One more way I'd like to add is to learn more & gain knowledge as much as you can. Knowledge boosts our confidence & gives us the strength to outsmart people who talk shit or poses smarter than other. When you're full of knowledge, it restores confidence in you then you won't feel afraid in standing anywhere whether it's a group or a crowd. I have practiced it & now I'm so much more confident about myself.
I tried walking more upright and looking straight ahead while I walk at work, to see if it made any difference. I was shocked at the difference it made in how senior coworkers interacted with me and the respect I felt! Definately worth it!
Shade quite inspiring confidence listening to you. Only your fast american accent a bit unnatiral as it sounds is msking it difficult to follow. Hopefully will come up with Clsrity. I ❤U.
In my opinion the more honest and hardworking a person is, the more confident he/She will appear, but thank you so much for your very important points in this regard...Watching from Kashmir India...
The self-confident is the most important thing for myself because I really reach my goals just with my self-confidence. Thank you for this episode Shade!
Wow, Shadé! These are very helpful. I've heard, "fake it till you make it." When I was in high school, I stood by a wall and straightened my back, balanced a book on my head and started walking. Today I'm 63 but I feel confident like a 63-year-old. At heart, ❤ I feel 23.
Confidence first rule is to accept whatever you are.be ok with ur looks and don't care of others thoughts as u can't change them at all. then confidence will itself run towards u
Im confident from inside but i hv below average looking face so my face doesn't look confidnt n that's y im stil not successful n depressed frm last 7 yrs n now ovr 30 n still struggling
Perfectly agreed to all the points. Pandemic and bad company hindered my growth in confidence. It definitely is a task to conquer. I would also like to add that confidence grows better with increased subjective knowledge and experience.
Confidence is extremely important for any human being! I find that the more I am an expert in a field I am trying to be confident in the easier it is to be, for example, you wanna be confident in your dancing! then practice! Improve yourself! By improving yourself you are improving your confidence. From one creator to another great WORK! Love your videos!
Confidence, it's a feeling. You feel it and it shows all around naturally, without any particular projection or effort. If you don't feel it, perhaps for a while you can bluff with some or the other projection, but eventually people see through your nervousness.
Ma'am, your speech clarity reflects the hard yards you had put over the years to strive for perfection. I want to do the same and hopefully this video can inspire me to begin it ☺️
I am so happy to find this. I am a massage therpist and corrective exercise specialist with focus in posture for musculoskeletal health. But I also teach clients to create energy by standing open and tall, keep eyes ahead and looking a bit foward, and activate toes while walking. It's an instant energy booster. This intrisincly increases confidence internally and your confidence will be recognized quickly by others. I advocate the use of body management in order to support the mind. Stand tall and activated and the mind will follow.
I remember watching these videos a few years back and there would be around a thousand views. Now im seeing this video and it has 1.4 million views, so happy to see this and the level of success that youve achieved, very much deserved.
In situations such as interviews, presentations and even just regular conversations, appearing poised and assured can make a real impact on how you portray yourself. In these instances, a lack of confidence can make you seem unsure of what you are saying, which in turn can make you seem less credible
Being student for 17 long years and then being employee for 16 long years, I came to know only one thing, I am a subject to stress and strain for these 33 long years. I am not confident enough to face people in office. Then I read book RICH DAD POOR DAD, I changed my mind set and now I am living freely. You are not born to rot in anybody's office work. Thank You.
I wish I could return my confidence back. Really struggling to find a job, my qualifications can’t helping me. Very respect you and love your every video. Wish you the best of luck. This video is very helpful 👍
Regarding walking, I think having a straight but relaxed posture with shoulders back makes you feel (and project) more confident. In the west people walk a lot faster than in say Latin America where they have a totally different concept of time, but this often means that people are in a rush all the time when they don't really need to be. If you look rushed and stressed then this can make you appear less approachable. You can still walk slowly and appear confident. Think of people like Hank Moody from the TV show Californication, or producer Mark Ronson. Both are confident people, but very relaxed and are not rushing around..
Absolutely loved this video, Shade Zahrai! 😊 Your tips on boosting confidence are pure gold. It's incredible how you've broken down the process into 5 simple yet impactful steps. The way you emphasize the power of body language and self-expression truly resonates. Your insights are not just about looking confident, but about feeling it from within. Thank you for sharing such practical advice that anyone can apply in their daily lives. Keep shining your positivity and wisdom! Can't wait to put these tips into action. 💪🌟
00:00 💼 Confidence in the Workplace Confidence is crucial for career success. Perceived confidence often leads to promotions and leadership opportunities. Feeling confident is important, but appearing confident is equally vital. 02:05 😌 Posture for Confidence Maintaining a tall and powerful posture projects confidence. Open body language exudes confidence, authority, and poise. Good posture positively impacts both physical and mental well-being. 03:16 😊 Smile for Confidence Smiling can boost mood and happiness. Smiling makes you appear friendly, approachable, and composed. It activates the release of endorphins, the "happy hormones." 03:58 🗣 Speak with Confidence Speaking slowly and clearly enhances perceived confidence. Controlled speech with strategic pauses demonstrates composure. Fast speech can convey nervousness and lack of self-control. 04:26 🚶 Walk with Confidence Your walk can project confidence and status. Walking with purpose and pace indicates confidence. Making subtle adjustments to your stride can impact perception positively. 05:22 👀 Eye Contact for Confidence Strong eye contact is a significant indicator of confidence. Effective eye contact establishes connections and shows sincerity. It enhances perceived competence and trustworthiness.
Hello Mam, I really admire your videos.😊I have a request if you can make a video on "how to convey our thoughts to people without being rude especially to our seniors and elders who believe they know more than anybody".
In addition to the time-tested qualities of the ways you are recommending, the vedio production is of a high quality and soothing in and of itself. Thank you Shade, you rock!
I really enjoy your positive approach and great ideas. The world news is so negative. If we are not careful, the weeds grow faster than the flowers. Thanks again.😊
This advice has promoted a culture of managers that appear confident but know nothing. Ideally your confidence should come from experience not just your 'look'
Superb as always! Amazing tips backed by strong research. Thank you so much for this efforts! Wish I could attend your seminars! I am sure it will have an amazing energy and positivity. 👍
Not sure one of my team members watch this video. whenever I’m going in discussion, he always maintains eye contact. He don’t even take his eyes off.😂😂😂
Great teaching and sharing value aids in leaving and leading successfully in our various dimensions of life including business and many others ❤🎉Namaste 🙏
@@ShadeZahrai just fell in love what you said. immediately subscribed to your channel. would you please give advice how can i improve my English Speaking like you?
Love your videos. I talk fast when I'm excited 😂 colleagues be like "wow. You're really excited about this. Your talking really fast." 😂😂 It's called passion people 😂
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Summary
1 posture / body language
2 keep smiling (positivity)
3 speak slowly and in controled manner
4 walk confidently
5 eye contact
Thanks
❤️
So Become Putin...
Bruh..u saved me from torcher😒
Thank you cheete 🐆
Timestamps:
2:01 1. Posture
3:10 2. Smile more
3:46 3. Speak slowly and clearly
4:14 4. Walk with confidence
5:14 5. Eye contact
Thanks.
Thank you 🥰🥰😊😊
saved my time... thanks
People in India who speak loudly are called confident 🤣
Thanks you saved me 6 minutes and 30 seconds that I will never get back 👍
1. Speak slowly
2. Walk confine
3. Eye contact
4. Smile
5. posture
That's enough for me. I will keep the rule. Thank you so much
One more way I'd like to add is to learn more & gain knowledge as much as you can. Knowledge boosts our confidence & gives us the strength to outsmart people who talk shit or poses smarter than other. When you're full of knowledge, it restores confidence in you then you won't feel afraid in standing anywhere whether it's a group or a crowd.
I have practiced it & now I'm so much more confident about myself.
For sure
Yup. Quite restorative
Today is the 1st day I seen in you ever in RUclips- my 1st thought is “This is an angel”
Thank you for the service you do into Earth ❤️
I tried walking more upright and looking straight ahead while I walk at work, to see if it made any difference. I was shocked at the difference it made in how senior coworkers interacted with me and the respect I felt! Definately worth it!
Shade quite inspiring confidence listening to you. Only your fast american accent a bit unnatiral as it sounds is msking it difficult to follow. Hopefully will come up with
Clsrity. I ❤U.
In my opinion the more honest and hardworking a person is, the more confident he/She will appear, but thank you so much for your very important points in this regard...Watching from Kashmir India...
When you're dolled up like Shàde Zehrai, you will be confident
The self-confident is the most important thing for myself because I really reach my goals just with my self-confidence. Thank you for this episode Shade!
Wow, Shadé! These are very helpful. I've heard, "fake it till you make it." When I was in high school, I stood by a wall and straightened my back, balanced a book on my head and started walking. Today I'm 63 but I feel confident like a 63-year-old. At heart, ❤ I feel 23.
Juat wow❤
No person on this planet was born with a talent, It is either perspective or hard work. Everything or anything could be learned.
A soft spoken person can be confident, it's all about past experiences and learnings
Confidence first rule is to accept whatever you are.be ok with ur looks and don't care of others thoughts as u can't change them at all. then confidence will itself run towards u
Im confident from inside but i hv below average looking face so my face doesn't look confidnt n that's y im stil not successful n depressed frm last 7 yrs n now ovr 30 n still struggling
Wow, good point 👍
This
Perfectly agreed to all the points. Pandemic and bad company hindered my growth in confidence. It definitely is a task to conquer. I would also like to add that confidence grows better with increased subjective knowledge and experience.
Confidence is extremely important for any human being! I find that the more I am an expert in a field I am trying to be confident in the easier it is to be, for example, you wanna be confident in your dancing! then practice! Improve yourself! By improving yourself you are improving your confidence. From one creator to another great WORK! Love your videos!
Confidence, it's a feeling. You feel it and it shows all around naturally, without any particular projection or effort. If you don't feel it, perhaps for a while you can bluff with some or the other projection, but eventually people see through your nervousness.
I totally agree with you, my friend
But I think what she is trying to convey that looking confident is equally important
Fake it,till you make it.
Well said 👏
Ma'am, your speech clarity reflects the hard yards you had put over the years to strive for perfection. I want to do the same and hopefully this video can inspire me to begin it ☺️
I just can't skip your videos by half watching.
Thanks lot for sharing such kind of videos which are always require in our everyday life.
I totally agree with you, my friend. They are so useful for everyone
I can see , you have gone through pain. But that , has made you , a much , stronger person. Kudos
I really need this, pandemics really has been decreasing my social skills 🤣
Ikr
It's even worse when you are an extrovert or wait when you WAS an extrovert💀
Exactly
Me too!!! On the up and up again!!!
Berry nice
The same is true for me, really !
I am so happy to find this. I am a massage therpist and corrective exercise specialist with focus in posture for musculoskeletal health. But I also teach clients to create energy by standing open and tall, keep eyes ahead and looking a bit foward, and activate toes while walking. It's an instant energy booster. This intrisincly increases confidence internally and your confidence will be recognized quickly by others. I advocate the use of body management in order to support the mind. Stand tall and activated and the mind will follow.
this is the true western definition of being smart!
I remember watching these videos a few years back and there would be around a thousand views. Now im seeing this video and it has 1.4 million views, so happy to see this and the level of success that youve achieved, very much deserved.
That's very useful, Shadé... Thank you! 🧡
You're so welcome! 😊
🤔
Even the initial seconds of this episode elevated my confidence.
Gratitude!
Yes, I actually want to be confident in public speaking.
Confident also reflect our personality.
Awesome strategies.Thank you so much.
In situations such as interviews, presentations and even just regular conversations, appearing poised and assured can make a real impact on how you portray yourself. In these instances, a lack of confidence can make you seem unsure of what you are saying, which in turn can make you seem less credible
We want to confident in my life. We have to a lot of knowledge about any field. Confidence- proficiency- success !
Confidence is the righteously giving gratitude .....
The way you express yourself on different topics is really amazing. Your guidelines are of great importance for learners.
The self confident is the most important thing for my self because I really reach my goals just with my self confidence thank you for this episode❤❤❤❤
She is an amazing speaker. It's always a treat to see and listen to her. Simply awesome
Absolutely , it's very necessary
coming here after watching your Tiktok videos....love your content...keep motivating cheers
Due to social skills being the nuts and bolts of social interaction, your tips are gonna be really worthwhile.
thanks for all the summary comments actually i lost quite a few(many) time through this video
Looking confident:
1)Neck straight and shoulders relaxed
2)Keep smiling
3)Speak slowly in a controlled manner
4)Walk confidently
5)Keep eye contact
Thank you for that. I am so gratitude for that
She's Glowing bright ✨
Being student for 17 long years and then being employee for 16 long years, I came to know only one thing, I am a subject to stress and strain for these 33 long years. I am not confident enough to face people in office. Then I read book RICH DAD POOR DAD, I changed my mind set and now I am living freely. You are not born to rot in anybody's office work. Thank You.
THE PERSON WHO DISLIKED THIS VIDEO SHOULD BE FROM PARALLEL UNIVERSE WHERE CONFIDENCE IS BAD HABIT 😂 LOVED THIS VIDEO & LOVE SHADE ZAHRAI❤️
Thank you for sharing valuable information❤
Love from India..👍👍🥰🥰
I saw ur Videos on regular way..& they give me too much Benifits in daily life..👻👻
I wish I could return my confidence back. Really struggling to find a job, my qualifications can’t helping me. Very respect you and love your every video. Wish you the best of luck. This video is very helpful 👍
the voice..... man o man......
Your voice is just too good to be true...
you become more confident "sure you can do something" by doing more things.
Shoulders back, stomach in, chest out. Learn it, know it, live it.❤
Regarding walking, I think having a straight but relaxed posture with shoulders back makes you feel (and project) more confident. In the west people walk a lot faster than in say Latin America where they have a totally different concept of time, but this often means that people are in a rush all the time when they don't really need to be. If you look rushed and stressed then this can make you appear less approachable. You can still walk slowly and appear confident. Think of people like Hank Moody from the TV show Californication, or producer Mark Ronson. Both are confident people, but very relaxed and are not rushing around..
I really love her powerful teaching
I feel way more confident after watching this!
I just watching you because you are really looks like fair ♥️
You confidently speak on the topic of confidence and body posture! :-)
Absolutely loved this video, Shade Zahrai! 😊 Your tips on boosting confidence are pure gold. It's incredible how you've broken down the process into 5 simple yet impactful steps. The way you emphasize the power of body language and self-expression truly resonates. Your insights are not just about looking confident, but about feeling it from within. Thank you for sharing such practical advice that anyone can apply in their daily lives. Keep shining your positivity and wisdom! Can't wait to put these tips into action. 💪🌟
00:00 💼 Confidence in the Workplace
Confidence is crucial for career success.
Perceived confidence often leads to promotions and leadership opportunities.
Feeling confident is important, but appearing confident is equally vital.
02:05 😌 Posture for Confidence
Maintaining a tall and powerful posture projects confidence.
Open body language exudes confidence, authority, and poise.
Good posture positively impacts both physical and mental well-being.
03:16 😊 Smile for Confidence
Smiling can boost mood and happiness.
Smiling makes you appear friendly, approachable, and composed.
It activates the release of endorphins, the "happy hormones."
03:58 🗣 Speak with Confidence
Speaking slowly and clearly enhances perceived confidence.
Controlled speech with strategic pauses demonstrates composure.
Fast speech can convey nervousness and lack of self-control.
04:26 🚶 Walk with Confidence
Your walk can project confidence and status.
Walking with purpose and pace indicates confidence.
Making subtle adjustments to your stride can impact perception positively.
05:22 👀 Eye Contact for Confidence
Strong eye contact is a significant indicator of confidence.
Effective eye contact establishes connections and shows sincerity.
It enhances perceived competence and trustworthiness.
Thank you Shadé for sharing these valuable insights
This message is so instructive and covers many realm of Life!! Thanks a lot dear Ma
❤❤👍👍
Confidence is really incredible skill
I think leaders are born at the right time, and at the right place.
Wow. I’m more confident after this video ❤️
Iam a teacher,so,thankful that I could learn something new!
Hello Mam, I really admire your videos.😊I have a request if you can make a video on "how to convey our thoughts to people without being rude especially to our seniors and elders who believe they know more than anybody".
You are Amazing... and so confident!
In addition to the time-tested qualities of the ways you are recommending, the vedio production is of a high quality and soothing in and of itself. Thank you Shade, you rock!
Wonderfully articulated, thank you! Your presentation style is captivating and keeps the viewer fully engaged.
Thanks for making and posting this video. I am expecting more such valuable experience based video on your channel
My friend suggest me your videos and each day I'm growing and learning.. Thank you mam. Love from India 🇮🇳
Yess. Me too. And also from India
Thank you for sharing these outstanding tips regarding confidence... May God Bless You 👍👍👍
My confidence is in my god Jehovah jira! Everyone has free-will of belief I have a testimony! All glory to the father son holy spirit!!!
Dear Shade Zahrai thanks alots.marvellous
💙💙💙 Nice video u making more interesting"👍🏻
I absolutely love listening to you & find the content very useful and practical. I really appreciate all the information that you pass along.
Hi sweet gf
I really enjoy your positive approach and great ideas.
The world news is so negative.
If we are not careful, the weeds grow faster than the flowers.
Thanks again.😊
Calming your mind is first thing
Wow simple yet effective way of explanation why they are effective
Quick and easy explanation of summary of confidence.
Really appreciated for nice teaching ❤.
Ooh man@ Watching n listening this lady is something more than anything.❤❤❤
Dear. self-esteem and self-confidence are two different things. Good advice dough.
This advice has promoted a culture of managers that appear confident but know nothing. Ideally your confidence should come from experience not just your 'look'
This advice is for people that may feel confident inside but don't appear confident to others.
Best nurtured oratory skills
Always work smart 💯
Thank you Shade. Love the short videos!
I can't let gang know I fw this
AoA! Besides, excellent elaborating n speaking flawless speech abilities in english communication, you are Adorably Prety!
Good on you for explaining, great video for men and woman..
So amazing! A woman knows so much! 😉
I dig this gals message and delivery. I have a short conversation with her and she listens and delivers. Good stuff
All great points, worth inculcating in day to day life
Superb as always! Amazing tips backed by strong research. Thank you so much for this efforts! Wish I could attend your seminars! I am sure it will have an amazing energy and positivity. 👍
Not sure one of my team members watch this video. whenever I’m going in discussion, he always maintains eye contact. He don’t even take his eyes off.😂😂😂
Great advice
You have all that qualities you have explained. Just happy seeing 👀 😊
Hummm... Nice one. Very interesting . I do agree.
Great teaching and sharing value aids in leaving and leading successfully in our various dimensions of life including business and many others ❤🎉Namaste 🙏
It's not about looking confident. You have to feel confident. That's important
Exactly. That is the aim. 👍🏽
@@ShadeZahrai noted :)
@@ShadeZahrai just fell in love what you said. immediately subscribed to your channel.
would you please give advice how can i improve my English Speaking like you?
Something worth paid offered free and this is a most useful video
Confidence come with experience and knowledge after studying or practicals in lifestyle. Than after is called confident and confidence.
you are excellent speaker make us understand everything in very easy way thank you😊
Hi Shade… An amazing presentation.. Lovely video ❤
I really happy ur teaching style
Love your videos. I talk fast when I'm excited 😂 colleagues be like "wow. You're really excited about this. Your talking really fast." 😂😂 It's called passion people 😂
Amazing. She could have been a very successful actress.
another day for me to take temporary motivation, surely this won't last until sunset.😌