @akashs0717 Год назад

    Therapy is expensive so I come here.
    Love from India Lana❤

  • @emmarieshanepayos3084
    @emmarieshanepayos3084 Год назад +3

    Great advice but I just wanna say, Gosh you're so pretty 😩

  • @rayavasilev2527
    @rayavasilev2527 Год назад

    Love u Lanaaa xoxo

  • @ChinnyIvy
    @ChinnyIvy Год назад +1

    The first point... I have been working on it too

  • @rbonlineattech
    @rbonlineattech Год назад +1

    Lots of love from India.

  • @u.802
    @u.802 Год назад

    hi Lana ❤