There is nothing stronger in someone's character than to confront and share their weaknesses. Stay strong Lana, you are helping others gaining strength through sharing their weaknesses.
Wow this took a lot to admit your struggles and worries,such a strong young lady i could listen to your voice all day,well done for sharing this n thank you for helping others too with what you do. 👌🙏❤
This is your first money that is earned as being a singer! Super thanks for letting me hear you singing voice full of fear joy love and beauty! I dont want to judge it as ‘it wonderful’ or ‘you need lessons’ or something because what I have listened waas not a singer’s talent it was a complate orginial art that I can never hear anywhere else so it was a unique experiance. I can listen beyonce whenever I want but your voice is a hidden treasure and tonight you let me hear it. Super thank you! ❤
You're a young, beautiful & intelligent (especially emotionally intelligent) woman, who's honest with herself. I am so proud of you for admitting all these things - I think it takes courage to say it out loud to yourself and your community. You go girl, missed your videos xx
Aww I love her singing at the end haha. You could tell she was uncomfortable to do it and it kinda made it a lil bit awkward, but her singing isn't that bad at all and it was adorable seeing her brave enough to sing in front of all of us.
I am religious, grew up in a christian home and it is such a blessing, for example when you have a problem and someone says '' I'll pray for you'' ❤ Lana, I will pray for you today! :)
This is how a group feels empowered. We the subscribers feel our miseries are being shared because some people choose to leave their comfort zone & be vulnerable. That's real good content!
Absolutely..all influencers been mostly doing is sh₹#t on ppl but if more n more content like this is created...which is just genuinely authentic ppl wud be helped immensely
I totally understand what you’re saying and feeling, Lana. I’m a guy, several years ago I used to have some thoughts on how my last romance had ended and if I was loved the way I loved that girl. For that case, the answer was “no”. But then I realized that even if we think that we’re loved “not enough” or “not the way we want”, like I first was thinking, it’s not necessarily because the other person was not serious/irresponsible etc. Everyone loves the way they can, and it may severely upset us, but everything is defined by our temper, psychological features, love languages, parents' love expression etc. So, for example, in a relationship I need hugs, and I would feel unloved in a situation when a potential partner doesn’t like it. Of course, it doesn’t mean that there are no people who use us, treat not seriously, but this realization made me feel easier after the heartbreak. There are many of us who feel lonely and have no love life at the moment, but it doesn't mean that we can't find anyone in the future or live our single life happily. Hugs for everyone and much love:)
I felt you so much when you said "I dont know if anyone has loved me a I have loved them" this is something I struggle with too, as I feel things very deeply and sometimes it feels more so than others. Love your videos, they always bring comfort to me in times of stress. Keep doing what you're doing.
Seeing this video gave me another level of comfort and first three things you talked about was like as if i was listening myself describing and thank you so much for sharing it means a lot
I have been in a rock bottom quite lately. Dealing with unusual levels of anxiety and suicidal thoughts. And also having to deal with the academic pressure of being the eldest, gifted kid. I can't talk to my parents or anyone else about it. And I constantly wonder if it will ever get better. But your videos help me calm down my panic attacks. Your voice, the way you articulate your thoughts, the setting, you, just everything, it has given me a ray of hope. It's 2:43 am here in India, and I can't sleep, although I have an exam to take tomorrow. So, I came here, and dear Lana, you instantly put a small smile on my face. Thanks
This is one of the truest statements about reality and existence. All life, in the purest sense, is the way in which the universe has come to express itself in a form capable of experiencing, learning and knowing itself if only in a tiny place for a short moment within itself, drifting in its own vastness of space and time. In this way all things are connected by an inextricable kinship. This is possibly the most beautiful thing I have ever experienced, learned and came to know.
@MinahilFatima-hc2qw I think of it as a spark of the eternal. Some may view it in terms of an immortal soul, some may have a different understanding-but it’s something that exists within us and yet connects us to something so much larger than ourselves. I think the more we cultivate our inner virtues and break down the barriers between ourselves and whatever that spark is, the more brightly it shines from us. The more we focus on worldly things and our own ego, the more it’s obscured from view. It’s easy to think of it as a lantern and the light, where petty and trivial fixations cloud our lanterns and prevent the light from shining through. Anyway, with some people, it’s really easy to see that light. I can’t speak for anyone but myself, but that’s what I think of in the sense of the original statement: in you can be seen things that transcend the material. I hope you don’t mind me butting in, but I think about this stuff a lot.
@MinahilFatima-hc2qw Awwe, thank you. But I’m nobody, I promise. I spent my day shoveling horse manure in Western Sweden. And the lantern metaphor comes from the teachings of the Baha’i Faith, so I can’t take any credit for it: “Man must be a lover of the light, no matter from what dayspring it may appear. He must be a lover of the rose, no matter in what soil it may be growing. He must be a seeker of the truth, no matter from what source it come. Attachment to the lantern is not loving the light.” ~ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá As for the first part, I can only offer this: when I struggle to see the light in me, I tend to find it the most easily through helping others. I find it…but then I also realize that it doesn’t belong to me at all. It’s when I feel the most like myself and the least of my “self”.
@MinahilFatima-hc2qw I’m sorry! Sometimes I lose people with my wording. Why don’t I try another quote that may put it better than I did? “Be not the slave of your moods, but their master. But if you are so angry, so depressed and so sore that your spirit cannot find deliverance and peace even in prayer, then quickly go and give some pleasure to someone lowly or sorrowful, or to a guilty or innocent sufferer! Sacrifice yourself, your talent, your time, your rest to another, to one who has to bear a heavier load than you-and your unhappy mood will dissolve into a blessed, contented submission to God.” ~ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá And I think you put that beautifully, about essences. People tend to be more occupied with outer forms than inner meanings.
Thanks so much for opening up. I also have social anxiety it's getting a little bit better but it's still there, it haunts me the idea that I may have to deal with this forever, because of all the bullying and criticism that I got at High School 😔
Lana, I love your channel and videos. I struggle with social anxiety too, and I'm realizing the purpose of my social anxiety journey is to share it with others and help them feel less alone. Your channel does this beautifully for so many people, thank you for sharing your story.
I'm so thankful Lana you decided to make this video, and we know it took so much bravery and courage to hit that public button. We your subscribers feel so empowered and it became a support group, watching this video, and that's why we love you Lana. You're the best creator of our generation. Love you, missed your videos
I've been watching you for a while now and I don't ever comment on any videos (I guess my social anxiety runs through the screen), but today I feel so seen that I couldn't help it. Thank you Lana for being so vulnerable. You made a whole bunch of us feel extremely comprehended. Thanks again💛💛
Lana you made me smile and cry before I even finished my breakfast. I loved everything about this video, that you‘ve been so open and made me feel understood in many ways. You‘re the big sister I‘ve never had.
wow... this video nearly brought me to tears! Watching this video almost brought tears to my eyes. Your strength, grounded in vulnerability, shines through each time you clear your throat before speaking, reflects in your eyes that offer a glimpse into your soul, shows in the curl of your lip as you voice your inner world, and culminates in the jig of your shoulders and the resonance of your voice as you blessed us with your song.
I have been going through your videos since my high-school. That was the time when life started hitting hard and i I discovered your channel. That was a great help fo me. I can say its been 4 years with you lana I feel so relaxed confident and emotionally stable. Lots pf love to you sis ❤❤
Awesome video, Lana! I like the impromptu style with your statements. As a fellow introvert, I can relate to a lot of what you are talking about. Keep being your awesome self, you are a treasure to the world. BTW, you have a great voice!
Your honesty is so refreshing. It’s part of what appeals to viewers. You are truly gorgeous inside & out. And your mom is right, you have a good voice. 🌸
Hello Lana. Your content makes me feel better about myself. I'm sure I'm not alone in that. Thanks for your braveness, honesty, and transparency, Lana. The world, and the internet, need more people doing what you do, and being how you are. I hope you get so much more of what you give because you deserve every bit of it.
i love pondering about suffering, the universe, and emotions. But like whats already known; the more understanding and wisdom we acquire, the lonelier we become. I think this is what you meant by "being not been loved by a man" for your soul looks for someone that can go down with your depth. Also, the challenges of being physically attractive is that living with the doubts of " Am I merely desired and wanted but not loved?
Social anxiety has been my worst enemy throughout my youth, it made me very depressed as a teenager but now at 22 I can say it is only maybe 15% of what it used to be. So everyone that is struggling very hard with it now, I want to tell you it can get sooooo much better even though you can't imagine it. Just widen your comfort zone one little step at a time. But tbh sometimes you have to be uncomfortable even if it feels terrible... otherwise you probably won't get better.
I’m an introvert person and I struggle with social anxiety and maintaining friends. I also struggle with trusting myself and not feeling accomplished. I would love a video of your talking more about not trusting ourselves and not feeling accomplished.
I feel so seen Lana, I don´t know if anyone has ever told you this but your videos are a blessing to me. Thank you for what you do, thank you for being brave and showing yourself, real as you are, it´s refreshing and comforting to see there´s still some realness in social media these days, It´s comforting to also see myself and some of the struggles I´ve had in someone else and to know I´m not the only one that may feel like this, so thank you.
This video, Lana, made me cry. It felt like someone was doing me a favor by saying things I cannot speak out to the world. I agree with your mom; she's right. You have a beautiful voice. Thanks for sharing it with the world.
Awe! My heart goes out to you for what you've experienced in social anxiety. There are times when I feel I have nothing valuable to say, and that no one wants to talk to me, but there are other times when I can go up strangers, (visitors at church) and have great conversations until the last few cars are pulling out of the parking lot. That an ability that comes and goes with a rise and fall in confidence. All too often, my confidence can be tied to my feeling of accomplishments, and sense of usefulness. // To feel truly loved, to be appreciated for who we are, for our personality, now just by what we can do or produce, or achieve is a very special kind of love.// It is valuable to plumb the depths of why you can't celebrate your accomplishments. Might you be so achievement oriented that you can't stop, and stand on a plateau for a few moments to celebrate before moving on with the next challenge? Maybe you have various achievements lined up in parallel that you step immediately over to the next train track to tackle achievement B?// It's important not to nit-pick too much, for the harder we are on ourselves, the harder we will also be on those closest to us. I can be very nit-picky with myself, and because my standards for morality are high, they become higher for those in my family, which is not all a bad thing, but I need to be careful to exercise reasonableness.// Oh wow, you're interested in religion. I would be honoured to share with you about how my walk with the Lord began, and all its twists and turns. It's extremely unlikely that I would have come to faith based on my upbringing. I'm praying right now that the Lord will open you heart to Him. Know that I will pray about this every evening before I go to sleep. Theology, orthodoxy/orthopraxis has been one of my strongest interests since my early 20's. You're right, it is absolutely so meaningful to know the purpose for which you've been created, to walk in His will, and to be connected deeply with others who desire to honour Him with their whole life. Yes, to share common values! Wow! You have a hunger for this. Great!!! I just want to warn you, that you will find hypocrites, and not even the holiest of people are perfect, but we press on seeking completeness in Him, in His strength. That I say so you guard yourself against disillusionment in advance.// Thanks for opening up to us in so many areas, and singing. I know I couldn't sing for a potential 1.67 m subscribers.
This video has a lot in common with my own experience, especially when it comes to social anxiety. For so many years I've lied to those close to me about so many things, ‘politely refusing’ anything I've been offered out of fear of interacting with strangers. Today I'm slowly but surely moving in the right direction! I love your content, thank you for the videos, I think they help quite a few people, myself included! ! ;)
I feel like in this video you step out of your comfort zone, you did something new. Being this vulnerable and perform this song it made the content so authentic and your face shine so bright. I feel the same way when I perform a dance or a moment. Thank you for sharing this! 🤍
Last part was especially courageous to me. Singing alone for others used to be something I was always ashamed to do, I am also the kind of person that sings all the time but you know, “for fun” so whenever I had to sing smth for real I was always very scared. I am in an acting school so I had to break that fear, even tho it’s still in me I def made some progress. I could see u break through that comfort zone as if it was glass, you did it! U didn’t have to, you could have just deleted that part or not prove anything but you decided to make us a kind of people you feel comfortable around and be vulnerable. Thank you for that. I love this video and so glad that you’re back!! Loveeee
I'm literally the same age as you and struggle with the same things. The thing that helps me daily is accepting the concept of destiny. Just like we don't choose whether it rains tomorrow or not we can't choose the twists and turns of life because they are external of us. All we can do is to choose how to respond. I might never achieve things I dream of with all my heart, but if at the last moments of my life I'll be able to say "I did as much good as I could" that will console me greatly. That there was a purpose to all of this.♥
I have been watching your videos since 2019 and I saw someone who was an introvert to do something that even the most extrovert people won't feel comfortable doing. You inspire me allot to look forward in life and I am sure I am not the only one. So keep going Lana
Thank you for sharing these things... i can relate on so many things like social anxiety, loneliness and honestly kind of everything you said haha. It feels very comforting to know other people feel the same way and it is somehow normal and possible to cope with ♥
I always feel so comforted by your videos, especially this one! I just had my birthday and felt guilt at the kindness, love, and celebrations I received, as I didn't feel I deserved that, so watching this video where I realised others struggle with that really helped me! I think you're a beautiful soul and I always feel so inspired by your intelligence, wisdom, perspective, and awareness, thank you!!!! You have a GORGEOUS singing voice and I think your song should be played during all flights! :) xo
You''re so brave, to talk about things you're embarrassed or insecure about! Ummm ... it's hard for me to admit that sometimes, I don't feel very much in touch with reality and life just feels like a book I'm reading or a movie I'm watching. Like I go through the motions, play the game, do things I enjoy, pray and believe sincerely, love deeply, act as a carer, simultaneously feeling distant and unattached. This feeling may be accentuated today by being unwell with a virus, which is why I will be brave enough to share it instead of deleting.
I’m also a social anxieter, and I keep my thoughts to myself questioning if they are Not worth listening, but you are a prove that quiet people have a world going on inside their heads
you are so right about the religion part because i am Muslim and my beliefs have gotten me through everything in life and i know without a doubt that they will in the future aswell no matter how bad life gets. Two core beliefs that help me through hardships are 1- as Allah said in the quran not once but twice side by side "verily, with hardships comes ease" "and with hardships comes ease" 2- this life is a test for the next life so whatever hardships come in life, i will be rewarded for them in the next so its all worth it.
i am not happy to admit that i am emotionally unavailable due to a lack of confidence and realising this was incredibly hard, but worth it. Ps: watching your video is very helpful and your singing voice is amazing :)
So brave to share all of this Lana and also it's so human! I think we all feel lonely at times (I do too). You're still so young, you have all the time in the world to experience love. It will come when it comes
Lana, I love your courage and relate to a lot of what you shared. Especially the one about loneliness- I’ve never been in a relationship. I will say, as a Christian, my relationship with God is the most precious thing and the solace I find in Jesus’ love for me is so comforting when I feel lonely. And yes, the community I have with fellow believers is a bond like no other, even across countries and cultures. I encourage you to keep asking questions and being curious, as I’m sure you can’t help but be :) I highly recommend the book Evidence that Demands a Verdict if you have questions about Christianity, although simply reading the Gospels is also a wonderful place to start :) Praying for you ❤️
Hey there, after coming back from school, I needed something comforting in the background while slowly doing my work and when I saw the vid title, I knew this was it as it kinda felt like sharing your vulnerabilities with a close friend on a video call. (Yes, you singing at the end literally made it perfect in that sense haha
Whoa Lana! Thank u for this fr! We NEED social media influencers like u to help ppl n not to exploit them... u r a beautiful person in true sense.. be blessed!
the first half of video is like I'm listnening to my own weaknesses (social anxiety, loneliness, feeling unaccomplished) from someone else out loud, it is a strange feeling
Feeling represented in every second of this video. I share literally every note with Lana. Especially the singing part. Keep it up, the ones who love you really appreciate this talent.
aw i love your singing voice Lana! And thank you for being vulnerable here, it inspires me to be more open to my weaknesses and flaws. I realize that we definitely not a perfect person, and sometimes it can lift up a heavy burden in our chest when we're accepting that :)
Thanks for your vulnerable powerful honesty Lana! Your videos move me, been following since your first. You have over a million people who adore you - next time you nitpick trust the many voices over the one, you can't be right all the time ;) The thing that embarrasses me is I talk and sing (not good) too myself all the time and when people in public look at me, I tell them - "yep talking too myself". P.S Great singing!
Wow Lana! I've been following you for years now & I must say you've truly grown as a person! It takes huge amounts of courage to make a video like this! Genuinely respect you for it! Thank you for being vulnerable so beautifully ❤❤❤ PS: We all feel alone... Regardless single/ commited/ married
OMG THE SINGING ITS GORGEOUS im a singer, you have an amazing voice!! you should get into singing lessons (not bc you are bad) but because you have so so much potential, and it would be amazing to hear you sing!
Lana, thank you so much for being vulnerable, you made me think about these topics in my life and actually made me cry, I hope you get everything you dream of in life and life only gets better for you, you're the only RUclipsr I really care about and I would be so grateful if I had a friend like you, love you Lana!! ❤️
your song made smile so effortlessly wide and in the end i got tears in my eyes.. thank you for sharing, the whole video made me feel better about being who i am
Your videos always make me think. I have been following you for the past 4 years and you’ve played a great role in adding calmness into my life. ❤️ Throughout the course of my life, i’ve let my traumas stop me from having some strong bonds. They impacted the way I interacted with a lot of people and even made me lose people who could have potentially been some friends/acquaintances.
I’m so happy to see you again. I always look forward to listening to your wisdom every month. YOU ARE SO BRAVE AND YOU SING BEAUTIFULLY 🤍 Love you Lana!!!
Also, oh my goodness!!! Lana your voice is AMAZING! Like it’s so soothing to listen to when you just talk, but your singing voice has got some power and jazz and is so so pretty as well! You go girl!👏🏼🥰
I have been following your content for quite some time as I consider it relatable. From what I can see, we share similar personality traits and struggles and are in similar life stages, and I just wanted to support the exploring of religion, because it really made my life so much more deep and meaningful. Once you have faith, the beauty arises from struggles and everyday ordinary life. And it provides you the constant tool to make everything about your life important, every little move you make.
Lanaaaa i loved your singing 💞💞💞 You know when you start to really know who is your family and i am on that level I’m trying to accept them as they are and accept my self as their daughter
Oh, I loved this episode Lana. There is always so much to relate to when it comes to your videos, but this one was one of the most honest and raw episodes. I loved the song and your voice, it's so calming, keep on singing for us, please ♥
I love your charms and emotional intelligence, transparency, this incredible fluffiness coming out of your voice, your personal outpouring, the way you express them, I kinda missed your voice, hopefully you`ll find your soul as a perfect fit into the Orthodox Christian Church. I think you`re a special ice, a gift from God.
You are one of my RUclipsrs elite list. The ones who are beautiful inside and out. Even though I am able to know you through your uploads. I believe you are genuine and may you continue to be true to yourself. And the truth is, this life is temporary and is loaned only to us by our Lord and saviour. YOU ARE LOVED.
My favorite model is back! You have such a soothing voice. It's like ASMR. For me, it's like a relaxing podcast. You're not alone. When I was in my worst version, I decided to make a change. I started to read the Bible. Frankly and easily, best decision I've ever made. It has given me wisdom, intelligence, and guidance. Edit: I hadn't reached that part of the video. I started with the Bible. God has given me strength. You know you don't have to rely on a person who will make mistakes. Rather a perfect being. The Heavenly Father. A good father who will protect you, understand you and guide you. Science has not and will not be be able to deny his existence.
I’m glad you’re back! I recently graduated and I relate to a lot of the things you talk about in this video. Something I’m not happy to admit about myself is I feel like I played it safe too much in the past and didn’t really consider what I wanted in the future
To accept and open up about your worries and vulnerabilities, gives people the courage required to do the same. Not being cheesy, but you have kinda become my therapist.🤭☺️
You are so sweeet. Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. I am watching this video from Uzbekistan, in the morning, before going to work. Btw, I am a flight attendant) I loved your voice and the song you created. I think the song is as calming and soothing as your nature is. I am so glad you shared about social anxiety and being hard on yourself at times. I have a difficulty accepting my soical anxiety sometimes. The friends part...ahhh yeah I also had those times were I met such great people but was not in a right place to be friends with them...i hope everything has a reason and...maybe we'll find people who truly love us, for who we are❤
I felt like I had a very intimate talk with my best friend before bedtime ❤ I was all blushing and feeling so shy while listening to your stories because I ultimately resonate with almost all of them 😂 I love you so much, Lana. Grateful to have you my favorite safe space RUclipsr 🫶
3:32 Lana I feel the grand opposite. I have been loved by a man but I wonder if I have ever been desired by a man. If ever a man or even a woman has ever had a crush on the way I look. Not my personality, I know my personality is good enough to make the entire town obsessed with me. My looks. I come on the slightly heavier weight, not much but enough to make me feel insecure sometimes.
I am so glad I found your amazing channel last year, every single video of yours has inspired me in so many ways 🩷 You are such an elegant and well-spoken woman, I wish to become like you! Btw your singing is nice :)🌸
I came to say “I am so proud of you” 🫂🤍I really liked the “singing part” 🫂I got goosebumps.It was magical and sooo human at the same time to see how one just like you overcomes her insecurities 🤍
Lana, life is only about loving ourselves and others...and we are always in control about that! Feeling anxious is just an illusion. Take care, my friend & feel my hugs!🤗
Thank you for singing at the end. 👏🏻🙌🏻 I couldn’t help but picture myself driving with you in the passenger seat while holding your hand and bringing your hand close to me to gently kiss as I keep my eyes on the road while I hear you sing and smile.
Lana, for the 1st time in 3 years you made me choke up. I just wanna say I'm proud of you & I hope our collect hugs brightens up your day when you need it Also, thanks for sharing your beautiful singing voice.
I missed you guys so much hiiiii
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We missed you too.. 😢
Me too , take all the time u need , no rush at all dear ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hiiii,I love your content soooo much,its honestly an inspiration ❤
The song made me smile! It's because you are from Sweden: a historical epicenter of melodic genius.
There is nothing stronger in someone's character than to confront and share their weaknesses.
Stay strong Lana, you are helping others gaining strength through sharing their weaknesses.
💯 🙏
Malingsia
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Wow this took a lot to admit your struggles and worries,such a strong young lady i could listen to your voice all day,well done for sharing this n thank you for helping others too with what you do. 👌🙏❤
I am one of many who agree to that!
This is your first money that is earned as being a singer! Super thanks for letting me hear you singing voice full of fear joy love and beauty! I dont want to judge it as ‘it wonderful’ or ‘you need lessons’ or something because what I have listened waas not a singer’s talent it was a complate orginial art that I can never hear anywhere else so it was a unique experiance. I can listen beyonce whenever I want but your voice is a hidden treasure and tonight you let me hear it. Super thank you! ❤
You're a young, beautiful & intelligent (especially emotionally intelligent) woman, who's honest with herself. I am so proud of you for admitting all these things - I think it takes courage to say it out loud to yourself and your community. You go girl, missed your videos xx
This means a lot to me thank you !!
Aww I love her singing at the end haha. You could tell she was uncomfortable to do it and it kinda made it a lil bit awkward, but her singing isn't that bad at all and it was adorable seeing her brave enough to sing in front of all of us.
To me it seemed like she was enjoying herself.
I know! She's pretty good!! I'd like to hear her really get into it though. Really belt out some notes, I bet shed sound good!!!
Girl, you have an amazing voice. Those people you're comfortable with are blessed to hear you
Omg :')
Lanaaa your singing actually made me smile, your singing is great!!
I am religious, grew up in a christian home and it is such a blessing, for example when you have a problem and someone says '' I'll pray for you'' ❤ Lana, I will pray for you today! :)
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You can also say "I'm with you." Prayers are just good thoughts. You can do that through any kind of meditation.
This is how a group feels empowered. We the subscribers feel our miseries are being shared because some people choose to leave their comfort zone & be vulnerable. That's real good content!
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Yes.. it's like she was speaking for us through her experiences.
Absolutely..all influencers been mostly doing is sh₹#t on ppl but if more n more content like this is created...which is just genuinely authentic ppl wud be helped immensely
I totally understand what you’re saying and feeling, Lana. I’m a guy, several years ago I used to have some thoughts on how my last romance had ended and if I was loved the way I loved that girl. For that case, the answer was “no”. But then I realized that even if we think that we’re loved “not enough” or “not the way we want”, like I first was thinking, it’s not necessarily because the other person was not serious/irresponsible etc.
Everyone loves the way they can, and it may severely upset us, but everything is defined by our temper, psychological features, love languages, parents' love expression etc. So, for example, in a relationship I need hugs, and I would feel unloved in a situation when a potential partner doesn’t like it.
Of course, it doesn’t mean that there are no people who use us, treat not seriously, but this realization made me feel easier after the heartbreak.
There are many of us who feel lonely and have no love life at the moment, but it doesn't mean that we can't find anyone in the future or live our single life happily.
Hugs for everyone and much love:)
You are an authentic genuine calm soul. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability. It takes courage to do so
Thank you so much
i appreciate your vulnerability. its refreshing to remember that we aren't alone in dealing with certain things that can feel so heavy and harrowing
It's so brave of you to say these things out! I'm rooting for you lana!
That's so kind, thank you ! :)
You can definitely sing!
i'm giggling
You are not an annoying person if you sing all the time, please be proud you give time to the things that make you happy
aw! :)
I felt you so much when you said "I dont know if anyone has loved me a I have loved them" this is something I struggle with too, as I feel things very deeply and sometimes it feels more so than others.
Love your videos, they always bring comfort to me in times of stress. Keep doing what you're doing.
Seeing this video gave me another level of comfort and first three things you talked about was like as if i was listening myself describing and thank you so much for sharing it means a lot
I have been in a rock bottom quite lately. Dealing with unusual levels of anxiety and suicidal thoughts. And also having to deal with the academic pressure of being the eldest, gifted kid. I can't talk to my parents or anyone else about it. And I constantly wonder if it will ever get better.
But your videos help me calm down my panic attacks. Your voice, the way you articulate your thoughts, the setting, you, just everything, it has given me a ray of hope. It's 2:43 am here in India, and I can't sleep, although I have an exam to take tomorrow.
So, I came here, and dear Lana, you instantly put a small smile on my face.
Thanks
Keep going !!! Things truly do get better, even when it all feels hopeless. I’m rooting for you ❤
relate to you so badly, hope everyone going through hard times may learn to get back stronger
Don't feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you.
Love this
This is one of the truest statements about reality and existence. All life, in the purest sense, is the way in which the universe has come to express itself in a form capable of experiencing, learning and knowing itself if only in a tiny place for a short moment within itself, drifting in its own vastness of space and time. In this way all things are connected by an inextricable kinship. This is possibly the most beautiful thing I have ever experienced, learned and came to know.
@MinahilFatima-hc2qw I think of it as a spark of the eternal. Some may view it in terms of an immortal soul, some may have a different understanding-but it’s something that exists within us and yet connects us to something so much larger than ourselves. I think the more we cultivate our inner virtues and break down the barriers between ourselves and whatever that spark is, the more brightly it shines from us. The more we focus on worldly things and our own ego, the more it’s obscured from view. It’s easy to think of it as a lantern and the light, where petty and trivial fixations cloud our lanterns and prevent the light from shining through. Anyway, with some people, it’s really easy to see that light. I can’t speak for anyone but myself, but that’s what I think of in the sense of the original statement: in you can be seen things that transcend the material.
I hope you don’t mind me butting in, but I think about this stuff a lot.
@MinahilFatima-hc2qw Awwe, thank you. But I’m nobody, I promise. I spent my day shoveling horse manure in Western Sweden. And the lantern metaphor comes from the teachings of the Baha’i Faith, so I can’t take any credit for it:
“Man must be a lover of the light, no matter from what dayspring it may appear. He must be a lover of the rose, no matter in what soil it may be growing. He must be a seeker of the truth, no matter from what source it come. Attachment to the lantern is not loving the light.” ~ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
As for the first part, I can only offer this: when I struggle to see the light in me, I tend to find it the most easily through helping others. I find it…but then I also realize that it doesn’t belong to me at all. It’s when I feel the most like myself and the least of my “self”.
@MinahilFatima-hc2qw I’m sorry! Sometimes I lose people with my wording. Why don’t I try another quote that may put it better than I did?
“Be not the slave of your moods, but their master. But if you are so angry, so depressed and so sore that your spirit cannot find deliverance and peace even in prayer, then quickly go and give some pleasure to someone lowly or sorrowful, or to a guilty or innocent sufferer! Sacrifice yourself, your talent, your time, your rest to another, to one who has to bear a heavier load than you-and your unhappy mood will dissolve into a blessed, contented submission to God.”
~ ‘Abdu’l-Bahá
And I think you put that beautifully, about essences. People tend to be more occupied with outer forms than inner meanings.
Thanks so much for opening up. I also have social anxiety it's getting a little bit better but it's still there, it haunts me the idea that I may have to deal with this forever, because of all the bullying and criticism that I got at High School 😔
Your videos are like a therapy to me. They're so healing. Really admire you for your calm and elegant personality.
Lana, I love your channel and videos. I struggle with social anxiety too, and I'm realizing the purpose of my social anxiety journey is to share it with others and help them feel less alone. Your channel does this beautifully for so many people, thank you for sharing your story.
I'm so thankful Lana you decided to make this video, and we know it took so much bravery and courage to hit that public button. We your subscribers feel so empowered and it became a support group, watching this video, and that's why we love you Lana. You're the best creator of our generation. Love you, missed your videos
I've been watching you for a while now and I don't ever comment on any videos (I guess my social anxiety runs through the screen), but today I feel so seen that I couldn't help it. Thank you Lana for being so vulnerable. You made a whole bunch of us feel extremely comprehended. Thanks again💛💛
Lana you made me smile and cry before I even finished my breakfast. I loved everything about this video, that you‘ve been so open and made me feel understood in many ways. You‘re the big sister I‘ve never had.
I was recently procrastinating through my life and my father told me, "Don't live in the mirror."
I can't tell you how hard that hit me.
wow... this video nearly brought me to tears!
Watching this video almost brought tears to my eyes. Your strength, grounded in vulnerability, shines through each time you clear your throat before speaking, reflects in your eyes that offer a glimpse into your soul, shows in the curl of your lip as you voice your inner world, and culminates in the jig of your shoulders and the resonance of your voice as you blessed us with your song.
I have been going through your videos since my high-school. That was the time when life started hitting hard and i I discovered your channel. That was a great help fo me. I can say its been 4 years with you lana I feel so relaxed confident and emotionally stable. Lots pf love to you sis ❤❤
Awesome video, Lana! I like the impromptu style with your statements. As a fellow introvert, I can relate to a lot of what you are talking about. Keep being your awesome self, you are a treasure to the world. BTW, you have a great voice!
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Your honesty is so refreshing. It’s part of what appeals to viewers. You are truly gorgeous inside & out. And your mom is right, you have a good voice. 🌸
I love this raw nature of the video Lana ! I think many of us are right there with you !
The beauty is how everything resonates with me. You're helping many when you share. Thank you
thank you for sharing this, it’s not easy making yourself vulnerable in front of everyone 🤍
Hello Lana.
Your content makes me feel better about myself. I'm sure I'm not alone in that.
Thanks for your braveness, honesty, and transparency, Lana. The world, and the internet, need more people doing what you do, and being how you are.
I hope you get so much more of what you give because you deserve every bit of it.
i love pondering about suffering, the universe, and emotions. But like whats already known; the more understanding and wisdom we acquire, the lonelier we become. I think this is what you meant by "being not been loved by a man" for your soul looks for someone that can go down with your depth. Also, the challenges of being physically attractive is that living with the doubts of " Am I merely desired and wanted but not loved?
Social anxiety has been my worst enemy throughout my youth, it made me very depressed as a teenager but now at 22 I can say it is only maybe 15% of what it used to be. So everyone that is struggling very hard with it now, I want to tell you it can get sooooo much better even though you can't imagine it. Just widen your comfort zone one little step at a time. But tbh sometimes you have to be uncomfortable even if it feels terrible... otherwise you probably won't get better.
I’m an introvert person and I struggle with social anxiety and maintaining friends. I also struggle with trusting myself and not feeling accomplished. I would love a video of your talking more about not trusting ourselves and not feeling accomplished.
I feel so seen Lana, I don´t know if anyone has ever told you this but your videos are a blessing to me. Thank you for what you do, thank you for being brave and showing yourself, real as you are, it´s refreshing and comforting to see there´s still some realness in social media these days, It´s comforting to also see myself and some of the struggles I´ve had in someone else and to know I´m not the only one that may feel like this, so thank you.
This video, Lana, made me cry. It felt like someone was doing me a favor by saying things I cannot speak out to the world. I agree with your mom; she's right. You have a beautiful voice. Thanks for sharing it with the world.
Awe! My heart goes out to you for what you've experienced in social anxiety. There are times when I feel I have nothing valuable to say, and that no one wants to talk to me, but there are other times when I can go up strangers, (visitors at church) and have great conversations until the last few cars are pulling out of the parking lot. That an ability that comes and goes with a rise and fall in confidence. All too often, my confidence can be tied to my feeling of accomplishments, and sense of usefulness. // To feel truly loved, to be appreciated for who we are, for our personality, now just by what we can do or produce, or achieve is a very special kind of love.// It is valuable to plumb the depths of why you can't celebrate your accomplishments. Might you be so achievement oriented that you can't stop, and stand on a plateau for a few moments to celebrate before moving on with the next challenge? Maybe you have various achievements lined up in parallel that you step immediately over to the next train track to tackle achievement B?// It's important not to nit-pick too much, for the harder we are on ourselves, the harder we will also be on those closest to us. I can be very nit-picky with myself, and because my standards for morality are high, they become higher for those in my family, which is not all a bad thing, but I need to be careful to exercise reasonableness.// Oh wow, you're interested in religion. I would be honoured to share with you about how my walk with the Lord began, and all its twists and turns. It's extremely unlikely that I would have come to faith based on my upbringing. I'm praying right now that the Lord will open you heart to Him. Know that I will pray about this every evening before I go to sleep. Theology, orthodoxy/orthopraxis has been one of my strongest interests since my early 20's. You're right, it is absolutely so meaningful to know the purpose for which you've been created, to walk in His will, and to be connected deeply with others who desire to honour Him with their whole life. Yes, to share common values! Wow! You have a hunger for this. Great!!! I just want to warn you, that you will find hypocrites, and not even the holiest of people are perfect, but we press on seeking completeness in Him, in His strength. That I say so you guard yourself against disillusionment in advance.// Thanks for opening up to us in so many areas, and singing. I know I couldn't sing for a potential 1.67 m subscribers.
This video has a lot in common with my own experience, especially when it comes to social anxiety. For so many years I've lied to those close to me about so many things, ‘politely refusing’ anything I've been offered out of fear of interacting with strangers. Today I'm slowly but surely moving in the right direction! I love your content, thank you for the videos, I think they help quite a few people, myself included! ! ;)
I feel like in this video you step out of your comfort zone, you did something new.
Being this vulnerable and perform this song it made the content so authentic and your face shine so bright.
I feel the same way when I perform a dance or a moment.
Thank you for sharing this! 🤍
Last part was especially courageous to me. Singing alone for others used to be something I was always ashamed to do, I am also the kind of person that sings all the time but you know, “for fun” so whenever I had to sing smth for real I was always very scared. I am in an acting school so I had to break that fear, even tho it’s still in me I def made some progress. I could see u break through that comfort zone as if it was glass, you did it! U didn’t have to, you could have just deleted that part or not prove anything but you decided to make us a kind of people you feel comfortable around and be vulnerable. Thank you for that. I love this video and so glad that you’re back!! Loveeee
This video is so relatable and comforting. Thanks for sharing your experiences with such honesty. You're amazing for being so open...❤️✨️
I'm literally the same age as you and struggle with the same things. The thing that helps me daily is accepting the concept of destiny. Just like we don't choose whether it rains tomorrow or not we can't choose the twists and turns of life because they are external of us. All we can do is to choose how to respond. I might never achieve things I dream of with all my heart, but if at the last moments of my life I'll be able to say "I did as much good as I could" that will console me greatly. That there was a purpose to all of this.♥
You're amazing
I missed your videos a lot Lana, they are always a bliss for me. They make me reflect on a lot of things.
I have been watching your videos since 2019 and I saw someone who was an introvert to do something that even the most extrovert people won't feel comfortable doing. You inspire me allot to look forward in life and I am sure I am not the only one. So keep going Lana
Thank you for sharing these things... i can relate on so many things like social anxiety, loneliness and honestly kind of everything you said haha. It feels very comforting to know other people feel the same way and it is somehow normal and possible to cope with ♥
I always feel so comforted by your videos, especially this one! I just had my birthday and felt guilt at the kindness, love, and celebrations I received, as I didn't feel I deserved that, so watching this video where I realised others struggle with that really helped me! I think you're a beautiful soul and I always feel so inspired by your intelligence, wisdom, perspective, and awareness, thank you!!!! You have a GORGEOUS singing voice and I think your song should be played during all flights! :) xo
You''re so brave, to talk about things you're embarrassed or insecure about! Ummm ... it's hard for me to admit that sometimes, I don't feel very much in touch with reality and life just feels like a book I'm reading or a movie I'm watching. Like I go through the motions, play the game, do things I enjoy, pray and believe sincerely, love deeply, act as a carer, simultaneously feeling distant and unattached. This feeling may be accentuated today by being unwell with a virus, which is why I will be brave enough to share it instead of deleting.
I’m also a social anxieter, and I keep my thoughts to myself questioning if they are Not worth listening, but you are a prove that quiet people have a world going on inside their heads
you are so right about the religion part because i am Muslim and my beliefs have gotten me through everything in life and i know without a doubt that they will in the future aswell no matter how bad life gets. Two core beliefs that help me through hardships are
1- as Allah said in the quran not once but twice side by side "verily, with hardships comes ease" "and with hardships comes ease"
2- this life is a test for the next life so whatever hardships come in life, i will be rewarded for them in the next so its all worth it.
i am not happy to admit that i am emotionally unavailable due to a lack of confidence and realising this was incredibly hard, but worth it. Ps: watching your video is very helpful and your singing voice is amazing :)
The way she Speaks ❤. No words to explain...!
So brave to share all of this Lana and also it's so human! I think we all feel lonely at times (I do too). You're still so young, you have all the time in the world to experience love. It will come when it comes
Lana, I love your courage and relate to a lot of what you shared. Especially the one about loneliness- I’ve never been in a relationship. I will say, as a Christian, my relationship with God is the most precious thing and the solace I find in Jesus’ love for me is so comforting when I feel lonely. And yes, the community I have with fellow believers is a bond like no other, even across countries and cultures. I encourage you to keep asking questions and being curious, as I’m sure you can’t help but be :) I highly recommend the book Evidence that Demands a Verdict if you have questions about Christianity, although simply reading the Gospels is also a wonderful place to start :) Praying for you ❤️
Hey there, after coming back from school, I needed something comforting in the background while slowly doing my work and when I saw the vid title, I knew this was it as it kinda felt like sharing your vulnerabilities with a close friend on a video call. (Yes, you singing at the end literally made it perfect in that sense haha
Lana, as someone who relates to most of what you said, your honesty in this video was very comforting and encouraging for me. ❤
Whoa Lana! Thank u for this fr! We NEED social media influencers like u to help ppl n not to exploit them... u r a beautiful person in true sense.. be blessed!
this was so beautifully vulnerable. one of my favorite content creators ❤
Without you and other content creators who shares motivation and provide upliftment, I would've not started my journey.
the first half of video is like I'm listnening to my own weaknesses (social anxiety, loneliness, feeling unaccomplished) from someone else out loud, it is a strange feeling
Feeling represented in every second of this video.
I share literally every note with Lana. Especially the singing part. Keep it up, the ones who love you really appreciate this talent.
aw i love your singing voice Lana! And thank you for being vulnerable here, it inspires me to be more open to my weaknesses and flaws. I realize that we definitely not a perfect person, and sometimes it can lift up a heavy burden in our chest when we're accepting that :)
I relate so much with being envious of religious people, I’ve realised that I need the foundation and grounding that comes with it.
Thanks for your vulnerable powerful honesty Lana! Your videos move me, been following since your first. You have over a million people who adore you - next time you nitpick trust the many voices over the one, you can't be right all the time ;) The thing that embarrasses me is I talk and sing (not good) too myself all the time and when people in public look at me, I tell them - "yep talking too myself". P.S Great singing!
Thank you so much !!
Wow Lana! I've been following you for years now & I must say you've truly grown as a person! It takes huge amounts of courage to make a video like this! Genuinely respect you for it! Thank you for being vulnerable so beautifully ❤❤❤
PS: We all feel alone... Regardless single/ commited/ married
This means a lot, and thank you for sticking around for so long !!
hey lana, it’s late here and i was feeling quite anxious and whenever i do, your channel helps me a lot. thank you, you’re such a sweet soul 💗💗💗
OMG THE SINGING ITS GORGEOUS
im a singer, you have an amazing voice!! you should get into singing lessons (not bc you are bad) but because you have so so much potential, and it would be amazing to hear you sing!
Lana, thank you so much for being vulnerable, you made me think about these topics in my life and actually made me cry, I hope you get everything you dream of in life and life only gets better for you, you're the only RUclipsr I really care about and I would be so grateful if I had a friend like you, love you Lana!! ❤️
your song made smile so effortlessly wide and in the end i got tears in my eyes.. thank you for sharing, the whole video made me feel better about being who i am
Your videos always make me think. I have been following you for the past 4 years and you’ve played a great role in adding calmness into my life. ❤️
Throughout the course of my life, i’ve let my traumas stop me from having some strong bonds. They impacted the way I interacted with a lot of people and even made me lose people who could have potentially been some friends/acquaintances.
I’m so happy to see you again. I always look forward to listening to your wisdom every month. YOU ARE SO BRAVE AND YOU SING BEAUTIFULLY 🤍 Love you Lana!!!
Literally love you for being so vulnerable & real , a gem
Also, oh my goodness!!! Lana your voice is AMAZING! Like it’s so soothing to listen to when you just talk, but your singing voice has got some power and jazz and is so so pretty as well! You go girl!👏🏼🥰
Love everything in it! And your voice is strong, keep going!❤
I have been following your content for quite some time as I consider it relatable. From what I can see, we share similar personality traits and struggles and are in similar life stages, and I just wanted to support the exploring of religion, because it really made my life so much more deep and meaningful. Once you have faith, the beauty arises from struggles and everyday ordinary life. And it provides you the constant tool to make everything about your life important, every little move you make.
Thanks!
thank you so much !!
Got lana singing before gta 6 😭😭❣️
i can literally relate so much to you! hope everyone suffering with these gets through & accomplish their dreams!
Lanaaaa i loved your singing 💞💞💞
You know when you start to really know who is your family and i am on that level I’m trying to accept them as they are and accept my self as their daughter
Oh, I loved this episode Lana. There is always so much to relate to when it comes to your videos, but this one was one of the most honest and raw episodes. I loved the song and your voice, it's so calming, keep on singing for us, please ♥
I love your charms and emotional intelligence, transparency, this incredible fluffiness coming out of your voice, your personal outpouring, the way you express them, I kinda missed your voice, hopefully you`ll find your soul as a perfect fit into the Orthodox Christian Church. I think you`re a special ice, a gift from God.
You are one of my RUclipsrs elite list. The ones who are beautiful inside and out. Even though I am able to know you through your uploads. I believe you are genuine and may you continue to be true to yourself. And the truth is, this life is temporary and is loaned only to us by our Lord and saviour. YOU ARE LOVED.
My favorite model is back! You have such a soothing voice. It's like ASMR. For me, it's like a relaxing podcast.
You're not alone. When I was in my worst version, I decided to make a change. I started to read the Bible. Frankly and easily, best decision I've ever made. It has given me wisdom, intelligence, and guidance.
Edit: I hadn't reached that part of the video. I started with the Bible. God has given me strength. You know you don't have to rely on a person who will make mistakes. Rather a perfect being. The Heavenly Father. A good father who will protect you, understand you and guide you. Science has not and will not be be able to deny his existence.
I’m glad you’re back! I recently graduated and I relate to a lot of the things you talk about in this video. Something I’m not happy to admit about myself is I feel like I played it safe too much in the past and didn’t really consider what I wanted in the future
To accept and open up about your worries and vulnerabilities, gives people the courage required to do the same. Not being cheesy, but you have kinda become my therapist.🤭☺️
You are so sweeet. Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. I am watching this video from Uzbekistan, in the morning, before going to work. Btw, I am a flight attendant) I loved your voice and the song you created. I think the song is as calming and soothing as your nature is. I am so glad you shared about social anxiety and being hard on yourself at times. I have a difficulty accepting my soical anxiety sometimes. The friends part...ahhh yeah I also had those times were I met such great people but was not in a right place to be friends with them...i hope everything has a reason and...maybe we'll find people who truly love us, for who we are❤
I felt like I had a very intimate talk with my best friend before bedtime ❤ I was all blushing and feeling so shy while listening to your stories because I ultimately resonate with almost all of them 😂 I love you so much, Lana. Grateful to have you my favorite safe space RUclipsr 🫶
3:32 Lana I feel the grand opposite. I have been loved by a man but I wonder if I have ever been desired by a man. If ever a man or even a woman has ever had a crush on the way I look. Not my personality, I know my personality is good enough to make the entire town obsessed with me. My looks. I come on the slightly heavier weight, not much but enough to make me feel insecure sometimes.
I am so glad I found your amazing channel last year, every single video of yours has inspired me in so many ways 🩷 You are such an elegant and well-spoken woman, I wish to become like you! Btw your singing is nice :)🌸
OMG the part about editing your videos and seeing your own face and hearing your own voice all day, every day 😅 That one got to me.
I came to say “I am so proud of you” 🫂🤍I really liked the “singing part” 🫂I got goosebumps.It was magical and sooo human at the same time to see how one just like you overcomes her insecurities 🤍
Lana, life is only about loving ourselves and others...and we are always in control about that! Feeling anxious is just an illusion. Take care, my friend & feel my hugs!🤗
Every time you upload, I feel a sense of safety, I feel warm and happy. You have such a gift Lana. Thank you 🙏 ❤
Saving this comment for whenever I feel discouraged. Thank you
@@LanaBlakely 🥰
Thank you for singing at the end. 👏🏻🙌🏻 I couldn’t help but picture myself driving with you in the passenger seat while holding your hand and bringing your hand close to me to gently kiss as I keep my eyes on the road while I hear you sing and smile.
Lana, for the 1st time in 3 years you made me choke up. I just wanna say I'm proud of you & I hope our collect hugs brightens up your day when you need it
Also, thanks for sharing your beautiful singing voice.
I just want you to know that u are soo pretty and adorable!!!and your singing was just heavenly!love you
You re such a sweet soul. Listening to your voice just calms down my anxieties every time💕